ASMR In The Graveyard 2

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  • @Rose36921
    @Rose36921 3 роки тому +2123

    If you do end up cleaning a headstone: water, D2, and a grout brush 👍
    -someone who occasionally cleans headstones as a part time job

    • @kenlion8161
      @kenlion8161 3 роки тому +3

      What do you guys do with the coins?

    • @superspicypotatoytt7509
      @superspicypotatoytt7509 3 роки тому +19

      Oh btw, for some reason when ever I clean graves I always find big bones. I normally through but recently I have been collecting them, do you know what animal they are from?

    • @yungsilvia2507
      @yungsilvia2507 3 роки тому +63

      @@superspicypotatoytt7509 what

    • @Rose36921
      @Rose36921 3 роки тому +77

      @@superspicypotatoytt7509 no idea, but I’d suggest by starting with not digging when cleaning 😃👍 /hj

    • @Rose36921
      @Rose36921 3 роки тому +37

      @@kenlion8161 coins?? Are you talking about things that get left on the headstones? You’d take them off while cleaning and then replace them as accurately as you can because they are gifts for the buried or trinkets that the buried loved when alive

  • @M3OW-17
    @M3OW-17 3 місяці тому +273

    Yall saying he is disrespecting the dead when yall cant even respect the living💀💀

    • @caroldrumss
      @caroldrumss 3 місяці тому +20

      FACTSS

    • @Ariyuhsweetner
      @Ariyuhsweetner 3 місяці тому +14

      And it’s like he’s cleaning them a bit as well who knows how long these graves had a visitor too

    • @angelajones1386
      @angelajones1386 2 місяці тому +1

      Ermm girl no one cares but ok

    • @XxFOODXx4LIFEXX
      @XxFOODXx4LIFEXX 2 місяці тому +18

      @@angelajones1386okay “girl” no one asked about your opinion darling.

    • @Daviixzd__
      @Daviixzd__ 2 місяці тому

      "Vocês estão dizendo que estão desrespeitando os mortos quando vocês não conseguem respeitar nem os vivos 💀💀" 🇧🇷

  • @LittleMissHatty
    @LittleMissHatty 3 роки тому +970

    I actually think this is a really nice way to remember those who came before us, graves which probably never get visits anymore and are long gone in a line of distant relatives, it's nice that they are getting some sort of recognition. It's actually nice to think in 200 years, someone will read my grave stone and for that moment think about me when I'm long gone.

    • @creole9596
      @creole9596 3 роки тому +25

      Ah yes scratching on my grave how lovely just put a camera why my corpse is and scratch my memorial sounds very respectful m8

    • @LittleMissHatty
      @LittleMissHatty 3 роки тому +92

      @@creole9596 at least it's getting some attention and someone is reading their names. I'm not religious so I believe when you're dead, you're dead. These people are long gone but thanks to people in the future visiting the graves, they're still remembered, they existed. He's hardly vandalising the graves, tapping on hard stone isn't going to do damage.

    • @creole9596
      @creole9596 3 роки тому +7

      @@LittleMissHatty its disrespectful

    • @LittleMissHatty
      @LittleMissHatty 3 роки тому +39

      @@creole9596 Have to agree to disagree there

    • @Usr.lennox
      @Usr.lennox 3 роки тому +33

      I agree dean is giving them spotlight they have been long gone forgotten because how old they are
      Like in Australian schools we always say we pay our respect to PAST present and emerging it would be
      Nice knowing your still getting recognised after a few hundred years after

  • @sarahjo92
    @sarahjo92 3 роки тому +1026

    I actually love walking though cemeteries especially those with older headstones. I find something eerily peaceful about it

    • @G.Photogirl
      @G.Photogirl 3 роки тому +19

      Agreed.

    • @yungdiddy475
      @yungdiddy475 3 роки тому +13

      I agree and that’s Great because we’re all clearly normal people, but walking all over them and tapping on them is not respectful at all

    • @Ant_111
      @Ant_111 2 роки тому +16

      Ah yes, dead people make me so relaxed

    • @nelliesnose5648
      @nelliesnose5648 2 роки тому +12

      I walk through and say RIP to all of them. Almost always I get some kind of ghostlike sign - usually my spotify crashing when I’ve left, and ghosts are commonly known to interfere with technology. I think the souls are trying to tell me that they could hear me. That they are thankful.

    • @rosegraham5780
      @rosegraham5780 2 роки тому +1

      Same, i find that place peacefull, as a spiritual person

  • @colobolo7532
    @colobolo7532 3 роки тому +3296

    I mean... I can kinda see how people can be offended, but I do think that this is done with good intentions. However, I fully support the grave cleaning. That's a wonderful idea!

    • @chainslixx5913
      @chainslixx5913 3 роки тому +13

      What day is it?

    • @brayden2502
      @brayden2502 3 роки тому +38

      If you get offended by this your a baby and Need to get your life together.

    • @xndrjt
      @xndrjt 3 роки тому +156

      @@brayden2502 respect where someone is buried. It provides some peace. We should respect it because they also went through a lot before they died. That’s why it’s offensive.
      “If you get offended by this *you’re* a baby” No.
      Be a responsible and a respectful individual.

    • @redwalls.
      @redwalls. 3 роки тому +23

      Nah grave cleaning is def disrespectful tf

    • @guest3384
      @guest3384 3 роки тому +9

      @@brayden2502 Let me video one of your dead relatives to stick mid rolls on and promote my patreon then.

  • @facelessmr
    @facelessmr 3 роки тому +1506

    Honestly, based on the title, you'd assume this video would be bad, but this guy seems very genuine and like he had good intention with the video. Those graves look old and forgotten as well, please don't hate on the video without looking at it in another perspective.

    • @JR-xb1yo
      @JR-xb1yo 3 роки тому +54

      Bruh this guy is tapping on gravestones there are no genuine good intentions his only defence was that they’re old and forgotten he has no respect for them tf

    • @nou780
      @nou780 3 роки тому +32

      What's genuine about tapping on someone's grave

    • @tokyotalk8259
      @tokyotalk8259 3 роки тому +4

      @@nou780 fax

    • @JR-xb1yo
      @JR-xb1yo 3 роки тому +2

      @@Miztique gotta have sum respect my guy

    • @JR-xb1yo
      @JR-xb1yo 3 роки тому +1

      @@Miztique this is still hella disrespectful

  • @julia_isenhoff
    @julia_isenhoff 3 роки тому +425

    I honestly wouldn’t mind if some person in the future came and tapped on my headstone for asmr. I love the idea actually 😂

    • @devilmaycry5509
      @devilmaycry5509 Рік тому +25

      Who knows that's your gravestone in past life and now u are reincarnated and watching your gravestone ASMR🤔🤔

    • @Cap1c0rnn
      @Cap1c0rnn Місяць тому

      Honey, your dead. You won't even know that a person will be tappingon your gravestone.

    • @rokit3740
      @rokit3740 Місяць тому

      @@Cap1c0rnn Prove it.

    • @animelover12261
      @animelover12261 Місяць тому

      Yall got issues and it's crazy yall don't see he's making , money and videos to put others to sleep using dead people like that's literally what that is done try using headstones as an excuse it's the same crap to make it worse this is someone's baby, wife, husband etc who dead and people are thinking about how they feel and not that person and their loved ones over liking this brat

  • @Letter4Elise
    @Letter4Elise 3 роки тому +767

    "If you're offended it's a little cringy "... I felt that.

    • @kenlion8161
      @kenlion8161 3 роки тому +4

      As in you’re cringy or?

    • @Letter4Elise
      @Letter4Elise 3 роки тому +15

      ....sure let's go with that.

    • @mariamontanez4810
      @mariamontanez4810 3 роки тому +12

      I lowkey thought about cringe people cringing to this when he said that thats why i cringed lmao if that makes sence

    • @lene1563
      @lene1563 3 роки тому +8

      @@mariamontanez4810 what?

    • @duuled
      @duuled 3 роки тому +3

      @@mariamontanez4810 what

  • @MustardLadySaveMe
    @MustardLadySaveMe 3 роки тому +124

    our town has a cemetery so old that we have a revolutionary war veteran buried there. It fell into total disrepair until a few years ago when a semi-famous ghost hunting crew visited. Some people got mad about the crew "disrespecting" the people at rest there, but they brought a lot of attention to the damage and pushed the city to revitalize it.

    • @mondsgesandter
      @mondsgesandter 3 місяці тому +1

      In the German town I live in there's multiple tombstones from the 1600s, mostly they're used as multigenerational graves, because normally gravestones get removed after the family of the dead person stops paying for the spot. They do it so the graveyards won't get too massive, which makes sense, but it's honestly a bit sad to me to see the sites vanish. Some of the really old graves will probably someday be given to museums if the families stop paying for the spots

  • @G.Photogirl
    @G.Photogirl 3 роки тому +341

    I just realized that I find the sound of gravestone tapping strangely calming. Who knew? 😳

  • @nxtcaliber3445
    @nxtcaliber3445 3 роки тому +961

    The reason the headstone said “BABY” was because the infant must have died at birth/was a stillborn and the parents hadn’t named it. Very sad 😢

    • @Damian8282
      @Damian8282 3 роки тому +5

      Awww i guess some of us are more lucky than others 🙁

    • @Pivicx
      @Pivicx 3 роки тому +35

      @@Damian8282 dat definitely came across the wrong way

    • @weightsinfish
      @weightsinfish 3 роки тому +20

      Yeah, unfortunately. You can actually find quite a few unmarked baby graves when you go searching for them. It’s insane how many there are & makes me extremely sad. :(

    • @Itsjust_zeal2424
      @Itsjust_zeal2424 2 роки тому +1

      Time stamp?

    • @ntyb145
      @ntyb145 10 місяців тому +1

      @@Itsjust_zeal2424 10:20

  • @Werggi
    @Werggi 3 роки тому +377

    If nobody does asmr with my headstone, i’m coming back to haunt everyone.

  • @snowden6790
    @snowden6790 3 роки тому +428

    as someone who spends a lot of time on graveyards, has studied the etiquette, and all that, i don't find this disrespectful. whether you believe in the supernatural or not, from my own personal experiences, if they had issues with this, dean would have known full well. but clearly, the vibes there were chill.

    • @CCSierra
      @CCSierra 3 роки тому +42

      Thank you. I agree that what he is doing seems kind, not disrespectful.

    • @TomieNightFever
      @TomieNightFever 3 роки тому +8

      I'm not surprised that u spend a lot of time in graveyards, cus ur profile is Souichi Tsujii whos also my second favourite Junji Ito character xD But ye I also dont find this disrespectful

    • @yungdiddy475
      @yungdiddy475 3 роки тому +7

      Your all delusional then😭 this guy is walking all over them, they’re there to be remembered and left at peace

    • @ettoresotsass
      @ettoresotsass 3 роки тому +48

      @@yungdiddy475 it’s not that serious. They’re dead. We’re all probably living on top of graves from a millennium ago. Stop looking for weird reasons to hate and be annoyed lmao don’t watch if it bothers you

    • @snowden6790
      @snowden6790 2 роки тому +35

      @@yungdiddy475 first off, they're bodies are 6 feet under the ground, it's not like they're on the surface and he's trampling corpses. secondly, people walk over graves all the time, it's normal especially if it's an older graveyard like this one with little to no walkways. it actually used to be normal to have picnics in graveyard during the victorian era, literally sitting on top of them and eating lunch. third, it's been a hot minute since these people passed. if they're chilling in the afterlife, chances are they're not sticking around some old graveyard. fourth, people do far worse things like vandalize, move, and straight up smash graves. i don't even like dean but what he's doing is perfectly fine.

  • @dog8068
    @dog8068 3 роки тому +220

    i understand some ppl might be uncomfortable with this video bc of their beliefs, but they can just not watch. hes gently touching them and literally just looking at them and reading their names, scraping away some dirt. i think its interesting to see old headstones, and its true even if hes using it for content hes still giving them attention they probably dont usually get

  • @haleyautumn873
    @haleyautumn873 3 роки тому +531

    Never thought we'd get a part 2 but we did! 😏

  • @personalchannel659
    @personalchannel659 3 роки тому +616

    i never thought I’d be falling asleep to someone tapping on head stones in a grave yard… but here i am and im not mad

    • @sofiacancino
      @sofiacancino Рік тому +2

      wait how are you typing then if you are sleeping?

    • @sofiacancino
      @sofiacancino Рік тому +2

      @@divinemm2 OH SRRY IDK WHY I THOUGHT THEY WERE SLEEPING 😭💀

  • @Bvbarmy899
    @Bvbarmy899 3 роки тому +283

    Real talk, I like to believe that the ghosts in that graveyard love him and feel appreciated by him because clearly their graves aren't being visited anymore (I mean, I assume since they are sadly not getting taken care of) and it must be nice for them to be visited by anyone, especially someone who is there with the purpose of making thousands of people feel good and also literally says how he wants to give the graves some love and even mentions wanting to clean them, that is so pure and sweet, we stan 🥺❤

    • @Bvbarmy899
      @Bvbarmy899 3 роки тому +9

      @Sut Nack at those times yeah very likely no but you never know, the ghosts could have adapted to our times and they might actually love seeing such an interesting, flamboyant as you put it, person.

    • @itachi_uchiha9359
      @itachi_uchiha9359 3 роки тому +1

      @Sut Nack bruh i died lmao

    • @danryb
      @danryb 3 роки тому +13

      @Sut Nack Imagine thinking flamboyance didn’t exist before 1980 😩😂🤡

    • @K3rm1tFr0g
      @K3rm1tFr0g 3 роки тому +4

      I wish I could believe things because I want to lol

    • @guytrashgurtdog515
      @guytrashgurtdog515 2 роки тому

      @@danryb I don’t think that’s what they were saying, just that a majority of people around then and before then (and even now) were homophobic as hell sadly.

  • @mollyirene8979
    @mollyirene8979 3 роки тому +1449

    honestly, i feel like this is paying tribute to the dead. just think of how many of these people’s names haven’t been said in years. i love saying the names off of headstones when i visit graveyards because it breathes life into these people again. 🪦✨

    • @aliciazabala3174
      @aliciazabala3174 3 роки тому +41

      yeah it’s sure paying alright i got like 3 ads

    • @chunkyninja6988
      @chunkyninja6988 3 роки тому +15

      @@aliciazabala3174 that's why I pay for that premium

    • @lacy01
      @lacy01 3 роки тому +6

      @@chunkyninja6988 yup same 🙏

    • @lazur9694
      @lazur9694 3 роки тому

      S usually suddup off so some sfusfusfuusfsusufufusudusduusufuuss fs future sfusffusfustis

    • @Ant_111
      @Ant_111 2 роки тому +3

      But who tf is actually thinking about these graves after watching this video

  • @Msmagnolia34
    @Msmagnolia34 6 місяців тому +31

    For those offended:
    Have you went on a cemetery tour out of state? Kids will climb all over graves, people walk over it, touch it ETC.. in my opinion at least he is speaking names. Speaking light of the dead and keeping their memory alive! I would 100% be okay with him tapping on my mom because he’s patient, he’s being respectful and not beating on it, he’s thinking then for allowing him to tap ETC

  • @Chelsea_rice2017
    @Chelsea_rice2017 3 роки тому +698

    “These graves are from the 1800’s I’m giving them a spotlight” lmao Dean! 🥲

    • @Doryplory
      @Doryplory 3 роки тому +4

      Omg I love him

    • @khadidiatoucisse7737
      @khadidiatoucisse7737 3 роки тому +22

      A Paris Hilton type moment

    • @chibip6
      @chibip6 3 роки тому +46

      Tbh in a way it’s true. You only continue to live after death when people carry on your memory and some of these gravestones are old enough that likely the progeny of the occupants don’t speak of them much if at all anymore.

    • @kidvex5741
      @kidvex5741 3 роки тому +13

      Wish they never removed the dislike button

    • @wateryoutalkingabout6113
      @wateryoutalkingabout6113 3 роки тому +13

      @@kidvex5741 Cry

  • @EllenFarrell
    @EllenFarrell 3 роки тому +67

    When I die anyone is free to do asmr on my gravestone it’s what I would’ve wanted

  • @lainedirnberger2884
    @lainedirnberger2884 3 роки тому +328

    People used to hang in graveyards like parks! It’s not weird, and shouldn’t be weird. Humans have existed for like 200,000 years so there are dead humans and animals everywhere anyway 🙄

    • @jeeksmeme2218
      @jeeksmeme2218 3 роки тому +6

      I think it’s 10 000 years?

    • @sharavila616
      @sharavila616 3 роки тому +28

      @@jeeksmeme2218 actually they are right, it's around 200,000 years ago. What's around 10,000 years is the modern form of civilization :)

    • @whiteboah5820
      @whiteboah5820 3 роки тому +3

      bruh what, when did humans make the hangout spot a graveyard?

    • @peachyskeleton7484
      @peachyskeleton7484 3 роки тому +23

      @@whiteboah5820 read a history book or just look up the origins of graveyards people would have full on family gatherings with meals to celebrate life and they wanted the dead family members to be apart of it they were all happy eating no sadness stuff like that is still very normal in many cultures today

    • @whiteboah5820
      @whiteboah5820 3 роки тому +2

      @@peachyskeleton7484 I see

  • @cuurlybangs
    @cuurlybangs 2 роки тому +100

    I love this. Gravestones are for the living, not the dead. It's nice for anyone to visit and read them. The tapping sounds were great.

  • @Jellobello72727
    @Jellobello72727 3 роки тому +91

    “If you’re offended that’s a little cringey”
    Bro the respect I gained for you fr fr

  • @rideremii
    @rideremii 3 роки тому +131

    This was so relaxing! I don’t know how anyone could find this offensive he’s not causing any damage or speaking disrespectfully about them

    • @acookie9388
      @acookie9388 3 роки тому +8

      I mean he’s still disrespecting the graves. But I’m not gonna lie it’s pretty relaxing lmao so I’m kinda on the fence about it

    • @darcieking4307
      @darcieking4307 3 роки тому +55

      @@acookie9388 how is he disrespecting them? brushing off the moss, speaking life into their names? it’s seriously not that deep

    • @jimothy2361
      @jimothy2361 3 роки тому +5

      @@darcieking4307 him continuing to do his “dumb on purpose” schtick even in the graveyard can come off as disrespectful

    • @johnnystanley8513
      @johnnystanley8513 2 роки тому +1

      @@darcieking4307 doesn't matter still dissipactful

    • @kyo_xoxo
      @kyo_xoxo Рік тому +5

      ​@@johnnystanley8513dissipactful ☠️

  • @meaganhenry9506
    @meaganhenry9506 3 роки тому +51

    For real though, I like to believe the souls that passed who are being loved on and recognized by dean feel some sort of comfort and appreciation from him. I don’t find this is disrespectful at all honestly. He’s in an area that is clearly not too fragile to where he could cause damage,
    nor are they given a lot of attention. He’s also tidying up some of the ones that are hard to read and even mentions possibly cleaning them and taking care of them in the future, as well as mentioning their name and paying respects to them as if they had recently passed. It seems much more comforting and appreciative than disrespectful.

  • @yup8166
    @yup8166 3 роки тому +29

    First part was my absolute favorite video I would watch it on repeat. When I was stressed with work, school LITERALLY ANYTHING. I’m so excited you made another one

  • @catladykelly
    @catladykelly 3 роки тому +101

    Seriously nothing hits different than your outside asmr

  • @oliviab992
    @oliviab992 3 роки тому +230

    Would love to see a gravestone cleaning vid but make sure to check the rules of your local area because some times you need permission to clean them 🥰

    • @dropdead4366
      @dropdead4366 3 роки тому +8

      Do you really think he's going to clean them

    • @inkyio
      @inkyio 3 роки тому +44

      @@dropdead4366 he literally said he could do a vid like that

    • @Hi-ez4uy
      @Hi-ez4uy 3 дні тому

      @@inkyioand two seconds later he said he doesn’t like cleaning 😂

  • @chizuurfav
    @chizuurfav 8 місяців тому +17

    WHY DOES HE KINDA LOOK LIKE JAMES CHARLES

  • @anesiaandrews214
    @anesiaandrews214 3 роки тому +281

    I was so surprised when he said he got a lot of hate for the first one because I really enjoyed the first😗

    • @Doryplory
      @Doryplory 3 роки тому +53

      Me too. And I didn't think he was being disrespectful at all.

    • @Ljenn_86
      @Ljenn_86 3 роки тому +25

      Yeah I know, southern ASMR sounds did a grave walk though before and she got a huge amount of hate for being “Disrespectful”. Honestly 🙈

    • @kxtulapsi
      @kxtulapsi 3 роки тому +20

      @@Ljenn_86 Apparently walking in a graveyard is disrespectful 💀💀seriously tho

  • @sunsetcityasmr4850
    @sunsetcityasmr4850 3 роки тому +33

    I love how Dean was trying to fix it, he’s got a kind warm heart ❤️

  • @StephS503
    @StephS503 3 роки тому +325

    I cannot believe that Baird gravestone literally says “his wife” to describe Martha. Wow.

    • @reef6826
      @reef6826 3 роки тому +51

      That’s all women were in those days lol.

    • @godlyishere9381
      @godlyishere9381 3 роки тому +3

      @@reef6826 still are

    • @celaenasardothien1845
      @celaenasardothien1845 3 роки тому +20

      @@godlyishere9381 ur gone off

    • @BP_on_ice
      @BP_on_ice 3 роки тому +21

      @@godlyishere9381 nah

    • @Christine_x
      @Christine_x 3 роки тому +3

      I’m confused why is that bad ☹️ someone explain pls

  • @Skaliex
    @Skaliex 3 роки тому +100

    Being French Canadian, I can confirm that Barrows isn’t a French name. Good video by the way. Loved it!

  • @playboibcrazy3290
    @playboibcrazy3290 3 роки тому +42

    0:34 “If ur offended, that’s a little cringey” 😭😭

  • @sentsysmellsgood8684
    @sentsysmellsgood8684 3 роки тому +15

    Thank you so much for caring enough to go out and highlight the people who have passed ❤️✨ it would sound so amazing if you went out and cleaned them ! Thanks !

  • @seracee12
    @seracee12 2 роки тому +24

    Tapping on gravestones just hit different 🤌🏻 the sounds I absolutely love. You’re being respectful too. Great video, we need a pt3 asap!

  • @naiamenikki7811
    @naiamenikki7811 3 роки тому +89

    The hate was from small minded people who are stuck at home and don't have anything better to do. Don't take their negativity to heart, Trevor!
    Its great that the people who passed away so long ago, likely forgotten or nearly forgotten, are getting another moment to be remembered and known.
    Another great video! ❤

    • @deanasmr
      @deanasmr  3 роки тому +21

      Thank you love

    • @maggiec5984
      @maggiec5984 3 роки тому +7

      that’s a beautiful way of thinking!! they’re being remembered and respected once more :)

    • @naiamenikki7811
      @naiamenikki7811 3 роки тому

      @@deanasmr No problemo. It had to be said!

    • @naiamenikki7811
      @naiamenikki7811 3 роки тому +2

      @@maggiec5984 Exactly! Its a moment for the lost to be found, even if its just for a little while

  • @magdalenavictoria5700
    @magdalenavictoria5700 3 роки тому +18

    I was obsessed with the first graveyard asmr video and omg there’s finally a second part!

    • @tokyotalk8259
      @tokyotalk8259 3 роки тому +1

      How are you obsessed with someone walking on graves?

    • @magdalenavictoria5700
      @magdalenavictoria5700 3 роки тому +7

      @@tokyotalk8259 He isn’t “walking on graves”, he is walking by gravestones. Also the graves are from the 1800s and not new ones still visited by grieving family members

    • @tokyotalk8259
      @tokyotalk8259 3 роки тому +1

      @@magdalenavictoria5700 it doesn't matter how old they are it's just plain wrong

    • @cassyzinkartandwallart7736
      @cassyzinkartandwallart7736 2 роки тому +3

      @@tokyotalk8259 Karen please 🤬🤬

  • @-mads55
    @-mads55 3 роки тому +12

    The fact that he was not only willing to come and GLUE IT BACL TOGETHER but also CLEAN THEM is not disrespectful

  • @jesskathleen5591
    @jesskathleen5591 3 роки тому +22

    I enjoyed the sounds of you cleaning the moss off the gravestones. That could be another video suggestion for the future!

  • @LuvBugBlaqkHart
    @LuvBugBlaqkHart 3 роки тому +124

    My friend shared this with me because she knows I find graveyards peaceful and that I love ASMR but I was so confused because I thought you were James Charles for a second 😂 I love the videos you did in the graveyard, would you be able to do more (when it's warmer obviously lol)?

  • @3ndl3ss_ducks
    @3ndl3ss_ducks Рік тому +11

    "Maybe I can do a video cleaning the gravestones actually I don't really like cleaning 😐" GOT ME DYING 💀💀💀

  • @hellfaretv150
    @hellfaretv150 3 місяці тому +2

    This brings back a memory of when i was a freshman high schooler. I would walk my friend to her house every day, and we would always walk past an abandoned graveyard. One day i convinced her to accompany me to this graveyard to see those who were here before us. We walked past a lot of headstones til one of them caught our eye. And the one who was buried there was only a 10 year old boy. Born in 1934-1944. Assuming the parents put the stone that said. " i love you my baby boy". And it seemed like some notes were left but were no longer legible along with some toys and a book that has withered away. We stood there for 5 minutes and couldnt help but say a prayer. It felt really weird, because its almost as i could feel a presence. Although it wasnt uneasy but more of a sense of calm and peaceful yet disheartening at the same time. I could feel that he was well loved and missed. I felt really emotional while at his grave. I cant explain it . I felt like crying yet really at peace at the same time. Its been 10 years since then and i still cant describe the feeling. To this day that graveyard is still abandoned in the middle of a heavily wooded area in the back of a recreational facility.

  • @SunflowerBeauty1313
    @SunflowerBeauty1313 2 роки тому +27

    I can see how this could trigger someone but I’m confused why people are so so offended, there are kids who go out an vandalize graveyards, do drugs and be completely disrespectful all the time but no one says a thing about that? Dean is being respectful he even mentioned about cleaning them and wanting to fix them ! I do think it’s a bit strange but the tingles are amazing! He made both videos very respectfully! I loved him reading the headstones and giving light to the one who passed! There are no flowers or anything so you can tell these are people who have been forgotten! I enjoyed these videos! ❤️

  • @jacquarius
    @jacquarius Рік тому +8

    this is so wholesome to watch

  • @Jake-db5xi
    @Jake-db5xi 3 роки тому +46

    1:44 this is actually an urn not a menorah! An urn and a willow were very common on tombstones from the 1800s as they represented death and mourning.

  • @betty-tj3eo
    @betty-tj3eo Рік тому +13

    It's nice of you to say goodbye to them ):

  • @pancakeofdestiny
    @pancakeofdestiny 3 роки тому +48

    I love this concept. Don't let the haters get you down.

    • @lovely_asmr_18
      @lovely_asmr_18 Рік тому +2

      Imagine someone tapping on you’re fathers grave stone

    • @privadovenus
      @privadovenus 3 місяці тому

      ​@@lovely_asmr_18 completely normal to me! it's not being broken, vandalized, or made fun of.

  • @vanesaniko6113
    @vanesaniko6113 3 роки тому +22

    ASMR in the Graveyard part 3 when it gets warmer 😊

  • @Grays44
    @Grays44 2 роки тому +7

    Dying really scares me because when people die, no one remembers them and others move on So some people commit suicide just because of the psychological damage someone has inflicted on them, but when these people die, that person easily forgets the person they shattered with their words it's always sad to know that the world isn't a good place and also this asmr video was excellent i love the triggers

    • @JV-bj4kx
      @JV-bj4kx 2 роки тому

      If you fear getting forgotten after your death, come eat the mona lisa with me

  • @xurlegacy
    @xurlegacy 3 роки тому +36

    I don't think this is disrespectful at all.. he i just remembering those, who are long forgotten.. it's kind of beautiful.

  • @hillsturrr
    @hillsturrr 3 роки тому +7

    It’s probably been so long since breath has been given to those names. It’s nice to speak the names and give them life. They say you are not truly passed until your name has been said it’s last and final time.

  • @EKDWally
    @EKDWally Рік тому +8

    if you didn't know the little grave stones are more than likely babies or small children so please treat them with the most care you can give my hearts goes out to those poor souls it was to early for them

    • @meeepmeeeep
      @meeepmeeeep Рік тому +4

      That's false, smaller gravestones are more likely then not meant for people who couldnt afford larger ones
      While the gravestone that said baby was very likely to be an actual child due to the fact most people were unable to afford to engrave a stone with the deceased persons name so instead would write things like "father" or "mother"

  • @-mads55
    @-mads55 3 роки тому +14

    This is his own way of respecting them. He is reading about them and cleaning them a bit. Not disrespectful at all!

  • @gilmoregals
    @gilmoregals 3 роки тому +70

    “Too bad I don’t have any super glue i could of glued it back together.” -Icon

  • @dirtroadfarm.4024
    @dirtroadfarm.4024 3 роки тому +7

    Yay. Part 1 is one of my favorites. I dont think its disrespectful at all. And honestly I think its nice for the old gravestones to be recognized.

  • @justbedohavit
    @justbedohavit 3 роки тому +17

    Thank you for the tour 😊 I feel like cemetery tours celebrate those forgotten lives, and remind us to be grateful for the life we still have... ;)

  • @dxiisy7287
    @dxiisy7287 3 роки тому +17

    The broken piece that fell off at 6:35 is so tingly! And yes, please make a video on cleaning gravestones lol, but I understand if you don’t want to.

  • @Keybumpz
    @Keybumpz 3 роки тому +122

    LOL I don't understand why people got so upset last time. That video is iconic 👏

  • @dawnbishop6153
    @dawnbishop6153 3 роки тому +21

    "I HATE daylight savings time.............. JoE BiReN"-Dean

  • @normalpeoplewhoexist7578
    @normalpeoplewhoexist7578 Рік тому +13

    People : THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE ! 👹
    Me,a goth :💤💤💤

    • @Jimbo_502
      @Jimbo_502 Рік тому +3

      Well I doubt he did it on bad intentions but it is still not right I just don't want his youtube carer to end on a bad note cuz people will catch on this eventually

  • @weightsinfish
    @weightsinfish 3 роки тому +14

    Please continue this! You’re not being disrespectful at all. 🙂 These are very old graves & im sure the spirits were just happy to have such an amazing visitor!

  • @AshesAether
    @AshesAether 3 роки тому +45

    The people offended are so freaking dramatic it’s unreal 🤣
    This video is relaxing and he did nothing disrespectful. The dead peeps don’t care.

    • @Goldilocks_4.0
      @Goldilocks_4.0 3 роки тому +12

      Keep that same attitude when you get offended about something. Idc what anybody says but it's disrespectful to screw around on people's graves

    • @randomtitanium
      @randomtitanium 3 роки тому +13

      @@Goldilocks_4.0 what the fuck is he messing with on it. It's disrespectful to just dig up the grave or mess with the dead bodies not graves. Edit: depends on what you're doing with the grave if it's disrespectful

    • @xwifter_
      @xwifter_ 3 роки тому +12

      Not offended but still pretty messed up concept to go to a graveyard, making assumptions of dead people stepping over their grave and tapping their tombstone everything while recording and holding a mic to generate money out of it. I'm not offended but he still shouldn't do that, imagine there was a veteran from ww2 or sum and this kid just goes up to it and start squatting over the grave while tapping the tombstone

    • @Abbygator23
      @Abbygator23 3 роки тому +21

      @@xwifter_ honestly wouldn’t care at all even if was my own grandfather or myself. I don’t find it disrespectful those people are dead they don’t have feelings anymore and he’s not spitting on it or anything. Probably the most attention those graves have had in a minute. I respect your opinion on the matter though.

    • @Goldilocks_4.0
      @Goldilocks_4.0 3 роки тому

      @help_urself yes it is

  • @yungbrazy420
    @yungbrazy420 Рік тому +7

    Gravestone cleaning would be nice. I'm sure the spirits of the souls who are resting would appreciate it. But make sure you ask around to clean them first so you don't get into trouble

    • @d0ll.f3tish
      @d0ll.f3tish Рік тому +2

      who would he ask 😭

    • @darcieking4307
      @darcieking4307 Рік тому +1

      @@d0ll.f3tishyou realise graveyards are managed by people/churches or often local government right…. how do u think the graves get there lmao

  • @calypso5846
    @calypso5846 Рік тому +12

    My advice would be to not step on the graves!
    Besides that, found nothing disrespectful with the video

  • @gracecaroline4839
    @gracecaroline4839 3 роки тому +22

    “Cause like If you’re offended then that’s like cringy” I am a screaming. ICONIC.

  • @reapsow3003
    @reapsow3003 3 роки тому +31

    Oh wow that tree grave stone is so cool! I’ve never seen a stone like that

  • @Euphoria_666
    @Euphoria_666 3 роки тому +8

    I really like this! This is some good outside ASMR! And for some reason I felt that the vibes in the graveyard are calm. And you were very gentle with the gravestones, love it ❤️

  • @tatetalissneako7864
    @tatetalissneako7864 3 роки тому +34

    It’s weird to think that all of us one day will be there maybe not the same but place but we all end up in a grave

    • @Meh-uu8so
      @Meh-uu8so 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah... Thats life, a depressing sheet (Sheet is for not writing another thing you know, not literally a sheet).

    • @brianstabile165
      @brianstabile165 2 роки тому +1

      Not cremated or composted humans

  • @i_am_bored6728
    @i_am_bored6728 3 роки тому +51

    The highway gives the grave yard a ghostly howl that is kinda creepy, and I would NOT ever want to be on those kind of grave yards and for some reason, to me graveyards in fall and December are creepy because the trees look dead I hear every crunch of every leaf from every squirrel and graveyards just creep me out in general but this is an ancient one from the 1800s. Great asmr, though I don’t know how u were able to do the asmr in a graveyard but u did.

    • @yungsilvia2507
      @yungsilvia2507 3 роки тому +5

      I think the highway ambience relaxes me a bit, having just plain silence would be terrifying

    • @mollyirene8979
      @mollyirene8979 3 роки тому +3

      i live across from a graveyard and it’s honestly really peaceful-it’s just nice to look out on a green space and not other houses! also, if you think graveyards from the 1800s are old, a lot of the ones near where i live now in massachusetts and where i grew up in maine are from the 1600s and contain the graves of original settlers. 💀

    • @noraevitaa
      @noraevitaa 3 роки тому +3

      I have a church close to my house and it's from the early 1100 s.

    • @queerbotanicalqueen
      @queerbotanicalqueen Рік тому

      @@noraevitaathat’s so cool!

  • @Bakedgirl420
    @Bakedgirl420 11 місяців тому +10

    LMAOO “if your offended that’s a lil cringy” REALLLL😭😭😭

  • @Crusaf1xx
    @Crusaf1xx 2 місяці тому +2

    For the people who disagree saying “Be a respectful individual or responsible or saying it’s outright offensive” What he’s doing isn’t even bad at all. The only thing that’d be disrespectful is if he were to hurt or damage the grave itself but matter of fact he is shining new lights to old gravestones that have been forgotten and maybe you’re insecure that you might be forgotten one day.

  • @paigekaufman5835
    @paigekaufman5835 3 роки тому +7

    IM SO HAPPY YOU POSTED THIS!! Part 1 is my favorite video of yours!!!

  • @teddy2271
    @teddy2271 3 роки тому +9

    In my country, public cemetery graves were piled up on each other, it looks like a grave apartment. And if no one visits the grave, they open it up and place the newly dead ones there.

    • @anykaamade
      @anykaamade 3 роки тому

      The same happens in my county it’s sad honestly;

  • @drummond5429
    @drummond5429 3 роки тому +20

    Actually its very respectful.
    Most people haven't had their names read in a long time.

    • @gyrotwist6335
      @gyrotwist6335 3 роки тому +10

      Ah yes very respectful, person speaking into a mic tapping on graves and making assumptions about dead people. Very respectful indeed.

    • @xwifter_
      @xwifter_ 3 роки тому

      @@gyrotwist6335 Agreed

    • @boofa1993
      @boofa1993 3 роки тому

      Respectful? You kid's are absolutely spastics! 🤦‍♂️🤮

    • @phub4386
      @phub4386 3 роки тому +3

      @@boofa1993 Love how you are talking about disrespect whilst using disabled people as an insult 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @Autumn4r
      @Autumn4r 2 роки тому +1

      @@gyrotwist6335 he’s not being disrespectful, maybe he was just curious how the grave stones feel and he was cleaning them a bit. And it’s good for a grave stone to be recognized a bit. If ur offended then exit out of the video, he was just feeling the grave stones and reading. He didn’t mean to intentionally offend people.

  • @polarisssss1035
    @polarisssss1035 2 роки тому +5

    It’s kinda interesting for me seeing these names on graves and in fact they did really exist and alive even though we can never meet them

  • @gia-abcd
    @gia-abcd 3 роки тому +5

    Tbh I can understand why it would be a bit iffy if this were a modern day grave yard as many of the deaths would be recent. But this grave site clearly hasn’t been visited in many many years. It’s kind of a nice way to remember those who have been forgotten

  • @Drakeeee-iu5cm
    @Drakeeee-iu5cm 2 місяці тому +2

    chat if i was dead for 20 years and i was forgotten and some random zesty dude started doing asmr on my tombstone, that would be awesome asf 😍

  • @BunnieGuttzArt
    @BunnieGuttzArt Рік тому +12

    Edit: forgot to mention he made a racist comment on jojo asmr’s tiktok but deleted it bc he doesn’t wanna ruin his asmr career 🥺
    None of you understand how disrespectful this is and it shows. Just because he claims it “isn’t disrespectful” referring to them as “ghosts”? Like are you all genuinely that dumb to say he’s being nice and showing off the graves of probably forgotten people? Walking on their graves as if no one is buried there? I don’t understand how you all defend his actions but CLEARLY no one is seeing how disrespectful this is.

  • @Cryystal_
    @Cryystal_ Рік тому +7

    imagine dying and chilling as a ghost and a twink pulls up and starts tapping ur gravestone for asmr

    • @SanchiraVanity
      @SanchiraVanity Рік тому

      I'd end up going all the grudge on his butt, wanna stand on me and tap on my gravestone we got problems.

    • @Orestes-e7o
      @Orestes-e7o Рік тому +4

      Bro. No spirit is there anymore. It’s just a skeleton. The person isn’t there. You can’t disrespect a person who isn’t there.

    • @fazeverdansk9276
      @fazeverdansk9276 11 місяців тому

      @@Orestes-e7o "It's just a skeleton" So i get first dibs on doing fortnite emotes on ur grave?

  • @Raina.Mckenzie7
    @Raina.Mckenzie7 6 місяців тому +8

    When I die I want my gravestone to be shaped like a sandcastle

  • @tessahwa
    @tessahwa 3 роки тому +6

    I usually clean with my family my grandfather's and my great-aunt's graves. It's saddening how many graves are left unattended, so next time I visit my deceased loved ones I'm thinking of cleaning them.

  • @reapsow3003
    @reapsow3003 3 роки тому +17

    CLICKED SO FAST I loved the first one. I’m so glad you made a second 😁

  • @Wilbur_sootscat
    @Wilbur_sootscat 6 місяців тому +10

    nah i would be honoured if someoen tapped my gravestone and made a video:3

  • @sosseserpenti
    @sosseserpenti 3 роки тому +44

    When youtube disabling dislikes is actually working for you

  • @kiv6649
    @kiv6649 2 роки тому +3

    omg i never thought you would do a collab with my mum and my grandma!

  • @sanaw1801
    @sanaw1801 2 роки тому +5

    Keep coming back to graveyard vids they’re your best ones

  • @destinywhite3777
    @destinywhite3777 3 роки тому +6

    Love these! I kept rewatching parts where you were cleaning moss off of the stones... so relaxing. I’d LOVE to see another one (with maybe some cleaning)! ☺️

  • @josie.murden
    @josie.murden 3 роки тому +3

    Bringing people who have passed names known yess love that

  • @ambrose908
    @ambrose908 3 роки тому +2

    you dont know how long ive been waiting for a part two yayy

  • @saweezy2796
    @saweezy2796 3 роки тому +4

    i loveee looking at all the older dates and headstones when i am at cemeteries

  • @justsomeberd7407
    @justsomeberd7407 3 роки тому +28

    So I saw a gravestone that had a iPod with it and I was wondering why did it have a iPod next to it but apparently the person who had died loved and cherished their iPod they used it all the time they loved it and apparently the last song the iPod had play was “I will survive” which holy lord I’m fighting for my spot in heaven but I resisted the urge to bust out laughing 🤣

  • @eliroberts6940
    @eliroberts6940 3 роки тому +21

    i love your videos dean :) they bring me so much happiness

  • @eliroberts6940
    @eliroberts6940 3 роки тому +23

    day 4 of asking for asmr in the laundry mat

  • @mina-nanana
    @mina-nanana 2 роки тому +5

    omg a part 2 exists AND I DIDNT KNOW??

    • @mina-nanana
      @mina-nanana 2 роки тому +1

      just noticed i’ve been subscribed to your channel for.. like 3 years now. i feel like such a fake fan LMFAOOO

  • @yaritzaaavb
    @yaritzaaavb 2 роки тому +2

    Personally if I was dead I would love to have someone do this I would be relaxing even when I’m dead

  • @hehe-ep2ek
    @hehe-ep2ek 3 роки тому +3

    ASMR In The graveyard 1 was the only asmr vid I would watch over a million times

  • @Moni-b9s
    @Moni-b9s 5 місяців тому +3

    Honestly I love it.

  • @yeoolennyy
    @yeoolennyy 2 роки тому +3

    Gravestones cost alot of money to buy, and for alot of money they acually sound really good!