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  • @vickychang8504
    @vickychang8504 6 років тому +88

    Dan is so lucky. His mother who raised him is an awesome big hearted lady.

  • @bpxl53yewz29
    @bpxl53yewz29 5 років тому +85

    He has such a healthy view of his adoption. Some adoptees, especially international, struggle with feelings of deep rejection and unforgiveness... and understandably so. But it's good to see both biological and adoptive families come together and support each other.

    • @liliaholsen2139
      @liliaholsen2139 Рік тому +1

      Dan is lucky enough that his adoptive families are kind and love him like he is thier own.❤

  • @jennyoh4783
    @jennyoh4783 7 років тому +135

    Dan, you are a fortunate person. Your mom didn't look at you as a stranger she looked at you knowing that you are her son(both moms). I hope you as a man let your mom know how much you love her( the mom who raised you) And I'm glad your biological family was/is loving as your family. Best wishes and happiness.

    • @HKim0072
      @HKim0072 5 років тому

      It’s a strange experience. I never felt close to my biological parents when I’ve met them. I’ve seen them over 5 times over the years. I do feel bad for my biological mom since she’s getting old these days.
      Anyway, the best way is to just let them feed you.

  • @nzinga8
    @nzinga8 7 років тому +177

    His twin brother is such a sweetheart!!

  • @gabrielas3793
    @gabrielas3793 7 років тому +173

    Moms understand Moms.

  • @mickeyme85
    @mickeyme85 8 років тому +117

    I watched Dan's documentary 3 years back, and I am very lucky to meet him in person when he came to Malaysia to perform. I really admire his passion and the way he shows us the story as a Korean Adoptee. I am so glad to be watching this again where both mothers met. Hopefully he will continue inspiring more adoptees in finding their roots and that missing piece in their life :)

  • @saraenglish3344
    @saraenglish3344 7 років тому +159

    I'm so thrilled to see this! I wondered how Dan and his family were doing! I loved his documentary! Much love to you Dan! I can't wait to watch all of these!

  • @살구야놀자-z6u
    @살구야놀자-z6u 5 років тому +9

    사정이 있어 입양을 보낸 친부모님도 입양해서 키워주신 양부모님도 모두 좋은분들 같아요. 바르게 잘 큰 모습을 보니 흐뭇합니다.

  • @itzmekimie
    @itzmekimie 4 роки тому +6

    Love how both moms embraced and have a mutual respect for one another. Such an amazing story.

  • @bobbowie9350
    @bobbowie9350 5 років тому +45

    Mrs Matthews is a terrific person. She did an amazing job!! Congrats!

  • @JanSparkles1
    @JanSparkles1 6 років тому +38

    Dan's twin brother is so humble.

  • @danis2857
    @danis2857 7 років тому +73

    your moms are so sweet and beautiful!!! and thanks for share your experience!

  • @Grubbu
    @Grubbu 5 років тому +5

    thank you so much for sharing the story!! it's very touching!! As a Korean mother, I understand why Korean woman who gives up her baby in so many reasons. But in her heart, she have never forgotten her baby and have never stopped to love her baby. thank you for the lovely story!!

  • @Team-iv5uo
    @Team-iv5uo 2 роки тому +1

    Having two moms that love you is a blessing.

  • @iwan-wr7gn
    @iwan-wr7gn 6 років тому +47

    My dad is 44 and is also an Korean adoptee he still doesn't know his Korean family BUT I have send a mail to the adoption centre in Korea I hope that I get a response back from them

  • @robingermosen8001
    @robingermosen8001 7 років тому +31

    The most beautiful thing I've seen. I wish them the best. Family is very important.....

  • @mariannescalise6658
    @mariannescalise6658 Рік тому +1

    So beautiful I am sure how much his biological mom has much respect for the wonderful job you raised Dan! This meeting his moms so heartwarming! ❤ thank you !

  • @alsimey2776
    @alsimey2776 6 років тому +10

    You are blessed to have 2 families loving you dearly. Spread the love and positivity. Kudos to you.

  • @himeshoney
    @himeshoney 8 років тому +77

    DAN, I AM SO PROUD OF YOU. I am utterly in love with your passion for storytelling (wether it be your own or others). Please continue to be an inspiration

    • @DANakaDANtv
      @DANakaDANtv 7 років тому +15

      i so very much appreciate this! thank you!

  • @ytaccount11
    @ytaccount11 6 років тому +6

    it is so heartwarming to know that Dan and his biological company have kept the bond after the documentary 3 years ago. i love this documentary.

  • @omegasage777
    @omegasage777 7 років тому +7

    This is so powerful, and so sweet. My favorite part is definitely the bond between both mothers...absolutely adorable.

  • @kimonosandkilts
    @kimonosandkilts 4 роки тому +1

    Both your mom are amazing. Crying because of how beautiful this moment was for you guys.

  •  4 роки тому

    Moms are seriously the best people in the world. Dads are the best too but with moms it's just different. And mom to mom when they have a son in common is just LOVE. I mean LOVE LOVE LOVE. Two women who love one kid so much. And now both moms get to love all the kids. Dan's sisters and brother become a part of the two moms. It's awesome.

  • @johnanderson8096
    @johnanderson8096 5 років тому +1

    "We really didn't have a language barrier"... BEAUTIFUL!!!!

  • @Shampoobabe2
    @Shampoobabe2 8 років тому +22

    Its nice to see a follow up story to the other documentary... keep it up!

  • @babywinwea2823
    @babywinwea2823 2 роки тому +1

    It is like a volcanic eruption of love, love and more love! Both moms are awesome and totally non possessive and freely sharing and giving their love! Dan is terrific and is the son every mom would love to have! Are there any new updates of Dan and his families? Thanks so much for this production- very uplifting

  • @amyakins2883
    @amyakins2883 7 років тому +24

    I am so thankful for dan Matthews for this since I want to find my mother

    • @DANakaDANtv
      @DANakaDANtv 7 років тому +8

      glad you watched this and it inspired you

    • @amyakins2883
      @amyakins2883 7 років тому +3

      dan by the way love the fact you have worked with far East movement

    • @HKim0072
      @HKim0072 5 років тому

      This is an old message, but have you tried G.O.A.L.?

    • @byunghwara
      @byunghwara 4 роки тому

      I'm not trying to disappoint you in any way but before you do that, be prepared for a broken heart.

  • @silverbat5873
    @silverbat5873 5 років тому +1

    I love how Dan has love for both his Moms and families!! He doesn't seem bitter to either one. Some stories I've seen, the kid resents one family. He is a very beautiful, respectful and empathetic person. I am so glad the American mom was respectful of the Korean family because some American families who adopt don't have respect for the culture of origin. Both the biological and adopted family are awesome!

  • @TheTiki1111
    @TheTiki1111 5 років тому +1

    This is sooo beautiful! I’m in tears, I’m so happy that this young man gets to have both of his mom’s! 🌼🌸

  • @darleneedwards5688
    @darleneedwards5688 7 років тому +20

    I loved your documentary and it made me cry

  • @brandontan4876
    @brandontan4876 4 роки тому +2

    Which part of Aus? I too came from the same Adoption agency as Dan... We both came from Eastern Social Welfare Society... sadly I never got the opportunity to meet my biological parents... but what I was told about my biological mum, is that she got pregnant and due to her being young at the time, she didn't have the financial means to support her kid/s (who knows who else is in my family) so that's when I was placed at Eastern Social Welfare Society (ESWS) From there I was flown out to Australia to be with my now family....
    I am forever grateful for Eastern Social Welfare Society and the work they do, I too am grateful for my parents I have now....
    As I turn 24 today, I have taken the time to look back and reflect on my life and I am just so blessed to be where I am today...
    When I get a little older, I would like to meet someone who will adopt a children too.... If i can give any child a second chance in life, i will do it....

  • @bewise4025
    @bewise4025 7 років тому +7

    He is lucky to have this wonderful women's in his life

    • @rovli816
      @rovli816 4 роки тому

      Yes two mothers.

  • @vpettus
    @vpettus 6 років тому +2

    You are so intelligent, thoughtful, talented and handsome....Anyone would love having you as their son. I am so happy for your new found joy...

  • @chogiwa61_13
    @chogiwa61_13 5 років тому +1

    Happy to hear an update on Dan and his family. Excited to see that his Moms got to meet.

  • @crystalblue3842
    @crystalblue3842 5 років тому +1

    Your adoptive mother is a beautiful person

  • @awillis244
    @awillis244 4 роки тому +1

    Adoptee Mom-you did a loving care of raising aka Dan.

  • @flowersmile123
    @flowersmile123 4 роки тому

    This melted my heart. I love all the kindness and compassion.

  • @J10559
    @J10559 5 років тому +1

    I hope Dan feels lucky for he’s so loved by his adopted family and also by his biological family. Such a moving real life stories.

  • @thejaneeyre
    @thejaneeyre 4 роки тому

    Dan's mom is such a sweetheart so is his biological mother.

  • @iamdee2615
    @iamdee2615 6 років тому +1

    Awwww Dans Mothers was so sweet, they Held hands and they hugged....very very sweet

  • @pandakat915
    @pandakat915 7 років тому +1

    seeing both of your mothers together is making me cry like a baby!! I hope one day I'll have that too

  • @zzangzzangfamily
    @zzangzzangfamily 8 років тому +15

    they are both amazing

  • @bertlee3470
    @bertlee3470 6 років тому +1

    It's nice to be surrounded by so much love. Your mom did a great job!!

  • @Amara-k2c
    @Amara-k2c 8 років тому +1

    the one thing that makes me soo happy n proud of u that u are soo well brought up..you have respect for both families

  • @R34L1ZiN9xB34uTi
    @R34L1ZiN9xB34uTi 5 років тому +1

    I love you Dan

  • @sfdave65
    @sfdave65 8 років тому +4

    As with akaDan, I know that this is going to tell some incredible life stories. The tissues are ready for the next installment.

  • @Jmanis22
    @Jmanis22 8 років тому +5

    I haven't been back to Korea in years. This is a beautiful story I'd love to hang with you over there.

  • @katielee3320
    @katielee3320 5 років тому

    What an amazing and incredible mom. So much light and love to you wonderful woman!!!!

  • @HangingGarden606
    @HangingGarden606 Рік тому

    Rewatched the original series. Just a great story, amazing people.

  • @Jmanis22
    @Jmanis22 8 років тому +6

    Keep going man keep helping others life is crazy the way it opens up to us to show us such a people future with answers and then can slam shut and keep you in a confused hole in your own life. You all are breaking out and finding yourself and bringing purpose to each other and individually. I know my parents one may only be around but I feel such love and connection for you all. I hope our paths cross one day.

  • @kimclaire712
    @kimclaire712 7 років тому +2

    oh my god this is one of the most intriguing and facinating stories I have ever known.

  • @r.b.somers2052
    @r.b.somers2052 5 років тому +1

    I got hooked on these videos. It was a great documentary.

  • @Jumpoable
    @Jumpoable 6 років тому +1

    I'm so happy for you, Dan, & your 2 mothers. & whole family. Love & Light.

  • @ebfebf5557
    @ebfebf5557 6 років тому

    You are very fortunate to have the love of two moms.... i'm sure both of them love you very much. You are indeed blessed!!!

  • @Jenny-pu7qv
    @Jenny-pu7qv 5 років тому +6

    마지막에 사진 잘 보면 입양해주신 어머니와 댄도 서로 닮아서 진짜 신기함

    • @suhyun-in1160
      @suhyun-in1160 5 років тому

      저도 그렇게생각했는데 입양한부모님이랑도 닮았어요

  • @soulful2767
    @soulful2767 2 роки тому +1

    he has a dope brother

  • @susankim9092
    @susankim9092 3 роки тому

    Loved this! Thank you!

  • @zhangrenhou
    @zhangrenhou 6 років тому +2

    Wow, Dan, who knew that your little Kickstarter project would blow up so big! Kudos to you, and I'm looking forward to watching these new stories.

  • @huntingtonparkway
    @huntingtonparkway 7 років тому +4

    Such a great follow up!!

  • @iBhutan
    @iBhutan 6 років тому +2

    Just came across this. Cried buckets. So happy for you and your families. You are so blessed to have two loving families. I would love to see an interview/youtube video of how your biological family reacted to the news that they had a son/brother alive and well, who wanted to meet the. How did this affect/impact them.

  • @gerrykehoe9807
    @gerrykehoe9807 6 років тому

    Dan that was beautiful. You open up a hole new world to people that you don,t even know. For that I thank you. Run with it love you.Gerry

  • @KTrain58
    @KTrain58 7 років тому +10

    I am a fellow Korean adoptee and have been incredibly scared to start the search for my birthparents, despite having the support of my family. I hope when/if I start, that this experience will also be positive. It's so nice to find somebody that has had similar questions to me regarding everything encompassing their adoption. Thanks for sharing your personal story and the many others that shared their lives with us.

    • @LeannsAdventures
      @LeannsAdventures 6 років тому

      Have you thought of traveling to Korea? Maybe just travel to your place of birth. Hopefully that will give you strength and the courage to start. My boyfriend is a Korean adoptee also. I'm taking him to Korea to visit Busan where he was born this year. Hoping it will give him some courage too. Best wishes to you!

    • @HKim0072
      @HKim0072 5 років тому

      Nothing to fear. If anything, it’s an awkward experience because of the language barrier. And it’s super cool to visit Korea. (I met my family many years ago.)

  • @browny8574
    @browny8574 7 років тому +39

    i want to know the story about dans sister who also adopted, can you make the story about her same movie as dan.

    • @nesse40
      @nesse40 5 років тому +6

      Yes, how does your sister feel about her adoption? Now that you've found your birth family?

  • @chenggonglee4992
    @chenggonglee4992 8 років тому +11

    If you guys also want to hear another Korean adoptee story, go to Ben deens channel... he's still updating it...

  • @pleiadesdragon1391
    @pleiadesdragon1391 5 років тому +1

    Live is beautifull this way..... I wish them a lot of love and health so they can enjoy their time on earth.

  • @ChicReal
    @ChicReal 5 років тому

    Wow, I'm completely and profoundly touched by your amazing journey documenting your inspirational adoption story. Both your mom's are virtuous, incredible, graceful and strong women! You may have lost your biological mom initially but you've now gained TWO MOM's who love and adore you for life! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR MISSION TO HELP OTHERS BRIDGE THE GAP WITH THEIR ROOTS. 🙏🏻❣️🙏🏻

  • @RR-kq1gl
    @RR-kq1gl 6 років тому

    I just finished watching his story about meeting his biological family and I liked it so much ,,, now I am looking forward to these new stories ...

  • @chenggonglee4992
    @chenggonglee4992 8 років тому +2

    This is beautiful

  • @1kaaa
    @1kaaa 7 років тому +1

    Happy for you, Dan! So good to see the progress of reconnecting with your fam. :)

  • @michelleedward8755
    @michelleedward8755 5 років тому +1

    I've just watched all documentaries of Dan's. Every single ones made me cry. Lol. I can't tell If this is really touching video and others feel it in the same way or just because of I 'm getting old. hehe. Anyways thank you guys doing great job.

  • @manhart9649
    @manhart9649 4 роки тому

    War is the most painful😭

  • @Heyh6
    @Heyh6 7 років тому

    this was the same when my american mom meet my chinese foster family their was a lot of crying.

  • @minaa9399
    @minaa9399 5 років тому

    awww im so happy both his mom met !!

  • @papayasalad4508
    @papayasalad4508 4 роки тому

    He is lucky that his birth parents acknowledge him and out of their own will, searched for him. Many adoptees are rejected and denied by their birth parents even after decades...

  • @jeaniechowdury576
    @jeaniechowdury576 5 років тому

    Great documentary

  • @marilynwade9448
    @marilynwade9448 3 роки тому

    Love your story

  • @lifephanatic2619
    @lifephanatic2619 7 років тому

    Such a beautiful story ❤️

  • @iloveloveshinee
    @iloveloveshinee 7 років тому +51

    WTF so dan's brother is in australia??? I think I've seen him when I was eating a korean restaurant once I was like that looked like dan's brother but I was like nah he should be in korea not here. But that guy looked exactly like his brother legit.

    • @theHoax100
      @theHoax100 7 років тому +6

      iloveloveshinee I think someone mentioned that his brother was working in gangnam restaurant in Perth, not sure if he's still working there tho! Was that the restaurant you went too? :D

    • @-.-soreopb3441
      @-.-soreopb3441 5 років тому +1

      To be honest a lot of Korean look the same. I live in Perth, Australia and I've seen a lot of people that look like dan n his brother , it doesn't mean it was them , it just means there's a lot of people that look like the,

    • @andi5262
      @andi5262 5 років тому +16

      Sarah Garang Wow... No, they don’t all look alike.

    • @sscsion8841
      @sscsion8841 5 років тому

      @@-.-soreopb3441 lmao, way to make it racist

  • @janellamoala-langi4203
    @janellamoala-langi4203 5 років тому

    i love this. so special

  • @18nonnahs
    @18nonnahs 5 років тому

    I’m in love with these moms!

  • @blushiikitti988
    @blushiikitti988 6 років тому +1

    your brother is awesome man

  • @mozamoya88
    @mozamoya88 6 років тому +1

    I feel like dan's foster mom has similar feature with Dan too

  • @sakuralz
    @sakuralz 7 років тому

    i love it!! soo much love and united. you are so great person the job you do to help others and your friends to. take care. i am going to keep watching.!!!!!

  • @johnanderson8096
    @johnanderson8096 5 років тому

    Extraordinary Moms !!!!!!!

  • @clueless7999
    @clueless7999 6 років тому

    Wow.. M so happy for you

  • @ria_x_rose
    @ria_x_rose 4 роки тому

    Kiseong really just grew 😂. Its still crazy seing how much taller and broader he is built than his parents and siblings who all resemble eachother alot. Its weird tho because him and Dan are still identical besides the difference in build. He seems like a good brother too 😊
    Also he kinda looks like a taller version of rich brian 👀

  • @r.hdoromano9402
    @r.hdoromano9402 8 років тому +3

    gostei do canal.!!👏👏💜

  • @itawambamingo
    @itawambamingo 5 місяців тому

    Crying.

  • @rivkastock2684
    @rivkastock2684 5 років тому +3

    The adoptive mom is the mom

  • @nesse40
    @nesse40 5 років тому

    SOOOOO wonderful for you Dan, your mom & Biological mom. Maybe I missed it...but wheres your adopted dad?

  • @HKim0072
    @HKim0072 5 років тому

    The sibling thing will make the relationship last forever. I don’t have a twin, but have 2 biological siblings (6 and 8 years younger). I’ve kept in touch mostly with my sister since I met my family, but there have been gaps in communication (mostly because I am weird).
    Also, my situation is odd since I have 3 Korean aunts / uncles in the states.

  • @Justmee1235
    @Justmee1235 7 років тому

    Download Hellotalk and have your fam also. Super easy translations and you can learn the language back

  • @ashleyhockenberry2187
    @ashleyhockenberry2187 2 роки тому

    A+

  • @theresah5937
    @theresah5937 7 років тому +26

    Just wondering, did I miss the part in your video that you are actively learning Korean language? I mean your brother's English is getting better since he resides in AU now and you have help from your friend acting as your translator... I am sure you are putting in as much efforts that I happen to miss your mention?

  • @1234-m7w
    @1234-m7w 6 років тому

    Dans adoptedcmom hus mom is a beautiful soul

  • @thenobleone-3384
    @thenobleone-3384 3 роки тому

    I hear a lot about Korean Adoptees there aren't a lot of South Asian stories like this.

  • @SuperMarcoPolo7
    @SuperMarcoPolo7 7 років тому

    You should have added Adam Crapser’s story the adopted deportee who reunited with his birth mother

  • @jj9392
    @jj9392 3 роки тому +1

    Dan has a good view on society mainly due to the love he must have received from his mum and dad (Mrs. & Mr. Mathews).
    The biological family seems doing ok, so I wonder why did they have to let Dan away???
    Dan could fit in one of the lucky adoptee cases, and as I said it was on a luck, not a certainty.
    I would have been really angry when seeing them do ok if I were Dan, sadly frankly.

    • @Imaginegoobi
      @Imaginegoobi 3 роки тому

      I think that with the biological dads letter it said something along the lines of that the dad made the decision for his wife and she found out too late. It seems that they were young when she gave birth and she gave birth at her home and awoke in the hospital. There were financial problems maybe she didn’t expect to give birth to twins and taking care of 2 babies would have been difficult

  • @nicktappero3735
    @nicktappero3735 3 роки тому

    Hey Dan get the app called LINE its a English Korean translator.

  • @AhyeonJeon
    @AhyeonJeon 8 років тому

    I know 미륵산