How To Respect Your Husband! || FINER WIVES || Ep. 2
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- Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
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Hi loves! This is episode 2 of my series "Finer Wives" and it discusses things your husband needs from you. This series was created to empower and equip women to become finer wives for the glory of God. Enjoy!
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Wow, Michelle! Thank you for all of your videos. Since I started watching your videos, I have tried applying all your advice to myself and my relationship with my fiance. Then, just now, he messaged me a letter out of nowhere saying, "You are really becoming a more amazing girlfriend." Thank you for your existence, Michelle! I hope God bless you for being an instrument that helps women like me the best version of themselves. We love you!!!!!
Wow! That must have felt great to hear. You are most welcome sweetie. Keep the changes going and they will soon become second nature. Give God all of the glory. Much love to you!
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What a lovely report! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Michelle is indeed such a gem! ❤️
Hello.. how are guys doing?
one of my fav looks of yours in this video, the jewelry, makeup, outfit are iconic ❤
Aww thank you so much honey. It's actually my fave tooo 😉
You’ve mentored me all the way through my husband courting me to our first year of marriage! Thank you so much for giving me a new way to love my guy! ❤
@@jasmineslayyyter thank you for your kindness love! So happy to hear that💕 Congratulations 🙌🏾wishing you two the best
I had to stop the video midway through to text my husband an apology for the disrespectful words I spoke to him yesterday. It was my fears talking from past experience. But, as you were speaking the Holy Spirit opened my eyes to see that it was cruel and unfair of me to remind him of past mistakes that I had told him I had forgiven. Thank You for speaking the truth.
@Lynnette JenningsThank God for a channel such as this.We are learning alot here.We will all be fine.
God bless you for your obedience ❤️
I did the same!! He’s not my husband but I’m working on being a great finer wife 🎉
My husband love language is touch. When I touch him, kiss him or massage him it to takes him to place of feeling relaxed. I can literally see the tension and or stress being released from his body.
Omg same ❤❤❤
"You're husband shouldnt be the laughing stock of the group" and "you should be friends with women who want to be finer wives." really resonated with me. I love the messages, I love this video, this is what I needed right now ❤️. Thank you!
Just watching this and realizing my mom always disrespects my dad and I was thinking it was normal and he works hard and he is never appreciated. I am glad I am breaking this cycle.😊
I never really saw respect growing up from woman to man. They talk hard
I soooo love this concept of refining ourselves as wives. The ‘take me as I am’ mindset is all too popular, and doesn’t account for the fact a married couple is together… well, pretty much always. Its hard to accept and accept and accept while giving and giving and giving and hardly receiving back. There needs to always be effort, and, boy, does it pay off!! My hubby and I are like two silly kids in love❤️ I wouldn’t stop putting 100% forward for anything. Thank you for the beautiful video!
SHE'S BAAAACCCKKKK YASSSS! Congratulations to your new life as a wife!!! Its the glow for me!!! ❤❤❤
Aww thank you so much babe!!!🤍✨✨
@@drmichelledaf anytime!
Hey beautiful , welcome to the wife life 🌸🌺🌼.
May GodBless all of our unions 🌻
Thank you so much sweetie! 🤍💋✨
You have truly changed me as a young woman. You make me want to be better. I’ve always truly felt like a man. You’ve made me realize the balance between femininity and masculinity. You’ve made me realize I’ve had to be my own man. You’ve made me realize how this has made me very selfish over time. You have helped me transform myself into a kinder and happier woman! My relationships in my life have changed drastically. You’ve made me realize my worth and cut off negative relationships. With your information bad how kindly you relay your message, I’ve grown so close to my significant other, family, and friends. Thank you so much!
I am so grateful for your videos. I am trying to save my marriage. I completely broke my husband which a wife should never do. I am the prime example of not being raised in a loving home, not seeing a happy marriage nor taught about anything but still ended up getting married so now we are on the brink of divorce. I hope that I can repair this, my husband is such a wonderful man and father. Will this series continue?
Really looking forward to the video about respect. My mother never respects my father & I am actively trying to unlearn what I see, and take accountability for how I treat my future partner, so I won’t be like her (I still love her though). You are my role model for this journey of change & femininity, and I greatly appreciate you 💕
Same😒
How does she disrespect him??
My favorite thing ever is waking up to a new video of yours, especially the Finer Wives series!!
That is so sweet, thank you so much! 🌸🤍🌸✨✨
The marriage glow. God is so good 😊
Yes He isssssss!!!!!
There's a lot of things I was resistant to hear that you spoke about, but you're right. A lot of things you said not to do I do and am actively working on. Feeling the need to clap back and start unnecessary arguments over a joke he may say is my biggest problem. Thank you for the advice.
I don't take jokes lightly, there's always some truth behind them. If you feel you are being disrespected then you should definitely stand up for yourself!! Your feelings are valid!
I have read a lot of books on femininity, and PLEASE stand up for yourself even if he is joking in disrespectful way, HOWEVER don't be aggressive in your approach. Say that is is bothering you and that you will not tolerate it. If he is a real man he will acknowledge your feelings and work on his stance towards you.
That part. There should be a male version of Dr. Daf explaining how to be a finer husband too cuzz🤌🏾🤌🏾
@@perleeartisanat2235 OMG the sparks that would be there and the love that will be in the home will be amazing if our men were getting their own teaching. There would be so many Kingdom marriages. I tried to tell my husband to listen to videos about being a good husband and that was viewed as being disrespectful 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
This is the video I needed to see! We have definitely been struggling with arguments and me having feelings of resentment and anger. I hate how it makes me feel, but also, I lost sight of what my man needs and how I focus on thinking that he’s not considerate of me, when I haven’t been very forgiving and considerate of him. Thank you for this wonderful message and saying it in such a loving way. ❤️
Your situation is so similar to mine. I want things to get better
I know this is like my third comment but this thing was so good to me!!! I’m crying and thanking God! It blessed me so! How can I give you an offering? It’s so incredible to see someone talk about Christ with NO shame!!!
Hi Dr. Today is my 7th wedding anniversary and i just keeping learning new things everyday. Respect is so much more vital for men. He needs it more than he need love. Besides, honoring him is a covenant promise you made
Wow you are one wise woman beyond your years! Your video blessed me as married woman of 28 years! God bless you and your family ❤️
Wow this is helpful! I got married about 5 months back and I’m just now figuring out that although my mom taught me how to be strong and told me to be feminine, I didn’t have a first hand example of HOW to be feminine with my man. I’m learning now and tapping into my feminine energy. It is SUCH a power and I’m loving it!
I am on a journey to shifting my feminine energy and be a better wife and mother and this channel and your podcast have been encouraging, uplifting and educational for me! I appreciate your content so much and am grateful for every episode you put out! I feel the godly sisterly love you share with us! Love you so much!
So, I am impressed with this video. I must say, my husband and I are God fearing, devout Christians. I respect my husband immensely, yet he also respects me. We make all decisions together. We listen to each other's ideas and take both into consideration before coming to the final decision, together. What I love, neither of us hold grudges. We've both said things out of anger we didn't mean. We both realize that we are both guilty of this and we both let it go. Our marriage is too important to let it be ruined by some dumb thing said out of anger. We also pray and try to stop such sins against each other. We both do our best to put the other before ourselves. Most of the time, I'm thinking of him first. If he needs something and I need to sacrifice, Done. I don't even think twice. But he does the same for me. It goes both ways. A lot of men will take advantage of a God fearing woman and take control of her and abuse her when he is told he is the "head of the household". My ex husband was a horrible narcissist. Extremely abusive towards me and the children. We knew God did not want us there and left. I understand the man is supposed to lead the family, but I believe some people take it too far. The man sometimes thinks this means he can control her and tell her what to do. I would hate for an abused woman to think she has to respect her husband and listen to him when his intention is to harm her. I enjoy your videos and love how you often speak of the Lord. God Bless.
Daaaamnnnn.... Madam, you returned and look finer than everrr 😍😍😍 love your advice!
I just got engaged a few months ago and noticed some unfeminine habits I do towards my fiance. I’ve been watching your videos lately and I’m trying to make conscious changes😊
Keep doing it doc. Men are even praising your work.
I’m so glad I found your page. These femininity and marriage videos are truly blessing me. I thank God for you! 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾. Thank you God forgiving me the wisdom to be a Godly wife.
I think this is my favorite video of yours, it was such an eye opener for me about my actions
Thank you for this! I’ve been looking for something for black wives and leveling up! So excited for this series
Love your channel Dr. Daf!! I am not a wife (nowhere close, honestly lol i'm not even dating currently. God has me in a long season of preparation & peace just enjoying life as it comes) However, I find your videos super helpful filled with valuable information filled with love & wisdom. I realize now watching your vids that in my past I was just around the wrong men who weren't mature enough (or used to) being around a super feminine black woman. They were very combative with me and often mistook my gentleness for being meek/insecure which wasn't the case.
I can't wait for the day I meet a kingdom man worthy of my love & support, but in the meantime I'll definitely be taking notes! lol Many blessings to and congratulations on your union queen!
you should create a lookbook, you always look so pretty and dainty 🥰
You’ve help me too! 23 years of marriage and challenges to stay married. God bless you!
Congratulations again on your marriage and growing your family! I'm so excited for you and can't wait to see your journey as a wife and empowering us through this!
I'm so that you are back! Congratulations on your recent nuptials! As a wife, I'm so excited for this series! Great reminders! Thanks so much for sharing!❤🙏❤
My boyfriend loves touch. Something as simple as having his hand on my thigh or rubbing his arm or back of his neck while he drives. ❤️ I remember his cousin was like “y’all must like eachother y’all are always cuddling holding hands or massaging eachother” were like .. yes? That’s what couples do right? Like eachother 🤣
Lol! It goes a lot further than people may realize! 🤍✨✨
Thank you, I have been married 31 years almost didn't make it to 32, your videos have helped me tremendously.
I've been married for 2years and I'm loving that your providing this content
I really want to thank you Dr Michelle. I stumbled on your channel at a very low period of my life. As a female who grew up in a Masculine world, I was at loss for what femininity really is and was already suffering from consequences of a lack of my female essence. But God used your channel to help me start on that journey. And now, one and a half years later, I'm a totally different woman. I give God all the praise.
Please keep shining the light of Christ ma'am.
So much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤
Me and my bf have been dating for 5 years I think this is really helping me prepare for the next step!
awww!! love that you both are marriage minded and looking forward to it
💐🌷💐 Hello Michelle and "Congratulations" again on your marriage!
So excited to see a new video in this series...been waiting for weeks. Love your work regarding relationships and femininity.
Thank you🌷💐🌷
Thank you for your sweet words honey!! I'm happy to be back! 🤍✨✨
Wow! I definitely needed this today! I just got married a couple weeks ago and I’m so glad to be hearing this! Thank you!! 🌸
Thank you for your counsel according to the Bible! I appreciate you taking the time to help us wives to respect and submit to our husbands. May the Lord grow your ministry as you give Him glory in your videos. The feminine movement is an attempt from the enemy to emasculate men.
Wow this video is so good! You’re channel has been my saving grace lately. Thank you ❤️
You're so welcome! To God be the Glory!
One more need for your man is to not flirt with other men, even if you don't realize you're doing it. If you're naturally a friendly person who likes to conversate, you have to be careful of being overly friendly to other men or else they & your man can take that as flirting even if that wasn't your intention. I've had this problem before with my man & he gets very upset when I push those boundaries even though I don't realize I'm doing it. It's no excuse to say I'm just being friendly because the opposite sex usually takes overly friendly as flirting. That's a huge disrespect towards your man, take it from me & don't make this mistake. His trust for you won't be as strong if you continue to act this way towards other men. Learn self control & self awareness. It doesn't matter if you were being innocent & your intention wasn't to flirt, they will take it as such & it's not worth being ignorant about it
I had the same problem and completely understand ❤️ it was struggle for me!
My man is too friendly towards my friends and other females. And literally compliments then infront of me like I’m not there
Yep, that goes back to respecting him 👏👏
@@symoneg3057 sounds like he doesn’t respect you. 🤷🏽♀️ I’d leave
You’re right. It’s not worth being ignorant about it- hence why, he, as a rational man, should take the necessary steps to make sure he doesn’t blow up on his wife being polite and friendly with another man. That’s an issue _he_ needs to work on, not you.
YAY! Welcome back and welcome to the wifey club, Mrs.! 💍❤️
What you’re doing is absolutely wonderful!❤️
Lol idk but everytime this woman mentions Jesus so unabashedly it really kills me - I love it. God is the ONLY way we’re going to get ourselves sorted boys & girls - the only way. Listen to her, she really and truly understands what makes women so precious to men…. and so rare as of late.
I am going to add my two cents and then I am moving about my business and continuing to watch this video. Let me just say that when I first started watching these videos I truly believe that the Holy Spirit brought me to this channel to guide me it become a better wife to my husband and in our marriage. We were really struggling as newlyweds and I realized I was the cause of so much of the frustration because I was not operating in the feminine enough and I was not being a godly wife to my husband as a Bible requires. Watching and praying about and practicing the skills that Dr. Daf shares…it is such a joy to revisit the finer wives series because I have truly transformed from the inside through the power of the Holy Spirit and I can receive the truth without any resistance and me and my husband are in such a beautiful place and it is natural and organic an d unforced. And when she started talking about smoking? And not wanting them to know, my husband knows but I’m ashamed of the behavior bevsuse I am trying to stop but HONEY! I know she’s in the Lords will! I pray she stays in it and remains humble so Christ can exalt her! I love it! And congrats WIFE! I want some shirts chileeeee
Oh Mitchell, a true gift you are!💝
yea here for round 2, round 1 was fire❤🔥
I am so thankful for your wise advice! Thank you for teaching being a godly wife, not a worldly wife!
I need this very informal and insight valid information needed ♥️
I know these are a year old but these are amazingly new to me. I am loving these videos. I have been having trouble letting my husband be the man in this relationship and I know it isn’t too late to become more feminine as well as allowing my husband to be a husband with the blessing of God. Thank you!
You've outdone yourself with this one sis! You're invited to my future wedding😂
CONGRATULATIONS DR MICHELLE. WISH YOU HAPPY LONG AND LOVING MARRAIGE
Thank you for this video. It's so well put together. You have such a soft loving way of delivering this message.💕
This must be God way of teaching me 🙏🏾
I somehow searched. Ur video ..I searched your name on my phone while doing my hair after arguing my husband for unnecessary thighs ...thank you for opening my eyes always 🙏🏾and help me not to go do bed angry tonight ..I definitely will talk my husband different way tonight because of you 🙏🏾
God bless you beautiful in and out 🙏🏾
I love you, Michelle💝 I feel like I have finally found my mentor. I feel incredibly thankful and blessed. God bless🙏💕
this channel is THE true revelation! blissful
This is a beautiful message you share with such grace and compassion for women/wives seeking a loving marriage. Thank you and wishing you many blessings.
Welcome!!!welcome!!!back aww love this yung lady congratulations on your marriage...i jus got married also...Life is good...and great..im 51 and trust me you can find love it is available to us all God bless you ladies!!🙏❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for coming coming back 😭 i missed you dearly!!Congratulations 🎈
So grateful to have found your channel 🙏
Congratulations on your wedding and life as a wife! Many blessings to you and your husband❤️
Welcome back! Definitely have missed your content but super happy for all the blessings God is pouring over you💓💖🌺
Idk how or when you came across my timeline, but this is very timely and I’m very grateful! Thanks for the reminders and encouragement! Blessings always! 🙏🏾🥰
What an amazing, encouraging, knowledgeable, enlightened video. Thank you so much. 💓
this video was so amazingly good and very well put. ❤
Thank you so much for watching 🤍✨
DrMichelleDaf. I absolutely love your videos. The share on the 1st episode highlights many things that I discussed in my book, Better, Not Bitter: Staying Healthy After a Crisis. Grateful for your perspective on that book, Esther Anointing.
Wow this brought a tear to my eye. How impactful this information is if we take it to heart and heed the wisdom being shared by Dr. Daf.....👏👏 I know your helping people!!
11:58 is gold, thank you for saying this.
Yay yes please make another video about how to respect men/ your husband! :) Thank you!
Yey. She's back❤❤❤❤
Dr. Daf! Here for it! Congratulations!!!
welcome back and congratulations again Dr Daf 👰🏾😍
Welcome back and congrats on your devine union to your husband🥰. Thank you for the information. I am pausing and praying about some of your points as I watch this video. Thank you so much .
Welcome back!! You look gorgeous… I want to be a finer wife. 🙌🛐🙏🏻
Such a timely message ❤️
Fiiiiiiinally!!! I've been craving this notification forever, welcome back Mrs... we've missed you.
You truly helped me change my life
Wow happy to have you back Dr Michelle
This "Finer Wives" series is Wonderful! It's great that you're adding content for those who are in a marriage. Please keep it coming! You're awesome, and lovely.
Congratulations Honey! you are glowing. Thanks so much
you are so amazing i love your channel 😊
🥳🥳🥳 I’m late bc of the lack of UA-cam notifications 🥴🤯
But so excited for you Doll. Glad to see you back. 💕
Wow, thank you so much. You said some things that I didn't realize I needed to hear. I'm praying and trusting that God will enable me to make consistent changes. It's very difficult when I feel like my husband is not being the spiritual leader that he should be, and that I have to keep making adjustments in MY attitude and MY behaviors when I don't necessarily think he's growing as quickly as he should. I'll keep on asking, keep on seeking, and keep on knocking. God bless you for encouraging and empowering us to be better, finer wives.
as long as you be your best self you can do no wrong. if hes not excelling at a certain pace...its up to you to stay or go.........always better out there
You are so sweet and easy to listen to. This was very helpful to me today. Thank you.
Needed this SO MUCH. thank you! 💓
Beautiful content from a beautiful woman inside and out!!! Thank you🌸💞🌸
Aww you're so sweet thank you love!🤍🌸🤍✨
Beautiful message…beautiful ministry. Thank you 💝
Congratulations wishing all the best as you enter this new season in your life as a wife ❤️. May God keep blessing you 🙏🏽🕊.
We all were waiting for this video 🎉🎉 thank u and congrats
Not married ...YET ;) but taking notes 📝
Congratulations on your marriage. I love your videos for wives.:)
Please, let's go in deeper regarding how to respect your husband. My career is in a male dominated field and it is a great challenge to turn that energy off when I come home to my husband. He desires a soft, feminine wife that he can enjoy coming home to. I admit that I have fallen short at times and have been following your channel to work towards becoming more in line with what is needed for our home.
Definitely learning from scratch, thank you ☺️
🌸🎀🌸..I’m so excited that you are back 🌸🎀🌸
This message was right on time for me. Thank you😘
You are welcome babe 🤍🌸🤍✨
Dr. Daf is on point. The information in The Bible, the knowledge of God's system of seed, sow, harvest, is the key to true happiness that humans have been searching for since the Garden of Eden.
We wasted all that time and money on "experts" in magazines featuring 'stars' who said they knew the secret to inner peace, wealth and a better sex life.
I surrendered to my position in my marriage after 28 years. I have never felt more whole and our lives are so much richer. Most of all, the newfound peace in my mind gives room for the joy of my spirit to return. Honoring your husband is freeing.
Hello my dear, great video! ❤
There are great tips and reports on everything a feminine woman should do to respect her husband. But what about the opposite side? When a man has never learned to respect a woman and the marriage falls apart. How can a feminine woman break away from this?
Greetings from Germany!