This video has helped me sooooooo much, thankyou. I've only just started coming out of the mindset that I'm evil after my diagnosis 6 months ago. My new therapist said to me "just because you have npd doesn't make you a bad person". It really struck a chord and since then I've been working on believing that and working on the good qualities. I loved the vlog videos also it was nice to see what your doing day to day. Brilliant content!!!
As he said... you are in control of you. If you allow yourself to abuse or control people, you're a bad person. It is evil. (Many of us only learned about narcissism after having suffered them) You get to decide what kind of person you are. :) In the words of Jordan Peterson: Be better than who you were yesterday. Best of luck to you, sincerely.
That's the problem though- most narcs are NOT in control of themselves. They are too busy trying to control everyone and everything around them, while they give themselves a pass on their outrageous behavior. They have no self-awareness; Lee is the exception, not the rule.
If you ask me, I think that EVERYONE has a touch of some sort of personality disorder or mental illness. Some have figured it out on their own, some have gotten help and some are blinded by their BS. It's the WOKE folks that make it in life
Love this! As a person who loves a person with NPD - I know they are good as people. A question I want to ask: do you think all narcs have the love language as 'gift giving'? My narc shows love this way and I feel guilty that I didn't see that until now
What is it if you believe I’m nauseous and they keep trying to pull you back in but you do not wanna go back or you are not going back why are they doing that
Why would a narcissist try to pull you back in you walked away from the relationship and they keep trying to bring you back into their life why I’m sorry for the other comment I was trying to type something else and do this at the same time
I love that, getting the same high (even better) doing Good/Helping people as it might doing someone wrong.
This video has helped me sooooooo much, thankyou. I've only just started coming out of the mindset that I'm evil after my diagnosis 6 months ago. My new therapist said to me "just because you have npd doesn't make you a bad person". It really struck a chord and since then I've been working on believing that and working on the good qualities. I loved the vlog videos also it was nice to see what your doing day to day. Brilliant content!!!
As he said... you are in control of you. If you allow yourself to abuse or control people, you're a bad person. It is evil. (Many of us only learned about narcissism after having suffered them)
You get to decide what kind of person you are. :)
In the words of Jordan Peterson: Be better than who you were yesterday.
Best of luck to you, sincerely.
🙂Thankyuuu for the throwback as usual GREAT INFO🙌🏾
Totally agree, looking forward to watching more. Much love from G-Mo Oklahoma
Thank you
You just really brought something to light for me, this really helped me. Thank you. 😊
What you had to say about control is very important. So many mental health problems surround the feeling of a loss of control
Exactly. Control is huge
Wow, another great video!
Thanks
🤗😅its just the way you sayyyyy the info thats dope!
Appreciate it
Such amazing information.
appreciate it
Very eye opening 🥰
you’re in control of your self & that’s truly the only thing you need to control
That's the problem though- most narcs are NOT in control of themselves. They are too busy trying to control everyone and everything around them, while they give themselves a pass on their outrageous behavior. They have no self-awareness; Lee is the exception, not the rule.
@@Nancy-yw1rrLee is a unicorn lol A terrifying unicorn.
i'm studying micro expressions... your throwing them. LOL Your not evil great job on your videos.
everyone does. i love micro expressions though
@@MentalHealnesseh who cares about Micro expressions
Thats why i like you i swear you answer EVERY DAM commet i have i love it!
lol you went way back
Following from Tik Tok thanks for sharing another great video
Thank you
Lol lee crazy eyes when your like how can i be better oooohhhh
Amen
Amen
Thanks. Shared this!
appreciate it
Being manipulative being evil anytime but you’re trying to get help !!!
If you ask me, I think that EVERYONE has a touch of some sort of personality disorder or mental illness. Some have figured it out on their own, some have gotten help and some are blinded by their BS. It's the WOKE folks that make it in life
Yes they ambitions for sure
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Love this! As a person who loves a person with NPD - I know they are good as people. A question I want to ask: do you think all narcs have the love language as 'gift giving'? My narc shows love this way and I feel guilty that I didn't see that until now
stay safe and strong
No. I know women with narcs who say they never received gifts from them.
@@Nancy-yw1rr I received a ton of gifts and didn’t put it together until now
Man i wish i knew this along time ago
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do you have a hard time sleeping?im asking because my ex did
i have a hard time shutting my brain off so that I can go to sleep
Lees like GROW dammit!
lol i've came a long way since here
I have bi polor type 2 and its NOT glamorous lol 😆 its depressing your not alone
What is it if you believe I’m nauseous and they keep trying to pull you back in but you do not wanna go back or you are not going back why are they doing that
I’m confused a little.
It's trauma bonding.
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You know I'm a reseller too right? Been selling on Ebay a year now
I seriously cant believe your admitting this
Manipulation is evil, but you are trying to get help!!!!
Why would a narcissist try to pull you back in you walked away from the relationship and they keep trying to bring you back into their life why I’m sorry for the other comment I was trying to type something else and do this at the same time
I’m thinking you need to cut off all access to yourself
Because their other supplies have disappeared. They always want to have someone in reserve in case they need a backup supply.
No lee your not an evil person trust me.
I am sorry how people bully and project onto you.
It’s all good
Obama care lol i rember those days 🤣
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