I vehemently condemn any form of discrimination or hatred directed towards Chinese individuals. I had the privilege of relocating and having the ability to share my story while many of my Chinese colleagues kept quiet about their mistreatment. workplace abuse has become normalized in various regions of China, including the highly developed city of Shanghai. While I acknowledge that my own racial background contributed to the mistreatment I encountered in my previous job, it is imperative to note that race alone did not serve as the sole motivating factor for such mistreatment. Part of mentioning that my HR is Chinese was to also highlight the normalization of abuse in Chinese workplaces.
What you suffered was abuse from the Chinese you were dealing with from your workplace up to the police! It appears that the police are intimidating you because you’ve spoken out about their encouragement of racist acts against you! Girl, relocate to another country if you want to keep your sanity!
i'm so sorry this happened to you. many fb groups have a feature that allows you to post anonymously...or join and post under an alias. other teachers should know to avoid this school/company. praying for your recovery.
Exactly. He could say she assaulted him and then she’d go to jail. It’s not worth it trying to live in countries where at the end of the day we are not welcomed.
@@tbryant9765a black woman is killed every two to three hours by a black male in her origin of S. Africa according to the femicide stats. I can assure you she's better off in Germany. Priorities.
This happens in the middle east too!!!! Dubai!! UAE!! They confiscate your visas!! Trap you there so you keep working for them!! Lots of Indian and African workers trapped there!! People complain about America, but the working conditions overseas is by far worse!!! I'm an immigrant, so I know. I'm grateful to be living in America, because workers rights don't really exist in other countries. Again, not saying American is perfect.
If they can abuse our fellow africans here on out motherland they won't be nice to our brothers and sister in their country. I've seen countless stories and videos of chinese treating our people unfairly. Pure evil
That includes bullying as well. I have been advocating for both African individuals, Asian individuals and other individuals who have been subjected to racial bullying. And attempting to steal lands, or even countries that aren’t theirs. Countries they’ve attempted to steal some properties from: Vietnam 🇻🇳, Taiwan 🇹🇼, Philippines 🇵🇭, India 🇮🇳 , Malaysia 🇲🇾 and so much more. My boyfriend is Filipino, and I have other friends who are either Filipino or have studied there. I have heard similar stories from them where individuals of mixed Chinese heritage would intimidate anyone who does not share the same ethnic background as them. If someone’s pure Filipino or pure Indian for example, they’ll be bullied due to not having a half or pure Chinese blood. And take note that this occurred during the early 2000’s even before social media. There should be a diverse group of individuals dedicated to combating racial harassment. Imagine being born with an ethnic background that isn’t even your choice, you were literally born as an innocent baby only to learn about different ethnicities from school when you grow older, but as a baby and a toddler you weren’t even aware and without your knowledge there are already people around the world hating on your county’s people, that means including yourself. Remember, China also has its diverse people, a mixture of good and evil, just like any other countries.
This lady has been bullied sexually assaulted physically assaulted emotionally and psychological abused while travelling in these places. This is traumatising to see
I lived in China for close to 6 years and almost all of my Chinese employers have scammed me and haven’t paid me my last month’s salary when I wanted to leave. This has happened to all of my foreigner friends too. My last employer put wrong fake accusations on me just so that they would have a reason to not pay me for my hard work.
@@jimbotron70 If they are foreign and especially teaching like this it's contracts which leaves you even more vulnerable. 'Regular' jobs are not available.
Are stories like these that make me never want to go tô China, not even for traveling. They are (almost all the time) so hostile towards foreigners, and even with people from their own race.
@@jimbotron70 No, it doesn't. It says that maybe the work was project base or that the employers were so bad he had to run away. I worked in 7 companies in just 1 year. I had a job where I stood only for 2 weeks. I had a job where, after 10 hours per day I could only finish half of the work load for one day. Thank god I work now in a company whose employer pays me decently, doesn't work me to death and appreciates my work. I have been working here for 6 years. Stop judging people and their decisions.
This happens is SE Asia too. I know ppl who are locals and don't get paid after 1 month's work. When they show up at work & are due to be paid on the day, they arrive to find the work place closed down & the boss left town and is uncontactable. This is quite common.
@@Utubeisevil I am vegan, so I am very aware of the absolute horrific abuse farm animals face within factory farms in the west. However China takes this to whole new level. The casual abuse towards animals I saw over there is traumatizing to witness and nothing like what I've seen in the west.
@@UtubeisevilNot only for food consumption but clothing too. Especially the latter is equally cruel than elsewhere. These people and their double standards are so basic.
It is jaw-dropping to me that anyone might think that this is even remotely appropriate anywhere. That is absolutely insane. I am so sorry you had to go through that. That HR manager is something awful.
@@bobbov8277I have had abusive bosses before. I am aware this happens everywhere. And it shouldn't happen anywhere. I don't have any reason to believe the Chinese or any better or worse about this. I couldn't say. I couldn't tell you what Chinese law says about this situation. But regardless, worldwide I think every single country in the world ought to have protections for workers against this kind of behavior. It should not be permitted anywhere. It should not be done anywhere.
There are countries where actions have consequences. Run your mouth and find out. It's that simple. Plus there are always two sides of a story. Women think, they can hit men and nothing happens to them. Well that one obviously got a reality check.
@@bobbov8277 everywhere??? I live in Brazil, one of the most violent countries in the world, specially against women, but be sure we don't see HR managers punching female employees and getting away with it that easy!
I’m a Chinese person from China and I am so sorry that this happened to you in my country. I know I can’t apologize for the Chinese people who did this to you. I cannot pretend that I can in any way speak for them or undo their hate. It saddens me everyday how racists and xenophobic and frankly overtly fascist this culture has become. I really wish that you can have a better life away from that horrible environment.
Your language is wonderful and culture can be also, minus some aspects like spitting the food under the table or spitting ..But those bad habits are universal to human nature, no one is to judge. Your country is learning English and we from the West are learning Chinese. Hopefully, one day our worlds meet. And same for all nations in the world, hopefully, one day we are one and the same. "Imagine all of people living life in peace"
@@exploretheearth7818Sadly as an ordinary person one’s ability to send proper help is limited. The police won’t respond and the online rhetoric towards black people in China won’t help her either. It would be best for her to leave the country tbh but that may not be a choice for her.
To those who have asked me to contact my embassy, I did. They were the first number I called when this happened but sadly they don't even have an emergency number, so I wasn't able to get hold of them that day and when I finally did, they told me they would call me back and never did. Edgar (a famous lawyer in China) knows about what happened to me, I won't even get into that part. Yes, there are two sides in every story but I can only share mine; feel free to reach out to the kindergarten for theirs because I'd love to hear it it too. I am okay and I am safe.
Hi Nolu make contact to the EFF let Julius Malema & the EFF dear with them. Am not an EFF member but i feel like he would not let something like this go slightly.
Very sad,chinese are having a good time in South Africa and treating our own so badly.Let this be known worldwide,let this video trend on all social media platforms and let our dear sister come back safe.And very true let this come to the attention of EFF.
@Stephanie Perry, who travels the world, said China is one of the worst countries for Black women to travel to. I believed her then from my own experience at a layover in China, but this story puts the nail in the coffin for me. Please leave that country as soon as possible. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
My brother lived in China for 5 years in his late 20s and got bullied, jumped and treated soooo bad. The trauma he endured is so upsetting to think about.
Honestly, not just foreigners in china. They don’t give a crap about there own people it seems to at times. I have seen numerous videos of women being beat up and dragged in public by men and no one does a damn thing. Like just pretend they don’t see it. Citizens of china are not even allowed to vote. Only those in higher power. Nothing personally against china. Cause I’m actually part Chinese. But it’s messed up. I’m sorry for your experience. I hope you find ease. No one should go through this.
I remember how cruel they were to African immigrants during Covid. I’m not condemning all Chinese folks, but I also can’t act like I haven’t heard REPEAT stories of racism from there. I hope you are safe and heal soon. Sending love ♥️🙏🏻
@@joshwongwai3532china is probably the most terrible to foreigners as someone who’s been to Hong Kong, even the ones who try to help them like her smh and educator of children
My sister is in China, and she said every time she enters a class, the students always call her ugly to her face, they call her monkey and so many disgusting names. It's sad, that Chinese people are so racist to blacks. Recently her friend was found dead in the room beaten. No one knows, no one cares I have been begging her to come back, she is about to finish what she went there for. So sorry you had to go through that.
Wtf there r black ppl in my uni in Pakistan and no one even dares treat a foreigner badly they even treat them better like in the library their section always had better AC and the staff makes sure while the rest of us could be dying in heat on the other section the library is like five floors and stuff girls would be curious and stuff but it just proves being more literate doesn't mean a better behaviour like I would assume Chinese ppl would be better How can they get away with beating someone ??
@@aena5995student experiences aren’t the same as worker experiences. Most international students are given better facilities, etc. Governments as a whole want foreigners to visit and migrate. China needs to do better to protect foreigners. Especially women.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. Unfortunately that’s the negative side of Chinese culture, bearing false witness and hitting employees. As a child I always wanted to visit China but now that I’m older and seeing so many similar stories, I don’t think it’s safe for foreigners to visit mainland China whatsoever.
This is terrible! I’m so sorry this happened. Assault in a kindergarten school by an HR manager? I’m shocked and appalled. On top of it all, they have what sounds like sanctioned controls to blacklist you from making a living? Where are the victim’s rights? Who cares if she is a citizen or not? She is an HUMAN BEING!!!
@@Jatramain naw that’s not what I mean, I just mean that China is not known for “victims rights” or “citizenry” or any other human rights that America has. To go there expecting to be treated with respect and fairness, you’re delusional
@@lv1543Yeah. And look out for the red man. They can't be trusted either. And that brown man is mean AF. Like those blue men. Though not as mean as the green man. Or The Greys. Them and their cookbooks. Those polka dot men are the worst. Them and their freakin' polka dots. The absolute worst though are the invisible men. They're The Worst of the Worst. But, at least you can see right through them
I'm so sorry Nolu. As a black woman I have worked in several Asian countries and China was the most challenging at so many levels. I agree with @senzelongema4022 's comment, there are safer and and more enjoyable countries in the region, Taiwan being one of my favorites. Please don't underestimate the risks of talking while being there, it won't bring you justice and your safety and wellbeing are the most important. ❤🙏🏽
My heart goes out to you. Good for you for refusing to accept this quietly. I don’t know how entrenched your life is in China, but maybe this is a signal to take your skills elsewhere. China’s loss, your gain. Thank you for your video! To everyone: don’t let workplace corruption and abusive corporate cultures normalize mistreatment in your own mind. You deserve basic respect.
This is the cost of integration. Cultural changes and tentative acceptance of immigrants take two generations, maybe more. The individuals who go forth first into a new culture take on a heavy price unless they are fortified with other traits that allow them to overcome the bias, discrimination, and abuse by the indigenous population. If that price is too high, then she should get out of that situation. Learn karate or some other martial art/ self defense if you want to stay.
@@javierstaffanell3519This is the woke world we all choose to live while in covid. That, was the whole reasom of covid era: to build a sla e society, convinced that we all now live in a better world. Its not. Its a worse world, ruled by the demons that slipped through your heads in the last decade, and now they have woke laws on their side to protect themselves from us.
@@javierstaffanell3519 its not discrimination: its the rules of a culture. Usually, weak people who wishes others to meet their demands, create social constructs to try and take advantage of ethical guilt over traditions. A good example is that no liberal socialist demands good working conditons on narco cartels (and liberal socialists love narco cartels)
Wow. I don’t even want to think about what might have happened if that guard had not accidentally let you out. I’m glad you found that helpful Chinese girl that spoke English. And I’m glad you’re safe and you were able to get your things back. This incident is disturbing and heartbreaking on so many levels. I’m so sorry this happened to you! Thank you for heroically sharing your story. Please report this company to the Embassy.
Hey Nolu, just saw you on the South African news. We spread this video and made sure the nation saw it. Thank you for being so brave. I hope there is Justice for you and that the Chinese government does something about it 💕🙌 They forget the HIGH number of Chinese people who reside in South Africa peaceful. Imagine if they were treated poorly, it wouldn't be nice at all.
My son was head of two schools in China. Before becoming head he saw many very young children hit, slapped and punched by teachers. First thing he did was to stop that from happening. He was once slapped by a nurse in hospital but he just laughed in her face. He saw some terrible things but because he was British he was treated much better than some. Chinese people are very colour conscious, so what you have said is no surprise. My son left after 7 years and will never return.
Hmmmm I believe her. I suffered some abuse from Chinese twice. One from a group of parents who attacked me for subbing a white teachers class and another was when a co- teacher sent her husband to verbally abuse me at my workplace after a misunderstanding with class schedules.
Oh yes discipline in China is for example taught by hitting them so they won’t become criminals in the future or rebels. They don’t see it as abuse, but as discipline. Or else you get teens like in London lol.
Get in touch with your embassy and report this. If you’re still in China, LEAVE, PLEASE! They will make your life miserable or make you disappear hun! You’re brave and you deserve better. There are so many safe places that will appreciate what you have to offer. This is simply disgusting!
@@wakiwama6348 Government employees like dragging their feet but this video helped. She's in another country now under the hands of the Ambassador there.
I’m so sorry to hear about this . Sending thoughts and prayers 🙏🏽. I am also a South African teacher teaching in Asia. I would definitely advise to expose the school and send your story to Carte Blanche or any South African news channel. Many South Africans need to be aware of the treatment we face in Asia even as professionals.
This comment seems to be taken out of context. How I understand it, Nolu needs to reach out to SA media ie. Carte Blanche (an investigative journalist programme) so we can reach out & learn from other Brown people living in these countries how life is like? Also call the SA Embassy to task, as she mentioned that she was told she would be contacted back which never happened, as per her comment. This could be an eye opener for many back home who seek opportunities in these countries...grass is not always greener. Do not come for me, peace ✌out
As a black women who live in China for 4 years I’m so sorry this happened to you and truly pray your story continues to be amplified. China certainly has many issues with racism and issues of domestic violence are not taken seriously there either. It’s devastating and think that it is no longer an ideal place for foreigners to go.
@@phatplates I noticed Black people from the uk and north america in particular dont understand tribalism or care to understand it which is why they tend to het their feelings hurt when that reality presents itself. While their carribean and african counterparts understand and practice tribalsm like everyone else. Sometimes feelings gotta get hurt for people to learn
This hurts and bothers my spirit deeply. The helplessness I feel right along with you is almost unbearable because deep down I know justice will not be served. Please disclose this man’s name and the name of the school. I will gladly do my part to make cancel culture in America travel abroad. Im so enraged I’m shaking as I type this. Stay strong beautiful sister, you aren’t alone in this.
Y’all run your mouth too much, y’all get in trouble in Dubai, china and all over the world trying to find non black men. Y’all can’t do what passport bros do?
To all my black Africans who travel abroad, do not live in any country that isn’t your home country by yourself. Building a community is extremely important especially as women. This also applies to Western countries.
No. Solve the root problem of why your people need to leave their countries for better opportunities. BW going with or without someone will not improve the situation for us if this happens again. The fact that her own embassy was useless highlights how they see her situation and exactly how much protection she would have if she were home. It also reflects their values that they bring with them to these countries. We get no respect as BP, and especially BW because in our home countries, we hate ourselves so much that we don't even protect each other. And I'm not about to argue this with anyone because our femicide rates, crime rates, education levels, living conditions, and overall corruption across the leadership of those countries would prove anyone trying to argue that our black home countries are safe, is full of it. Either we acknowledge the roots of our problems so we can progress, or her only options will remain taking the risk for a better life in another country, or going back home to the problems and life she left in the first place.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Honestly, East Asians can be really racist towards other races with darker skin and this is no exception. Thank you for sharing your story on the internet, and I hope it can move you towards the proper justice that you deserve. It might sound backwards, but I would go to wherever you have a support system that can help you heal. If that's back home for you, there's no shame in going back, even just for now. Your health and wellbeing are most important. Rooting for you xx Edit: I've started a war in the comments
There are racist people in every country including blacks being racist as well. Stop painting all east Asians to be one. majority are not and many who you think are racist are just curious.
@@temujinkhan6326 black people racist?????we are the most hospitable people on earth but don't worry this will change very soon. We won't continue entertaining disrespect
@@truthspeaker8863 I get it it's ok for black people to call other race racist but it's not ok for us to say the truth about black people especially those that are westernize being the most racist group of people... and thanks for agreeing that you are racist
I was in China on transit to Japan and a taxi pulled up, driver got out, customer got out, driver punched the customer in the face , right outside my hotel. So yep, this definitely happened how she said it did.
@@thatokagisho1526 so...there's a valid reason for physically assaulting someone at work?🤷🏽♀️ Please clarify and let us know in what circumstances it's okay to punch someone for speaking out there mouth.
This is why I’ll never go to China. I’ve heard numerous stories of this even my tall white blonde friend who went to work in China experienced racism and people giving her disgusting looks. Please girl get out that country🙏You are so strong and beautiful and im so sorry you went through that. Absolutely traumatic and i would seek therapy that will help your healing process.
@@margielopez9741 Because they are and in Asian culture there’s alot of neglecting emotions Imo which causes problems with how they handle people. They are also very racist and xenophobic because there’s little to none diversity so they treat foreigners as less and look out for eachother in the wrong way. Maybe Japan and Korea I’ll visit but never live in those places .. I come from culture that’s warm, lively, sociable and welcoming to others so it wouldn’t suit me.
@@molahi5779yup because we do, Im Chinese and hear a lot of girls wish they were born with European features, I mean even the “Asian” makeup styles feature colored contacts so it’s pretty obvious how highly they hold European features.
I think it's amazing how you defended yourself and stood up to the HR manager and other staff. And also that you have made this video despite the threats. But I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's incredible that someone in a caring profession could be so aggressive and violent, over a normal HR dispute. It seems so unstable and insane. Sexism and racism clearly coincide here. I've read that you are now safe - I wish you lots of peace and healing wherever you are.
Black male 'leaders' do not care about black women even in their own territory. We should support each other and push for protection just like we did for BLM.
SA embassy is useless everywhere. My sister and I were victimised in Mauritius and they did nothing but told us that “oh these pipul do dis all de time to Africans. Dey denied a family access when dey were supposed to attend their child’s graduation.” That was the end of it. SA government officials are useless everywhere.
Im sorry to hear that. Im Korean. I was a teacher at Hakwon. I was abused emotionally by my boss so I quit the job. I have moved to Germany for better labor law protection. I'm done with it. Korea might be one of the worst countries in the world for a worker. But I'm sorry sis to say this. You have moved to the worst place from a bad place. China is not a decent country to live in and work for. Get out of there as soon as possible. Plz
@fancyleelee1992 we are treated more harshly than foreigners. But we koreans are used to it so long. And Hakwon is a really bad place to work. The bosses have incredibly toxic mindset. They have terribly harsh tough characters ever you can meet in Korea. Plz whoever read my comment. Plz don't work at hakwon. They are bad business people to treat you like an animal. I want to be a human. That is why I left. There was no hope for me in Korea.
Its still not as bad as china. If you report something in korea, it will be dealt with. But china is an authoritarian dictatorship. Their police will never support foreign victims.
@@user-mb5xu3oq8lwhich Korea thought south is 1 of advanced country in the world, if it's North please elaborate is it true what we see on docs about north Korea.
My first thoughts were to say you're brave for sharing this video, but you shouldn't even have to make a video like this because something like this shouldn't have happened to you, period. It's despicable because they know that the system is in their favor and they can simply get away with it. Don't feel bad about settling. Hoping your story is heard far and wide.
From experience, as a Chinese American woman who was raised by Chinese parents, I can state that these situations are the norm in that society. Chinese men are more often abusive because they can get away from it. This behavior happens because the society protects abusers and the system defends abusers and horrible people in general. It's why the suicide rate is so high in China, especially amongst women. The men in that country see their abusing others as a "basic right".
She should! And every abuser SHOULD be exposed, every liar, every cheater. Why, are you siding with abusers? Chinese people are repressed and abused and the cycle continues because there is NO change
Unfortunately she probably couldn’t EVEN have the right to freedom if speech, a basic human right. They are repressed. Why do you think millions upon millions have immigrated over the years?? 🌟 To have a life more freedom. Take a stand against abuse, for this generation and the next. 🦋 No excuse for abuse! 🫶🏼
@@i-6820 Actually, getting accurate answers from people in China is like that. If you could get the person to meet up where nobody is listening and they feel safe, they would tell you the truth. Chinese society has been patriarchal for 5000 years, and that never changed even when the Communists took over. Men over there are probably not the kind of people that you want to hang around if you don't know them too well, because domestic abuse in China is rampant. Many of the women in that society also participate in the patriarchy for privileges, so you kind of are going to have to filter people very carefully if you go over there. Also, if you are a kindergarten teacher, I suggest that you go to the public schools instead. Private schools make it extra hard for abuse to be recognized, because the school owns the cameras and could cover up for their abusive teachers and parents.
@@sopluv149 I'm not siding with the abusers. I'm merely pointing out what it's like over there. I grew up partly in China, so I can speak from experience on the society over there. My Chinese parents also set the standard as well. What they do isn't right, and I agree with that. However, please keep in mind that this is not widely known in China until very recently, because Chinese people only got access to the Internet in the last two decades. Your Western sensibility probably will seem out of place there, just so you know. I agree, it's not a good thing, but changing it to exactly the Western way of behavior isn't right either. There are just as many problems in the West with abuse as well.
As a black American, I would never travel to these east Asian countries. I already know how they feel about me when they come to MY country. This is digusting! He could have killed her and gotten away with it.
as a Chinese person I'm SO sorry you had this experience, I hope you are able to receive justice and that you heal physically, emotionally and mentally. sending you love and solidarity
Justice in China as a black person? Come on nah!! That's why they spit on each other in order to not hit people and go to jail or get sued. I know they dont like blacks.
If you’re so sorry, why don’t you publicly condemn this behavior and expose your people so things will change. Start an online petition, make it go viral. Do something!
If you are really sorry, then why don’t you make your work against this in your country? I’m tired of people justifying Chinese hate as a “cultural thing”.
This infuriates me! I am so tired of stories of our black women feeling unprotected, abused , and neglected, I am tired of them being assaulted and disrespected by us as black men , and we set the standard on how their races should treat them. This story breaks my heart! This is not ok, it’s time we stand up as a people and MAKE the rest of the world value our women and honor them by showing how we value and honor them ! I am so sorry this happened to you , and he needs to be punched in his eye ! 👊🏾
If you watch videos from other black people in China you’d know that this is the way that many if not most mainland Chinese treat black people. I don’t understand you’re trying to black men for something that a Chinese boss did in China. Bm had nothing to do with this. We have zero influence over Chinese media. If you want to blame someone other than racist Chinese for this then black western media for teaching simple minded people to hate based on race, gender, religion and or sexual orientation, ethnicity or nationality but please don’t drag others who had nothing to do with this into it.
@@room920renalforlife because we teach others how to treat our women by the we treat our women , or the lack of protection we provide as men. I don’t minimize what to going on in China but this has happen throughout history all over the world . Because people believe our women our unprotected
@mr.jeffry6357 So she's in a foreign country with different cultural norms, and you want to blame black men for how an Asian man treated her? Wow, that's a stretch. Smh...
@@millzhale4223it's not a stretch. Try to think. Why would nobody hit a white woman or an indian woman? Why?? How many other cultures are proud to claim they don't date their own women?
You’re so brave ! I’m glad you made it out okay, never go back to that toxic environment please. The fact they’re trying to blacklist and silence you should be a damn crime and shows their guilt, screw them
watch the rest of her videos. Complaining and whingeing about everything including how she'll never go back to her home country, Korea and now China. She seems to love the drama, attention and sympathy. In her last clickbait title attention video, she called China the worst place and then she spent the entire 25 minute video complaining about quarantine hotel which was normal and looked like what we had in Australia. She also seemed to be hiding the fact she might have had covid when entering China even knowing how seriously China takes it there considering all the deaths and impact on the country which just seems so selfish. Negative vibes everywhere in all her videos. Seen many Africans having a great time in China e.g. Rose in China and others. Those who've travelled outside their own basement and travel the world and actually been or lived there will actually see it's not how western propaganda likes to paint it for political purposes. I know having coming from a western country used to hate China based off tv and then when I travelled, it was so different to how America and the West like to portray it. It's actually a very friendly and safe country compared to the US.
Exactly. I am worried for her safety, Just being in China is not safe for her as it seems, I hope - as she has moved from one other country to work from South Africa to South Korea to China. That she will move on to the next. (You're not safe there sweetheart. They can do anything they want to do to you. Rings to mind Otto Warmbier, in N Korea).
Oh my goodness…what a horrible experience. I am so sorry you were treated so despicably. May you find a safe and peaceful place to heal and recuperate. Love and hugs ❤
OMG that's crazy. WTF. I'm Chinese but overseas. You should continue to press charges by finding a lawyer. Also, leave reviews so nobody would ever want to work at that school again. Contact your embassy as well. I'm so sorry that happened to you. See you like that was very hard to watch and was heartbreaking. Edit: If you tell your embassy they're going to think twice before doing anything. Don't let those bastards get away with it. Also, please post the contact of that school and dox them. I've also asked my wife if she knows a lawyer so if you're interested please reach out.
They will force her to leave before getting her justice, she just started working and without a work contract and with her being involved in a crime case even as victim ,china will be departing her,heard many cases like that ,and the one who punch probably knows that too
I’m so sorry to hear about your experience there. I’m Southeast Asian and I once had cousins that went to teach English in China. It was for the experience and opportunity to travel. They weren’t treated very well either. They were discriminated on many levels because they don’t speak Chinese and their pay was also much lower than a Caucasia person. The district sees Caucasia as more experience just because they’re Caucasia. They’re judgmental, tunnel vision, and stereotypical people there. I’m not hating on any person of specific ethnic group, but these sort of abuses needs to stop. They need to respect the people they hire because they needed a person of experience to fill in that position. Nobody goes in to fill an application to be a punching bag. Guarantee, if you fought back and turned the tables. He would be quick to prosecute you. It’s disgusting.
Going up against the Chinese State takes insane courage, thank you for sharing your story regardless! I am so so sorry this happened to you. Hope you can see the thousands of us worldwide that see, hear and stand with you.
Have you been or just basing this off your westernised political propaganda. Look at her other videos, she complains about everywhere she goes, including how she'll never return to her home country, Korea and now China. In her last clickbait title attention video she called China the worst place and then spent the whole 25 minute video complaining about quarantine hotel which was normal and looked like what we had in Australia. She also seemed to be hiding the fact she might have had covid when entering China even knowing how seriously China takes it there considering all the deaths and impact on the country which just seems so selfish. In all her videos she seem to love the attention and drama and sympathy. Negative vibes everywhere. Seen many Africans having a great time in China e.g. Rose in China and others. Those who've travelled beyond their propaganda bubble and travel the world and actually been or lived there will actually find China is very friendly and safe- many are reserved at first though until they get to know you because those who haven't had an international education don't know what to expect from you- but you'll see it's not how western propaganda likes to paint it for political purposes. Go travel and see it for yourself instead of relying on political US propaganda.
@@komit66 it's not the kindergarten, but also the local police. If a law enforcement officer is acting as they did with her, it's because they know that they can do it without running into problems for refusing to bring the case to the civil court.
That is so disgusting. It’s unbelievable how unprofessional and immature your employer was. I hope he not only loses his job, but also loses any other chance of regaining another position of authority. I 100% believe your story and it’s unbelievable how people who are supposed to help don’t. I hope things get better and you find a job where you feel safe and supportive
A teacher...a kindergarten teacher, a woman, a human. I cannot fathom how inhumane this is. I hope you get the best from this situation, whatever it may be. I cannot imagine how you feel and how this may make others feel. You have more people than you know that support you, and they far outweigh the people who do not. I hope this video reaches millions of people. Please if you need our support with anything, let us be here for you during this if we can.
@@olliefoxx7165I’ve heard so many horror stories from folks there I have no reason to doubt her. They have nets outside factories so the employees don’t jump. Bffr
I'm so sorry this happened to you! It's truly unbelievable - what a coward! Let's make this go viral, y'all, and let the world see what has happened to Nolu.
Why don't u do it for Nolu? And maybe go round the world to seek all those that have done wrong to others and seek justice on their behalfs. Don't just suggest and talk only. Just a reminder : get the fact right first before u do anything.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. As a native Chinese myself I'm so disgusted by what has happened, nobody should EVER experience this. Sending you lots of love and healing ❤❤❤
Do they care when they shove As ians on to train tracks in Amer ican cities ? Do they hold their own accountable ? Edit: Were you the guy who put his hands on her ? When bp are claiming under they have nothing to do with bp that hurt As ians, then why are you apologizing when you had nothing to do with the guy that hurt the lady in the video ?
@@lavish_1717The people who committed hate crimes against Asians were more commonly white by the way. That’s according to the stats. But if you want to focus on a few highly publicized incidents of the same freaking person in order to divide people, knock yourself out.
@@lavish_1717African Americans are not the same as native Africans. Lol. Two different nationalities. We have a lot of problems with them shooting unarmed black people anyway. Nobody is right. All violence is wrong.
I am so very sorry this happened to you. China has a long history of this kind of bullying, and there is so much corruption that a single individual has little chance against them. Your race should have no baring in this situation. This was wrong. Period.
My sister went to teach English in China. She was supposed to go to one school but was sent to another when she showed up because she wasn't white. Her stay lasted less than 48 hours. She called me crying wanting to come home after not feeling safe.
Yeh it sucks. They take their education seriously so imagine paying heaps to send your kid to say a french class and then a chinese person shows up trying to teach french. parents wouldn't be happy. doesn't mean it's right, just first impression.
The problems of being overseas as a South African. I've seen it all. The South African embassy is useless everywhere I have traveled to. I am so sorry my little sister, be strong. Keep traveling and expanding your mind and experiences. You are so brave. Horrible things have happened to South African women including myself. Remember a lot of people still hold the notion that African women are nothing and they will do everything to deny you of what other race groups have access to. Hold your head up high and do what you are good at. A lawyer in the USA told me to go back home after a crime was committed against me. I stayed and fought.
As a White person who has Been supressed my entire life. Living with systemic cultural racism from africans who are the most violent race of humans known to man. I feel sad and discusted she only Choses to speak up when its other races but her own!
Very sorry sister. I’ve noticed something, truly it is unnecessarily tough for black men and women being outside our countries living in other places. As a race let’s all join together and fight these problems peacefully, hand in hand. United we stand, divided we fall. ✊🏾
I'm so sorry this happened to you. This is why I (an American) never worked overseas after researching it and am even nervous about visiting lots of places. When you are a foreigner, you're in a vulnerable position to be abused, taken advantage of, falsely accused or imprisoned according to their laws, etc. There are ENDLESS stories online of people experiencing these exact things. This is sickening, you did NOT deserve it, and I really advise others to do your research and exercise extreme caution/avoid working overseas if able. Even in America, foreigners who come to work here are often abused and exploited due to their status. This happens so much
A lot of South Africans leave because of high unemployment rates and a plummeting economy. If opportunities were available a lot would stay. It's different in a third world country where you don't have as much opportunity available to you as in the west. So people go looking for greener pastures but it's not always that way.
I hear what you are saying to be cautious. It is not all places abroad. In the UK, a British can not just punch you without consequences. It doesn't matter whether you are a foreign or not. In America, the Americans are dying due to their guns, and some third world country crime is reported, and nothing happens due to corruption. We know China and Russia, especially as a Black person you should be weary working there.
That’s unfortunate. You probably should stop watching tv and get off socials. I, a black female lived in Gibraltar, Spain, Thailand, Malaysia and Cambodia. I only travel solo, that’s how I feel safest. My brother loved in China (5 years), Japan (4), and now Singapore. I have no horror story to share and absolutely LOVED everywhere I lived- I’m now in Australia. Carry good energy and follow ur intuition. Stay to yourself when you’re in low frequency modes. Eat well, read inspiring/ enlightening books, meditate, listen to vibey music, and entertain good conversations…… especially if you’re easily effected when u hear stories like this. Know yourself. Guard your energy. Highest & best wishes xx
I know this is late but this video just popped up in my recommendation and this broke my heart. I'm so sorry this happened to you, Sis ❤ I can tell you're a much stronger person than me though because I would have frozen and not have had the dexterity to run like you. I hope you are safe and in a better place now 🙏
I’m Chinese American and am sorry to hear about what happened to you. I’ve worked with some Chinese managers in the state and the most extreme would be getting yelled at instead of getting assaulted. As far as mainland China, I imagine being assaulted is going to be common. If you have the means to leave or come home, please do so. It’s not going to be an easy battle or win over there as many of the businesses are owned by their Gov and will take their side over you.
@@bunjijumper5345It's not a jump. China's involvement with organ harvesting and the kidnapping of people that are "black" is a real black market international business.
The English school industry in Asia has countless stories like this. They insist on hiring foreigners to teach English but then treat them atrociously. I was in South Korea in 2015 and was also bullied out of my job because I have a disability so I understand your experience on a personal level. Finding yourself in this situation in a foreign country is terrifying, especially when your visa is tied to your job. It puts you in a really vulnerable position. I also witnessed evidence of racist attitudes as well and heard other teachers experiences with regards to contracts being manipulated and controlling and bullying behaviour from employers. Even the people who don't have any issues still admit the gig is a tough one due to the toxic work culture and they endure it mostly because they need the money, work experience etc...
This is horrific!!!! Get out of that country ASAP. They closed ranks to hide violent, misogynistic, and racist behaviour. You are a TREASURE and deserve to live where you are respected and safe. Literally any other place would be better. I'm sending you love and strength 💖💖💖
I have had bad experiences working with Chinese students just online, so I know what she is saying has to be true. I'm so sorry this happened. China is not safe for dark skinned people at all. There really needs to be an official travel advisory for us in regard to China.
no advisory necessary. people need to stop depending on govt to do their thinking. Be responsible for yourself, all of the facts about China being an awful place to go *for anyone* are already out there.
Black people are hated everywhere. When will we Africans learn that we are on our own? Our leaders have messed up the continent and we need to restore our dignity.
@@willdegra317 while I agree we shouldn't wait on the government and have common sense, I was thinking an official travel advisory would put China on notice that the Western world is watching. They won't stop being racist, but they do care to an extent when they have to try to explain their inhumane behaviors on the world stage. International attention for incidents like this might actually apply pressure since they have economic interest in Africa. This is all hypothetical of course, and I'm not an expert in diplomacy.
This is truly heartbreaking ,I hsve a daughter who's the same age as her and as a mother, I wouldn't want such a thing to happen to her......This guy needs to go to jail.Keep posting this video share it in all social media platforms 4:35 so that this young lady may get justice.Take heart young lady ......it shall be well🙏🙏😘
My eyes are filling with tears watching this. I am so sorry you went through this. I am enraged that so many women refused to help you in this situation when women should be sticking together. It sounds like they have done this before to be so organized about it. Black women deserve to be safe no matter where we are. Please stay safe my sister 🙏🏽🙏🏽
The day you leave or start disrespecting your natural protectors, that is the day you called for incidents like this. Black men want to protect y'all but the disrespect is too much. We will come up with something. Just keep pushing the video. Don't go nowhere without your natural covering and don't leave your natural covering
@vanessaland5090 the employees behaviours was organized, they had their backs and lied rather than care for justice and the truth, and this commenter i guess suspects that this instance wasnt the first time. maybe the other employees are afraid of being reprimanded or fired for not doing the will of the boss but it is not an excuse for the treatment of this woman
What a junkyard. I wish you a speedy recovery, and wish the worst on that guy and the people who remained silent. There is a reason that country is known to be racist/colorist. I hope you stay safe and best wishes💜
Sis, I hope you are posting this after you have already left that country. It’s horrific that this happened you 💔. From what I’m seeing those actions reflect their general attitude. Don’t work in China anymore. It’s their loss anyway. You are loved ❤ You are precious ❤ You have a right to feel safety and security❤ You are to be respected ❤
My sister was abused in China too. She went there in hopes of independently working and after a few weeks, asked my mom that she wants to go home. When we fetched her from the airport, she was crying - not due to sadness but happiness that she was safe. Her handlers were allegedly forcing her to stay, threatening her and of course I believe her, that was the first time I saw her cry.
@@Tomiwa101 We are 75% chinese 25% filipino living in the Philippines, but the abuse wasn't racially motivated. I've had a bad encounter at a mall in HK as a kid where full grown men took my arms and dragged me to their shop. It was my first "feeling" of how it feels like to be kidnapped, but they didn't force me to stay there, they literally just dragged me to their shop and spoke Cantonese which I do not understand.
That’s an extreme case, and I truly empathize with you! I’ve worked in Shanghai, Hangzhou, and other places. While I’m non-white, I never experienced anything like that. I was fortunate to work with amazing people, both locals and foreigners! The best thing you could have done-and I hope you did-was to report it to the police. I believe the reason your manager acted that way was because they were likely operating illegally and didn’t want you to go to the authorities. Hope you are doing well now, safe and away from all that chaos!
Sending you so so much love and hugs right now, and I am so sorry this has happened to you. I cried along with you, and wished that the women in this story would've stood up and defended you! To feel alone in a foreign country after having been assaulted and all your rights taken away from you is one of the worst things anyone can go through. I am so shocked and upset on your behalf. I truly hope you are okay and that someone somewhere is showing you kindness. May justice prevail xxx
I want you to understand that animosity between women is normalized in China. Very few fellow female employees would come together to oppose the authority figures because they are taught to think of each other as opponents fighting for the same resources. Plus they are afraid to jeopardize their own wellbeing and the financial stability of their families for a stranger. Sad.
@@k.c1126 sometimes I wonder if certain cultures or countries believe that God gave them only the ability to treat others with hate and cruelty. We all have that ability, we are human being. What if Africans began to treat their women like that, what will they say.. I think the solution with people treating our brothers and sisters with hate is going to be with punishment for them. Jungle justice. An eyes for an eye. whte,, yellow, brown or purple try that, We as people should respond accordingly. Enough with the disrespecte.
Im so sorry to hear about this. I think you should just leave. That place is not worth your sanity or your safety. Absolutely disgusting how no one did or said anything . That crazy man could have deleted you in his office and there would be ‘no evidence ‘ and ‘no witnesses’ Please go where you are wanted and where it is safe❤ sending hugs ❤
I'm so sorry this happened to you. You did not deserve any of this and I am so glad that you were able to get out of that situation and that you posted this video. I hope that justice is served and that you continue to be safe.
Sorry this happened to you. I am part Chinese but look mostly black , my Chinese half of my family, who for the most part have accepted me and my siblings, tell us it's better to remain in Jamaica than to come there to visit. At first we thought this was because they were ashamed of us but now, especially in light of this video, I think it's because they actually do care and know how we will be treated once we are there.
@@dreamysunset4720 Well then don't. They don't care to welcome ignorant racist people who can't be bothered to travel and think for themselves beyond western propaganda anyway.
I just hope you appreciate people in the west a lot more now. Especially white christians. We're the only ones who are nice to you, and you dare call our politeness "micro agressions"?
I'm from Germany, and I'm deeply saddened by what has happened to you. I can't imagine what you are possibly going through. Please try to talk to as many people (family and friends) as possible and don't isolate yourself. You are not alone, and hopefully, you will find a peaceful place soon. Acknowledge the trauma and work through it; don't sweep it under the carpet. God bless you. 🙏
This needs to be more recognized. Your employers are LUCKY- based purely on your choices- that they arent made public. The shame and devastation. Thank you for sharing your experience, i hope you feel safe and protected now. Thank you. Hoping you peace and wellness ❤
Lady come out of that country!! There are a lot of ignorance and disrespect towards your skin colour. We have seen it in the COVID time. You have the responsibility of looking after yourself because no one will. Not your embassy or any public sector of the country you are in. When you see how others are treated, know it is you. All support to you.
Is there a way for you to leave China before this story gets spread widely? I’m concerned for your safety if they do end up getting backlash over this…. 😰 I’m so sorry you had to experience such an awful event.
Same here, try comeback home here and pursue that matter from South Africa, I'm hoping some legal experts see and are able to intervene and help you. They can't get away with it. I'm sorry for the trauma you've experienced.
She is long gone. She did a similar video in Korea. Then we later found out she was long gone from Korea. Makes for good youtube content. Which country is next?
I urge everyone who is interested in Chinese culture to visit Taiwan instead. I’ve had my share of experiences in both countries and can honestly say I’ve felt nothing but warmth and acceptance from the Taiwanese people. Although people of China are not all equal, I have a hard time with the rigid mentality of some, maybe influenced by political differences.
That is a good idea. I would also highly recommended Singapore. I lived there briefly. It is safe, the people are warm & friendly, and there is good diversity.
I don’t know. I am in Taiwan and have been for years, but just five months ago, a boss flew into a rage and threatened to fire me. So, I put in my resignation. Then she threatened to sue me for quitting. I put in an inquiry to the labor board about the situation, but that took a week to process. In that week she thought I was staying, she stood there and mocked and insulted me every day, screaming at me for not being “cheerful.” Then the labor board called her. She got in trouble for not giving me a contract. When I went to leave (finally 😅), she told me “I have a contract for you now.” No thanks. Bye-bye. I found another better job in three days. 😂
Literally my 1st morning at the hotel in Taiwan while attempting to dine for breakfast...the whole dining hall stopped to adamantly tell me I couldn't enter. Other patrons. It's cuz I was Black & they were stunned. Finally a waitress when seeing me accompanied by my Korean pal guided us to a table. . People were pissed. (I also met some amazing Taiwanese folks). But anti-Blackness is def there too.
Hate to break it to you but it's far worse in America and Europe lol. You act like we have good experiences in other places. You clearly haven't traveled much.
@@nylotusI can’t speak for these other countries but I wouldn’t say the US is worse. Employers aren’t generally allowed to behave this way and it normally ends very badly for them if they do. Cops in the US are generally horrible to black people but even then they can’t get away with it and both groups tend to stay away from each other anyways. The US also has safe spaces, ethnic enclaves where different groups of people can find safety. Some cities are predominantly black with black police and black businesses and they tend to be safe for black people at least in regard to incidents of xenophobia and racism. It pains me to say but the US may be one of the least racists places in the world. It’s a big mish mash of cultures and we’ve had to learn to get along. Online I do see people from other countries are more willing to say something racist but that may just be because they’ve never had to encounter/interact with other cultures and peoples for long periods of time. Europe is also pretty diverse, so it wouldn’t surprise me if they were also mostly well behaved. That’s what happens when you go around building empires. You have to get along with the people you spent all that time trying to force into your empire. That’s what makes it an empire and not a kingdom. Empires absorb other cultures and countries. All of this is just in comparison to for example Japan where there are literal laws that are targeted against foreigners. China isn’t Japan but considering it’s very similarly mono-ethnic (there's multiple ethnicities but in the sense that all those ethnicities are native to the region) I wouldn’t be surprised if the general attitude was to keep foreigners out or not interact with them. This all an over generalization but I do think it’s clear that the US is still a much better place for foreigners and immigrants.
This is not shocking at all if one understands how certain people are viewed globally. They have been stories like this before but not everyone has the courage to share their story. When you aren't in your country you are susceptible to labour abuse. This is a perfect example of what staying on code looks like. Witnesses refuse to take her side even though they know their manager was in the wrong. That is how this group of people remain a tightly knit and prosper as a bunch...never speak ill or against your own.
As a blk american, i will say this is nowhere close to shocking or surprising. I wish people would stop using words like this because it’s known for a long time that our people no matter where we are on the planet will be hated by everyone. Even our own people will hate each other for the dumbest reasons. But everyone else hates us for simply having a darker skin tone. So going to places like china as a blk person from anywhere in the world should automatically tell you as a blk person, you will never be treated wholeheartedly like the locals of their country regardless of how nice you are, friendly you are, how much you come in peace and no matter how unproblematic you are. You simply just existing is enough for people like the chinese to hate you. Idk why our people don’t understand that we are the most hated group of people on the planet no matter which continent we come from and were born in. Blk americans have been pointing this out for decades, but yet our own from other continents/countries still ignore us and think we are over exaggerating when we say THEY HATE US and always will. Not say all, but a majority either have hate and such disdain for us and not show it, or will blatantly show it to our faces.
As a South African woman, having heard so many stories like yours, it's beyond me why would I allow myself to go through what you've experienced, having seen how Chinese treat our people in our own continent Africa, no amount of money is worth that to me. Praying for your safety and well being. China is one of the worst for me
Where are you? It's been four days, since you made this video.. Please let us ( those who care about you) know if you're safe! I would like to send you money to secure your exit from China
I hope this goes viral, specially in China, and that they tell the identities of these people and the place. It may not work like other countries but Chinese people don’t like public scrutiny
😢😢😢😢 I so want to give you hug ❤ I’m so sorry for what you have been through❤I pray that SA leaders can do something about this issues. I also pray that God punish all these evils 10x worse. Sending love and blessings from New Zealand 🇳🇿
I am so sorry you have gone through something so scary and violating. I was sexually assaulted in the '80's at a waitress job I had in NYC. It had been happening long before I got there and they just fired anyone that tried to report them. I was told, when I reported them, that I needed 5 other girls to also testify against them. It was impossible. I feel so horrible for you. I am very impressed at your tenacity and desire to get justice for what you endured. Wish we could help you.
I am so sorry about the fearsome experience you went through. I watched your “I left South Korea” video and it inspired me deeply to leave my awful job I had in Seoul. As a black woman I know well of the pressures and mistreatment that these ESL teaching jobs put us through. There is always opportunities elsewhere. Always know your self worth. I pray for your safety🙏🏾
I worked in S.K. For 7 years and never had a problem, HOWEVER, with that being said, I knew from jump and a year of research before I left the first time, NEVER to work for a hagwon, make sure you are employed by a government program like GEPIK or EPIK, at least you have recourse through government organizations.
@@buttarain27I also never worked for a hagwon. That's where all the horror stories are because they aren't even actual schools, they're just educational businesses that kids go to after real school or kindergartens that are actually just preschools. Even private schools are actual schools and are still regulated by the government much much more than a business is. The only "horror" stories I heard from public school or things that were not illegal or against moel. They were more like unfortunate things like something going wrong with the apartment and then the employee expecting the school to take care of it when literally it's not the school's job to do that nor is it in the contract and it's not against moel. meanwhile hagwons are not paying their employees and verbally abusing them. Although not all, hagwon owners realize there's a chance they could get away with that whereas with public (or private) it would be pretty impossible to do that.
You are so strong and you shouldn’t have to be. You are a beautiful human and you should be able to go anywhere and feel safe. I am so sorry this happened, and I am so glad you are safe now. But this should never happen.
😢😢😢😢i don't know what to say Sistas. Your experience is so heartbreaking. China is known to hate Africans, yet they are warmly welcomed in our continent. Find peace in your heart Sisi, we are with you😢😢😢
Asian men are notorious for being abusive to women, even in public. In addition, work places can be very toxic. What’s even worse is that being a foreigner means not getting the support that you need. They are very loyal to their own. That’s why they’re so successful in the west. They stick together. I’m not sure if this is race based, but I wouldn’t be surprised if it also played a factor. I am so sorry this has happened to you. I truly hope you start having better experiences abroad. I also hope you get the justice that you deserve. Edit: Notorious means in the eyes of the public. Does it mean that something is true bc it is notorious? No, it doesn’t. My first paragraph comes from reports that I’ve heard myself in Asian media, documentaries, and from Asian women. I’ve also seen plenty of videos of Asian men pounding on women in public. All this to say, every race of men has something that they are notoriously known for. It is what it is. No group is perfect, and we can’t shy away from mentioning potential problems in order to not hurt feelings.
I’m so sorry this happened to you!! I had a Taiwanese manager who made my life hell. Of course this doesn’t mean all people from the region are bad, but the experience deeply hurt me. I’m glad you got out.
I’m so so sorry this happened to you,I lived in China for four years and I definitely experienced a fair share of racism. If there’s anything we can do to help please let us know.We want to see you get your justice.
You have absolutely nothing on your channel, And who is to say that you are one of those that are going after her? Unless you prove who you are and nobody should believe you, much less this young lady who's being threatened by these people. So if you can kindly show proof of who you are
@@vanessaland5090 I personally didn’t experience physical assault,but we had taxis refuse to pick us up ,being told to go back to my country,being called all sorts of sick words and just a lot of micro agression. I can’t speak in comparison to Germany or US since I’ve never been to either but racism in China is very much a thing.
my dear is bad. You get jobs based on your skin color and when they feel they are done with you, they dump you or even get rid of you.@@vanessaland5090
really diluzo? as bad as the racism in the US and other countries? Poster even complained about never returning to her own home country. You should travel and experience it for yourself! It's friendly and safer than the US! Think for yourself instead of just being brainwashed by US political propaganda. Look at her other videos. Drama and negative vibes everywhere she goes.
I worked in China for two years and met a few people from different african countries who work as teachers there. Never heard of anyone getting physically abused but they all shared stories of getting screwed over in one way or another. It’s terrible you have to go through this. Hope everything will turn out ok for you and make sure you’re safe!
I can remember when covid first came out, I was hearing in the news that China was mistreating the African residents there. So, China has a history of this type of behavior. Word of advice if anyone traveling out of your home country (or city), never go where you are out numbered and always travel in twos. Stay safe everyone!
@@scholarssolutions6735 We are talking mainly about China in this post. It's one thing to deal with issues of people being prejudice and it's a whole different thing when people can be physically violent with a person and NO ONE comes to help!!! That's the whole issue right there, a person can be violated all because of the color of a their skin. This is no way acceptable in China or anywhere else!
I wish I could hug you, your pain is so palpable. I am so sorry you went through this. I read in the comments that you were able to get out of China, I'm so glad you're safe. This is just awful...
I hope the media picks up on this! You did not deserve anything of this. I am so saddened to hear your former collegues were complicit and did not help you. You're so brave to speak up and I hope the company and HR manager who did this to you get named and shamed
I commend you for your courage for speaking out. As an ethnic Chinese I feel really bad that this happened to you, even though I'm not responsible. Unfortunately it looks like you've run head first into the dark side of the Chinese state. Because exposing your abusers would make China look bad, they're going to do everything to ensure your story never sees light of day, threaten you and gaslight you endlessly. Law enforcement will always stand on the side of the guy who hit you. This is the system that most Chinese experience every day. Now you know why so many want to leave it.
@AngelaMatshoge-re7ornah we should keep having empathy and apologizing to ppl because they will never get them from the people who hurt them. Example, i still hate police. But some police officers have apologized for another’s actions towards me before. So that does make me feel better, and I can confidently say sometimes officers do act right. Instead of not believing that, due to them offering me apologies. I will always apologize if I feel it’s necessary in order to let a person know, what happened was not okay, and other people know that too.
I vehemently condemn any form of discrimination or hatred directed towards Chinese individuals. I had the privilege of relocating and having the ability to share my story while many of my Chinese colleagues kept quiet about their mistreatment.
workplace abuse has become normalized in various regions of China, including the highly developed city of Shanghai.
While I acknowledge that my own racial background contributed to the mistreatment I encountered in my previous job, it is imperative to note that race alone did not serve as the sole motivating factor for such mistreatment.
Part of mentioning that my HR is Chinese was to also highlight the normalization of abuse in Chinese workplaces.
Go to the American Embassy!! Fast!!
What you suffered was abuse from the Chinese you were dealing with from your workplace up to the police! It appears that the police are intimidating you because you’ve spoken out about their encouragement of racist acts against you! Girl, relocate to another country if you want to keep your sanity!
Please go and report this to the US embassy
i'm so sorry this happened to you. many fb groups have a feature that allows you to post anonymously...or join and post under an alias. other teachers should know to avoid this school/company. praying for your recovery.
@@Rickolsen247 why would the US embassy care , she is Sth African
Please leave immediately. You are not safe. They could blame you. Dear God this is insane. You could be jailed. There is no justice in that country.
I agree, but it is NOT that easy!
Exactly. He could say she assaulted him and then she’d go to jail. It’s not worth it trying to live in countries where at the end of the day we are not welcomed.
Don't you worry , she isn't in China
You dont need to be sinophobic to make your point.
@@candycandypopopit's not sinophobia though in China they prioritize their own, and it's less likely that she'd get justice.
I read that shes now safe in Germany. Glad she exited China safely. Sending you lots of love and healing from this traumatic experience 💖
Safe in Germany 🤣🤣🤣she went from one racist country to the next.
@@tbryant9765 she's safer in Germany, that's for sure
@@tbryant9765a black woman is killed every two to three hours by a black male in her origin of S. Africa according to the femicide stats. I can assure you she's better off in Germany. Priorities.
Thank God 🙏🏾
@@tbryant9765she came from a racist place, went to another and is now moving to another. Her skin will never allow her to catch a break.
I believe you 100% I have heard and seen this happen many times in China
Hope you talk about this on your channel.
Please talk about it in your Chanel
I was telling someone about your channel. How you expose what happens in that country. 👍🏾 keep it up
This happens in the middle east too!!!! Dubai!! UAE!! They confiscate your visas!! Trap you there so you keep working for them!! Lots of Indian and African workers trapped there!! People complain about America, but the working conditions overseas is by far worse!!! I'm an immigrant, so I know. I'm grateful to be living in America, because workers rights don't really exist in other countries. Again, not saying American is perfect.
If they can abuse our fellow africans here on out motherland they won't be nice to our brothers and sister in their country. I've seen countless stories and videos of chinese treating our people unfairly. Pure evil
China's normalized lack of empathy for their citizens has always terrified me
That includes bullying as well. I have been advocating for both African individuals, Asian individuals and other individuals who have been subjected to racial bullying. And attempting to steal lands, or even countries that aren’t theirs. Countries they’ve attempted to steal some properties from: Vietnam 🇻🇳, Taiwan 🇹🇼, Philippines 🇵🇭, India 🇮🇳 , Malaysia 🇲🇾 and so much more. My boyfriend is Filipino, and I have other friends who are either Filipino or have studied there. I have heard similar stories from them where individuals of mixed Chinese heritage would intimidate anyone who does not share the same ethnic background as them. If someone’s pure Filipino or pure Indian for example, they’ll be bullied due to not having a half or pure Chinese blood. And take note that this occurred during the early 2000’s even before social media. There should be a diverse group of individuals dedicated to combating racial harassment. Imagine being born with an ethnic background that isn’t even your choice, you were literally born as an innocent baby only to learn about different ethnicities from school when you grow older, but as a baby and a toddler you weren’t even aware and without your knowledge there are already people around the world hating on your county’s people, that means including yourself. Remember, China also has its diverse people, a mixture of good and evil, just like any other countries.
they're the country that most invests on their people lmfao, I think you mean the US government... bad people exist everywhere
Its zimbabwe 2.0
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Atheism in a nutshell. why would you care about others when you can get away with it?
This lady has been bullied sexually assaulted physically assaulted emotionally and psychological abused while travelling in these places. This is traumatising to see
Sexually assaulted? Where did she mention this I think you are just exaggerating now
@@yandisafebana9830 They're referring to one of her other videos on her channel.
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Have you seen her other videos?
@@yandisafebana9830I think it was on a train or something. It's on her channel.
@@yandisafebana9830 nah she was. Just not in _this_ video. Her journey around Asia has been terrible. 😢
I lived in China for close to 6 years and almost all of my Chinese employers have scammed me and haven’t paid me my last month’s salary when I wanted to leave. This has happened to all of my foreigner friends too. My last employer put wrong fake accusations on me just so that they would have a reason to not pay me for my hard work.
Changing many jobs in less than 6 years says a lot tho...
@@jimbotron70 If they are foreign and especially teaching like this it's contracts which leaves you even more vulnerable. 'Regular' jobs are not available.
Are stories like these that make me never want to go tô China, not even for traveling. They are (almost all the time) so hostile towards foreigners, and even with people from their own race.
@@jimbotron70 No, it doesn't. It says that maybe the work was project base or that the employers were so bad he had to run away. I worked in 7 companies in just 1 year. I had a job where I stood only for 2 weeks. I had a job where, after 10 hours per day I could only finish half of the work load for one day. Thank god I work now in a company whose employer pays me decently, doesn't work me to death and appreciates my work. I have been working here for 6 years. Stop judging people and their decisions.
This happens is SE Asia too. I know ppl who are locals and don't get paid after 1 month's work. When they show up at work & are due to be paid on the day, they arrive to find the work place closed down & the boss left town and is uncontactable. This is quite common.
The way abuse is so normalized in China, towards people and animals, is unacceptable. That is awful and I am so sorry you experienced this.
hey, I am Chinese, if I were there I would help the girl, if I die helping her I believe my father will be proud of having a brave daughter.
do u know how many animals are slaughtered in west so that u can eat them?
@@Utubeisevil I am vegan, so I am very aware of the absolute horrific abuse farm animals face within factory farms in the west.
However China takes this to whole new level. The casual abuse towards animals I saw over there is traumatizing to witness and nothing like what I've seen in the west.
@@UtubeisevilNot only for food consumption but clothing too. Especially the latter is equally cruel than elsewhere. These people and their double standards are so basic.
In Soweto, you would get shot
It is jaw-dropping to me that anyone might think that this is even remotely appropriate anywhere. That is absolutely insane. I am so sorry you had to go through that. That HR manager is something awful.
This happens everywhere...
Girls dont only live in starbucks and beverly Hills 😂
Get outside your cul de sac and learn.
Hope this girl finds peace.
@@bobbov8277I have had abusive bosses before. I am aware this happens everywhere. And it shouldn't happen anywhere. I don't have any reason to believe the Chinese or any better or worse about this. I couldn't say. I couldn't tell you what Chinese law says about this situation. But regardless, worldwide I think every single country in the world ought to have protections for workers against this kind of behavior. It should not be permitted anywhere. It should not be done anywhere.
There are countries where actions have consequences. Run your mouth and find out. It's that simple. Plus there are always two sides of a story. Women think, they can hit men and nothing happens to them. Well that one obviously got a reality check.
@@hotshot6674Why do you think she must have done something to deserve getting punched?
@@bobbov8277 everywhere??? I live in Brazil, one of the most violent countries in the world, specially against women, but be sure we don't see HR managers punching female employees and getting away with it that easy!
I’m a Chinese person from China and I am so sorry that this happened to you in my country. I know I can’t apologize for the Chinese people who did this to you. I cannot pretend that I can in any way speak for them or undo their hate. It saddens me everyday how racists and xenophobic and frankly overtly fascist this culture has become. I really wish that you can have a better life away from that horrible environment.
Your language is wonderful and culture can be also, minus some aspects like spitting the food under the table or spitting ..But those bad habits are universal to human nature, no one is to judge. Your country is learning English and we from the West are learning Chinese. Hopefully, one day our worlds meet. And same for all nations in the world, hopefully, one day we are one and the same. "Imagine all of people living life in peace"
You should help her, she is alone and she doesnt feel safe i suppose. help her please
@@avab4035that has nothing to do with anything he said
@@exploretheearth7818Sadly as an ordinary person one’s ability to send proper help is limited. The police won’t respond and the online rhetoric towards black people in China won’t help her either. It would be best for her to leave the country tbh but that may not be a choice for her.
you re a very sweet person.......
To those who have asked me to contact my embassy, I did. They were the first number I called when this happened but sadly they don't even have an emergency number, so I wasn't able to get hold of them that day and when I finally did, they told me they would call me back and never did.
Edgar (a famous lawyer in China) knows about what happened to me, I won't even get into that part.
Yes, there are two sides in every story but I can only share mine; feel free to reach out to the kindergarten for theirs because I'd love to hear it it too.
I am okay and I am safe.
I realise that unless you're a US citizen, embassies do not care about you. They only care about the money they make from doing business with China.
Name and shame the school. Future candidates need to be protected
Hi Nolu make contact to the EFF let Julius Malema & the EFF dear with them. Am not an EFF member but i feel like he would not let something like this go slightly.
Very sad,chinese are having a good time in South Africa and treating our own so badly.Let this be known worldwide,let this video trend on all social media platforms and let our dear sister come back safe.And very true let this come to the attention of EFF.
I won’t believe she’s safe until I see her on video again
@Stephanie Perry, who travels the world, said China is one of the worst countries for Black women to travel to. I believed her then from my own experience at a layover in China, but this story puts the nail in the coffin for me. Please leave that country as soon as possible. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
Then they cry about the anti-Asian attacks in this country. The media won't cover this, however.
You need to leave yesterday, you will not get government support there. And these employers know it.
My brother lived in China for 5 years in his late 20s and got bullied, jumped and treated soooo bad. The trauma he endured is so upsetting to think about.
Honestly, not just foreigners in china. They don’t give a crap about there own people it seems to at times. I have seen numerous videos of women being beat up and dragged in public by men and no one does a damn thing. Like just pretend they don’t see it. Citizens of china are not even allowed to vote. Only those in higher power. Nothing personally against china. Cause I’m actually part Chinese. But it’s messed up. I’m sorry for your experience. I hope you find ease. No one should go through this.
The Chinese are very aggressive towards females sadly
I remember how cruel they were to African immigrants during Covid. I’m not condemning all Chinese folks, but I also can’t act like I haven’t heard REPEAT stories of racism from there. I hope you are safe and heal soon. Sending love ♥️🙏🏻
Chinese were treated horribly in the States during COVID. Thats never discussed
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It’s happens to everyone that is a foreigner to any country that’s life.
@@joshwongwai3532china is probably the most terrible to foreigners as someone who’s been to Hong Kong, even the ones who try to help them like her smh and educator of children
Yes, so never ever talk about. Never point it out when you see it@@joshwongwai3532
My sister is in China, and she said every time she enters a class, the students always call her ugly to her face, they call her monkey and so many disgusting names. It's sad, that Chinese people are so racist to blacks. Recently her friend was found dead in the room beaten. No one knows, no one cares I have been begging her to come back, she is about to finish what she went there for. So sorry you had to go through that.
Jesus 😢
Wtf there r black ppl in my uni in Pakistan and no one even dares treat a foreigner badly they even treat them better like in the library their section always had better AC and the staff makes sure while the rest of us could be dying in heat on the other section the library is like five floors and stuff girls would be curious and stuff but it just proves being more literate doesn't mean a better behaviour like I would assume Chinese ppl would be better
How can they get away with beating someone ??
What pushes black people to visit, or worst work, in countries like China or India...it's beyond me, no amount of money is worth the risk
@@aena5995student experiences aren’t the same as worker experiences. Most international students are given better facilities, etc. Governments as a whole want foreigners to visit and migrate. China needs to do better to protect foreigners. Especially women.
Why would she even go to a racist country like that anyway
I’m so sorry this happened to you. Unfortunately that’s the negative side of Chinese culture, bearing false witness and hitting employees. As a child I always wanted to visit China but now that I’m older and seeing so many similar stories, I don’t think it’s safe for foreigners to visit mainland China whatsoever.
YES, IF YOU DON'T GET HIT, YOU'LL CONTRACT A VIRUS!
I think the same... I hope more people watch this video...
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YOU tell US ...🙄
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Nowhere is safe then
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Ok, Karen
This is terrible! I’m so sorry this happened. Assault in a kindergarten school by an HR manager? I’m shocked and appalled. On top of it all, they have what sounds like sanctioned controls to blacklist you from making a living? Where are the victim’s rights? Who cares if she is a citizen or not? She is an HUMAN BEING!!!
I mean, this is China.
@@RT-zn9bjright she probably did something to piss them off
@@Jatramain naw that’s not what I mean, I just mean that China is not known for “victims rights” or “citizenry” or any other human rights that America has. To go there expecting to be treated with respect and fairness, you’re delusional
What a shocker. Really thinking that the yellow man is going to be nicer than the white man.
@@lv1543Yeah. And look out for the red man. They can't be trusted either. And that brown man is mean AF. Like those blue men. Though not as mean as the green man. Or The Greys. Them and their cookbooks.
Those polka dot men are the worst. Them and their freakin' polka dots.
The absolute worst though are the invisible men. They're The Worst of the Worst. But, at least you can see right through them
I'm so disgusted at how people can treat their employees like this. He deserves to be sent to court for assault.
I'm so sorry Nolu. As a black woman I have worked in several Asian countries and China was the most challenging at so many levels. I agree with @senzelongema4022 's comment, there are safer and and more enjoyable countries in the region, Taiwan being one of my favorites. Please don't underestimate the risks of talking while being there, it won't bring you justice and your safety and wellbeing are the most important. ❤🙏🏽
Taiwan will be under Chinese rule so maybe not lol
For me Thailand is the best but this is so sad 😢no one deserves to be treated like that
@@21KikoshiChinese and Taiwanese are not the same. I’ve taught both, they don’t even get along most of the time. You clearly don’t know
@@21Kikoshi Facts, speaking up has consequences, China is very tight in keeping up a appearances
Did you know that China wants to take Taiwan back by 2027?@@siyancede5241
My heart goes out to you. Good for you for refusing to accept this quietly. I don’t know how entrenched your life is in China, but maybe this is a signal to take your skills elsewhere. China’s loss, your gain. Thank you for your video! To everyone: don’t let workplace corruption and abusive corporate cultures normalize mistreatment in your own mind. You deserve basic respect.
This is the cost of integration. Cultural changes and tentative acceptance of immigrants take two generations, maybe more. The individuals who go forth first into a new culture take on a heavy price unless they are fortified with other traits that allow them to overcome the bias, discrimination, and abuse by the indigenous population. If that price is too high, then she should get out of that situation. Learn karate or some other martial art/ self defense if you want to stay.
Her skills are needed in her homeland
@@javierstaffanell3519This is the woke world we all choose to live while in covid. That, was the whole reasom of covid era: to build a sla e society, convinced that we all now live in a better world. Its not. Its a worse world, ruled by the demons that slipped through your heads in the last decade, and now they have woke laws on their side to protect themselves from us.
This is getting too convenient. The man was humming a tune as he chased her? Pull the other one. Her Korean name is very fishy.
@@javierstaffanell3519 its not discrimination: its the rules of a culture. Usually, weak people who wishes others to meet their demands, create social constructs to try and take advantage of ethical guilt over traditions. A good example is that no liberal socialist demands good working conditons on narco cartels (and liberal socialists love narco cartels)
Wow. I don’t even want to think about what might have happened if that guard had not accidentally let you out. I’m glad you found that helpful Chinese girl that spoke English. And I’m glad you’re safe and you were able to get your things back.
This incident is disturbing and heartbreaking on so many levels. I’m so sorry this happened to you! Thank you for heroically sharing your story.
Please report this company to the Embassy.
Hey Nolu, just saw you on the South African news. We spread this video and made sure the nation saw it. Thank you for being so brave. I hope there is Justice for you and that the Chinese government does something about it 💕🙌 They forget the HIGH number of Chinese people who reside in South Africa peaceful. Imagine if they were treated poorly, it wouldn't be nice at all.
Malema wanting to shoot Whites?
Yebo
Thank GOD
File it in the folder marked; Operation Dudula.
My son was head of two schools in China. Before becoming head he saw many very young children hit, slapped and punched by teachers. First thing he did was to stop that from happening. He was once slapped by a nurse in hospital but he just laughed in her face. He saw some terrible things but because he was British he was treated much better than some. Chinese people are very colour conscious, so what you have said is no surprise. My son left after 7 years and will never return.
7 years is a long time
I don't know about you, she surely has her reason/reward for her fake story...
If the nurse slapped me I would still be in jail and the nurse would still have a head and neck that sat crooked on her shoulders.
Hmmmm I believe her. I suffered some abuse from Chinese twice. One from a group of parents who attacked me for subbing a white teachers class and another was when a co- teacher sent her husband to verbally abuse me at my workplace after a misunderstanding with class schedules.
Oh yes discipline in China is for example taught by hitting them so they won’t become criminals in the future or rebels. They don’t see it as abuse, but as discipline. Or else you get teens like in London lol.
Get in touch with your embassy and report this. If you’re still in China, LEAVE, PLEASE! They will make your life miserable or make you disappear hun! You’re brave and you deserve better. There are so many safe places that will appreciate what you have to offer. This is simply disgusting!
Great idea. She should get in touch and report this incident to her embassy. She should seek protection there
The embassy didn't even bother gett8ng back to her!!! They are also useless!!! They should not call themselves an embassy!!!! It's an embarrassment!
@@wakiwama6348 Government employees like dragging their feet but this video helped. She's in another country now under the hands of the Ambassador there.
She should leave asap
@@noxzienocturnal4544what country?
The number of stories like this makes me think why do people even bother going to China to work.
I’m so sorry to hear about this .
Sending thoughts and prayers 🙏🏽.
I am also a South African teacher teaching in Asia.
I would definitely advise to expose the school and send your story to Carte Blanche or any South African news channel.
Many South Africans need to be aware of the treatment we face in Asia even as professionals.
This is not about SA, they treat every other African the same.
This is about Africans.
China specifically. China is an authoritarian dictatorship.
@@murphyochin6354This particular story is about a South African woman. Hence why this comment is talking about South Africa specifically.
@@siphelelesibisi6211 These people don't care about your nationality they treat you based on your skin color first.
This comment seems to be taken out of context.
How I understand it, Nolu needs to reach out to SA media ie. Carte Blanche (an investigative journalist programme) so we can reach out & learn from other Brown people living in these countries how life is like? Also call the SA Embassy to task, as she mentioned that she was told she would be contacted back which never happened, as per her comment. This could be an eye opener for many back home who seek opportunities in these countries...grass is not always greener.
Do not come for me, peace ✌out
As a black women who live in China for 4 years I’m so sorry this happened to you and truly pray your story continues to be amplified. China certainly has many issues with racism and issues of domestic violence are not taken seriously there either. It’s devastating and think that it is no longer an ideal place for foreigners to go.
*woman
@@phatplates i just sit back and laugh at all these goofy black beaches...🤣😂🤣
Horrible story ☹️😱
Would love to have you share your story on my podcast
@@phatplates I noticed Black people from the uk and north america in particular dont understand tribalism or care to understand it which is why they tend to het their feelings hurt when that reality presents itself. While their carribean and african counterparts understand and practice tribalsm like everyone else. Sometimes feelings gotta get hurt for people to learn
This hurts and bothers my spirit deeply. The helplessness I feel right along with you is almost unbearable because deep down I know justice will not be served. Please disclose this man’s name and the name of the school. I will gladly do my part to make cancel culture in America travel abroad. Im so enraged I’m shaking as I type this. Stay strong beautiful sister, you aren’t alone in this.
Y’all run your mouth too much, y’all get in trouble in Dubai, china and all over the world trying to find non black men. Y’all can’t do what passport bros do?
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Who Jah Bless
No man can Curse
@@Terry884nigga what are you talking about?
@@Terry884she went to china to Work... what are you even talking about?
@@Terry884nigga what??
There’s no justice in china , you shouldn’t have gone in the first place, I’m happy to learn that you are safe now
To all my black Africans who travel abroad, do not live in any country that isn’t your home country by yourself. Building a community is extremely important especially as women.
This also applies to Western countries.
No. Solve the root problem of why your people need to leave their countries for better opportunities. BW going with or without someone will not improve the situation for us if this happens again. The fact that her own embassy was useless highlights how they see her situation and exactly how much protection she would have if she were home. It also reflects their values that they bring with them to these countries. We get no respect as BP, and especially BW because in our home countries, we hate ourselves so much that we don't even protect each other. And I'm not about to argue this with anyone because our femicide rates, crime rates, education levels, living conditions, and overall corruption across the leadership of those countries would prove anyone trying to argue that our black home countries are safe, is full of it. Either we acknowledge the roots of our problems so we can progress, or her only options will remain taking the risk for a better life in another country, or going back home to the problems and life she left in the first place.
Terrible xenophobic borrow minded advice
@@almamater9346the patriarchs of black countries have miserably failed, therefore this is what happens to the women: exposed and unprotected smh
"Black Africans"... Just say Africans, the first humans came from Africa and were Black. The original Africans are black!..
Wtf? No. I deserve to travel to other places alone. Many blacks travel to non-home countries and come back fine.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Honestly, East Asians can be really racist towards other races with darker skin and this is no exception. Thank you for sharing your story on the internet, and I hope it can move you towards the proper justice that you deserve. It might sound backwards, but I would go to wherever you have a support system that can help you heal. If that's back home for you, there's no shame in going back, even just for now. Your health and wellbeing are most important. Rooting for you xx
Edit: I've started a war in the comments
There are racist people in every country including blacks being racist as well. Stop painting all east Asians to be one. majority are not and many who you think are racist are just curious.
@@temujinkhan6326What an idiotic take
@@temujinkhan6326 why did you have to highlight blacks being racist??? LMAO!!! sounds like you might be obsessed with us
@@temujinkhan6326 black people racist?????we are the most hospitable people on earth but don't worry this will change very soon. We won't continue entertaining disrespect
@@truthspeaker8863 I get it it's ok for black people to call other race racist but it's not ok for us to say the truth about black people especially those that are westernize being the most racist group of people... and thanks for agreeing that you are racist
I was in China on transit to Japan and a taxi pulled up, driver got out, customer got out, driver punched the customer in the face , right outside my hotel. So yep, this definitely happened how she said it did.
So anyone can tell any similar story and its true?😂 sounds more like South Africa
Lies 😂 every body got out driver ponch the passenger yep is true 😂
I don't condone violence but in both this story no one relates as to what triggered the punching making the whole thing one sided
@@thatokagisho1526 so...there's a valid reason for physically assaulting someone at work?🤷🏽♀️ Please clarify and let us know in what circumstances it's okay to punch someone for speaking out there mouth.
@@jacijune I never suggested that it's okay.If you going to tell us about what happened to you don't omit anything tell us every thing
Your courage is extraordinary. That person you describe is truly evil. Much love and luck to you in the future.
This is why I’ll never go to China. I’ve heard numerous stories of this even my tall white blonde friend who went to work in China experienced racism and people giving her disgusting looks. Please girl get out that country🙏You are so strong and beautiful and im so sorry you went through that. Absolutely traumatic and i would seek therapy that will help your healing process.
THEY SOUND LIKE A JEALOUS PEOPLE.
@@margielopez9741 Because they are and in Asian culture there’s alot of neglecting emotions Imo which causes problems with how they handle people. They are also very racist and xenophobic because there’s little to none diversity so they treat foreigners as less and look out for eachother in the wrong way. Maybe Japan and Korea I’ll visit but never live in those places .. I come from culture that’s warm, lively, sociable and welcoming to others so it wouldn’t suit me.
This is horrible. It’s sad because I see some try to emulate white tall blonde girls
@@truthhurtsohwell05So you thought that's how most of them felt?
@@molahi5779yup because we do, Im Chinese and hear a lot of girls wish they were born with European features, I mean even the “Asian” makeup styles feature colored contacts so it’s pretty obvious how highly they hold European features.
I think it's amazing how you defended yourself and stood up to the HR manager and other staff. And also that you have made this video despite the threats. But I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's incredible that someone in a caring profession could be so aggressive and violent, over a normal HR dispute. It seems so unstable and insane. Sexism and racism clearly coincide here. I've read that you are now safe - I wish you lots of peace and healing wherever you are.
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This happens in South Africa too which is why she fled from there
How do you know it's sexism and racism?
@@lavish_1717Exactly!!!
the south african embassy in china MUST HELP YOU... the embassy employees are living off our tax money
Unfortunately the embassy is beyound useless!!!
Black male 'leaders' do not care about black women even in their own territory. We should support each other and push for protection just like we did for BLM.
African embassies are just getting paid here and do nothing for their people
I live in korea and lol the South African embassy will do nothing for south african expats. Covid proved that. You’re on your own
SA embassy is useless everywhere. My sister and I were victimised in Mauritius and they did nothing but told us that “oh these pipul do dis all de time to Africans. Dey denied a family access when dey were supposed to attend their child’s graduation.” That was the end of it. SA government officials are useless everywhere.
I hope this video goes viral so people know and condemn those people who hurt and onlookers who didn’t do anything! 😡
Im sorry to hear that. Im Korean. I was a teacher at Hakwon. I was abused emotionally by my boss so I quit the job. I have moved to Germany for better labor law protection. I'm done with it. Korea might be one of the worst countries in the world for a worker. But I'm sorry sis to say this. You have moved to the worst place from a bad place. China is not a decent country to live in and work for. Get out of there as soon as possible. Plz
I thought Korea was only bad for foreigners. I’m glad you left that environment.
@fancyleelee1992 we are treated more harshly than foreigners. But we koreans are used to it so long. And Hakwon is a really bad place to work. The bosses have incredibly toxic mindset. They have terribly harsh tough characters ever you can meet in Korea. Plz whoever read my comment. Plz don't work at hakwon. They are bad business people to treat you like an animal. I want to be a human. That is why I left. There was no hope for me in Korea.
Its still not as bad as china. If you report something in korea, it will be dealt with. But china is an authoritarian dictatorship. Their police will never support foreign victims.
@@user-mb5xu3oq8l the first Hawon I worked at had an amazing boss. I worked for 3 years but I needed change. The 2nd one had a boss from hell.
@@user-mb5xu3oq8lwhich Korea thought south is 1 of advanced country in the world, if it's North please elaborate is it true what we see on docs about north Korea.
My first thoughts were to say you're brave for sharing this video, but you shouldn't even have to make a video like this because something like this shouldn't have happened to you, period. It's despicable because they know that the system is in their favor and they can simply get away with it. Don't feel bad about settling. Hoping your story is heard far and wide.
From experience, as a Chinese American woman who was raised by Chinese parents, I can state that these situations are the norm in that society. Chinese men are more often abusive because they can get away from it. This behavior happens because the society protects abusers and the system defends abusers and horrible people in general. It's why the suicide rate is so high in China, especially amongst women. The men in that country see their abusing others as a "basic right".
I applaud you for this comment. Do you think you’d feel free to make such a stand if you were in China?
She should! And every abuser SHOULD be exposed, every liar, every cheater. Why, are you siding with abusers? Chinese people are repressed and abused and the cycle continues because there is NO change
Unfortunately she probably couldn’t EVEN have the right to freedom if speech, a basic human right. They are repressed. Why do you think millions upon millions have immigrated over the years??
🌟 To have a life more freedom. Take a stand against abuse, for this generation and the next. 🦋
No excuse for abuse! 🫶🏼
@@i-6820 Actually, getting accurate answers from people in China is like that. If you could get the person to meet up where nobody is listening and they feel safe, they would tell you the truth. Chinese society has been patriarchal for 5000 years, and that never changed even when the Communists took over. Men over there are probably not the kind of people that you want to hang around if you don't know them too well, because domestic abuse in China is rampant. Many of the women in that society also participate in the patriarchy for privileges, so you kind of are going to have to filter people very carefully if you go over there. Also, if you are a kindergarten teacher, I suggest that you go to the public schools instead. Private schools make it extra hard for abuse to be recognized, because the school owns the cameras and could cover up for their abusive teachers and parents.
@@sopluv149 I'm not siding with the abusers. I'm merely pointing out what it's like over there. I grew up partly in China, so I can speak from experience on the society over there. My Chinese parents also set the standard as well. What they do isn't right, and I agree with that. However, please keep in mind that this is not widely known in China until very recently, because Chinese people only got access to the Internet in the last two decades. Your Western sensibility probably will seem out of place there, just so you know. I agree, it's not a good thing, but changing it to exactly the Western way of behavior isn't right either. There are just as many problems in the West with abuse as well.
As a black American, I would never travel to these east Asian countries. I already know how they feel about me when they come to MY country. This is digusting! He could have killed her and gotten away with it.
Nah its China and India mainly. Thailand is cool. Philipines is cool. Cambodia is cool.
@@LibraYall then why so many blacks are there in india
they are free to leave
as a Chinese person I'm SO sorry you had this experience, I hope you are able to receive justice and that you heal physically, emotionally and mentally. sending you love and solidarity
Justice in China as a black person? Come on nah!! That's why they spit on each other in order to not hit people and go to jail or get sued. I know they dont like blacks.
I think people like you should raise your voice and speak against it in your country, wishing won't put an end to it
No he can't... they only know how to apologize online. Racists individual, it flow in the bloodstream
If you’re so sorry, why don’t you publicly condemn this behavior and expose your people so things will change. Start an online petition, make it go viral. Do something!
If you are really sorry, then why don’t you make your work against this in your country? I’m tired of people justifying Chinese hate as a “cultural thing”.
This infuriates me! I am so tired of stories of our black women feeling unprotected, abused , and neglected, I am tired of them being assaulted and disrespected by us as black men , and we set the standard on how their races should treat them. This story breaks my heart! This is not ok, it’s time we stand up as a people and MAKE the rest of the world value our women and honor them by showing how we value and honor them ! I am so sorry this happened to you , and he needs to be punched in his eye ! 👊🏾
If you watch videos from other black people in China you’d know that this is the way that many if not most mainland Chinese treat black people. I don’t understand you’re trying to black men for something that a Chinese boss did in China. Bm had nothing to do with this. We have zero influence over Chinese media. If you want to blame someone other than racist Chinese for this then black western media for teaching simple minded people to hate based on race, gender, religion and or sexual orientation, ethnicity or nationality but please don’t drag others who had nothing to do with this into it.
@@room920renalforlife because we teach others how to treat our women by the we treat our women , or the lack of protection we provide as men. I don’t minimize what to going on in China but this has happen throughout history all over the world . Because people believe our women our unprotected
@mr.jeffry6357 So she's in a foreign country with different cultural norms, and you want to blame black men for how an Asian man treated her? Wow, that's a stretch. Smh...
@@millzhale4223 reading is fundamental lol
@@millzhale4223it's not a stretch. Try to think. Why would nobody hit a white woman or an indian woman? Why??
How many other cultures are proud to claim they don't date their own women?
You’re so brave ! I’m glad you made it out okay, never go back to that toxic environment please. The fact they’re trying to blacklist and silence you should be a damn crime and shows their guilt, screw them
China being China
watch the rest of her videos. Complaining and whingeing about everything including how she'll never go back to her home country, Korea and now China. She seems to love the drama, attention and sympathy. In her last clickbait title attention video, she called China the worst place and then she spent the entire 25 minute video complaining about quarantine hotel which was normal and looked like what we had in Australia. She also seemed to be hiding the fact she might have had covid when entering China even knowing how seriously China takes it there considering all the deaths and impact on the country which just seems so selfish. Negative vibes everywhere in all her videos. Seen many Africans having a great time in China e.g. Rose in China and others.
Those who've travelled outside their own basement and travel the world and actually been or lived there will actually see it's not how western propaganda likes to paint it for political purposes. I know having coming from a western country used to hate China based off tv and then when I travelled, it was so different to how America and the West like to portray it. It's actually a very friendly and safe country compared to the US.
@@vanessaland5090 Be Careful With Your Words!
Exactly.
I am worried for her safety, Just being in China is not safe for her as it seems, I hope - as she has moved from one other country to work from South Africa to South Korea to China. That she will move on to the next.
(You're not safe there sweetheart.
They can do anything they want to do to you. Rings to mind Otto Warmbier, in N Korea).
@@vanessaland5090she got punched in the face for crying out loud what are you an animal?
Oh my goodness…what a horrible experience. I am so sorry you were treated so despicably. May you find a safe and peaceful place to heal and recuperate. Love and hugs ❤
OMG that's crazy. WTF. I'm Chinese but overseas. You should continue to press charges by finding a lawyer. Also, leave reviews so nobody would ever want to work at that school again. Contact your embassy as well. I'm so sorry that happened to you. See you like that was very hard to watch and was heartbreaking.
Edit: If you tell your embassy they're going to think twice before doing anything. Don't let those bastards get away with it. Also, please post the contact of that school and dox them. I've also asked my wife if she knows a lawyer so if you're interested please reach out.
笑死我了😂😂😂😂。
你什么人啊！
Embassy??? The Chinese have everyone in their pocket when it comes to govt. officials
@user-bn6qy8xo2n are you the one that punch her in her face because you are trolling hard.
They will force her to leave before getting her justice, she just started working and without a work contract and with her being involved in a crime case even as victim ,china will be departing her,heard many cases like that ,and the one who punch probably knows that too
Hopefulltly is made viral
I’m so sorry to hear about your experience there. I’m Southeast Asian and I once had cousins that went to teach English in China. It was for the experience and opportunity to travel. They weren’t treated very well either. They were discriminated on many levels because they don’t speak Chinese and their pay was also much lower than a Caucasia person. The district sees Caucasia as more experience just because they’re Caucasia. They’re judgmental, tunnel vision, and stereotypical people there. I’m not hating on any person of specific ethnic group, but these sort of abuses needs to stop. They need to respect the people they hire because they needed a person of experience to fill in that position. Nobody goes in to fill an application to be a punching bag. Guarantee, if you fought back and turned the tables. He would be quick to prosecute you. It’s disgusting.
Yes , they are tunnel vision .
Not just in china even in southeast asian like indonesia. White people are paid much more higher than the local one, people treated them more nicely
Nothing "disgusting" about it .
Getting lower pay in comparison to the Whites is unfair but never "disgusting" .
@@peekaboopeekaboo1165it is disgusting how they treat people I fairly and like punching bags which I’m sure is what op meant by disgusting
Fix your home stop running 🏃🏾♀️
Going up against the Chinese State takes insane courage, thank you for sharing your story regardless! I am so so sorry this happened to you. Hope you can see the thousands of us worldwide that see, hear and stand with you.
Have you been or just basing this off your westernised political propaganda. Look at her other videos, she complains about everywhere she goes, including how she'll never return to her home country, Korea and now China.
In her last clickbait title attention video she called China the worst place and then spent the whole 25 minute video complaining about quarantine hotel which was normal and looked like what we had in Australia. She also seemed to be hiding the fact she might have had covid when entering China even knowing how seriously China takes it there considering all the deaths and impact on the country which just seems so selfish.
In all her videos she seem to love the attention and drama and sympathy. Negative vibes everywhere. Seen many Africans having a great time in China e.g. Rose in China and others. Those who've travelled beyond their propaganda bubble and travel the world and actually been or lived there will actually find China is very friendly and safe- many are reserved at first though until they get to know you because those who haven't had an international education don't know what to expect from you- but you'll see it's not how western propaganda likes to paint it for political purposes. Go travel and see it for yourself instead of relying on political US propaganda.
This is ths local juristiction but yes it takes incredible courage. Especially with her line of work in that country at risk.
It's a kindergarten bro, take it easy
@@komit66 it's not the kindergarten, but also the local police. If a law enforcement officer is acting as they did with her, it's because they know that they can do it without running into problems for refusing to bring the case to the civil court.
@@komit66Are you slow?
That is so disgusting. It’s unbelievable how unprofessional and immature your employer was. I hope he not only loses his job, but also loses any other chance of regaining another position of authority. I 100% believe your story and it’s unbelievable how people who are supposed to help don’t. I hope things get better and you find a job where you feel safe and supportive
A teacher...a kindergarten teacher, a woman, a human. I cannot fathom how inhumane this is. I hope you get the best from this situation, whatever it may be. I cannot imagine how you feel and how this may make others feel. You have more people than you know that support you, and they far outweigh the people who do not. I hope this video reaches millions of people. Please if you need our support with anything, let us be here for you during this if we can.
You arr taking this person's word as the truth. That's a very naive thing to do.
@@olliefoxx7165I’ve heard so many horror stories from folks there I have no reason to doubt her. They have nets outside factories so the employees don’t jump. Bffr
I'm so sorry this happened to you! It's truly unbelievable - what a coward! Let's make this go viral, y'all, and let the world see what has happened to Nolu.
And that will do what????
Create awareness! The opposite of what the person who did this to her want…
It's China, there is nothing unbelievable about it.
Why don't u do it for Nolu? And maybe go round the world to seek all those that have done wrong to others and seek justice on their behalfs. Don't just suggest and talk only. Just a reminder : get the fact right first before u do anything.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. As a native Chinese myself I'm so disgusted by what has happened, nobody should EVER experience this. Sending you lots of love and healing ❤❤❤
Do they care when they shove As ians on to train tracks in Amer ican cities ? Do they hold their own accountable ?
Edit: Were you the guy who put his hands on her ? When bp are claiming under they have nothing to do with bp that hurt As ians, then why are you apologizing when you had nothing to do with the guy that hurt the lady in the video ?
@@lavish_1717The people who committed hate crimes against Asians were more commonly white by the way. That’s according to the stats. But if you want to focus on a few highly publicized incidents of the same freaking person in order to divide people, knock yourself out.
It’s so good of you to stand up for her and against the crimes that happen and happened to this beautiful caring person!! I applaud you
@@lavish_1717you aren’t wrong for your prospective but it’s not appropriate to voice that in this forum when this is a victim.
@@lavish_1717African Americans are not the same as native Africans. Lol. Two different nationalities. We have a lot of problems with them shooting unarmed black people anyway. Nobody is right. All violence is wrong.
I am so very sorry this happened to you. China has a long history of this kind of bullying, and there is so much corruption that a single individual has little chance against them. Your race should have no baring in this situation. This was wrong. Period.
My sister went to teach English in China. She was supposed to go to one school but was sent to another when she showed up because she wasn't white. Her stay lasted less than 48 hours. She called me crying wanting to come home after not feeling safe.
Yeh it sucks. They take their education seriously so imagine paying heaps to send your kid to say a french class and then a chinese person shows up trying to teach french. parents wouldn't be happy. doesn't mean it's right, just first impression.
The problems of being overseas as a South African. I've seen it all. The South African embassy is useless everywhere I have traveled to. I am so sorry my little sister, be strong. Keep traveling and expanding your mind and experiences. You are so brave. Horrible things have happened to South African women including myself. Remember a lot of people still hold the notion that African women are nothing and they will do everything to deny you of what other race groups have access to. Hold your head up high and do what you are good at. A lawyer in the USA told me to go back home after a crime was committed against me. I stayed and fought.
Black and brown women as a whole 😢
@@queenofthenile8090idk y she left south africa. Black specifically bantu get special privileges
@@queenofthenile8090 more like as long as you're pretty. smh. morales are degrading day by day.
As a White person who has Been supressed my entire life. Living with systemic cultural racism from africans who are the most violent race of humans known to man. I feel sad and discusted she only Choses to speak up when its other races but her own!
Very sorry sister. I’ve noticed something, truly it is unnecessarily tough for black men and women being outside our countries living in other places. As a race let’s all join together and fight these problems peacefully, hand in hand. United we stand, divided we fall. ✊🏾
I'm so sorry this happened to you. This is why I (an American) never worked overseas after researching it and am even nervous about visiting lots of places. When you are a foreigner, you're in a vulnerable position to be abused, taken advantage of, falsely accused or imprisoned according to their laws, etc. There are ENDLESS stories online of people experiencing these exact things. This is sickening, you did NOT deserve it, and I really advise others to do your research and exercise extreme caution/avoid working overseas if able. Even in America, foreigners who come to work here are often abused and exploited due to their status. This happens so much
A lot of South Africans leave because of high unemployment rates and a plummeting economy. If opportunities were available a lot would stay. It's different in a third world country where you don't have as much opportunity available to you as in the west. So people go looking for greener pastures but it's not always that way.
I hear what you are saying to be cautious. It is not all places abroad. In the UK, a British can not just punch you without consequences. It doesn't matter whether you are a foreign or not. In America, the Americans are dying due to their guns, and some third world country crime is reported, and nothing happens due to corruption.
We know China and Russia, especially as a Black person you should be weary working there.
It happened in Usa too
True.
But just choose the country wisely, there are good countries.
That’s unfortunate. You probably should stop watching tv and get off socials.
I, a black female lived in Gibraltar, Spain, Thailand, Malaysia and Cambodia. I only travel solo, that’s how I feel safest.
My brother loved in China (5 years), Japan (4), and now Singapore.
I have no horror story to share and absolutely LOVED everywhere I lived- I’m now in Australia.
Carry good energy and follow ur intuition. Stay to yourself when you’re in low frequency modes.
Eat well, read inspiring/ enlightening books, meditate, listen to vibey music, and entertain good conversations…… especially if you’re easily effected when u hear stories like this.
Know yourself.
Guard your energy.
Highest & best wishes xx
I know this is late but this video just popped up in my recommendation and this broke my heart. I'm so sorry this happened to you, Sis ❤
I can tell you're a much stronger person than me though because I would have frozen and not have had the dexterity to run like you.
I hope you are safe and in a better place now 🙏
I’m Chinese American and am sorry to hear about what happened to you. I’ve worked with some Chinese managers in the state and the most extreme would be getting yelled at instead of getting assaulted. As far as mainland China, I imagine being assaulted is going to be common. If you have the means to leave or come home, please do so. It’s not going to be an easy battle or win over there as many of the businesses are owned by their Gov and will take their side over you.
Many people are jumping to the conclusion it happened because she is black. Do you think its a factor?
Countryside vs city is a big factor. Where did this take place?
@@bunjijumper5345 Yes
@@bunjijumper5345It's not a jump. China's involvement with organ harvesting and the kidnapping of people that are "black" is a real black market international business.
@@bunjijumper5345yes actually it’s a very big factor GOOGLE how Chinese higher ups treat black Americans. check the cases!
The English school industry in Asia has countless stories like this. They insist on hiring foreigners to teach English but then treat them atrociously. I was in South Korea in 2015 and was also bullied out of my job because I have a disability so I understand your experience on a personal level. Finding yourself in this situation in a foreign country is terrifying, especially when your visa is tied to your job. It puts you in a really vulnerable position. I also witnessed evidence of racist attitudes as well and heard other teachers experiences with regards to contracts being manipulated and controlling and bullying behaviour from employers. Even the people who don't have any issues still admit the gig is a tough one due to the toxic work culture and they endure it mostly because they need the money, work experience etc...
How about Japan? JP is not hitting teachers 🎉
@@harekokeel1937 yeah but sa is common for female English teachers :/
This is horrific!!!! Get out of that country ASAP. They closed ranks to hide violent, misogynistic, and racist behaviour. You are a TREASURE and deserve to live where you are respected and safe. Literally any other place would be better. I'm sending you love and strength 💖💖💖
I support you,she must come back home period oooh child
1:12 That's just horrifying! As he is chasing you he's just humming 0-0
I have had bad experiences working with Chinese students just online, so I know what she is saying has to be true. I'm so sorry this happened. China is not safe for dark skinned people at all. There really needs to be an official travel advisory for us in regard to China.
Better than US. You can killed by Cops.
no advisory necessary. people need to stop depending on govt to do their thinking. Be responsible for yourself, all of the facts about China being an awful place to go *for anyone* are already out there.
Say what ⁉️
Black people are hated everywhere. When will we Africans learn that we are on our own? Our leaders have messed up the continent and we need to restore our dignity.
@@willdegra317 while I agree we shouldn't wait on the government and have common sense, I was thinking an official travel advisory would put China on notice that the Western world is watching. They won't stop being racist, but they do care to an extent when they have to try to explain their inhumane behaviors on the world stage. International attention for incidents like this might actually apply pressure since they have economic interest in Africa. This is all hypothetical of course, and I'm not an expert in diplomacy.
This is truly heartbreaking ,I hsve a daughter who's the same age as her and as a mother, I wouldn't want such a thing to happen to her......This guy needs to go to jail.Keep posting this video share it in all social media platforms 4:35 so that this young lady may get justice.Take heart young lady ......it shall be well🙏🙏😘
My eyes are filling with tears watching this. I am so sorry you went through this. I am enraged that so many women refused to help you in this situation when women should be sticking together. It sounds like they have done this before to be so organized about it. Black women deserve to be safe no matter where we are. Please stay safe my sister 🙏🏽🙏🏽
What's so organised? Have you seen her other videos? She doesn't even like South Africa.
Dont cry baby you are too beautiful for that
The day you leave or start disrespecting your natural protectors, that is the day you called for incidents like this. Black men want to protect y'all but the disrespect is too much. We will come up with something. Just keep pushing the video. Don't go nowhere without your natural covering and don't leave your natural covering
@@olaolu315wtf does that have to do with the video. Stfu, always want to start some internet war.
@vanessaland5090 the employees behaviours was organized, they had their backs and lied rather than care for justice and the truth, and this commenter i guess suspects that this instance wasnt the first time. maybe the other employees are afraid of being reprimanded or fired for not doing the will of the boss but it is not an excuse for the treatment of this woman
What a junkyard. I wish you a speedy recovery, and wish the worst on that guy and the people who remained silent. There is a reason that country is known to be racist/colorist. I hope you stay safe and best wishes💜
Sis, I hope you are posting this after you have already left that country. It’s horrific that this happened you 💔. From what I’m seeing those actions reflect their general attitude. Don’t work in China anymore. It’s their loss anyway.
You are loved ❤
You are precious ❤
You have a right to feel safety and security❤
You are to be respected ❤
This hurts I am sorry you went through this....
Racism,Xenophobia is pure wickedness
My sister was abused in China too. She went there in hopes of independently working and after a few weeks, asked my mom that she wants to go home. When we fetched her from the airport, she was crying - not due to sadness but happiness that she was safe. Her handlers were allegedly forcing her to stay, threatening her and of course I believe her, that was the first time I saw her cry.
So sad! What's your race btw?
why does that matte?? Rude. @@Tomiwa101
@@Tomiwa101 We are 75% chinese 25% filipino living in the Philippines, but the abuse wasn't racially motivated.
I've had a bad encounter at a mall in HK as a kid where full grown men took my arms and dragged me to their shop. It was my first "feeling" of how it feels like to be kidnapped, but they didn't force me to stay there, they literally just dragged me to their shop and spoke Cantonese which I do not understand.
@@sleepynightowl1550 He looked asian on his DP so I was wondering.
@@alcharvard6072 Oh, thanks. Was wondering.
Sorry about that.
That’s an extreme case, and I truly empathize with you! I’ve worked in Shanghai, Hangzhou, and other places. While I’m non-white, I never experienced anything like that. I was fortunate to work with amazing people, both locals and foreigners! The best thing you could have done-and I hope you did-was to report it to the police. I believe the reason your manager acted that way was because they were likely operating illegally and didn’t want you to go to the authorities. Hope you are doing well now, safe and away from all that chaos!
Sending you so so much love and hugs right now, and I am so sorry this has happened to you. I cried along with you, and wished that the women in this story would've stood up and defended you! To feel alone in a foreign country after having been assaulted and all your rights taken away from you is one of the worst things anyone can go through. I am so shocked and upset on your behalf. I truly hope you are okay and that someone somewhere is showing you kindness. May justice prevail xxx
I want you to understand that animosity between women is normalized in China. Very few fellow female employees would come together to oppose the authority figures because they are taught to think of each other as opponents fighting for the same resources. Plus they are afraid to jeopardize their own wellbeing and the financial stability of their families for a stranger. Sad.
@@k.c1126 sometimes I wonder if certain cultures or countries believe that God gave them only the ability to treat others with hate and cruelty. We all have that ability, we are human being. What if Africans began to treat their women like that, what will they say.. I think the solution with people treating our brothers and sisters with hate is going to be with punishment for them. Jungle justice. An eyes for an eye. whte,, yellow, brown or purple try that, We as people should respond accordingly. Enough with the disrespecte.
@@k.c1126 I understand. That makes sense
Im so sorry to hear about this. I think you should just leave. That place is not worth your sanity or your safety. Absolutely disgusting how no one did or said anything . That crazy man could have deleted you in his office and there would be ‘no evidence ‘ and ‘no witnesses’ Please go where you are wanted and where it is safe❤ sending hugs ❤
I'm so sorry this happened to you. You did not deserve any of this and I am so glad that you were able to get out of that situation and that you posted this video. I hope that justice is served and that you continue to be safe.
Sorry this happened to you. I am part Chinese but look mostly black , my Chinese half of my family, who for the most part have accepted me and my siblings, tell us it's better to remain in Jamaica than to come there to visit. At first we thought this was because they were ashamed of us but now, especially in light of this video, I think it's because they actually do care and know how we will be treated once we are there.
Wow I've done a lot of research about different countries and China is one I've never wanted to visit.
sounds like you dont talk to your family much, you should talk to them
Have you visited? Look at me social media videos are different to real experiences. Go look at Rose in China.
@@dreamysunset4720 Well then don't. They don't care to welcome ignorant racist people who can't be bothered to travel and think for themselves beyond western propaganda anyway.
I just hope you appreciate people in the west a lot more now. Especially white christians. We're the only ones who are nice to you, and you dare call our politeness "micro agressions"?
This felt like a horror movie! It is everyone’s nightmare! I’m so sorry you went through this.
It is drama
@@Sunshine-zi4nqas in?? You think she's lying or exaggerating? Those bruises on her eye and those tears are fake? 🤨
@@ItsNessaThoshe’s lying she did the same video about Korea.
@@dva5610where is it at can you please send to me if this is true?
@@dva5610which video did she get punched by her HR manager in Korea?
I'm from Germany, and I'm deeply saddened by what has happened to you. I can't imagine what you are possibly going through. Please try to talk to as many people (family and friends) as possible and don't isolate yourself. You are not alone, and hopefully, you will find a peaceful place soon. Acknowledge the trauma and work through it; don't sweep it under the carpet. God bless you. 🙏
That’s not a trauma. That was just a bad experience.
@@Celisar1assault is trauma. wtf are you on?
This needs to be more recognized. Your employers are LUCKY- based purely on your choices- that they arent made public. The shame and devastation. Thank you for sharing your experience, i hope you feel safe and protected now. Thank you. Hoping you peace and wellness ❤
Lady come out of that country!! There are a lot of ignorance and disrespect towards your skin colour. We have seen it in the COVID time. You have the responsibility of looking after yourself because no one will. Not your embassy or any public sector of the country you are in. When you see how others are treated, know it is you. All support to you.
Is there a way for you to leave China before this story gets spread widely? I’m concerned for your safety if they do end up getting backlash over this…. 😰
I’m so sorry you had to experience such an awful event.
Same here, try comeback home here and pursue that matter from South Africa, I'm hoping some legal experts see and are able to intervene and help you. They can't get away with it. I'm sorry for the trauma you've experienced.
Same thing I’m thinking🙏🏽
Yes, i’m thinking the same too. Please leave the country. I believe there are other (better) countries will welcome you with open arms.
You are right
She is long gone. She did a similar video in Korea. Then we later found out she was long gone from Korea. Makes for good youtube content. Which country is next?
I urge everyone who is interested in Chinese culture to visit Taiwan instead. I’ve had my share of experiences in both countries and can honestly say I’ve felt nothing but warmth and acceptance from the Taiwanese people. Although people of China are not all equal, I have a hard time with the rigid mentality of some, maybe influenced by political differences.
That is a good idea. I would also highly recommended Singapore. I lived there briefly. It is safe, the people are warm & friendly, and there is good diversity.
They’re all the same 🤣
I don’t know. I am in Taiwan and have been for years, but just five months ago, a boss flew into a rage and threatened to fire me. So, I put in my resignation. Then she threatened to sue me for quitting. I put in an inquiry to the labor board about the situation, but that took a week to process. In that week she thought I was staying, she stood there and mocked and insulted me every day, screaming at me for not being “cheerful.” Then the labor board called her. She got in trouble for not giving me a contract. When I went to leave (finally 😅), she told me “I have a contract for you now.” No thanks. Bye-bye. I found another better job in three days. 😂
Literally my 1st morning at the hotel in Taiwan while attempting to dine for breakfast...the whole dining hall stopped to adamantly tell me I couldn't enter. Other patrons. It's cuz I was Black & they were stunned. Finally a waitress when seeing me accompanied by my Korean pal guided us to a table. . People were pissed. (I also met some amazing Taiwanese folks). But anti-Blackness is def there too.
And Indonesian people too are very pleasant
Girl leave them Asian countries alone how many bad experiences do you have to go through to get that these people don’t like you.
Hate to break it to you but it's far worse in America and Europe lol. You act like we have good experiences in other places. You clearly haven't traveled much.
@@nylotusI can’t speak for these other countries but I wouldn’t say the US is worse. Employers aren’t generally allowed to behave this way and it normally ends very badly for them if they do. Cops in the US are generally horrible to black people but even then they can’t get away with it and both groups tend to stay away from each other anyways.
The US also has safe spaces, ethnic enclaves where different groups of people can find safety. Some cities are predominantly black with black police and black businesses and they tend to be safe for black people at least in regard to incidents of xenophobia and racism.
It pains me to say but the US may be one of the least racists places in the world. It’s a big mish mash of cultures and we’ve had to learn to get along. Online I do see people from other countries are more willing to say something racist but that may just be because they’ve never had to encounter/interact with other cultures and peoples for long periods of time.
Europe is also pretty diverse, so it wouldn’t surprise me if they were also mostly well behaved. That’s what happens when you go around building empires. You have to get along with the people you spent all that time trying to force into your empire. That’s what makes it an empire and not a kingdom. Empires absorb other cultures and countries.
All of this is just in comparison to for example Japan where there are literal laws that are targeted against foreigners. China isn’t Japan but considering it’s very similarly mono-ethnic (there's multiple ethnicities but in the sense that all those ethnicities are native to the region) I wouldn’t be surprised if the general attitude was to keep foreigners out or not interact with them. This all an over generalization but I do think it’s clear that the US is still a much better place for foreigners and immigrants.
LOL? @@nylotus
America still has freedom. A system. And justice. @@nylotus
@@nylotus how come u won't leave America?
This is absolutely shocking and unacceptable! Thank you for breaking your silence. Sending love your way 🥺
This is not shocking at all if one understands how certain people are viewed globally. They have been stories like this before but not everyone has the courage to share their story. When you aren't in your country you are susceptible to labour abuse. This is a perfect example of what staying on code looks like. Witnesses refuse to take her side even though they know their manager was in the wrong. That is how this group of people remain a tightly knit and prosper as a bunch...never speak ill or against your own.
As a blk american, i will say this is nowhere close to shocking or surprising. I wish people would stop using words like this because it’s known for a long time that our people no matter where we are on the planet will be hated by everyone. Even our own people will hate each other for the dumbest reasons. But everyone else hates us for simply having a darker skin tone. So going to places like china as a blk person from anywhere in the world should automatically tell you as a blk person, you will never be treated wholeheartedly like the locals of their country regardless of how nice you are, friendly you are, how much you come in peace and no matter how unproblematic you are. You simply just existing is enough for people like the chinese to hate you. Idk why our people don’t understand that we are the most hated group of people on the planet no matter which continent we come from and were born in. Blk americans have been pointing this out for decades, but yet our own from other continents/countries still ignore us and think we are over exaggerating when we say THEY HATE US and always will. Not say all, but a majority either have hate and such disdain for us and not show it, or will blatantly show it to our faces.
As a South African woman, having heard so many stories like yours, it's beyond me why would I allow myself to go through what you've experienced, having seen how Chinese treat our people in our own continent Africa, no amount of money is worth that to me. Praying for your safety and well being. China is one of the worst for me
maybe because 99% of the people who robbed them in SA are black?
I agree with you. They are one of the worst on the planet.
Where are you? It's been four days, since you made this video.. Please let us ( those who care about you) know if you're safe!
I would like to send you money to secure your exit from China
@@traceethompson3772 - she is richer than most people in SA.
@@lisear2926 - that's racism
I hope this goes viral, specially in China, and that they tell the identities of these people and the place. It may not work like other countries but Chinese people don’t like public scrutiny
A lot of HR people in China's schools that hire foreigners are foreigners .
😢😢😢😢 I so want to give you hug ❤ I’m so sorry for what you have been through❤I pray that SA leaders can do something about this issues. I also pray that God punish all these evils 10x worse. Sending love and blessings from New Zealand 🇳🇿
I am so sorry you have gone through something so scary and violating. I was sexually assaulted in the '80's at a waitress job I had in NYC. It had been happening long before I got there and they just fired anyone that tried to report them. I was told, when I reported them, that I needed 5 other girls to also testify against them. It was impossible. I feel so horrible for you. I am very impressed at your tenacity and desire to get justice for what you endured. Wish we could help you.
I will pass this video on. You will be heard. You did the right thing to break your silence.
I am here for you. ❤️
I am so sorry about the fearsome experience you went through. I watched your “I left South Korea” video and it inspired me deeply to leave my awful job I had in Seoul. As a black woman I know well of the pressures and mistreatment that these ESL teaching jobs put us through. There is always opportunities elsewhere. Always know your self worth. I pray for your safety🙏🏾
I worked in S.K. For 7 years and never had a problem, HOWEVER, with that being said, I knew from jump and a year of research before I left the first time, NEVER to work for a hagwon, make sure you are employed by a government program like GEPIK or EPIK, at least you have recourse through government organizations.
@@buttarain27I also never worked for a hagwon. That's where all the horror stories are because they aren't even actual schools, they're just educational businesses that kids go to after real school or kindergartens that are actually just preschools. Even private schools are actual schools and are still regulated by the government much much more than a business is. The only "horror" stories I heard from public school or things that were not illegal or against moel. They were more like unfortunate things like something going wrong with the apartment and then the employee expecting the school to take care of it when literally it's not the school's job to do that nor is it in the contract and it's not against moel. meanwhile hagwons are not paying their employees and verbally abusing them. Although not all, hagwon owners realize there's a chance they could get away with that whereas with public (or private) it would be pretty impossible to do that.
Americans try not to make everything about themselves challenge
As a black person as a black women as a black man as a black because I’m black thank you. Don’t forget the black part…. BLACK
You are so strong and you shouldn’t have to be. You are a beautiful human and you should be able to go anywhere and feel safe. I am so sorry this happened, and I am so glad you are safe now. But this should never happen.
😢😢😢😢i don't know what to say Sistas. Your experience is so heartbreaking. China is known to hate Africans, yet they are warmly welcomed in our continent. Find peace in your heart Sisi, we are with you😢😢😢
Asian men are notorious for being abusive to women, even in public. In addition, work places can be very toxic. What’s even worse is that being a foreigner means not getting the support that you need. They are very loyal to their own. That’s why they’re so successful in the west. They stick together.
I’m not sure if this is race based, but I wouldn’t be surprised if it also played a factor.
I am so sorry this has happened to you. I truly hope you start having better experiences abroad. I also hope you get the justice that you deserve.
Edit: Notorious means in the eyes of the public. Does it mean that something is true bc it is notorious? No, it doesn’t. My first paragraph comes from reports that I’ve heard myself in Asian media, documentaries, and from Asian women. I’ve also seen plenty of videos of Asian men pounding on women in public.
All this to say, every race of men has something that they are notoriously known for. It is what it is. No group is perfect, and we can’t shy away from mentioning potential problems in order to not hurt feelings.
duh...IT IS ALWAYS RACE BASED....it happens EVEN in africa....go figure
its funny people like you make judgement not knowing the entire story.
@@temujinkhan6326 , what judgment did I make and who was it against? And who is people like me since you seem to know me personally?
@@fin-rb3yz , everything isn’t always about race. It really isn’t. It’s reactionary to automatically assume that.
@@fin-rb3yzAfricans are nicer though. And more respectful. Especially to foreigners.
I passed this on to other UA-camrs. Hoping to spread the word. Im so sorry for this terrifyng experience you had and are glad you are safe. ❤
I’m so sorry this happened to you!! I had a Taiwanese manager who made my life hell. Of course this doesn’t mean all people from the region are bad, but the experience deeply hurt me. I’m glad you got out.
I’m so so sorry this happened to you,I lived in China for four years and I definitely experienced a fair share of racism. If there’s anything we can do to help please let us know.We want to see you get your justice.
what happened? Is it anywhere near as bad as in the US and other countries like Germany?
You have absolutely nothing on your channel, And who is to say that you are one of those that are going after her? Unless you prove who you are and nobody should believe you, much less this young lady who's being threatened by these people. So if you can kindly show proof of who you are
@@vanessaland5090 I personally didn’t experience physical assault,but we had taxis refuse to pick us up ,being told to go back to my country,being called all sorts of sick words and just a lot of micro agression. I can’t speak in comparison to Germany or US since I’ve never been to either but racism in China is very much a thing.
my dear is bad. You get jobs based on your skin color and when they feel they are done with you, they dump you or even get rid of you.@@vanessaland5090
which country is that?@@Brentswifey
I've heard countless terrible stories about foreigners in China and the abuse they experience. I"m so sorry you had to go through this.
give one other example of another foreigner with a black eye?
really diluzo? as bad as the racism in the US and other countries? Poster even complained about never returning to her own home country. You should travel and experience it for yourself! It's friendly and safer than the US! Think for yourself instead of just being brainwashed by US political propaganda. Look at her other videos. Drama and negative vibes everywhere she goes.
@@blue-xb1cqThey said Foreigners experiencing ABUSE!!
Work on your reading and comprehension skills 😂
Dumdum🤤
@@klaiken989 - I only see one black eye ( no video/confession or court ruling ). Again, show me another abuse?
@@blue-xb1cq You're deflecting and obfuscating what we are talking about. You're really not very bright are you, LOL😅
I worked in China for two years and met a few people from different african countries who work as teachers there. Never heard of anyone getting physically abused but they all shared stories of getting screwed over in one way or another. It’s terrible you have to go through this. Hope everything will turn out ok for you and make sure you’re safe!
I'm sorry this happened to you. Don't worry, I believe you. May God be with you and protect you from any other assault amen.
I can remember when covid first came out, I was hearing in the news that China was mistreating the African residents there. So, China has a history of this type of behavior. Word of advice if anyone traveling out of your home country (or city), never go where you are out numbered and always travel in twos. Stay safe everyone!
Every country has had issues with prejudice. Not saying that China doesn’t, just saying that you should be cautious regardless.
And Asians where being mistreated evrywhere ealse at that time.
@@scholarssolutions6735yes but they’re right. She’s outnumbered in a country like this. It’s not safe for her there.
@@scholarssolutions6735 We are talking mainly about China in this post. It's one thing to deal with issues
of people being prejudice and it's a whole different thing when people can be physically violent with a person and NO ONE comes to help!!! That's the whole issue right there, a person can be violated all because of the color of a their skin.
This is no way acceptable in China or anywhere else!
Exactly… it was a serious assault and no one defended her, what a bunch of savages.
I wish I could hug you, your pain is so palpable. I am so sorry you went through this. I read in the comments that you were able to get out of China, I'm so glad you're safe. This is just awful...
I hope the media picks up on this! You did not deserve anything of this. I am so saddened to hear your former collegues were complicit and did not help you. You're so brave to speak up and I hope the company and HR manager who did this to you get named and shamed
I am so sorry this happened to you. You are brave and beautiful and deserve so much better. Thank you for sharing your story.
I commend you for your courage for speaking out. As an ethnic Chinese I feel really bad that this happened to you, even though I'm not responsible. Unfortunately it looks like you've run head first into the dark side of the Chinese state. Because exposing your abusers would make China look bad, they're going to do everything to ensure your story never sees light of day, threaten you and gaslight you endlessly. Law enforcement will always stand on the side of the guy who hit you. This is the system that most Chinese experience every day. Now you know why so many want to leave it.
She needs to leave China for her safety
This happens in America too...
She needs to get out ASAP
@AngelaMatshoge-re7ornah we should keep having empathy and apologizing to ppl because they will never get them from the people who hurt them.
Example, i still hate police. But some police officers have apologized for another’s actions towards me before. So that does make me feel better, and I can confidently say sometimes officers do act right. Instead of not believing that, due to them offering me apologies. I will always apologize if I feel it’s necessary in order to let a person know, what happened was not okay, and other people know that too.
@AngelaMatshoge-re7oryou are being racist yourself 😂