I vented to my mom. But it back fired 99% of the time cause it always ends with "thats cause you don't pray" or "you never listen to me". Instead, I go shopping now. My bank account is who I vent too lol. I don't travel but I bought a luggage set cause I needed to vent.
lol. not laughing at your struggles but the luggage made me burst into laughter 😊 If you are a believer, talk out loud to God. It will save you money and drama. Good luck 🍀
Maybe you bought the luggage set because your thoughts needed to escape. But I must say that is a great way to scare the crap out of your mom though, buy a luggage set llike "okay I am out of here"
yea i can relate i cant ever vent to my mom cus its always "you have to go to church more often" or "you need to pray" im like give me a realistic asoon as possible advice
Lol at Adrienne wanting to go to the therapist like it's an event or something. I think deep down inside we can all benefit from one therapy session 😂😂
I go to a therapist too and I'm a such a fan of the category and therapy process itself! You all need more recognition, people need to go into therapy more.
i vent to myself. put on some good music and sing the pain/anger away then go bout my life. no one need ever know my business. its easy to not have trust issues when all your secrets are just that: SECRET
LMBO I love a good psuedo-concert. I'll put my iPod on and get to singing so loud and hard my neighbors would think I was the reincarnation of Whitney. Hence, why I love that one scene in Bridget Jones Diary where she sings "All By Myself" at the top of her lungs.
a therapist is a human like yourself, who has their own issues, so I don't think seeing a therapist is EVER the answer. GOD HAS ALL ANSWERS AND CHARGES US NOTHING. #TEAMGODAllTheWay You should try HIM. HE WOULD SURPRISE YOU. Give HIM a chance to. You wouldn't be disappointed. I PROMISE. 😉
Queen Of Modesty sometimes therapy is the answer and there is nothing wrong with therapy why can't u seek both! Plus I need immediate answers to my issues that God is not going to give me
I dnt Vent to no one. I have realized that sometimes the best solution/advice is within you. When Im worried about something or anyone, I go to the bath room infront of the the mirror and Vent to the person looking right back at me.
Omg, I was sure Loni was gonna come with some bogus story trying to be funny but she actually had such a forward answer and take on this topic. There is a big stigma on seeing a therapist especially between immigrants. My cousin went and all my older family thought he was crazy. Or how if you see a therapist you must be broken. Loved the light shined on this topic!
loni herself said she didn't. but that's her choice. i actually think this wig is too long. she should try a shorter look (but no a pixie cut either). i think she'd look good with hair down to her chin with a little volume. this hairstyle is too "flat"
D Knightman, no one at that table but Jeanie had their natural hair out. And for Jeanie, that's rare because her and Adrienne always have in extensions! They all wear fake hair.
Therapy oh no you can get that for free. Yesterday i met this random lady on the bus who was visiting the city from the country side. I gave her some pointers on city-life because i saw her struggling a bit. On our ride home we chatted like crazy. She told me her life story and how her ex-husband broke her heart and that now she really wants another companion in her life. She vented to me for free, I could see she appreciated it.
hahah Tamera was like "i studied Psychology, i could be your therapist" nah hun! get that masters degree and that doctorate first, then we can talk hahah
I agree this is one of the misconceptions that people think that if they have a ba in psych they are a therapist. I have a ba in psych and people say you can be a therapist. But, I'm like I would at least need a master's for that.
I talk to my Therapist about things I'd never tell anyone else. I don't have to worry about my business getting out. when you tell friends or family, stuff may get out intentionally or unintentionally. I don't have to worry about that with my Therapist because we don't deal with the same circle of people. after our session she goes on with her life and I go on with mines👍👍
LMBO Adrienne sounds like my brother when she talked about wanting to go to therapy. Being that we're African-American and that's like a "taboo" thing, he told my mother he wanted to go and she nearly hit a wall thinking something was wrong when he really just wanted to go for the experience.
I mostly vent to my boyfriend because like they said, family gets too emotional and will have you worrying more than you were before you came to them for advice.
I actually vent to whoever I'm cool with at the time ! If you know your family is gonna judge you after you tell them , DONT TELL THEM!!! Even though it might be true ! However I want to tell my friends because they will probably make you feel better or help you get over the situation quickly !
I go to therapy and Loni is right it's so nice to have someone who isn't going to make you feel bad about saying anything to them. I mean they're getting paid and that's their job but they also have to do it well and my therapist is amazing I am truly happier than I've been in years. Went from being suicidal to being able to look at life in a positive way, I do still have my moments but she has truly saved me from myself.
I am not missing Tamar a single bit! The segments now seem so effortless, friendly and relaxed. No screaming banshee on the left side of the table anymore.
Cersei Lannister Totally agree! I think the first shows without her were a bit awkward but they seem to have a found a great synergy among the 4 of them now, I totally get immersed in their conversation now as if I were sitting next to them!
when I am going through with my mate , I vent to my friends ... your family is too judgenental ... but you have to be aware of who you vent to , not everyone has your best interest. I believe your friends understand your more than your family .
dj oldskool that is so true. my grams is like that too..... and I've learned to not trust anyone with my stories. so I just vent to God & its so crazy how whether it's the same day or the next week, its like he talks back to me in song or scripture or something. its a beautiful feeling!!
I vent to my friends too. Family members remember every little bad thing that particular person did to you. Besides, I can't talk a certain way to my family the way I talk to my friends.
Thank you Loni! Therapy is something everyone should experience. It's soo relieving! and they legally can't tell your business to anyone else, they pledge an oath
My cousin!!! That man knows me like the back of his hand!! He knows every detail of my life! Everything everything!!! He is not only my cousin but now my best friend as well!!!!
i used to vent to every third person out there, including my parents (being an only child) but then i realized i may be doing it just to feel pampered. Now I try to deal with my problems, and train my mind to be more positive and grateful no matter how big or small my problem is. Still a work in progress though...
My mother is not the person to go to when venting. My sister in law is the one I can go and vent to with no judgement. And she always gives me awesome Christ centered/biblical advice. She knows how to encourage me like no one else.
I actually learned that you shouldn't vent to anyone. Like it's good to get professional help if you need it but venting to others who are closely involved in your life isn't that good because they might judge or never forget it & that will mess up the relationship they have with the person you're having a problem with
I remember when i wanted to go see a therapist and even my own sister went in on me along with my "family" im glad i didnt listen to them mental health isnt something to play with
I vent to my stepmom. She's my best friend. She's like a cross between my friends and my mom. She's reassuring and comforting like a mom but she's so chill and non judgmental like one of my friends. I love her to death.
My best friend has always vented to me throughout our 10 year friendship. I've never been one to share my feelings, but due to recent deaths and grief in my life, I started opening up to her not too long ago . I've only opened up to her three times, but was I wrong to go to her at all. Each time, I was met with judgment, even when I opened up about my late mother. That's supposed my best friend though? Even after all the times I've listened to her, wiped her tears, even cried with her. Maybe we were best friends growing up, but now that we're adults, idk if we really have anything in common anymore. We're definitely not as close. I feel like I don't know her. It's sad.
I vented to my "friends" ha! they never let it go, they always reminded me of the past. REMINDED because I had to cut them off. now I vent to God or write it down. & I love it !
I don't ever vent to a family! They're just gonna see the negative of the other person, don't want that. Anndddd I don't vent to a close friend either for the same reason. Acquaintance will do.
I used to vent to my close buddies but as we grow up and goes separate ways, chit-chat is not an option. Now, I try to live the simple life to feel easy and comfy. I never vent to families because they are all not trustworthy especially my father and one of my elder brother.
I used to tell mom everything, now I never ever tell her anything about my problems because she's the most judgemental person you can meet, and having someone nagging you or blaming you for having real life problems is even worse than trying to find solutions
Having graduated from Psychology only gives you a wide overview and knowledge of human behavior Tamera....Counselors and Therapists are the ones prepared to tap counseling....just saying (finishing my masters in counseling) 😉
I was thinking the same thing after Tamera said that she studied psych in undergrad, lol! Just started my master's in counseling psych. Congrats & best of luck to you on your journey!
I used to vent to my niece lesson learned never vent to a family member, growing up we were so close to each other almost like sisters she was like a little sister I wish I had we're close to age me being 3 years older. But as we got older she would tell that person of what I told her about that person or would say things I never said or did to my mom that's when I stopped telling her things, she would still try to get things out from me like who am I talking to or dating but I just keep them to myself. Like if I would have told her yeah I'm talking to one of your good friends she would freak on me and talk to him that is a secret I've been keeping from her. So I turn to a really good friend of mine who never judges me for the things that I do, I don't have a best friend but this guy is a really good friend who I can talk to about anything and never judges.
I write. I just recently started doing this and it seems to help a lot. I take out of my mind and put in on "paper" (phone lol). I was frustrated about something related to work and every single time I vented somebody would tell me to just basically "deal with it" so I started writing, that way I can "say" everything I want without any interruptions or false pretenses.
Vent to God! I feel like both friends and family could fall out with u and then they might tell all your business and it could get messy. So I just journal and pray about it.
Tamera's right. I'm a twin and I when my sister is going through something, I get more emotional than her. It can be very frustrating sometimes cos then I appear to be overreacting🤦♀
I had a friend that I would always go to, but now I noticed she turns around and befriends those people I vented to her about...so now I'm totally lost. She literally listened to me vent to her about someone for weeks, she didn't like this person (and had nothing nice to say about this person for as long as we have both known about her) and she was not close to this person, then one day we are still talking and then this person walks in and mid-sentence she just goes "Hi girl" and I'm thinking "whaaaaaaaaa?"...cut to...now they are BEST FRIENDS. Mind freaking blown!!!
It makes sense Tamara studied psychology in the way she looks at things really cool Im studying to become a social worker and it really has changed me 2
Therapy wasn't fun for me. Helpful yes, but I have so many issues, a one hour session isn't enough. My mom tells me I have so many issues I could start a newsstand. 😂😂
Since I'm here now can I also say that there's nothing wrong with seeking therapy. You don't have to be "crazy" or mentally ill to have to speak or vent to a professional. It should be like going to the gym.
I feel like this is the first video of this season where you can really feel the " Real" vibe of the show again, you know? :) It seemed to me that everyone was so tense because of Tamar's leave, that the atmosphere at the table changed a bit. I don't know maybe it's just me... I am just glad they are back :D
I vent to my sister who is my best friend SO HARD. I vent for a good hour. I think she tunes me out sometimes but she usually sides with me LOL!! I am a very intuitive person so when I’m wrong, I know it and I admit it and I talk about it. But when I am NOT wrong ? Oh I’m venting and I’m dragging you and my sister will drag you too!
I vented to my mom. But it back fired 99% of the time cause it always ends with "thats cause you don't pray" or "you never listen to me". Instead, I go shopping now. My bank account is who I vent too lol. I don't travel but I bought a luggage set cause I needed to vent.
lol. not laughing at your struggles but the luggage made me burst into laughter 😊 If you are a believer, talk out loud to God. It will save you money and drama. Good luck 🍀
Maybe you bought the luggage set because your thoughts needed to escape. But I must say that is a great way to scare the crap out of your mom though, buy a luggage set llike "okay I am out of here"
I shop hard when I'm upset. It helps until I check my bank account lol
yea i can relate i cant ever vent to my mom cus its always "you have to go to church more often" or "you need to pray" im like give me a realistic asoon as possible advice
lol "back account"???
Lol at Adrienne wanting to go to the therapist like it's an event or something. I think deep down inside we can all benefit from one therapy session 😂😂
Do NOT vent to family unless you know they can be unbiased.
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I am happy that Loni encouraged therapy though. People look down on it but there's nothing to be ashamed of.
Ikr a lot of people actually needs therapy but they too embarrassed to admit it
+dj_oldskool exactly
Yasss
Tamera is telling the truth. Most of the twins I know behave just like that.
On the way to the bus stop, i vent to myself, I'm not crazy
ha me too omg
OMG ME! I vent when I'm walking and sometimes I put my phone to my ear to make it seem like I'm talking on the phone.
haha omg me too I thought I was the only one!
***** yes, I'm then only person i can rely on
Girrrrl I do the same if I wanna have an intelligent convo with no judgement I talk to my damn self sounds crazy but I don't care lol
Jeannie made the the strongest point "MOST people will try to destroy themselves THROUGH you"! Its VERY true!!!
Britney Waldron I'm genuinely confused by this statement. What does it mean exactly?
Psychotherapist here☝🏼️ glad you had a good time. We need to normalize the therapeutic process!
my thoughts exactly! normalize therapy globally so people can have better mental health :D
I go to a therapist too and I'm a such a fan of the category and therapy process itself!
You all need more recognition, people need to go into therapy more.
and btw what can be better than be listened and treated for an hour long?
Nothing, people missing out a lot.
I still can't believe Jeannie almost 40 im sorry but I refuse to believe it... somebody lying lmao.. in all seriousness, she looks great! they all do
Asian and Black women age the best
Well when you don't smoke or drink and moisturize and work out regularly, you're not going to age quickly at all.
that was the first thing I thought once I saw her. she looks great!
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joejill51lala her mother is even more unbelievable. she looks young as Jeanine
i vent to myself. put on some good music and sing the pain/anger away then go bout my life. no one need ever know my business. its easy to not have trust issues when all your secrets are just that: SECRET
wow so true
LMBO I love a good psuedo-concert. I'll put my iPod on and get to singing so loud and hard my neighbors would think I was the reincarnation of Whitney. Hence, why I love that one scene in Bridget Jones Diary where she sings "All By Myself" at the top of her lungs.
👏👏👏👏
AROHA_BPINK_NCT_CHINALINE_ KPOP
hey my sister in kpop lol
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thats me when im home alone lol. luckily no one lives close enough to hear me
Jeannie's glasses are so cute!
Adrienne looking so good. Reminds me of how she dressed/did her hair in season 1 😍
I vent to God !
amen!
Right. Praise Him. Only He can supply your needs honey.
Therapist. God isn't going to answer. Get a therapist.
a therapist is a human like yourself, who has their own issues, so I don't think seeing a therapist is EVER the answer.
GOD HAS ALL ANSWERS AND CHARGES US NOTHING.
#TEAMGODAllTheWay
You should try HIM. HE WOULD SURPRISE YOU. Give HIM a chance to. You wouldn't be disappointed. I PROMISE. 😉
Queen Of Modesty sometimes therapy is the answer and there is nothing wrong with therapy why can't u seek both! Plus I need immediate answers to my issues that God is not going to give me
I dnt Vent to no one. I have realized that sometimes the best solution/advice is within you. When Im worried about something or anyone, I go to the bath room infront of the the mirror and Vent to the person looking right back at me.
kate Cameroon let itvout and ccall on God
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Omg, I was sure Loni was gonna come with some bogus story trying to be funny but she actually had such a forward answer and take on this topic. There is a big stigma on seeing a therapist especially between immigrants. My cousin went and all my older family thought he was crazy. Or how if you see a therapist you must be broken. Loved the light shined on this topic!
Adrienne got like 10 Best friends.
😂😂😂😂😂
wish I was one 😢😢😢
Jeannie has such an awesome relationship with her mom
Loni is looking really good this season!
Right, she's a gorgeous woman
she look aight...but she needs to embrace her natural hair .. don't care if anyone agrees or not...
Who says she doesn't tAmera wears wigs and she's mixed sew ins too she mentioned one episode
loni herself said she didn't. but that's her choice. i actually think this wig is too long. she should try a shorter look (but no a pixie cut either). i think she'd look good with hair down to her chin with a little volume. this hairstyle is too "flat"
D Knightman, no one at that table but Jeanie had their natural hair out. And for Jeanie, that's rare because her and Adrienne always have in extensions! They all wear fake hair.
Therapy oh no you can get that for free. Yesterday i met this random lady on the bus who was visiting the city from the country side. I gave her some pointers on city-life because i saw her struggling a bit. On our ride home we chatted like crazy. She told me her life story and how her ex-husband broke her heart and that now she really wants another companion in her life. She vented to me for free, I could see she appreciated it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I swear venting to strangers is so common. I think it's beautiful when the person on the receiving end really listens.
hahah Tamera was like "i studied Psychology, i could be your therapist" nah hun! get that masters degree and that doctorate first, then we can talk hahah
That's what I said!
lmao
I agree this is one of the misconceptions that people think that if they have a ba in psych they are a therapist. I have a ba in psych and people say you can be a therapist. But, I'm like I would at least need a master's for that.
Why do I feel like this was shade n not funny?...
Zap Love in the UK you need at least doctorate or a Ph.D. so i get you
The ladies are looking gorgeous this season!!
I talk to my Therapist about things I'd never tell anyone else. I don't have to worry about my business getting out. when you tell friends or family, stuff may get out intentionally or unintentionally. I don't have to worry about that with my Therapist because we don't deal with the same circle of people. after our session she goes on with her life and I go on with mines👍👍
yes, going to therapy, that is my COA COA moment.
Adrienne never been to the therapist, but she need one the most.
Omg lol
I'm so done 😅😅
No Adrianne needs Jesus lol
Jesus yeahhhhhhh 😂😂😂😂
LMBO Adrienne sounds like my brother when she talked about wanting to go to therapy. Being that we're African-American and that's like a "taboo" thing, he told my mother he wanted to go and she nearly hit a wall thinking something was wrong when he really just wanted to go for the experience.
***** His campus is a smaller college so they don't have a counseling center that's that advance yet. Good idea though!
meet your pastor or priest is free.
pastor will gossip to the church, before you know it everybody's nosey ass will know! go to a therapist , someone you don't see in your daily life
Jeannie needs to wear those glasses more often. Real talk.
Hm...she looks beautiful w/o them too tho ?
yup so pretty on her. the glasses and her make up make her look so much like her mom :)
They're fake so I dont think she would
I vent to my cat. Judge away 😑😂
Cats are awesome. They don't judge.
I love it! LOL! My therapist told me I should get a cat so I can vent too! LMAO!
My cats vent to me.
lool.
I mostly vent to my boyfriend because like they said, family gets too emotional and will have you worrying more than you were before you came to them for advice.
I actually vent to whoever I'm cool with at the time ! If you know your family is gonna judge you after you tell them , DONT TELL THEM!!! Even though it might be true ! However I want to tell my friends because they will probably make you feel better or help you get over the situation quickly !
I vent in the pages of my journal. I sit in a corner, breathe and write.
I go to therapy and Loni is right it's so nice to have someone who isn't going to make you feel bad about saying anything to them. I mean they're getting paid and that's their job but they also have to do it well and my therapist is amazing I am truly happier than I've been in years. Went from being suicidal to being able to look at life in a positive way, I do still have my moments but she has truly saved me from myself.
I am not missing Tamar a single bit! The segments now seem so effortless, friendly and relaxed. No screaming banshee on the left side of the table anymore.
lol!
goodness. so true! plus it seems more geniune
Cersei Lannister Totally agree! I think the first shows without her were a bit awkward but they seem to have a found a great synergy among the 4 of them now, I totally get immersed in their conversation now as if I were sitting next to them!
Yessssss ; exactly how i feel!
Kenny M so true Tamar was to much ,
It depends what I am venting about. There are things that I vent to my girlfriends and there are other things that I vent to family.
I agree. Always vent to friends, not family. And always make sure you vent to the right friends!!!!
GaGa and Tony Bennett's relationship is cute!
lol she is an old admirer
I vent to my best friend. He's truly the most understanding person I know.
when I am going through with my mate , I vent to my friends ... your family is too judgenental ... but you have to be aware of who you vent to , not everyone has your best interest. I believe your friends understand your more than your family .
I can testify I love when Jeannie does impressions of mama mai 😩😂😂
I've tried to vent to my grandma but she overreacts to everything no matter what so now I just keep it to myself or talk to God
you can vent to me because I'm a stranger and I wont judge haha.... everyone else does or it feels like haha
You're like me too.. Mostly I talk to myself and God too
God is the best person to talk to
dj oldskool that is so true. my grams is like that too..... and I've learned to not trust anyone with my stories. so I just vent to God & its so crazy how whether it's the same day or the next week, its like he talks back to me in song or scripture or something. its a beautiful feeling!!
I vent to my friends too. Family members remember every little bad thing that particular person did to you. Besides, I can't talk a certain way to my family the way I talk to my friends.
Why not? Be real
Jeannie is telling the truth and this makes me remind myself to keep family out of my relationship.
I firmly believe in therapy. I go through my college wellness center and it helps me get through my weeks of college.
I LOVE THE FRIENDSHIP GIRL CHATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MORE PLEASE
I need Adrienne’s sis as my friend 🤣😂”Do we need to go to Home Depot..” 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂💀
I love The Real !!!! They always stay REAL !
Thank you Loni! Therapy is something everyone should experience. It's soo relieving! and they legally can't tell your business to anyone else, they pledge an oath
Jeannie looks so good this season. She stands out now!!!!
My cousin!!! That man knows me like the back of his hand!! He knows every detail of my life! Everything everything!!! He is not only my cousin but now my best friend as well!!!!
I freaking love Jeannie. She speaks a lot of truths and I love when she talks about her mom and does the little accent thing, LOL.
miss loni has been snatched!! yasssssss
i used to vent to every third person out there, including my parents (being an only child) but then i realized i may be doing it just to feel pampered. Now I try to deal with my problems, and train my mind to be more positive and grateful no matter how big or small my problem is. Still a work in progress though...
My mother is not the person to go to when venting. My sister in law is the one I can go and vent to with no judgement. And she always gives me awesome Christ centered/biblical advice. She knows how to encourage me like no one else.
For a Black Male I really enjoyed these Sistas because my Daughter n my Nieces always talk about TheReals Topics……….I learned so much
You girls save me through all my breakups😭😭❤❤
I actually learned that you shouldn't vent to anyone. Like it's good to get professional help if you need it but venting to others who are closely involved in your life isn't that good because they might judge or never forget it & that will mess up the relationship they have with the person you're having a problem with
I remember when i wanted to go see a therapist and even my own sister went in on me along with my "family" im glad i didnt listen to them mental health isnt something to play with
It depends, sometimes ill vent to my best friend, and sometimes I'll vent to my dad, but nothing compared to going to therapy ! Therapy is the best.
I vent to my stepmom. She's my best friend. She's like a cross between my friends and my mom. She's reassuring and comforting like a mom but she's so chill and non judgmental like one of my friends. I love her to death.
I love it Jeanine imitates her mother, It's so funny😂🤣🤣😄😅😄🤣🤣😁.
I love Loni for promoting therapy, it really can be life-changing.
I hate therapy, but it helps a little bit.
Love Jeannie, she's my fave & her glasses are cute af
My best friend has always vented to me throughout our 10 year friendship. I've never been one to share my feelings, but due to recent deaths and grief in my life, I started opening up to her not too long ago . I've only opened up to her three times, but was I wrong to go to her at all. Each time, I was met with judgment, even when I opened up about my late mother. That's supposed my best friend though? Even after all the times I've listened to her, wiped her tears, even cried with her. Maybe we were best friends growing up, but now that we're adults, idk if we really have anything in common anymore. We're definitely not as close. I feel like I don't know her. It's sad.
I love Tamera she looks so gorgeous 😍😍😍😍
I would vent to a friend over a family member. :) #JustThatWay
this show is great with just the four of them -pleasant surprise
I vent to my husband. Hes always there to listen and comfort me.
They should do a segment with all four of them going to group therapy. The revelations might be interesting.
Jennie is always oozing with wisdom👏💯❤️
I vented to my "friends" ha! they never let it go, they always reminded me of the past. REMINDED because I had to cut them off. now I vent to God or write it down. & I love it !
I don't ever vent to a family! They're just gonna see the negative of the other person, don't want that. Anndddd I don't vent to a close friend either for the same reason. Acquaintance will do.
Tamera is looking so skinny and so freaking good this season!
She's beautiful both in and out!
She is slimming down, and looking great!
I used to vent to my close buddies but as we grow up and goes separate ways, chit-chat is not an option. Now, I try to live the simple life to feel easy and comfy. I never vent to families because they are all not trustworthy especially my father and one of my elder brother.
love love loveeee Jeanie's look on todays show!!!!
However, my sisters are also my best friends, so I can talk to them about anything.
I used to tell mom everything, now I never ever tell her anything about my problems because she's the most judgemental person you can meet, and having someone nagging you or blaming you for having real life problems is even worse than trying to find solutions
FINALLY Loni has foundation that matches her skin😭😍 I love this natural dark chocolate LEWWWK YES LONI!!! Rock that gorgeous skiiiin
I'm a therapist. We're bound by law.… talk to us!!! Yesssss
Having graduated from Psychology only gives you a wide overview and knowledge of human behavior Tamera....Counselors and Therapists are the ones prepared to tap counseling....just saying (finishing my masters in counseling) 😉
I was thinking the same thing after Tamera said that she studied psych in undergrad, lol! Just started my master's in counseling psych. Congrats & best of luck to you on your journey!
Patricia Boateng same to you! 💌
I used to vent to my niece lesson learned never vent to a family member, growing up we were so close to each other almost like sisters she was like a little sister I wish I had we're close to age me being 3 years older. But as we got older she would tell that person of what I told her about that person or would say things I never said or did to my mom that's when I stopped telling her things, she would still try to get things out from me like who am I talking to or dating but I just keep them to myself. Like if I would have told her yeah I'm talking to one of your good friends she would freak on me and talk to him that is a secret I've been keeping from her. So I turn to a really good friend of mine who never judges me for the things that I do, I don't have a best friend but this guy is a really good friend who I can talk to about anything and never judges.
I write. I just recently started doing this and it seems to help a lot. I take out of my mind and put in on "paper" (phone lol). I was frustrated about something related to work and every single time I vented somebody would tell me to just basically "deal with it" so I started writing, that way I can "say" everything I want without any interruptions or false pretenses.
Good idea 👍
Vent to God! I feel like both friends and family could fall out with u and then they might tell all your business and it could get messy. So I just journal and pray about it.
Tamera's right. I'm a twin and I when my sister is going through something, I get more emotional than her. It can be very frustrating sometimes cos then I appear to be overreacting🤦♀
I vent to myself. People I know don’t give great advice, judge mental, not understanding, harsh, and etc....so myself it is and the Lord.
Yeah therapy is the best!😀😌💜
It really helps!
Nope, no to my family. They will be too damn judgemental. I learn the hard way. Best friends it is.
I had a friend that I would always go to, but now I noticed she turns around and befriends those people I vented to her about...so now I'm totally lost. She literally listened to me vent to her about someone for weeks, she didn't like this person (and had nothing nice to say about this person for as long as we have both known about her) and she was not close to this person, then one day we are still talking and then this person walks in and mid-sentence she just goes "Hi girl" and I'm thinking "whaaaaaaaaa?"...cut to...now they are BEST FRIENDS. Mind freaking blown!!!
Loni's hair looks amazing!
I’ve had a few therapists that did judge me. One thought I was an alcoholic and another thought I was lying.
Tamera: you know I studied psychology! So I could-
Me: *eyes roll to the back of head*
This show is my therapy.
It makes sense Tamara studied psychology in the way she looks at things really cool Im studying to become a social worker and it really has changed me 2
I love how adrienne almost did the asian accent when quoting mama mai lol These girls are so refreshing
Therapy wasn't fun for me. Helpful yes, but I have so many issues, a one hour session isn't enough. My mom tells me I have so many issues I could start a newsstand. 😂😂
She was spending too much money so he sent her to a therapist to spend more money? Ok?
I think she mentioned that her insurance covers it..
I wish everyone's insurance covered therapy.
Since I'm here now can I also say that there's nothing wrong with seeking therapy. You don't have to be "crazy" or mentally ill to have to speak or vent to a professional. It should be like going to the gym.
Tamera is so gorgeous, that color suits her!!
Omg these are like the old school "style network" faves! I used to always watch that channel after school!!!! 💞
The hard reality of being a twin. You hold a grudge. I always call my twin my walking diary. Because she know everything.
Vent to somebody who isn’t going to tell the world what you said. I particular feel like Tam who hates ppl who treat my friends and family wrong .
I vent to myself. I record myself and replay it back
I feel like this is the first video of this season where you can really feel the " Real" vibe of the show again, you know? :) It seemed to me that everyone was so tense because of Tamar's leave, that the atmosphere at the table changed a bit. I don't know maybe it's just me... I am just glad they are back :D
I vent to my sister who is my best friend SO HARD. I vent for a good hour. I think she tunes me out sometimes but she usually sides with me LOL!! I am a very intuitive person so when I’m wrong, I know it and I admit it and I talk about it. But when I am NOT wrong ? Oh I’m venting and I’m dragging you and my sister will drag you too!