Are Black Women Trying To Appeal To White Men!?
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- Опубліковано 3 лип 2024
- Are Black Women Trying To Appeal To White Men!?
0:00 Introduction
0:49 Black Men Are 80x Times More To Marry Black Women
1:00 Interracial Marriage Stats
1:30 Who Are We Trying to Appeal To
2:00 Colorism Worldwide
2:30 Black People & Colorism
3:10 COMMENT 1
3:35 COMMENT 2
4:00 COMMENT 3
5:10 COMMENT 4
5:22 FINAL COMMENT
6:15 Recap
7:30 A HISTORY OF European Beauty Standards
8:30 How Black Beauty Is Connected To Community Building
9:30 White/European Beauty Standards
10:10 Systematic Change
10:30 LOVE WHO GOD MADE YOU TO BE!
@MrZBlackneffect @EdwardAndersonspeaks
Join us for a thought-provoking discussion on the pervasive impact of colorism, featurism, and texturism within the Black community, as we delve into the complex dynamics of beauty standards and self-acceptance. In this enlightening UA-cam video, we confront the harsh realities that Black women face in their quest to conform to Eurocentric beauty ideals, and explore the profound questions that arise from this struggle.
Colorism, featurism, and texturism continue to pose significant challenges for Black women, as they navigate a society that often prioritizes Eurocentric features and lighter skin tones. But as we examine the root causes of this phenomenon, we're compelled to ask: Are Black women unwittingly striving to meet standards that were never meant for them? And does this pursuit of an unattainable ideal ultimately lead to discontentment and self-doubt?
In this video, we'll delve into these pressing questions and explore potential pathways to liberation and self-celebration for Black women. From fostering a culture of radical self-love and acceptance to challenging societal norms and dismantling oppressive beauty standards, we'll discuss the transformative steps needed to create a space where Black women can thrive authentically.
Join us as we navigate through the complexities of colorism, featurism, and texturism, and envision a future where Black women are embraced and celebrated for who they truly are. Whether you're a Black woman seeking validation and empowerment or an ally eager to learn and support, this video offers invaluable insights and perspectives for all.
Don't miss out on this empowering dialogue that challenges the status quo and advocates for the celebration of Black beauty in all its forms. Hit the play button now and join the conversation that's reshaping the narrative of beauty and identity in the Black community.
Black Women, Black Men, Black Community, Black Love, Black Relationships, Beauty, Beauty Standards,Black Beauty Standards, Beauty, American History, European Beauty Standards, Eurocentrid Beauty Standards, Colorism, Featurism, Texturism, Darkism, Exoticals, Light Skin, Dark Skin, Light Skinned, Dark Skinned, Men, Women, Interracial Marriage, Interracial Love, African Women, African Woman, Swirl, Swirler, Swirling, Community Building, Afrikan, Afrikans, American History Lesson
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I had to support on this one.
There’s so many things you touch on in this video from:
- The less than one percent realities on crossing over.
- Pretty privilege.
- Current and past colorists issues between the genders.
- Understanding European beauty standards from the view of them building a system around it.
- Facing the question of nationalism in relation to BW centering themselves as the beauty standard rather than crowbarring one’s way into another society’s preferences and norms.
The way you comprehend and articulate this topic really impressed me. I love supporting good work.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate the positive words and also taking the time to support. As you can tell this stuff takes work so I rely upon the support of my followers. It means a lot 😃
I'm so glad others besides myself have noticed that bw claim to be the most race loyal, but see that their actions say they're not
never was white men just refuse to upgrade them from concubine status to girlfriends or even wives in most cases unless white women dont want them
BW was nor will ever be race loyal I knew this.
But that's the thing, if they were successful with white and non black men, they wouldn't need or use the race loyal excuse
@thomasmartin-rx2uu and the divestors would still make it a point to rub it in our face like they do already with false statistics.
That’s the goal. It’s to be noticed and taken seriously about the group. But just what we could accomplish as a community if didn’t spend so much time just trying to get zaddys attention? They have written numerous books, created movements (Divistors), built subreddit community’s with 30k members r/Blackladies and /interracialdating etc, UA-cam channels all in hopes of giving white guys free PR so they can get picked.
Yet black women have a higher rates of death during child birth, black men are more likely to die of cancer due to not being diagnosed. We have real fish to fry yet here we are trying to show out for the white man
Yes. They are trying to look and act like Becky. It's beginning to be embarrassing to see.
OMG YES SO Embarrassing 🤦🏾 talk about thirsty.
That's ridiculous. Maybe they are trying to act like Nigerian women, they act right too.
@@lennylink8772 Nigerian women act right? In what universe?? 😂
@@creative_cooper I know many Nigerian women. They are very good and it is easy to find a woman that is raised to be a wife.
It's Beginning? Dude you are 30yrs late....
THE MEDIUM MAN HAS AN EXCELLENT VIDEO REGARDING THIS TOPIC...
*"You Are NOT. And Never Will BE...Mrs. Cartwright." ~ The Crimson Cure* ❤🧕🏽🚫👱🏾♀💍
Why are some of us even trying to be??
Lol
They've been trying to get with WM since the early 60's. Read the books. Leave them alone brothers.
@@dreynolds4883Because a lot of y’all are envious of yt women and y’all try to get with brad as a way to show you can compete with Rebecca
@@dreynolds4883Because deep down they want to be White
We don’t care us black men are not concerned about this ….🙄🙄
SYSBM!!
You dont care , yet you found it important to listen to the video and even go on to leave a comment ....?!!!!🤔🤣🤣🤡
@@fin2643no offense, but black woman are the equivalent to Asian men. Black men are doing okay for themselves
Not the real ones
@fin2643 You would need to listen to respond coherently.
Leaving a response removes the need to assume where people stand on a topic.
The only things that comment tell is they may have watched the video to respond.
They took the time to respond because they is how they act.
Keep fighting the good fight. We appreciate your work.
They f(the BM hating divestors) flagged Water Sniper and got his channel terminated. Hateful witches,
The video title has to be a rhetorical question. These Keisha's say it every day on Divestment Tube. They've been disloyal for over a 1000+ years way before the Trans Atlantic slave trade
Men care more about personality, age, and figure than color. BW complain about being victims or all this discrimination in dating but some of them aren't hitting the bare minimum of beauty standards. Hard to say life isfair when some of them have not given their best
They give you their worst but expect your best.
Ha, LOL, lol, lol, lol! What other lies ya got?
@@ctruth6185black women aren't fat???
I don't know any affluent white men who would consider a black woman if she's not from a high middle-class family.
And how many ivanka trumps would date or marry black men??🤔
@@fin2643 That’s not the point women in general won’t date men with less resources regardless of race.
@@fin2643If that bm was Eddie Murphy, Michael Jordan, or Lebron SHE WOULD. With nobody batting an eye to it due to those guys’ status and wealth. Women are opportunistic by nature. On the other hand men don’t seek money and status. They seek compatibility and legacy. Ain’t no real man wanna wipe out his features to swirl. Most men want a copy of themselves. Same features and everything. We want a clone to carry on what we started. Im blk and do not wanna dilute my genes. The way I look, my features are unique in my opinion. Why would a wm want to erase generations of eye color and hair color to be with a bw?? Those are the exact things they take pride in as wm. That’s why when they do swirl it’s with people that look as close to wh*te as possible. They’ll get a whyte looking biracial bw or whyte looking Latina as a last resort WAAAY before a bw. He will toss up and play 50 shades of grey hawking loogies in her mouth but that’s where it stops.
@@fin2643 BM know that, it's BW that are the delusional ones. Y'all come from the inner cities but dream of a rich WM saving yall from poverty. How often does that happen? 🤔
You don't live in affluent social circles. Besides what a man says and what he does is always inconsistent. Most whites are who they pretend to be. This is why most white people despise, truth.
They be getting with the most basic yt men and act like this guy is the greatest thing on earth
the white dudes dont gat to work and pay like the black man either when it comes to a relationship
Yt men have always failed upwards and continue to do so.
Cuz they basic
Just like when black men get with basic white girls
@@theunusuallife2456nope
Bw swear that colorism is something that affects them exclusively
They behave as if it doesn't affect black men too, bruh, I read a comment on twitter a black woman who had a black son, married to a black men mind you, literally said and I quote "if god gives me a white son, I'd make him breakfast everyday" bruh, mind you she has a black son, poor boy, he screwed.
They’re some of the biggest colorists complaining about colorism
Their colorism charges are usually projection. Nobody thinks about color more than them
Great point and the accuracy is 💯🔥
Thanks so much!
Black men need to wake up and leave bw alone that want to appeal to wm.
You can't have that in your family DNA
BM need to leave ALL BW! Let them attract zaddy; BM, get yourself together and level up to a WW, Asian or a Latina
@@darqaegis9045no absolutely not lol weaken my genes I will stay single or God will send me a wife I’m not dating or wifing none of my ancient enemies 😂
@@toontown9854 What's going on with the 🏳 birthrate 📉
@@garthyahudahandrews8504 BW are your worst enemy b/c they chose to be enemies
Thank u sister it is about time someone spoke thr truth
Yes, if some BW could get a ZADDY, they wouldn't hesitate, but what BW don't understand, ZADDY is more attracted to BECKY with her natural hair first.
So BW, who are looking for a ZADDY, must compete and leave the WIGs and weaves behind because ZADDYS prefers natural hair. 😂
And Still no because lying down with Bw as a Wm [Equals Defeat] 😂😂 That means you lost lol
Zaddy has a fetish that's all they all ways broke their tools
@@toontown9854 You lost because BECKY ain't making any children with ya'll and BECKY loves her some BM soul pole...😉
You have bw out here blankly dating racist wyt.men like WTH
@toontown9854 BECKY ain't giving ya'll any children, and she has been night riding with the brothers...😂
You are a Phenomenal woman Chez! You are simply wonderful!!👌
Excellent content! I shared this video and told all my friends to subscribe.
Thanks! I truly appreciate it! Means a lot
Black men prefer black with natural hair.
Go and grow your afro long and see how long you can kip up with it...i dare you.. dont plait it keep it natural...wash and comb it everyday...thts if you are pure black with an afro...not biracial
No they don't. All women will continue to enhance themselves. Its a female thing. All women will adorn themselves its in the DNA. Men who despise it just hate women because she can do it better than they can. They hate women because they ain't women.
@@fin2643locks are a thing…
Pls dnt use red bars on your videos. It makes it seem like the video already been watched. Just a helpful tip
Chez, I like your assessment.
Beauty standards are not a result of a system its a result of culture and taste. America is an extension of European civilization and culture so naturally european concepts of beauty prevail in America. It doesn't take a system or propaganda for people to see fair skin, blue or green eyes, long flowing hair, slender bodies as beautiful. A european woman can go to any part of the world and be desired by men or admired and envied by women.
Bull. You process beauty according to your mindset. America is a multi-racial country and beauty trends often reflect that fact. Nobody forces you to see all white people as beautiful when they are not. That is a choice. People, who lack healthy self respect are always ugly to me. Black culture is about the disrespect of black women--period. So much so, that other black women degrade their own kind all day. They lack worth as women. Its sad to see.
Black men talk down on black women all day attacking bw for their choices or existing. God made black women to be loved, cherished and appreciated by black men. God made women to be a companion to man and a helper. Black woman is not a foot stool or mule for a black man. Black men cannot and will not give black women the financial support, protection, appreciation, love & adoration a woman needs. So some will go elsewhere to get it. That's their prerogative.
Black social media shames black women for whatever she wears, says, doesn't say, who she is or who she is not. She is dragged for existing. The black community is invested in keeping black women ashamed, self hating, devalued. and miserable. Black America is built upon the gaslighting & brainwashing of bw to induce misery, desperation & self hate. Black men don't bother to lead, they don't love or value black women and she knows it. Those who cut down other bw want to step on other bw to feel better about their own lousy choices. Black folks need to repent of their evil and really live the Word.
Awesome analysis...
Thanks!
30K Subscriber congratulations Chez
I think that we have more of an attitude and conduct problem these days…. Beauty standards can take a back seat until that’s resolved.
The Plain Truth. There are very few mixed marriages percentage wise. Less than 5% maximum. Check the records. I am in Minnesota. In 12 years , I have seen less than a dozen Black Men married to white , Asian , or Latino women. The foreign Menonly get the top 1% of BLACK WOMEN. It has always been that way.
The top BLK wmn are all afro latina and most of them live in regions where they never seen white people. The top 1% forgein men get the top wester blk wmn who are overall a 6 because they are masculine. The afro latina's sre feminin and where their own hair and are in natural great shape.
Yes 💯
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No problem.
Sisters have LOVE for YT men for 400 yrs. Brothers have always survived. Now we have options (OVER SEAS. Passport Bro's is winning
We have options here also stop with that passport bs
Facts!!! Been time to move on brothers. Let them want what they've always wanted.
@@D2OFFICIALUA-cam not many options and most not good
Winning when passport bros are getting killed overseas and jailed?
@@juliansearcie1758Speak for yourself
W Video 🔥
Zaddy poppin
Na zaddy is an easier target
This a profound video.
Thanks!
Yes. It's as plain as day if you sat and watch at work. They leave the workplaces together and touch one another in ways you know they've been intimate.
I don't have a huge black community in my current area but the few interactions I've had have been such a positive representation. (I grew up in the D but my momma got me outta there when I was still young and moved me to a predominately white area). Thank you for the video, I feel like I've learned a little bit and it's helped me to take a second look and realize the deeper layer of beauty I may have missed before. Maybe its just me but I got a feeling that black beauty is on the rise. That or my tik tok algorithm is trying to tell me something.
I was kinda anxious posting so If I'm outta line, lemme know.
To add to this us Black Women of West African decent need to develop our own AfroCentric standard of beauty to combat the EuroCentric standard of beauty. We need our own platforms, Magazines, runway shows and acting opportunities just for us.
BW could out shine everybody by going to the gym 5 days a week a rock a afro and all men on earth would flock to them. But zaddy made sure order 66 would take them all. Just be glad destruction is coming!
Been saying this since I was in 7th grade!
Now I'm 40, depressed overweight and watching BW worship WM all as a sick website called Ghetto Gaggers completely shows us all "The White Mans" plans for BW leading into the future.
If you dont....the now already, and near future...will just be like that Ghetto Gagger website!😢 That's what they have planned for BW
Actually start developing everything with your Men and stop doing everything like you dont belong to the black race
😂 you have that. You just don't love yourself enough, so most people don't respect you
Yes they are and they have been trying for centuries! They worship Dwight man! Dwight man is their preference! According to the BF Dwight man's ice is always colder!
As a bm my message to them is, don't let anyone discourage you, Keep on fighting, cuz we really don't know what tomorrow bring and It's still possible to dethrone Yt woman, good luck.
We have known that for a while.
as a black man I remember an old white co-worker of mine used to tell me how black girls would throw themselves at him but he would hardly find any of them attractive because he préfères white womens generally but those black womens he showed me would be considered top notch black womens by other black men’s myself included wich made me realize that this idea that black womens are seeking “black love” is actually very false tbh they all would want a “brad” that why they tend to “Tone down” there blackness when they are in interracial relationship
Yes
I am 45 and have ALWAYS been attracted to dark skinned women.
Which dark skin??? I heard someone say kelly Rowland is darkskinned...i just laughed....lol
Lies
Talk about a "useless" distraction and a total waste of time and effort.
You all are obessing over colorism and interracial relationships when you should be laser focused on enhancing your personal and professional development.
In America, the average income of Indian families, Chinese, and Nigerians is over $100K annually.
The average salary for White families is $60K annually, and Latinos $42K.
The average annual salary for Black families is $38K.
Why focus on physical features!!! Why in the hell are we not directing our efforts and time on the right (IMPORTANT) issues?
The point is that in our community, Yt and non-BM who have not enhanced their personal and professional development still receive preferential treatment from BW compared to similarly-situated BM. Basically, BM have to be twice as desirable as non-BM to get love from our own women. That's the dysfunction that's been addressed.
Agree. It comes from black women, who are in relationships with black men. They project their misery, constant criticisms & scorn onto black women, who date out because they, themselves are afraid to date out.
It’s called racial hypergamy.
Short answer: Yes 😊
They always do
Why do you ask these questions that center around White men? Black women in general date and or marry Black men about 80% of the time, unless that stat has changed. I find it odd that you, married to a Black man, care about what other Black women may attract. It seems to me this is a one sided obsession that a lot of Black women have with White men who are not involved with one. Just an honest observation.
There are plenty of videos of BW making videos on black men dating why can’t sista Chez keep the same energy with y’all.
@@Beast-fq7rp BW women are making those videos because they have a vested interest: Black men. What's her particular interest exactly?
@@Beast-fq7rp I'm peeping game.I don't care what you say.
it’s a much needed response/clear up to the blatantly false propaganda a lot of self hating swirlers are spreading nowadays. also there are literal femcel groups of bw who are apparently all in loving/healthy relationships with wm (they’re not) who can’t help but constantly speak on the bm they’ve apparently distanced themselves frm whilst pathetically sounding like mentally ill racists, chez should be the least of your concerns
This topic has become so tiring. Someone dont like you just "Walk On By".
Yeh but what about when they try to come back. That's annoying
Annoying only if you entertain them! Not your ex; not your business!@@theunusuallife2456
Sorry to hear that everything is only black and white to you.
This style of conversation will never end until people just are people.
The whole world perpetuates this
This only show, that we have lost our minds.
Early white feminist writings before the 20th century discuss their desire to establish a system where white men not only protected their households but also the white race as a whole from the 'lower races.' Essentially, they described the system we now recognize as the Patriarchy. Their subsequent goal was to ensure that white women stood beside them rather than behind them.
Black women, aim to attract who YOU want to attract. Do not listen to naysayers, statistics, etc. What worked in the past may not work in the future. Be willing to adapt to cultures youre interested in. Being charismatic and likeable is something anyone can be with social intelligence. This can always be improved upon as can looks. Everyone appreciates a healthy looking person who looks elegant and speaks well. Invest in those areas. You are not limited in this life. Humans are not like steel. They see and appreciate people with more exposure and experience. All men are not looks oriented. Men marry for various qualities they admire all the time. Get the life you want and dont listen to people placing doubt or telling you what you can't do, due to limitations THEY want to place on you. Not those you have or should believe you have. You know that is a clear enemy. Enemies are often people who are close to you...family members, lovers, racial group members, "friends", etc. They are people who know your insecurities and use them against you in manipulative tactics to keep you from living your best life. People show you who they are and they dont always want your betterment. Know how to identify them and shut them down and out of your life!
Also be willing to admit that everything you've been taught is so that you can work against your own well being and hate being held accountable. Self hatred is deep in the black community don't hurt yourself by trying to pretend that problems only lie with black men. You're a black American, everything you're taught is self hatred
😂 u ain't gonna get em they will pick their women first unless u get old or bottom shelf ones.
@@awelechukwuemeka1382 Again, just another naysayer. I am very happily married (interracially) to an amazing man.
😂 all you people in this comment section are sad.
Maybe with these facts coming to the forefront some presenting themselves will change but I think most are trying to attract who ever will come to them with the right amount of money. This is disloyal but we not gone talk about that. I appreciate these stats sister goddess.
I think women are generally more moved by resources and personal individual connection vs seeing love as a political movement that will impact their community. Most women, let alone people inthe US dont really think on a larger community scale. I also dont think we ask ourselves why we do what we do. Good to have these convos though because it can bring interesting things to light
It's crazy that the truth is in their faces they still want to be accepted by other men beside their own, a nightmare created by their own mindset.
Let them go.
I’ve dated black women and one led me on. She would flirt with me but when I asked her to hit me up she didn’t.
Good
TRUTH: IT'S ALL ABOUT NATIONALISM AND COMMUNITY BUILDING
Thats y men checking out
@8:20-8:43 Ive been saying that since 7th grade!
Black women who dont know that ARE JUST ABSOLUTELY FOOLS....
If one is following another woman's movement the answer would be yes.....
Some bw may be. Women are attracted to different things.
I am brown but black women they are beautiful. But my height do not match what they like
Let me ask you a question? What moved you to make this video? I contend that what motivated you within your “psyche”, to make this video, you have the answer. Black men do not wake up in the AM, and decide to go and purchase a “Mick Jaggar or Elvis Presley” toupee. (Get the wisdom)? Love yourself. God bless!
Sounds like you didn't listen to the video. there is context.
@ This is not a new subject. I understand these sentiments, having Sisters, and a Wife. (Psychological) Black men are not exempt. We experienced this subtle psychological attack during the 40’s and 50’s by wearing the “Conk”. My answer is love yourself, love who God made you. Black men today, “culturally” has set the standard. Black men do not purchase “Mick Jaggar and Elvis Presley toupees. (Better Not) , and walk around the “Hood”. We black men do love our Sisters. Our Sisters do not need to be ashamed of their hair and bodies. Love yourself!
I'm glad I'm not on social media. Everyone focuses on outliers way too much.
Good luck to some of them. We all should know by now Successful WM don't date over 28
Is jeff bezos girlfriend below 28??🤔..
What about diddy? 😂😂
Trying?
If they do, they will be losing.
Yes. Sysbm
Colorism is perpetuate by the BF!
Trying and failing
I wouldn’t say so because a lot of yall are bothered by bw. We stay in all of y’all’s mouths 😂
All these isms 😂
BP generally will prefer other BP. Realistically BP need to be open minded since BP chose to integrate. As a BP you might live in a region or work in an area where your partner choices are non-black people and younger generations are more open to different types of people than older generations so the intermarriage rates are going up. With that said there’s nothing wrong with Black Love if you can find it. As far as beauty standards that’s a larger conversation than race. Overall they are Eurocentric and that affects everyone globally. For example many countries have skin brighteners in their skin care products and plastic surgery aimed at producing a more Northern European look. And of course the hair chemical hair straighteners across the globe. I’d say the beauty standards are impossible for WW to reach too. The entire purpose of the beauty industry is to keep the standards unreachable in order to sell people products and services. The best advice is to learn to love and accept yourself and find a partner that appreciates you.
Actually we don't need to be more open minded. Being open minded to people and issues that aren't our own are the reason as a people we are in this state. We need to get our house in order. Thats it.
@@rokkudaiYou can’t force people to like each other. If you read the majority of the comments on Chez’s videos it’s clear that many BM have no interest in BW and that’s ok because you like who you like right? Segregation ended in the 60s. So this means that Black people can and should make the effort to fully embrace integration.
I do prefer dating white men and I'm not going to apologize for it.
I don't hate myself or anyone else.
It just means I see white guys as my preference and the superior choice.
im a white man and prefer very dark skin with curves, just a preference, beauty is in the eye of the beholder be careful who you be holden. personality always wins over color, its more important to be honest and loyal, everything else is just divisive bs that is working to isolate divide and conquer. i would think genetically that it would better for mixd races due to gaining all the divirse immunities etc.
Nothing wrong with that.
Where is your family from?
Why?
@@emmanuelallen4376 it’s her preference
Don’t straighten your hair. Don’t lighten your skin. If they don’t want you then you don’t want them. The mistake is wanting acceptance.
Let them be with the Descendants of their slave masters.
So you're against interracial marriage. Got it.
Even if Bw was attracted to Dogs, Aliens and want to marry them What's my problem ? I would just laugh and move on😂😂😂 kidding not
are they? can Michael Jordan slam dunk?🙄
I Think $0! How R U $weetheart????
I will not give Taylor Swift a time of day
Why? Taylor Swift seems like a good woman. She's out of your league as she is a billionaire. She would not tolerate gaslighting.
@@ctruth6185 I prefer black women
She wouldn’t give you the time of day either
They trying to. But other black women are making it hard to get past the first pump and dump. White men read and hear all the things black women are saying about cheese cake factory, must make 200,000 a year have to be 6ft 2,just spend 500 dollars, she is a queen. And they are getting turned off
2024 and we are still having these conversations??? Beauty is in all shades. What I care about is attitude,character,femininity. I’ve dated women the pale redhead to the darkest from the continent (Nigeria to be exact) Dated a woman from Laos,Russian,Croatian, Norwegian, and Britain. It doesn’t matter where from or what their ethnicity is . If they are beautiful, respect me, have a great friendly attitude, then I don’t care.
You and your attitude are far from average.
An interesting post. African American and Caribbean British men have been successfully dating and marrying women of different races for decades.Its about time the women got on the bus and did the same too. Good girls .
Black beauty today in 2024 if you are talking from a black man's perspective then that type of black beauty is mixed race. So, if you are expecting black men from Gen Z and the upcoming generation Gen Alpha then it will be 100% mixed race/non black. Also, how do you deal with both the black men and black women who are proponents of the white standard of beauty? Do we disassociate ourselves from these people are try to rehabilitate them?
Your God is also European too. Maybe we shouldn’t go there 🤐.
My God is Spirit
@if you read the book of Daniel….he has a body but it’s heavenly and it describes how he looks like
Yaaaawwwwwnnnnnn . . . BW been on this long before you were born and denied it even though we all watched it happen in real time. They've gone from hair straightening in the 60s, came back to it in the 80s and started with colored contacts in the late 80s, then went all the way to Indian and WW wigs in the mid 90s. BM are going after femininity in other women that BW lack.
Every time I end up in an all white neighborhood where bw think no blk men would be I see them hand in hand with some bony frail looking wm. Then as soon as she sees me she puts her head down and try her best to avoid eye contact. I can’t tell if it’s shame that she got caught with her sugar daddy or what but they immediately have a look of embarrassment on their face. The guy of course looks nervous maybe thinking he would get a comment out of me but I really don’t care. I know their relationship will end up in a breakup or her being a single mom with a biracial baby. Bm will date a single mom with blk kids (Not Me tho) but I doubt with biracial kids. She’s stuck with wm.
Exactly this, I know a few friends of friends that ended up with bi racial children while being single and they are rejected by black men. But yes some black men will take care of a full black single mother family.
@@livinglarry8320 Thats the ultimate insult to want a bm after having biracial children. That’s basically saying “youre my last resort”.
@@NoName718. exactly and what’s crazy is even low tier black men understand this. But there are some simps out there
@@livinglarry8320 Even the simps will pull out and run. No bm will walk around with a bw with obviously mixed kids like some happy family. His value in other women’s eyes would be in the gutter for even doing that.
I would smile (of laughter) if I saw that.
As a mixed light skinned Latino person I don’t regret not having children. Theres no way in hell that I would’ve wanted to have a child to have to live under this racist society.
Latino is not a race.
Then what race are they?
It’s BP that value light skin & long or straighter hair. I’ve only gotten that messaging from OUR music/entertainment, how men “marry up” when they get rich, and in life. WM aren’t over here putting light skin long hair women on pedestals like our men do. Full stop. If anything, they actually love brown skin 4c hair having women.
WM dont put any woman on a pedestal. you have to earn that respect from them
WM rarely ever mention BW because y’all are not their preference. Less than 1% of WM even entertain the idea of dating BW, so why mention a group of women that aren’t even on your radar. Y’all love praising WM for IGNORING y’all, good job 👏🏾
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Mane y’all trying cope for zaddy 😂
No power like the power of denial. There is a new drug among many black females in America. It’s not DOPE, but COPE.
A lot of white men would love to be with black women but black women are overwhelmingly race-loyal so I'm not sure why women dating out is such an issue?
Y’all still running with that made up narrative. The truth is WM prefer WW, it’s really that simple. The WM that want a BW, have one. BW have been screaming from the mountain tops that they’re “expanding their options”, and WM still aren’t biting the bate, because they’re simply happy where they are. WITH WW!
"Race Loyal" is a trending fake term.
Me neither. It seems like someone is obsessed with this topic. I’m not sure why; it’s weird.
*BW are NOT race loyal* according to a book written by three women called, "Romance In The Age Of Cyberspace".... which said that for ALL ethnic groups of women that W.h.i.t.eMen are the overwhelming FIRST choice for "romantic partners" and second were men of these women ethnic group.
Because you’re not race loyal. Studies have shown that and social media is reconfirming that. You in fact are the absolute last statistically speaking when it comes to being chosen by wytes. You’re loyal by force. Most WM ain’t checking for you all.
Yes they always have. Its cool mind you, i just wish they were upfront and stop mentioning us as if we need to be their topic of discussion and let us go elsewhere
I wish BM would stop telling BW that they can't get zaddy, because first off it makes it seems zaddy is a catch that women should want, second it makes the BM saying it seem like they would only be a second or third choice, and third it makes it seem like black men are using reverse criticism and really begging them not to go to zaddy. I always say that personally I think that the BW are the most beautiful women on earth, and it's not them that chances the zaddy, its the zaddy's that want them. So stop the mind games (some) BM, if that few that do wanna be with zaddy, let them go. We good......
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@@KtotheG Get over yourself. Literally NOBODY is begging bw not to go to wm but we know wm are NOT leaving their own women for no bw. Youre just rambling and coming up with a bunch of bs with no proven facts
We don’t care if they want wm, but they need to stop trying to have an input on black men issues and culture. Also don’t try to come back to us when shiit hits the fan black men are not second options, be honest about dating out so we can move accordingly.
Yep! Most can't go to Zaddy without bashing or bringing up BM. @@de_lontekk8019
Have you read Black Skin White Mask by Franz Fannon? Read it and you’ll understand why.
Why wouldn't slaves want to be with Master. We all want a better life .
Speak for yourself.
@@Nightrain349 Hit dogs holla ! 🐕
What? You sound mentally sick
If you are a slave then, you are incapable of having a relationship. Why? Because you have no consent. Your mindset is sick and inferior. Clean up your slave mind.
Nothing changes until mindsets change! Pathetic that some use slavery as an excuse to be angry and to hate.In the process passing that mentality onto the naive.