Make So Much Money You Question It! - Get Ahead Of 99% Of People & Win At Anything | Alex Hormozi

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  • Transform Your Life in 90 Days: Take The Impact 90 Challenge bit.ly/47kCfrZ
    Join me for this power-packed episode of Impact Theory with revolutionary entrepreneur Alex Hormozi. Today’s episode is for the person who’s looking for the ultimate traits for success and how to harness them for your benefit.
    Alex has proven that he embodies the 3 traits of the ultra-successful: a superiority complex, crippling insecurity, and impulse control. As he points out, it’s not enough to just have these traits to be successful. We delve into these paradoxical attributes and discuss how they can fuel your ambitions.
    Alex shares why his mantra - "What amount of action would it be unreasonable for me not to be successful?" has led to $100 million success. He challenges the notion of being "too busy" and offers actionable advice on overcoming this obstacle. If you're just starting out or aiming for six or seven figures, this conversation is a goldmine of insights.
    With Alex's Rule of 100, we'll guide you on how to reward and punish yourself to start achieving goals big and small. We also explore how to filter large data sets for higher business results - a skill Alex mastered while building his multimillion-dollar empire.
    Get ready to question your core beliefs, stop wasting time, and build a winning identity. Subscribe now and let's embark on this journey together. Let's not just aim for bigger; let's strive for better.
    Chapter Markers:
    [00:00] Intro to 3 Traits of the Ultra Successful
    [14:00] Sell Your Way to Success
    [25:37] Question Your Core Beliefs
    [37:02] Stop Wasting Time (Card)
    [1:09:41] If You’re Broke Do This
    [1:30:06] How to Achieve Any Goal
    [1:49:42] Build A Winning Identity
    [2:05:20] The Physics of Business
    Money Making Quotes from Alex Hormozi:
    “If you can wait a year, you can make a ton of money, [..] if you can wait a decade, you’re going to be above the 1%, [...] and if you can wait a lifetime and you don’t even need to see the result of your doing this even while you are alive, [...] then I believe you can change the world.”
    “Don’t worry about winning a championship ring, worry very much about becoming capable of a championship performance.” -Tom Bilyeu
    “Giving clarity to someone on a decision is a tremendous value.”
    “If you sell properly you can talk to an empowered person, and you have to sift through the crap they are telling themselves.”
    “It’s the beliefs that we have about our emotions that drive us mad.”
    “You solve sadness through knowledge, you solve anxiety through decisions.”
    “Experts are not more disciplined than you, they’ve just found more ways to win.”
    “Values are skills you can train.”
    “If many variables are present, many variables must be studied.”
    Follow Alex Hormozi:
    Website: www.acquisition.com/
    Twitter: / alexhormozi
    UA-cam: / alexhormozi
    Instagram: / hormozi
    Follow Me, Tom Bilyeu:
    Website: impacttheoryuniversity.com/
    Twitter: / tombilyeu
    Instagram: / tombilyeu

КОМЕНТАРІ • 333

  • @TomBilyeu
    @TomBilyeu  5 місяців тому +51

    WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

    • @Krishnamodi-2.0
      @Krishnamodi-2.0 5 місяців тому +2

      i am a boy who live in tier 4 village in india,
      there is no any good education palace for learning how to build a winning mindset? and become sucessful,
      i have done MBA from learning every single thing from you,
      thank you so much .
      @TomBileyeu

    • @JuXuS1
      @JuXuS1 5 місяців тому +6

      is this video a repost?

    • @WellnessGardenToolShed
      @WellnessGardenToolShed 5 місяців тому +1

      I love this guy!! I love how he explains why salespeople come off kringy.. which he definitely doesn't do. I'm currently reading $100M Leads and finding it very easy to understand and implement. I don't want to leave his wife out either. She definitely has a huge part in all this as well. Great interview.

    • @mathewenglish2150
      @mathewenglish2150 4 місяці тому

      Nj​@@Krishnamodi-2.0

  • @MrCodyCalhoun
    @MrCodyCalhoun 5 місяців тому +34

    Tom is like a game developer that’s knows the precise programming.
    Whereas alex just makes the walkthrough to beat the game.

  • @ajwright85
    @ajwright85 4 місяці тому +24

    "If you can do the work, and not see the results, for, maybe your whole lifetime, you can change the world." THAT gave me the chills.

    • @MarthaWilliams-qj1gv
      @MarthaWilliams-qj1gv 4 місяці тому

      I would love to present you with an incredible business proposal that's going to benefit financially if you are interested.

    • @martinboyd447
      @martinboyd447 Місяць тому

      What is THE WORK? How does one learn to choose to choose?

  • @LunaCox-fu8fi
    @LunaCox-fu8fi 4 місяці тому +28

    Well explained. Thank you for bringing up this video. Financial education is indeed required for more than 70% of the society in the country as very few are literate on the subject ..... Thanks to Mylah Evander the lady you recommended.....

    • @LunaCox-fu8fi
      @LunaCox-fu8fi 4 місяці тому +1

      That woman totally changed my life for good. I have come across individuals but none is as honest as Mylah. So surprised you know her too.

    • @LunaCox-fu8fi
      @LunaCox-fu8fi 4 місяці тому +1

      *SHE'S MOSTLY ON TELEGRAMS APPS WITH THE BELOW NAME*

    • @LunaCox-fu8fi
      @LunaCox-fu8fi 4 місяці тому +1

      *MYLAH EVAN1*

    • @LunaCox-fu8fi
      @LunaCox-fu8fi 4 місяці тому +2

      Mylah was interviewed on CNBC Television. You can use something else, for me the strategy works hence my result. She provides entry and exit points for the securities I focus on.

  • @felixstubenrauch
    @felixstubenrauch 5 місяців тому +21

    My takeaways: The Virtuous Success Cycle
    ○ Core idea #1: Action > Result
    ○ If you want to achieve a certain outcome, you need to take the right actions to move towards that outcome
    ○ No action > no results / wrong action > no results / directionally correct action > directional progress towards result
    ○ Takeaway A: So the first step has to be knowing your outcome, vision, purpose with absolute clarity
    ○ Takeaway B: The second step is to create a plan with a set of actions that move you towards your outcome
    ○ Core idea #2: Emotion > Action
    ○ Without emotion, we would not act
    ○ Emotions generate the energy / desire required to act. We act to receive pleasure or avoid pain.
    ○ But emotions can also prevent action. Fear and doubt prevent us from acting.
    ○ The more painful the action is the more energy is required to act.
    ○ The action becomes inherently less painful the better you get at it because it increases the likelihood and quality of a positive outcome. The more you do it, the better you get. Just start.
    ○ Takeaway C: Learn how to create empowering emotions.
    ○ Takeaway D: Learn to overcome fear and doubt and turn them into certainty and trust.
    ○ Takeaway E: Make actions more enjoyable and less painful (rewards, environment)
    ○ Takeaway F: Do the reps to increase your rate of learning
    ○ Core idea #3: Story > Emotion
    ○ Our emotions are a conditioned response to external stimuli based on the meaning we attribute to the stimuli
    ○ We can chose a different meaning / story to help create a more empowering emotion
    ○ We can also create external stimuli by creating cues as a reminder to tell ourselves a better story or ask an empowering question to create a desired emotion
    ○ Takeaway G: Create cues to trigger a better story > emotion > action response
    ○ Takeaway H: Take control of your inner dialogue / mindset by crafting more empowering stories / beliefs
    ○ Core idea #4: Results > Learning
    ○ When you act you create a result (see core idea #1).
    ○ The result holds a valuable learning opportunity: Did my action create the desired outcome? If not, what can I change to get a better outcome next time? If yes, how can I do it better or more in the future?
    ○ This happens at a micro and a macro level. The more repetitions you get, the more you learn.
    ○ Takeaway I: Take time to reflect and distill the learnings on a daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, annual basis
    ○ Takeaway J: Update your plan as required
    ○ Core idea # 5: Learning > Skills / Leverage / Growth
    ○ The more you learn, the better you become. Learnings turn into improved skills and leverage.
    ○ Improved skills includes telling yourself better stories, improving your strategies, and building unconcious competence
    ○ Takeaway K: Invest time in learning to improve your leverage and ultimately achieve your outcomes faster
    ○ This creates a virtuous cycle that happens at a micro-level (hourly / daily) and a macro level (weekly / monthly / etc.)
    ○ Story > Emotion > Action > Results > Learning > Growth > Story …

  • @AllenNguyen-yb5re
    @AllenNguyen-yb5re 4 місяці тому +40

    Hit 200k today. Thank you for all the knowledge and nuggets you had thrown my way over the last months. Started with 14k in last month 2024

    • @HillSharon-rf4jw
      @HillSharon-rf4jw 4 місяці тому

      Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?

    • @TaylorMoore-bv6vz
      @TaylorMoore-bv6vz 4 місяці тому

      I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

    • @AllenNguyen-yb5re
      @AllenNguyen-yb5re 4 місяці тому

      Devion Jane expertise is truly commendable.
      She has this skill of making complex crypto concepts easy to understand.

    • @AdamsDrew-uj8rj
      @AdamsDrew-uj8rj 4 місяці тому

      Woah for real? I'm so excited. Jane Devion strategy has normalised winning trades for me also. and it's a huge milestone for me looking back to how it all started

    • @HillSharon-rf4jw
      @HillSharon-rf4jw 4 місяці тому

      I'm new at this, please how can I reach her?"

  • @sheltonPston
    @sheltonPston 3 місяці тому +55

    This whole economic chaos was powered by optimism that the FED is done with hiking interest rates. But now that rate crash is the situation and times are uncertain, how would you advise I safely allocate $250k?

    • @Alejandracamacho357
      @Alejandracamacho357 3 місяці тому +1

      there are sure a few ways to hedge against inflation. Avoid rumors or hearsay, with that amount you can afford a certified financial planner strategize ways to do that.

    • @PhilipMurray251
      @PhilipMurray251 3 місяці тому +3

      Agreed, After taking charge of my portfolio in early 2017, i stumbled into losses. Upon realizing that a change was necessary, I consulted a fiduciary advisor in 2020 and since then my $1.2m portfolio has gained 28% annually through restructuring and diversification using dividend equities, ETFs, mutual funds, and REITs.

    • @corrySledd
      @corrySledd 3 місяці тому +1

      great gains there! mind sharing details of your advisor pleas? i've started gaining more cash flow with my employment and looking at putting money into stocks and alternative assets that can help build wealth over time

    • @PhilipMurray251
      @PhilipMurray251 3 місяці тому +5

      NATALIE ANN BRINKMAN is the licensed advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment

    • @corrySledd
      @corrySledd 3 місяці тому +2

      I searched her up online and checked out her credentials since I was so intrigued. Top-notch! I emailed her to inquire about accepting new clients.

  • @mustafabaris9681
    @mustafabaris9681 5 місяців тому +26

    Here are 7 Highly Traits Of Successful People :
    1-) Ability To Think 10X Bigger Than Most
    2-) Having A Curious Mind
    3-) Delayed Gratification
    4-) Emotional Resilience
    5-) Obsession and Focus
    6-) Ability To Take Risks
    7-) Unreal Tolerance For Stress
    I 100 % agree with Alex , it ain't about cold showers, waking up at 5 : 30 am , exercising each day , having the best diet , meditating or not meditating.. It is all about these 7 traits that make the difference ..

    • @Marcusbreum
      @Marcusbreum 5 місяців тому

      Although these other habits you mention are sometimes prerequisites for building the foundation of these highly succesful traits e.g. exercising for emotional resilience and stress tolerance

    • @mustafabaris9681
      @mustafabaris9681 5 місяців тому

      Good point Marcus .. I think that the biggest key to success lies in how strong of an emotional resilience you can build .. Perhaps emotional resilience is the foundation where the other traits that I mentioned stand on .. @@Marcusbreum

    • @w1948d
      @w1948d 4 місяці тому +1

      Without diet and exercise.....I would be already dead.
      Yes....I have all 7 traits and enjoy so called success

    • @roland1912
      @roland1912 4 місяці тому +2

      Don't forget sociopathy! That's key to being successful!

    • @martinboyd447
      @martinboyd447 Місяць тому

      ​@@roland1912 It's the first and last key! Love it Roland.

  • @musashimedia
    @musashimedia 4 місяці тому +16

    Here are the 3 traits of ultra successful people summarized in bullet points:
    - They have a superiority complex and believe they deserve more than others.
    - They have crippling insecurity and fear they will never be good enough.
    - They have impulse control and can focus on a single thing for an extended period of time.
    Alex says that these 3 traits are not about whether you have them or not, but rather to what degree. He also says that the ability to delay gratification is one of the most important factors in success. People who can wait longer for results are more likely to achieve great things.
    Alex also talks about the importance of branding and how it can be used to direct people's behavior.
    He says that a strong brand can help you make more money and achieve your goals.
    I hope this summary is helpful!

  • @MarvishaN
    @MarvishaN 4 місяці тому +48

    What an interview, watched to the very end. Really need your help Tom, I’m 52 and disabled since 2009 with $600K net worth. Already have shares in Real estate (properties for rent) Stocks (dividends) Bonds (interest) etc But I'd still love to spread my investments across the fin- markets ahead of retirement. Can you help me?

    • @debwes1
      @debwes1 4 місяці тому +4

      Just buy BITCOIN and hold. Or find quality stocks that have long term potential, and ride with those stocks. But advisably, just seek counsel from a market strategist.

    • @josephbush
      @josephbush 4 місяці тому +3

      Agreed, I’ve been investing in the fin market for 11 years now, last 4 years with the help of a financial planner apparently due to the covid-19 pandemic crash. Throughout these years of guidance alone, I've been fortunate enough to 10x my return as a DIY investor, summing up nearly $1m roi as of today

    • @aureliobjm
      @aureliobjm 4 місяці тому +2

      @josephbush Mind leaving info of your advisor here please?

    • @josephbush
      @josephbush 4 місяці тому +3

      She's known as a 'HEATHER LEE LARIONI'. So easy and compassionate Lady. You should take a look at her work.

    • @aureliobjm
      @aureliobjm 4 місяці тому +3

      Thank you for sharing. it was easy to find her, then I scheduled a phone call with her. She seems proficient considering her résumé.

  • @devinpadron5
    @devinpadron5 5 місяців тому +47

    not a fan of the reuploads. At least put it in the title or description.

  • @SusheeNzeutem
    @SusheeNzeutem 5 місяців тому +23

    it looks like a 6-months old interview of Hormozi

    • @matthewragudo
      @matthewragudo 4 місяці тому +3

      Yea. I’m pretty sure this is old. But, it’s still valuable. I recently realized that I should stick with an episode until I get the change in my behaviors before I watch another.

  • @official_mrpothead
    @official_mrpothead 5 місяців тому +8

    The creepy sales question was an excellent question🙌

  • @UnlimitedOnlineSuccces
    @UnlimitedOnlineSuccces 2 місяці тому +2

    Alex Hormozi is far more brilliant than even HE realizes. This is THE most valuable interview I've seen. Thanks to both Tom and Alex for sharing your incredible wisdom and insight.

    • @dg-ov4cf
      @dg-ov4cf Місяць тому

      You are a bot

  • @jacobkelley519
    @jacobkelley519 5 місяців тому +6

    A simpler way to be good at sales is sell only things you believe to be of value and to genuinely care about the person or group you are selling to, the rest will take care of itself.

  • @ozairraja5782
    @ozairraja5782 3 місяці тому +2

    Tom's energy matched with Alex's insights made this a very good watch. Great work man!

  • @DomenicT
    @DomenicT 4 місяці тому +4

    I’ve followed Alex and Tom for a few years now and these two coming together is one of the best teams I’ve ever seen regarding how to change your behavior.
    They tackle the issue of making change from different angles and even perspectives at times, but they land in the exact same place ultimately.
    1. You have to do it, period. No one can do this for you.
    2. There’s no magic beans(easy ways) but you can make it easier on yourself through knowledge and perspective (framing.)
    3. We have to accept our fundamental nature along with the situation we find ourselves in first (acceptance.)
    4. You solve problems with some deliberation but a LOT more action.
    5. If you can’t delay gratification you’re not going to get anywhere.
    6. There is no specific formula for everyone. Just experiences we can share and draw from, but we all have to figure out what works for ourselves in the end as THAT’S the real journey here.
    Thank you both for so much authenticity and love over the years. I wish you both as much success as you can possibly imagine 🎉

  • @improvcomedywithtonebone
    @improvcomedywithtonebone 4 місяці тому +3

    The thing I love about Tom, is that you have to remind yourself that he is a billionaire, because he is just so Relatable & Understandable, & truly the meaning of "Down to Earth". Everything he says comes from a place of love & EXPERIENCE.

  • @christiangregory9315
    @christiangregory9315 5 місяців тому +2

    The legends of growth mindset culture! Than you for what you do

  • @oneworldonehome
    @oneworldonehome 5 місяців тому +10

    "You see problems are not hard to solve. The problem is that people do not want their problems solved. What people seek is a resolution which will give them their preferred outcome and relieve them of the discomfort which they are feeling. Here there is plotting and scheming. Here outcomes are considered to be more important than the truth until the truth becomes more important than the outcomes."
    _Wisdom from the Greater Community, Book One - Chapter 26: Stillness_

    • @johnblau5190
      @johnblau5190 2 місяці тому

      The Process is the Solution!

  • @Dragondad0351
    @Dragondad0351 5 місяців тому +1

    Going through the process is the hardest part of life but when you push through it and get to your goal it’s the best feeling ever.
    We fail when we want instant results or instant satisfaction

  • @branwerks6978
    @branwerks6978 5 місяців тому +3

    WOW thank you for getting STRAIGHT to the point !

  • @delicious6811
    @delicious6811 4 місяці тому +1

    This was one of the best podcasts I have ever watched. Thank you guys so much

  • @samuelyor9017
    @samuelyor9017 5 місяців тому +3

    Alex is going down as the goat of business growth

  • @davidaxlund1752
    @davidaxlund1752 4 місяці тому +2

    Regarding sales. Once rapport is established, The person who is most certain will always influence the other person.

  • @UniverseCitizen
    @UniverseCitizen 5 місяців тому +9

    I like Alex’s no BS approach to life and business.

  • @mustafaomer3276
    @mustafaomer3276 5 місяців тому +2

    I was waiting for this for along time and it’s the first video on UA-cam that i liked before watching… ♥️🤝

  • @mathiastrojahn8691
    @mathiastrojahn8691 5 місяців тому +9

    Hormozi x Bilyeu? I don’t even need to watch this before liking it - this already SCREAMS “valueable”. Thank you!

  • @Fabzil
    @Fabzil 2 місяці тому +1

    2nd time I saw these gem and holy molly do I learn once again.
    I should probably watch it like every 6 months until I don't learn anymore.

  • @transformwithlev
    @transformwithlev 4 місяці тому +2

    I absolutely love Alex’s business advice and content so I’m not commenting as a hater. With that being said trauma is a major impediment to success for
    severely traumatized people. It’s because you’re trapped in fight or flight when you have PTSD. In that situation processing, releasing, and ultimately healing your trauma is critical for success and frankly just not suffering and being miserable.

    • @rubiepatrick973
      @rubiepatrick973 4 місяці тому

      I was thinking the same thing.
      I wouldn't be as quick to dismiss the benefits of therapy although I do agree that "too much time" is being spent hyperfocusing on talking about the feelings themselves.
      Both speakers do mention quite often how there's a lot of confusion arising from lack of (self) awareness of what one's actually feeling and/or why, not knowing what one's purpose is...these are all issues that can be resolved in therapy.
      How I'll put it is, they tend to go hand-in-hand.
      You can't dismiss committing to learning the Alphabets of a language simply because the books you want to read and conversation you wish to have are comprised of words and not individual alphabets.
      There's a connection and these things tend to build on themselves.

  • @alf3071
    @alf3071 5 місяців тому +7

    I have the crippling insecurities but without the success

    • @laurieclarkson9180
      @laurieclarkson9180 5 місяців тому +1

      I know what you mean. I think it's a combination of having moments where insecurity is crippling and getting so sick of yourself and so haunted by the ways your insecurity has ruined your life, that you start using your insecurities as fuel. To use it as motivation instead of an excuse. I heard recently that we should get a piece of paper and write down everything that has been said to you in your life that really hurt you deeply. Maybe a teacher called you stupid, a parent called you a loser, an ex lover said you're the worst person they've ever been with, your boss said you're lazy...look at all of it and examine how it all made you feel. Why did these people say these things about you? Were they right? Why did it hurt? Why does it haunt you? Do you see any patterns? Have you ever given them and yourself PROOF that you're not those things? You have to prove it. Use insecurity to drive you to prove those people wrong.

  • @maxalto
    @maxalto 5 місяців тому +5

    It’s a replay

  • @AkshayAradhya
    @AkshayAradhya 4 місяці тому

    This guy is an absolute legend. I cant watch enough of him.

  • @user-vn4xu5wz6d
    @user-vn4xu5wz6d 5 місяців тому +2

    i love both of your guys' videos

  • @jasonpatrignani4717
    @jasonpatrignani4717 4 місяці тому +1

    In my experience authenticity is what separates creepy from not creepy

  • @marccox8977
    @marccox8977 5 місяців тому

    Alex Hormozi & Tom re -
    "How many NEED TO BELIEVES" - is brilliant!
    .. and it reminds me of "Build it they will Come" in movie: Field of Dreams, which reminds me of Walt Disney building out Disneyland in the alligator swamp 😁 >> those investors must've had the faith !!

  • @GorzaanFan
    @GorzaanFan 5 місяців тому +4

    A common theme between most ultra successful people is that they have built a mental model of a few beliefs that they use to make choices, act and form habits which move them towards their goals.
    I’m curious. what are some of the core beliefs that they have that is optimized for success?

    • @tonykato449
      @tonykato449 5 місяців тому

      Not giving a shoot about what people think

    • @GorzaanFan
      @GorzaanFan 4 місяці тому

      @@tonykato449 That’s not a core belief that drives success, although can be very useful. Homeless people don’t care what anyone thinks either

  • @laurieclarkson9180
    @laurieclarkson9180 5 місяців тому +3

    I love everything about this, but I particularly like definitions of emotions. I suck at emotional intelligence. I feel very overwhelmed and often sabotaged in life by emotions. I like his approach to them, which seems easier said than done. I'd like to learn more about emotions because I do feel many people struggle with feeling them, controlling them, and not letting them stand in your way. Big self sabotager.

    • @rubiepatrick973
      @rubiepatrick973 4 місяці тому

      Please check out " Emotional Intelligence is Overrated: Here's why" it's a video here on UA-cam by Clinical Psychologist and PhD holder Dr. Nick Wignall

  • @wesfin
    @wesfin 4 місяці тому +1

    5:30 (like the gym)
    6:24 patient with results impatient with action/work (like gym)
    12:50
    16:30, 19:04

  • @OnTeamHumanity
    @OnTeamHumanity 4 місяці тому

    Alex knows his stuff. True behavior analyst.

  • @r.s.334
    @r.s.334 5 місяців тому +5

    This was really good. I'm an old guy and I can tell you young people that was pretty spot on. Wish I had followed it in my younger days.

  • @peter-holzer-dev
    @peter-holzer-dev 4 місяці тому

    I love this conversation. ❤ I have watched the full episode. 🎉

  • @TTAG01
    @TTAG01 4 місяці тому +1

    51:03 the missing component is being able to assess objectively, the energy being emitted from a person, amidst whatever perceived emotions they may want to feed you. If you are connected with reading or picking up on a persons energy, you won’t be bamboozled by them if you detect something as being off despite how they claim to be or feel emotionally. Then you can get down to extracting honesty.

    • @rubiepatrick973
      @rubiepatrick973 4 місяці тому

      Great analysis, especially applicable to Passive-Aggressive behaviour.
      Although, it would pay to temper the expectation of "extracting honesting" with knowledge of the fact that it is not possible to control other people's behaviour.
      For example, regardless of how expert you get at picking up on people's energies, correctly reading between the lines or judging a person's character, if they simply refuse to admit to something when you call them out...then that's that.
      Also, you'd want to be mindful of not indirectly reinforcing "dishonest" behaviour by overwhelming them with forced confrontation/conflict resolution, which is what they were trying to avoid with whatever indirect tactics they chose to adopt in the first place.
      It's a really delicate thing, navigating (difficult) conversations.

    • @TTAG01
      @TTAG01 3 місяці тому +1

      @RubiePatrick. Thank you Rubie, I do hear you but for me past a point I wouldn’t keep tip toeing around a person whose energy I felt to I be off, me telling them what I feel, is me giving them an opportunity to be open and honest, if they don’t take that and I still feel the same way, I will just remove myself from the situation and them.

    • @johnblau5190
      @johnblau5190 2 місяці тому

      READ A Person's Body Language,Looks & Bio-Field (Aura) ask yourself what your Take is(Gut Feeling) ?

  • @Acoto
    @Acoto 4 місяці тому +1

    There are definitely actions and situations that are objectively good and bad. If you can't recognize that then you or someone you love hasn't been in a violent, vicious, or unrecoverable enough situation.

  • @TTAG01
    @TTAG01 4 місяці тому

    44:28 very good points being made on both sides here but I do think if you can offer healthy alternatives that make a person feel that they are not having to compromise on taste or on how something typically bad might make them feel but is actually good for them, then you’re definitely on to something.

  • @smitinvestments
    @smitinvestments 4 місяці тому

    Powerful podcast. Life changing!

    • @adversaryproductions5298
      @adversaryproductions5298 2 місяці тому

      I just listened today, such valuable information! What have you changed in your life since listening?

  • @TheOGDesigner
    @TheOGDesigner 5 місяців тому +1

    It's hard listening to you both when the sound of my brain growing is so loud 🧠

  • @nasiridris6871
    @nasiridris6871 5 місяців тому +1

    Harmozi is someone you 🎉 trust your kid with him ❤❤❤😊

  • @victoriagame_4113
    @victoriagame_4113 5 місяців тому

    Great interview!!

    • @juliuskuusjarvi8990
      @juliuskuusjarvi8990 5 місяців тому +1

      Bro watched 2hours 29 minutes of pure content in 5 minutes

  • @fg-sz9ci
    @fg-sz9ci 5 місяців тому

    Good video to learn gracias

  • @user-dg5pf1pz6m
    @user-dg5pf1pz6m 4 місяці тому

    This interview was great. Does he have a book on most the topics he went over?

  • @paulaCvenecia
    @paulaCvenecia Місяць тому

    15:15 Another frame, as to why some people give us the creeps, is we've seen up close very manipulative people (critical years 7-14), claiming to be doing something for our own good but either with a "I won over you attitude" or a more problematic one: this is not really good for you. That is why many people get scammed and some of us are like: the guy/gal had a neon sign all over their face with helicopters around, how you did not see that?!?!" kind of situation. I'm not saying that everyone that manipulates is out to get you but I'm saying if you saw that while growing up, you'll likely at the very least, have problems with authority.... if you're not right out distrustful.

  • @TheBusinessHandyMan
    @TheBusinessHandyMan 4 місяці тому

    This podcast was fire

  • @MsChristianr
    @MsChristianr 5 місяців тому +1

    Wowwww first few minutes. What he said i finally feel seen😮

  • @paulfaulkner2855
    @paulfaulkner2855 5 місяців тому +2

    Is this 2 different episodes mixed into 1. Alex has 2 different outer shirts on in segments and Tom has a hat on sometimes and not in other parts.

  • @Noteworthy2024
    @Noteworthy2024 4 місяці тому

    His take was on boredom spoke volumes ❤

  • @stefashaler8340
    @stefashaler8340 4 місяці тому +2

    As someone who believes the only success worth devoting myself to is being kind; giving whole-hearted, full tilt kindness to life, I'm happy to hear most people aren't willing to become fall into brutal, self-interested iron-clad focus on competition. The paltry goal of amassing money is a breeze compared to deeply feeling and expressing kindness in all circumstances.

  • @grammasgardenofideas5081
    @grammasgardenofideas5081 4 місяці тому

    28:55 i gotta go in and make sure i am only doing things that are effective

  • @johnwright6403
    @johnwright6403 Місяць тому

    Good work!

  • @GymForLifeHD
    @GymForLifeHD 3 місяці тому

    so much value, thx

  • @mykilfremn26
    @mykilfremn26 5 місяців тому +2

    WTF I JUST GOT DONE WATCHING THE OTHER PODCAST THIS MORNING this is the same podcast that was posted HOLY CRAP

  • @roberttaylor662
    @roberttaylor662 4 місяці тому +12

    I'm under pressure to grow my reserve that currently holds about $550k. I'm down by 20% already following the crash and I fear I could lose more.

    • @purplebliss6875
      @purplebliss6875 4 місяці тому

      It's all hype! best to ignore the trend at the moment whether bullish or bearish, and stick to a proper trading plan

    • @arthurworld9768
      @arthurworld9768 4 місяці тому +1

      It is very easy to buy in on trending stocks but the problem is knowing when to sell or hold, which is why a coach is important. I've been in touch with one for about a year now and although I was initially skeptical about it, I will say I've made more progress within a year generating 6figure profit.

    • @rebeccaartgallary
      @rebeccaartgallary 4 місяці тому

      @@arthurworld9768 That's truly remarkable. I hope you don't mind pointing me towards their direction.

    • @arthurworld9768
      @arthurworld9768 4 місяці тому

      She's Monica Amanda McClure The best I've seen so far. Simply do your diligence.

    • @rebeccaartgallary
      @rebeccaartgallary 4 місяці тому

      I just googled her and I'm really impressed with her credentials; I reached out to her since I need all the assistance I can get. I just scheduled a caII.

  • @saulomedeiros6752
    @saulomedeiros6752 5 місяців тому +1

    awesome!

  • @muhammadareeb520
    @muhammadareeb520 4 місяці тому

    This was fire 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Jovian-jq8yn
    @Jovian-jq8yn 4 місяці тому

    Sheesh watching the last 5 min of the show with tears in my eyes.

  • @ChrisCannonWealthVersity
    @ChrisCannonWealthVersity Місяць тому

    It's hard to find the truth until you abandon your agenda!!! The greatest success in life, is on the other side of the false beliefs that we keep trying to prove to be true!

  • @natearnold8410
    @natearnold8410 5 місяців тому +1

    You can delay the gratification because for people like us the grind is gratifying more than the prize. It’s why I have trouble relaxing on vacation.

  • @the_schnells
    @the_schnells 5 місяців тому

    Love it, @tomBileu. Such a great conversation on Success. Greetings from Germany

  • @grammasgardenofideas5081
    @grammasgardenofideas5081 4 місяці тому

    41:22 that has been my rule for decades too. lol

  • @mbp5863
    @mbp5863 5 місяців тому +1

    This looks old, is it a repost or a combination of older podcasts. Seems like the later, but is there anything new in this?

  • @jasha9sandhu
    @jasha9sandhu 5 місяців тому

    This is by far the most engaging, educational and enriching conversation I have ever heard so far in this new year 2024.
    Concepts, Clarity, Communication 💯💯💯
    Thanks Tom & Alex.
    Btw Listening from a village in northern India.
    Loads of Gratitude 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Doxsein
    @Doxsein Місяць тому

    Trying to get into digital stuff so I can scale ME. I currently work hard and can only make so much. I want to double down on my skills and do e-commerce, digital platforming stuff

  • @ramirosan
    @ramirosan 5 місяців тому +1

    Is this a re-upload? This episode seems extremely familiar.

  • @expatcrypto
    @expatcrypto 5 місяців тому

    @TomBilyeu These 3 traits are from Amy Chua's "The Triple Package" book

  • @chris.asi_romeo
    @chris.asi_romeo 3 місяці тому

    Great talks

  • @authenticblackandgrey
    @authenticblackandgrey 5 місяців тому +1

    This is literally one of my favorite episodes 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @gregoryscott5111
    @gregoryscott5111 4 місяці тому

    Um didn’t even know you could change iPhone to grayscale. Wow what a game changer. 🙏🏼⏳

  • @grantwalkersound
    @grantwalkersound 4 місяці тому +1

    What Alex doesn't seem to realize is that his concepts surrounding narratives, emotion, and identity... are nothing more than a narrative and identity he constructed for himself, likely as a coping mechanisms for the emotions he clearly shows discomfort in confronting. That being said, a lot of his advice and perspective is brilliant.

    • @rubiepatrick973
      @rubiepatrick973 4 місяці тому

      Lol. I noticed too, but was glad to hear him own, quite often, how unique his experiences are to him.
      For example, when they were talking about "Your life is a total reflection of your choices" and mentioning tornadoes as unfortunate circumstances outside of your control but that you can still choose to respond differently to, but that doesn't apply in every situation in my opinion.
      The current realities of the citizens of Gaza are definitely not a 100% reflection of their choices in life, if anything, it's the consequences of choices of OTHER people.
      And that's something I would've loved to hear speak more on, or at least acknowledge .

  • @zomfgwtfbbq1
    @zomfgwtfbbq1 5 місяців тому

    Hey Tom, was/is your wife the engine in your life? Or do you need to be your own engine? Maybe a kind soul can answer my question if they heard him already answering this question in a previous video/interview? Thanks ❤

  • @sebone
    @sebone 5 місяців тому

    Reupload? Still good to revisit. 👍🏽

  • @YungKingz__
    @YungKingz__ 4 місяці тому

    Frame control is everything

  • @infinitejaydeez
    @infinitejaydeez 5 місяців тому +1

    You need resources to make continuous efforts to succeed over time, that's not a luxury everyone has

    • @rubiepatrick973
      @rubiepatrick973 4 місяці тому +1

      I'm going to quote something Sam Altman (CEO Open AI) said in his blog post of "How to Be Successful" that just perfectly validates what you just said:
      "One of the biggest reasons I'm excited about basic income is the amount of human potential it will unleash by freeing more people to take risks.
      Until then, if you aren't born lucky, you have to claw your way up for awhile before you can take big swings. If you are born in extreme poverty, then this is super difficult :(
      It is obviously an incredible shame and waste that opportunity is so unevenly distributed. But I've witnessed enough people be born with the deck stacked badly against them and go on to incredible success to know it's possible.
      I am deeply aware of the fact that I personally would not be where I am if I weren't born incredibly lucky."

  • @coders7845
    @coders7845 4 місяці тому

    Amazing

  • @BRE1962
    @BRE1962 5 місяців тому +1

    I believe God provides us with everything we need if we do the work and trust in Him

  • @skont5473
    @skont5473 3 місяці тому

    Every time I see and hear Tom talk
    My mind goes dork dork dork dork dork dork!!!!
    He’s a G for all the success though

  • @rednarok
    @rednarok 5 місяців тому +1

    i agree with everything that is said here untill the point where not learning has nothing to do with intelligence. for example autism. it doesn't fucking matter if you have social exhaustion after 40minutes of conversation how many times you exhaust yourself you will still get exhausted the same way 10 years later of trying to improve. same goes for other conditions. so what i have to add is, if you keep hitting a wall that is impossible to pass, then stop spending your time trying to fix something that isnt fixable and find some other area your are good in.
    this requires that you know enough about yourself that you arent convinced of false positives.

  • @rubiepatrick973
    @rubiepatrick973 4 місяці тому

    "Your life is a total reflection of your choices."
    I'll like to have you guys share your different opinions on this.
    Here's mine:
    This isn't always true and even the times that it is, is isn't all the time.
    Tom mentions the example of tornadoes as an unfortunate event outside of your control but that you can still choose to respond differently to, but that doesn't apply in every situation, in my opinion.
    The current REALITIES, (not just a one-off event they can "choose to respond differently to") of the citizens of Gaza are definitely not a 100% reflection of their own choices in life, if anything, it's the consequences of the choices of OTHER people.
    And that's something I would've loved to hear them speak more on, or at least acknowledge .

  • @Mr.nobody740
    @Mr.nobody740 17 днів тому

    Tank you

  • @UniversalWealth01
    @UniversalWealth01 4 місяці тому +1

    gained another subscriber

  • @user-jc8ct2fj5p
    @user-jc8ct2fj5p 5 місяців тому +1

    He just defined basic narcissism as the common connector.

    • @IowaRealtor
      @IowaRealtor 5 місяців тому

      We all have some level of narcissistic traits

  • @johnwright6403
    @johnwright6403 Місяць тому

    Alex! Please writ the book on. Brand!

  • @rineleff2009
    @rineleff2009 5 місяців тому +5

    Managing money is different from accumulating wealth, and the lack of investment education in schools may explain why people struggle to maintain their financial gains. The examples you provided are relevant, and I personally benefited from the market crisis, as I embrace challenging times while others tend to avoid them.

    • @gilbertbrien2280
      @gilbertbrien2280 5 місяців тому

      Investors should exercise caution with their exposure and exercise caution when considering new investments, particularly during periods of inflation. It is advisable to seek guidance from a professional or trusted advisor in order to navigate this recession and achieve potential high yields

    • @user-fb2hk7vu3q
      @user-fb2hk7vu3q 5 місяців тому

      This is superb! Information, as a noob it gets quite difficult to handle all of this and staying informed is a major cause, how do you go about this are you a pro investor?

    • @gilbertbrien2280
      @gilbertbrien2280 5 місяців тому

      Absolutely! A good number of people discredit the effectiveness of financial advisors, but over the past 2 years I've had an advisor who consistently restructure and diversity my portfolio and I've made over $4million in gains. I find myself secured financially right now.

    • @maxwelltroy2375
      @maxwelltroy2375 5 місяців тому

      I've actually been looking into advisors lately, the news
      I've been seeing in the market hasn't been so encouraging. who's the person guiding you?

    • @gilbertbrien2280
      @gilbertbrien2280 5 місяців тому

      She goes by 'Wendy Birkett' . I choose to delegate my excesses to her because of her great expertise. I suggest you look her up. To be honest, almost didn't buy the idea of letting someone handle growing my finances, but so glad I did!!!

  • @steliostzirki3868
    @steliostzirki3868 5 місяців тому

    What does everyone thing about Alex’s proposition that trauma has no effect on success. Look at the greats Elon musk etc many had daddy issues and I think this forms a great push mechanism that forms people to run away from an idea of their children therefore I do believe intense childhood trauma can result in addiction and therefore someone can become a drug addict or a business magnate. What do you think?

  • @TheDionysianFields
    @TheDionysianFields 4 місяці тому

    This really does simplify things. If you want material success, follow the behaviorist "results are all that matters" formula Alex lays out. You'll soon turn into a machine, but what do you care? You may never know yourself, but what do you care?
    What a cheap non-essentialist.

  • @hallowakers3d2y
    @hallowakers3d2y 4 місяці тому

    Anyone realized all these kinds of people do is get successful mostly through combination of hard work, luck, and help at the right times then spend the rest of their career trying to justify it like it was inevitable

  • @jcrawford5674
    @jcrawford5674 День тому

    "Success is going from failure to failure without a loss of enthusiasm."
    -Winston Churchill

  • @stew2860
    @stew2860 5 місяців тому +1

    Why did you reupload this?

  • @danielstojanovski9244
    @danielstojanovski9244 4 місяці тому

    Is this older video published now?

  • @brandonelliott3141
    @brandonelliott3141 4 місяці тому

    That 21:00 mark is fire

  • @skeemarty
    @skeemarty 5 місяців тому +2

    this guy says save half your paycheck and spend it on advertising like people aren't picking up pennies to get enough for just groceries. these guys never tell you that for one person to be wealthy, 100 people have to be poor.