How being ugly can make you more attractive

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 10 тис.

  • @juno2884
    @juno2884 4 роки тому +10026

    Don't do that, don't give me hope

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache 5 років тому +5929

    How being ugly can make me attractive?
    You had my curiosity but now you have my attention.

    • @cyanjello1922
      @cyanjello1922 5 років тому +36

      Well hello again

    • @-touya_todoroki
      @-touya_todoroki 5 років тому +10

      Well think of it this way for every one person who likes something theres at least 1 person who hates that said thing

    • @Hafnooz
      @Hafnooz 5 років тому +6

      Djangooooo...

    • @Recondite101
      @Recondite101 5 років тому

      @Da Tick same lol

    • @unironicallydel7527
      @unironicallydel7527 5 років тому +7

      If you're ugly to some, you''re 100% guaranteed to be attractive to others. :)

  • @gentsimps9067
    @gentsimps9067 3 роки тому +3232

    everyone likes vanilla icecream but its nobody's favorite, and theres a good chance that whatever is your favorite a good amount of people hate.

    • @AmandaNavarro
      @AmandaNavarro 3 роки тому +187

      THIS. Underrated comment. I'm a pistachio type of person but pretty much everyone I know outside of my family would never eat it, say they prefer rocky road 🤢 Too sugary for my liking and too many flavors mushed together at once to enjoy each individual flavor. The same definitely applies to dating. If a person is anything greater than 2D, it's too much 🤧

    • @lunabeekhuizen8858
      @lunabeekhuizen8858 3 роки тому +51

      Yeah, exactly. I like raspberry :) Not very original, but still very tasty

    • @pilgrim1978
      @pilgrim1978 3 роки тому +242

      vanilla is my favourite though

    • @Aquahands
      @Aquahands 3 роки тому +72

      Cookies and cream is the best

    • @jj_lanae1307
      @jj_lanae1307 3 роки тому +34

      @@Aquahands *gasp* I LOVE cookies and cream

  • @cheese7432
    @cheese7432 3 роки тому +907

    “Being ugly can make you more attractive”
    Me: *visible hairless rat confusion*

    • @rattina7784
      @rattina7784 3 роки тому +36

      Rats are still cute tho

    • @arandomfox9009
      @arandomfox9009 3 роки тому +9

      How dare you say it is ugly

    • @frogge4426
      @frogge4426 3 роки тому +13

      Rat do be friggin adorable

    • @OdetteEgg
      @OdetteEgg 3 роки тому +3

      And point proven

    • @elevenpoisons2484
      @elevenpoisons2484 3 роки тому +4

      some people think hairless rats are super cute and interesting. my poiny is, you may not be everyones idea of beauty, but there are still peoppe who's look at you and get heart eyes

  • @bruhmoment-pf5zp
    @bruhmoment-pf5zp 5 років тому +22636

    dave is like that one friend who you don't hear from much but at 3am he'll start sending you links to the secrets of the universe before he disappears into the night again

    • @rayne1337
      @rayne1337 4 роки тому +470

      I've found myself in that explanation sadly. But I've lost all friends in 20 lol

    • @lord_xylozdoomsday959
      @lord_xylozdoomsday959 4 роки тому +679

      U won't see them for a whole month and then suddenly the knocks on your door and says' ants fart too'

    • @rogervallee3885
      @rogervallee3885 4 роки тому +160

      Best part about this comment is this video just popped into my feed and its late af for me right now

    • @Alex-vo5bm
      @Alex-vo5bm 4 роки тому +116

      I am that friend xD

    • @ignoremelol2576
      @ignoremelol2576 4 роки тому +66

      That's me, except that I just start sending random links and talking about my dog and starting posting videos at that time lol

  • @aesthethicc69420
    @aesthethicc69420 4 роки тому +13853

    Dave: How Being Ugly Can Make You More Attractive
    Ugly people: *_interesting_*

  • @Shoxpyre
    @Shoxpyre 3 роки тому +2372

    The takeaway, female attractiveness directly correlates to how much they've listened to Avril Lavigne

  • @ratcanine4053
    @ratcanine4053 4 роки тому +3532

    Biggest take away: everyone wants a goth girlfriend
    Agreed lmao

    • @Tinymoezzy
      @Tinymoezzy 4 роки тому +31

      Well shit, I'm screwed.

    • @pineapple_kid2570
      @pineapple_kid2570 3 роки тому +44

      Not me I want a cute shy girl because that's not dissimilar to me

    • @Marcus-gl3ue
      @Marcus-gl3ue 3 роки тому +29

      Eh I’m not goth girl I just want a girl who cares about me

    • @multijxde1855
      @multijxde1855 3 роки тому +13

      Nah, some of them have big egos nowadays

    • @redteeth4890
      @redteeth4890 3 роки тому +47

      @@multijxde1855 Haha, you should try dating guys in general

  • @urmom-ki1of
    @urmom-ki1of 4 роки тому +8912

    what this video taught me: Be hot or be cold but NOBODY likes lukewarm

    • @galacticlavalamp6338
      @galacticlavalamp6338 4 роки тому +450

      :c I’m lukewarm for sure
      I have the most average goddam face the most average height
      I’m the most boring person in the world and I have no friends

    • @xxxxxxxxx1652
      @xxxxxxxxx1652 4 роки тому +9

      Y E S

    • @lolzepic
      @lolzepic 4 роки тому +38

      @@galacticlavalamp6338 rip

    • @jedithekitten8891
      @jedithekitten8891 4 роки тому +57

      Galactic Lava Lamp That’s relatable. Though I’m a bit on the colder side of lukewarm

    • @rose-marielundholm3597
      @rose-marielundholm3597 4 роки тому +57

      True, you shower and bath with hot water and drink cold water, but lukewarm water? What do you do with that make bread?

  • @SomeoneYouDontKnowOfficial
    @SomeoneYouDontKnowOfficial 5 років тому +3282

    Did you mean: _I have a chance_

    • @kyhoney
      @kyhoney 5 років тому +26

      Someone You Don't Know yes we all do :,D

    • @TJskillz169
      @TJskillz169 5 років тому +39

      Lets see, are you at least 6' tall?

    • @noether9447
      @noether9447 5 років тому +69

      @@TJskillz169 I got stilts. Go on

    • @surreal9583
      @surreal9583 5 років тому +2

      I of course I know you, you're me

    • @martinnitram6056
      @martinnitram6056 5 років тому +14

      Stop it don't give me hope

  • @garrison9027
    @garrison9027 3 роки тому +225

    Honestly the higher attractive ones getting low messages might be cause guys don’t think they have a chance. Like “nah... I won’t even try cause I know how it’ll go.”

  • @majolie2426
    @majolie2426 3 роки тому +409

    I remember my psychology professor said that often times the people who are considered very attractive are the ones people never go for because of basically what you said, people assume that the attractive person is already popular enough as is.
    I had some friends growing up in grade school who were considered very attractive but had a relatively low self esteem and would never believe if a guy liked them or that they even had a chance.. I think that’s because they did not get the attention they probably should have been getting compared to their peers and so the weird thing happened where they were the ones who felt outcast. Weird how the world works.

    • @duhuh7370
      @duhuh7370 3 роки тому +24

      This. 100% hit the nail on the head.

    • @couchpotatoe91
      @couchpotatoe91 3 роки тому +32

      Can confirm that the number of girls I've asked out thinking to myself "she's way too pretty to say yes to me" is way higher than I imagined at first. Some of them also told me nobody seems to 'dare' asking them out irl while online they get swarmed by creeps.

    • @SeraphimxSins
      @SeraphimxSins 3 роки тому +3

      Well, of course it's not always like that, because phenomenon that caused the stereotype to exist in the first place has had to exist at least in some form, at some point in time, to have brought about said stereotype in the first place.
      If that makes any sense. What I'm trying to say is basically that there are very attractive people who get a flooded with attention, and thus why some get very little because people look at the ones who are and automatically apply the logic that if this person is getting so much attention, then this person who's in the same league as them likely has all the suitors they could ever ask for as well.

    • @SeraphimxSins
      @SeraphimxSins 3 роки тому +5

      I'm also guilty of this. Whenever I see a particularly attractive female, I just tell myself that she's probably already taken. Because every one that I've actually approached/worked up enough "fuck it, why not?" courage to express my interest in getting to know is apparently already taken. Either that or just used being taken as a convenient excuse to brush me off, but it's whatever.

    • @couchpotatoe91
      @couchpotatoe91 3 роки тому +18

      @@SeraphimxSins Maybe you should start by not calling women "female". Just an idea.

  • @nonexistentunicorn1122
    @nonexistentunicorn1122 4 роки тому +4656

    My boyfriend sent me this video
    I think he’s trying to tell me something...

    • @Views-dj3ve
      @Views-dj3ve 4 роки тому +25

      Nonexistent Unicorn obvious

    • @laur_bk
      @laur_bk 4 роки тому +452

      Nonexistent Unicorn
      That you are exactly his type

    • @tinygypsy3707
      @tinygypsy3707 4 роки тому +68

      Lmfao but it was about himself

    • @junbiok7188
      @junbiok7188 4 роки тому +34

      U gonna ignore the first three words?

    • @elizabethcabbage9817
      @elizabethcabbage9817 4 роки тому +14

      Actually "this video is" I dunno the significance of that...

  • @perfumaphilia3246
    @perfumaphilia3246 4 роки тому +4115

    Basically, when you're unique, you have a greater chance of being someone's exact type.

    • @graceshelton2982
      @graceshelton2982 4 роки тому +259

      Finally someone using words i can understand

    • @marksilla8276
      @marksilla8276 4 роки тому +116

      Whether they are your type is the real key factor. You could be the type to a group of people who you don't find attractive at all

    • @kentmichaelgalang686
      @kentmichaelgalang686 4 роки тому +7

      factor in better chances in winning competition, and i believe the point is complete

    • @perfumaphilia3246
      @perfumaphilia3246 4 роки тому +66

      @@graceshelton2982 mind you, you may be considered less attractive to the majority than a more "normal" looking person, and even ugly to some. But you'll be considered very attractive to a few. More of a niche, a particular type, like I said. There are other factors mentioned in the article, but that was the gist.

    • @cheesecakelasagna
      @cheesecakelasagna 4 роки тому +25

      @@alecubudulecu do you think polarizing is better than average/common looking? Because I kinda think so. The same way like how to many Ryan Gosling is god-made beautiful but I'm one of those that don't get it.

  • @Spirallium_
    @Spirallium_ 3 роки тому +515

    Yeah, explains why as a girl i'm into dead-looking guys.

  • @sandrookrostsvaridze3397
    @sandrookrostsvaridze3397 3 роки тому +377

    It's simple. Everyone wants a 10. If everyone thinks ur a 5 nobody is gonna go for you. On the other hand if half of the people think you're a 0 and the other half thinks you're a 10 half of everyone is gonna loose their mind over you.

    • @hoypip
      @hoypip 3 роки тому +33

      It's like the episode of the Office where they're debating whether or not Hillary Swank is hot

    • @giseldmello6197
      @giseldmello6197 3 роки тому

      I can't understand 😩

    • @GBSZ12
      @GBSZ12 3 роки тому +3

      I don't want a 10

    • @user-kn9mb5jz6x
      @user-kn9mb5jz6x 3 роки тому

      Usually that doesn't happen

    • @mrpg6975
      @mrpg6975 3 роки тому +2

      What if everyone thinks I am a 0

  • @TomPriceism
    @TomPriceism 5 років тому +3926

    In summary, the worst thing you can be is boring/average

    • @JoeGreeneFilmsOslo
      @JoeGreeneFilmsOslo 5 років тому +196

      I had a similar takeaway. Note that the two sets discussed were both women that were considered "above average" versus those who were polarized as either "hot" or "not". This tells me that the worst thing a person can be on a dating profile is a *safe bet*, versus playing into the polarizing traits they have and pushing some away in order to pull others in closer.

    • @1astcetrA
      @1astcetrA 5 років тому +95

      You mean basic?

    • @danielpas368
      @danielpas368 5 років тому +59

      So that's what I'm doing wrong

    • @kennardteohthienhao6415
      @kennardteohthienhao6415 5 років тому +31

      Well fuck that's me

    • @autismo8123
      @autismo8123 5 років тому +11

      shit.

  • @anishbagri6724
    @anishbagri6724 5 років тому +11915

    Person: I'm so ugly, no one would ever date me
    OkCupid: *_Well yes, but actually no_*

    • @lilwaterpump3289
      @lilwaterpump3289 5 років тому +106

      Swedish Fuckery nah man that means most people think you’re attractive, you’ll just get less action on tinder

    • @wideawake3768
      @wideawake3768 5 років тому +63

      @slartibartfast85 jesus- dNobody needs to be having this conversation, just like you didn't need to say such vile things.

    • @wideawake3768
      @wideawake3768 5 років тому +84

      @slartibartfast85 saying that a woman who is insecure and was abused as a child is your ideal type makes me want to puke. You may find these women attractive in some sick way, but they don't need people going after them because they were emotionally damaged instead of going after them for their personalities like they would probably want.

    • @aya6194
      @aya6194 5 років тому +26

      @slartibartfast85 i watched the portion of the video, dont see how that justifies you fetishizing abuse victims,,, at all

    • @oops_dot_jpeg
      @oops_dot_jpeg 5 років тому +1

      @Swedish Fuckery That's my dating bio fyi.

  • @kirraame1193
    @kirraame1193 4 роки тому +1114

    I guess this is where the "i'm not like other girls" type of girls come in

    • @endmysuffering7903
      @endmysuffering7903 3 роки тому +65

      oh no don't bring them into this

    • @Ts-kc5ie
      @Ts-kc5ie 3 роки тому +71

      I'm too ugly to be considered a girl

    • @MaddesG1
      @MaddesG1 3 роки тому +9

      "Im not like im not like uk ok... So if u think for one minute i am i am not i am what i am." *When u are not quite like others but u are not quite u either*

    • @endmysuffering7903
      @endmysuffering7903 3 роки тому +22

      @@Ts-kc5ie well then are you an ugly boy?

    • @yeesushelpme
      @yeesushelpme 3 роки тому +30

      I mean my friend isn't like other girls
      She (atleast for now) has a dick

  • @tatorick9002
    @tatorick9002 3 роки тому +191

    I feel as though it’s also because the girls who were considered “generally attractive” don’t really have features that stand out. My father told me in the modelling industry they oftentimes look for models (male and female) who have very strong features that stand out. They even go as far as to bring the feature that stands out to the forefront, it grabs your attention.

    • @tvgubber
      @tvgubber 3 роки тому +2

      Yes that’s what I was thinking during this

    • @elevenpoisons2484
      @elevenpoisons2484 3 роки тому +7

      This king of makes me feel better about the shape of my skull

  • @keepXonXrockin
    @keepXonXrockin 5 років тому +8658

    So, basically the Benedict Cumberbatch effect. There's a strong divide between people enthralled with him and those who think he looks like an alien.

    • @kyhoney
      @kyhoney 5 років тому +193

      keeponrockin he does look attractive to me

    • @jasminejelly6882
      @jasminejelly6882 5 років тому +338

      I thought he looked so weird at first

    • @nightlydreamer_
      @nightlydreamer_ 5 років тому +411

      Same goes for Adam Driver, the guy who plays Kylo Ren in Star Wars

    • @CrocodileCookies
      @CrocodileCookies 5 років тому +133

      This is a great example actually

    • @bobbieproductions4491
      @bobbieproductions4491 5 років тому +80

      OMG YEEEES, I am so in love with Benedict Cumberbatch, this is a great example that it's the same for women who like guys.

  • @pl9462
    @pl9462 3 роки тому +84

    Girl: Look the thing is I don't think you are good looking.
    Dave: That's fine. Actually statisticly that makes me more atractive.

  • @HeavymetalHylian
    @HeavymetalHylian 4 роки тому +129

    so basically, the more niche your looks are, the more attractive you become to the people who like particular things about your looks. Like I love long hair on men and I think it makes any guy look 5x more attractive even if the guy isn't particularly attractive sans the locks. I think there's probably an idea of scarcity too, like "not a lot of guys have this (attractive trait) so I should go for it." Even deeper, we make associations with someone's physical appearance and our own personal experiences or stereotypes. If we feel like their appearance has something to do with something that means a lot to us like pop culture, music, etc, we're going to find them more attractive right off the bat.

  • @MiniMackeroni
    @MiniMackeroni 5 років тому +1017

    "If someone doesn't think you're hot, the next best thing for them to think is that you're ugly." I feel strangely better from this.

    • @aliveslice
      @aliveslice 4 роки тому +34

      Yes but no. Maybe some may find it uplifting that you have less choice but more people approaching you believing you're plain enough for others to not be interested. Sounds depressing to me

    • @ishasatapathy6303
      @ishasatapathy6303 4 роки тому +3

      I read this just as he said it

    • @pulloutkingthefinestnamein3089
      @pulloutkingthefinestnamein3089 4 роки тому +3

      Mackeroni 11/5 profile pic

    • @brandonsaerens3673
      @brandonsaerens3673 4 роки тому +2

      Am i the only one noticing that his eyes are looking weird his eyes are huge

    • @mato4025
      @mato4025 4 роки тому

      @@ishasatapathy6303 me too

  • @eggroller865
    @eggroller865 5 років тому +871

    *sees title* THERES STILL HOPE YES

    • @Dynomafia139
      @Dynomafia139 5 років тому +26

      Me: don't do that, don't give me hope

    • @kyhoney
      @kyhoney 5 років тому +5

      OwenGaming we have a chance :,)

    • @beabzzbzz
      @beabzzbzz 5 років тому +1

      yay

    • @rorschach233
      @rorschach233 5 років тому +1

      Theres hope :')

    • @mochiattoart514
      @mochiattoart514 5 років тому

      @@Dynomafia139 That reference XD

  • @facesncharcoal4152
    @facesncharcoal4152 4 роки тому +284

    When being ugly isn’t the even biggest problem...I just have zero personality and any sense of humor I have is stolen from other people 👁👄👁
    Ha guess I’ll never find love and I’ll be a cat lady and die alone

    • @CoolVictor2002
      @CoolVictor2002 3 роки тому +23

      That's loser talk, what makes you so ready to "lie down and die"? have you changed since the three months?

    • @facesncharcoal4152
      @facesncharcoal4152 3 роки тому +79

      @@CoolVictor2002 lol actually yeah...college happened and after several random dudes have started repeatedly hitting on me I have now decided that I WANT to be a cat lady and be independent and alone forever ✨😌

    • @CoolVictor2002
      @CoolVictor2002 3 роки тому +23

      @@facesncharcoal4152 those guys are just dick heads that ruin it for other people, my philosophy is everyone is good but some people ruin it, some people are selfish about certain things, life is complicated, people have different agendas. I hope one day you'll find the one, but you have to get up and get out and meet people. Be street smart, be kind.

    • @Luna-lq1jn
      @Luna-lq1jn 3 роки тому +6

      Lmao I actually WANT to be lonely 😂

    • @worstusernameintheworld9871
      @worstusernameintheworld9871 3 роки тому

      @@facesncharcoal4152 what about it?

  • @satisfiedskullservant
    @satisfiedskullservant 3 роки тому +129

    Hmmm this sounds to me like the dating equivalent of the old addage, "Jack of all trades, master of none."
    If you're generally attractive, it doesn't make you attractive enough for anyone to take the first step. If you're polarising and a master of one type of look, some will hate you and some will love you. And the ones that love you are gonna try to slide into those dms.

  • @yasminx16
    @yasminx16 4 роки тому +1089

    Interesting - so in summary: be unapologetically yourself and you’re more likely to attract people who find you deeply attractive

    • @DapperHesher
      @DapperHesher 4 роки тому +44

      Sounds good, doesn't work.

    • @SilenceOase
      @SilenceOase 4 роки тому +17

      @@DapperHesher But it does, that's exactly what the study shows

    • @DapperHesher
      @DapperHesher 4 роки тому +13

      @@SilenceOase Sorry... doesn't work 'for me'. I wasn't specific enough.

    • @DapperHesher
      @DapperHesher 4 роки тому +2

      @Sonic ASMR I think I'm pretty good looking.

    • @skysims3749
      @skysims3749 4 роки тому +24

      Sonic ASMR makes no sense. Most of these women in this video were average or a little tiny bit above it in my opinion. Ryan isn’t a ugly person. He could be up there with those women but that’s the thing with Women and men. Some men would date a women because she’s plainly just a women. Let’s be honest. Average women get a lot of more attention than an average male. It’s just the way it works. It’s also very rude of you to say that he doesn’t get girls because he’s “not that good looking” then sugar coat it and say “but that’s alright” lol. Beauty is subjective. That’s what this whole was video about basically.

  • @applepie5733
    @applepie5733 4 роки тому +5266

    yeah, as a girl I personally find myself more attracted to 'weird' or 'ugly' looking dudes. 'Perfect' looking guys just look boring to me. So I can understand this.

    • @macaronicheese8721
      @macaronicheese8721 4 роки тому +302

      Exactly! I love a unique looking man :)

    • @kiruuttori8539
      @kiruuttori8539 4 роки тому +77

      As i male i can kinda see this too, but Maybe to into extreme though

    • @Zeverinsen
      @Zeverinsen 4 роки тому +239

      Same.
      I've always been more attracted towards the weird/nerdy, and I do go more in on them over generally attractive people 🤔
      When I do use tinder, I usually swipe left on very attractive people.

    • @evasmojang
      @evasmojang 4 роки тому +239

      Agreed. A lot of male actors called "hot" look the same to me. I find certain "unique" characteristics more attractive than big muscles etc. etc. Like, I find a drooping eyelid attractive (ex: Thom Yorke)

    • @Usernamee619
      @Usernamee619 4 роки тому +10

      I love a perfect man

  • @PumpkinMozie
    @PumpkinMozie 4 роки тому +566

    I can confirm as a straight woman that men who have imperfections in their appearance are WAY more attractive to me than guys that appear to be "perfect" looking. Getting a little off topic now. This is ironic when you think about incels hating on "Chads". Like, maybe if you just tried being chill and less resentful, girls would like you. It sooooo much comes down to a guy's attitude at that point. When I see pics of incels I usually find myself thinking, "wow, looks-wise he could actually be hot if he put in a little effort. But his personality is completely misogynistic, which ruins his chances."

    • @shadowmakerer
      @shadowmakerer 3 роки тому +12

      Enough of your lies. lol.

    • @shadowmakerer
      @shadowmakerer 3 роки тому +2

      @@anuvette Interesting. Normally, I mog most people in facial growth with my cheekbones and jawline, but if I'm getting called incel, it's over.

    • @anuvette
      @anuvette 3 роки тому +55

      @@shadowmakerer i dont remember why i commented that and im confused why i was so aggressive and now im even more confused from your reply

    • @shadowmakerer
      @shadowmakerer 3 роки тому +10

      @@anuvette Confusing times we live in, friends.

    • @elpoodoo3099
      @elpoodoo3099 3 роки тому +3

      If you want less incels to be born I would say women need to be more open.. I guess? Like a lot of these incels have probably just given up because no matter how long they waited or tried they never got in a relationship. So just be less cold and be more open. Just a theory on how to fix the issue..

  • @orc-jiit9257
    @orc-jiit9257 3 роки тому +47

    so they really werent lying when they said just be yourself

  • @pattykcake
    @pattykcake 5 років тому +659

    “If someone doesn’t think you’re hot, the next best thing for them to think is that you’re ugly” by Fall Out Boy

    • @redsky5495
      @redsky5495 5 років тому +26

      by panic! at the disco

    • @niamhrtditchfield2348
      @niamhrtditchfield2348 5 років тому +5

      Yes just yes

    • @mellchiril
      @mellchiril 5 років тому +2

      I can see that being a song of theirs, tbh

    • @trevorlange
      @trevorlange 5 років тому +7

      You forgot to take out all of the vowels haha "f Smn dsn't Thnk yr ht, th nxt bst thng fr thm t thnk s tht yr gly"

  • @memebot6490
    @memebot6490 4 роки тому +2234

    People like unique looking people. It piques their curiosity. In fact, a lot of attractive actors have something "off" about them. There's been some studies done on it.

    • @greenLimeila
      @greenLimeila 4 роки тому +145

      Yes, for a long type I've never understood why Ryan Gosling was considered so hot by a lot of people because he has a lazy eye and that's really off-putting for me; but I guess him having one trait not considered canonically attractive in the middle of his otherwise very conventional looks is exactly what makes him so hot to everyone

    • @silentj624
      @silentj624 4 роки тому +65

      @@greenLimeila I've never noticed the lazy eye. I am now headed to Google.
      Yeah, he's hot. Lol

    • @silentj624
      @silentj624 4 роки тому +32

      @ that actually is part of her appeal. People like her because she's so down to earth.

    • @sammiller4536
      @sammiller4536 4 роки тому +36

      Like Timothée Chalamet for example.

    • @sammiller4536
      @sammiller4536 4 роки тому +44

      @@greenLimeila Yeah, Bill Skarsgård has a lazy eye too and a weird look that makes him even more attractive which is really weird.

  • @elbeyaan
    @elbeyaan 4 роки тому +58

    I got an ad that was selling 'ugly' men a seminar on how to pick up 'hot' women. UA-cam, don't call me out like that.

  • @naeroforceofficial
    @naeroforceofficial 4 роки тому +18

    There's one big fundamental flaw with this article about the superficial part, being a dating site, you use photos to "express" how you look, some photos can work better than other without considering the subject. They are important and even if the study doesn't focus on the photos, they should take them in consideration!

  • @denissdenisson6823
    @denissdenisson6823 5 років тому +1216

    He seems so happy about this "YES, I KNEW MY HAIR WAS WORTH SOMETHING"
    I quite like it tbh

  • @celestegarcia923
    @celestegarcia923 4 роки тому +3252

    It’s not about trying to attract as many guys as possible, it’s about attracting the type you want as a mate.

    • @alicethemadrabbit1842
      @alicethemadrabbit1842 4 роки тому +266

      THIS. I feel like people see a high number of likes or messages as the goal, when in reality it should be quality over quantity.

    • @lianep9100
      @lianep9100 4 роки тому +76

      You're right it's just that attracting lots of people allows you to have more options and some of those might just be the type of person you like.

    • @zeinalbasam4733
      @zeinalbasam4733 4 роки тому +32

      What are you doing here your attractive

    • @zeinalbasam4733
      @zeinalbasam4733 4 роки тому +5

      Arun Keshavadas if she wanted to feel sorry for us she would just tell us the truth instead of lying that’s part of the problem.

    • @celestegarcia923
      @celestegarcia923 4 роки тому +18

      @@zeinalbasam4733 I grew up ugly

  • @aj-n-stuff8977
    @aj-n-stuff8977 3 роки тому +17

    i think it would be interesting if they did actually include females rating males. gay and lesbian and bi etc. perspectives. id love to see how the data differs if at all
    id also like to see reports filed based on masculine or feminine, gay or straight, race, etc.

  • @VioletLaStrange1
    @VioletLaStrange1 4 роки тому +14

    What I noticed and think has a huge factor, is that two woman can have the same rating of attractiveness, but the one who gives of "sexier" vibes will receive more messages.

  • @alejandroschmidt2286
    @alejandroschmidt2286 5 років тому +1471

    I don't know mate, Garfield's looking pretty hot in those pics not gonna lie.

    • @earthpcCHClS
      @earthpcCHClS 5 років тому +12

      @potato psoas why

    • @RoxOn413
      @RoxOn413 5 років тому +4

      @potato psoas the heck ;-;

    • @TiagoTiagoT
      @TiagoTiagoT 5 років тому +7

      @potato psoas #imsorryjohn

    • @thatguy1153
      @thatguy1153 5 років тому +7

      Thanks, I Hate it

    • @Drip-Soup373
      @Drip-Soup373 5 років тому

      @potato psoas ua-cam.com/video/fHbxW4ytznI/v-deo.html

  • @voivodadracula1936
    @voivodadracula1936 4 роки тому +877

    _"Hey grill you look pretty niche"_

  • @reetsa4203
    @reetsa4203 3 роки тому +18

    *sees thumbnail*
    "don't do that. don't give me hope"

  • @jacobclaassen4709
    @jacobclaassen4709 3 роки тому +77

    UA-cam: Recommends this to me.
    Me: So what you sayin?

  • @Juli77Beudelaire
    @Juli77Beudelaire 4 роки тому +1553

    "If someone doesn't think you're hot, the next best thing for them to think is that you're ugly" this statement hits like a train

    • @adelhelma6015
      @adelhelma6015 4 роки тому +17

      i don’t get it. what does this statement mean?

    • @buildinasentry1046
      @buildinasentry1046 4 роки тому +128

      Adelhelma S. It means that if they don’t think you’re really attractive, they’ll just write you off as ugly even though you’re probably not bad looking

    • @etherealc4nt
      @etherealc4nt 4 роки тому +8

      And yeah I’m in the middle of them what am I supposed to do

    • @nurhesen
      @nurhesen 3 роки тому +6

      that is my life philosophy from childhood

    • @MrSqurk
      @MrSqurk 3 роки тому +11

      Buildin a sentry it doesn’t mean that at all.

  • @oops_dot_jpeg
    @oops_dot_jpeg 5 років тому +1800

    Okay cupid had some inaccurate data. Garfield is hella hot, everyone wants a peice of that lasagna.

    • @oops_dot_jpeg
      @oops_dot_jpeg 5 років тому +6

      @Hamburger And SpRiTe thanks 😊. You must be a Garfield fan. 👌

    • @wintershock
      @wintershock 5 років тому +4

      oops_dot_jpeg I want lasagna.

    • @drog_dealure
      @drog_dealure 5 років тому +4

      I looooooooooooove lasagna

    • @JosekTheNecromancer
      @JosekTheNecromancer 5 років тому +5

      I currently require some lasaga

    • @jwin9558
      @jwin9558 5 років тому +3

      Shane definitely does

  • @linasirine8279
    @linasirine8279 4 роки тому +20

    It seems interesting to put it in perspective with, guys liking to stare at "super hot girls" while being perfectly happy in a relationship with "average girls" or guys being tempted by "average girls" when being in a relationship with "super hot girls"

  • @ky2827
    @ky2827 5 років тому +696

    dave: how being ugly can make you attractive
    me: well this must be the video for me

  • @Homeboy969
    @Homeboy969 5 років тому +3277

    DO NOT TRY TO GO TO SAUSAGEPARTY DOT COM. ITS NOT PLENTY OF FISH. I REPEAT. IT IS _NOT_ PLENTY OF FISH.

    • @MrBizteck
      @MrBizteck 5 років тому +447

      Oh hell now I HAVE TO GO.

    • @ChristLover53
      @ChristLover53 5 років тому +237

      This is a great comment thank you

    • @Bravo-oo9vd
      @Bravo-oo9vd 5 років тому +327

      "How did this happen? We're smarter than this."

    • @eitang.6292
      @eitang.6292 5 років тому +175

      pingubun thanks for the infooooo

    • @How_To_Drive_a_TARDIS
      @How_To_Drive_a_TARDIS 5 років тому +59

      lemongrab has a party, oh shoot no I shouldn't have said that

  • @mamamommy42
    @mamamommy42 4 роки тому +13

    this explains a lot about this girl from my hometown, so many guys will talk shit on her looks while also trying to get in her pants and it's always been confusing to me, like, she's cute so i don't get why the same guys will call her ugly and then beg her to make an onlyfans

    • @ZetaCancri
      @ZetaCancri 2 роки тому +3

      because they're horny insecure losers

  • @mari_moonshoes
    @mari_moonshoes 3 роки тому +23

    As a wamen: this was helpful and surprisingly confidence-inspiring

  • @somepersonwithaname4530
    @somepersonwithaname4530 5 років тому +2827

    Hey, could you put your hair in a braid? I just really wanna see it

    • @ChristionGirl45
      @ChristionGirl45 5 років тому +112

      I honestly want to see that too!!

    • @fmratio8327
      @fmratio8327 5 років тому +82

      French or fish braid??

    • @aguywearingonlyshorts
      @aguywearingonlyshorts 5 років тому +113

      What about pig tails?

    • @KATinBLACK
      @KATinBLACK 5 років тому +51

      freddy Fish braid might look interesting on him
      Now I really have to see him do his hair

    • @danboah2501
      @danboah2501 5 років тому +7

      Please

  • @hellointernet7867
    @hellointernet7867 5 років тому +680

    I love that Avril Lavigne is the standard for emo 😂😂

    • @Aviator_-yv6os
      @Aviator_-yv6os 5 років тому +9

      Personally the most emo song is That one by MCR I don't want to say the name wrong so I ain't gonna say it.

    • @hellointernet7867
      @hellointernet7867 5 років тому +7

      @@Aviator_-yv6os black parade

    • @Nanashi20
      @Nanashi20 5 років тому

      @@hellointernet7867 have you not listened to that with a video game soundfont? it goes from emo to not emo at all lol

    • @pan-opticon
      @pan-opticon 5 років тому +3

      hello internet
      Hate to be that person buuuttttt....
      “Welcome To The Black Parade”
      S O R R Y

    • @PeachPlastic
      @PeachPlastic 5 років тому +2

      @@pan-opticon *High five in G*

  • @kimjones1398
    @kimjones1398 3 роки тому +4

    Literally with the tattoos/piercings/hair its so true i get so many compliments now that i have a split hair dye and more piercings than i did before. but about 1/10th of the times i get insults/weird comments about my appearance .

  • @lumix815
    @lumix815 3 роки тому +12

    "How being ugly can make you more attractive"
    None of the girls are actually ugly.

  • @CausticFoil
    @CausticFoil 5 років тому +576

    They've just performed this exact thing with the articles. By hiding them, it makes them seem more controversial which makes people more interested.

    • @Petrichorus-
      @Petrichorus- 5 років тому +4

      👀

    • @ToxicLetsPlay
      @ToxicLetsPlay 5 років тому +14

      Good old Streisand-effect

    • @riptidev10
      @riptidev10 5 років тому +3

      "good girls like bad guys" thing going on

    • @chrishansen1842
      @chrishansen1842 5 років тому +3

      .......you sir or madam have just blown my mind.

  • @Shalefist
    @Shalefist 4 роки тому +1521

    TL;DW: Be hot, or be cold. Nobody likes lukewarm.

    • @Xanaden
      @Xanaden 4 роки тому +8

      Isn't the message of this video the complete opposite?

    • @Shalefist
      @Shalefist 4 роки тому +47

      Not at all. Average is less polarizing than either extreme hotness or ugliness, and therefore whatever causes both strong feeling and opinion garners more interest, and therefore more attraction. As the OP in the video said, anything that makes you stand out or unique, even if many consider it profane or horrific, will be a more successful tactic in the long run. It pays to specalize.

    • @somasbodeljas1424
      @somasbodeljas1424 4 роки тому +18

      More like; be both hot and cold at the same time, but not lukewarm

    • @Henrux69
      @Henrux69 4 роки тому +24

      too long;didn't wead

    • @taurxevc1725
      @taurxevc1725 4 роки тому +5

      ice tea or hot tea.

  • @foxwolft9332
    @foxwolft9332 4 роки тому +28

    I am always told I'm cute.. and got hit on way more when I had my pixie cut than my longer hair now.

  • @Lena-kr3oc
    @Lena-kr3oc 3 роки тому +20

    So me being a “7” and a little emo makes me attractive 😳 the more you know

    • @sudarshan3965
      @sudarshan3965 3 роки тому +1

      Yes. You are pretty attractive in your profile pic

    • @manofgod7622
      @manofgod7622 3 роки тому +1

      @@sudarshan3965 her youtube banner picture is cute too

  • @pan-opticon
    @pan-opticon 5 років тому +497

    “The *R E P T I L E* mind of the human male.”

    • @dwagonrider8673
      @dwagonrider8673 5 років тому +28

      I am a Male and I can confirm

    • @minushuman
      @minushuman 5 років тому +8

      This is an allegorical name for subcortex

    • @DeathIsLethal
      @DeathIsLethal 5 років тому +15

      @@minushuman No, it's a subtle hint at the not-so-subtle fact that all men are actually lab-grown lizard men planted on the earth to procreate with it's all-female intelligent lifeforms.

    • @pan-opticon
      @pan-opticon 5 років тому +1

      Pezi Gaudette
      I’ll take that as a compliment, lol!

    • @sagedudziak5999
      @sagedudziak5999 5 років тому +2

      Lizard people confirmed

  • @JustinY.
    @JustinY. 5 років тому +2745

    Repeat after me!
    *I'M UGLY AND I'M PROUD!*
    *I'M UGLY AND I'M PROUD!*

  • @marjinxthefae4398
    @marjinxthefae4398 3 роки тому +19

    this is cool tho. I mean, I have felt attracted to many types of people but growing up the kinds of people i looked up to and thought "oh wow they're cool" or "she's super pretty" or "I want to be more like her" always were on the 'edgy' side. lots of makeup, confident, and stand-outish. the types some older people and possibly mainstream would find strange or outlandish, but i looked up to.

  • @Dime9764
    @Dime9764 3 роки тому +4

    I found my husband in the worst place possible
    Grindr 😂

  • @rebeccamichelle8265
    @rebeccamichelle8265 4 роки тому +639

    don't be basic is what I'm gathering tbh

    • @DarthMizinth
      @DarthMizinth 4 роки тому +35

      Like ice cream and sex; vanilla is good, but it gets boring.

    • @V_0717
      @V_0717 4 роки тому +29

      @@DarthMizinth Well...looks like my genetics aren't making it to the next generation...

    • @nosoulnoproblem3368
      @nosoulnoproblem3368 4 роки тому +4

      @@V_0717 it's not just about looks though. Not when it's worth your time

    • @amalaljallad6608
      @amalaljallad6608 4 роки тому +1

      ouch i feel attacked

  • @miraclesmilady733
    @miraclesmilady733 5 років тому +212

    me, reading video title: FINALLY.
    me, seeing that i need to have SOME people think I look good: *oh.*

    • @ampz1466
      @ampz1466 5 років тому +6

      If you smell nice, you may get done one who's visually impaired. 👍

    • @miraclesmilady733
      @miraclesmilady733 5 років тому +1

      @@ampz1466 fair enough

    • @markmark567able
      @markmark567able 5 років тому

      Even if you meant well by saying this, I still let out a small "ouch".

  • @mahadevankm2621
    @mahadevankm2621 4 роки тому

    These kinds of analyses are super fascinating.

  • @VicenteTorresAliasVits
    @VicenteTorresAliasVits 3 роки тому +48

    In regards to Megan Fox (and this might apply to other women in the video): A lot of people don't find her ugly but rather decent-looking. When those people hear others calling her "the sexiest woman on the planet," it creates a sort of aversion. It's like when you feel a movie or something like that has been overhyped. I think that's why most votes were either 1 or 5.

  • @mhordijk0871
    @mhordijk0871 5 років тому +631

    'Normal' is boring.
    'Different' is exciting.
    Flaws are more interesting than perfection.
    There might be a story behind it.

    • @Bug_Bait
      @Bug_Bait 5 років тому +16

      lol
      "exiting"

    • @xbmpr
      @xbmpr 5 років тому +1

      Rocks Are People Too wonder where he is going

    • @mhordijk0871
      @mhordijk0871 5 років тому +1

      @@Bug_Bait Missed that one.

    • @mhordijk0871
      @mhordijk0871 5 років тому +1

      @@xbmpr Not exiting just yet.

    • @RaxXxvell
      @RaxXxvell 5 років тому

      then again noone is really different and we're all pretty much the same and pretty boring. does knowing that and accepting it make me different though? ahhhhh

  • @TheFezIsAwesome
    @TheFezIsAwesome 5 років тому +805

    i dunno whats up with them cuz garfield is a solid 5
    Edit: 5/5, of course

    • @lizbarber4151
      @lizbarber4151 5 років тому +21

      10*

    • @riptidev10
      @riptidev10 5 років тому +31

      @@lizbarber4151 10/5
      Wait that's illegal

    • @zero_s
      @zero_s 5 років тому +8

      @@riptidev10 15 there... All good now

    • @Cyntistic
      @Cyntistic 5 років тому +4

      5/7 perfect score

    • @riptidev10
      @riptidev10 5 років тому +2

      @@zero_s 15 out of 5 man, that's 3 perfect 5s

  • @free-palestine000
    @free-palestine000 4 роки тому

    PLEASE DO MORE VIDS LIKE THIS!! i love hearing ur perspective

  • @BlueSpiceSpace
    @BlueSpiceSpace 3 роки тому +22

    Observation: this explains the rise of the "goth gf" meme archetype in recent years

  • @devlin0457
    @devlin0457 4 роки тому +1969

    Ok I just thought of something: Dave, but with space buns.

    • @kimaya.3563
      @kimaya.3563 4 роки тому +82

      that'd be cute lmao

    • @mooncrumble9036
      @mooncrumble9036 4 роки тому +140

      *Petition to get Dave to wear space buns*

    • @katrinabeach9736
      @katrinabeach9736 3 роки тому +10

      I need to see this

    • @shelovesrayna
      @shelovesrayna 3 роки тому +8

      OMG YESSSSSSSS

    • @averyk7
      @averyk7 3 роки тому +11

      Moon Boi Am I allowed to create multiple accounts to sign up for this?

  • @najwan3672
    @najwan3672 5 років тому +436

    dave reads things so that you don't have to part 24
    hell yeah

  • @GSyokichi
    @GSyokichi 4 роки тому +14

    I've always had a weird type even during my high school days. If I wasn't looking at geeky guys (with glasses as a hard bonus), I'd look at that tattooed rugged guys with long hair that would pretty much scare everyone else in sight (given how my country is pretty conservative). There's just something about glasses and tats that *does* it for me.

  • @savagecookies8843
    @savagecookies8843 3 роки тому

    Do more of this stuff Dave, it is obvious u love to do it and we love to see it!

  • @BlueMiaou
    @BlueMiaou 4 роки тому +4305

    Personally I either want an emo girlfriend or to be the emo girlfriend

    • @frecklebunny4001
      @frecklebunny4001 4 роки тому +63

      I want emo girlfriend-

    • @rafaelar1297
      @rafaelar1297 4 роки тому +106

      I got confused for a moment there

    • @nanaosa
      @nanaosa 4 роки тому +74

      I am the emo girlfriend 💀✨😔🤚🏼

    • @uselessknowledge1013
      @uselessknowledge1013 4 роки тому +9

      I nearly had one

    • @ilya2716
      @ilya2716 4 роки тому +139

      *Before you date the emo shawty, u got to be the emo shawty*

  • @kiyo4476
    @kiyo4476 5 років тому +255

    You can make more of these, but you also need to braid your hair.

    • @ampz1466
      @ampz1466 5 років тому +10

      Hells yes!! And not just normal braids. I want him to try to do a historical warrior hairstyle, there's a few tutorials on UA-cam for those..
      Go full beauty youtuber for atleast one vid. Mwahahaha

    • @How_To_Drive_a_TARDIS
      @How_To_Drive_a_TARDIS 5 років тому

      Mohawk that you don't cut any hair

    • @cimmik
      @cimmik 5 років тому

      Can I braid his hair?

    • @ampz1466
      @ampz1466 5 років тому +1

      @@How_To_Drive_a_TARDIS oooh. Like when Jenna Marbles wanted to be tall. Can you imagine how high Dave's hair would go?! He could do a whole video called "doing dumb hair suggestions".

    • @ampz1466
      @ampz1466 5 років тому +1

      @@cimmik You would probably gain magical powers if you could.

  • @begformeowcy
    @begformeowcy 4 роки тому +12

    My experience with dating sites in the past was that I got almost no messages, and the one I did get was a fifty year old doctor from Texas that wanted me to show him around my city, his shout (ignored that one). Luckily I found my husband on World of Warcraft, and got his attention by being great at pvp 😂, and it helped he went for the cute type 👍.

  • @idaho307
    @idaho307 4 роки тому

    the way you talk is so soothing

  • @hermask815
    @hermask815 4 роки тому +1591

    You just have to find the pervert who’s into you.

    • @Orange_Swirl
      @Orange_Swirl 3 роки тому +112

      Words to live by.

    • @Aquahands
      @Aquahands 3 роки тому +43

      Doubt any pervert is into me

    • @skitty4734
      @skitty4734 3 роки тому +63

      let's hope they have a massive nose fetish

    • @Luna-lq1jn
      @Luna-lq1jn 3 роки тому +2

      Never gonna happen 😂

    • @skitty4734
      @skitty4734 3 роки тому +3

      @@Luna-lq1jn pipe down luna

  • @annafraser6894
    @annafraser6894 4 роки тому +1547

    What this taught me:
    As a girl who's 6', I should wear heels regularly rather than slouching.
    Awesome!

    • @Deac0n_Blues
      @Deac0n_Blues 4 роки тому +156

      Yes, as a 5'3 man I find that insanely attractive.

    • @Amber-yw4ji
      @Amber-yw4ji 4 роки тому +125

      definitely! as a bi woman I also find that to be extremely attractive!

    • @DarthMizinth
      @DarthMizinth 4 роки тому +71

      As a NB fem-goth I find that attractive as well.

    • @kiryls1207
      @kiryls1207 4 роки тому +119

      as an AI, judging by the amount of likes and comments, I evaluated this as 'attractive'

    • @potmki6601
      @potmki6601 4 роки тому +21

      you go girl

  • @anthony-dc4dc
    @anthony-dc4dc 4 роки тому

    i really appreciate your reaction and overall words over articles like these! hopefully you have done more within the past 11 months, lol

  • @kyleheist
    @kyleheist 3 роки тому

    Love the hair flips btw !!

  • @duchi882
    @duchi882 5 років тому +1030

    *Boyinaband be like:*
    Controversial = Interesting

    • @jess-xt1nm
      @jess-xt1nm 4 роки тому +33

      It does tho

    • @jess-xt1nm
      @jess-xt1nm 4 роки тому +13

      Most of the time

    • @FunkyDouch3000
      @FunkyDouch3000 4 роки тому +44

      when it comes to science, the controversial stuff is always more interesting provided it's true. It means it touches on a sensitive and often important topic, and is something that is difficult to find data and discussion on elsewhere.

    • @yember
      @yember 4 роки тому +7

      PewDiePie is very interesting anyway

    • @gwho
      @gwho 4 роки тому +1

      unless you're an SJW cultural Marxist

  • @CobaltKitty
    @CobaltKitty 5 років тому +261

    It seems like they basically measured out Approachability, more than anything else.

    • @aliveslice
      @aliveslice 4 роки тому +16

      It baffles me how people find it sensational and/or uplifting

  • @MsGGRose
    @MsGGRose 4 роки тому

    you're so smart dude i'm obsessed with this concept

  • @Lu-zifer
    @Lu-zifer 4 роки тому

    And this ladys and gentleman is what interesting, well prepared yt content looks like, good job Dave👏

  • @wakajoekoe8736
    @wakajoekoe8736 5 років тому +137

    this is going to be his most watched video
    if people didn't hate school

    • @kyhoney
      @kyhoney 5 років тому +13

      WakaJoekoe I NEVER LEARNED HOW YO GET A JOB

  • @risunieminen2326
    @risunieminen2326 5 років тому +491

    Dave, I will find you and gently compliment you until you see yourself as the absolute catch you are. ❤️

    • @yandengray4516
      @yandengray4516 5 років тому +19

      We'll do it together

    • @jsmyth024
      @jsmyth024 5 років тому +32

      **Jumps out from a dark ally, speaking softly**
      "Dave, you are such a catch. Let me show you."
      Too much?

    • @tatiblack6087
      @tatiblack6087 5 років тому +6

      Dave fans unite!

    • @kukkajukkanen
      @kukkajukkanen 5 років тому +3

      Suomalainen! TORILLE

    • @sakukolehmainen6628
      @sakukolehmainen6628 5 років тому

      @@jsmyth024 yes

  • @jimmyselsmark7346
    @jimmyselsmark7346 3 роки тому

    Being a Dane I really had no choice but to like the video after your close to flawless "undskyld" in the end. Good job ;)

  • @Faith_P_
    @Faith_P_ 3 роки тому

    Woah, this is absolutely fascinating. Thank you for sharing!!

  • @alucardsanguinous7919
    @alucardsanguinous7919 4 роки тому +989

    He always sounds like he's about to end the video

    • @martinaxis8565
      @martinaxis8565 3 роки тому +34

      I guess is because of the music, a lot of channels use this type of songs at the end of the videos

    • @KingNefiiria
      @KingNefiiria 3 роки тому +26

      Better than sounding like your sentence never ends

    • @nal004
      @nal004 3 роки тому +1

      Hahahaha

    • @coritrottman9699
      @coritrottman9699 3 роки тому +8

      It's because he fucking makes a cut after every sentence

    • @sannya_32
      @sannya_32 3 роки тому +5

      It mades me keep checking on time stamp

  • @mcconnellgaming8352
    @mcconnellgaming8352 5 років тому +184

    "How being ugly can make you more attractive"
    X - doubt

  • @thissmiss6563
    @thissmiss6563 3 роки тому

    This made me feel a lot more comfortable in my own skin. I dig this, glad you covered it

  • @blubberface2337
    @blubberface2337 3 роки тому +4

    Apparently lighting is extremely important when choosing dating profile photos

  • @somewhatartistic7966
    @somewhatartistic7966 5 років тому +553

    I prefer to be called a WAHMEN thankyou

    • @garbiiiiij
      @garbiiiiij 5 років тому +9

      w HAMEN

    • @theangrycheeto
      @theangrycheeto 5 років тому +19

      Press F to respect de wahmenz

    • @JetstreamKody
      @JetstreamKody 5 років тому +13

      WALUIGI

    • @namoudnormand3048
      @namoudnormand3048 5 років тому +1

      White knights 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @joshireyn
      @joshireyn 5 років тому +2

      @@namoudnormand3048 I am a level 69 white knight an I will protect whamen till my last breath

  • @Jesse__H
    @Jesse__H 5 років тому +1399

    This was really fascinating, Dave.
    I'm digging the newish format.

    • @aseemgauri4435
      @aseemgauri4435 5 років тому +7

      I agree. I feel like we should see more of these.

    • @joikcgjfig427
      @joikcgjfig427 5 років тому +3

      Dave is apthiestic not using a Jewish format

    • @scorpion0498
      @scorpion0498 5 років тому

      10/10

  • @coricognitions
    @coricognitions 4 роки тому +779

    please refer to "girls" as "the ovaried ones" and nothing else. thanks.

    • @originalname241
      @originalname241 3 роки тому +128

      This is the best thing I've heard in months, thank you for opening my eyes to such a simple yet powerful solution. From now on, I only wish to be called an ovaried one, for it's the best goddamn thing I've ever heard

    • @Alicapy
      @Alicapy 3 роки тому +19

      holy shit you're a genius

    • @Username-1939t9
      @Username-1939t9 3 роки тому +32

      i just imagined a girl wearing a plastic 3d diagram of ovaries around her hips like a hoola hoop

    • @sonyaliinomebarlow100
      @sonyaliinomebarlow100 3 роки тому +97

      trans women be like: *eye* *mouth* *eye*

    • @clivebby4877
      @clivebby4877 3 роки тому +79

      Don't mean to be that person but not all women have ovaries and not all people who have ovaries are women , but I'd personally enjoy being called an ovaries one

  • @GigiChoko
    @GigiChoko 3 роки тому

    I love Dave's videos because its just a moment talking about something interesting

  • @davehairflipcounter9061
    @davehairflipcounter9061 5 років тому +130

    Dave flips his hair 15 times in this video

    • @MrBombSTI
      @MrBombSTI 5 років тому +10

      underrated commenter

    • @evildonut1089
      @evildonut1089 5 років тому +6

      We need a segment for his hair flips

    • @misstea2050
      @misstea2050 5 років тому +3

      Thank you

  • @bandicootcollector
    @bandicootcollector 4 роки тому +887

    I have a similar thing. I'd say I was an average/handsome looking guy, but I wear 20's suits and fashion - so to a lot of people it puts them off me and girls say "You'd be so hot if you wore normal clothes", but for the girls who like that aesthetic, or like guys in suits, they go absolutely crazy for me.
    I've had girls approach me and ask for my number because of it (even if they don't dress that way themselves), but usually because they see someone outlandish, confident and willing to be himself.
    And, in my mind, I wouldn't have it any other way - the people who don't like me or what I do I don't need to care about, so it doesn't matter if they don't find me attractive. The people who do like what I do, those are my people!

    • @GutPoacher
      @GutPoacher 4 роки тому +71

      And now i'm very curious to see what you look like.

    • @bandicootcollector
      @bandicootcollector 4 роки тому +86

      @@GutPoacher imagine a complete idiot in a dead man's suit - that's me

    • @rosieweaselby
      @rosieweaselby 4 роки тому +45

      *is someone who would want that number*

    • @kaizouttv
      @kaizouttv 4 роки тому +11

      captain0ldy0da You are one alpha male aren’t you

    • @irene9116
      @irene9116 4 роки тому +39

      boys in formal wear are a massive weakness.