the internet : -"how to interact with famous people?" a famous people : -"just like you do with normal pepole" the internet : -"...how do you interact with people?"
I met someone at a bar once and said to them that I loved their work and the recent role that they were in on stage. They asked me if I could just wait a few minutes and then tell them that again when they were sitting outside as they were with a producer/director talking about a new role they were after. LOL, was glad to help out by asking twice.
A little anecdote for you - many years I was in ireland, and...As I was boarding the train, Terry Jones happened to be getting off of the same carriage - it was a truly starstruck moment because while Python is important to many people, Terry for me is a genius and one of my very favourite people simply by virtue of who he is. I stepped back, allowed him to get off the train and nodded politely, and when he acknowledged me told him how much I loved watching Monty Python growing up, how much my grandfather loved watching the troupe - Mr. Jones was extremely gracious and spent a couple of minutes chatting to me as the train was still boarding anyway. Finally he offered to sign something for me, and all I had was a five pound note - he took it out of my hand, grabbed a pen and scrawled "Here is your lovely five pound note - regards, Terry Jones" and handed it back to me. It's framed now, and is one of my most treasured possessions, and it grew out of just being respectful, mindful and being poilite.
Ahhh, back in the day when you could write on a fiver ...would have been a different story with these plastic ones ☝🏼😆 To me, what you received was so, so much better than a pic with Terry ...so much more personal and precious to have something signed.
I usually just start by handcuffing the individual to myself. It's very difficult to be ignored after that. And if it ever leads to a lawsuit or a restraining order; hey, that's just bonus memorabilia!
A true story paraphrased: Billy Connolly - "Sorry, but... are you [name of his niece]?" My ex - "Um... no... Billy Connolly..." He was apparently meeting a niece at the airport, a niece he hadn't seen in some time.
My father has worked in the music industry for years. One thing he has always done is if he sees someone he recognizes, he doesn't necessarily make the conversation about their body of work. He'll say hello, and then ask them how their tour is going, or how their shopping is going. Sometimes it's nice to not have every fan interaction be about the fan/artist interaction.
A genuine smile, a very short greet such as "Thank you", or "Love your work", and a head bow of respect. Then move on, back away, make some gesture that you are not seeking to press them for their time. If they are of a mood for more interaction, they may respond to indicate that you are welcome to stay for a (very short) extra moment. If all you get is a smile or a "Thank you" (or whatever) in response, move on. They have lives to live and things to do.
When I was in film school my professor dedicated a portion of one of his lectures to talking about how to interact with celebrities properly so it seems like common sense to me. I forget that many people don't really know how to interact with people who, for all intents and purposes, are basically modern day royalty. Thanks for sharing.
This is common sense. Don't touch anyone regardless if they are famous or not, it's just being decent. Don't interrupt famous people when they look like they don't want to be approached. Don't invade anyone's personal space when it's obvious they are having what looks to be a meeting, conversation etc. I fear no one not even famous people after all they are just people. What you do have to concern yourself with is the "earpiece" i.e. body guards. I've seen famous people and in some cases in places where no one knew who they were but from my eye contact and body language back and forth they knew I new. I didn't bust their chops or talk I just nodded hello and they nodded hello with a mutual respect that I didn't bust them in public. My question is where can I get the stand for the Raiders fertility idol in the background. That is way more interesting to me. Thanks Adam :-)
Thanks. "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" is always great advice. Makes me wonder why it's so hard for us to looking past the persona and see a fellow human being when dealing with famous people.
As I've gotten older, I've realised that there is no point to talking to famous people unless you have something specific to ask or say. Generally, the thing you like them for (movie, book, whatever) represents the best of them, so any personal interaction is going to be a step down!
I really enjoyed this. I had a neighborhood friend whose cousin came from Texas up to study acting at a local University. He was very gregarious to us younger kids and guided us on lots of local adventures. As a result of his work in a local theater ensemble, he was scouted for a role in a film. He went on to act in supporting roles in successful films and was later a regular character on a long running TV show. To me, he was always my just neighbor's cousin who happened to succeed in a line of work that made him recognizable. He was a person whose family I knew and who had the sames aspirations, wants and needs as any other person I knew. He and his wife life a quiet life on the outskirts of Los Angeles, where I hope they enjoy a certain amount of anonymity. Thank you for addressing an issue that I was gratefully inoculated against at a formative age!
I almost didn't approach Hugh Laurie in Sydney a few years back to the point I even walked away thinking "I'm sure he doesn't want to be bothered" and no one seemed to notice he was there. I then decided to go back and say hello and how much I appreciate his works, quietly of course as to not draw attention to him. I'm so glad that I did because he could not have been more kind and we spoke for a few minutes, something I'll never forget.
Fun fact: While at a local venue in Phoenix for a concert provided by a radio station, one of the local news/weather personalities was waiting in line at the bar. Trying to be polite and not interrupt their evening. I just said "hi, " and turned back around in line. Although they were courteous and said hello back, it was the look of "what, nothing else?" that came across their face that was priceless.
I got to meet you at your mythbusters live tour thing on its first day in Vegas. Got up on stage (blew a raspberry for the slow mo camera) and got a picture with you jamie and my twin sister afterwards Gotta say you are the most chill famous person ive met thats for sure
The thing that drives me crazy is when people think that the words famous and public ownership are synonymous and they justify it with "They (the famous person) knew what they were signing up for." Just because we, as a collective group, have been doing it for nearly 100 years, it doesn't mean that it's okay. They deserve to have moments with their family or to themselves without being harassed by other people. First, check to see if they have "Fuck Off!" clearly written on their face. If not, then check with your self and ask yourself "If I was them would I want to be bothered in this moment?" Last thing. Just because you donate money to an online entity, it doesn't mean that you own them.
@@nexus1g Alton also kindly appeared on Mythbusters for a Thanksgiving episode doing silly things like cooking lasagna in a dishwasher (online mini myth) and cooking on an engine manifold while driving to a Thanksgiving destination.
I was at an event a few years ago, and had just finished listening to Simone Giertz talk on how she got into making robots. I remember thinking she is going to approached by a ton of people, so its probably not a good time. Not 5 minutes later, she was walking straight towards me outside the auditorium. We had a brief but interesting conversation. Thanks Simone!
I "met" Adam Savage, many years ago, at the Safeway near M5 Industries one afternoon. He was shopping with his kids and I had my infant son - throwing a screaming fit in my ear. Adam's kids were making his day difficult, as well. Not saying a word, we cast each other a weary, understanding glance before moving on with our days. =]
My mother literally bumped into Martin Short once in Las Vegas. She has half way into her apology when she recognized him. Caught off guard, all she could do was point, and say, "Oh, my God! It's you!" Without missing a beat, Martin Short gasped. Stepped back a pace. Pointed at her, and said, "Oh my God, it's YOU!"
I don't get star-struck. Celebrities expressing their fandom over other celebrities always reminds me that we're all just people. Something about that makes me really happy.
The unfortunate thing is that most people who are inclined to ask this question probably don't really need to be told the answer. It's the thoughtless, inconsiderate people who *need* to hear the answer who will never ask the question and will not listen to the answer and make life difficult for everybody.
While living in Bristol, I saw John Cleese at the train station, as a massive Monty Python fan, I was thrilled. But he was clearly not interested in interaction with anyone, he wore gloves, hat leaned over and his jacket collar were pointing up concealing as much of his face as possible. I had to pretend like nothing, so no one else would notice him too. If for some weird reason and coincidence, some of the MP team would read this, you shaped my humour, and made me smile and laugh, and helped me to always look on the bright side. Thank you all.
I don't think I'd ever approach a famous person I want to meet. But after this video, I just might, to tell them I appreciate their work. I think that can only be a positive thing. I think the key is to just be polite.
I met Marilu Henner at an after-party, where there were lots of famous and not-famous. It was an environment where we were supposed to meet and bump elbows. I stood about 5’ away and told her I really enjoyed her work. She looked at me like I was a 2-headed alien and said not a word. She claims she has a photographic memory and never forgets anything. I know I’ll never forget that.
I think the fact that this person asked himself/herself that question was proof enough that this person respects their idols as human beings and will very carefully think about what to do and say. My advice: always concier the imbalance of information. You know your idol way better than they know you. Even when they realize that you are a fan, they don't know anything about you and you are still a stranger to them. A kind stranger but still a stranger. Idols can often feel like they are your best friend when in fact, they are not.
Still, I will never approach a famous person because of fear, that it isn't someone I think he/she is. I often confuse strangers with my family or friends, how could I ever properly distinguish a person I only saw on a TV screen?!
Whenever I meet or bump into famous people, I just tell them how I appreciate their work, and ask them a question about what they liked about whatever my favourite thing of theirs is, or even better, talk about something you understand is a common interest! More often than not, this leads to a longer conversation than expected, smiles and handshakes, and THEM offering "do you want to grab a photo or something?" - I never under any circumstances ask for a signature. People may disagree, but a signature, whether personalised or not, can't beat a photo to capture that moment.
I had a pit pass to almost anywhere at the grand prix in Detroit 20 years or so ago, my daughter and I were walking around the trailers of the drivers and saw Paul Newman standing outside just talking in the air or something. When he saw us I could see him just freeze up a little so I gave him a small wave and as we walked by I told my daughter he was a famous actor and she had seen a few of his movies, I could see the relief in his eyes and knew he appreciated it.
If i saw Adam, i would first proceed to cry a lot. Whether or not he was still there after I managed to stop the tears of joy, that's a different story!
I was in SFO a couple of years ago and noticed Adam sitting in the boarding area of my flight. I started to walk over but noticed that he had earbuds in and was looking intently at a book/magazine so I left him unmolested. I did take a long distance stalker photo to send to my 12 year old son who is a huge fan :)
What I've heard from other celebrities is don't approach people in the toilet or when they are eating. Adding Adam's advice, don't touch people when they aren't aware, and you can hardly go wrong.
Way back when, mid 90's, I was a trade show dealer in art prints and commissions at GenCon. Dealers show up a few hours before the doors open. Across from my booth was the Highlander TV show booth selling DVD's, posters, displays, the TV used hero sword, etc. My group got to know their teams as fellow dealers tend to chat and BS about con stuff, sales, merchandise, other cons, travel, etc. I spent time one morning talking with a guy about various stuff, and mentioned he was glad to be going home soon, but that meant dealing with his riding lawn mower and how badly it ran. I am very garage oriented, car restoration, welding, emgines, etc. Talked with him about the carb, yeah, the newer ethanol based fuels getting pushed out mess things up, all while staff brought in ropes and stanchions to set up lines. "Well, gotta cut this short. Back to work, you know," he says. "Ah, what are the ropes for?" " Kinda for me," he says sheepishly. "I'm sort of the star of the show." Huh. I didn't think to match up the posters and display with Adrian Paul, aka Dunab Macleod. " Sorry, didn't know. Haven't seen the show, on the con circuit too much." He was happy to just talk about *anything* NOT related to the show with a stranger for a change. Just be treated normally, not fawned over. Next day we picked it back up, more non-show talk. It was a nice break for him. Now if I meet someone 'famous' or some CEO, I ask questions about unrelated things to break up the expected questions. "So, tell me about your first job. What was it and what did you learn from it." I get some very candid and soecial answers as people open up with their tales, reminding people that we all had that first job somewhere and can commiserate. In short, treat 'famous people' with respect and less awe. Ask a question lime " What was your first car and how long did you have it?" I bet you get a special response as that person brings up memories from the past, well prior to their rise to recognition. What would Adam Savage's first have been?
I think we often forget that famous people are still people. I'm by no means famous, but I've had a couple things (art projects) I did online go viral and just like Adam said, I appreciated people loving my work, but when people started getting demanding, I got annoyed and withdrew.
At least 10 years ago Adam, you and Jamie were visiting some Friends at Infinite Loop 4, and it just happened to be one of the Wednesdays that my family spent every week going to lunch with my dad at work. And when we were entering the cafeteria, one of your friends who had been invited to join you, told my dad that you and Jamie were there today having lunch with them and a bunch of other employees, and then invited all of us to join you as well. I remember that multiple tables had to be pulled together to seat everyone in the group. I was probably only 12 or 13. It was probably one of my most favorite experiences getting to meet you both together while you were geeking out with your engineering friends. I can't remember us ever conversing, or what I said if we did. What I do remember is that we all got a picture together, and that because I didn't have anything on me for you to sign, I ran all the way back to the cafeteria to grab a paper plate for you to sign before you left! And I won't ever forget your little message you wrote on it, "Stay Curious!" I still have that same paper plate pinned to my cork-board next to my desk 10 years later! i.imgur.com/CEo5LGf.jpg Seeing this video reminded me, and I wanted to thank you for that wonderful experience. I still love the fact that I got you both to sign a paper plate. That plate is one of my most treasured items. P.S. I also remember hearing a story during that lunch that you had crafted some custom sci-fi themed door for some meeting room named after the same sci-fi series. So when I heard that you had made 'tested', and channel about makers and making, I was not surprised. :)
I was in Atlanta and walked up to my gate to find William Shatner there, on the phone, talking with someone about appointments or something. I waited until he was done and set his phone down and said, "Hi, are you Bill Shatner? I've enjoyed your work ever since I was a kid ..." and then he raised his hand, silently mouthed the word "NO". and looked away. I went over to a chair to wait for the plane. A dozen or so people figured out who he was, and there were murmurs, but then we all got on the plane and flew to Denver. He was in first class and got off first, and I didn't see him when I left the gate, but I hustled out to the train and it just so happened I got an empty train car to myself. I sat at the end, on one of the benches. Who should get on my car but good ol' Shatner, and he sat on the other bench at the complete opposite end of the car. We were facing each other with fifty feet between us. I said nothing to him, just looked at him, and he looked at me with a completely blank and emotionless stare all the way back to the terminal. I got off first and never bothered to look back. Never meet your heroes, folks.
I think it's just a by product of the fact that people let "famous people" into their most intimate spaces so when they/we see you, we treat you like an old time friend. I'm watching this on my phone in my room. Adam is the 1st man I've had in my bedroom since November 2015, so if I saw you I'd probably fan out.
lol I just posted this on another Ask Adam where it was brought up about the pros and cons of being famous but it's even more relevant here: I remember some people talking about fame when it came to celebrities who were known to be nice on camera but not when the cameras were off. They mentioned how it must be exhausting to try and be upbeat and positive all the time. As well as how some who are famous are also very busy and work hard at either their show, products, etc. How it can be exhausting trying to figure out whats up next when someone comes up to you and your trying to keep your energy for being all happy go lucky on camera and your kinda having to waste it to be nice to someone who is interrupting you or bothering you when your trying to take a break. When it can happen numerous times a day every day? And at the end of the day being so tired using all your energy to put on that "act" in some cases. It was pretty interesting hearing about it from some who are considered slightly famous etc and trying to give reasons as to why some people are like that. Now some people are probably happy go lucky a lot and others it could just be an act but it would make sense for some people if you were in those shoes where your not normally social or happy go lucky but maybe your famous cause your on a comedy show or in some comedy movies and people expect you to be all nice and positive when your trying to rush to another gig or just wanting to rest on a flight or something. That's something iv always worried about if I were to ever become famous. I wouldn't want to be famous, would enjoy being able to do movies and stuff and also get lots of money from such things but the fame is something I wouldn't really want. I would prefer to be left alone like many famous people do. This video made me think of those conversations which some people might not realize that sometimes famous people want to be left alone whereas some others might be fine or welcome fans coming up and bothering them for autograph etc. It's hard to know, and for the famous person it's hard to convey without looking like a jerk or ruining someones day cause you couldn't spare a minute to talk to them. And sometimes that can really mess up a fan and sometimes cause that fan to no longer be a fan cause the famous person was just having a bad day and didn't have the energy to put on an act.
Don’t bother celebs while they are eating or would be otherwise inconvenienced to deal with you. Imagine you’ve just had a long day, you sit down for a nice meal and some random strangers come up just as you’re starting to take your first bite and demand you drop your fork and start posing for pictures with them and sign stuff. That would be kind of rude... Well imagine that happens all - the - time... Most celebs are pretty generous, but they are people too - appreciate their work, but don’t harass them or feel like you’re entitled to their personal space or time.
I haven't run into a famous person in the wild yet, but when I do I will now be cool with it. I have had 3 times that someone has come up to me to talk, I am not famous, but I was in a tv commercial and host a small UA-cam channel. It is fun for someone like me to be recognized in the wild...but like i said only happened 3 times...
My advice about meeting celebrities would be: 1. please be calm and keep your shit together, no one likes when someone you have no idea who he or she is, is screaming like an obsessive maniac, anyway 🙄 2. be nice and come to them with good intentions, it’s true you’re sort of knowing the certain celebrity, but they’re having no idea who you are, remember that ‼️3. zero touching or touch only if celebrity will allow you to or is touching you first, how would you feel if someone you don’t even know would be touching you? 🤷🏻♀️ 4. approach in polite manner, for example say: i apologize for disturbing you, but I’d just like to say hello 👋🏻 5. if you want a picture, politely ask for permission of a celebrity, no one likes when someone is shoving their phone into their face. 🤷🏻♀️ 6. be polite, just be polite and don’t be a dick, simple ‼️ 7. fangirling, screaming and overreacting isn’t going to work well, rather bad. 🤷🏻♀️ as many mentioned here before, don’t disturb a celebrity while they eat or do something with their families ‼️
Having worked in various segments of the entertainment industry for most of my life, I just treat celebrities as I would anyone else. This means that if I see them out in public I treat them with the same indifference as I do everyone else. If I am working with them I treat them with professional courtesy and keep doing my job. In most cases this works out just fine but of course there are exceptions. The worst are the celebs who are full of themselves and expect special treatment. They often travel with an entourage and make ridiculous demands on everyone around them. This is especially prevalent with rap and pop stars.
Mario Hampstead Heath is a great place to spot celebrities and just a generally great place to visit in general. On Hampstead Heath I’ve seen Ricky Gervais, Peter Capaldi (Doctor who), Charles Dance (Game of Thrones), Pierce Brosnan as well as a bunch of others
I worked on a movie with Tom Cruise and I asked his publicist if one could speak with him. She said sure, he doesn't mind, just keep it brief and be aware if he is occupied somehow. He was in fact very approachable and friendly. But I kept it short and sweet. Something about being a big fan of Legend!
I've met a few Famous people and said hello and reached my hand for a handshake. It was reciprocated and I thanked them and told them how I appreciated their craft or work. Then on my way. Easy Peasy.
Well since I most likely will never meet the great Adam Savage - let me just say, thank you for the work you have done! You have made all things Tested super interesting to me from early highschool and into adult life. It's very humbling to see you starstruck as well. But the respect of the approach is something I have always agreed with - maybe the greatest gift to give your favourite celeb is space for themselves in public.
As someone who works at an airport I find this very informative and think this is very good advice. Also in general don't tap people to get their attention.
I have only met 2 celebrities in my life; Aaron Tippin & Dr. Ben Carson. Neither of whom did I have the presence of mind to get photos with due to the surprise of bumping into them. Both were very friendly, but I tried not to impose.
It comes down to emotional intelligence of people, if people check their photos right beside you without interaction are they really showing that you mean something to them or they are absorbed in their need to show off that picture rather than in experience meeting you telling few kind words. If you appreciate somone either don't bother them or respectfully approach them, ask them if you can take a picture and don't take too much time
I knew a guy who did some painting at a hall of fame baseball player's house. The baseball player actually got upset because the guy wouldn't acknowledge who he was. He told the guy "I've seen you throw a ball but I don't know who you are personally". He threw a fit and didn't want to pay him
I am definitely more in the not wanting to interrupt their day camp. My wife is still mad at me because we were walking through a casino bar in Vegas and saw Denis Farina at the bar. She is a big fan of Crime Story. She wanted to approach him and I convinced her not to because it was obvious he was there with family. Since he passed away a few years ago she will never have that chance again.
I have always wondered this question. I'm not exactly in an area where famous people congregate or anything, but when I see them on TV out in the public, I always wonder how harassed they get just buying groceries and stuff. How they feel about it, and what would I do in the situation where someone I really liked was in my vicinity.
Alan Jackson once came to a place I worked. He just wanted to play some racket ball. One of the employees noticed who it was and everyone literally rushed him. I stayed behind. The only thought I had other than.. sure it'd be cool to meet him was, "Man I'd hate to be rushed like that." lol He and his manager were cool about it. After a couple minutes his manager politely asked everyone to disperse. He reminded them that he was there to play racket ball.
love this.... caught eye contact w Arnold Schwarzenegger one time at the Hard Rock in San Antonio.... I couldn't approach him, but i threw him a "fan boy" double thumbs up and he smiles, nodded and that was that....
Mr Savage looks so much happier and healthier than his Mythbuster days... Good for you Adam. Gotta love Tom Waits music ...plus, he’s always so effortless in any bit film part he happens to turn up in. For instance: The Old Man and the Gun Book Of Eli Bram Stoker's Dracula The Ballad of Buster Scruggs I always enjoy what he brings to his characters... I also like to believe the tale that the late Heath Ledger, in part, did find his Joker voice in how Tom Waits speaks... P.S. I really appreciate your work...thank you for doing what you do ☝🏼😆
*And for the love of God make sure your phone is ready to take photos!!* Several other veterans and I all missed out on a picture with John De Lancie because the first person who asked's phone wasn't even setup and immediately locked out TWICE before his picture could be took. There was so much fumbling he just walked off. Please.. unlock your phone, open the camera app, make sure the settings are the way you want them, DISABLE THE SCREEN SHUT OFF, and know who will take the picture before you ask or before it's your turn. If you're at a con I would suggest simply setting your screen shut off for 5 minutes. Your battery will be fine.
#NOTAFAMOUSPERSON - These are good words to live by for interaction with anyone you don't know. Your unknown seat mate on a flight springs to mind. A courteous "Hello" can start a conversation or not - play-it-by-ear" and watch the body language (and/or headphone use!).
I agree... Play it by ear. You'll be nervous, but they might be too. I've been lucky enough to meet a lot of my heroes. Not just at comic con type things, but working for an airline originally in the terminals, where you have to be professional. But you can't help saying hello and asking how they are. You soon know who wants to chat and who wants to move on. I've only asked for one autograph (James Hetfield) in that situation, never a photo and mainly it's just cool to have shaken their hand and had a chat about their day or an album or a film. To give you an idea.... I've chatted to people like: George Lucas, Paul McCartney, Jason Statham, Jenson Button, Iron Maiden, KISS, Megadeth, Voivod and many other actors, some internationally famous many just UK centric. One of the nicest was Eva Green, at first I didn't realise who she was, it was about 6months after her Bond film. Christopher Lee was a true gentleman and was more than happy to chat. I now work in an office, so over the past 8yrs I've had to make do with conventions!
when i was collecting baseball cards and autographs it was suggested to me to always start with "Mr.__________ or Mrs.__________ , may i have your autograph or picture?" the basic amount of manners and respect goes a long way. rather than "HEY ADAM, My man let me get a photo!!"
I met my comedy hero after a gig... Billy Connelly. I spent my whole life working out what my best words would be in an interaction with him. When it came... I forgot anything I mentally noted down and just asked for a photo 😂
I have run into a few famous people and try to keep the interaction low key to keep their privacy if they are trying to have a low key time out too. Just my advice from being the one approaching and the one being approached.
I just get starstruck. Its not until afterwards that I feel stupid. Its just always an amazing pleasure to meet someone who impacted my life in a positive way. I put the people I like on a pedestal, its a very, very bad habit.
I think it is about motive, if someone is a tru fan then they will take into consideration there hero/heroin's feelings, by telling that person you admire/respect them, they are receiving something From the fan. If all you want is a selfie to brag about then the fan is receiving something and that is a gift not to be demanded or expected. Good manners and thinking of others is key.
one time I met Jamie having my HS graduation dinner at golden corral. he was eating alone but had 4, maybe 5 plates of one of the green bean sides and a couple of mashed potatoes. I told him what a big fan I was, and he said thanks, but he didn't look me in the eye he was like looking at my forehead. nice guy tho.
Dear Adam Savage. My name is Zion and I'm a fourteen year old boy from Atlanta GA. First off, you're a huge inspiration and a really big part of my life but my question is, what's the one thing all prop makers should have?
I once saw star trek's #1, on a flight across the isle. He was very tall, so I didn't think it was he. I kept looking over at him. He smiled back and I think he knew he looked familiar to me.
Had a really strange reverse star meeting scenario. I was at the highlands mall in Hollywood and I saw Gene Simmons and his wife, I used to be in a band and had long hair. Gene was about thirty feet from me and gave the two hand pistols thing so I gave him the two pistols back. He then walked up to me with his wife and greeted me with a "hey, how you been man?" and I was like I've been good, how bout you? He continued to talk with me as if he thought he knew me but couldn't remember my name kinda thing. I eventually was like yea man you don't me, they both looked really embarrassed and then asked if I wanted a photo and I told them it was all good, they both apologized and we laughed about it.
Best one was I went to an event I sent a tweet to the guest before they went onto the stage, they replied. I then noticed they were on the show floor with a photographer I approached the guest by thanking them for replying then they started to ask me things I didn't ask for an autograph or photo but they said would I like one. They were really nice about it and I think they appreciated it as no one else was approaching the guest I think many people at the event were not interested in who they were so we had a decent length conversation. Yet this guest at a different event would have been charged for a bried meet and photo and autograph so awesome :) It's often best not to plan what will happen or what to say and just live in the moment thats the way I've found that works. PS. She's a total babe so I was a little nervous she used to be a model now a tv presenter for gadgets ;-) as the saying goes you dont ask you dont get, and the person who took my photo with her was a major pro press photographer so that was an added awesome touch.
In my line of business...I won't say what, where, etc...I have to interact with the famous and/or uber-rich on a daily basis. "Good morning". "How are you?" The sky is blue. Water is wet. If they don't want to have any interaction with me, so be it. Maybe they're busy? Maybe they're in a hurry? You never know. If they do, fine...all's well and good. Odds are, they put their pants on the same way I do every morning. Treat people...rich, famous, or otherwise...like they'd like to be treated.
With all the good vibes flowing I feel like I can be honest. So here we go. I will never approach my hero’s. Regardless if it’s my only chance to interact with them. My reasoning behind this is simple. I know that meeting a hero can be a life altering event. Which is why this has to be this way since I experience the worst case scenario when I met Barry Bonds of the San Francisco Giants before all the drama. That kind of mind fuck is enough to tip my good nature to bad. Awesome Savage! You will always be a mythbuster in my book. Even if that history brings you good or bad vibes.
the internet : -"how to interact with famous people?"
a famous people : -"just like you do with normal pepole"
the internet : -"...how do you interact with people?"
I met someone at a bar once and said to them that I loved their work and the recent role that they were in on stage. They asked me if I could just wait a few minutes and then tell them that again when they were sitting outside as they were with a producer/director talking about a new role they were after. LOL, was glad to help out by asking twice.
lol! sounds like you got to do some acting yourself.
I'm gonna approach non famous people and tell them I love their work
Hwy Mr. Janitor? Can I have your autograph?
@@Cristofre LMAO "Will you sign my trash?"
Me and a friend do that in parking lots and just start complimenting a totally normal car while the owner is around
"I've noticed you are a particularly skilled car thief!" Good on you!
I constantly tell random people in lines that im proud of them.
A little anecdote for you - many years I was in ireland, and...As I was boarding the train, Terry Jones happened to be getting off of the same carriage - it was a truly starstruck moment because while Python is important to many people, Terry for me is a genius and one of my very favourite people simply by virtue of who he is. I stepped back, allowed him to get off the train and nodded politely, and when he acknowledged me told him how much I loved watching Monty Python growing up, how much my grandfather loved watching the troupe - Mr. Jones was extremely gracious and spent a couple of minutes chatting to me as the train was still boarding anyway. Finally he offered to sign something for me, and all I had was a five pound note - he took it out of my hand, grabbed a pen and scrawled "Here is your lovely five pound note - regards, Terry Jones" and handed it back to me.
It's framed now, and is one of my most treasured possessions, and it grew out of just being respectful, mindful and being poilite.
i'll take it off your hands for £4
Good thing it wasn't to big of a note, might have been an expensive autograph.
Thank you for sharing this story with us. Very nice,
Ahhh, back in the day when you could write on a fiver ...would have been a different story with these plastic ones ☝🏼😆
To me, what you received was so, so much better than a pic with Terry ...so much more personal and precious to have something signed.
I usually just start by handcuffing the individual to myself. It's very difficult to be ignored after that. And if it ever leads to a lawsuit or a restraining order; hey, that's just bonus memorabilia!
Surely you'll get a signature on a document somewhere in all that litigation
"I collect stamps."
"I collect autographs of famous people."
"I collect restraining orders from famous people."
Me to Billy Connolly: "I'm so sorry to interrupt you..."
Billy Connolly: "No you're not."
"That remains to be seen, sir"
But did he mean that you are not really sorry or that you are not interrupting him? :P
Sorry, not sorry.
A true story paraphrased:
Billy Connolly - "Sorry, but... are you [name of his niece]?"
My ex - "Um... no... Billy Connolly..."
He was apparently meeting a niece at the airport, a niece he hadn't seen in some time.
As far as touching someone, don't touch people you don't know, famous or not.
You touched me with your comment...
Good one!@John Doe
don't play with your food
Also not a good idea to touch yourself when interacting with people you don't know
@@socklips7655 says who?
My father has worked in the music industry for years. One thing he has always done is if he sees someone he recognizes, he doesn't necessarily make the conversation about their body of work. He'll say hello, and then ask them how their tour is going, or how their shopping is going. Sometimes it's nice to not have every fan interaction be about the fan/artist interaction.
This. So true.
I sold Adam a Bluetooth speaker in 2008 and he was super friendly.
A genuine smile, a very short greet such as "Thank you", or "Love your work", and a head bow of respect. Then move on, back away, make some gesture that you are not seeking to press them for their time. If they are of a mood for more interaction, they may respond to indicate that you are welcome to stay for a (very short) extra moment. If all you get is a smile or a "Thank you" (or whatever) in response, move on. They have lives to live and things to do.
Here's what you do:
1. Make eye contact. If you can't do that skip to step 3.
2. Smile and say "Big fan".
3. Keep walking.
I though step 3 was to pull out a giant fan? have I been doing it wrong all these years?
That's it!
How am I supposed to make eye contact in Snapchat 😂😂😂
When I was in film school my professor dedicated a portion of one of his lectures to talking about how to interact with celebrities properly so it seems like common sense to me. I forget that many people don't really know how to interact with people who, for all intents and purposes, are basically modern day royalty. Thanks for sharing.
This is common sense. Don't touch anyone regardless if they are famous or not, it's just being decent. Don't interrupt famous people when they look like they don't want to be approached. Don't invade anyone's personal space when it's obvious they are having what looks to be a meeting, conversation etc. I fear no one not even famous people after all they are just people. What you do have to concern yourself with is the "earpiece" i.e. body guards. I've seen famous people and in some cases in places where no one knew who they were but from my eye contact and body language back and forth they knew I new. I didn't bust their chops or talk I just nodded hello and they nodded hello with a mutual respect that I didn't bust them in public. My question is where can I get the stand for the Raiders fertility idol in the background. That is way more interesting to me. Thanks Adam :-)
If I remember my myth busters. He made it for an Indiana Jones special
@@gravewalkerz7787 Thanks Jeff. I'll see if I can find it
Just be nice to everybody, famous or not and you'll get a positive response most of the time I guess.
Thanks. "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" is always great advice.
Makes me wonder why it's so hard for us to looking past the persona and see a fellow human being when dealing with famous people.
How to interact with famous people: make a lot of money and do a collab.
let them yell their name on your albums
As I've gotten older, I've realised that there is no point to talking to famous people unless you have something specific to ask or say. Generally, the thing you like them for (movie, book, whatever) represents the best of them, so any personal interaction is going to be a step down!
I really enjoyed this. I had a neighborhood friend whose cousin came from Texas up to study acting at a local University. He was very gregarious to us younger kids and guided us on lots of local adventures. As a result of his work in a local theater ensemble, he was scouted for a role in a film. He went on to act in supporting roles in successful films and was later a regular character on a long running TV show. To me, he was always my just neighbor's cousin who happened to succeed in a line of work that made him recognizable. He was a person whose family I knew and who had the sames aspirations, wants and needs as any other person I knew. He and his wife life a quiet life on the outskirts of Los Angeles, where I hope they enjoy a certain amount of anonymity. Thank you for addressing an issue that I was gratefully inoculated against at a formative age!
I almost didn't approach Hugh Laurie in Sydney a few years back to the point I even walked away thinking "I'm sure he doesn't want to be bothered" and no one seemed to notice he was there. I then decided to go back and say hello and how much I appreciate his works, quietly of course as to not draw attention to him. I'm so glad that I did because he could not have been more kind and we spoke for a few minutes, something I'll never forget.
Fun fact: While at a local venue in Phoenix for a concert provided by a radio station, one of the local news/weather personalities was waiting in line at the bar. Trying to be polite and not interrupt their evening. I just said "hi, " and turned back around in line. Although they were courteous and said hello back, it was the look of "what, nothing else?" that came across their face that was priceless.
It’s Good to see he’s staying humble
I got to meet you at your mythbusters live tour thing on its first day in Vegas. Got up on stage (blew a raspberry for the slow mo camera) and got a picture with you jamie and my twin sister afterwards
Gotta say you are the most chill famous person ive met thats for sure
That's super cool
The thing that drives me crazy is when people think that the words famous and public ownership are synonymous and they justify it with "They (the famous person) knew what they were signing up for." Just because we, as a collective group, have been doing it for nearly 100 years, it doesn't mean that it's okay. They deserve to have moments with their family or to themselves without being harassed by other people. First, check to see if they have "Fuck Off!" clearly written on their face. If not, then check with your self and ask yourself "If I was them would I want to be bothered in this moment?" Last thing. Just because you donate money to an online entity, it doesn't mean that you own them.
Very informative! Thank you for addressing this question!
I just noticed in this video that Adam Savage and Alton Brown could be siblings.
They did a ComiCon walk together as the assassin twins from the Matrix, there's a fantastic video on this channel about it :-)
@@OrigamiMarie I'm going to fight that right. now. Thanks! :D
@@nexus1g Alton also kindly appeared on Mythbusters for a Thanksgiving episode doing silly things like cooking lasagna in a dishwasher (online mini myth) and cooking on an engine manifold while driving to a Thanksgiving destination.
@@nexus1g And then for the perfect follow-up, that time Chris Hadfield and Adam Savage walked the floor in costume space suits.
Yes
I was at an event a few years ago, and had just finished listening to Simone Giertz talk on how she got into making robots. I remember thinking she is going to approached by a ton of people, so its probably not a good time. Not 5 minutes later, she was walking straight towards me outside the auditorium. We had a brief but interesting conversation. Thanks Simone!
I "met" Adam Savage, many years ago, at the Safeway near M5 Industries one afternoon. He was shopping with his kids and I had my infant son - throwing a screaming fit in my ear. Adam's kids were making his day difficult, as well. Not saying a word, we cast each other a weary, understanding glance before moving on with our days. =]
My mother literally bumped into Martin Short once in Las Vegas. She has half way into her apology when she recognized him. Caught off guard, all she could do was point, and say, "Oh, my God! It's you!" Without missing a beat, Martin Short gasped. Stepped back a pace. Pointed at her, and said, "Oh my God, it's YOU!"
I don't get star-struck. Celebrities expressing their fandom over other celebrities always reminds me that we're all just people. Something about that makes me really happy.
The unfortunate thing is that most people who are inclined to ask this question probably don't really need to be told the answer. It's the thoughtless, inconsiderate people who *need* to hear the answer who will never ask the question and will not listen to the answer and make life difficult for everybody.
Isn't that true for anything that involves politeness, morals and manners ?
Those who ask already know the answer.
Those who don't ... won't listen.
While living in Bristol, I saw John Cleese at the train station, as a massive Monty Python fan, I was thrilled. But he was clearly not interested in interaction with anyone, he wore gloves, hat leaned over and his jacket collar were pointing up concealing as much of his face as possible. I had to pretend like nothing, so no one else would notice him too. If for some weird reason and coincidence, some of the MP team would read this, you shaped my humour, and made me smile and laugh, and helped me to always look on the bright side. Thank you all.
I don't think I'd ever approach a famous person I want to meet. But after this video, I just might, to tell them I appreciate their work. I think that can only be a positive thing. I think the key is to just be polite.
I met Marilu Henner at an after-party, where there were lots of famous and not-famous. It was an environment where we were supposed to meet and bump elbows. I stood about 5’ away and told her I really enjoyed her work. She looked at me like I was a 2-headed alien and said not a word.
She claims she has a photographic memory and never forgets anything. I know I’ll never forget that.
I think the fact that this person asked himself/herself that question was proof enough that this person respects their idols as human beings and will very carefully think about what to do and say.
My advice: always concier the imbalance of information. You know your idol way better than they know you. Even when they realize that you are a fan, they don't know anything about you and you are still a stranger to them. A kind stranger but still a stranger. Idols can often feel like they are your best friend when in fact, they are not.
Still, I will never approach a famous person because of fear, that it isn't someone I think he/she is.
I often confuse strangers with my family or friends, how could I ever properly distinguish a person I only saw on a TV screen?!
"You remind me of (...)" has worked well for me ^_^.
Whenever I meet or bump into famous people, I just tell them how I appreciate their work, and ask them a question about what they liked about whatever my favourite thing of theirs is, or even better, talk about something you understand is a common interest! More often than not, this leads to a longer conversation than expected, smiles and handshakes, and THEM offering "do you want to grab a photo or something?" - I never under any circumstances ask for a signature. People may disagree, but a signature, whether personalised or not, can't beat a photo to capture that moment.
I had a pit pass to almost anywhere at the grand prix in Detroit 20 years or so ago, my daughter and I were walking around the trailers of the drivers and saw Paul Newman standing outside just talking in the air or something. When he saw us I could see him just freeze up a little so I gave him a small wave and as we walked by I told my daughter he was a famous actor and she had seen a few of his movies, I could see the relief in his eyes and knew he appreciated it.
If i saw Adam, i would first proceed to cry a lot. Whether or not he was still there after I managed to stop the tears of joy, that's a different story!
I was in SFO a couple of years ago and noticed Adam sitting in the boarding area of my flight. I started to walk over but noticed that he had earbuds in and was looking intently at a book/magazine so I left him unmolested. I did take a long distance stalker photo to send to my 12 year old son who is a huge fan :)
What I've heard from other celebrities is don't approach people in the toilet or when they are eating. Adding Adam's advice, don't touch people when they aren't aware, and you can hardly go wrong.
Way back when, mid 90's, I was a trade show dealer in art prints and commissions at GenCon. Dealers show up a few hours before the doors open. Across from my booth was the Highlander TV show booth selling DVD's, posters, displays, the TV used hero sword, etc. My group got to know their teams as fellow dealers tend to chat and BS about con stuff, sales, merchandise, other cons, travel, etc.
I spent time one morning talking with a guy about various stuff, and mentioned he was glad to be going home soon, but that meant dealing with his riding lawn mower and how badly it ran. I am very garage oriented, car restoration, welding, emgines, etc. Talked with him about the carb, yeah, the newer ethanol based fuels getting pushed out mess things up, all while staff brought in ropes and stanchions to set up lines. "Well, gotta cut this short. Back to work, you know," he says. "Ah, what are the ropes for?" " Kinda for me," he says sheepishly. "I'm sort of the star of the show." Huh. I didn't think to match up the posters and display with Adrian Paul, aka Dunab Macleod. " Sorry, didn't know. Haven't seen the show, on the con circuit too much."
He was happy to just talk about *anything* NOT related to the show with a stranger for a change. Just be treated normally, not fawned over. Next day we picked it back up, more non-show talk. It was a nice break for him.
Now if I meet someone 'famous' or some CEO, I ask questions about unrelated things to break up the expected questions. "So, tell me about your first job. What was it and what did you learn from it." I get some very candid and soecial answers as people open up with their tales, reminding people that we all had that first job somewhere and can commiserate.
In short, treat 'famous people' with respect and less awe. Ask a question lime " What was your first car and how long did you have it?" I bet you get a special response as that person brings up memories from the past, well prior to their rise to recognition.
What would Adam Savage's first have been?
"I'm not that famous." I admire the sincere modesty but I laughed out loud.
I think we often forget that famous people are still people. I'm by no means famous, but I've had a couple things (art projects) I did online go viral and just like Adam said, I appreciated people loving my work, but when people started getting demanding, I got annoyed and withdrew.
At least 10 years ago Adam, you and Jamie were visiting some Friends at Infinite Loop 4, and it just happened to be one of the Wednesdays that my family spent every week going to lunch with my dad at work. And when we were entering the cafeteria, one of your friends who had been invited to join you, told my dad that you and Jamie were there today having lunch with them and a bunch of other employees, and then invited all of us to join you as well. I remember that multiple tables had to be pulled together to seat everyone in the group. I was probably only 12 or 13. It was probably one of my most favorite experiences getting to meet you both together while you were geeking out with your engineering friends. I can't remember us ever conversing, or what I said if we did. What I do remember is that we all got a picture together, and that because I didn't have anything on me for you to sign, I ran all the way back to the cafeteria to grab a paper plate for you to sign before you left! And I won't ever forget your little message you wrote on it, "Stay Curious!" I still have that same paper plate pinned to my cork-board next to my desk 10 years later! i.imgur.com/CEo5LGf.jpg Seeing this video reminded me, and I wanted to thank you for that wonderful experience. I still love the fact that I got you both to sign a paper plate. That plate is one of my most treasured items.
P.S. I also remember hearing a story during that lunch that you had crafted some custom sci-fi themed door for some meeting room named after the same sci-fi series. So when I heard that you had made 'tested', and channel about makers and making, I was not surprised. :)
I was in Atlanta and walked up to my gate to find William Shatner there, on the phone, talking with someone about appointments or something. I waited until he was done and set his phone down and said, "Hi, are you Bill Shatner? I've enjoyed your work ever since I was a kid ..." and then he raised his hand, silently mouthed the word "NO". and looked away. I went over to a chair to wait for the plane. A dozen or so people figured out who he was, and there were murmurs, but then we all got on the plane and flew to Denver. He was in first class and got off first, and I didn't see him when I left the gate, but I hustled out to the train and it just so happened I got an empty train car to myself. I sat at the end, on one of the benches. Who should get on my car but good ol' Shatner, and he sat on the other bench at the complete opposite end of the car. We were facing each other with fifty feet between us. I said nothing to him, just looked at him, and he looked at me with a completely blank and emotionless stare all the way back to the terminal. I got off first and never bothered to look back. Never meet your heroes, folks.
I think it's just a by product of the fact that people let "famous people" into their most intimate spaces so when they/we see you, we treat you like an old time friend. I'm watching this on my phone in my room. Adam is the 1st man I've had in my bedroom since November 2015, so if I saw you I'd probably fan out.
lol I just posted this on another Ask Adam where it was brought up about the pros and cons of being famous but it's even more relevant here:
I remember some people talking about fame when it came to celebrities who were known to be nice on camera but not when the cameras were off. They mentioned how it must be exhausting to try and be upbeat and positive all the time. As well as how some who are famous are also very busy and work hard at either their show, products, etc.
How it can be exhausting trying to figure out whats up next when someone comes up to you and your trying to keep your energy for being all happy go lucky on camera and your kinda having to waste it to be nice to someone who is interrupting you or bothering you when your trying to take a break. When it can happen numerous times a day every day? And at the end of the day being so tired using all your energy to put on that "act" in some cases.
It was pretty interesting hearing about it from some who are considered slightly famous etc and trying to give reasons as to why some people are like that. Now some people are probably happy go lucky a lot and others it could just be an act but it would make sense for some people if you were in those shoes where your not normally social or happy go lucky but maybe your famous cause your on a comedy show or in some comedy movies and people expect you to be all nice and positive when your trying to rush to another gig or just wanting to rest on a flight or something.
That's something iv always worried about if I were to ever become famous. I wouldn't want to be famous, would enjoy being able to do movies and stuff and also get lots of money from such things but the fame is something I wouldn't really want. I would prefer to be left alone like many famous people do.
This video made me think of those conversations which some people might not realize that sometimes famous people want to be left alone whereas some others might be fine or welcome fans coming up and bothering them for autograph etc. It's hard to know, and for the famous person it's hard to convey without looking like a jerk or ruining someones day cause you couldn't spare a minute to talk to them. And sometimes that can really mess up a fan and sometimes cause that fan to no longer be a fan cause the famous person was just having a bad day and didn't have the energy to put on an act.
Thank you Adam! This is something that needs to be addressed more often!
Don’t bother celebs while they are eating or would be otherwise inconvenienced to deal with you. Imagine you’ve just had a long day, you sit down for a nice meal and some random strangers come up just as you’re starting to take your first bite and demand you drop your fork and start posing for pictures with them and sign stuff. That would be kind of rude... Well imagine that happens all - the - time... Most celebs are pretty generous, but they are people too - appreciate their work, but don’t harass them or feel like you’re entitled to their personal space or time.
I haven't run into a famous person in the wild yet, but when I do I will now be cool with it. I have had 3 times that someone has come up to me to talk, I am not famous, but I was in a tv commercial and host a small UA-cam channel. It is fun for someone like me to be recognized in the wild...but like i said only happened 3 times...
My advice about meeting celebrities would be: 1. please be calm and keep your shit together, no one likes when someone you have no idea who he or she is, is screaming like an obsessive maniac, anyway 🙄 2. be nice and come to them with good intentions, it’s true you’re sort of knowing the certain celebrity, but they’re having no idea who you are, remember that ‼️3. zero touching or touch only if celebrity will allow you to or is touching you first, how would you feel if someone you don’t even know would be touching you? 🤷🏻♀️ 4. approach in polite manner, for example say: i apologize for disturbing you, but I’d just like to say hello 👋🏻 5. if you want a picture, politely ask for permission of a celebrity, no one likes when someone is shoving their phone into their face. 🤷🏻♀️ 6. be polite, just be polite and don’t be a dick, simple ‼️ 7. fangirling, screaming and overreacting isn’t going to work well, rather bad. 🤷🏻♀️ as many mentioned here before, don’t disturb a celebrity while they eat or do something with their families ‼️
Having worked in various segments of the entertainment industry for most of my life, I just treat celebrities as I would anyone else. This means that if I see them out in public I treat them with the same indifference as I do everyone else. If I am working with them I treat them with professional courtesy and keep doing my job.
In most cases this works out just fine but of course there are exceptions. The worst are the celebs who are full of themselves and expect special treatment. They often travel with an entourage and make ridiculous demands on everyone around them. This is especially prevalent with rap and pop stars.
Wow, probably one of the best questions to ask that no one seems to. Thanks for asking this and thanks for answering it.
I often see celebrities around in London yet I’ve never approached them. Unless it was someone who I hugely admire I wouldn’t feel that it’s necessary
As someone who wants to go celebrity watching (don't want to bother them, just bored) in London. Where do you normally see them?
@@mario5139I walked past the badguy from robocop and a women from Galactica in Leicester square, that was weird
Mario Hampstead Heath is a great place to spot celebrities and just a generally great place to visit in general. On Hampstead Heath I’ve seen Ricky Gervais, Peter Capaldi (Doctor who), Charles Dance (Game of Thrones), Pierce Brosnan as well as a bunch of others
It's not necessary to approach any celebrity (unless you're a medic and they require urgent treatment).
@@ThreadBomb So what you're saying is set a trap, right?
I worked on a movie with Tom Cruise and I asked his publicist if one could speak with him. She said sure, he doesn't mind, just keep it brief and be aware if he is occupied somehow. He was in fact very approachable and friendly. But I kept it short and sweet. Something about being a big fan of Legend!
I've met a few Famous people and said hello and reached my hand for a handshake. It was reciprocated and I thanked them and told them how I appreciated their craft or work. Then on my way. Easy Peasy.
Well since I most likely will never meet the great Adam Savage - let me just say, thank you for the work you have done! You have made all things Tested super interesting to me from early highschool and into adult life. It's very humbling to see you starstruck as well. But the respect of the approach is something I have always agreed with - maybe the greatest gift to give your favourite celeb is space for themselves in public.
Its funny to see Adam answer this question as he is probably the only celebrity that I would want to talk to if I saw them in public
Thank you for Making my Life less awkward
As someone who works at an airport I find this very informative and think this is very good advice.
Also in general don't tap people to get their attention.
Honestly if i got to meet you i might cry because how much your work means to me
I have only met 2 celebrities in my life; Aaron Tippin & Dr. Ben Carson. Neither of whom did I have the presence of mind to get photos with due to the surprise of bumping into them. Both were very friendly, but I tried not to impose.
It comes down to emotional intelligence of people, if people check their photos right beside you without interaction are they really showing that you mean something to them or they are absorbed in their need to show off that picture rather than in experience meeting you telling few kind words. If you appreciate somone either don't bother them or respectfully approach them, ask them if you can take a picture and don't take too much time
Simple. Treat them like actual people. Don't be rude. Don't shove cameras in their faces. Don't invade family time or personal spaces. Easy.
I knew a guy who did some painting at a hall of fame baseball player's house. The baseball player actually got upset because the guy wouldn't acknowledge who he was. He told the guy "I've seen you throw a ball but I don't know who you are personally". He threw a fit and didn't want to pay him
I am definitely more in the not wanting to interrupt their day camp. My wife is still mad at me because we were walking through a casino bar in Vegas and saw Denis Farina at the bar. She is a big fan of Crime Story. She wanted to approach him and I convinced her not to because it was obvious he was there with family. Since he passed away a few years ago she will never have that chance again.
I have always wondered this question. I'm not exactly in an area where famous people congregate or anything, but when I see them on TV out in the public, I always wonder how harassed they get just buying groceries and stuff. How they feel about it, and what would I do in the situation where someone I really liked was in my vicinity.
Alan Jackson once came to a place I worked. He just wanted to play some racket ball. One of the employees noticed who it was and everyone literally rushed him. I stayed behind. The only thought I had other than.. sure it'd be cool to meet him was, "Man I'd hate to be rushed like that." lol He and his manager were cool about it. After a couple minutes his manager politely asked everyone to disperse. He reminded them that he was there to play racket ball.
love this.... caught eye contact w Arnold Schwarzenegger one time at the Hard Rock in San Antonio.... I couldn't approach him, but i threw him a "fan boy" double thumbs up and he smiles, nodded and that was that....
Woah I can imagine the hesitation to approach someone like Tom Waits (a personal hero of mine) as much as you would want to interact with them.
Mr Savage looks so much happier and healthier than his Mythbuster days...
Good for you Adam.
Gotta love Tom Waits music ...plus, he’s always so effortless in any bit film part he happens to turn up in. For instance:
The Old Man and the Gun
Book Of Eli
Bram Stoker's Dracula
The Ballad of Buster Scruggs
I always enjoy what he brings to his characters...
I also like to believe the tale that the late Heath Ledger, in part, did find his Joker voice in how Tom Waits speaks...
P.S. I really appreciate your work...thank you for doing what you do ☝🏼😆
*And for the love of God make sure your phone is ready to take photos!!* Several other veterans and I all missed out on a picture with John De Lancie because the first person who asked's phone wasn't even setup and immediately locked out TWICE before his picture could be took. There was so much fumbling he just walked off.
Please.. unlock your phone, open the camera app, make sure the settings are the way you want them, DISABLE THE SCREEN SHUT OFF, and know who will take the picture before you ask or before it's your turn.
If you're at a con I would suggest simply setting your screen shut off for 5 minutes. Your battery will be fine.
This is awesome vid, most interesting and enlightening! Thanks Adam and Ignorant Forager!
I meet Adam once it was at a pace that was selling old parts of the Star Track experience in last Vegas and it was truly amazing seeing him
#NOTAFAMOUSPERSON - These are good words to live by for interaction with anyone you don't know. Your unknown seat mate on a flight springs to mind. A courteous "Hello" can start a conversation or not - play-it-by-ear" and watch the body language (and/or headphone use!).
I agree... Play it by ear. You'll be nervous, but they might be too. I've been lucky enough to meet a lot of my heroes. Not just at comic con type things, but working for an airline originally in the terminals, where you have to be professional. But you can't help saying hello and asking how they are. You soon know who wants to chat and who wants to move on. I've only asked for one autograph (James Hetfield) in that situation, never a photo and mainly it's just cool to have shaken their hand and had a chat about their day or an album or a film. To give you an idea.... I've chatted to people like: George Lucas, Paul McCartney, Jason Statham, Jenson Button, Iron Maiden, KISS, Megadeth, Voivod and many other actors, some internationally famous many just UK centric. One of the nicest was Eva Green, at first I didn't realise who she was, it was about 6months after her Bond film. Christopher Lee was a true gentleman and was more than happy to chat. I now work in an office, so over the past 8yrs I've had to make do with conventions!
when i was collecting baseball cards and autographs it was suggested to me to always start with "Mr.__________ or Mrs.__________ , may i have your autograph or picture?" the basic amount of manners and respect goes a long way. rather than "HEY ADAM, My man let me get a photo!!"
Don't forget the book and movie "Misery" because that's something in the back of every "famous" persons mind ...
Treat famous people as normal people. After all the accolades they are just people...be respectful and kind
I met my comedy hero after a gig... Billy Connelly. I spent my whole life working out what my best words would be in an interaction with him. When it came... I forgot anything I mentally noted down and just asked for a photo 😂
Isaac Asimov called and wants his facial hair back.
Asimov wished he ever had a beard like that.
A fantastic question and a fantastic answer, thanks for the advice Adam!
I have run into a few famous people and try to keep the interaction low key to keep their privacy if they are trying to have a low key time out too. Just my advice from being the one approaching and the one being approached.
Great question and thoughtful answer. Now if only all famous people were as kind as Adam! :)
All hail the genius(es) of Adam Savage and Tom Waits! Greatness, both of them.
Excellent advice Adam, will definitely he helpful whenever I go international! Thank You
That was a great response Adam keep up the great work.
I just get starstruck. Its not until afterwards that I feel stupid. Its just always an amazing pleasure to meet someone who impacted my life in a positive way. I put the people I like on a pedestal, its a very, very bad habit.
I think it is about motive, if someone is a tru fan then they will take into consideration there hero/heroin's feelings, by telling that person you admire/respect them, they are receiving something From the fan. If all you want is a selfie to brag about then the fan is receiving something and that is a gift not to be demanded or expected. Good manners and thinking of others is key.
one time I met Jamie having my HS graduation dinner at golden corral. he was eating alone but had 4, maybe 5 plates of one of the green bean sides and a couple of mashed potatoes. I told him what a big fan I was, and he said thanks, but he didn't look me in the eye he was like looking at my forehead. nice guy tho.
... Do not touch famous people ... if so ... make it painless ...This is good stuff! Got it!
Dear Adam Savage. My name is Zion and I'm a fourteen year old boy from Atlanta GA. First off, you're a huge inspiration and a really big part of my life but my question is, what's the one thing all prop makers should have?
I once saw star trek's #1, on a flight across the isle. He was very tall, so I didn't think it was he. I kept looking over at him. He smiled back and I think he knew he looked familiar to me.
Had a really strange reverse star meeting scenario. I was at the highlands mall in Hollywood and I saw Gene Simmons and his wife, I used to be in a band and had long hair. Gene was about thirty feet from me and gave the two hand pistols thing so I gave him the two pistols back. He then walked up to me with his wife and greeted me with a "hey, how you been man?" and I was like I've been good, how bout you? He continued to talk with me as if he thought he knew me but couldn't remember my name kinda thing. I eventually was like yea man you don't me, they both looked really embarrassed and then asked if I wanted a photo and I told them it was all good, they both apologized and we laughed about it.
Best one was I went to an event I sent a tweet to the guest before they went onto the stage, they replied. I then noticed they were on the show floor with a photographer I approached the guest by thanking them for replying then they started to ask me things I didn't ask for an autograph or photo but they said would I like one. They were really nice about it and I think they appreciated it as no one else was approaching the guest I think many people at the event were not interested in who they were so we had a decent length conversation. Yet this guest at a different event would have been charged for a bried meet and photo and autograph so awesome :) It's often best not to plan what will happen or what to say and just live in the moment thats the way I've found that works. PS. She's a total babe so I was a little nervous she used to be a model now a tv presenter for gadgets ;-) as the saying goes you dont ask you dont get, and the person who took my photo with her was a major pro press photographer so that was an added awesome touch.
Very lovely answer and it's good to know that even people who are famous in most peoples eyes will still get (quite) a bit starstruck
Tom Waits is my hero. He's the only person I'd be star struck seeing.
In my line of business...I won't say what, where, etc...I have to interact with the famous and/or uber-rich on a daily basis. "Good morning". "How are you?" The sky is blue. Water is wet. If they don't want to have any interaction with me, so be it. Maybe they're busy? Maybe they're in a hurry? You never know. If they do, fine...all's well and good. Odds are, they put their pants on the same way I do every morning. Treat people...rich, famous, or otherwise...like they'd like to be treated.
Adam you're amazing. And I hope you and your family is doing well
With all the good vibes flowing I feel like I can be honest. So here we go. I will never approach my hero’s. Regardless if it’s my only chance to interact with them. My reasoning behind this is simple. I know that meeting a hero can be a life altering event. Which is why this has to be this way since I experience the worst case scenario when I met Barry Bonds of the San Francisco Giants before all the drama. That kind of mind fuck is enough to tip my good nature to bad. Awesome Savage! You will always be a mythbuster in my book. Even if that history brings you good or bad vibes.