Lessons in Couples Communication (Part 2)

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  • @elnmaze
    @elnmaze 7 місяців тому +6

    I agree with this. As a person who is also in a relationship, I know how important communication is in a relationship. The "give and take" is always important. When your partner talks, you listen; when you talk, your partner listens.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 6 місяців тому +1

      Great point! "Give and take" is essential in a healthy couples relationship. As well as active listening which is a crucial aspect of it. That's why I believe that effective communication is a "two way street," thats when both partners feel heard and understood.

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 5 місяців тому +1

      @@ricardofrancis5814 I’ve seen this in relationships where active listening transformed communication. A couple I know greatly improved their relationship by focusing on truly listening to each other rather than just responding. This shift allowed them to understand each other better and strengthen their connection.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Fidel-b6tI guess we all can agree that active listening is a powerful tool for building stronger lasting relationships, especially for couples.

    • @HoraceWebber
      @HoraceWebber 5 місяців тому

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    • @generomaguera
      @generomaguera 4 місяці тому +1

      Exactly! That "give and take" is what keeps a relationship healthy. It’s all about listening, understanding, and supporting each other’s growth.

  • @SaraAndreaSayon
    @SaraAndreaSayon Місяць тому +1

    Financial problems frequently serve as the basis for significant disputes in relationships, yet it is the failure in communication that intensifies these issues into major conflicts. Effective and targeted communication is essential for addressing financial matters. When partners begin to deflect or divert the conversation, the initial issue becomes obscured and remains unresolved. Eye-opening podcast!

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 13 днів тому

      True! Financial stress can be overwhelming, but it's often the lack of communication that escalates tension. Encouraging open communication can help to prevent conflicts and build stronger relationships.

  • @generomaguera
    @generomaguera 9 місяців тому +5

    It’s great to see that Denise Hart and Michael Hart are offering such practical tools like role plays, which can really help couples understand and practice the skills in real-time. The ability to diffuse conflicts effectively is crucial in maintaining a healthy relationship dynamic. I'm looking forward to gaining new insights and applying these proven strategies in my own relationships.

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 9 місяців тому +1

      Denise and Michael rock! How do you plan to use their role-playing tips to handle conflicts and strengthen your relationships?

    • @generomaguera
      @generomaguera 8 місяців тому

      @@romnickmepico4882 Using their role-playing tips to handle conflicts sounds like a fantastic idea. I plan to try it out by setting aside time with my partner to practice different scenarios. This could help us communicate more effectively and strengthen our relationship by fostering empathy and understanding.

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 7 місяців тому +2

      Man, Denise Hart and Michael Hart are really bringing the heat with those practical tools like role plays! Being able to handle conflicts like a boss is essential for keeping things smooth in any relationship.I also Can't wait to learn some new tricks and put them to the test in my own love life!

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 7 місяців тому

      @@Fidel-b6tMastering conflict skills is crucial for smooth relationships. Let's keep spreading that positivity and encouragement!

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 6 місяців тому +2

      I have a curious question? Is it fair to expect your partner to change for you, or should you accept them as they are?

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому +1

    Financial issues are often the root of major conflicts in relationships, but it's the breakdown in communication that escalates these problems into big fights.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 2 місяці тому

      Financial issues can be a significant stress on relationships, but poor communication is often the spark that ignites major conflicts. Discussing openly and honestly about these concerns allows couples to work together and find solutions to strengthen their relationship.

  • @biancalove6883
    @biancalove6883 8 місяців тому +3

    This episode is amazing, comprehensive and very engaging. The lessons are real, relevant and so well articulated! I always appreciate Michael Hart helping me with higher learning.

    • @generomaguera
      @generomaguera 6 місяців тому +1

      It’s great to hear how much you value his contributions to your learning.

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 5 місяців тому +1

      I agree, Michael Hart’s ability to break down intricate topics has often made complex subjects more understandable for many listeners. His engaging style keeps you hooked while delivering valuable lessons that resonate deeply. This makes his episodes both educational and enjoyable.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 4 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely! This podcast has the potential to be a game changer, solving many problems in couples conflicts.

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 4 місяці тому +1

      @@ricardofrancis5814 For sure, a podcast like this can offer fresh perspectives and practical tools for handling conflicts. Hearing real stories and expert advice can be a game changer for many couples. It’s like therapy on-the-go!

  • @P11B11
    @P11B11 8 місяців тому +2

    Fantastic teaching on good communication. This video is a HUGE encouragement. I feel tremendously blessed to be influenced by Michael Hart's Biblically based teachings!

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 7 місяців тому

      Right on! This lesson on communication is top-notch. It's seriously uplifting. I'm feeling super grateful for the solid guidance from Michael Hart's teachings rooted in the Bible!

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 4 місяці тому

      The lessons learned are truly impactful!

  • @CesarJohnServant
    @CesarJohnServant Місяць тому

    ACTIVE LISTENING is about truly tuning into your partner, not just the words but their emotions and body language. It’s the difference between hearing and truly understanding. This deeper connection builds trust and strengthens communication in any relationship. This video is ❤‍🔥💯

  • @ElimCounsellingServices
    @ElimCounsellingServices  9 місяців тому +5

    Some of you have been asking for part 2 of the Lessons in Communication series; well here it is! Hope you enjoy and learn from the role play examples in this episode.

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 9 місяців тому

      Part 2 is awesome! Role-playing examples are super helpful. Big thanks for this podcast-it's really helping me improve my communication skills!

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 8 місяців тому +1

      Love it! Another facet of wisdom in here! Thanks Dr. Hart

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 8 місяців тому

      @@Fidel-b6t True. I can also relate😇😇

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 4 місяці тому

      This podcast was worth it, I'm thrilled I invested my time listening. The knowledge shared made it really worth my time.

    • @generomaguera
      @generomaguera 3 місяці тому

      The role play examples really add a practical element that makes the communication tips easy to relate to and apply. Can't wait to dive in and pick up more insights from this series!

  • @ricardofrancis5814
    @ricardofrancis5814 9 місяців тому +3

    A wonderful episode and role play illustration by: Michael and Denise Hart, on 'Lessons in Couples Communication Pt.2'. This is an excellent resource for helping couples overcome the most challenging aspects in their marriages.

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 9 місяців тому +1

      Totally agree, Michael and Denise are on point! How can we use their advice to tackle tough spots and make our relationships even stronger?

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 6 місяців тому

      ​I believe that applying these lessons in couples communication illustrated by Michael and Denise Hart, we significantly improve our relationship by engaging more in open communication, strengthening our bond to build a more fulfilling connection with our partner.

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 6 місяців тому +1

      @@ricardofrancis5814I agree.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 6 місяців тому

      I have a tough question for you? Do you think iIs ever ok to lie to your partner, if it's to protect their feelings?​@@romnickmepico4882

  • @dorianbrown9944
    @dorianbrown9944 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for All the information

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 4 місяці тому

      This podcast exceeded my expectations, and was definitely worth listening to.

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    Clear and focused communication is key in resolving financial issues. If partners start deflecting or shifting the topic, the original problem gets buried and unresolved."

  • @DaniloLlego
    @DaniloLlego 3 місяці тому +1

    Strong communication definitely makes or breaks a relationship. But what happens when one person is better at it than the other? Do you think it’s fair to expect both partners to always be on the same level when it comes to expressing themselves?

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 2 місяці тому

      That's a good question! People have different communication styles, I think what's important is that both partners are willing to learn and grow and meet each other half way, even if one partner is more articulate or expressive, the other can still contribute in their own way.

    • @DaniloLlego
      @DaniloLlego 2 місяці тому +1

      @@ricardofrancis5814 I agree, and I’d add that it’s also about recognizing that different styles don’t mean incompatibility-they can complement each other. One partner’s expressive nature might encourage the other to open up more, while the less articulate one might bring steadiness and quiet support. Growth happens when both partners value what the other brings to the table.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 2 місяці тому

      So true! Different styles can compliment each other beautifully. Thank you for sharing your insight on this.​@@DaniloLlego

    • @DaniloLlego
      @DaniloLlego Місяць тому

      @@ricardofrancis5814 I completely agree, and it’s true that complementary styles can bring out the best in a relationship. But for this to work, both partners need to be willing to adapt and meet each other halfway. Mutual respect and effort make those differences a source of growth rather than frustration.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 Місяць тому

      I'm always reminded by this famous quote: "A great marriage isn't about finding the perfect match; it's about two imperfect people learning to enjoy their differences and building a strong partnership through teamwork."

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    When financial stress arises, it's crucial to approach the conversation with empathy and patience rather than defensiveness, to prevent a simple discussion from turning into a major conflict."

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    Effective communication involves staying on topic and addressing one issue at a time, especially when it comes to sensitive subjects like finances

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    Healthy communication involves acknowledging the other person's feelings and concerns, rather than deflecting or bringing up past issues that only fuel the fire.

  • @SharonBrown-o8z
    @SharonBrown-o8z 3 місяці тому +1

    What about when a partner been disloyal cheating . The relationship is long distant and lack communication.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 3 місяці тому

      Disloyalty in a relationship is painful, especially with distance and poor communication. Prioritize self-care, process one's own emotions with the consideration of seeking professional guidance. Remember healing is possible, and loyalty is ultimately rewarded.

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    The first sign of communication breakdown is when partners start deflecting the conversation instead of addressing the issue at hand, which only leads to further misunderstandings

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    Resolving financial disputes requires both partners to stay focused on finding a solution rather than blaming each other for past mistakes."

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    Bringing up unrelated issues during a fight is a defense mechanism that only deepens the divide between partners, making it harder to resolve the original problem.

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    t's easy for communication to spiral out of control during a heated argument, especially when emotions are high, but staying on topic can prevent further damage.

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    Financial issues can be particularly challenging, but if couples learn to communicate with respect and understanding, they can prevent these problems from causing long-term damage.

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    Big fights often happen because one partner feels unheard or invalidated, leading them to bring up past grievances instead of addressing the current issue.

  • @desrinerichards390
    @desrinerichards390 7 місяців тому +1

    Amen thanks God bless u

    • @generomaguera
      @generomaguera 6 місяців тому

      God bless you too ! Amen, Great video

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    Successful communication in a relationship means being able to discuss difficult topics like money without letting the conversation devolve into unrelated arguments

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    The moment a conversation turns into a laundry list of complaints, the original issue gets lost, and both partners end up feeling frustrated and unheard."

  • @JulianEdwards-eg6ed
    @JulianEdwards-eg6ed 6 місяців тому +3

    Unity communicate the right way justice far all only make things better🔒🎀

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    When couples stop listening to each other and start bringing up unrelated issues during a disagreement, it’s a sign that communication has already started to fail

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 місяців тому

    Couples often find themselves in endless cycles of arguments when they fail to communicate openly about their financial expectations and concerns.

  • @DisturbedCutely
    @DisturbedCutely 6 місяців тому +1

    Wow.

  • @Fidel-b6t
    @Fidel-b6t 8 місяців тому +11

    Why does it is hard for me to always have an open ear to my partner? I think all women have this challenge of trying to stop their mouth, though 😜😄

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 8 місяців тому +6

      Juggling talking and listening ain't easy. But recognizing this helps us vibe better and deepen connections, you know? We're all learning together in this journey.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 8 місяців тому +1

      Let's be realistic here! No one said this would be easy. Remember, relationships involve growth and compromise. By addressing issues and working together, you can strengthen your relationship and create a more harmonious living environment.

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 8 місяців тому +1

      @@romnickmepico4882 Absolutely, you're so right! It's a real balancing act, but being aware of the importance of both talking and listening can definitely help us vibe better and strengthen those connections. We're all on this journey of learning and growing together, and it's cool to know we're not alone in navigating it!

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 8 місяців тому

      It's about finding the right mix of chatting and listening to keep those bonds real. We're all in this together, so having each other's backs is what it's all about. Keep the good vibes flowing!

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 8 місяців тому +1

      @@romnickmepico4882 Another perspective is to prioritize empathy and understanding during conversations, ensuring that everyone feels heard and valued. By fostering a supportive environment where individuals can express themselves freely, we strengthen our bonds and create a sense of unity and belonging. Thus, its a challenge accepted for me hahaha

  • @JulianEdwards-eg6ed
    @JulianEdwards-eg6ed 6 місяців тому

    Better mental health believe in God and eat well. ? A woman. Guarantee her self as the winner but think about it, not a proper mindset 🔴⭐️. 👍🏿🇯🇲

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 5 місяців тому

      hi Julian I did not understand your point. What are you trying to speak?