Fantastic video, I needed that. Thank you. I am still in pain and hurting. Being ghosted for nearly 6 wks. now. 3rd ghosting within 1 3/4 yrs. Thank you . I now have to leave with dignity. Listened to many of your videos niw. They all help me. 🌈🙏
“People abandon the ones they’re using.” TRUTH. Being betrayed, used and abandoned so late in life stings far more than any adolescent flirtation/love affair. More so since I “thought” I understood everything, but was proven wrong by their actions. Forgiveness is not on the table for anyone but myself.
I've been through this process too. I think looking back now God delivers his children from relationships that he knows don't work in your life. Stick close to people who love you and support you my friends. That's what I did.
❤true well said turn all ur pains in power amen 🙏 true feeling n genuinely pains encountered will never be wasted but will be answerable n answered amen 🙏
Absolutely. Solid advice and all of us go through this. Too personal is curious to me because a lot of people have been through it. Personally it sucks, but we're not alone in this . Give your people a hug , and tell those who you love that you love them.
This message is definitely talking about my ex Leroy Mitchell and I did exactly that I abandoned him like how he abandoned me self for I don't want him back and he trying to come back and it's ain't happening
If God removed them how is it that one is still here and till this very day as for many days to come is just using me as an assent, trying to get me to feel what he feels, hmph, it don't work that way at all ever.
So who do you lean on when you no longer have an Anchor? Guess i moved beyond what the anchors of life could withstand and now I'm on my journey to become a member of the 1% literally all alone!
Those are all healthy behavior styles..I don't see me ever behaving like that unless they have hurt me while being with their other people. They are back and forth with them .
Not your fault for a person being shitty but It is your fault when YOU choose shit people to be around. Then your perception on forgiveness seem righteous.
I had many mates like this but I understood what they was doing and also used them, but what happens then some so called mates move away and will come back just to use me but then I cut ties with them haha and friendship over with and I don’t care as I knew what they was upto in the beginning
I was there for you. I took you away from a lide you had. You moved in with me We both did things for each other.Ioved back to my house and you wanted to love in CA. I lived there before and we found a jobs. Where you worked I helped you and did my job. i did the laundry and helped with Sunday morning brunches. Then I was hired on 3 hours away. We lived in a beautiful home in Fallbrook and rhat when things fell apart. I will never hurt in any way. I am jappy I fell in love with who you are but you met a marine and don't know who you were with but you told me about him and one of my friends. I am not angry at you. I just need you to get out of my phone and help me get on another channel and I am gone. I done blame you.
Change your perspective seems to be the call to action here. Someone didn’t ruin you or turn your life upside down, your guys inside out. What they did was do you a favor. They revealed themselves for who they truly are. Truth. You were granted truth. So, change your perspective. Of course you were betrayed. Of course you were intentionally hurt, made to suffer, discarded like unwanted leftovers. Trashed. Difference is that now you know. You’d been betrayed and discarded all along. You just didn’t know it yet. Not until the truth was revealed. So, now you know. Question is: what are you going to do about it? Change your perspective. Thank them for revealing the truth. Of course it hurts and you’re angry and frustrated and anxious and all the rest. Let that pass. Let it go. They did you a favor. You were granted the truth, finally. Of course the truth sucks. Of course all of the above and more. Change your perspective. Why is a dog chasing its own tail. Why does not matter. Why doesn’t help. Stop asking why. The truth and it’s revelation are what matters. Now, do what matters next. Change your perspective. And, good luck with that.
i must be honest on this my wife control me manipulate so only option to spend time with randome people was on internet and still honest most of them where teenahers that wanted to die i tread them like familly showd them love and wthey left thanking me for saving them
I ll not comment much but I think we both used each other for our own means!But my purpose was different than his! It is not okay to be a bad person! So before it gets too late change yourself!
There are no other genuine connections. He was the main homie. He's just putting me on the backburner again for some slut. I'm not looking to wait for my value to matter again once He's done with that trash. But at the same time, he always leaves them and comes back to me. ALWAYS. 11 years I've understood this behavior. And I've never had an issue with waiting cuz i knew it wouldnt last for any of those girls. He always misses me. I'm just not sure if I'm in the mood to wait this time. Some lessons in life have to be taught by another person and I dont want to conform to this one. I dont want it period. I just want it to stay mine a little longer than have to wait again.
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I abandoned them because I saw them using me.
By their fruit you shall know them.
Jesus. Amen 🙏
Choose your friends wisely, and don't lower your standards by comprimising your boundaries
Also, choose your enemies wisely.
I chose my friends but they were converted into my enemy, since i was in school that's why i don't want to make any friends, not a single one
This man's getting TOO personal ❤️🔥
So very true
This is not personal at all. If you have money bungalow car properties then only people will respect and love you.
What do you mean? What are you saying? I do not understand.
Fantastic video, I needed that. Thank you. I am still in pain and hurting. Being ghosted for nearly 6 wks. now. 3rd ghosting within 1 3/4 yrs. Thank you . I now have to leave with dignity. Listened to many of your videos niw. They all help me. 🌈🙏
@@PRAVINRAAJRAAJbut the people who helps is the people who bearly got something and they will help the people but they don't respect those people
True colours, they always show!
Indeed
Yes God knows what’s best for me always have his protection thank you very intelligent true reading
“People abandon the ones they’re using.” TRUTH. Being betrayed, used and abandoned so late in life stings far more than any adolescent flirtation/love affair. More so since I “thought” I understood everything, but was proven wrong by their actions. Forgiveness is not on the table for anyone but myself.
@@31Alden same ..all ..it is soulbreaking 🥲
@@31Alden same ..I feel for you
I learned that I can have my boundaries & if you don’t respect them, then you’re gone!
I wish I had heard this 12 years ago
Even 30+ years ago ! This should be taught in upper elementary and middle school !
Was thinking exactly this!
Thank you God 👍
I've been through this process too. I think looking back now God delivers his children from relationships that he knows don't work in your life. Stick close to people who love you and support you my friends. That's what I did.
To whoever likes this comment & was inspired by it, I'm very much happy for you. God bless you and your journey.
yeah, I really want to take advice from the Joker. I know now I was used. "People who use others often prey on those who doubt their own value"
@@thelonewolf1894 no ..they choose strong ones to use and break them 🥲
I'm ok being solo until find right people
'Their actions are reflections of them, not of you' - True. They use you, and then blame they're leaving because you're not good enough and worthless.
Joker... It All makes so much sense ..Your Right On the point man!! Awesome message once again!! Love this show!!
❤true well said turn all ur pains in power amen 🙏 true feeling n genuinely pains encountered will never be wasted but will be answerable n answered amen 🙏
Amen
This couldn't be any closer to the truth.😮
She is my anchor. She was a pillar that I rebuilt myself on. I love her.
She will betray you. Prepare yourself.
FOREVER AMEN🖤🖤🖤
AMEN ✨
It makes things WAY easier for whoever comes after.
Absolutely. Solid advice and all of us go through this. Too personal is curious to me because a lot of people have been through it. Personally it sucks, but we're not alone in this . Give your people a hug , and tell those who you love that you love them.
Powerful
THANK GOD 🖤🖤🖤
Share this video to your peers.
@@alphapsychemotivation
DEFINITELY I SHALL 🖤
DEFINITELY I SHALL 🖤
They may also take advantage of those who are in already vulnerable positions, or were previously victimized. #ASPD
Needed this thank you
Anytime 👊🏻
Absolutely
Powerful message ❤
...and don't ever let them come back!
That was real , thank you, i needed to hear that
Anytime
Well joker is always one step ahead just saying
Thank you ❤
This message is definitely talking about my ex Leroy Mitchell and I did exactly that I abandoned him like how he abandoned me self for I don't want him back and he trying to come back and it's ain't happening
It's better in here that the other room. I hope this wasn't for nothing. Kid rock 'wasting time'❤ I'm happy for ya.❤
Trust no one in this world. New or old people. They are all the same.
BOOM!!! Point Taken 😎😎😎🔥🔥🔥
One more score for the Joker 🔥
This is why ebbie refused to help me with anything didn't even want me to get goof from the food bank st thr church on Fridays years ago
Thanks !
Thank you
You're welcome
Good riddens. Pain into power.
If God removed them how is it that one is still here and till this very day as for many days to come is just using me as an assent, trying to get me to feel what he feels, hmph, it don't work that way at all ever.
Thax you sir
Why didn’t you just make them stop using me!
You abandoned me in a diffwrewnt way. You know the story
Thanks!
You bet!
So who do you lean on when you no longer have an Anchor?
Guess i moved beyond what the anchors of life could withstand and now I'm on my journey to become a member of the 1% literally all alone!
To answer the question
You become the anchor!
Become the wall that others smash against when they fall!
God almighty.
💯 True
Those are all healthy behavior styles..I don't see me ever behaving like that unless they have hurt me while being with their other people. They are back and forth with them
.
Joker assassin's 😅😊😮😢🎉😂❤ slow down
Let them feel each and every bit of fear god
Talk I am god
1 year course Sydney Dance Company,
1 year course JED 3rd
Remove them from my life! Thank you!
Please remove them who are not eligible to test me.
They should be tested by me? WTF
Not your fault for a person being shitty but It is your fault when YOU choose shit people to be around. Then your perception on forgiveness seem righteous.
@@Lee-ws4fr they boiled down to being shitty ..not my fault ..I won' t forgive them
♥️
Ye, let them go!
What an odd choice for a character to give a pep talk.
Created in his image. God is human
Listen in 0.75x for best experience
I had many mates like this but I understood what they was doing and also used them, but what happens then some so called mates move away and will come back just to use me but then I cut ties with them haha and friendship over with and I don’t care as I knew what they was upto in the beginning
I was there for you. I took you away from a lide you had. You moved in with me We both did things for each other.Ioved back to my house and you wanted to love in CA. I lived there before and we found a jobs. Where you worked I helped you and did my job. i did the laundry and helped with Sunday morning brunches. Then I was hired on 3 hours away. We lived in a beautiful home in Fallbrook and rhat when things fell apart. I will never hurt in any way. I am jappy I fell in love with who you are but you met a marine and don't know who you were with but you told me about him and one of my friends. I am not angry at you. I just need you to get out of my phone and help me get on another channel and I am gone. I done blame you.
Im sick of it
I am mot the one you are speaking about. I was there for you eemember. You let me go and I never felt love
Change your perspective seems to be the call to action here. Someone didn’t ruin you or turn your life upside down, your guys inside out. What they did was do you a favor. They revealed themselves for who they truly are. Truth. You were granted truth. So, change your perspective. Of course you were betrayed. Of course you were intentionally hurt, made to suffer, discarded like unwanted leftovers. Trashed. Difference is that now you know. You’d been betrayed and discarded all along. You just didn’t know it yet. Not until the truth was revealed. So, now you know. Question is: what are you going to do about it? Change your perspective. Thank them for revealing the truth. Of course it hurts and you’re angry and frustrated and anxious and all the rest. Let that pass. Let it go. They did you a favor. You were granted the truth, finally. Of course the truth sucks. Of course all of the above and more. Change your perspective. Why is a dog chasing its own tail. Why does not matter. Why doesn’t help. Stop asking why. The truth and it’s revelation are what matters. Now, do what matters next. Change your perspective. And, good luck with that.
I removed them
i must be honest on this my wife control me manipulate so only option to spend time with randome people was on internet and still honest most of them where teenahers that wanted to die i tread them like familly showd them love and wthey left thanking me for saving them
I been there
I abandoned them because she cheated on me.
I ll not comment much but I think we both used each other for our own means!But my purpose was different than his! It is not okay to be a bad person! So before it gets too late change yourself!
God unable to remove himself 😂
😉
444❤️👊👊
I Hope God removes my ex partner so that I could meet better person
God ... what does he have anything to do with it.
Its your thoughts
There are no other genuine connections. He was the main homie. He's just putting me on the backburner again for some slut. I'm not looking to wait for my value to matter again once He's done with that trash. But at the same time, he always leaves them and comes back to me. ALWAYS. 11 years I've understood this behavior. And I've never had an issue with waiting cuz i knew it wouldnt last for any of those girls. He always misses me. I'm just not sure if I'm in the mood to wait this time. Some lessons in life have to be taught by another person and I dont want to conform to this one. I dont want it period. I just want it to stay mine a little longer than have to wait again.
The universe
TOO LATE😭 IVE AWAKENED
CATINA CRAWFORD
Well I know one thing for sure that God is a greedy liar, just like the rest of them all nomatter where they all come from😂
The guy who died in his sleep w pills is telling me about life. Awesome 😂