Making alot of progress thru going out 3 times a week and implementing techniques from verbal game academy and the system. I still got ALOT of learning to do but generally but I'm definitely not as hopeless as I was when I started.
I also started doing the system but there's one question I wish I could ask Todd. In the 3rd exercice, he says to use teases. But then I can't find the material about HOW to tease. I mean there's a bunch of material about it on the youtube channel. Is it expected of me to go get this material elsewhere? Did I miss something?
@@michaelzomsuv3631I've gotten pretty good at teasing over the last several years. Generally speaking, you can tease a girl as if she's your little sister or a good friend. Not serious, not mean, just fun and playful with a smile or an air that what you're saying is the opposite of what you really think. If you're eating out and she says something a bit polarizing, you can fake a "Waiter! Check please!" and laugh about it afterwards. Or you can do something similar to Todd's mini-cold reads, where you magnify some detail about her and exaggerate the impact it has on her personality, her habits, etc. "Oh, you were good at math in high school? Yeah, you were probably the teacher's pet, bringing her an apple every day, sitting at the front of the class and raising your hand first for every question." Tone is everything. Keep it warm and friendly, like you would with someone you care a lot about. If she laughs, I'll sometimes give her a hug (often a side hug if we're standing next to each other). If she takes it badly, I'll say I was just teasing and apologize if needed. But they almost never take it badly, and it generally leads to a lot of good interactions afterwards.
@@michaelzomsuv3631 I own all of Todd's Products. The majority of the information on Teasing will be on UA-cam + some of the Infields in VGA / The System. I recommend the UA-cam video he uploaded called "How to Flirt"
Todd, I just wanted to say that since I came across your channel my game improve A LOT, things are really changing in the most positive way for me. I can't thank you enought
Todd I haven’t checked in to this channel in a while cuz about a year ago I got a GF thanks to your channel. Just wanna say big thanks to you man, these videos helped me improve not just dating but vastly leveled up my social life too. Please keep making content, the people need to see this shit.
Todd is a G. makes complex ideas about game simple, understandable and ethical. Very appreciated. I've learned quite a bit. Probably my favorite go-to for dating/women advice
Yes, I'll agree that is a high value trait. When you care in moderation when it's necessary, it makes sense and it's respectable but when you care too much and are clingy, it comes off as very desperate and low value. You should care but with sincerity and not care too much. I'll also state that having reactions is fine but don't be too reactive. React relaxed and unaffected. It shows that you are expressive but immovable.
Value is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone, remember your value can only be defined by yourself, not others. Even confidence is situational and not related to overall value/worth. Someone that is great at dating, will show more confidence in that area, but maybe not as much in another area that they are not knowledgeable about. There is also a balance between arrogance and humility. Better to show confidence with humor, playfulness, something like “don’t expect me to give you my number now”. If the woman gets your humor, she can give you her number. If not that is fine and shows that you can test as well, and decide that you don’t need to get her number and can find someone else that gets your humor.
Out of all the channels I've come across, Todd V is by far the best. It's been a while since I've watched some of his videos, but when I was constantly watching and learning from him, the results were incredible.
It’s fucked just how accurate that situation is .. when we’re depressed we dont have the wherewithal to deal with the fluff and extra bs around us including the way we engage (or lack of) with others. The women I happened to give zero attention towards whether it be because I dont find them attractive or the one’s I do but dont have the energy to put effort towards are always the one’s that end up seeking my approval attention or validation whereas when i actually give af about someone I have to remind myself constantly to not fall into behaviors that’ll push em away. Long story long,, Depression gets poon😴
Very good question and that's a good thing to look into honestly. The thing is some people can get overwhelmed with positive excitement and exhibit immature behaviors and can get out of control. When people get depressed, they can get very naturally down to earth sometimes with their behaviors. I'd suggest positive thinking with realism but also being more natural with yourself. It has helped me express high value behaviors alot better. I really wish you the best and hope everything works out for you. 👍✨
I still can't believe that after all this time and all the eras and companies for Pickup... that Todd is the one who cracked the code and solved it... a formula. Amazing.
Indecision is a big one for me, I think it really makes me look low value, I'm going to work on it this. Sometimes I'll also be too kind, but when I do let go and act a bit more confident and care free, its incredible how strongly women respond to it.
What if I do this: "Would it be possible perhaps maybe if a wretched nobody such as myself may have the illustrious privilege of obtaining the sequence of digits used to make contact with a telecommunications device of a beautiful mademoiselle member of royalty such as thyself?"
one of my problems that i liked from this is that i dont "want" when online chatting to now appear as only just talking about myself so this tip of bringing her into my world and leading is nice instead of me saying oh me too and forcing myself to dig out all of what she likes. but its hard to make her speak to tell me what she likes or dislikes so i can better adjust myself, im not someone who goes out of my way to please people.
Yo great video. Totally agree. One thing I would like to add is that we men struggle with remaining calm, steaking to the plan and keeping our composure when a chick we have a crush on is near. Sounds childish but yeah we are hopeless sometimes, this is what we need to work on most IMO.
'We should go do blah, blah, blah' and then just go do it. It is somewhere between a question and a command because it uses a modal verb...it's a modality not a commanding statement or a question...i.e. a suggestion. e.g. ''Do you want to go get some ice cream?' [weak, approval seeking] , 'We are going to get some Ice-Cream.' [commanding/overbearing] , 'We should go get some Ice cream. {moments pause - read facial expression} C'mon...I know this great place, serves the best sorbet....' [suggestive, confident, decisive, intriguing]. The last example is a neutral suggestion backed up by a confident statement that reciprocates and takes account of how she is feeling. Of course, if she doesn't like Ice cream or does not want to go she'll let you know so have a back-up plan, or several, etc.
yea Todd I agree, there's some youtubers in this space right now that really really demonstrate these qualities and SHOULD not be giving advice or tips, it' wild out here in the men side as well.
Would a simple mindmap be helpful to pick the essence and structure of the PU material? ex. this video : root - the excessive subjective meaning of this HB translates into the following types of supplication - > ... So process the meaning valuation.
I've watched the video, and I only know how to do three of the five behaviors. What am I doing wrong, and how can I be able to master all five of these habits?
Do not ask her if she is seeing someone or has a BF too. That is low value and a bad question. It basically is pre-hitting on her and asking permission to do so. There is no good outcome really. She says yes, then you look like a creep if you start running game and flirting. You just self rejected yourself. Because why did you ask if you did not care? So you hit on women who tell you she is seeing someone in front of everyone? If she is married, did not see the ring or care? That looks awful and you are a creep. Most attractive women are dating "someone" and will not answer, "yes, I am single are you!" LOL Because then she looks desperate and basically gave you permission right in the initial interaction to ask her out. Women are not going to do that. (She knows you will say, why wont you give me your number? You said you did not have a BF! Then she has to say she just is not attracted to you, which is socially unpleasant.) Women are much better with social dynamics. Just talk and assume she likes you and flirt. She knows you are probably hitting on her, so dont ask. If she is not into it, then she will say she is seeing someone (or maybe actually is in love or committed) and shut it down. Dont try to pre-hit on a woman looking for permission.
I would think my biggest problem, is i'm having a hard time finding the balance between arrogance(been called this a lot) and "playfull just high value". you taled a little about it in, this video.. got some suggestions / video's i should check up for this purpos ? i've watched a lot of you stuff, and i hope it will change my year :)
I don’t think it’s a good idea to be an asshole, even if it’s just sometimes. When someone is screwing with you, be assertive and don’t take shit from them, but keep it logical and respectful.
All these things carry over to marriage. Several things: if you disagree with your wife disagree, pick the venue for date night, don't ask for sex ("come upstairs with me", "come over here", "let's have sex" are much better). Be a kind ass hole. If you're wife is being impolite to you or someone else tell her.
What if you really like a woman and want to be with her and be together with her, but there are some things about her that give you a pause? She told me that she has daddy issues , I know that she used to be a prostitute before she met her boyfriend (Who she says that she doesn’t really trust and broke up with like two or three times since she started dating in October .). But she said that she didn’t do it for money, she did it for attention , to get a dopamine rush and to feel loved briefly . She also says that she has a chemical imbalance, has ADD, Anxiety and said that she had a cocaine addiction for a while. She is divorced and her ex doesn’t really bring her her kids . She said that she has some Daddy Issues. I’m pretty sure that she is a sex addict , too. And she dated a human trafficker who still hacks her phones. She also said that she has Oppositional Defiant Disorder. I used to want this woman, now I don’t know. I am kind of jealous of her boyfriend for some reason (He creampies her all the time, they have sex multiple times per day .).
Jesus, you spent a _tad_ too long picking out a movie and "the date went downhill from there"? Are you kidding me? "Act like you would around your friends" would your friends give a crap if you spent an extra couple minutes picking it out?
I am a bit confused about logic behind this. If a guy is not confident, acts naturally, like a human it means he haven't done it countless times and he is unlikely to collect you as a badge - i.e. he is normal guy you want to be with him in relationship and if he is confident, assertive and bends her frame it means he is experienced and most likely gonna play her just like he did other women and yet they would go for the latter guy? Or they think "Oh this guy who clearly did it thousand times before will decide to settle with me." or something? Or are these women just promiscous and don't mind quick fuck? But then they would choose someone who is more handsome for that no? Maybe I shouldn't look at it from logical standpoint lol. Seems like "value" is basically just how you carry yourself.
@@Danishmasterythis! Very important. When you mean what you say and express the proper way you say things, they have more effect. Your emotions, words and actions should all match together.
This video makes it seem that acting like a confident, secure, entitled, authority is the best way to attract women. However, I actually think acting like a submissive, insecure, doormat is the best way to attract women.
This video inspired me to go and cold approach. I went to my nearest mall and entered through the food section. I was immediately pressured and scared, so many fucking people. So many cute girl, but they’re all in groups. Should I go back . FUCK NO. I pressed on commentarying to my self. Then I saw a girl by herself. Now I don’t say this cause “yes she’s finally alone hahaha” no I say this cause it’s more like “oh fuck I won’t embarrass myself in too many people” and I went up and commented on her ice cream cone. And just pressed on. I didn’t feel that electric feel. No matter. I tried to keep it going just commenting on things and asking statements. We’ll come to fing out she has a boyfriend. She said that whenever I asked what she was doing here. Time to go right. Nah. Not an emotional “FUCK NO” this time. But rather a simple nah. I’m not going I don’t have to. She also said she’s in the gym, I asked her what she likes to do, and she just said nothing really, and so I just said oh you like to just stay at home… eat some ice cream. And she laughed a little giggle. But still it was something nice. The. We talked about what we do in our spare time and how she has family in many place. But I wasn’t feeling it. It was all positive but I thought to myself that I couldn’t get a number and even if I did she’d still have a boyfriend. So I decided to leave. I leaned for a side hug and then told her it was nice meeting you. I hugged her and then left. Now I know I didn’t get the number but I was coming back home from a half shift at work. And was playing this video so I just kinda thought “I could try that… right now” and decide to try and just start a conversation just to show myself it wasn’t that… hard… scary… idk just to show myself some infield. And I think it went pretty great. Why, cause *I* did it. I still tried it really tried and luckily didn’t fuck up to much even through a wavering voice cause I did feel a little scared ngl. But still. Asked and still talked. Nice sorry for the rant but this video was still playing when I came back to my car and decided to just idk show my appreciation through a shared story. Amazing shut.
@@didiermontagnier6114 hey man I don’t demean and bully or make fun poeple too scared to walk out the door cause they think there’s a monster behind every corner.
@@ghostviper9579 I’m just saying that you won’t die or get your limps blown off from rejections by a bunch of girls, so why are you so fearful? Once you’ve experienced 5 minutes under firefights as a combat soldier, nothing is going to scare you anymore and you’ll put everything in perspective. I’m speaking from personal experience
@@didiermontagnier6114 why the fear. cause even IF even IF i wont lose a limb it FEELSSS like that. Which sucks, but the thing is it ONLY feels like that so i wont actually lose limb or life. Which is cool But is also why i felt so fearful of doing which im overcoming and still doing even IF i would lose limbs
@@ghostviper9579 dude, the worst thing that can happen is her saying no. You have to not taking it personal because there are dozens of reasons for her to deny your advances. you aren’t going to die, lose a limb or lose money. Just be gracious and tell her perhaps the timing isn’t right then wish her a good day. don’t be pissed or bitter or sad over something so superficial. don’t put all your hopes and dreams on someone you don’t even know. when I first got shot at in Afghanistan, I was so afraid that I just froze and it all almost got me killed. After the 10th engagement, I just took it in stride because I’ve already survived the other 9 times. Just keep approaching them, no matter what the outcomes. Once you’ve done it enough times you’ll feel exhilarated instead of afraid. I’m a civilian now but I really miss the adrenaline rush of combat.
#2 is terrible advice. Asking for permission saves a *lot* of hassles later on, ranging from her being annoyed at you if you decide to do something or go somewhere that she doesn't like, right through to avoiding future sexual assault allegations.
Making alot of progress thru going out 3 times a week and implementing techniques from verbal game academy and the system.
I still got ALOT of learning to do but generally but I'm definitely not as hopeless as I was when I started.
That's awesome! Keep at it... a little better each day or even each week REALLY adds up!
@@ToddVDating honestly 🙏🏾 ❤️ thank you so much from the bottom of my heart
I also started doing the system but there's one question I wish I could ask Todd.
In the 3rd exercice, he says to use teases. But then I can't find the material about
HOW to tease. I mean there's a bunch of material about it on the youtube channel.
Is it expected of me to go get this material elsewhere? Did I miss something?
@@michaelzomsuv3631I've gotten pretty good at teasing over the last several years. Generally speaking, you can tease a girl as if she's your little sister or a good friend. Not serious, not mean, just fun and playful with a smile or an air that what you're saying is the opposite of what you really think.
If you're eating out and she says something a bit polarizing, you can fake a "Waiter! Check please!" and laugh about it afterwards.
Or you can do something similar to Todd's mini-cold reads, where you magnify some detail about her and exaggerate the impact it has on her personality, her habits, etc. "Oh, you were good at math in high school? Yeah, you were probably the teacher's pet, bringing her an apple every day, sitting at the front of the class and raising your hand first for every question."
Tone is everything. Keep it warm and friendly, like you would with someone you care a lot about. If she laughs, I'll sometimes give her a hug (often a side hug if we're standing next to each other). If she takes it badly, I'll say I was just teasing and apologize if needed. But they almost never take it badly, and it generally leads to a lot of good interactions afterwards.
@@michaelzomsuv3631 I own all of Todd's Products. The majority of the information on Teasing will be on UA-cam + some of the Infields in VGA / The System.
I recommend the UA-cam video he uploaded called "How to Flirt"
1. High inflection when speaking.
2. Asking for permission.
3. Trying for rapport/always agreeing.
4. Indecisiveness.
5. Being tryhard.
Todd, I just wanted to say that since I came across your channel my game improve A LOT, things are really changing in the most positive way for me. I can't thank you enought
Classic example:
‘Can i get your number? ‘ vs
‘let me get your number, let’s hangout ‘
Both are weak. Real men say "give me your number".
If your frame is strong, the words don’t matter.
Are green little men, real men? @@greenlitlleman
@@greenlitlleman Still weak, real man just grab her hand, take her and tie her in ur basement.. alpha af
@@greenlitllemanHaha no
Todd I haven’t checked in to this channel in a while cuz about a year ago I got a GF thanks to your channel. Just wanna say big thanks to you man, these videos helped me improve not just dating but vastly leveled up my social life too. Please keep making content, the people need to see this shit.
Todd is a G. makes complex ideas about game simple, understandable and ethical. Very appreciated. I've learned quite a bit. Probably my favorite go-to for dating/women advice
Can we say that ultimately a high value behaviour is not caring too much, not being needy and not being reactive?
Yes, I'll agree that is a high value trait. When you care in moderation when it's necessary, it makes sense and it's respectable but when you care too much and are clingy, it comes off as very desperate and low value. You should care but with sincerity and not care too much. I'll also state that having reactions is fine but don't be too reactive. React relaxed and unaffected. It shows that you are expressive but immovable.
Please don't retire. I'm saving up for a Euro bootcamp. There is nobody else who does this in this quality.
I feel the same way. Alex is retiring within the next year 😰. I need to go to a bootcamp before the pillars of pickup are gone.
@@OHHnoYOUdidntMAN honestly same
@@OHHnoYOUdidntMANPWF Alex is retiring?
+10000
Ultimate man project is leaps ahead
Value is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone, remember your value can only be defined by yourself, not others. Even confidence is situational and not related to overall value/worth. Someone that is great at dating, will show more confidence in that area, but maybe not as much in another area that they are not knowledgeable about. There is also a balance between arrogance and humility. Better to show confidence with humor, playfulness, something like “don’t expect me to give you my number now”. If the woman gets your humor, she can give you her number. If not that is fine and shows that you can test as well, and decide that you don’t need to get her number and can find someone else that gets your humor.
When you have other options those behaviours naturally disappear
Todd’s gonna be in his 70’s teaching you how to pick up grandmas at nursing homes
Bruce Wayne in his 70s ✨
“Shut up I’m in my prime”!
when you look at it that way, you can see that we all should be marrying and having children instead of this pick up bs.
Bruce wayne is way taller@@RedRumble14
Social circles game! 😁
Thanks bro. I learnt a lot 💪🏾💯.
Out of all the channels I've come across, Todd V is by far the best. It's been a while since I've watched some of his videos, but when I was constantly watching and learning from him, the results were incredible.
Really great video Todd. Thanks
Why is it only when I became more depressed and emotionally damaged that I'm able to naturally display 'high value' bahaviours. It's fked up.
It’s fucked just how accurate that situation is .. when we’re depressed we dont have the wherewithal to deal with the fluff and extra bs around us including the way we engage (or lack of) with others.
The women I happened to give zero attention towards whether it be because I dont find them attractive or the one’s I do but dont have the energy to put effort towards are always the one’s that end up seeking my approval attention or validation whereas when i actually give af about someone I have to remind myself constantly to not fall into behaviors that’ll push em away.
Long story long,, Depression gets poon😴
Very good question and that's a good thing to look into honestly. The thing is some people can get overwhelmed with positive excitement and exhibit immature behaviors and can get out of control. When people get depressed, they can get very naturally down to earth sometimes with their behaviors. I'd suggest positive thinking with realism but also being more natural with yourself. It has helped me express high value behaviors alot better. I really wish you the best and hope everything works out for you. 👍✨
I got ton of numbers and don't bother hitting em up because of this. Might lead to negative emotions etc
I had the same thing. Best game came when I was few days sleep deprived. Oooh I was smooth as a mudafuker
It's been 15 years since I started watching Todd daygame and he never disappoints.
I still can't believe that after all this time and all the eras and companies for Pickup... that Todd is the one who cracked the code and solved it... a formula. Amazing.
Life coach urgently needed!!!!😤😤😤😤
Todd, can you make a video about how to convey high value traits regardless? I find it difficult to recognize things that convey high value sometimes.
Thank you. I saw my blind side after watching your sharing
Cheers Todd. First vid of your I have viewed. Made a lot of sense fella. Thank you.
Indecision is a big one for me, I think it really makes me look low value, I'm going to work on it this.
Sometimes I'll also be too kind, but when I do let go and act a bit more confident and care free, its incredible how strongly women respond to it.
What if I do this:
"Would it be possible perhaps maybe if a wretched nobody such as myself may have the illustrious privilege of obtaining the sequence of digits used to make contact with a telecommunications device of a beautiful mademoiselle member of royalty such as thyself?"
😂😂 do it man, please!! Not to get results of course but just for shits n giggles
There are pick-up artists and pick-up surgeons. The Toddfather is a Pick-Up Surgeon.
Truth 😹
one of my problems that i liked from this is that i dont "want" when online chatting to now appear as only just talking about myself so this tip of bringing her into my world and leading is nice instead of me saying oh me too and forcing myself to dig out all of what she likes.
but its hard to make her speak to tell me what she likes or dislikes so i can better adjust myself, im not someone who goes out of my way to please people.
Yo great video. Totally agree. One thing I would like to add is that we men struggle with remaining calm, steaking to the plan and keeping our composure when a chick we have a crush on is near. Sounds childish but yeah we are hopeless sometimes, this is what we need to work on most IMO.
can you make a video on “how to look cooler without bragging” or something, basically about how to properly dhv as an honest signal
Social proof/implied social proof. Storytelling.
Thank you Todd. The System and Text and Dates MAchine changed my life and got me my girlfriend 🙏
Thanks a lot, that was helpful.
Hi Todd, I love your content! Although that clipping audio is so irritating in the long run...
'We should go do blah, blah, blah' and then just go do it. It is somewhere between a question and a command because it uses a modal verb...it's a modality not a commanding statement or a question...i.e. a suggestion. e.g. ''Do you want to go get some ice cream?' [weak, approval seeking] , 'We are going to get some Ice-Cream.' [commanding/overbearing] , 'We should go get some Ice cream. {moments pause - read facial expression} C'mon...I know this great place, serves the best sorbet....' [suggestive, confident, decisive, intriguing]. The last example is a neutral suggestion backed up by a confident statement that reciprocates and takes account of how she is feeling. Of course, if she doesn't like Ice cream or does not want to go she'll let you know so have a back-up plan, or several, etc.
yea Todd I agree, there's some youtubers in this space right now that really really demonstrate these qualities and SHOULD not be giving advice or tips, it' wild out here in the men side as well.
Todd u are awesome man..Love from Greece
How to be more decisive would be a great video
Duh. Be decisive in all parts of life, it will carry over to this part of life
Is the Advanced Pulling Masterclass an online course? And what is the content about?
Soo... it's completely normal to practice my Games the day before in a quiet room? (Not being Sarcastic)
sure, i do it in a mirror sometimes
Your jacket is amazing! That beige colour really suits you Todd
3:50, 7:40, 9:50
Would a simple mindmap be helpful to pick the essence and structure of the PU material?
ex. this video : root - the excessive subjective meaning of this HB translates into the following types of supplication - > ...
So process the meaning valuation.
If I have to choose one between the verbal game academy and the system, which one should I choose? And whats the difference between the two?
I've watched the video, and I only know how to do three of the five behaviors. What am I doing wrong, and how can I be able to master all five of these habits?
Do not ask her if she is seeing someone or has a BF too. That is low value and a bad question. It basically is pre-hitting on her and asking permission to do so. There is no good outcome really. She says yes, then you look like a creep if you start running game and flirting. You just self rejected yourself. Because why did you ask if you did not care? So you hit on women who tell you she is seeing someone in front of everyone? If she is married, did not see the ring or care? That looks awful and you are a creep.
Most attractive women are dating "someone" and will not answer, "yes, I am single are you!" LOL Because then she looks desperate and basically gave you permission right in the initial interaction to ask her out. Women are not going to do that. (She knows you will say, why wont you give me your number? You said you did not have a BF! Then she has to say she just is not attracted to you, which is socially unpleasant.) Women are much better with social dynamics.
Just talk and assume she likes you and flirt. She knows you are probably hitting on her, so dont ask. If she is not into it, then she will say she is seeing someone (or maybe actually is in love or committed) and shut it down. Dont try to pre-hit on a woman looking for permission.
I would think my biggest problem, is i'm having a hard time finding the balance between arrogance(been called this a lot) and "playfull just high value". you taled a little about it in, this video.. got some suggestions / video's i should check up for this purpos ? i've watched a lot of you stuff, and i hope it will change my year :)
Me too.
So you don't know how to have a conversation? Man some of you dudes are down bad huh
Most useful dating advices i ever heard. 👍
you should never be "acting" high value. you should just value yourself more than others' opinions.
I don’t think it’s a good idea to be an asshole, even if it’s just sometimes. When someone is screwing with you, be assertive and don’t take shit from them, but keep it logical and respectful.
Todd. Come to Dallas. I’m tryna play soccer either with you or against you.
8:22: Let's all appreciate the reverse b-roll for a few seconds.
Bro you are in South Beach. I was there last week lol
Todd do you think you'd ever team up with someone like arash dibazar or mystery in the future?
All these things carry over to marriage. Several things: if you disagree with your wife disagree, pick the venue for date night, don't ask for sex ("come upstairs with me", "come over here", "let's have sex" are much better). Be a kind ass hole. If you're wife is being impolite to you or someone else tell her.
I want that jacket, put link in the description
You have to internalise it not just practice it. However, ironically, it's the practice that helps internalise it.
Digging the long hair
Great video, but 20 years too late for me. I gave up dating and relationships years ago. Life has been happy and drama free ever since.
Ever been married .
What if you really like a woman and want to be with her and be together with her, but there are some things about her that give you a pause? She told me that she has daddy issues , I know that she used to be a prostitute before she met her boyfriend (Who she says that she doesn’t really trust and broke up with like two or three times since she started dating in October .). But she said that she didn’t do it for money, she did it for attention , to get a dopamine rush and to feel loved briefly . She also says that she has a chemical imbalance, has ADD, Anxiety and said that she had a cocaine addiction for a while. She is divorced and her ex doesn’t really bring her her kids . She said that she has some Daddy Issues. I’m pretty sure that she is a sex addict , too. And she dated a human trafficker who still hacks her phones. She also said that she has Oppositional Defiant Disorder. I used to want this woman, now I don’t know. I am kind of jealous of her boyfriend for some reason (He creampies her all the time, they have sex multiple times per day .).
Jesus, you spent a _tad_ too long picking out a movie and "the date went downhill from there"? Are you kidding me? "Act like you would around your friends" would your friends give a crap if you spent an extra couple minutes picking it out?
Jedi Master Todd!
I am a bit confused about logic behind this. If a guy is not confident, acts naturally, like a human it means he haven't done it countless times and he is unlikely to collect you as a badge - i.e. he is normal guy you want to be with him in relationship and if he is confident, assertive and bends her frame it means he is experienced and most likely gonna play her just like he did other women and yet they would go for the latter guy? Or they think "Oh this guy who clearly did it thousand times before will decide to settle with me." or something? Or are these women just promiscous and don't mind quick fuck? But then they would choose someone who is more handsome for that no? Maybe I shouldn't look at it from logical standpoint lol.
Seems like "value" is basically just how you carry yourself.
Todd, does because of social proof being a content creator like being an IG fitness influencer with 100K+ followers gets you laid?
No it’s low value and won’t help.
Stop with the nonsense dork
Guaranteed
Having social proof from women is more important than social proof from men.
Not what you say, how you say it...
Stealing your lines and still not working... I'd assume that's congruency. For example I cant steal all your lines due to my character
Yeah man, your emotions have got to match what you’re saying.
@@Danishmasterythis! Very important. When you mean what you say and express the proper way you say things, they have more effect. Your emotions, words and actions should all match together.
Exactly
Don’t steal any lines, you don’t always have to be clique. in due time the witty business comes with time.
This video makes it seem that acting like a confident, secure, entitled, authority is the best way to attract women. However, I actually think acting like a submissive, insecure, doormat is the best way to attract women.
This video inspired me to go and cold approach. I went to my nearest mall and entered through the food section. I was immediately pressured and scared, so many fucking people. So many cute girl, but they’re all in groups. Should I go back . FUCK NO. I pressed on commentarying to my self. Then I saw a girl by herself. Now I don’t say this cause “yes she’s finally alone hahaha” no I say this cause it’s more like “oh fuck I won’t embarrass myself in too many people” and I went up and commented on her ice cream cone. And just pressed on. I didn’t feel that electric feel. No matter. I tried to keep it going just commenting on things and asking statements. We’ll come to fing out she has a boyfriend. She said that whenever I asked what she was doing here. Time to go right. Nah. Not an emotional “FUCK NO” this time. But rather a simple nah. I’m not going I don’t have to. She also said she’s in the gym, I asked her what she likes to do, and she just said nothing really, and so I just said oh you like to just stay at home… eat some ice cream. And she laughed a little giggle. But still it was something nice. The. We talked about what we do in our spare time and how she has family in many place. But I wasn’t feeling it. It was all positive but I thought to myself that I couldn’t get a number and even if I did she’d still have a boyfriend. So I decided to leave. I leaned for a side hug and then told her it was nice meeting you. I hugged her and then left. Now I know I didn’t get the number but I was coming back home from a half shift at work. And was playing this video so I just kinda thought “I could try that… right now” and decide to try and just start a conversation just to show myself it wasn’t that… hard… scary… idk just to show myself some infield. And I think it went pretty great. Why, cause *I* did it. I still tried it really tried and luckily didn’t fuck up to much even through a wavering voice cause I did feel a little scared ngl. But still. Asked and still talked. Nice sorry for the rant but this video was still playing when I came back to my car and decided to just idk show my appreciation through a shared story. Amazing shut.
imagine being so afraid of a girl 😂
You need to join the army
@@didiermontagnier6114 hey man I don’t demean and bully or make fun poeple too scared to walk out the door cause they think there’s a monster behind every corner.
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I’m just saying that you won’t die or get your limps blown off from rejections by a bunch of girls, so why are you so fearful? Once you’ve experienced 5 minutes under firefights as a combat soldier, nothing is going to scare you anymore and you’ll put everything in perspective. I’m speaking from personal experience
@@didiermontagnier6114 why the fear. cause even IF even IF i wont lose a limb it FEELSSS like that. Which sucks, but the thing is it ONLY feels like that so i wont actually lose limb or life. Which is cool But is also why i felt so fearful of doing which im overcoming and still doing even IF i would lose limbs
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dude, the worst thing that can happen is her saying no. You have to not taking it personal because there are dozens of reasons for her to deny your advances. you aren’t going to die, lose a limb or lose money. Just be gracious and tell her perhaps the timing isn’t right then wish her a good day. don’t be pissed or bitter or sad over something so superficial. don’t put all your hopes and dreams on someone you don’t even know. when I first got shot at in Afghanistan, I was so afraid that I just froze and it all almost got me killed. After the 10th engagement, I just took it in stride because I’ve already survived the other 9 times. Just keep approaching them, no matter what the outcomes. Once you’ve done it enough times you’ll feel exhilarated instead of afraid. I’m a civilian now but I really miss the adrenaline rush of combat.
How can I respond to a “I have a boyfriend”
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..... NEVER beg for anything. Even for forgiveness. (Low value). ;-)
#2 is terrible advice. Asking for permission saves a *lot* of hassles later on, ranging from her being annoyed at you if you decide to do something or go somewhere that she doesn't like, right through to avoiding future sexual assault allegations.
Guy looks a little like Kirk Douglas.
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I just ask myself "Would Andrew Tate do this". I'm still a low value man though, pls help.
Is Andrew Tate a high value man tho?
@@swaggybaconcheese1566 he is. he is a self made millionaire. love him or hate him. he does have value
Ask yourself, "what would Ron Jeremy do?"
The question becomes, do you get high value women with this sort of behavior?
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I’m Ron Burgundy?
Wrong!!! The best way to get number is to plan an event she likes and go its easier to get the number that way!
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Forget women focus on you
Hurry up Todd there’s things I wanna teach u
Todd V = P.I.M.P
I think you're cute?
I HATE that intro music!
Its on every youtube video
I like it.
Go somewhere else then beta male
But Todds girlfriend is sub 5
12:01- cheat code , thanks me later