Enneagram 9 Dating the Other Types
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- Опубліковано 1 лип 2024
- A peek into the romantic dynamics between Enneagram Nines and the other Enneagram types!
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CHAPTERS:
0:00 Nine and Five
0:09 Nine and Four
0:26 Nine and Seven
0:51 Nine and Eight
1:21 Nine and Six
1:41 Nine and Two
2:00 Nine and One
2:32 Nine and Three
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My mic broke halfway through filming this so I had to rely on just the camera audio for some of the scenes. Hence, the lower sound quality! I included captions for those parts that were less-than-ideal. The good news is... I got a new mic! And it's better than the last one I had. So look forward to some better audio in future videos! ♥
I'm a 1 married to a 9, and oh my gosh the accuracy haha. He'll just be sitting on the couch, oblivious that I'm waist deep in chores, and then be like, "come snuggle with me." I can't just leave the dishes half done bro, if I've started them I've got to finish them! I love him so much though. He really helps me to relax :)
As a 9, you gotta get the hard stuff done first, be satisfied by that…and get to the cuddling lol.
I love this skit, it's fun seeing how Type 9s interact with every other type.
I'm so glad you like it! I'm planning on doing all the 9 types :)
@@AbbeyHoweYay, I was hoping this might be a new series! Glad to hear it :)
As a 2, if I were to date a 9, it would, without a doubt, just be a competition of which one of us can outdo the other in kind and selfless gestures. Lol!
hehehe
This is me and my best friend all of the time but she beats me 10 fold, in the selfless gestures tho!
Type 9 here and I have never been more offended by something so accurate 🤣
I really need a type 3 to make me their project 😇
I'm a 9 raised by a type 3 mother who made me her project and I want to tell you that it's impossible to escape this and find yourself... possibly what made me develop into a 9 in the first place. Proceed with caution!
@@littlepianist89 oh.. I'm sorry
The struggle of being married to a one (and vice versa for him, of course) 🤣 I need my chill time. It can be challenging to help ones relax and care for themselves, but always try. When they do get that downtime, they are much happier for it. Fifteen-years of balancing and giving each other grace.
this is WISDOM. Ones thrive when they are given permission to rest and connect with their inner child. ♥️
0:50: I'm an 8 & have had this exact conversation with more than one 9 & it drives me up the wall. Abbey, you KNOW your stuff. 👏👏
thank you! ☺
This is so gonna be me in any future relationship as the eneagram 9 and I guess I'm not alone on this😅😅😅gosh I really love your videos🤗😁👍👍👍👍
I'm so glad you like it. Thanks for being here, Paola!
"Tired is not a feeling..." While I concur with this, I'm a little hurt that my 4 didn't resolve her argument with the 9. As a SX 4 crushing on a SX 9, I worry we may not have a future... But it's not about the number, it's about the health level so I will work on that. Thanks, Abs :-)
You hit the nail on the head with this: *it's not about the number, it's about the health level*
As for the lack of conclusion between 9 and 4, it's DEFINITELY possible!! As it is for all types. I just happened to write this one sketch that way. Don't worry. There will be future 9 and 4 content with happy endings.
Lol I'm thankful there will be future 4 and 9 content because we struggle with the exact same thing!! I find my 4 gets stressed out a ton, and she has a total right to feel what she feels. She says expressing them is how she gets through them. But sometimes I get overwhelmed and hide in a room to decompress (literally what you did in the video, I was shocked you had us pegged so accurately 😂), and she's left alone with her emotions, when she says all she wants is to feel them with me, not feel abandoned.
LOVE your stuff. You're way too damn good at these 😂
@@Jessiehollar-or7ov If I'm being REAL... probably not (also he's super shy). But in my mind, we've gone out many times :P
I'm 9w8, married to 9w1. Have you considered the types dating the same type? No decision making, lots of Netflix and cuddling. It's so relaxing being together!
yes! that's coming out next thursday :))))
My guy is a 9w1 and this is so accurate!
😂
ABBEY THIS ENTIRE VIDEO WAS AMAZING
OMGGGGG so glad you liked it!!!
“Come cuddle with me” my solution to 95% of the problems
1:59
Please include captions in future videos! It makes them way easier for me!
Noted!!
I love this😂! I always understand myself better after watching your videos lol❤
this comment 😭
This is exactly the type of new series I was hoping for!!!! This was amazing!!!
Yay! I'm so glad! Which number do you want to see next?
@@AbbeyHowe I would love to see 4!!
Nailed it!. As a 9, I resemble those remarks… all of them.
I need to be a new project for a type 3 lol - I have no idea what my hopes and dreams are!
threes would be delighted. (make sure to get a healthy three!!)
This was great Abbey! My mom and favorite niece are 9s! (My niece is INFJ like me, and a middle child too ;) except she's got that weird Enneagram, and not a 4 like me. Plus my tritype is 4,9,7, so there's more similarity.)
Hello! I like this video.
Hello! Yay! I'm glad you like it. :)
LOL as a 5 with my 9, i approve it
And this " you think a lot"
I could really relate to the part with the type 3, I'm not sure but I think my girlfriend might be a type 3w4. I'm a type 9w1.
U left 1 possibility, type 9 and a type 9
I'm hoping to do a video with "Nine Types Dating Their Own Type"
@@AbbeyHowe yayyy!!!!!!
AHAHAHAHAH AS A 6 WITH A 9 BROTHER THIS IS SO ME 😂😂😂 For some reason my type are always 9 men and I can imagine the dynamic will be extremely similar to the one in the video!
I'm a 9 married to a 5... Pretty much sums it up 😂
1. #5
2. #9
3. #9
4. #8
5. #6
6. #9
7. #9
8. #3
3 5 6 and 8 were more fitting
Any type 3s out there looking for a project? This 9 could use some direction lol
Conclusion: 9 bribes everyone with the power of snacks
I’m a 1 who likes a 9
love it!
I might be a 9
As a 4, I think I stress out my 9 family member 😂
I got a super proper crush on a 9 therapist @.@
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awww. where is 5 dating a 9? 🤓
it's the first skit!