From Lonely to Free - Kyle Cease

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  • @MalcolmNicoll-z5o
    @MalcolmNicoll-z5o Рік тому +58

    A lecture I think every therapist and counselor needs to see. Once a critical mass of people accept these truths and begin to act on them, the world will change for the better. Thank you, Kyle for your courage and wisdom. The world needs more of your teachings if we are to survive as a species.

  • @cheriequinlan9444
    @cheriequinlan9444 Рік тому +21

    I had been waking up everyday, for as long as I can remember, sad and anxious.
    Literally dreading the day.
    now mind you, I really have no problems. We have enough money. we have enough food. we live in a nice apartment. I work for a florist, so that's a nice environment, yet every day I was feeling this heaviness and my stomach.
    About a week ago, I sat on my couch and I cried so hard and I told God I needed "to get rid of this" . I couldn't live like this any longer. "Please take it". "I surrender".
    It went on vacation that week and didn't feel quite like myself. I was very down, but miraculously, when I got home, I realized that I wasn't ruminating in my head anymore. I wasn't feeling down, sad and anxious. I was just Cherie in the now.
    I know now that all of those days that I woke up sad and anxious we're simply preparing me to let go of some really crappy stuff. thank you for being there. Kyle and cluing us in to what really is going on with us.
    By the way, I'm 63 and feel like I have a wonderful life ahead of me now.
    I no longer feel like a frightened child constantly. 🎉🎉🎉❤

    • @XOXOX4242
      @XOXOX4242 Рік тому

      This is so beautiful and amazing! Thank you for sharing, it inspires me because I typically feel sad and anxious every day too but I try to know that I will some day work through and process this.

  • @Lovebuzz11-11
    @Lovebuzz11-11 Рік тому +16

    The only issue any of us has is an " Awareness Issue" .
    This statement is Magnificent, brilliant, and true ! ❤❤❤

    • @rahawa774
      @rahawa774 Рік тому

      I agree - Kyle is a genius, isn’t he?!

  • @KariLight444
    @KariLight444 Рік тому +27

    I love how you love to help others see a new loving perception to Being ❤

  • @codydecker3832
    @codydecker3832 Рік тому +3

    “Life is about fixing an issue so I don’t get abandoned…” not even 5minutes in and you’re throwin haymakers! 🔥

  • @amandabame7981
    @amandabame7981 Рік тому +27

    My life is transitioning faster than I could have ever imagined, your teachings are like nutrients that I desperately needed! I just get what you are saying on a level that baffles and quiets my ego and is allowing the real "I am" to rise up even more 😮

  • @cstrongman
    @cstrongman Рік тому +9

    My way of interpreting love songs and "codependent" art is to basically see every line to be about how much they long to love *themselves* and not the projected reflection they see in the person they are talking about. In other words, "I want to be with you the rest of my life" translates to "I want to reconcile with myself to the point that I am completely in touch and in love with *myself* " . Yeah. I hear every love song as people's longing to love themselves... because it literally is (shocker), they're just trying to do it through somebody else most of the time .

    • @sarahchan8420
      @sarahchan8420 6 місяців тому +1

      I've been hearing many songs this way too!! It's so beautiful from many times what would be me judging the song as toxic, codependent, neurotic etc

    • @sage9836
      @sage9836 Місяць тому

      I like your lyrics! Yes, it's your retranslation and --- I see potential for a new genre.

    • @sage9836
      @sage9836 Місяць тому

      ​@@sarahchan8420Albert Ellis you may know had fun with these kinds of songs.

  • @BooksByRobynBridges
    @BooksByRobynBridges 4 місяці тому +1

    Such a brilliant, kind, and progressive man! Thank you Kyle for sharing your evolution with us, encouraging us to keep doing our own, too...

  • @desislavamustakertcheva7231
    @desislavamustakertcheva7231 Рік тому +2

    I'm obsessed with this guy. He helped me more than any therapist. Thank God I never spend money for therapy. Thank God of my company benefits but I will never go to a therapist. These guys amazing and of course my 12 steps everything he says nails it❤ God bless

  • @jocestr
    @jocestr Рік тому +19

    This truth is beautiful, Kyle! Thank you for your work in raising the collective consciousness ❤️

  • @Dawnofcreation
    @Dawnofcreation Рік тому +12

    Wow, I had such an epiphany while watching this for the second time. You literally described what used to happen to me when I was young. I would get punished and spanked for my grades. I was constantly in fear of coming home at report card time. My brother became valedictorian, yet I struggled throughout school with dyslexia. While listening to this, I realized that the mind pattern carried into adulthood because I avoid trying new things, and I'm constantly seeking confirmation that I do things correct when I do something unfamiliar to me. The pattern believes that some form of punishment will follow the inability to achieve perfection, so I resist trying. That is a huge light bulb for me! Thank you Kyle ❤

    • @Hollyhock7
      @Hollyhock7 Рік тому

      🙏🙏🙏🙏🌻🌻🌻❣❣

    • @seanguzy9601
      @seanguzy9601 Рік тому +1

      Once again, parents causing us to live in fear. Our parents were failures.

    • @XOXOX4242
      @XOXOX4242 Рік тому

      Well said!! And yes, definitely me too!!❤

  • @Slime_that_dances
    @Slime_that_dances 6 місяців тому

    The timing is perfect! Thank you. So very healing.

  • @HobbesNJoe
    @HobbesNJoe Рік тому +13

    I love how you’re putting your best material on UA-cam! I love the metaphors.
    I love the practice of just here. Just now. Be present.

  • @heatherwall9571
    @heatherwall9571 10 місяців тому +1

    Approval is not love. Never was and never will be!! Can become very addictive if you get enough of it!!! A never ending circle of wanting approval from others, to bolster the ego.
    Only way out is to drop the ego and do the inner healing work.
    Way to go Kyle 🙏💙

  • @malcolmnicoll1165
    @malcolmnicoll1165 Рік тому +22

    Kyle’s helped me so much. I now understand things about myself that before never made sense or caused confusion. Kyle’s compassion for, and understanding of humanity is truly inspiring. He’s connected so many dots-both physiologically and psychologically. Kyle’s a healer. Listen to this man everyone-
    please.

    • @naturelova7
      @naturelova7 Рік тому

      He truly is!! Earth Angel and so thankful for him ❤

    • @victoriadupuy5963
      @victoriadupuy5963 Рік тому

      100% agree..Ive been following Kyle for 2 years..every message is powerful and This IS transformational. So grateful in Kyle leaving Comedy (and love he brings comedy in) wisdom, love, care and compassion is contiguous ❤. Thank you Kyle. And thank to all here listening..this is what changes our world. One nugget at a time that continues to heals each of us..sharing this with many 🎉
      Lets celebrate our our love our light..❤

  • @EmpoweredToBeMe
    @EmpoweredToBeMe Рік тому +1

    The joy and peace of being is worth the work to get there.

  • @jaleenjong2042
    @jaleenjong2042 Рік тому +7

    I want to watch this video 10 more times, while I do my Fasting, for my Emotional/Spiritual/Mental Cleanse/Fasting.

  • @leahannwhite1111
    @leahannwhite1111 Рік тому +1

    True potential is imagined.

  • @JPax3
    @JPax3 Рік тому +11

    Kyle you are an awesome dude!

  • @shelleybehan7974
    @shelleybehan7974 Рік тому +1

    The things that are triggering you are the things you secretly believe are true. I am triggered by people telling me I am not good enough. Yeah it’s a shitty thing to say to anyone but my dad said it all the time and I secretly believe that it’s true. Thank you Kyle. I feel like a direction is forming for me to do the work.

  • @K8_Is_Awake
    @K8_Is_Awake Рік тому +8

    More beautiful messages to put on loop to hear and feel over and over throughout sleep ❤

  • @michelinecousineau8497
    @michelinecousineau8497 Місяць тому

    You r sooo Amazing 🤩 when I feel down I watch one of your videos and it uplifts me 🙏🏻 Thanks ❤

  • @menopostalsky
    @menopostalsky Рік тому

    I can’t wait to meet you all in September. ❤

  • @evahelen2242
    @evahelen2242 Рік тому +4

    OMG sooo good Kyle ! The now is my new spouse !! This is huge ! My soul swollows every word you say, just what puts me back on track 🙏❤️🙏

  • @judubski
    @judubski Рік тому +2

    Thank you, Kyle. You are such a gift to humanity. 🙏💖✨

  • @SoulMedia1
    @SoulMedia1 Рік тому

    You are meant to do this work !

  • @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939

    Dear Kyle,
    This presentation along with “THE FUNERAL” are TWO of your LIFETIME MASTERPIECES!!
    Stay blessed, my friend...
    Robert from daytradingwiththelight

  • @carlosvonderheyde
    @carlosvonderheyde Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @victoriadupuy5963
    @victoriadupuy5963 Рік тому

    I love deep in the colon..😅 over the last few days my lovely and I were deep in past energy, stories etc..both triggered and thru your messages Kyle, I stopped the pattern..it was so loud , offered compassion for both of us, dont resist the trigger, talk to it, love on it, give compassion to our inner child..it was soooo freeing...we both sobbed..AND cleared (at this moment). Thank you for the tools, wisdom and evoling out loud..after 2 years of following you your transfortion is contiguous. I have learned the dark is not as scary as our stories believe it to be in the NOW ❤

  • @laurabeth333
    @laurabeth333 Рік тому

    Hurray!!!!!

  • @gerriboudreau3343
    @gerriboudreau3343 Рік тому +1

    Yes!!! What am I here for?? What is my purpose? Listening every day!!! ❤

  • @Pegable1010
    @Pegable1010 Рік тому +5

    Simply fantastic and right on time. Thank you 😊 ❤

  • @patriciahowellcassity767
    @patriciahowellcassity767 Рік тому +5

    Thank you 🎉❤

  • @yinyangtarot4555
    @yinyangtarot4555 Рік тому +1

    Charge in the body is lighter you are like beyond time I’ve never ever heard anyone talk and think the way you do in my life

  • @janetgutyan366
    @janetgutyan366 Рік тому +3

    I loved this event. xx

  • @debbiebacon7450
    @debbiebacon7450 Рік тому +1

    Kyle, I was in a car accident on June 17th, both us walked away from the wreck. My car was totaled and I was diagnosed with chest contusion, it hurt, but then I got pneumonia. I better now but I've beenmoved to take a year off .❤❤ from my volunteer work and caring for my grandkids. Its a luxury and no guilt, no garbage bags attached. I will listen to this kid as long as i need too!!!!!!!

  • @terenasaldana8743
    @terenasaldana8743 Рік тому +2

    Spot on time & target. Sending you love & good vibrations right back attacha... Thank you so very much!!!

  • @TheAbundanceVibration
    @TheAbundanceVibration Рік тому +2

    thanks a ton Kyle. I can relate so much b/c things are happening in the world now that are very strange. It feels like the end of codependence style attachment relationships. It feels like a death.

  • @redtalks9094
    @redtalks9094 Рік тому

    I love this guy this is a fantastic talk I absolutely wonderful anybody and everybody should listen to this if they resonate with it I know many many will

  • @ryankelly1840
    @ryankelly1840 Рік тому

    Talk of the year if you ask me. Holy smokes.

  • @jeantuite-actress--imdb
    @jeantuite-actress--imdb Рік тому +3

    True having survived alot of trauma like many have sometimes when things are going ok I find myself waiting for the other shoe to drop. I think I protect myself from a certain level of success and/or failure to avoid rejection sometimes too. Other times it doesn't bother me as much as I have healed and continue to heal.

  • @GloryThruHarmony
    @GloryThruHarmony Рік тому

    Thank you so much

  • @shanabridges8757
    @shanabridges8757 Рік тому +1

    Oh my goodness Kyle I swear you are such an angel to me. I have taken the month of July off of AEP, videos, any social media just to reconnect with God. I am in the depths of codependent hell right now and I saw this pop up. Of course I recognized it from our Sedona event and I had to watch. This is exactly what I needed. You are such a gift and I am so grateful for your wisdom, courage, and your gift of sharing it. I love you. ❤️

  • @arikayaeli
    @arikayaeli Рік тому +1

    Thank you. Exactly what I need to hear ❤

  • @Ritakreativ
    @Ritakreativ Рік тому +2

    I love my inner child❤️❤️❤️

  • @sandyvonharten39
    @sandyvonharten39 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for your wisdom and knowledge! This is awesome!!!! Your amazing Kyle and I appreciate you 💕🙏💕

  • @sunnysaz30
    @sunnysaz30 Рік тому +1

    You are a blessing 💜🙏🏼

  • @KellyAwareness
    @KellyAwareness Рік тому +2

    Every single thing I needed to hear right now

    • @KellyAwareness
      @KellyAwareness Рік тому

      @kyleCease Is your main/only goal at this point to stay as present as possible in all moments?

  • @jaleenjong2042
    @jaleenjong2042 Рік тому +3

    Kyle, thank you, this is exactly the kind of program I wanto to tune into every Sunday morning. When I listen to other Mind/Body/Spirit programs, I feel they help me on the intellectual level and/but do not at the same time connect me with my Emotions nor with my Body, so I do not Feel a true understanding of the message. But, with your videos, your voice, the look of the stage, your message/ideas/life examples are soothing and easy to relate to. I have seen the video that you helped Tim Ballard releasing his Blocks of his childhood trauma/near-Abduction, Wow, you are a Fantastic Healer, Kyle!

  • @Celeste_G513
    @Celeste_G513 Рік тому

    As always thank you Gratitude here. 🙏

  • @dotycatlin200
    @dotycatlin200 Рік тому +1

    So beautiful! Thank you Kyle for so beautifully articulating how to let go. 💖

  • @KariLight444
    @KariLight444 Рік тому +1

    Soul Beautiful ❤

  • @daniellebraspenning2909
    @daniellebraspenning2909 Рік тому

    There was a knowing all along only we needed too go through it. There have always be pioneers who were guiding the " masses" but the energy was heavy so it took time to elevate the lower frequencies in to higher frequencies (=conscience). We needed too be with enough people to make this turning point. ( awake growing to awake and aware) It is a inner journey !

  • @ccmagee5006
    @ccmagee5006 Рік тому +1

    Fantastic and amazing. Thank you

  • @John-qi9cj
    @John-qi9cj Рік тому +4

    First !

  • @Jessiethegirl23
    @Jessiethegirl23 Рік тому

    Love your speeches

  • @veredsegal9148
    @veredsegal9148 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤🎯🙏

  • @lynn2475
    @lynn2475 Рік тому

    Thank God for Kyle! I am so done trying to fix that child’s programs. Trying to do that had made me angry all the fucking time.

  • @TheJson8
    @TheJson8 Рік тому +1

    Brilliant thanks 🙏❤

  • @mandytrathan4857
    @mandytrathan4857 Рік тому

    O please come to England ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ceciliajansdotter2829
    @ceciliajansdotter2829 Рік тому +1

    Wow you are amazing!! Thank you!

  • @TheLifeOfAlexCheng
    @TheLifeOfAlexCheng Рік тому

    Absolutely amazing. Thank you

  • @myphonyaccount
    @myphonyaccount 10 місяців тому

    41:01 loneliness is codependency
    46:19 we're all radios

  • @kevinshire5052
    @kevinshire5052 Рік тому +1

    You helped me tremendously. Thank You

  • @meganclaire3385
    @meganclaire3385 Рік тому +1

    felt it to my toes….so good to let go of garbage bags…

  • @menow1650
    @menow1650 Рік тому

    💖💖✔✔🎵🎵✔✔

  • @notfarfromgone1
    @notfarfromgone1 Рік тому +1

    hopefully we can always discern between codependency and interdependency... because now is a big space.

  • @SoundMediaProductions
    @SoundMediaProductions Рік тому +2

    Love this! The love songs tho! 😂 Thank you!

  • @antdog6996
    @antdog6996 Рік тому +2

    This was amazing if there's any more material from this seminar or if there's other material like this that I can get benefit from like this please let me know what it is this was amazing I had such a shift in my awareness in my Outlook for the future. I shared this with so many people

  • @yinyangtarot4555
    @yinyangtarot4555 Рік тому

    Damn Kyle it’s like you read my mind and posted this in such a divine time

  • @aprilsanchez9667
    @aprilsanchez9667 Рік тому +1

    Amazing.. thank you ❤️

  • @nienkevlasma5687
    @nienkevlasma5687 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, just what i needed to hear!!💚

  • @kerstinpflaum932
    @kerstinpflaum932 Рік тому

    kyle, i've been at the event in sedona and now, watching and hearing it again, it is again so much new to me. things, that i didn't get in march. thank u thank u thank u. it's going deeper every time...i am happy now. or should i say, i am now ;)

  • @EmpoweredToBeMe
    @EmpoweredToBeMe Рік тому

    Wanting is being in a needy place.

  • @givorget9658
    @givorget9658 Рік тому +2

    That was so fucking good Kyle

  • @genevas
    @genevas 7 місяців тому

    Released so much with this Kyle 🤍 still want a Porsche though 🤣🤣

  • @mannie2075
    @mannie2075 Рік тому

    😂💪🏼🤗💃🏻🌸🍀🌼🥰🙏❤️👌✨🥂🦋🌍🇸🇪
    So very beautiful message and I can resonate really so much to this NOW ✨✨✨✨
    - we are doing this together ❤️✨🙏
    Thank you so very much best regards from me❤️

  • @ichartier5586
    @ichartier5586 Рік тому +1

    ✨❤️✨🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @starlingswallow
    @starlingswallow Рік тому +2

    I'm unpacking all my family garbage~ alone. None of my family members see that anything is wrong. And I'm scared to break out of the role I've been cast in, but I can't DO it anymore!
    I _won't._
    I will heal and let it go....and be a light in my family. It IS already leaving ❤
    When I am around them, it's like being in a room full of elephants. And everyone is chilling on a rug that has a mountain under it from all the baggage being swept underneath it for years. They don't see that their chairs are falling over from the pitch of this under-the-rug mountain. So.....I just left the room. I moved away and it was the best thing I've ever done in my life. There are no rugs in me and my husbands home, literally and figuratively. We refuse to stuff feelings, sweep crap under a rug, dance around issues, etc. It is so lovely!!
    I'm finally moving into who I've always been and never felt SAFE enough to actually BE.
    It's amazing!!!
    I do realize that all of us have used these coping mechanisms and survival tactics in order to be safe...but it has caused so much dysfunction. I'm astonished. I married a covert narcissist when I was 24 because my family baggage wasn't healed~ I didn't even SEE it back then. Once I left my abuser in 2018, getting out of that fog was helpful for me to finally be able to see the FOO issues. But I'm the only one awake to it....that's why it's lonely. I'm grateful for my healthy and loving husband!

  • @RiggedVedist
    @RiggedVedist Рік тому +2

    Since all is NOW .. how do we know for sure we actually were 'children' in a supposed 'past' ?

    • @24G-p5r
      @24G-p5r Рік тому

      Does it matter?

    • @SoularDiving
      @SoularDiving Рік тому

      The truth is that you never were a child. You have always been This. Untouched, Pure Truth.

  • @kaittemurry4740
    @kaittemurry4740 Рік тому +1

    I love this I always need reinforcement.. where can I watch Jeremy's Ted talk

  • @kaittemurry4740
    @kaittemurry4740 Рік тому +1

    So if you have a toxic friend.. it's OK to let them go right?.. I did let go saying I can't be in your turmoil anymore.. she was mean and hateful bringing up past events.. I had to let go.. and felt relief

  • @haleykristin
    @haleykristin Рік тому

    Enjoying this video. Except I continued those alcohol patterns into my life for oh 15 years. Only been 1 year without alcohol but damn letting go of all those mistakes I made during that time and with loved ones is still really damn tough to release. Etc etc not sure if I understand how to move past that or move through it

    • @haleykristin
      @haleykristin Рік тому

      So I'm relistening to this and even the beginning of this message is so profound. You talk about alcoholic grandparents passing things down etc etc so I guess another question arising within me is what if I created that in my life for 15 years with alcohol plus cheating and all the other hurtful choices I've made which also affected my mental health etc. How do I rewrite my story? How do I rewrite the story for my son?

  • @leahannwhite1111
    @leahannwhite1111 Рік тому +1

    Codependency is imagined.

  • @wildhorsemusic1111
    @wildhorsemusic1111 Рік тому

    My cat is lost. How do I deal with this problem.... been driving around looking for her listening g to these videos

  • @alwina2452
    @alwina2452 Рік тому

    What about shamanism and the ancestors; I really love Kyles perspective, but I am wondering how ancient magical pathways can be woven into this stuff? There has to be a place for certain traditions within the quantum field. Any ideas? Big love to all of you xxxx

  • @lynn2475
    @lynn2475 Рік тому

    No one can make mental illness sound as good as Art Garfunkel.

  • @cheesecakeprincess
    @cheesecakeprincess Рік тому

    Who wouldn't worry about being locked into the cycle of abuse or pattern of behavior predictable by past parental badness and inevitable repeating badness where it catches up? Then, how much condemnation is a victim of abuse and victimizing others for the same abuse inflicted on them first to be a perpetrator? There's no justification but where it begins and where does it end? /2

  • @cheesecakeprincess
    @cheesecakeprincess Рік тому

    The human mind is very complex to understand and it does hold the key for the not to do the unthinkable and predictable by psychology. Yet, the science of psychology has provided much insight into the process of the mind and its behavior, but not a cure for those having a compulsive desire to inflict pain upon others. Are there human beings who are destined to be bad and others to be good and disregard the environment broom and rose? /3

  • @lovedbeyond6422
    @lovedbeyond6422 Рік тому +3

    The only interesting thing about life is conditioning

  • @nic2859
    @nic2859 Рік тому

    41:03 😮😮😮 “its just codependent “

  • @cheesecakeprincess
    @cheesecakeprincess Рік тому

    So, if you come into existence in an unknown world of good or bad circumstances condemned by your ancestors or your grandparents and parents and isn't a condemnation and cruelty in unfair existence that we did not ask for it? 'Exodus 34:7 says that God “[visits] the iniquity of the fathers on the children and the children's children, to the third and the fourth generation.”' Precisely, why? "This worries me because my family has some skeletons in the closet - and sometimes I think past sins are playing out. " /1

    • @riffraffrichard
      @riffraffrichard Рік тому

      What kyles saying is you can let go of these skeletons and by doing so your letting go for all your family lineage and those you love