I feel like giving up my standard seems unreal in this world. I've met Christian men willing to wait with me but do everything else with everyone else. The person I'm most drawn too seems disconnected. Pray for me 7 years seems too long. I want love and marriage while young to have fire sex. 🔥 Love has been awakened and its not too early;I'm over 40. God what's up how long before I have my purpose partner.
@@hillaryconsultingservices Age ain’t nothing but a number with God , remember Ruth was 40 when she met and married Boaz. I encourage you, you’re at the right age for God to present you to your husband! Gods timing is perfect! Remember he who promised is faithful, and blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her. DECREE AND BELIEVE !!!
I'm not sure what I expected from this young man but I appreciated this episode from beginning to end. Age and wisdom do not necessarily go hand-in-hand, his pursuit of God and his Godly confidence was apparent and refreshing. Great episode
I thought the same thing when I saw how young he was but to my surprise he taught me a lot. I grew up with the impression that women are the prize and men suppose to cater to us. Well that was a fantasy. Men are special and they are given to us just as much as we are given to them.
My gosh I love how his brain works. He’s got so much wisdom it’s refreshing to see a man with clear standards that he’s not willing to compromise on his faith. He does it with so much grace, transparency, class and honesty. I can appreciate this and probably my favorite episode thus far. Glad he’s mentoring young people, we need more people to think and operate like this. ❤
When someone says they don't want to be a First Lady, it often means she doesn't want to live in a fishbowl/spotlight with the judgment, scrutiny, and isolation that comes with living a public life. It is usually in reference to marrying a Pastor, but it can also apply to being the wife of a President, Senator, Governor, etc. Some people just want to live a quiet, private, Godly life without having to deal with the peanut gallery.
Yes. This is my mom. She hates when I say First Lady. My dad is a Pastor. She still has a problem with it. She hates the judgment, and also the isolation. She has to be in my father's shadow and is always put last. Smh. She's real and down to earth. But she's also an amazing woman of God. She should own it and step in her purpose, but I understand why she rather do the least. Shes private and quiet also.. likes her peace. So she is completely out off her comfort zone. 😞
@@Starting_fresh your mother is also an example that other girls, women look up to. They can look up to her when they may can't look up to anybody else. There are people that may never pick up a Bible but when they see God in you. They will read you. How you dress and how you live your life. A lot are watching and will stare you down.
I honestly believe that neither Essence nor Laterras "missed out". If there wasn't that level of connection or alignment then there just wasn't. Ofcourse it's easy to think that because they are both amazing people who aren't just morally good but have actually chosen to pursue holiness that they'd align. However, if we fall into the trap of trying to manufacture connection or alignment if we don't genuinely feel it then that will most likely lead to heartbreak. So, I applaud them both for knowing what they want, where they stand and for keeping it respectful and real.
To be honest I started not to watch this episode. I was like “ I am probably twice his age. He can’t teach me ish!” But when I tell you my soul was truly BLESSED…it really was. I have listened to it 3 times lol! Awesome!!!
@@Luvhersommaboaz2512 I did see he was on HI…which i love…but when the title said he was going to be talking about the beef he had with some people i decided not to watch. I will go back and give it a chance. Thank you for the recommendation!
This young man is hilarious!! I love how he is authentically himself!!! I can see him in his classroom connecting with his students and building real relationships while teaching them life lessons! He has great incite on life, highly intelligent, but real at the same time!! Great episode!❤️👏🏼🙏
I didn’t know who D1 was but I’m glad to have heard him, the passion he has and the gentleman’s conversation. The message I received was that, he knows who he is, knows what he wants, has healed from his past, learned from his past and is passionate in his spiritual path. Stay blessed young man…some men over the age of 50 can take a page out of your book.
This is hands down my favorite episode. It broke down the difference between pursing and chasing which is necessary in these dating streets. It also convicted me. As a Christian woman, I was always taught that I was the prize. I never even considered the notion that a man could be a prize also. And when Dee-1 said men don't care about how much money a woman makes unless he's a bum, I almost spit out my water. Real Godly men who are genuinely into a woman are more concerned about a woman's character. I was under the impression that character and finances that match were equally important. So when in "hustle" mode I would stop dating altogether. This episode had some great nuggets on how to date more intentionally. Also how to love on and cover my brothers in Christ, even when I am not romantically interested in them. This was a FIRE episode!
Sis, I’ve thought the same thing- regarding finances being equally matching for men. 🤯 Only in recent months have I come to understand and grasp this specific truth Dee-1 dropped on us.
I think this is my favorite episode so far. Dee1 is on fire for God and is a great example to the young people that being a Christian doesn’t have to look stuffy or “buttoned” up. Plus, being from NOLA he is so New Orleans. I pray he makes a huge impact in the lives of the wayward youth.
I've commented already but this is the type of man I would define as sexy. Someone who is for God and vulnerable. Transparent on what he's still working on about himself and knows what he want out of a woman, if he ever chooses to get married. This is nothing short of how refreshing this is to see someone who is this confident in themselves. Awesome episode again.
I found Dee-1's music a few years ago. He's an artist, like you mentioned, that I could listen to with my children, and we all enjoy. Be real, be righteous, be relevant! Thank you for another great episode... I loved it! ✌🏾💜🙏🏾
Fascinating guest , can see he is a very articulate man with deep conviction in Christ , he is so real & transparent , and I pray that he continues being progressive , big up yourself Dee👍🏽
11 months and MANY viewed episodes later… this is one of (if not THE) BEST episode!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🎉🎉🎉 Dee-1 is phenomenal! 1st time hearing of him; soo glad I watched🤗
This episode was truly RAW!!! I mean, I laughed and Cheered at the same time!!! What a marvelous journey this young man had He didn’t allow life disappointments to lock him in a state of unworthiness, instead; he allowed God to water his purpose and path. I appreciate you LRW for demonstrating how to “shoot my shot” or shall I say; be in position to let that pure hearted man land where I’m standing.
Bro... this was so entertaining for me (lots of laughs) and REAL! One thing I've grown aware of is... I am also the prize! Salute to DEE-1 for that reminder. Always well done bro!
I love what you're doing! I pray and hope that I too can provide stability, resources, etc to foster children. That has always been a dream of mine. Excellent work King! Keep moving in faith 🙏
To the kings that come to this show. Thank you so so much. It may seem like something small to you but to us, women it is a lot. Sometimes when we're tempted to drop our standards yall keep them up, actually you help us raise them. May you all be eternally blessed.
Thank you Dee 1 and Dear Wifey, I am a prize, that’s why 7 years in the abstinence phase and loving myself is a journey I wish I had the chance to do before, But god knows his plan.👍🏽
This was refreshing! Can I say this though, as a sepiosexual I know a lot of people expect that when a "good Godly man" pursues you, you are supposed to accept him. However like Dee 1 was jokingly saying that Essence missed out on Laterras and many people feel this way too; without seeing that although people may be both Christians, sepiosexuals, genuinely good people there's a lot more that is required to make a relationship work. As a woman, who will be married one day, I'm not looking for a specific person with certain accolades or fame or any of that. 1. Is he led by God? 2. Does his vision align with mine? 3. Am I willing to submit to who he is, not just as a business person, his character, am I ok with his personality, will I be ok with his failures, am I the type of woman who will be able to bring his (our) vision alive? Will I be willing to stay through sickness, poverty and loss. Is this the kind of person I would be ok to experience loss With? A lot more goes with choosing a partner and I hope we all go through this journey with our Spiritual ears and eyes wide open!
Thank you sister, it's not automatic that a good man of God, well established will be accepted by any woman he approaches. It sounded like women should not have a say in who we want to be with, we should just accept them since they got everything going on in their life. Love and affection is mutual and when you see it's not there and never gonna be there, I respect people who say it from the beginning.
That was AMAZING! He is an AWESOME individual! What a blessing he is to so many!!! I wasn’t familiar with him but will definitely check out his music! Praying for him and all that concerns him. I do believe this is one of the best interviews yet!!!💕🙏🏾💕🙏🏾
Whhhhheeeeeew! God has spoken to me through this episode. Dealing with the mental gymnastics right now with a guy I'm dating! " if you can't make me feel desired and wanted" , there are plenty of men who will. I say it all the time grown folks don't play the relationship/communication games. Speak to me LORD! God bless Dee1 & Laterras...
This is definitely one of my top 3 favorites of all the episodes! You find the best people to be on your podcast and I am so happy I watched this one. David is authentic, genuine, and real, and it's so refreshing to hear and see men like this. God bless good, God led men. You all ARE a rare and true prize. 🙏🏾🥰
Loved everything about this episode. The amount of wisdom that David attained through all of the hardships was awesome. Finding Balance is where I am now. So happy to hear it. Heard his heart and authority. The song "Authenticity" at the end was the icing on the cake. Praying that David heals from not being able to take calls from Grandma, his "favorite girl." Pray that he doesn't beat himself up for it. Wouldn't want any guilt to arise that would cause him not to be all that he was called to be! Keep on loving! That letter at the end Laterras to your future wife was touching as well. Also, please keep pouring into Armani. Don't want his heart to grow cold at such a young age. Blessings to you all!
So refreshing to witness a man as young as he is speak with such positivity. I loved his vibe...his confidence! Another AWESOME episode, Laterras!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👑💪🏾
Until today, I had never heard of Dee-1 and I must say I truly received a blessing and gift today. What a truly spiritually mature young man who is wise beyond his years. Laterras, you stated a very valuable quote I will add to my inspirational toolbox; "Men should pursue and not persuade and women should present and not pursue." Thank you for your Dear Future Wifey Podcast! Congrats on season 4 and keep your words of wisdom flowing!
This!...I love young adults who go after God's heart❤️🔥 My spirit is filled with joy, love, and respect when I witness young adults talk about God and how he's working in their lives 🙌🏾 Praying you both find your wife and she's a GOOD THING!
So, I’ve been following this guy on IG for about two years now and he’s amazing! I never heard this part of his story, and it just makes him all the more great! Laterras you have a great eye, almost like a Christian recruiter. You find extraordinary people with relatable back stories to be your guest and together you bring soo much wisdom to us viewers and often times clarity and understanding, and gratefulness for our Father God for his Love, mercy and Grace. This is my absolute favorite podcast❤️
Glory to God!!! He took me out when he said my preference is not, is being with a person who has no respect for the anointing and fruit that I have. That's 100 all day and I feel the same!
This episode is definitely one of my favorites so far... Never judge a book by its cover. I was glued from the beginning to the end. My goodness, his transparency and his personality seemed exceptionally authentic.
I found out about Dee-1 on a Johnathan McReynolds song and I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. This was another great episode and you both gave me things to think about. Thank you both for being l.i.t. and sharing.
I loved every bit of this episode, D1 is such an admirable young man. I pray him God’s best. As I was listening, I was reminded of listening to Dr. Myles Munroe and he emphasized Matt 22:37 which reads “love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind. Dr. Munroe emphasized that in doing so, others will not be able to hurt us because God has all our heart, mind, and soul, so profound. I pray Armani and Dee 1 find peace in that scripture going forward. Well Leterras, you did it again, it was well worth watching.
Dee-1. is hilarious! Please have him on again 😂. And he's right, men are the prize too - men and women are a blessing to each other! "You get some d, and you get some d, and...." I'm trying to unhear that too 👀🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for these podcasts Laterras. As an older, married Christian woman I appreciate this young man's wisdom. I pray you both find the "Good Thing" God has for you.
Wow!!! Thank you for the full transparency! I love when Dee 1 said..."I took a chance on me,...God was all in the mix." So many great points were addressed. Some of my takeaways... 1. Respect and Reverence. 2. Being confined to a box. 3. The difference between pursuing and chasing. 4. Knowing the prize has value. 5. Having a heart for the people and not the paper. 6. Rare Find that is specific to your purpose. 7. Shoot your shot🤣🤣 8. Your identity comes through Christ. 9. Being Real, Righteous, and Relevant Great episode gentlemen!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
It’s one thing to be familiar with the artist, but what a blessing to see deeper into the man. I have been rocking with the NO homey Dee-1 since he “paid Sallie Mae back” but I absolutely enjoyed the opportunity to see more into his heart. Great interview.
As much as his dating horror stories are funny I love how up front his exs were in telling him what he didn't want to hear but definitely needed to hear.
This episode was amazing!! I am sharing it with my college daughter immediately!😊Also I have to support anyone from my home state of Louisiana!❤️Much success to this young man. We need more positive Christian examples for our young black men to see. God Bless!
Thank you guys for making this episode. It was really a lot of fun to watch. I felt like I was sitting in the living room watching and listening to two brothers talking and joking with each other. The love and respect between you is apparent and made me so happy to see ✨. Thank you for the laughs and the beautiful message, I truly enjoyed this 🙂🙏.
I really enjoyed this conversation and I love his accent. It's good to see good men speak on these topics. I know some women hate the idea of bringing anything to the table or even being asked the question, but it was framed in a way that was respectful and made sense. Kudos to you guys.
No shade to him, but I kept looking at the thumbnail like who is this?? But as you said don't judge a book by its cover! This was such a good interview, full of gems 💎
I’m late but this was good.. lots of laughs and nuggets! I’m married now but back in my 20s and even early 30s convos like this would have been SO HELPFUL. Nobody was unpacking like this 15yrs ago…
@Dee 1 you truly have a kingdom mindset. That is truly refreshing to see! This episode was wonderful, and well worth my time as usual. @Laterrus whitfield thank you for yet another great episode!
It’s so crazy that he’s this episodes guest! I just got hip to him 2 weeks ago with his 2019 album. People Don’t Want That Real 🔥🔥🔥🔥 The accuracy of this song is everything! Y’all had me rolling at work with this episode though 😂😂
I love to see young Christian who are good examples who are walking the walk and not ashamed. This is an inspiration not only for me but for my young adult children and a few other young adults who I have shared this podcast with as well. God bless this young man. Another great podcast 🙏🏾
I will always stay subscribed and support this channel. The accountability and responsibility he has taken upon himself and others I will forever respect! 💯
I had to run this episode back a couple of times because the wisdom and authenticity runs so deep. I absolutely LOVE that this brother not only knows without question what he wants, but also that he is sure and very sure of who he is in Christ and isn’t willing to compromise that for a relationship. Good stuff!
I Love Dee's honesty and vulnerability. Wish most men will listen to this especially about shooting their shot and not feeling bad about being rejection, also about being assertive with what you want. One day you will find your queen who has been praying for a King. As always this podcast is such a blessing to many.
I really enjoyed this! I went to follow Dee-1 only a few minutes into the interview. He gave me revelation on why I don't like surprises. I never thought it was trauma related. Also as usual consistent confirmations. This podcast is always in my journal and prayer closet. 🙏🏻 #BARS #God'sBest
I love Dee-1 because he doesn't compromise. It's not an easy thing to be in the career he is in without succumbing to the hopeless pursuit of money. It is very much refreshing to see somebody who is led by God and not by riches. He overcame adversity in order to overcome the world. Although I'm married, this episode still hit hard.
Much respect for you guys and D1 talking real, righteous and relevant. Love that you think outside of the box and understand the importance of balance.
This was LIT! I smiled and laughed the whole time😅 I loved Dee 1's energy and transparency. Those lyrics were as strong as that letter... real stuff! Thank you both and stay blessed!
I ❤ Dee-1 ! It's always informative, encouraging & inspiring listening to what he has to say. I have been watching his interviews and listening to his music for almost 10 yrs
Wow Young man!!! I will be the first to say I totally was not prepared for the Words and knowledge that came out of your mouth. You definitely personifies Don't judge a Book by its Cover. You Amazing. Don't know your work, But I'm stalkin you now.. I lived in New Orleans. And you a Preacher! God is sooooo Amazin! Wow Yaweh! Boy you're more mature than men my age.. No disrepect ya Feel me? Well Done!! Your very mature and very well versed in Heartbreak and Heartache.. But has come thru Better not Bitter. Well Done Young Man.. Well Done.
I loved everything about this episode. Your podcast never disappoints. I now know who Dee1 is and thank you for your transparency, mission and purpose for God. Laterras that letter 🔥🔥. I’m like Dee1, your future wifey is watching and how amazing it would be if she’s also writing you letters. Keep be authentically you and I’m praying for you and your future wifey🙏🏾.
I really was blessed listening to this conversation with you and this young man!!! I listened to his music! Love it! Keep keeping on both of you! God continue to bless and keep you both 💜🙏🏾
Absolutely one of my favorite episodes! I have been following Dee-1 for a while now before Slingshot David and I appreciate and admire his journey. He is the first Christian Rappers I’ve seen that not only submitted his life to Christ , but also his body ! He is definitely dropping Gems! You can’t build on looks! You have to definitely look at and know who someone follows (God) to know how he leads ! 3’s Up
So much respect for Dee-1... All the way from Sallie Mae Back days! Congrats to him on the residency. I really enjoyed this interview, cause it was definitely LIT!
This was good because he spoke with such openness, honesty & vulnerability. If we are walking the walk we must also match our words. Integrity is everything. When he started addressing the men the wisdom began to flow. Yes, beauty fades but character remains. His rap was like spoken word poetry, dynamic & creative. The letter was poetic, flow. Enjoyed the podcast. 🙏
That's so great being humble through all your successes after living poor. Great podcast Dee1 knows what he's about after his life lesson,he learn doing great for himself and helping the young minds. Bless bro👏🏿
This was a phenomenal episode, and he is hilarious!!! I like the vibe with you interviewing men. The whole interview was impactful, but the missed calls part/finding balance was most crucial. I LOVED his Sister Circle interview a few years ago, but this one is probably my favorite. Thank you for having him on Laterras! Edit: I forgot to say THANK YOU Laterras for recognizing your son's hurt over the dating/ rejection experience. The Spirit of Rejection is VERY real and not talked about often enough. Thank you for discussing it. The Holy Spirit will help him 🙏🏽
This was TOTALLY LIT Laterras!🔥 .....I was Delighted to hear this Real Man's Testimony of Love and Lost and the Growth needed for Living Committed as a Christian Single....The Humor in the Process 😅 ...I Loved 😍 It!...I wish You Both the Very Best in Finding Your Queen...And that "Future Wifey" Letter at the end! 🔥💞 Holy PASSION...It's Possible.. Trust God for that Marriage 💑 Night Gift! ...
Wow! This was one of your best episodes yet! This interview really showed his personality, his heart & the Jesus inside of him. His vulnerability, honesty & authenticity was everything. His answer at the end was definitely from the truths of his heart. && any women of God that will see this comment. We MUST cover the men of God! The head of the Kingdom households. It’s MANDATORY! Praise God for your obedience Laterras. I know this strengthened hope in many women. God bless 🙏🏽
I love how comfortable Dee-1 is in his own skin. Awesome! He is a very wise guy, I really enjoyed this conversation. Also, I love how he addressed Essence ha ha, he is the best!!
Wow, this was such a great episode! Blessings to you and Dee1. So many gems were dropped and I appreciate both of you being vulnerable about your journey in dating. I am glad there are brothers like you who know they are a prize and are intentional in who they pursue. And I love that quote: "Men should pursue and not persuade. A woman should present and not pursue."
Never seen or heard of this guest but I absolutely loved every minute of it! Always great to see/hear people going hard after God and still being real!
Yooooooooooo! This was not only fun, but so affirming. As a single woman who knows my value, it is beautiful to here you guys express not only your worth, but your capacity and determination to still desire love in spite of. Y'all gone 'head Kings...please don't faint or settle.
Three plus years later Laterras R. Whitfield following this channel I'm STILL catching up to previous Season's. This ONE RIGHT HERE Ughhh my heart! 💯%🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 This young brother RIGHT HERE is Seasoned beyond his natural years wow wow WOW! Loved this episode catch it when y'all can...... you're welcome 😁❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 P.S. The letter at the END of THIS episode HIT MY HEART SOOO DIFFERENT 😳😭😭🙏🏼 My cup RUNNETH over!
I see content and relationship with Kingdom Royale all over this episode!!! Shared this one with the Kings I raised. God bless you abundantly. I love this podcast!!!
This was amazing. You touched on some topics that are truly essential to building a lasting relationship that is founded in love for God, and valuing self and others.
Ooo, this is good! I love the transparency in this podcast🔥🔥🔥.Thank God for these young men who are all about God's kingdom. It's also so sad when you see the good ones get hurt and wounded, on both sides. Praying for God's best Dee! He sees your faithfulness😊
I loved this interview. I learned so much . Thank you so much for this program. You give me hope that there are true Christian men that want a truly Godly relationship.
Deep sigh!!! Laterras, thank you for saying what you said about asking yourself “am I too specific?” because I too ask myself this. But like you said….It’s all about purpose. Not interested in just linking up with any ole person just to have someone. Great interview
Amen…. PURPOSE!!! And will not,,, can not take no shorts or compromise to someone that is not Kingdom Minded and closely following and dwelling with Our Father
THIS video changed my life. Glory to God!!! I saw this video when it streamed months ago. it just popped up in my feed. God is so strategic. If you do not know God, SEEK HIM, PLEASE. he is waiting on you. He will turn your life around in ways you never imagined. Bless you woman of God. Bless you all watching this video. May God speak to you and transform your mind like never before.
"God will never, allow you to love someone that causes you to sin." WOW! Mic drop!!! 🎤 I'll carry that with me forever!
Amen
I caught that too.
1 of the 15
Me too. 2 of the 15 men watching.
Unfortunately, it happens all the time. God gives us choices.
When he said “I’ve always dated Christians but never had a Christian relationship “ wewwwwwwwwwww. 🔥 I’m tryna tell ya
Preach!!!!! That was a word!
I feel like giving up my standard seems unreal in this world. I've met Christian men willing to wait with me but do everything else with everyone else. The person I'm most drawn too seems disconnected. Pray for me 7 years seems too long. I want love and marriage while young to have fire sex. 🔥 Love has been awakened and its not too early;I'm over 40. God what's up how long before I have my purpose partner.
@@hillaryconsultingservices keeping you in prayer sis. God bless you
@@hillaryconsultingservices Age ain’t nothing but a number with God , remember Ruth was 40 when she met and married Boaz. I encourage you, you’re at the right age for God to present you to your husband! Gods timing is perfect! Remember he who promised is faithful, and blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her. DECREE AND BELIEVE !!!
Okay exactly
He said "You can be so invested in someone's potential that you can overlook who they currently are" hard truth I had to learn🙌💯🔥💕
Oooh lawd. So true.
"Don't ever settle for being the person that they just settled with knowing that they really wanted to be with somebody else."
Reminds me of Angela Simmons and Yo Gotti. 🤔
I'm not sure what I expected from this young man but I appreciated this episode from beginning to end. Age and wisdom do not necessarily go hand-in-hand, his pursuit of God and his Godly confidence was apparent and refreshing. Great episode
I thought the same thing when I saw how young he was but to my surprise he taught me a lot. I grew up with the impression that women are the prize and men suppose to cater to us. Well that was a fantasy. Men are special and they are given to us just as much as we are given to them.
SN Brooks I have the same thoughts. His confidence is almost mind blowing!
Yes it was a wonderful episode. It really blessed my heart.
It’s the hair and the strong New Orleans accent that makes you start making assumptions but he is a wise young man…..how refreshing!
Aaaaaaaaaaaay. Spit that!
When you touch something broken, you run the risk of getting cut. Wow, that is powerful statement!!!
Shout out Dee-1! I’m one of the 15 brothers listening 😂 Great message bruh! Keep up the great Kingdom building work. Blessings! 🙇🏽♂️
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My gosh I love how his brain works. He’s got so much wisdom it’s refreshing to see a man with clear standards that he’s not willing to compromise on his faith. He does it with so much grace, transparency, class and honesty. I can appreciate this and probably my favorite episode thus far. Glad he’s mentoring young people, we need more people to think and operate like this. ❤
THIS episode was a true example of "Never judge A Book by Its Cover!" & I loved it! Great Podcast. Yes we do support! Lol 💚
I love this young man's spirit and his passion for Christ. Loved this interview 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
When someone says they don't want to be a First Lady, it often means she doesn't want to live in a fishbowl/spotlight with the judgment, scrutiny, and isolation that comes with living a public life. It is usually in reference to marrying a Pastor, but it can also apply to being the wife of a President, Senator, Governor, etc. Some people just want to live a quiet, private, Godly life without having to deal with the peanut gallery.
Exactly!
Yes. This is my mom. She hates when I say First Lady. My dad is a Pastor. She still has a problem with it. She hates the judgment, and also the isolation. She has to be in my father's shadow and is always put last. Smh. She's real and down to earth. But she's also an amazing woman of God. She should own it and step in her purpose, but I understand why she rather do the least. Shes private and quiet also.. likes her peace. So she is completely out off her comfort zone. 😞
That’s what I believe it means as well. Not that they don’t share your love and Value for Christ and living accordingly.
Totally understand your mom! I hope she can find away to walk in her purpose freely too. 🥰
@@Starting_fresh your mother is also an example that other girls, women look up to. They can look up to her when they may can't look up to anybody else. There are people that may never pick up a Bible but when they see God in you. They will read you. How you dress and how you live your life. A lot are watching and will stare you down.
I honestly believe that neither Essence nor Laterras "missed out". If there wasn't that level of connection or alignment then there just wasn't.
Ofcourse it's easy to think that because they are both amazing people who aren't just morally good but have actually chosen to pursue holiness that they'd align. However, if we fall into the trap of trying to manufacture connection or alignment if we don't genuinely feel it then that will most likely lead to heartbreak.
So, I applaud them both for knowing what they want, where they stand and for keeping it respectful and real.
Essence kept it LIT! Her king is definitely out there. Kudos to her for not settling for less.
Singing… I don’t mind waiting . If you move to quick you forfeit what God has coming😉
To be honest I started not to watch this episode. I was like “ I am probably twice his age. He can’t teach me ish!”
But when I tell you my soul was truly BLESSED…it really was. I have listened to it 3 times lol! Awesome!!!
Felt the same way but when he started talking; I couldn’t turn him off. Young man got some wisdom at such a young age. Shows this generation has hope
I suggest to listen to Dee-1 on Hardly Initiated on UA-cam. The best interview ever.
@@Luvhersommaboaz2512 I did see he was on HI…which i love…but when the title said he was going to be talking about the beef he had with some people i decided not to watch. I will go back and give it a chance. Thank you for the recommendation!
This young man is hilarious!! I love how he is authentically himself!!! I can see him in his classroom connecting with his students and building real relationships while teaching them life lessons! He has great incite on life, highly intelligent, but real at the same time!! Great episode!❤️👏🏼🙏
I didn’t know who D1 was but I’m glad to have heard him, the passion he has and the gentleman’s conversation. The message I received was that, he knows who he is, knows what he wants, has healed from his past, learned from his past and is passionate in his spiritual path. Stay blessed young man…some men over the age of 50 can take a page out of your book.
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This is hands down my favorite episode. It broke down the difference between pursing and chasing which is necessary in these dating streets. It also convicted me. As a Christian woman, I was always taught that I was the prize. I never even considered the notion that a man could be a prize also. And when Dee-1 said men don't care about how much money a woman makes unless he's a bum, I almost spit out my water. Real Godly men who are genuinely into a woman are more concerned about a woman's character. I was under the impression that character and finances that match were equally important. So when in "hustle" mode I would stop dating altogether. This episode had some great nuggets on how to date more intentionally. Also how to love on and cover my brothers in Christ, even when I am not romantically interested in them. This was a FIRE episode!
Sis, I’ve thought the same thing- regarding finances being equally matching for men. 🤯 Only in recent months have I come to understand and grasp this specific truth Dee-1 dropped on us.
That is absolutely correct! You can't not be in love with someone's potential. You must be in love with their reality!
I think this is my favorite episode so far. Dee1 is on fire for God and is a great example to the young people that being a Christian doesn’t have to look stuffy or “buttoned” up. Plus, being from NOLA he is so New Orleans. I pray he makes a huge impact in the lives of the wayward youth.
I've commented already but this is the type of man I would define as sexy. Someone who is for God and vulnerable. Transparent on what he's still working on about himself and knows what he want out of a woman, if he ever chooses to get married. This is nothing short of how refreshing this is to see someone who is this confident in themselves. Awesome episode again.
I found Dee-1's music a few years ago. He's an artist, like you mentioned, that I could listen to with my children, and we all enjoy. Be real, be righteous, be relevant! Thank you for another great episode... I loved it! ✌🏾💜🙏🏾
Fascinating guest , can see he is a very articulate man with deep conviction in Christ , he is so real & transparent , and I pray that he continues being progressive , big up yourself Dee👍🏽
this has surprisingly been my favorite episode of the podcast. I enjoyed every bit of it. I pray the dee-1 continue to let God use him.
Lexi, I was thinking the same. It is my absolute favorite. He speaks with such confidence and assurance.
11 months and MANY viewed episodes later… this is one of (if not THE) BEST episode!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🎉🎉🎉
Dee-1 is phenomenal! 1st time hearing of him; soo glad I watched🤗
This episode was truly RAW!!! I mean, I laughed and Cheered at the same time!!! What a marvelous journey this young man had He didn’t allow life disappointments to lock him in a state of unworthiness, instead; he allowed God to water his purpose and path. I appreciate you LRW for demonstrating how to “shoot my shot” or shall I say; be in position to let that pure hearted man land where I’m standing.
Bro... this was so entertaining for me (lots of laughs) and REAL! One thing I've grown aware of is... I am also the prize! Salute to DEE-1 for that reminder. Always well done bro!
Thanks for responding, King. It's nice to know there are men out there who are engaged in this conversation.
I love what you're doing! I pray and hope that I too can provide stability, resources, etc to foster children. That has always been a dream of mine. Excellent work King! Keep moving in faith 🙏
Amen
To the kings that come to this show. Thank you so so much. It may seem like something small to you but to us, women it is a lot. Sometimes when we're tempted to drop our standards yall keep them up, actually you help us raise them. May you all be eternally blessed.
Thank you Dee 1 and Dear Wifey,
I am a prize, that’s why 7 years in the abstinence phase and loving myself is a journey I wish I had the chance to do before,
But god knows his plan.👍🏽
Always LOVED his energy
God is amazing
@@aishiabrady1800 without him we are nothing 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️ bless queen .
This was refreshing!
Can I say this though, as a sepiosexual I know a lot of people expect that when a "good Godly man" pursues you, you are supposed to accept him. However like Dee 1 was jokingly saying that Essence missed out on Laterras and many people feel this way too; without seeing that although people may be both Christians, sepiosexuals, genuinely good people there's a lot more that is required to make a relationship work.
As a woman, who will be married one day, I'm not looking for a specific person with certain accolades or fame or any of that.
1. Is he led by God?
2. Does his vision align with mine?
3. Am I willing to submit to who he is, not just as a business person, his character, am I ok with his personality, will I be ok with his failures, am I the type of woman who will be able to bring his (our) vision alive? Will I be willing to stay through sickness, poverty and loss. Is this the kind of person I would be ok to experience loss With?
A lot more goes with choosing a partner and I hope we all go through this journey with our Spiritual ears and eyes wide open!
This!!
Amen sister!!!!!
Very eye opening D1
He dated Essence?
Thank you sister, it's not automatic that a good man of God, well established will be accepted by any woman he approaches. It sounded like women should not have a say in who we want to be with, we should just accept them since they got everything going on in their life. Love and affection is mutual and when you see it's not there and never gonna be there, I respect people who say it from the beginning.
Wow! What an incredible man of God. Thank you for introducing Dee1 to me. Love his authenticity. The anointing is real and he wears it well!
That was AMAZING! He is an AWESOME individual! What a blessing he is to so many!!! I wasn’t familiar with him but will definitely check out his music! Praying for him and all that concerns him. I do believe this is one of the best interviews yet!!!💕🙏🏾💕🙏🏾
Whhhhheeeeeew! God has spoken to me through this episode. Dealing with the mental gymnastics right now with a guy I'm dating! " if you can't make me feel desired and wanted" , there are plenty of men who will. I say it all the time grown folks don't play the relationship/communication games. Speak to me LORD! God bless Dee1 & Laterras...
This is definitely one of my top 3 favorites of all the episodes! You find the best people to be on your podcast and I am so happy I watched this one. David is authentic, genuine, and real, and it's so refreshing to hear and see men like this. God bless good, God led men. You all ARE a rare and true prize. 🙏🏾🥰
Loved everything about this episode. The amount of wisdom that David attained through all of the hardships was awesome. Finding Balance is where I am now. So happy to hear it. Heard his heart and authority. The song "Authenticity" at the end was the icing on the cake. Praying that David heals from not being able to take calls from Grandma, his "favorite girl." Pray that he doesn't beat himself up for it. Wouldn't want any guilt to arise that would cause him not to be all that he was called to be! Keep on loving! That letter at the end Laterras to your future wife was touching as well. Also, please keep pouring into Armani. Don't want his heart to grow cold at such a young age. Blessings to you all!
Wow! The chemistry allowed you all to drop MAJOR gems. This episode blessed me spiritually and generally . Thanks
So refreshing to witness a man as young as he is speak with such positivity. I loved his vibe...his confidence! Another AWESOME episode, Laterras!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👑💪🏾
Until today, I had never heard of Dee-1 and I must say I truly received a blessing and gift today. What a truly spiritually mature young man who is wise beyond his years. Laterras, you stated a very valuable quote I will add to my inspirational toolbox; "Men should pursue and not persuade and women should present and not pursue." Thank you for your Dear Future Wifey Podcast! Congrats on season 4 and keep your words of wisdom flowing!
This!...I love young adults who go after God's heart❤️🔥 My spirit is filled with joy, love, and respect when I witness young adults talk about God and how he's working in their lives 🙌🏾 Praying you both find your wife and she's a GOOD THING!
Amen! I stand in agreement with that prayer for these brothers.
This is the best episode that I’ve seen. Thank you Dee-1. It’s my pleasure meeting you through this interview. May God continue to use you.
So, I’ve been following this guy on IG for about two years now and he’s amazing! I never heard this part of his story, and it just makes him all the more great!
Laterras you have a great eye, almost like a Christian recruiter. You find extraordinary people with relatable back stories to be your guest and together you bring soo much wisdom to us viewers and often times clarity and understanding, and gratefulness for our Father God for his Love, mercy and Grace. This is my absolute favorite podcast❤️
David is the epitome of what i want in a husband, this video was very good and informative. Pray you find the woman God has for you 💗🦋
Yo!! This episode was super lit!!! 🔥Love David's energy, transparency, and personality. Super dope ❤
Glory to God!!! He took me out when he said my preference is not, is being with a person who has no respect for the anointing and fruit that I have. That's 100 all day and I feel the same!
This episode is definitely one of my favorites so far... Never judge a book by its cover. I was glued from the beginning to the end. My goodness, his transparency and his personality seemed exceptionally authentic.
I found out about Dee-1 on a Johnathan McReynolds song and I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. This was another great episode and you both gave me things to think about. Thank you both for being l.i.t. and sharing.
I loved every bit of this episode, D1 is such an admirable young man. I pray him God’s best. As I was listening, I was reminded of listening to Dr. Myles Munroe and he emphasized Matt 22:37 which reads “love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind. Dr. Munroe emphasized that in doing so, others will not be able to hurt us because God has all our heart, mind, and soul, so profound. I pray Armani and Dee 1 find peace in that scripture going forward. Well Leterras, you did it again, it was well worth watching.
Dee-1. is hilarious! Please have him on again 😂. And he's right, men are the prize too - men and women are a blessing to each other!
"You get some d, and you get some d, and...." I'm trying to unhear that too 👀🤣🤣🤣
I be cracking myself up!!! Lol.
@@DearFutureWifey which podcast did you say you were on I gotta watch or listen to that 😂
@@nosindisomyeni I think it’s called Hello Hubby with Jessica Reedy.
Thanks for these podcasts Laterras. As an older, married Christian woman I appreciate this young man's wisdom. I pray you both find the "Good Thing" God has for you.
Wow!!! Thank you for the full transparency! I love when Dee 1 said..."I took a chance on me,...God was all in the mix." So many great points were addressed. Some of my takeaways...
1. Respect and Reverence.
2. Being confined to a box.
3. The difference between pursuing and chasing.
4. Knowing the prize has value.
5. Having a heart for the people and not the paper.
6. Rare Find that is specific to your purpose.
7. Shoot your shot🤣🤣
8. Your identity comes through Christ.
9. Being Real, Righteous, and Relevant
Great episode gentlemen!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you so much for the bullet points. I love that
@@DearFutureWifey absolutely! I'm a visual person and writing it down helps me retain the information. I definitely won't forget this podcast.😊🙌🏾🙏🏾
It’s one thing to be familiar with the artist, but what a blessing to see deeper into the man. I have been rocking with the NO homey Dee-1 since he “paid Sallie Mae back” but I absolutely enjoyed the opportunity to see more into his heart. Great interview.
As much as his dating horror stories are funny I love how up front his exs were in telling him what he didn't want to hear but definitely needed to hear.
This episode was amazing!! I am sharing it with my college daughter immediately!😊Also I have to support anyone from my home state of Louisiana!❤️Much success to this young man. We need more positive Christian examples for our young black men to see.
God Bless!
Thank you guys for making this episode. It was really a lot of fun to watch. I felt like I was sitting in the living room watching and listening to two brothers talking and joking with each other. The love and respect between you is apparent and made me so happy to see ✨. Thank you for the laughs and the beautiful message, I truly enjoyed this 🙂🙏.
I really enjoyed this conversation and I love his accent. It's good to see good men speak on these topics. I know some women hate the idea of bringing anything to the table or even being asked the question, but it was framed in a way that was respectful and made sense. Kudos to you guys.
The title of this episode should be Don't Judge a Book by the Cover. I love him! Very intriguing. Good stuff!
No shade to him, but I kept looking at the thumbnail like who is this?? But as you said don't judge a book by its cover! This was such a good interview, full of gems 💎
I’m late but this was good.. lots of laughs and nuggets! I’m married now but back in my 20s and even early 30s convos like this would have been SO HELPFUL. Nobody was unpacking like this 15yrs ago…
@Dee 1 you truly have a kingdom mindset. That is truly refreshing to see!
This episode was wonderful, and well worth my time as usual.
@Laterrus whitfield thank you for yet another great episode!
"God is not looking for perfection; God is looking for progression." 🙏🏾🎇🧘🏾♀️💪🏾
It’s so crazy that he’s this episodes guest! I just got hip to him 2 weeks ago with his 2019 album.
People Don’t Want That Real 🔥🔥🔥🔥
The accuracy of this song is everything!
Y’all had me rolling at work with this episode though 😂😂
I love to see young Christian who are good examples who are walking the walk and not ashamed. This is an inspiration not only for me but for my young adult children and a few other young adults who I have shared this podcast with as well. God bless this young man. Another great podcast 🙏🏾
I will always stay subscribed and support this channel. The accountability and responsibility he has taken upon himself and others I will forever respect! 💯
I had to run this episode back a couple of times because the wisdom and authenticity runs so deep. I absolutely LOVE that this brother not only knows without question what he wants, but also that he is sure and very sure of who he is in Christ and isn’t willing to compromise that for a relationship. Good stuff!
I Love Dee's honesty and vulnerability. Wish most men will listen to this especially about shooting their shot and not feeling bad about being rejection, also about being assertive with what you want. One day you will find your queen who has been praying for a King. As always this podcast is such a blessing to many.
I really enjoyed this! I went to follow Dee-1 only a few minutes into the interview. He gave me revelation on why I don't like surprises. I never thought it was trauma related. Also as usual consistent confirmations. This podcast is always in my journal and prayer closet. 🙏🏻
#BARS #God'sBest
That was deep.It spoke so much to me
I love Dee-1 because he doesn't compromise. It's not an easy thing to be in the career he is in without succumbing to the hopeless pursuit of money. It is very much refreshing to see somebody who is led by God and not by riches. He overcame adversity in order to overcome the world. Although I'm married, this episode still hit hard.
Much respect for you guys and D1 talking real, righteous and relevant. Love that you think outside of the box and understand the importance of balance.
This was LIT! I smiled and laughed the whole time😅 I loved Dee 1's energy and transparency. Those lyrics were as strong as that letter... real stuff! Thank you both and stay blessed!
I. Loved. This. Episode. I kept smiling as I watched y’all discussion! So much fun! Keep being you D!
This was a bomb episode. I love to hear men talk. Lateras that letter to your future wifey was 🔥. Amazing Men Of God!
This episode was amazing. The conversation was A1, the transparency.. that rap..👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾And that letter at the end…well done guys.
To have Laterras and David in the same room=Priceless 👏🏾
I love this young man’s heart and testimony!!!! May the blessings of our Heavenly Father run you over 😊😊😊
I ❤ Dee-1 ! It's always informative, encouraging & inspiring listening to what he has to say. I have been watching his interviews and listening to his music for almost 10 yrs
I Love Love Love this episode, The TRANSPARENCY is EVERYTHING!!!!! AWESOME GUYS
Wow Young man!!! I will be the first to say I totally was not prepared for the Words and knowledge that came out of your mouth. You definitely personifies Don't judge a Book by its Cover. You Amazing. Don't know your work, But I'm stalkin you now.. I lived in New Orleans. And you a Preacher! God is sooooo Amazin! Wow Yaweh! Boy you're more mature than men my age.. No disrepect ya Feel me? Well Done!! Your very mature and very well versed in Heartbreak and Heartache.. But has come thru Better not Bitter. Well Done Young Man.. Well Done.
I loved everything about this episode. Your podcast never disappoints. I now know who Dee1 is and thank you for your transparency, mission and purpose for God. Laterras that letter 🔥🔥. I’m like Dee1, your future wifey is watching and how amazing it would be if she’s also writing you letters. Keep be authentically you and I’m praying for you and your future wifey🙏🏾.
This was a great conversation. I wish I met someone like Dee1 with that mindset. And love that you can see his live for God through him.
I really was blessed listening to this conversation with you and this young man!!! I listened to his music! Love it! Keep keeping on both of you! God continue to bless and keep you both 💜🙏🏾
Absolutely one of my favorite episodes! I have been following Dee-1 for a while now before Slingshot David and I appreciate and admire his journey. He is the first Christian Rappers I’ve seen that not only submitted his life to Christ , but also his body ! He is definitely dropping Gems! You can’t build on looks! You have to definitely look at and know who someone follows (God) to know how he leads ! 3’s Up
So much respect for Dee-1... All the way from Sallie Mae Back days! Congrats to him on the residency. I really enjoyed this interview, cause it was definitely LIT!
Never heard of him but he is a breath of fresh air! Thanks for sharing 😊
This was good because he spoke with such openness, honesty & vulnerability. If we are walking the walk we must also match our words. Integrity is everything. When he started addressing the men the wisdom began to flow. Yes, beauty fades but character remains. His rap was like spoken word poetry, dynamic & creative. The letter was poetic, flow. Enjoyed the podcast. 🙏
That's so great being humble through all your successes after living poor. Great podcast Dee1 knows what he's about after his life lesson,he learn doing great for himself and helping the young minds. Bless bro👏🏿
His heart though.... Truly a man and men after God's own heart!!! I love this podcast!!!!
This was a phenomenal episode, and he is hilarious!!! I like the vibe with you interviewing men. The whole interview was impactful, but the missed calls part/finding balance was most crucial. I LOVED his Sister Circle interview a few years ago, but this one is probably my favorite. Thank you for having him on Laterras!
Edit: I forgot to say THANK YOU Laterras for recognizing your son's hurt over the dating/ rejection experience. The Spirit of Rejection is VERY real and not talked about often enough. Thank you for discussing it. The Holy Spirit will help him 🙏🏽
Thanks
This was TOTALLY LIT Laterras!🔥 .....I was Delighted to hear this Real Man's Testimony of Love and Lost and the Growth needed for Living Committed as a Christian Single....The Humor in the Process 😅
...I Loved 😍 It!...I wish You Both the Very Best in Finding Your Queen...And that "Future Wifey" Letter at the end! 🔥💞
Holy PASSION...It's Possible..
Trust God for that Marriage 💑 Night Gift!
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Wow! This was one of your best episodes yet! This interview really showed his personality, his heart & the Jesus inside of him. His vulnerability, honesty & authenticity was everything. His answer at the end was definitely from the truths of his heart. && any women of God that will see this comment. We MUST cover the men of God! The head of the Kingdom households. It’s MANDATORY! Praise God for your obedience Laterras. I know this strengthened hope in many women. God bless 🙏🏽
Dee-1 is a dope young man. So is Laterras. Blessings to both of you guys.
I love how comfortable Dee-1 is in his own skin. Awesome! He is a very wise guy, I really enjoyed this conversation. Also, I love how he addressed Essence ha ha, he is the best!!
Wow, this was such a great episode! Blessings to you and Dee1. So many gems were dropped and I appreciate both of you being vulnerable about your journey in dating. I am glad there are brothers like you who know they are a prize and are intentional in who they pursue. And I love that quote: "Men should pursue and not persuade. A woman should present and not pursue."
Never seen or heard of this guest but I absolutely loved every minute of it! Always great to see/hear people going hard after God and still being real!
Yooooooooooo! This was not only fun, but so affirming. As a single woman who knows my value, it is beautiful to here you guys express not only your worth, but your capacity and determination to still desire love in spite of. Y'all gone 'head Kings...please don't faint or settle.
Three plus years later Laterras R. Whitfield following this channel I'm STILL catching up to previous Season's. This ONE RIGHT HERE Ughhh my heart! 💯%🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 This young brother RIGHT HERE is Seasoned beyond his natural years wow wow WOW! Loved this episode catch it when y'all can...... you're welcome 😁❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
P.S. The letter at the END of THIS episode HIT MY HEART SOOO DIFFERENT 😳😭😭🙏🏼 My cup RUNNETH over!
Loving this King. I pray for every success spiritually and physically
Super fun yet authentic episode. I really enjoyed both men sharing their stories and ol' Armani making his off-camera "appearance."
I see content and relationship with Kingdom Royale all over this episode!!! Shared this one with the Kings I raised. God bless you abundantly. I love this podcast!!!
This was amazing. You touched on some topics that are truly essential to building a lasting relationship that is founded in love for God, and valuing self and others.
Ooo, this is good! I love the transparency in this podcast🔥🔥🔥.Thank God for these young men who are all about God's kingdom. It's also so sad when you see the good ones get hurt and wounded, on both sides. Praying for God's best Dee! He sees your faithfulness😊
I loved this interview. I learned so much . Thank you so much for this program. You give me hope that there are true Christian men that want a truly Godly relationship.
Deep sigh!!! Laterras, thank you for saying what you said about asking yourself “am I too specific?” because I too ask myself this. But like you said….It’s all about purpose. Not interested in just linking up with any ole person just to have someone. Great interview
Facts!
Amen…. PURPOSE!!! And will not,,, can not take no shorts or compromise to someone that is not Kingdom Minded and closely following and dwelling with Our Father
THIS video changed my life. Glory to God!!! I saw this video when it streamed months ago. it just popped up in my feed. God is so strategic. If you do not know God, SEEK HIM, PLEASE. he is waiting on you. He will turn your life around in ways you never imagined. Bless you woman of God. Bless you all watching this video. May God speak to you and transform your mind like never before.