Good advice. After 20 years of marriage it isn’t getting any better and actually the abuse is getting physical and I am done. It takes a lot of strength and I needed this push.
Hi and thanks for your feedback. I agree divorce sucks. That being said you would not believe the thousands of people who have asked me this and so I decided to do a video. I sure hope it helps a few have an better conversation.
Thank you so much for this. I’ve been unhappy for the last two years. I’ve been wanting to leave the entire time but haven’t had the courage to do it out of fear of not seeing my son. I the recent weeks I believe I found my true soul mate that gives me feelings I’ve never had before. Before that goes any further, I want to do this the right way and just not go behind anyone’s back. This has been helpful information on delivering the news to my current wife and the speech if you will, was going to consist of some of the don’ts in this video. Thank you again
HI Liliam. I sincerely appreciate your feedback. I have cut the intro dialog down quite a bit since this video. I will keep working on improving them for the
I think i get it. The intro was essentially the "small talk" one might have with a counselor prior to sitting on the couch and then discussing one's schizophrenia. Like the other comments, at first i thought it was a little odd, the intro....but the "how to ask for a divorce" content was really good. I learned a lot. Thank you.
Found out that I love women after one year of marriage. I hope that video will help me to tell my husband. I'm feeling horrible. I still love him in a platonic way. It's hard.
A divorce is usually painful, especially if you tried your best to make it work. However, it should not be messy. Click here for more info - www.howtocrazy.com/how-to-make-the-divorce-process-smooth/
"Truth and clarity"?? Kind and Loving messages?? Feeling bad is a "heavy wasteful energy"? Wow!! While I do feel this woman is a sincere, honest person, her suggestions seem kind of cold and arrogant. Of course both people, if they are human, will likely to feel bad in some way over the prospect of divorce. But, being a hard-ass will likely lead many people (especially men) into an extremely contentious divorce and contentious long term co-parenting situation for the next 20 yrs. Here's the deal as I see it: most people lack the requisite communication and relationship skills needed to resolve many of the marital issues/conflict usually faced in all marriages. A small investment in these skills would likely avoid the need to seek a divorce in the first place. Marriage ain't no fairy tale. In any given marriage relationship, you are guaranteed to have to deal with the "good, the bad and the ugly." People (men and women) today have many unrealistic and selfish expectations of marriage. They use some of the most superficial and trivial reasons for blowing their families apart. Not likely that even following these rules?/equations, either spouse will be quickly moving into their fairy-tale happy future (in my opinion), unless. they work on correcting the damaged thinking and behavior that got them in trouble in the first place.
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I can't belive there's a how to video that teach people to talk about divorce. What's next, a video about how to sleep or eat or walk on the street? Wait a minute; those already exist ,😐🙄😒
Good advice. After 20 years of marriage it isn’t getting any better and actually the abuse is getting physical and I am done.
It takes a lot of strength and I needed this push.
Very strange intro.... it has absolutely nothing to do with the topic of divorce. Skip to 2.05:for relevant info.
Hi and thanks for your feedback. I agree divorce sucks. That being said you would not believe the thousands of people who have asked me this and so I decided to do a video. I sure hope it helps a few have an better conversation.
Thank you so much for this. I’ve been unhappy for the last two years. I’ve been wanting to leave the entire time but haven’t had the courage to do it out of fear of not seeing my son. I the recent weeks I believe I found my true soul mate that gives me feelings I’ve never had before. Before that goes any further, I want to do this the right way and just not go behind anyone’s back. This has been helpful information on delivering the news to my current wife and the speech if you will, was going to consist of some of the don’ts in this video. Thank you again
Great video.
Good info but that ‘introduction’ is so out of place?
HI Liliam. I sincerely appreciate your feedback. I have cut the intro dialog down quite a bit since this video. I will keep working on improving them for the
sorry - hit the button too soon. I will keep on improving them based on feedback like yours. So thank you for taking the time. Karen
The pine beetle is everywhere and destroying pine trees. A pine beetle is like a drunk within a marriage, it destroys all.
The beginning was so far off from the point of the video but the rest was amazing THANK YOU 🙏
I think i get it. The intro was essentially the "small talk" one might have with a counselor prior to sitting on the couch and then discussing one's schizophrenia. Like the other comments, at first i thought it was a little odd, the intro....but the "how to ask for a divorce" content was really good. I learned a lot. Thank you.
Great advice, I’ll share this with my daughter with 3 small children. Thank you so much.
The music choice for this is...odd....
Thank you
Found out that I love women after one year of marriage. I hope that video will help me to tell my husband.
I'm feeling horrible. I still love him in a platonic way. It's hard.
I am sure this is hard but just be honest and authentic. That is the kindest thing you can do and the most empowering for you.
@@FairwayDivorce thank you. I guess you're right.
But who cares about the park? I want a divorce.
A divorce is usually painful, especially if you tried your best to make it work. However, it should not be messy. Click here for more info - www.howtocrazy.com/how-to-make-the-divorce-process-smooth/
"Truth and clarity"?? Kind and Loving messages?? Feeling bad is a "heavy wasteful energy"? Wow!! While I do feel this woman is a sincere, honest person, her suggestions seem kind of cold and arrogant. Of course both people, if they are human, will likely to feel bad in some way over the prospect of divorce. But, being a hard-ass will likely lead many people (especially men) into an extremely contentious divorce and contentious long term co-parenting situation for the next 20 yrs. Here's the deal as I see it: most people lack the requisite communication and relationship skills needed to resolve many of the marital issues/conflict usually faced in all marriages. A small investment in these skills would likely avoid the need to seek a divorce in the first place. Marriage ain't no fairy tale. In any given marriage relationship, you are guaranteed to have to deal with the "good, the bad and the ugly." People (men and women) today have many unrealistic and selfish expectations of marriage. They use some of the most superficial and trivial reasons for blowing their families apart. Not likely that even following these rules?/equations, either spouse will be quickly moving into their fairy-tale happy future (in my opinion), unless. they work on correcting the damaged thinking and behavior that got them in trouble in the first place.
Who gives a shit about Pineneedles? Nobody clicked on this video for that reason
Skip to 2:11 and then go from there
Intro was enough to stop watching.
I’m gonna tell her on Christmas 😆😆😆
And how did that work?
What's with the intro? That's when you lost me!
Why is it always women that make these videos. And they wonder why women initiate getting divorced 8/10 cases.
Is she blaming male fire fighters????
Jajajajajja future full of cats an piss oddor ir better than fix my problems with others ¡¡¡ Ohh yesss thank you cat lady more single mothers to the world
I can't belive there's a how to video that teach people to talk about divorce. What's next, a video about how to sleep or eat or walk on the street? Wait a minute; those already exist ,😐🙄😒