Speech Delay & Therapy - Finn's 3 Year Story In His Words from the beginning. SJ STRUM

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  • Опубліковано 4 чер 2020
  • Finn has spent the last 3 years in various forms of Speech Therapy; I wanted to put this video together so you can hear his speech from age 2 to age 6. I know it's the kind of video I'd have appreciated those years ago - i hope it's a positive story during tough times and gives you hope if you too have a child with Speech Delay.
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    Some Extra Info:
    - The nanny came everyday 8.00-18.00 while I was at work, she didn't live in.
    - We found our private Speech Therapist by asking for recommendations on our local mums facebook page
    - Finn had 45 minutes once a week privately and 1 hour every 3/4 weeks on the NHS.
    - When we moved house we lost our place in NHS therapy and were told the wait was so long in Surrey that he wouldn't start before school started (and then the school have to takeover as part of Special Educational Needs) So we had to go private to get help the year before school.
    - Finn started on a Special Educational Needs program so has school targets for speech, this also meant they wouldn't give him educational targets. But now he has those as he's so much easier for teachers to understand they can properly asses him. He's still on the SEN programme.
    - He's finished Speech Therapy now mainly due to Covid-19 his therapist isn't available to work. However I don't think he'll need more.
    SJ x
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  • @DrakesNest
    @DrakesNest 4 роки тому +179

    This is so beautifully done:) you had me crying with all the clips lol Thanks for doing this with me xo 😘

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  4 роки тому +13

      It was so emotional collecting them all!! Then I got to share them with Finn and he was so amazed at his own progression. LOVED collaborating with you - thanks for being my huge support xxx

  • @TaraLyz
    @TaraLyz 4 роки тому +125

    Hearing him talk at the end was so beautiful it made me cry! He sounds like the 6yr old he is! So proud of him & YOU Mama! It doesn’t matter how long the work takes, as long as you do the work & you both did the work! 😭❤️

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  4 роки тому +2

      Yes he does doesn't he :-) I'm so happy for him xxx

  • @alessandrarara
    @alessandrarara 4 роки тому +175

    oh SJ this made me cry! Sweet little Finn is such a warrior, hearing him say he was proud of himself and knowing you were proud of him was just incredible. You are such a fantastic mum ❤️ Keep it up Finn, you’re amazing!

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  4 роки тому +5

      Thank you Alessandra, I'm reading him out the comments and he's so excited - he was really excited to put this video up :-) xxx

    • @mm-dv2tc
      @mm-dv2tc 2 роки тому

      Thanks a lot for sharing your experience.

  • @Estellemusic
    @Estellemusic 4 роки тому +26

    This change is insane. I am crying. You have such a warrier for a son, SJ and this is so amazing.
    And he has this little underlying Scandi accent and it's gorgeous.

  • @Bekah07
    @Bekah07 4 роки тому +31

    Oh my gosh, this made me teary when I heard him say “I am Finn”. So special. It is clear how lovely your bond is. Xx

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  4 роки тому

      missbekah77 he’s definitely taught me more than I’ve taught him xx

  • @maddi2871
    @maddi2871 4 роки тому +81

    OMG, I hope he knows that everyone is so proud of him and that he has done so well. This litteratly brought me to tears , I hope he knows how good he has done and how much he has accomplished. Congratulations, Lots of love, all the way from Australia.

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  4 роки тому

      Thanks so much - I read him your message :-) He's very proud of himself and I think he's so confident now as he knows he just needs to sit and learn and he can do anything. xxx

  • @jessicA21984
    @jessicA21984 4 роки тому +33

    His speech is so amazing now. The difference is outstanding. Go Finn!

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  4 роки тому

      Jess Yeldon thank you so so much Jess x

  • @iluvzevon
    @iluvzevon 4 роки тому +45

    "You can be proud of yourself and you can learn." Cue all the tears. He is just the cutest, sweetest little boy. What an amazing, amazing lesson for him to learn so young, to be so empathetic, positive, and hardworking. I'm just sitting here weeping, wow.

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  4 роки тому +2

      I know - In a way his speech delay will carry him so far in life. He's so empathetic and kind, he sees anyone who is an outsider and goes right to them. I think he'll end up working with children and being such a kind soul xx

  • @LouiseBradfordKreations
    @LouiseBradfordKreations Місяць тому

    Thank you for my story! Im going through speech development with my 3yr daughter now.this gives me hope

  • @realnurse2696
    @realnurse2696 2 роки тому +1

    My 3 year old little boy has about a 100 word vocabulary with 2-3 word phrases at times, but none of it is perfectly articulated. We have attempted two different speech evaluations, but he was instantly distracted with all the toys the moment he walked in the rooms. He wouldn’t cooperate with the flip charts or flash cards at all. I’ve never been more heart broken. His pediatrician assured us he shows no autistic red flags, only a speech delay. I have started working intensively with him at home, as well as his three older sisters and his daddy. He’s saying new words nearly every day, but again, none perfectly articulated. We’re scheduled for the hearing test next week. After that, I’m willing to try yet another speech therapist, if we can figure out a way for the evaluation to not involve a room full of toys. Your video gives me hope. I’ve felt so defeated and at a loss, as well as the guilt you spoke of.

  • @kktalley23
    @kktalley23 2 роки тому +1

    I’m literally tearing up . I’m going through this right now with my 4 year old . He is starting head start(pre-K) in a couple weeks and I’m scared to death . This gave me hope . Thanks so much

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  2 роки тому +1

      He’ll do great / Finn speaks so well now and is a really popular and outgoing little boy xxxxxxx

    • @kktalley23
      @kktalley23 2 роки тому

      @@SJ_Strum Thank You . That Is great , I love to see testimonies 🥰

  • @lawrencedimartini2449
    @lawrencedimartini2449 Місяць тому

    Bless your soul Finn.. I hope my son grow up like you

  • @vickys8246
    @vickys8246 4 роки тому

    ah i'm crying! it's so lovely how proud of himself he is!

  • @maelonsdale98
    @maelonsdale98 4 роки тому +1

    This has reduced me to tears!! Such a kind, beautiful boy, an absolute inspiration and a true credit to himself and you. x

  • @MsMoem
    @MsMoem 4 роки тому

    Aww he should be so proud!! Bless his heart!

  • @mayshakam4058
    @mayshakam4058 4 роки тому

    All the tears! So proud of Finn xxx

  • @mummylife-gg1xn
    @mummylife-gg1xn 4 роки тому

    Ahhh this was beautiful. So proud of you both!! Well done Finn xx

  • @amysmith761
    @amysmith761 4 роки тому

    One minute in and there are tears in my eyes!! Go Finn! Xx

  • @teepotx
    @teepotx 4 роки тому

    this video made me cry! just so lovely, well done Finn!

  • @jeanniestach
    @jeanniestach 4 роки тому

    This is a really heartwarming video - it made me cry! Finn is clearly such a lovely, brave and strong little boy and is right to feel very proud of himself xxx

  • @sarahptk
    @sarahptk 4 роки тому

    This is a beautiful video SJ, I was tearing up at the end! I'm so happy for him and you seem like a fantastic mum who put in a lot of effort. Take care :)

  • @BeautybyRonja101
    @BeautybyRonja101 3 роки тому

    This made me cry!! So happy for little Finn ❤️

  • @hollylloyd690
    @hollylloyd690 4 роки тому

    What a gorgeous video! Bless him, he's such a sweetheart.

  • @ThatRomyKate
    @ThatRomyKate 4 роки тому

    Oh my gosh he's so precious

  • @melissawolfe6981
    @melissawolfe6981 4 роки тому +1

    Oh SJ, this was so beautiful! It had me crying the whole time. I am so proud of Finn and how far he’s come. It is so inspiring to see how hard he has fought to get to where he is, how he never gave up and continues to grow. You should be proud of not only him, but of yourself as well ❤️❤️

  • @rebeccaalbrecht771
    @rebeccaalbrecht771 4 роки тому

    I rarely get teary-eyed with a video but did with this one. Good job Finn and mom!

  • @cerysrennocks8332
    @cerysrennocks8332 4 роки тому

    I had some tears watching this. You have all worked so hard especially Finn! X

  • @mollys8379
    @mollys8379 4 роки тому

    What a sweet baby! This had me in tears. You should be so proud of yourself Finn!!! Keep up the amazing work buddy!

  • @JustAnotherLucy
    @JustAnotherLucy 4 роки тому

    This is so beautiful and so full of hope. Finn should be so proud of himself and the sky is truly his limit, what a determined little boy 💖

  • @rebekahstefani8348
    @rebekahstefani8348 4 роки тому +1

    He's so precious!!🥰

  • @reylatable
    @reylatable 4 роки тому

    Crying the whole time , I am so so proud of Finn, I feel as if I knew all of you and I'm just so incredibly proud of all the hard work it took to get him to his point . What an absolutely beautiful, smart and determinned little boy he is ❤

  • @rlh-b2206
    @rlh-b2206 4 роки тому

    That was so lovely! Heart melting 🥰

  • @Drazaanna
    @Drazaanna 4 роки тому +1

    Awwwww that just made me cry xx he's such a brilliant little boy xxx

  • @bethc883
    @bethc883 4 роки тому +1

    Well done Finn! His speech is so good now, I got teary as soon as he started talking ❤️ xx

  • @lauriewilliams8336
    @lauriewilliams8336 4 роки тому

    No words, just tears. So proud of Finn. He has come so FAR!

  • @kirstensmith9613
    @kirstensmith9613 4 роки тому

    So generous of you to share this, I hope to be a mom one day and you inspire me so much! Way to go, Finn!! 💕

  • @hellolovebellarose
    @hellolovebellarose 4 роки тому

    I sobbed through this whole video. His energy and outlook on life is so inspiring. I especially loved how you let him speak for himself and tell his own story. Amazing video

  • @zoewoodward2260
    @zoewoodward2260 4 роки тому

    This is so heartwarming. He is absolutely amazing! Well done 🥰🥰

  • @Plumosaurus
    @Plumosaurus 4 роки тому

    Argh Finn. What an inspiring, beautiful journey you've both been on. It's incredible for such a young chap to have so much determination and resilience. It'll have a fantastic impact on the rest of his life in more ways than one! Well done both of you and thank you for sharing 👏💪💫

  • @jeanbb3283
    @jeanbb3283 4 роки тому

    Amazing job to you both and your family! This is an amazing display of inspiration and resilience in overcoming. So proud of Finn, what an amazing boy X I’m sure this and your other videos will be of immense support to other families x

  • @emilynattrass6628
    @emilynattrass6628 4 роки тому +1

    My heart could burst - what an adventure and what a triumph for this incredible young man ♥️

  • @fizzyhog
    @fizzyhog 4 роки тому

    What a lovely, lovely little lad you have SJ. This video made me so emotional- seeing Finn’s progress and pride in himself was wonderful. 💙 Wonderful video!xx

  • @ameliewootton7292
    @ameliewootton7292 4 роки тому

    Awwww his speech has come so far! This video was so awesome 💖

  • @gilldonne-davis9808
    @gilldonne-davis9808 4 роки тому

    Such a beautiful and inspiring video. It’s so lovely to see Finn’s confidence and his beautiful smile 😃

  • @groffeecub5351
    @groffeecub5351 4 роки тому

    What a little angel he is! It’s so lovely to see Finn so proud of himself at the end. I’m so happy for you and your family, well done for all of your hard work! 💜

  • @emmanuellerose7450
    @emmanuellerose7450 4 роки тому

    This made me cry in happiness for Finn. His pride in his incredible work is inspiring and knowing how loved he is by you makes all the difference in his confidence! Keep up the good work little dude!

  • @stefaniekristine1072
    @stefaniekristine1072 3 роки тому

    Omg this made me cry I’m so proud of Finn

  • @Bcomnerd
    @Bcomnerd 4 роки тому

    Lovely to see how Finn and your hard work has paid off. He seems to be such a sweet and empathetic boy. Thank you for sharing Finn's story xx

  • @livejuicyful
    @livejuicyful 4 роки тому

    So many happy tears watching this. Such a testament to you both. You are such an amazing mum and Finn is awesome. You both deserve to be super proud 💖

  • @sassylarue5217
    @sassylarue5217 4 роки тому

    Absolutely bawling! He's so pure and kind...ooooph! And a real reflection on what a fab family unit you are. I first found your videos through a speech therapy search, and so glad I did x

  • @skittkes36
    @skittkes36 4 роки тому +1

    This video actually made me so emotional. What a sweet and inspiring boy! It's very obvious that Finn is full of love and kindness that he clearly learned from living in a home environment that cares for and supports him. You should be very proud of your children and of yourself, you're doing a fantastic job x

  • @emmesplase8556
    @emmesplase8556 4 роки тому

    You should be soooo proud. You’re both so amazing x

  • @tharulovesTH
    @tharulovesTH 4 роки тому

    He is the cutest little boy! You had me crying with this video. He's done so well, I hope he's very proud of himself and knows we all are too.

  • @lorarenee6964
    @lorarenee6964 4 роки тому +1

    He is such a sweet boy! I didn’t expect to cry but here I am sobbing! What a long way he has come! God bless your family ❤️

  • @HannahWoodardLockaby
    @HannahWoodardLockaby 4 роки тому

    What a precious little man! He has a lot to be proud of and I'm so happy that he has a family who supports him so well. ❤️

  • @merillamuses6852
    @merillamuses6852 3 роки тому

    Literally weeping watching this, so proud of you Finn. What a beautiful soul. You should be proud too SJ xxx

  • @fernwilkes7185
    @fernwilkes7185 4 роки тому

    This made me cry so much and is so beautifully done. Thank you for sharing

  • @amaliaeleonora400
    @amaliaeleonora400 4 роки тому

    Brought tears to my eyes! So beautiful! I am so proud of your son, he is amazing! Sending lots of love. Xx

  • @heythereitsissy
    @heythereitsissy 4 роки тому +2

    His speech is so lovely and clear now!! Every video you make about him makes me emotional because I’m just so proud!! What a special little boy who’s so lucky to have parents who are willing to work hard for him to achieve what he’s capable of❤️

  • @austinmerrifield9836
    @austinmerrifield9836 3 роки тому

    Such an incredible triumph for little Finn! ♥

  • @LeighAnneLinehan
    @LeighAnneLinehan 4 роки тому

    Oh, I have all the feels from watching this, SJ. He is an amazing little dude, and mothers like you are everything that is good in this world. Aww, watching as you help to mouth the words when he turns to you - that's true support. Thank you and Finn for sharing the journey with us. Love and best wishes!

  • @jamieyerk7746
    @jamieyerk7746 4 роки тому

    What a beautiful video. I was crying 30 seconds in. What a lovely and loving mother you are. The pride on Finn’s face is amazing.

  • @amyhall3901
    @amyhall3901 4 роки тому

    This is amazing. Well done Finn! And thank you NHS 💓

  • @BgirlCandyMzk
    @BgirlCandyMzk 3 роки тому

    This made me cry... thank u, these kind of videos really do mean a lot and give so much hope. Thank u thank u 🙏🏽

  • @jennayoung99
    @jennayoung99 4 роки тому

    I adore him. What a strong boy. Go finn!

  • @Semapho0ore
    @Semapho0ore 4 роки тому

    Love it ! You must be so proud of your boy and yourself.

  • @ShelbySays
    @ShelbySays 3 роки тому

    This video made me so emotional! What a sweet soul Finn is! What a blessing to have you for a mum and such a loving and supportive family. Great job with all your hard work Finn!

  • @antoniastylianou8765
    @antoniastylianou8765 4 роки тому

    He is such a gentle , strong special boy 🙏🏻🙌🏻✨

  • @Wolfmaedchen
    @Wolfmaedchen 4 роки тому

    Oh Finn, bless him! He sounds so proud at the end! And you do too, as he pointed out 😄🧡

  • @lauraedwards8066
    @lauraedwards8066 4 роки тому

    He is amazing. Well done Finn. You should all be so proud. 😭🥰

  • @MariaMirabella20
    @MariaMirabella20 3 роки тому

    I just want to thank you for such incredible, powerful and inspiring story/video. You did such an amazing job documenting everything and sharing every step you took during this journey. I bet Finn is so happy to have such an amazing and strong woman as his beautiful mom)))

  • @jessthorne5247
    @jessthorne5247 4 роки тому

    This is so beautiful! What an incredible speech journey 💫

  • @allisonmoore1479
    @allisonmoore1479 4 роки тому

    such a difficult, but beautiful journey 💙 well done Finn!!

  • @susanr791
    @susanr791 4 роки тому

    So beautiful! Thank you for sharing this story!

  • @laurakatona8850
    @laurakatona8850 4 роки тому

    This is so lovely! What a little fighter

  • @kate80
    @kate80 4 роки тому

    What an incredible little boy, and an incredible mum. Your relationship is beautiful to see 💕

  • @lauraw3276
    @lauraw3276 4 роки тому

    Oh I'm so so proud of Finn 🎉 What an inspiring little boy, moving story and video, thank you SJ for sharing yours and finns experience 💙 Such a brave journey! Finn, you little star, well done you 🌟

  • @victoriaflynn6506
    @victoriaflynn6506 4 роки тому

    Very empowering. Keep shining Finn. 💚

  • @GraceForton
    @GraceForton 4 роки тому +12

    I started studying Speech and Language Therapy before dropping out in my second year just because the career wasn’t for me but seeing videos like this still makes my heart warm and so proud of my friends that are still training. Speech therapy I believe is so under looked by a lot of people as I don’t think they realise that so many people have speech issues (they even help those with swallowing difficulties). Thanks so much for bringing light to it and helping parents in the same situation. Finn is such a gorgeous boy ❤️

  • @jessepp4351
    @jessepp4351 4 роки тому

    This is such a beautiful video, I have goosebumps. So proud of you and your family.

  • @iz202
    @iz202 4 роки тому

    Oh goodness, here come the tears! Thank you SJ, this video is so wonderful, Finn is such a sweet little boy and his speech is brilliant! Love how he said his tongue got better ❤

  • @beklee6910
    @beklee6910 3 роки тому +2

    What an incredible little man. I can't imagine the amount of work you all put in to help him get to where he is today. You can see how proud he is of himself, bless his heart!

  • @farannabh
    @farannabh 4 роки тому

    I LOVE HIM SO MUCH he’s so clever. what an angel. you’re such a good mom sj ❤️

  • @Daymickey
    @Daymickey 2 роки тому

    Crying over here! 😭❤️ This is so inspiring. What an amazing little boy and loving parents!

  • @alisonridout
    @alisonridout 4 роки тому

    What a beautiful video SJ. I'm was smiling at the end to hear Finn speaking. You must be so proud. Hope you're all ok. Ali x

  • @MM-ey2ql
    @MM-ey2ql 4 роки тому

    This is beautiful.❤️ you are an amazing mother. Thank you both for sharing this.x well done Fin 🥰

  • @kimberleyburton9960
    @kimberleyburton9960 4 роки тому

    Oh, this is so touching. He's so wise and brave. I could see you both getting emotional 💔 It really shows how much love there is between you both, you can tell how much he looks to you for guidance. He's absolutely amazing bless him🥰 massive well done Finn! 🎉

  • @viagrace4515
    @viagrace4515 4 роки тому

    what a sweet and wonderful boy! He is such a warrior! Love this!

  • @heathersanderson01
    @heathersanderson01 4 роки тому

    He is such a beautiful little boy with such loving parents xx

  • @Sonali11
    @Sonali11 4 роки тому

    In tears watching this - well done Finn 👍🏽 you're an amazing boy! You should be very very proud young boy xx

  • @wendolynerodriguez75
    @wendolynerodriguez75 3 роки тому

    Absolutely love this video and hearing Finn speak. ❤

  • @isabellechalkley8632
    @isabellechalkley8632 4 роки тому +1

    This is so unbelievably heart-warming. Little Finn should be so proud of himself. I am looking into going into a career in speech and language therapy and seeing how chuffed Finn is and you are with his improvement and how much it has changed your lives is definitely a motivation to work hard! All the best to you all xxx

  • @semt9
    @semt9 4 роки тому

    What a sweet boy! Such a moving story. Amazing to see how great his speech is now.

  • @annanicol8283
    @annanicol8283 4 роки тому

    What an lovely inspirational video! You both should be very proud 🤍

  • @birgittaljungstrom2425
    @birgittaljungstrom2425 4 роки тому

    Oh such a lovely and emotional video. Finn is so brave and you are a fantastic mum! ❤️💕❤️

  • @chloerachel4494
    @chloerachel4494 4 роки тому

    Aww SJ this is beautiful! Look how good his speech is now, you can understand everything he is saying so clearly! What a strong little boy and what a wonderful family 😘 we hear you Finn and you have a fabulous voice❤

  • @Elizabethpawling
    @Elizabethpawling 4 роки тому

    Wow, amazing Finn. He’s a lovely little lad and he should be so proud of himself! My cousin struggled with speech so much, only his twin sister could understand him fully and it was so hard to see him get so frustrated when his sister wasn’t there to help us understand him. He had speech therapy and is now 10, it was a very long process and he still finds it challenging to pronounce particular words clearly but it’s amazing seeing children who have struggled with speech get better and better every day. You must be so proud of Finn, it’s amazing to see how far he’s come!

  • @rebec88
    @rebec88 4 роки тому

    I just love little Finn, he is soo sweet! Well done all of you this is amazing 💛💙💚

  • @babyblue904
    @babyblue904 4 роки тому

    Omg crying my eyes out here! Your so inspiring total mum goals! Xx

  • @kamalmann2211
    @kamalmann2211 2 роки тому

    I can't thank you enough for this video. It gave me so much hope and inspiration. Lots of love to you and Finn..