A lecture I think every therapist and counselor needs to see. Once a critical mass of people accept these truths and begin to act on them, the world will change for the better. Thank you, Kyle for your courage and wisdom. The world needs more of your teachings if we are to survive as a species.
I had been waking up everyday, for as long as I can remember, sad and anxious. Literally dreading the day. now mind you, I really have no problems. We have enough money. we have enough food. we live in a nice apartment. I work for a florist, so that's a nice environment, yet every day I was feeling this heaviness and my stomach. About a week ago, I sat on my couch and I cried so hard and I told God I needed "to get rid of this" . I couldn't live like this any longer. "Please take it". "I surrender". It went on vacation that week and didn't feel quite like myself. I was very down, but miraculously, when I got home, I realized that I wasn't ruminating in my head anymore. I wasn't feeling down, sad and anxious. I was just Cherie in the now. I know now that all of those days that I woke up sad and anxious we're simply preparing me to let go of some really crappy stuff. thank you for being there. Kyle and cluing us in to what really is going on with us. By the way, I'm 63 and feel like I have a wonderful life ahead of me now. I no longer feel like a frightened child constantly. 🎉🎉🎉❤
This is so beautiful and amazing! Thank you for sharing, it inspires me because I typically feel sad and anxious every day too but I try to know that I will some day work through and process this.
My way of interpreting love songs and "codependent" art is to basically see every line to be about how much they long to love *themselves* and not the projected reflection they see in the person they are talking about. In other words, "I want to be with you the rest of my life" translates to "I want to reconcile with myself to the point that I am completely in touch and in love with *myself* " . Yeah. I hear every love song as people's longing to love themselves... because it literally is (shocker), they're just trying to do it through somebody else most of the time .
My life is transitioning faster than I could have ever imagined, your teachings are like nutrients that I desperately needed! I just get what you are saying on a level that baffles and quiets my ego and is allowing the real "I am" to rise up even more 😮
Wow, I had such an epiphany while watching this for the second time. You literally described what used to happen to me when I was young. I would get punished and spanked for my grades. I was constantly in fear of coming home at report card time. My brother became valedictorian, yet I struggled throughout school with dyslexia. While listening to this, I realized that the mind pattern carried into adulthood because I avoid trying new things, and I'm constantly seeking confirmation that I do things correct when I do something unfamiliar to me. The pattern believes that some form of punishment will follow the inability to achieve perfection, so I resist trying. That is a huge light bulb for me! Thank you Kyle ❤
Kyle’s helped me so much. I now understand things about myself that before never made sense or caused confusion. Kyle’s compassion for, and understanding of humanity is truly inspiring. He’s connected so many dots-both physiologically and psychologically. Kyle’s a healer. Listen to this man everyone- please.
100% agree..Ive been following Kyle for 2 years..every message is powerful and This IS transformational. So grateful in Kyle leaving Comedy (and love he brings comedy in) wisdom, love, care and compassion is contiguous ❤. Thank you Kyle. And thank to all here listening..this is what changes our world. One nugget at a time that continues to heals each of us..sharing this with many 🎉 Lets celebrate our our love our light..❤
Dear Kyle, This presentation along with “THE FUNERAL” are TWO of your LIFETIME MASTERPIECES!! Stay blessed, my friend... Robert from daytradingwiththelight
Approval is not love. Never was and never will be!! Can become very addictive if you get enough of it!!! A never ending circle of wanting approval from others, to bolster the ego. Only way out is to drop the ego and do the inner healing work. Way to go Kyle 🙏💙
I'm obsessed with this guy. He helped me more than any therapist. Thank God I never spend money for therapy. Thank God of my company benefits but I will never go to a therapist. These guys amazing and of course my 12 steps everything he says nails it❤ God bless
I love deep in the colon..😅 over the last few days my lovely and I were deep in past energy, stories etc..both triggered and thru your messages Kyle, I stopped the pattern..it was so loud , offered compassion for both of us, dont resist the trigger, talk to it, love on it, give compassion to our inner child..it was soooo freeing...we both sobbed..AND cleared (at this moment). Thank you for the tools, wisdom and evoling out loud..after 2 years of following you your transfortion is contiguous. I have learned the dark is not as scary as our stories believe it to be in the NOW ❤
The things that are triggering you are the things you secretly believe are true. I am triggered by people telling me I am not good enough. Yeah it’s a shitty thing to say to anyone but my dad said it all the time and I secretly believe that it’s true. Thank you Kyle. I feel like a direction is forming for me to do the work.
Kyle, I was in a car accident on June 17th, both us walked away from the wreck. My car was totaled and I was diagnosed with chest contusion, it hurt, but then I got pneumonia. I better now but I've beenmoved to take a year off .❤❤ from my volunteer work and caring for my grandkids. Its a luxury and no guilt, no garbage bags attached. I will listen to this kid as long as i need too!!!!!!!
I love this guy this is a fantastic talk I absolutely wonderful anybody and everybody should listen to this if they resonate with it I know many many will
thanks a ton Kyle. I can relate so much b/c things are happening in the world now that are very strange. It feels like the end of codependence style attachment relationships. It feels like a death.
There was a knowing all along only we needed too go through it. There have always be pioneers who were guiding the " masses" but the energy was heavy so it took time to elevate the lower frequencies in to higher frequencies (=conscience). We needed too be with enough people to make this turning point. ( awake growing to awake and aware) It is a inner journey !
Oh my goodness Kyle I swear you are such an angel to me. I have taken the month of July off of AEP, videos, any social media just to reconnect with God. I am in the depths of codependent hell right now and I saw this pop up. Of course I recognized it from our Sedona event and I had to watch. This is exactly what I needed. You are such a gift and I am so grateful for your wisdom, courage, and your gift of sharing it. I love you. ❤️
True having survived alot of trauma like many have sometimes when things are going ok I find myself waiting for the other shoe to drop. I think I protect myself from a certain level of success and/or failure to avoid rejection sometimes too. Other times it doesn't bother me as much as I have healed and continue to heal.
Kyle, thank you, this is exactly the kind of program I wanto to tune into every Sunday morning. When I listen to other Mind/Body/Spirit programs, I feel they help me on the intellectual level and/but do not at the same time connect me with my Emotions nor with my Body, so I do not Feel a true understanding of the message. But, with your videos, your voice, the look of the stage, your message/ideas/life examples are soothing and easy to relate to. I have seen the video that you helped Tim Ballard releasing his Blocks of his childhood trauma/near-Abduction, Wow, you are a Fantastic Healer, Kyle!
kyle, i've been at the event in sedona and now, watching and hearing it again, it is again so much new to me. things, that i didn't get in march. thank u thank u thank u. it's going deeper every time...i am happy now. or should i say, i am now ;)
This was amazing if there's any more material from this seminar or if there's other material like this that I can get benefit from like this please let me know what it is this was amazing I had such a shift in my awareness in my Outlook for the future. I shared this with so many people
😂💪🏼🤗💃🏻🌸🍀🌼🥰🙏❤️👌✨🥂🦋🌍🇸🇪 So very beautiful message and I can resonate really so much to this NOW ✨✨✨✨ - we are doing this together ❤️✨🙏 Thank you so very much best regards from me❤️
I'm unpacking all my family garbage~ alone. None of my family members see that anything is wrong. And I'm scared to break out of the role I've been cast in, but I can't DO it anymore! I _won't._ I will heal and let it go....and be a light in my family. It IS already leaving ❤ When I am around them, it's like being in a room full of elephants. And everyone is chilling on a rug that has a mountain under it from all the baggage being swept underneath it for years. They don't see that their chairs are falling over from the pitch of this under-the-rug mountain. So.....I just left the room. I moved away and it was the best thing I've ever done in my life. There are no rugs in me and my husbands home, literally and figuratively. We refuse to stuff feelings, sweep crap under a rug, dance around issues, etc. It is so lovely!! I'm finally moving into who I've always been and never felt SAFE enough to actually BE. It's amazing!!! I do realize that all of us have used these coping mechanisms and survival tactics in order to be safe...but it has caused so much dysfunction. I'm astonished. I married a covert narcissist when I was 24 because my family baggage wasn't healed~ I didn't even SEE it back then. Once I left my abuser in 2018, getting out of that fog was helpful for me to finally be able to see the FOO issues. But I'm the only one awake to it....that's why it's lonely. I'm grateful for my healthy and loving husband!
So if you have a toxic friend.. it's OK to let them go right?.. I did let go saying I can't be in your turmoil anymore.. she was mean and hateful bringing up past events.. I had to let go.. and felt relief
Enjoying this video. Except I continued those alcohol patterns into my life for oh 15 years. Only been 1 year without alcohol but damn letting go of all those mistakes I made during that time and with loved ones is still really damn tough to release. Etc etc not sure if I understand how to move past that or move through it
So I'm relistening to this and even the beginning of this message is so profound. You talk about alcoholic grandparents passing things down etc etc so I guess another question arising within me is what if I created that in my life for 15 years with alcohol plus cheating and all the other hurtful choices I've made which also affected my mental health etc. How do I rewrite my story? How do I rewrite the story for my son?
What about shamanism and the ancestors; I really love Kyles perspective, but I am wondering how ancient magical pathways can be woven into this stuff? There has to be a place for certain traditions within the quantum field. Any ideas? Big love to all of you xxxx
The human mind is very complex to understand and it does hold the key for the not to do the unthinkable and predictable by psychology. Yet, the science of psychology has provided much insight into the process of the mind and its behavior, but not a cure for those having a compulsive desire to inflict pain upon others. Are there human beings who are destined to be bad and others to be good and disregard the environment broom and rose? /3
Who wouldn't worry about being locked into the cycle of abuse or pattern of behavior predictable by past parental badness and inevitable repeating badness where it catches up? Then, how much condemnation is a victim of abuse and victimizing others for the same abuse inflicted on them first to be a perpetrator? There's no justification but where it begins and where does it end? /2
So, if you come into existence in an unknown world of good or bad circumstances condemned by your ancestors or your grandparents and parents and isn't a condemnation and cruelty in unfair existence that we did not ask for it? 'Exodus 34:7 says that God “[visits] the iniquity of the fathers on the children and the children's children, to the third and the fourth generation.”' Precisely, why? "This worries me because my family has some skeletons in the closet - and sometimes I think past sins are playing out. " /1
A lecture I think every therapist and counselor needs to see. Once a critical mass of people accept these truths and begin to act on them, the world will change for the better. Thank you, Kyle for your courage and wisdom. The world needs more of your teachings if we are to survive as a species.
Agreed❤
I had been waking up everyday, for as long as I can remember, sad and anxious.
Literally dreading the day.
now mind you, I really have no problems. We have enough money. we have enough food. we live in a nice apartment. I work for a florist, so that's a nice environment, yet every day I was feeling this heaviness and my stomach.
About a week ago, I sat on my couch and I cried so hard and I told God I needed "to get rid of this" . I couldn't live like this any longer. "Please take it". "I surrender".
It went on vacation that week and didn't feel quite like myself. I was very down, but miraculously, when I got home, I realized that I wasn't ruminating in my head anymore. I wasn't feeling down, sad and anxious. I was just Cherie in the now.
I know now that all of those days that I woke up sad and anxious we're simply preparing me to let go of some really crappy stuff. thank you for being there. Kyle and cluing us in to what really is going on with us.
By the way, I'm 63 and feel like I have a wonderful life ahead of me now.
I no longer feel like a frightened child constantly. 🎉🎉🎉❤
This is so beautiful and amazing! Thank you for sharing, it inspires me because I typically feel sad and anxious every day too but I try to know that I will some day work through and process this.
The only issue any of us has is an " Awareness Issue" .
This statement is Magnificent, brilliant, and true ! ❤❤❤
I agree - Kyle is a genius, isn’t he?!
“Life is about fixing an issue so I don’t get abandoned…” not even 5minutes in and you’re throwin haymakers! 🔥
My way of interpreting love songs and "codependent" art is to basically see every line to be about how much they long to love *themselves* and not the projected reflection they see in the person they are talking about. In other words, "I want to be with you the rest of my life" translates to "I want to reconcile with myself to the point that I am completely in touch and in love with *myself* " . Yeah. I hear every love song as people's longing to love themselves... because it literally is (shocker), they're just trying to do it through somebody else most of the time .
I've been hearing many songs this way too!! It's so beautiful from many times what would be me judging the song as toxic, codependent, neurotic etc
I like your lyrics! Yes, it's your retranslation and --- I see potential for a new genre.
@@sarahchan8420Albert Ellis you may know had fun with these kinds of songs.
Such a brilliant, kind, and progressive man! Thank you Kyle for sharing your evolution with us, encouraging us to keep doing our own, too...
My life is transitioning faster than I could have ever imagined, your teachings are like nutrients that I desperately needed! I just get what you are saying on a level that baffles and quiets my ego and is allowing the real "I am" to rise up even more 😮
I love how you love to help others see a new loving perception to Being ❤
Wow, I had such an epiphany while watching this for the second time. You literally described what used to happen to me when I was young. I would get punished and spanked for my grades. I was constantly in fear of coming home at report card time. My brother became valedictorian, yet I struggled throughout school with dyslexia. While listening to this, I realized that the mind pattern carried into adulthood because I avoid trying new things, and I'm constantly seeking confirmation that I do things correct when I do something unfamiliar to me. The pattern believes that some form of punishment will follow the inability to achieve perfection, so I resist trying. That is a huge light bulb for me! Thank you Kyle ❤
🙏🙏🙏🙏🌻🌻🌻❣❣
Once again, parents causing us to live in fear. Our parents were failures.
Well said!! And yes, definitely me too!!❤
The joy and peace of being is worth the work to get there.
This truth is beautiful, Kyle! Thank you for your work in raising the collective consciousness ❤️
Kyle’s helped me so much. I now understand things about myself that before never made sense or caused confusion. Kyle’s compassion for, and understanding of humanity is truly inspiring. He’s connected so many dots-both physiologically and psychologically. Kyle’s a healer. Listen to this man everyone-
please.
He truly is!! Earth Angel and so thankful for him ❤
100% agree..Ive been following Kyle for 2 years..every message is powerful and This IS transformational. So grateful in Kyle leaving Comedy (and love he brings comedy in) wisdom, love, care and compassion is contiguous ❤. Thank you Kyle. And thank to all here listening..this is what changes our world. One nugget at a time that continues to heals each of us..sharing this with many 🎉
Lets celebrate our our love our light..❤
I love how you’re putting your best material on UA-cam! I love the metaphors.
I love the practice of just here. Just now. Be present.
The timing is perfect! Thank you. So very healing.
Dear Kyle,
This presentation along with “THE FUNERAL” are TWO of your LIFETIME MASTERPIECES!!
Stay blessed, my friend...
Robert from daytradingwiththelight
Approval is not love. Never was and never will be!! Can become very addictive if you get enough of it!!! A never ending circle of wanting approval from others, to bolster the ego.
Only way out is to drop the ego and do the inner healing work.
Way to go Kyle 🙏💙
I'm obsessed with this guy. He helped me more than any therapist. Thank God I never spend money for therapy. Thank God of my company benefits but I will never go to a therapist. These guys amazing and of course my 12 steps everything he says nails it❤ God bless
I can’t wait to meet you all in September. ❤
I want to watch this video 10 more times, while I do my Fasting, for my Emotional/Spiritual/Mental Cleanse/Fasting.
I love deep in the colon..😅 over the last few days my lovely and I were deep in past energy, stories etc..both triggered and thru your messages Kyle, I stopped the pattern..it was so loud , offered compassion for both of us, dont resist the trigger, talk to it, love on it, give compassion to our inner child..it was soooo freeing...we both sobbed..AND cleared (at this moment). Thank you for the tools, wisdom and evoling out loud..after 2 years of following you your transfortion is contiguous. I have learned the dark is not as scary as our stories believe it to be in the NOW ❤
The things that are triggering you are the things you secretly believe are true. I am triggered by people telling me I am not good enough. Yeah it’s a shitty thing to say to anyone but my dad said it all the time and I secretly believe that it’s true. Thank you Kyle. I feel like a direction is forming for me to do the work.
You are meant to do this work !
You r sooo Amazing 🤩 when I feel down I watch one of your videos and it uplifts me 🙏🏻 Thanks ❤
True potential is imagined.
Kyle, I was in a car accident on June 17th, both us walked away from the wreck. My car was totaled and I was diagnosed with chest contusion, it hurt, but then I got pneumonia. I better now but I've beenmoved to take a year off .❤❤ from my volunteer work and caring for my grandkids. Its a luxury and no guilt, no garbage bags attached. I will listen to this kid as long as i need too!!!!!!!
Hurray!!!!!
More beautiful messages to put on loop to hear and feel over and over throughout sleep ❤
Kyle you are an awesome dude!
I love this guy this is a fantastic talk I absolutely wonderful anybody and everybody should listen to this if they resonate with it I know many many will
Charge in the body is lighter you are like beyond time I’ve never ever heard anyone talk and think the way you do in my life
OMG sooo good Kyle ! The now is my new spouse !! This is huge ! My soul swollows every word you say, just what puts me back on track 🙏❤️🙏
Thank you
Talk of the year if you ask me. Holy smokes.
Simply fantastic and right on time. Thank you 😊 ❤
Thank God for Kyle! I am so done trying to fix that child’s programs. Trying to do that had made me angry all the fucking time.
Yes!!! What am I here for?? What is my purpose? Listening every day!!! ❤
I love my inner child❤️❤️❤️
As always thank you Gratitude here. 🙏
Thank you, Kyle. You are such a gift to humanity. 🙏💖✨
Spot on time & target. Sending you love & good vibrations right back attacha... Thank you so very much!!!
Thank you so much
thanks a ton Kyle. I can relate so much b/c things are happening in the world now that are very strange. It feels like the end of codependence style attachment relationships. It feels like a death.
Thank you 🎉❤
Fantastic and amazing. Thank you
Every single thing I needed to hear right now
@kyleCease Is your main/only goal at this point to stay as present as possible in all moments?
Thank you. Exactly what I need to hear ❤
O please come to England ❤❤❤❤❤
There was a knowing all along only we needed too go through it. There have always be pioneers who were guiding the " masses" but the energy was heavy so it took time to elevate the lower frequencies in to higher frequencies (=conscience). We needed too be with enough people to make this turning point. ( awake growing to awake and aware) It is a inner journey !
Oh my goodness Kyle I swear you are such an angel to me. I have taken the month of July off of AEP, videos, any social media just to reconnect with God. I am in the depths of codependent hell right now and I saw this pop up. Of course I recognized it from our Sedona event and I had to watch. This is exactly what I needed. You are such a gift and I am so grateful for your wisdom, courage, and your gift of sharing it. I love you. ❤️
True having survived alot of trauma like many have sometimes when things are going ok I find myself waiting for the other shoe to drop. I think I protect myself from a certain level of success and/or failure to avoid rejection sometimes too. Other times it doesn't bother me as much as I have healed and continue to heal.
Soul Beautiful ❤
I loved this event. xx
So beautiful! Thank you Kyle for so beautifully articulating how to let go. 💖
Thank you for your wisdom and knowledge! This is awesome!!!! Your amazing Kyle and I appreciate you 💕🙏💕
You are a blessing 💜🙏🏼
❤❤❤🎯🙏
Wow you are amazing!! Thank you!
Kyle, thank you, this is exactly the kind of program I wanto to tune into every Sunday morning. When I listen to other Mind/Body/Spirit programs, I feel they help me on the intellectual level and/but do not at the same time connect me with my Emotions nor with my Body, so I do not Feel a true understanding of the message. But, with your videos, your voice, the look of the stage, your message/ideas/life examples are soothing and easy to relate to. I have seen the video that you helped Tim Ballard releasing his Blocks of his childhood trauma/near-Abduction, Wow, you are a Fantastic Healer, Kyle!
Love your speeches
Brilliant thanks 🙏❤
Absolutely amazing. Thank you
That was so fucking good Kyle
Released so much with this Kyle 🤍 still want a Porsche though 🤣🤣
hopefully we can always discern between codependency and interdependency... because now is a big space.
kyle, i've been at the event in sedona and now, watching and hearing it again, it is again so much new to me. things, that i didn't get in march. thank u thank u thank u. it's going deeper every time...i am happy now. or should i say, i am now ;)
You helped me tremendously. Thank You
First !
This was amazing if there's any more material from this seminar or if there's other material like this that I can get benefit from like this please let me know what it is this was amazing I had such a shift in my awareness in my Outlook for the future. I shared this with so many people
Love this! The love songs tho! 😂 Thank you!
felt it to my toes….so good to let go of garbage bags…
Damn Kyle it’s like you read my mind and posted this in such a divine time
😂💪🏼🤗💃🏻🌸🍀🌼🥰🙏❤️👌✨🥂🦋🌍🇸🇪
So very beautiful message and I can resonate really so much to this NOW ✨✨✨✨
- we are doing this together ❤️✨🙏
Thank you so very much best regards from me❤️
Amazing.. thank you ❤️
Thank you, just what i needed to hear!!💚
💖💖✔✔🎵🎵✔✔
41:01 loneliness is codependency
46:19 we're all radios
Wanting is being in a needy place.
✨❤️✨🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I love this I always need reinforcement.. where can I watch Jeremy's Ted talk
Since all is NOW .. how do we know for sure we actually were 'children' in a supposed 'past' ?
Does it matter?
The truth is that you never were a child. You have always been This. Untouched, Pure Truth.
I'm unpacking all my family garbage~ alone. None of my family members see that anything is wrong. And I'm scared to break out of the role I've been cast in, but I can't DO it anymore!
I _won't._
I will heal and let it go....and be a light in my family. It IS already leaving ❤
When I am around them, it's like being in a room full of elephants. And everyone is chilling on a rug that has a mountain under it from all the baggage being swept underneath it for years. They don't see that their chairs are falling over from the pitch of this under-the-rug mountain. So.....I just left the room. I moved away and it was the best thing I've ever done in my life. There are no rugs in me and my husbands home, literally and figuratively. We refuse to stuff feelings, sweep crap under a rug, dance around issues, etc. It is so lovely!!
I'm finally moving into who I've always been and never felt SAFE enough to actually BE.
It's amazing!!!
I do realize that all of us have used these coping mechanisms and survival tactics in order to be safe...but it has caused so much dysfunction. I'm astonished. I married a covert narcissist when I was 24 because my family baggage wasn't healed~ I didn't even SEE it back then. Once I left my abuser in 2018, getting out of that fog was helpful for me to finally be able to see the FOO issues. But I'm the only one awake to it....that's why it's lonely. I'm grateful for my healthy and loving husband!
So if you have a toxic friend.. it's OK to let them go right?.. I did let go saying I can't be in your turmoil anymore.. she was mean and hateful bringing up past events.. I had to let go.. and felt relief
Enjoying this video. Except I continued those alcohol patterns into my life for oh 15 years. Only been 1 year without alcohol but damn letting go of all those mistakes I made during that time and with loved ones is still really damn tough to release. Etc etc not sure if I understand how to move past that or move through it
So I'm relistening to this and even the beginning of this message is so profound. You talk about alcoholic grandparents passing things down etc etc so I guess another question arising within me is what if I created that in my life for 15 years with alcohol plus cheating and all the other hurtful choices I've made which also affected my mental health etc. How do I rewrite my story? How do I rewrite the story for my son?
No one can make mental illness sound as good as Art Garfunkel.
41:03 😮😮😮 “its just codependent “
Codependency is imagined.
What about shamanism and the ancestors; I really love Kyles perspective, but I am wondering how ancient magical pathways can be woven into this stuff? There has to be a place for certain traditions within the quantum field. Any ideas? Big love to all of you xxxx
My cat is lost. How do I deal with this problem.... been driving around looking for her listening g to these videos
The human mind is very complex to understand and it does hold the key for the not to do the unthinkable and predictable by psychology. Yet, the science of psychology has provided much insight into the process of the mind and its behavior, but not a cure for those having a compulsive desire to inflict pain upon others. Are there human beings who are destined to be bad and others to be good and disregard the environment broom and rose? /3
Who wouldn't worry about being locked into the cycle of abuse or pattern of behavior predictable by past parental badness and inevitable repeating badness where it catches up? Then, how much condemnation is a victim of abuse and victimizing others for the same abuse inflicted on them first to be a perpetrator? There's no justification but where it begins and where does it end? /2
The only interesting thing about life is conditioning
So, if you come into existence in an unknown world of good or bad circumstances condemned by your ancestors or your grandparents and parents and isn't a condemnation and cruelty in unfair existence that we did not ask for it? 'Exodus 34:7 says that God “[visits] the iniquity of the fathers on the children and the children's children, to the third and the fourth generation.”' Precisely, why? "This worries me because my family has some skeletons in the closet - and sometimes I think past sins are playing out. " /1
What kyles saying is you can let go of these skeletons and by doing so your letting go for all your family lineage and those you love