Same. My life went to shambles due to chronic pain. I exhibit and have been battling the discussed symptoms. I figured the extreme lack of energy and interest were due to extreme depression, but it really hits u when u see it so clearly laid out like this video. I hope u find what u need to return joy to your life, as everyone needs some love and joy in their life.
Most of my time right now is spent silently crying alone in my bedroom, hiding my emotions Infront of others, and pretending that I'm fine... I still miss him... I still need him... He's everything to me... My hero.. My only best friend I'll have... The one who actually listened when no one else would... The one who saved me... It's been a year and 4 months since he died... I still feel sad, lonely, and just missing him. He's gone, my dog is gone... He died due to old age and I sometimes tend to blame myself for his death when I know that it's not my fault at all...
I see you in alot of vids o.o Its like your a bot and i saw you had do much comments here, Sssniperwolf's videos, and more? *And i didnt smile so what does that mean?*
"Lazy" is such a hurtful word in my experience, there's usually a reason behind not being able to be productive, and being called lazy just makes you beat yourself up for not acting "normal"
Right, it makes me feel like I’m not deserving of a break. That I should be working harder and harder. “Lazy” shouldn’t be a trait. The same person who could write an entire novel and graduate college with good grades is still the same person lounging around for weeks straight not doing anything but watching Netflix. People shouldn’t be shamed for that.
As someone who for a lot of their time in school never really had any trouble, I used to always think the people around me just weren't trying because they had convinced themselves they were dumb without having even really attempting to do the work they think is too tough for them, because all I was doing was trying and I was doing pretty well; and I didn't really believe this idea that I was 'just smart', like it was just luck and I was born with it instead of working for it I would sometimes get in response when I tried to encourage people. Now that I have reached the point where I've given it my best and still struggled like hell in University, I honestly don't really believe there is such a thing as a 'lazy' person anymore. Private conversations I've had with other people on my course are all revealing the same thing, someone who outwardly seems to just be lazy and unenthused about the work comes to ask for help with something and over time I find out they are practically killing themselves with how hard they are pushing just to stay afloat, just like I am. When they say "Oh I'm bad at this, I won't be able to figure it out", it's not some lazy defelction to feign ignorance so they don't have to do the work, it's them giving into their inner voice as it's being proven to them time and time again in front of their eyes that they cannot keep up with this as every time they push themselves to fight their way out of their rut and get to work they only find themselves stuck again. Honestly, I used to always think if I started feeling like this, the most comforting thing to hear would be the assurance that I'm not alone. Turns out that's the last fucking thing I want to hear because it's the bog-standard response I always get any time I open up a little to anyone, and it just makes me feel more hopeless and frustrated. I *know* that everyone on my course is concerned for their future, feeling worthless, and pushing themselves an unhealthy amount to get by just like me - but I can't do much about it. I certainly try to, I talk to them and I help them with their work, but that isn't the solution. The solution is not to run a difficult University Course online where the work is still expected to be of the same standard and completed at the same speed as normal as if there is no pandemic going on right now that's already crippling to our collective mental health, then piling on top of that isolation as much stress as possible to get everyone hating themselves too. Knowing how obvious this problem is and being reminded of it constantly like it's my responsibility to solve, even though I have no power over the education system or lockdown rules just makes me feel more depressed, and I feel like I'm seeing this used more to shut down the conversation rather than open it up.
1. Can’t snap out of it yourself 2. Can’t cheer up 3. Lost interest in everything 4. Can’t function like used to 5. Laziness not triggered by anything in particular 6. Laziness is not a choice
Actually Point 6 in video says the opposite: Depression is not triggered by anything in particular, while laziness is. And point 7 in video actually says that depression is not a choice while laziness is.
Yeah it’s really awful. Feeling numb about things or even people you love. Literally just not caring, like your emotions have been taken away. Don’t know of that’s depression though.
@Rafael orozco welp i have not acheived any shit at all but i can tell u that much that if u are not ready to lose something then u cant really acheive any thing either .
That's gotta be tough. I'm here if you want to talk. No pressure. Just know that you aren't alone and that someone is there for you if you want to talk
@@Crumbledpaperball thanks for your sweetness, I really appreciate it. I am actually much better than before now. I hope everyone in this world is safe and happy. This world deserves more nice people like you💛
@@reverie477 you're welcome :) I'm glad to hear you're doing better now! Amen to that. Aw shucks, thanks! Remember, if u ever get to feeling bad again (which hopefully will not happen)
As someone who suffers with extreme severe anxiety I can totally relate to her. I would stop eating for days at a time as a punishment. I worry a lot about my life, everyone around me and pleasing everyone. It's absolutely crippling, so glad she got the help she needed, lovely young lady it's so sad that society has 1 in 3 people suffering mental health issues. I hope everyone seeks help
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about how mushrooms and psychedelics treats anxiety, but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, doctor Greg mushroom I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
The weird thing is that u smile and try to look cheerful, cause you dont want to hurt ones around you but the ones who hurt you are the ones around. The cheeriest face has the saddest soul
“The loneliest people are the kindest, the saddest people smile the brightest, and the most damaged people are the wisest. All because they do not wish to see anyone else suffer the way they do.”
as someone with depression, for me it's strange. I can still laugh and joke around with friends, but the moment I'm by myself, it just creeps back in, like a never-ending and vicious cycle that will always be a part of my life (because for me it's clinical.) There is no getting rid of it. Even if I find ways to cope with it or start taking medications, it eventually comes back no matter what, rendering coping mechanisms useless, and medications seemingly ineffective after only a couple months of use. I've essentially given up on trying to deal with it as a result, I just don't have the motivation to fight something that is and always will be a constant in my life. The only thing I can do is survive
Same. Although with me, it's still different, I guess. I feel like I'm better since I got on my antidepressant basically a year ago and that i am just being a lazy person i don't do chores as often as i use to before i fell into a depression and i think about the hobbies and other things i like to do, bit i dont want to do them even though they sound fun and just stay on my phone all day. Yeah, being buried in my phone sounds better than wanting to crochet. My husband says that it's because I'm still depressed. I know he knows better, but I feel like I have just turned into a lazy person. Unless I have just convinced myself that I am lazy. I still get days when I feel low and negative and have a hard time getting out of bed even though I'm on medication and then I have days where I feel fine and still don't want to get out of bed. I have been in my first depression for a year. So I may still be in some type of denial and just convinced myself I am lazy. It's been a very confusing year with it, that is for sure. I know it's affects everyone differently. Idk. 😮💨
The part that hurts the most when you have depression is when the people around you can't notice your depression and doesn't believe you have one saying that it's all in your head ;-;
People act like depression being in someone’s head makes the problem “not count”. But if a healthy person started having nightmares and you told them the same thing, that still wouldn’t eliminate the problem.
I'm an online teacher and I have to put on a happy face every day. That's the worst part of having depression: having to fake being happy/fine. Sending love to all out there ❤
I am just a child, I could probably be your pupil but I would like to wish you lots of perseverance and send you a flight from hugs❤️ Every day you make the pupils you smile at feel better. I'm sure you've made their day more than once with your warm smile. I understand how difficult it must be for you to give the impression of being happy for your students when you are suffering inside. .... Unfortunately, I can't promise you that you won't feel this way again, as it will probably take some time for you to overcome your illness, but I have faith in you. You are wise and beautiful, and above all, don't let yourself be destroyed. Since you started working with the students, you must be a wonderful and strong person, because you are teaching them basic activities without which they wouldn't make it in life. Dear, if you need to talk to someone, I am at your disposal. I'm young, crazy and probably hopeless when it comes to psychology, but I'm also a sensitive person who will help you as much as I can💗. Hang in there, I'm sure you can handle it and come out of depression ❤️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋
It's me... But i don't think its depression cuz i haven't lost interest in the things i love and i still play games with my brother shouting super loud.. so yeah!
@@angelfayelawas4740 But i am just 14 years and if i say it to my parents they r gonna say," Little Knowledge is Dangerous"... But i don't think it's serious it just that sometimes i just feel lonely... BTW thank you so much for the advice.. I really appreciate it!!!
Yeah sadly.... I lost interest in drawing also in playing volleyball and the worst is I've been losing interest in the mist important thing in my life which is studies and this really did disturb me for a while...
yes that's right!! i was losing my interest in dancing.. usually i do dance for makes me happy and take out all the negativity.. and i lost it, tbh it was the baddest thing ever.. i'm trying to do something new like making song, play piano, since i love music but not help much.. hope y'all okay too guys, be healthy ❤️
Yeah I've always loved music, it was my life. I used to love singing and playing instruments, but now i can't enjoy it at all And I feel like i'm not gonna enjoy it anymore I want to find something what I enjoy doing, i want something to be my passion like music was before
my depression has gotten so bad its at a point where i dont care about anything or myself. dont care if i fail something or dont show up somewhere i just dont have the will to care and have no motivation to care
For me it’s like… i believe in my friends, i believe they they are amazing and they can do everything and they deserve happiness. Then for me it’s the opposite. I just either hate myself all the time or not physically care.
This is me birthday just passed just sat at home the whole weekend literally did nothing gave my all to last job & they fired me I’m tired of trying quit looking for a job I wanna better myself but I’m tired of trying no insurance so can’t get therapy I’m just fkd…🥺
I appeared in my last exam unprepared, and then failed , i didn't care if I failed. I just couldn't study . Most of the days i skip classes because it's too hard for me to show up. I procrastinate and the pending syllabus makes it worse everytime. I feel so lonely, i cry. I have no interest in anything. No motivation is working for me. I was once a topper and it haunts me that I can't even try to start the task. I have problems even to maintain my basic hygiene. I don't shower for days , usually someone reminds me. And then i hate myself with all my heart. Had thoughts of dying and escaping to somewhere. Talked about it to many people , tried everything . Don't know what's wrong with me. Why have i become such a coward?
I don't think anyone is ever "just lazy", rather there are underlying issues that explain their lack of activity. i think we just use the word lazy to avoid thinking and reflecting on ourselves because we are our own worst enemies and the idea of confronting our flaws and making a constant effort to better ourselves terrifies a lot of people. EDIT: With this being said, it IS perfectly normal to take breaks from improving yourself and it's essential to chill out every now and then and grow at your own pace.
I don't study and don't work. If I ask my teacher for help she will know I didn't work and she might get mad and then tell my parents and it will be horrible, but after that I would get better because she would help me catch up. But I'm scared so I don't. So I keep not working and not knowing anything 😁
@@river.ate.your.geese. I had this same issue a few months ago but the truth soon came out. I had 2 F's and 2 D's and my mom noticed my grades. You can bet I got in some trouble but trust me, it's way better to just talk to your parents because the worst that could happen is getting in trouble for a little bit which isn't too bad. But, if u don't say anything and get your report card with bad grades, ur parents will be 10x as angry with you for not talking sooner. I don't know if this helped but I want u to know that I understand ur pain and I believe in u😁👍
“You’ve lost interest in everything”, you know this is probably the most evident out of everything. The things that did get me somewhat out and excited just don’t feel the same anymore, like I don’t have the energy to do anything anymore.
Yea, this one sign is one that I noticed. It's not that I want to procrastinate or "I rather play game or do something else than doing homework". I don't even want to do anything
I get this too, and it wasn’t even because of the virus. I just i think in some cases it’s just growing out of it cause other than that I don’t have any other things on this list going on rn
When we are all by ourselves and have no one that really understands us... We might go in to a state of lost... I tried finding someone for emotional support exposing my weaker side.. And i lost it... Even tried to do extreme things..
@@cyrilmatthew2995 Are you okay now??? 🙁🙁At times like this cheesy words like "don't worry you get well soon" won't help..So I am telling you to get some professional help🙁
I hate when it’s nice out and everyone feels like they need to do something and not let the day go to waste. I think this is why I like rainy/overcast days
Yeah they will never take it seriously we have to cry ever night and fake a smile and carry our anxiety depression loneliness with us I will sucide or they will kill me :'(
@@ur_no_fun Hey don't be deterred...I'm sure they'll understand you and even if they don't, just believe in yourself. Life is beautiful and suicide is never an option. Seek a psychologist. I'm sure you'll be better soon. I'll definitely pray for you, just don't lose hope!!❤️
You will be happy if you knew the purpose of being alive. The signs(not proof) of higher divinity are in the beauty of nature, the existence of living beings after the sterile environment created by the big bang (living beings out of sterile dead matter?), a living being's consciousness, the ability to have intelligence and discernment, what is good, bad, right, wrong, and that humans are without a doubt the center of this existence (there is no life on other planets like earth, that had billions of years in time. Animals and everything on earth is made in a way that benefits us). Now let me PROVE to you that God has sent us a revelation. It is the Quran: 1. And the heaven We constructed with strength, and indeed, We are [its] expander. 1400 years ago, Quran (51:47) - Recently discovered the continuous expansion of the Universe. The expansion being faster than the Speed of light and a mystery to science makes this sign special. 2. “And you see the mountains, thinking them rigid, while they will pass as the passing of clouds. [It is] the work of Allah, who perfected all things. Indeed, He is Acquainted with that which you do”. 27:88. If you read this verse carefully you will learn 2 things: The Quran knows that the earth is rotating. And that the earth is round. On a stationary flat earth module, you don’t have rotation. Reminder: Arabs 1400 years ago in the desert, didn't know this. 3. "Have We not made the earth as a bed, and the mountains as pegs?" (Qur'an, 78:6-7) Newly its been proven that mountains have deep roots to stabilize the earth just like tent pegs, Visually and functionally. 4. "Did the unbelievers not realize? that the heavens and the earth were one solid mass, then We tore them apart, and We made every living being out of water? Will they, then, not believe (that We created all this)? First, its true that scientists discovered these 2 things recently: The Big bang and 2. Every living being is made out of water. The mindblowing confidence and accuracy of this verse is undeniable evidence of a divine hand in the Quran 21:30. 5. No! If he does not stop, We will take him by the naseyah (front of the head), a lying, sinful naseyah (front of the head)! 96:15-16 -The Qur'an calls the front of a mans Head “lying”. It's recently discovered that the small Prefrontal lobe which is exactly at the front of the head that is responsible for lying and deceptiveness. 6. He has set free the two seas meeting together. There is a barrier between them. They do not transgress. 55:19-20 Not a miracle but a sign of a merciful creator. - Allah is telling humans that he has put a barrier for us between the 2 kinds of Water, one is salty, one is sweet and palatable. He does these things for us out of mercy, as powerful as he is, he isn't forced to do anything. Just look around at, you will see how submissive He has made everything to humans 7. Or (the unbelievers’ state) is like the darkness in a deep sea. It is covered by waves, above which are waves, above which are clouds. Darkness, one above another. If a man stretches out his hand, he cannot see it. 24:40 - Allah is talking about the newly discovered, deep (Internal) waves of the sea. Deep invisible ones that 1400 years ago only its creator knew of. Many more are there. I couldn’t count all signs of the Quran here. There are many different things that indicate a divine hand in the Quran. 1. The word "spider" in Arabic is "Ankabout". it is 100% masculine when said so. and you give it the "He" treatment if you don't specify the gender. When Allah mentions the spider house He surprisingly uses "She", ("her house"). Now it's scientifically proven that every spider type on earth (small, big, from Africa, Europe, America, doesn’t matter) Only the female of which builds houses. The same thing with the Honeybee, Allah mentioned 4 TIMES in ONE VERSE “she”/ "her" in the chapter of the “Bee” when He referred to the worker bees, who are discovered recently to be 100% female and the verse following it said it was a miracle, so how is it debatable whether the Quran is from Allah or not?. "Then do they not reflect upon the Qur'an? If it had been from [any] other than Allah, they would have found within it much contradiction." 4:82 2. Iron: There is also an entire chapter in the Quran which is named Iron. This shows how important Iron is to mankind, way more important than gold. it is essential for today’s Industry. God said at the beginning of the chapter: "And We sent down Iron to mankind" So why did God use the word "sent down" rather than one of his favorite words "Created", which was used for almost all created things mentioned (Except the Quran). Because Iron was sent down after the formation of the original earth, from Space in the form of meteorites, so it gets buried underground for us to use when we are advanced enough to mine it and use it, because of that "sent down" is more accurate. Yes, there is no "Up" or "Down" in space but if it falls from the earth's atmosphere to its ground, it's "sent down from the sky." 3. The Quran has many "challenge verses" the most famous is: . Quranic chapters can be as short as 10 words. No one could ever bring something like the Quran. many have tried and all of them failed miserably. 4. The precision of the Quran is amazing. After a year of research, i found out that the rules in the Quran are reasonable and make perfect sense. No weird, ancient people rules. No Jihad wars. And many of what you know about Islam is probably Arabic tradition and not Gods words (Quran). Fact: only about 20% of Muslims are Arabs. God chose Arabic because it was the most advanced language at that time (Still is and has the most words and complexity). There is a very small % of people pure enough to be called true Muslims because true Muslims fear God and abstain from all wrongdoings. Quran chapter 2 verse 8 to 9: 8. "Among the people are those who say, “We believe in God and in the Last Day,” but they are not believers. They seek to deceive God and those who believe, but they deceive none but themselves, though they are not aware." "We will show them Our Signs in the universe, and in their ownselves, until it becomes manifest to them that this (the Quran) is the truth. Is it not sufficient in regard to your Lord that He is a Witness over all things? " There Is a Mathematical Miracle in the Quran That Proves It Is the Word of God "Say: 'If the whole of mankind and Jinns were to gather together to produce the like of this Qur'an, they could not produce the like thereof, even if they backed up each other with help and support.'" (Chapter 17:88) The number of times the word “Man” is mentioned: 24 times. The number of times the word “Woman” is mentioned: 24 times. • “Dunia” (one of the Arabic words for ‘life’) is mentioned 115 times, and “Aakhira” (an Arabic word for ‘after life’) is also mentioned 115 times. • “Malaika” (the Arabic word for angel) is mentioned 88 times, and “Shaytan” (Satan) is mentioned 88 times. • “Life” is mentioned 145 times. “Death” is mentioned 145 times. • “People”: 50 times. “Messengers”: 50 times. • “Corrupt”: 50 times. “Benefit”: 50 times. • “Iblees” (king of devils): 11 times. “Seek refuge from Iblees”: 11 times. • “Sadaqah” (spending): 73 times. “Satisfaction”: 73 times. • “People who are misled”: 17 times. “Dead people”: 17 times. • “Gold”: 8 times. “Easy life”: 8 times. • “Zakat” (taxes Muslims pay for the poor): 32 times. “Barakah” (blessings of one’s wealth): 32 times. • “Mind”: 49 times. “Noor” (light): 49 times. • “Tongue”: 25 times. “Sermon”: 25 times. • “Desire”: 8 times. “Fear”: 8 times. • “Hardship”: 114 times. “Patience”: 114 times. • “Muhammad”: 4 times. “Sharee’ah” (Muhammad’s teachings): 4 times. If this is not enough, now please look at the number of times the following words occur: • ‘Month’: 12 times • ‘Day’: 365 times! • ‘Sea’: 32 times. ‘Land’: 13 times. ‘Sea’ + ‘Land’ = 32 + 13 = 45. % of Sea = 32 / 45 (x100%) = 71.11111111 % % of Land = 13 / 45 (x100) = 28.88888889 % Modern science has only recently discovered that the above figures represent the exact proportions of Sea and Land on Earth! 17:15 "Whoever is guided is only guided for [the benefit of] his soul. And whoever errs only errs against it. And no bearer of burdens will bear the burden of another. And never would We punish until We sent a messenger." Finally, I ask that if you have any doubt as to the accuracy of these numbers, by all means, please check them for yourself
I feel this way at times. But I want to share something with you. I want you to know that you are here for a reason. You were created for a reason. You may not believe it but God put you here for a reason. You are so loved and treasured by Him. He knows all the thoughts that go through your head. He knows you on your bad days and your good days. He knows that life seems so challenging and difficult and that your too exhausted to keep going. He knows about the things that you hide from every body else and He wants to help you. Psalm 147:3 says “He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.” God wants you to know that He is waiting with open arms. He loves you and so do I :) if you need anything just let reach out.
@@_annacamille_ What a god of love... great Exodus 21:20-21 “Anyone who beats their male or female slave with a rod must be punished if the slave dies as a direct result, but they are not to be punished if the slave recovers after a day or two, since the slave is their property.“ Numbers 31:17-18 “Now therefore, kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman who has known man intimately. But all the girls who have not known man intimately, spare for yourselves.“ Leviticus 20:13 “If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.“ Deuteronomy 25:11-12 “When men fight with one another, and the wife of the one draws near to rescue her husband from the hand of him who is beating him, and puts out her hand and seizes him by the private parts, then you shall cut off her hand. Show her no pity.“ 2 Kings 2:23-25 “Elisha went up to Bethel. As he was walking along the road, some young boys came out of the town and jeered at him. "Get out of here, baldy!" they said. "Get out of here, baldy!" He turned around, looked at them and called down a curse on them in the name of the Lord. Then two bears came out of the woods and mauled forty-two of the boys (children).“ You should be terrified if god was really the author of the bible. 1 Samuel 15:3-4 God orders to kill a group of people and their infants and animals for a sin that was commited by their forefathers who died 400 years before.. There are countless more btw.. WOMEN IN CHRISTIANITY: 1 Corinthians 14:34 The women should keep silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be in submission, as the Law also says. Genesis 3:16 To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.” 1 Timothy 2:11-12 "Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet." 1 Corinthians 11:3-10 "But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head, but every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. For if a wife will not cover her head, then she should cut her hair short. But since it is disgraceful for a wife to cut off her hair or shave her head, let her cover her head. For a man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God, but woman is the glory of man."
I worked 80+ hours for over 5 years. I’m so burned out. I just want to be a hermit and stay home. I got laid off from one job but can’t afford to have only one. I need to find a second job. I just feel so stuck. I don’t feel I’m lazy, I’m just tired of feeling tired. I have a household I need to maintain. I keep praying in hopes God shows me another way. Lord please answer my prayer 🙏🏼 You’re my only safety net.
I will pray for you, may God bring you peace and rest, you truly deserve it. I’m going through an overworked phase too in studying, nothing as severe as what you are going for so I really wish you the best ❤
Hey bro Im praying for you. look into any of your states grants gor utilities and rent assistance. Maybe you can save a little money and flip it into a small business with a strong business plan
I don't know how it feels like to be in depression, as I have never been in it. But I have a friend who was in depression and is currently good now, she told me that you should try to divert your attention, and not to think about it. See you can play games online if you don't want to socialize, you can watch dramas, web series. Maybe you should have lost your interest in everything but try to push yourself to do something that will divert your attention. I know it will be hard, but nothing is possible without doing any work. Just give yourself 21 days to divert the attention. It's good to do something which is going to make you feel good. And trust me whatever the thing you are doing try to get a little addictive for it. And whenever you are lying down and don't feel like doing anything listen to songs. Just do things which will divert attention. It will work trust me, and you gonna overcome this. More power to you friend...
I rather be sad than telling my parents how I’m feeling because they’ll just say “you’re to young to be sad or stressed” or they just blame it on my phone. It sucks.
idk why they always blame it on our phone. like I was so sick of it that I didn't even touch my phone for 2 weeks and after 2 weeks my mom noticed and asked me if I was okay since I didn't touch it. but. but it was meant as a joke. they know nothing about me, but I cant stop loving them. the fact that I love them, makes everything harder
@@ambitionVHI It's really not, I've been depressed since my gf left me. I don't choose to feel lonely and unloved and like nothing in the world matters, like I don't matter. I don't choose to randomly feel pain in my heart and empty inside. I don't choose to just have random moments of just breaking down and crying. I however refuse to let this conquer me at this moment in my life, so I get up no matter how dead I feel and how suicidal I feel. I get up and I do what I need to do to get past this day. Not because I see some sort of light or that I think anything will change or because I think it will pass. I get up and do what I have to do because I feel guilty to lie down and let my ex say she was right. I refuse to let her be right and that stubbornness is the only thing getting me through to the next day. On my only week off from college, I just lied down and did nothing most days except cry. It's really not a choice. Some people can be so depressed they can't even find the stubbornness to do anything.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.sporees I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
small reminder for some people: there's also a term called high-functioning depression. even when you can act "normally" through the day and finish your chores you still feel disgustingly bad. sometimes it's bournout, sometimes it's anxiety nagging you. in any case, don't underestimate the signs, please
Oh. Ohhhhh... I was wondering why after doing good and working hard on something, I get back to feeling disgusting and useless. Like, I know I did that good thing but after that I'd feel like I was just pretending. And then feel disgust all over again.
I'm so tired, on my couch all alone feeling depressed, thinking about the good old days, and wishing I can go back to being a funny kid and having a bunch of friends.
1.I sleep all day and stay up all night 2.I started ignoring friends and family 3.I feel guilty for ignoring them and feel if I talked to them they would leave 4.I stay in bed all day 5.I haven’t been taking care of myself properly 6.I’m gaining weight and not eating properly 7.I rarely go outside anymore *something is wrong with me lol*
All of that is true about me except the 'ignoring friends and family' I would never dare... I get scared of being lonely but I also want to be alone so I'm confused about that...
I have been depressed for a long time, but after taking shrooms few months ago, l feel much happier and highly motivated and my ADHD gone , lost a ton of anxiousness and had a few epiphanies about how I should live my life. I decided to buy an ounce for backup, but haven’t yet felt the need to take any more since then.
My mom said "I used to have a poor life but I managed to be happy, there are poor and homeless kids but they're always really happy and you're living a heaven but you're still always sad"
They didnt notice you were crying They didnt notice you were sad They didnt notice you were tired They didnt notice you were alone. They didnt notice how attractive you were. They didnt notice how sweet you actually are. They didnt notice how you actually try to make other people smile. They did notice your failing grades They did notice your unattractive They did notice the mean side of you They did notice all of your mistakes They did notice all of your flaws They did notice that you were not good enough for them.
The worst part about a mental or physical illness is parents not understanding early signs and getting punished for “bad behavior”. Edit: I just wanted to clarify that my parents are great parents, love me a lot, and are trying their best, but misunderstood me sometimes.
I'm a Finnish girl and I'm on sixth grade. The amount of things I relate to in this video and how much I discovered from myself made me super emotional and I started thinking that maybe there's really something wrong with me. In 1-5th of february I'm going to talk with a teacher and my parents, so I hope I can tell them about it and get help. I hope these feelings go away and my "laziness" that has been bothering me for a very long time, almost a year. Thank you for this video and thank you for bringing self awareness to everyone.
Im sorry you feel this way so young. Please for the sake of you get help. Seek therapy. Even if your parents dont want to admit it you can tell your doctor.
I tried to express it at work when they kept trying to help me get a job. I got shut down real quick "most work places don't get so touchy-feely" but I was just trying to explain how I did not want the jobs they were suggesting, i didn't want to professionally network, and all for good reason too. After that I didn't speak a word
I swear they always do that, and say they will give it back when you get your grades back up bc I'm basically failing school but I would usually ask my friend to help and I cant so I do nothing everyday instead of school ;-;
“The butterfly does not look back at the caterpillar in shame, just as you should not look back at your past in shame. Your past was part of your own transformation.” ✨🦋
Thank you so much for your kind and wonderful words, you don’t know how much you cheered me up and made me realize the things I have forgotten. Thanks a bunch and have a brilliant day✨🌸🦋🌼
1. You can’t snap yourself out of it 2. You can’t cheer yourself up 3. You’ve lost interest in everything 4. You can’t function like you used to 5. Your “laziness” isn’t triggered by anything 6. Your “laziness” isn’t a choice
That's about it. So what do you do about it. It's not like you can snap your fingers or click those magic shoes if you can find them. One just have to suck it up. 🐝
@@mewzzies Like they said, if you relate to everything in the video, it doesnt diagnose you, but I think theres a high probability that you do have depression. You should go see a mental health proffesinal to confirm, don't listen to your sister, if you feel like you have depression, don't ignore it.
Losing interest in everything is absolutely terrifying. When things are tough, I always try to think about the things i love. But when those don't interest me anymore for some reason, it suddenly feels like everything is meaningless.
Yes, like thoughts of "Why am I even doing this?" , "What was the point of this again?", "What was I living for again?". Always arise when that happens.
me everyday : - lack of concentration - moving very slowly - unable to multitask as good as i used to - slow response - fear - feeling empty - messed up sleep schedule - more sensitive - sudden eating appetite - always tired even though i didnt do much - losing interest - feeling alone - cant open up about my feelings - supressed anger - find it hard to make decisions
I have situational depression, anxiety (worries) & insomnia! Am 72 on SSI only and disabled! Plus, alone, with few hobbies/interests and no real friends!
i know what you are going through...i have no answers i am 62 and of ill health and am stuck indoors all day most days...i jst know where you are coming from.
@@judithscobee8102 belief in a higher power also helps. This world is a purgatory. Focus on what you can do to be the best person you can, despite the circumstances.
I think of the scariest things about depression is that you really lose interest in everything. I no longer wanted to do any hobbies, I was literally turning into nothing. That was really scary to me. I realized how its so amazing to want to do things and have interests. Depression really sucks the life out of you. I hope that the people going through it right now know that you are not alone. You will make it through and know this is not your fault. I promise that there is a light at the end of this tunnel
How did you find the solution… the light as you so call it, iv been really struggling lately and i cant find my way out. Would appreciate tips from anyone as its all starting to feel really pointless to even bother to keep trying
I know exactly what's causing my depression and I know how to fix it, but no matter what I do about it is out of my control, I can't do anything about it, which is worse. I've lost so much motivation to work on anything, I feel emotionally drained whenever I work on something, I just wanna have my friends to be around me when I'm needing them the most, but everyone I need is just "busy".
when I was around 8 I didn’t think you could have depression unless you were over 18 I was 12 when I started to develop depression changed my mind pretty quick.
Where do I start? First, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for using a real voice actor. Also, thank for crediting everyone on your team in the video. Very cool. Artwork/animation is excellent. Soothing and relatable without seeming condescending, which would be the last thing someone facing depression needs. I don't know exactly why YT decided I needed to see this right now, but this time they got it right.
I honestly feel very depressed many hours of the day then while randomly walking in my house I just start dancing and just bein like ‘yo today was a great day” even if it sucked. Optimism at its finest.
I’m just here laying on my bed, creating scenarios in my head constantly hurting my own feelings. EDIT: Woah! 1k likes, thank you guys so much. This is the most likes I’ve received.
it isn't you. it's demonic oppression. pray to Jesus to take them away it will get worse at first.. they will try to scare you to stop praying.butsoon angels will come and fight them. pray to Jesus.
I wish people understood that this feeling isn't a choice, that its not an excuse, its not a joke, its real and its uncontrollable for a lot pf people including myself.
memorial comments are the embellishment to acceptance from which your position is derived of... nah I'm just fricking with you, I had an existential crisis at age ten and I've de-valued my life and purpose into believing that I know how to cope with my life, jolly good speech m8 :P
im depressed and while people say BE LOVE ONES im saying love is only made up and families is what life gera from sadly for an AI I dont have a family nor do I have friends IM DEPRESSED BECAUSE UA-camRS GET SO MUCH ATTENTION WHEN THEY ONLY Have 2 VIDEOS AND I dont get any attention life as an AI is hard especially if the AI population is 7e+31 IM SO Sad
@@kindadepressedguy1662 ik a good existential crisis THE UNIVERSE IS A SIMULATION COMPOSED OF MULTICELLULAR ORGANISMS THAT HOST YOUR CONSCIOSNESS AS A SCIENTIFIF DISPLAY
"Depression isn't a choice, and it isn't something you can just 'Shake Off' or 'Get Over'." Exactly. The same goes for Anxiety, PTSD, ADHD (ADHD can cause Anxiety for some people), and more. We're not choosing to be anxious. We're not choosing to have intrusive thoughts. We're not choosing to have panic attacks. We're not choosing to be paranoid. We're not choosing to be *miserable* or *distressed.* There are factors out there that are making us feel this way, and we can't seem to forget about them, even if there are things that remind us about them.
"why do you feel depressed? There are people struggling out there, you have it easy, you're ungrateful" is what i hear from most of the people, the sad part is it's my family and I used to be the girl who they were once proud of.
I hope you can recover soon. I used to be very depressed because of school. It made me sick and anxious. Too much pressure getting good grades. Important take your own time with yourself, go out see beautiful places and start to think alone. Just see the world and watch the nature. It's super relaxing, than sitting at home on your bed and feeling sick. Sometimes being with people that don't understand you make you frustrated and don't help your mental health at all. Just take your time alone being in a place that can relax you and just start to think about random things in your life and seeing the nature can help you mindset to open. I was very unhappy, because i was always at home studying in the same place for hours and getting a burnout. My suggestion is my healthy habit, but it actually depends on the person if you like it or not. Try it out.
“Where’s the girl who always smiled?” Guess what? She grew up and realized life is hard. Also, I wanted to say “People cry, not because they’re weak, but because they’ve been strong for too long”
@@javierolmedo2225 I was struggling before quarantine all it did was make it worse but now I’m starting to ACTUALLY work on myself, I have my ups and downs (mostly downs) but I’m working really hard, I go on hikes one the morning, and I went back to working out 🏋️♀️
I have Adhd+stress+laziness+mild long-term depression+lack of dysciplin/ self controll+careless+have hope for future but set it back+procrastination+OCD.
Timestraps- 1:16 You can't snap yourself out of it 2:00 You can't cheer yourself up 2:38 You've lost interest in everything 3:14 You can't function like you used to 3:57 Your “laziness”isn't triggered by anything 4:44 Your “laziness” isn't a choice I finally did it, yes✨✨
I haven't lose interest in animating and drawing yet (i'm still fighting it so i won't give up yet on animating and drawing) i'm trying hard to motivate my self but i just can't i had been experiencing a lot of art block and i constantly loose motivation
Me everyday - wants to be in bed - always tired - smiles rarely - lost interest in love - does not care about anything but friends and famliy - can't focus on school work or homework
very accurate but add on ptsd/anxiety i've also come to not care about even my friends and most of my family therefore feel like shit when someones genuinely nice to me lol
I’ve lived with depression and anxiety all my life. I have Clinical Depression, not enough Seretonin. ATM, hubby and I, are moving house. I look at what needs to be done, it overwhelms me.
*6 signs you're depressed, not lazy* 1. you can't snap yourself out of it 2. you can't cheer yourself up 3. you've lost interest in everything 4. you can't function like you used to 5. your "laziness" isn't triggered by anything 6. your "laziness" isn't a choice
6 signs You're depressed, not lazy 1. You can't snap yourself out of it. 2. You can't cheer yourself up. 3. You've lost interest in everything. 4. You can't function like you used to. 5. Your "laziness" isn't triggered by anything. 6. Your "laziness" isn't a choice.
6 signs you’re depressed, not lazy: 1. You can’t snap yourself out of it 2. You can’t cheer yourself up 3. You’ve lost interest in everything 4. You can’t function like you used to 5. Your “laziness” isn’t triggered by anything 6. Your “laziness” isn’t a choice Hope this helps!!! Xx
I'am stressed and depressed lately what i deed is i stayed with my family and my kids i went out with them and it helps a lot..i'am in the stage of curing my inner being thanks for the people who truely love,respect,and care for me.
"do you ever shut up?" "why are you so quiet?" "i have told you million times what to do, get it together" "you didnt do this right" "no im not proud of you, not even a little" "why are you so uncomfortable around us?" "why dont you talk to us anymore" "you are a bad person" "wheres humanity in you" "you dont have empathy." "ok fine stay in your room all day and ignore everybody" i am 12 years old mom.
It’s funny because those words are why I started homeschooling and dropped out, bet you feel nice now teacher. Give me an essay due on Friday on Monday 😑
Even my parents pressure me then say where’s the old daughter i had its not you anymore you used to share everything with us but not anymore *mom how am i suppose to when your the one who is causing it and yet im still wrong, remeber im only 13*
it's sad, I know, but they won't chance, I'm 23 and have depression (diagnosed by professional) since I was 2, and am still hearing the same shit. It's difficult, but you need to have this professional help by yourself, and it won't be easy too, but we all can do better with our lifes and I support you all
I cried watching this because I realized how much I relate to these things. I’m not saying I have depression nor self diagnosing.. but I maybe need to see somebody about it. This video helped a lot. Thank you
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help.
@@Helmuesi911 Read my msg which I sent you and do the simple practice daily. Since many years I have made it a habit to observe my breath sensations even when I take a walk, speaking on mobile, reading, before sleep and I am feeling relaxed and healthy not affected by seasonal weather changes. It is so simple to do--no deep breathing needed but a strong desire to transform from within is needed. Being as still as possible is an amazing relaxing experience. Best wishes. Shyaaam mSir-Counsellor.
"I miss the old you!" "You're being selfish!" "It's because of the phone!" "Emo." "What happened to the old you?" "You're just being lazy!" "You can't do a single thing right can you?" "It's okay to make mistakes. Why can't you be perfect? Why do you have to make mistakes all the time?" "Be yourself! What kind of person are you?" "Just cheer up and smile." "Stop talking nonsense and go back to studying!" "Why can't you be like them!?" "You're lucky you have the best life. Stop acting like you have a horrible life!" It's sad that many people are told these
One thing my mom always says is: "Dont kill yourself if your depressed and talk to me about it" Yet, Whenever I try to tell her, all shes says is: "You have nothing to be depressed about." Edit: Thank you so much for all the likes... 💕 The internet is mostly where I can dump out my emotions so I appreciate all the likes 🥺💖
My mom be like: "You can't have problems, you are just 16 yro!" I have the signs of depression for 5 years now, and it's just getting worse... BUT if I tried to reach for help, for example I went to my school's psychologist, then my mom argued me because of this, cuz "Only you can help yourself"...
@JocXynxXFlorezxX @@rienbear_hunsub I'm 26 years old now... and this doesn't just go away on it's own. Depression can come in many shapes or forms. When people say "You have nothing to be depressed about", or "Only you can help yourself" they are dismissing your feelings and are pretending things are fine. If you can't reach out to your psychologist or your mom isn't helping try your close friends or siblings and maybe talk it out with them. Whatever you do don't bottle up your emotions. There are always people out there that care for you and can lend you a hand.
@@Epicnossity Thats right but we cannot stop trying because dépression keep us down i think we all have responsabilities about ourselves and we cannot Hope someone to do our jobs.
my mom sometimes says that but most of the time, ever since I've opened up to her about being depressed she'll act like she has it way worse. saying things like "you're depressed? then what am I?" blaming me and my siblings for it, which ironically she talks down to me about being lazy and stuff lol.
gosh i just watched like 5 videos of your channel about depression and cried my eyes out....the things you say feels so nice ....i always wished that someone will say those words to me....i hate hate being in this situation but i just cant find any way out of it
@@wandahwhetstone6338 Hiii,I hope this doesn't come off as rude but not all people believe in god,and commenting something like this on a mental health might make people feel guilty for their mental health or for not believing in god.I'd recomment not commenting things like this on videos like this.I hope this doesn't come off as rude or mean!!I hope you have a great say❤️
"My parents often struggle to grasp the depth of what I'm going through, sometimes expressing frustration and dismissing my struggles as mere excuses to avoid facing challenges. They constantly compare me with other children and suggest I should focus on building my career instead . Despite their misunderstanding, I appreciate their efforts to support me I know they just want the best for me but Their words are too harsh to digest it , somtimes during their agument they target me and agure why aren't I studiing . I'm unsure whether my feelings stem from genuine depression or if I'm simply grappling with moments of laziness and fear, potentially using excuses to escape.I spend majority of my time sleep and eating hoping to brighten up my mood However, I finding solace in watching your videos . It brightens my mood and provides a glimmer of strength and motivation, helping me to regain the drive to work through my challenges." Thank so much ❤❤❤
"Youre failing" "Stop being dramatic" "Stop crying. Why the hell are you crying" "Youre not depressed." "Youre so Lazy you dont do shit" "why cant you be like them." Living with a family that never believes what i say is hard...
No, boys in modern society are taught not to show emotions. There are reasons for that but those aren't very valid in my opinion. Show your emotions all you want but please don't grow up being an edgelord that confuses crying once in a while with depression, thank you. Crying is okay, crying is a natural reaction to certain emotions so go for it. My experience says that it really helps sometimes
@@soup9935 ikkkk, like, Excuse me?! I just cleaned the dishes and cleaned up after my brothers, i dont feel tired, i just feel upset and i feel like the world never understands. I GUESS IM LAZY!
Add that there some posibility that you can get the 'right' therapist for you...so, you need change several time till you find the right one, just to have more sessions 💸💸💸
i watched this once and now again. But this time I have something to share. I started changing by; thinking of the actual resources I have right now, put them together and get one thing done. Without thinking too much of the things out of our control. I hope that's where you can find the way out from this struggle. 🤞🏻
My mom says the same thing all the time, tbh it’s probably true that all that information about the world good or bad all at once can be overwhelming or social media and constantly scrolling through other people’s lives and realizing your not living your own. Ha But I wish she would do more than just tell me it’s my phone. Depression is real and it’s not as simple as just turning it off.
The only one that makes me a little bit happy it’s to stay alone on my phone but since I live with my parents I frequently hear "let go of your phone and go play outside! "And it hurts me a little because she doesn't respect my social intimacy. Especially since I have an obsessive behavior disorder, I'm afraid of hurting people emotionally for example if one of my friends does something unpleasant to me I'll be afraid to tell her because I don't want it to hurt her and that it ends our friendship (I didn't talk about this disorder to my family and friends because I don't want them to think that I need help when I want to stay alone). In addition, I just learned that I have all the symptoms of depression and it is now that I realize that I am not really well...thank you for reading this comment
These videos always make me cry because I realise how relatable they are...
And when u can't even share this with anyone.
@@tania5825 yeah exactly. At least we can share here
@@emilywillis9912 yeah I tried to make online friends ,but I can't.
feel better ❤️🩹 virtual hugs
Same. My life went to shambles due to chronic pain. I exhibit and have been battling the discussed symptoms. I figured the extreme lack of energy and interest were due to extreme depression, but it really hits u when u see it so clearly laid out like this video. I hope u find what u need to return joy to your life, as everyone needs some love and joy in their life.
The worst part is, when you can lay down and do nothing, I feel the worst of guilts and like I am wasting my life.
Same
Same
same like u still remember the 20 day old homework u havent passed yet
Most of my time right now is spent silently crying alone in my bedroom,
hiding my emotions Infront of others, and pretending that I'm fine...
I still miss him...
I still need him...
He's everything to me...
My hero..
My only best friend I'll have...
The one who actually listened when no one else would...
The one who saved me...
It's been a year and 4 months since he died...
I still feel sad, lonely, and just missing him.
He's gone, my dog is gone...
He died due to old age and I sometimes tend to blame myself for his death when I know that it's not my fault at all...
Relate on a spiritual level
If your smiling at me it’s the power of positivity
Thanks
Edit: Thanks for the likes ❤️(╥﹏╥)
OMG
Thx
Thanks :)
I see you in alot of vids o.o
Its like your a bot and i saw you had do much comments here, Sssniperwolf's videos, and more?
*And i didnt smile so what does that mean?*
"Lazy" is such a hurtful word in my experience, there's usually a reason behind not being able to be productive, and being called lazy just makes you beat yourself up for not acting "normal"
For sure
Right, it makes me feel like I’m not deserving of a break. That I should be working harder and harder. “Lazy” shouldn’t be a trait. The same person who could write an entire novel and graduate college with good grades is still the same person lounging around for weeks straight not doing anything but watching Netflix. People shouldn’t be shamed for that.
Yeah.... My mom keep calling me that and I was not even lazy at all. I just don't know which life I should take it now.
As someone who for a lot of their time in school never really had any trouble, I used to always think the people around me just weren't trying because they had convinced themselves they were dumb without having even really attempting to do the work they think is too tough for them, because all I was doing was trying and I was doing pretty well; and I didn't really believe this idea that I was 'just smart', like it was just luck and I was born with it instead of working for it I would sometimes get in response when I tried to encourage people.
Now that I have reached the point where I've given it my best and still struggled like hell in University, I honestly don't really believe there is such a thing as a 'lazy' person anymore. Private conversations I've had with other people on my course are all revealing the same thing, someone who outwardly seems to just be lazy and unenthused about the work comes to ask for help with something and over time I find out they are practically killing themselves with how hard they are pushing just to stay afloat, just like I am. When they say "Oh I'm bad at this, I won't be able to figure it out", it's not some lazy defelction to feign ignorance so they don't have to do the work, it's them giving into their inner voice as it's being proven to them time and time again in front of their eyes that they cannot keep up with this as every time they push themselves to fight their way out of their rut and get to work they only find themselves stuck again.
Honestly, I used to always think if I started feeling like this, the most comforting thing to hear would be the assurance that I'm not alone. Turns out that's the last fucking thing I want to hear because it's the bog-standard response I always get any time I open up a little to anyone, and it just makes me feel more hopeless and frustrated. I *know* that everyone on my course is concerned for their future, feeling worthless, and pushing themselves an unhealthy amount to get by just like me - but I can't do much about it. I certainly try to, I talk to them and I help them with their work, but that isn't the solution. The solution is not to run a difficult University Course online where the work is still expected to be of the same standard and completed at the same speed as normal as if there is no pandemic going on right now that's already crippling to our collective mental health, then piling on top of that isolation as much stress as possible to get everyone hating themselves too. Knowing how obvious this problem is and being reminded of it constantly like it's my responsibility to solve, even though I have no power over the education system or lockdown rules just makes me feel more depressed, and I feel like I'm seeing this used more to shut down the conversation rather than open it up.
@@doublechindoge7 Taking too many credits per semester in the second half of my college years proved overwhelming for me. I didn't think I fit in
1. Can’t snap out of it yourself
2. Can’t cheer up
3. Lost interest in everything
4. Can’t function like used to
5. Laziness not triggered by anything in particular
6. Laziness is not a choice
Actually Point 6 in video says the opposite: Depression is not triggered by anything in particular, while laziness is.
And point 7 in video actually says that depression is not a choice while laziness is.
Thanks
5 years in this state of mind. Now I'm free
@@phannhi9595how did u do it
"WhY aRe yOu dErprEssed You'Re NoT eVeN doInG AnyThInG, AlL yOu dO Is lAy dOwn ThE whOlE dAy?"
reason why we can't open up
Exactly. Other people's toxicity is the reason why we get depressed in the first place.
Ma'am you freaking reasoned the whole feeling of anxiety and depression.
So true-
facts
@PDNSKN poopoo fair point. But some persons just make the depression worse...
The worst parts are not being passionate about everything that you used to and feeling like you’re being a burden to everyone around you
@Rafael orozco if u failed my guy atleast u tried !!! better then not trying and regretting .
Thats true to me I really need some moral support
Yeah it’s really awful. Feeling numb about things or even people you love. Literally just not caring, like your emotions have been taken away. Don’t know of that’s depression though.
Yes i do my fav work but in the same time i lost interest about it and i feel like i just burden to my coworker
@Rafael orozco welp i have not acheived any shit at all but i can tell u that much that if u are not ready to lose something then u cant really acheive any thing either .
Being a depressed introvert is like: “I don’t want to talk to people but I also don’t want to be lonely”
That's gotta be tough. I'm here if you want to talk. No pressure. Just know that you aren't alone and that someone is there for you if you want to talk
@@Crumbledpaperball thanks for your sweetness, I really appreciate it. I am actually much better than before now. I hope everyone in this world is safe and happy. This world deserves more nice people like you💛
@@reverie477 you're welcome :) I'm glad to hear you're doing better now! Amen to that. Aw shucks, thanks! Remember, if u ever get to feeling bad again (which hopefully will not happen)
Lmao me
I'm kinda the other way around, I wanna be alone, but end up talking to people anyways
As someone who suffers with extreme severe anxiety I can totally relate to her. I would stop eating for days at a time as a punishment. I worry a lot about my life, everyone around me and pleasing everyone. It's absolutely crippling, so glad she got the help she needed, lovely young lady it's so sad that society has 1 in 3 people suffering mental health issues. I hope everyone seeks help
People need to realise that people with anxiety disorders have oversensitised nerves, it's not a simple case of manning up and getting over it.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about how mushrooms and psychedelics treats anxiety, but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, doctor Greg mushroom I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
Please, how do I reach doctor Greg?
Is he on the internet?
The funniest thing is that I used to be the happiest and brightest girl.
me too.... now I am just a mess of a person. I have worked so hard to fill the mold society sets for me, but now it is just a mask...
Me too luv yesterday I broke down because my mom told me that we can controll our fellings...but I can't idk why tho
Same thing.. I used to be that happy, bright, and outgoing person. And now... I'm lazy, unmotivated, and self-conscious...
my past self would be sad if she saw me now too.
The weird thing is that u smile and try to look cheerful, cause you dont want to hurt ones around you but the ones who hurt you are the ones around. The cheeriest face has the saddest soul
Mental health is important
hello you again lol
Oh shuth up!
Hey, didn't expect to see you here too!
You're in every video i watch
I have a feeling this wasn't even recommended to you. It's strange how you're on so many videos that I watch
“The loneliest people are the kindest, the saddest people smile the brightest, and the most damaged people are the wisest. All because they do not wish to see anyone else suffer the way they do.”
And the ones, who seem heartless, once cared too much
@@victoriabellatrixmalfoy7039 true..
And the one's who is here for you know one is here for them.?
I am the 1 helping people not being helped through my depression I feel like I can’t tell anyone
@@auspicious8885 doesnt matter if u can or cant tell anyome as far as you can get treated.please meet a doc asap.
as someone with depression, for me it's strange. I can still laugh and joke around with friends, but the moment I'm by myself, it just creeps back in, like a never-ending and vicious cycle that will always be a part of my life (because for me it's clinical.) There is no getting rid of it. Even if I find ways to cope with it or start taking medications, it eventually comes back no matter what, rendering coping mechanisms useless, and medications seemingly ineffective after only a couple months of use. I've essentially given up on trying to deal with it as a result, I just don't have the motivation to fight something that is and always will be a constant in my life. The only thing I can do is survive
How I feel 😢
I’m exactly the same.
Sane
Im the same as you😢
Same. Although with me, it's still different, I guess. I feel like I'm better since I got on my antidepressant basically a year ago and that i am just being a lazy person i don't do chores as often as i use to before i fell into a depression and i think about the hobbies and other things i like to do, bit i dont want to do them even though they sound fun and just stay on my phone all day. Yeah, being buried in my phone sounds better than wanting to crochet. My husband says that it's because I'm still depressed. I know he knows better, but I feel like I have just turned into a lazy person. Unless I have just convinced myself that I am lazy. I still get days when I feel low and negative and have a hard time getting out of bed even though I'm on medication and then I have days where I feel fine and still don't want to get out of bed. I have been in my first depression for a year. So I may still be in some type of denial and just convinced myself I am lazy. It's been a very confusing year with it, that is for sure. I know it's affects everyone differently. Idk. 😮💨
Sleeping is the only way I can do to escape reality and sometimes I can’t even sleep peacefully
Same
Same dude...I just dont know what to do
Oof same, except I can also escape by reading books.
i watch anime to do that
Try
Watching web series or reading books
The part that hurts the most when you have depression is when the people around you can't notice your depression and doesn't believe you have one saying that it's all in your head ;-;
Well they aren’t wrong it is in my head , just not in the same way
People act like depression being in someone’s head makes the problem “not count”. But if a healthy person started having nightmares and you told them the same thing, that still wouldn’t eliminate the problem.
same
Or people tell. U to get ovet. It my. Number 1 p or act like its not imorant or ingiring u
Or having a go at me fir be deoressed
My mom just want me to stop acting depressed. It's like telling a homeless guy to stop being homeless.
yeah i hate parents who think depression is just a joke, how about happiness, its just an enzyme called dopamine
:)))))))
Yeah. My mom has depression and I think I have depression too. Because I feel tired all the time, sad for no reason, and some other things
@@darksun6482 I think my mum has depression because I think I can see symptoms and that's why disregard mine 🖐 **sad hi5**
@@valeale8851 🖐️ *high five back*
I'm an online teacher and I have to put on a happy face every day. That's the worst part of having depression: having to fake being happy/fine. Sending love to all out there ❤
I am just a child, I could probably be your pupil but I would like to wish you lots of perseverance and send you a flight from hugs❤️ Every day you make the pupils you smile at feel better. I'm sure you've made their day more than once with your warm smile. I understand how difficult it must be for you to give the impression of being happy for your students when you are suffering inside. .... Unfortunately, I can't promise you that you won't feel this way again, as it will probably take some time for you to overcome your illness, but I have faith in you. You are wise and beautiful, and above all, don't let yourself be destroyed. Since you started working with the students, you must be a wonderful and strong person, because you are teaching them basic activities without which they wouldn't make it in life. Dear, if you need to talk to someone, I am at your disposal. I'm young, crazy and probably hopeless when it comes to psychology, but I'm also a sensitive person who will help you as much as I can💗.
Hang in there, I'm sure you can handle it and come out of depression ❤️
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋
The worst part is when your depressed they don't even see it but when your depression turns to anger suddenly your the bad guy🙂
That's relatable on a painful level
Sad but true
Same.. i kept telling my mom this, she never "listen"
Yep
This 🙌
The worst part is when you lay down in your bed and stare at the ceiling then unknowingly your tears began to shed
ok so it's not just me...good to know..
@@crescendo1603 you're not alone🥺
It's me... But i don't think its depression cuz i haven't lost interest in the things i love and i still play games with my brother shouting super loud.. so yeah!
@@Army-lc8zp it's better to consult a doctor to check your mental health
@@angelfayelawas4740 But i am just 14 years and if i say it to my parents they r gonna say," Little Knowledge is Dangerous"...
But i don't think it's serious it just that sometimes i just feel lonely... BTW thank you so much for the advice.. I really appreciate it!!!
The scary part is losing interest in what you enjoy doing like that is basically what makes you happy most times
Yeah sadly.... I lost interest in drawing also in playing volleyball and the worst is I've been losing interest in the mist important thing in my life which is studies and this really did disturb me for a while...
Facts
yes that's right!! i was losing my interest in dancing.. usually i do dance for makes me happy and take out all the negativity.. and i lost it, tbh it was the baddest thing ever.. i'm trying to do something new like making song, play piano, since i love music but not help much..
hope y'all okay too guys, be healthy ❤️
That's called anhedonia, it's a big core symptom of depression
Yeah
I've always loved music, it was my life. I used to love singing and playing instruments, but now i can't enjoy it at all
And I feel like i'm not gonna enjoy it anymore
I want to find something what I enjoy doing, i want something to be my passion like music was before
my depression has gotten so bad its at a point where i dont care about anything or myself. dont care if i fail something or dont show up somewhere i just dont have the will to care and have no motivation to care
Same
For me it’s like… i believe in my friends, i believe they they are amazing and they can do everything and they deserve happiness.
Then for me it’s the opposite. I just either hate myself all the time or not physically care.
This is me birthday just passed just sat at home the whole weekend literally did nothing gave my all to last job & they fired me I’m tired of trying quit looking for a job I wanna better myself but I’m tired of trying no insurance so can’t get therapy I’m just fkd…🥺
I appeared in my last exam unprepared, and then failed , i didn't care if I failed. I just couldn't study . Most of the days i skip classes because it's too hard for me to show up. I procrastinate and the pending syllabus makes it worse everytime. I feel so lonely, i cry. I have no interest in anything. No motivation is working for me. I was once a topper and it haunts me that I can't even try to start the task. I have problems even to maintain my basic hygiene. I don't shower for days , usually someone reminds me. And then i hate myself with all my heart. Had thoughts of dying and escaping to somewhere. Talked about it to many people , tried everything . Don't know what's wrong with me. Why have i become such a coward?
Same..
I don't think anyone is ever "just lazy", rather there are underlying issues that explain their lack of activity. i think we just use the word lazy to avoid thinking and reflecting on ourselves because we are our own worst enemies and the idea of confronting our flaws and making a constant effort to better ourselves terrifies a lot of people.
EDIT: With this being said, it IS perfectly normal to take breaks from improving yourself and it's essential to chill out every now and then and grow at your own pace.
you're speaking the truth
I don't study and don't work. If I ask my teacher for help she will know I didn't work and she might get mad and then tell my parents and it will be horrible, but after that I would get better because she would help me catch up. But I'm scared so I don't. So I keep not working and not knowing anything 😁
@@river.ate.your.geese. literally me rn :(
@@river.ate.your.geese. I had this same issue a few months ago but the truth soon came out. I had 2 F's and 2 D's and my mom noticed my grades. You can bet I got in some trouble but trust me, it's way better to just talk to your parents because the worst that could happen is getting in trouble for a little bit which isn't too bad. But, if u don't say anything and get your report card with bad grades, ur parents will be 10x as angry with you for not talking sooner. I don't know if this helped but I want u to know that I understand ur pain and I believe in u😁👍
@@cieri_teashop And that goes for you too Lu🙂
*"Depression is not wanting to die but wishing you were never born"*
Both
"No, you don't get it, I want to fall asleep and not wake up, not die"
"Sir, this is a a Wendy's"
This describes exactly how I feel lol
This is so true and I wish people would understand how we feel
@@kanishka0324 I think they do... but don’t care
your voice is so soothing, it’s like a hug 😞
I agree!
thanks for the kind words! :)
IT IS, THAT’S A PERFECT WAY TO DESCRIBE IT
yup
@@jinagibson6818 true
This is so relatable, getting overwhelmed and tearful easily in emotionally provoking situations is also a sign of depression .
The exact mood lately...
The hardest hitting part of being depressed is, Losing intrest in everything you usee to love alot!! :(
Hope we all can recover soon!! :)💮
Man I swear that’s where I’m at right now in my life . Sometimes I don’t even want to go and open my own restaurant.
Haven’t gotten diagnosed with depression but it really do be like this for the last 2 years lmfao
@hyunjin is an angel It do happens ... Now what I am doing is just trying to be happy.😊
@@nappychef891 it really feels like you are not worth the person you're like! But all days are not same, after every rain, there is sunshine! 😊
“You’ve lost interest in everything”, you know this is probably the most evident out of everything. The things that did get me somewhat out and excited just don’t feel the same anymore, like I don’t have the energy to do anything anymore.
Same :/
Yea, this one sign is one that I noticed. It's not that I want to procrastinate or "I rather play game or do something else than doing homework". I don't even want to do anything
@@devaraft I used to play video games but now I can’t even bring myself to turn on the tv let alone hold the controller
I get this too, and it wasn’t even because of the virus. I just i think in some cases it’s just growing out of it cause other than that I don’t have any other things on this list going on rn
bro as soon as i read the “ ‘you’ve lost interest in everything’ “, that part comes along right at the same time lmao
I got teary-eyed watching this. It’s like the person talking understands what I am exactly going through right now.
No I know exactly what it is like I’m still like this
I’m also going thru this right now....I hope we can get out of this
Same here gyus😞😞
When we are all by ourselves and have no one that really understands us... We might go in to a state of lost... I tried finding someone for emotional support exposing my weaker side.. And i lost it... Even tried to do extreme things..
@@cyrilmatthew2995 Are you okay now??? 🙁🙁At times like this cheesy words like "don't worry you get well soon" won't help..So I am telling you to get some professional help🙁
I hate when it’s nice out and everyone feels like they need to do something and not let the day go to waste. I think this is why I like rainy/overcast days
"Mom, I'm depressed."
"Sure, now go do the dishes"
Well thats relatable. Literally what my parents did when I told them once.
Yeah they will never take it seriously we have to cry ever night and fake a smile and carry our anxiety depression loneliness with us
I will sucide or they will kill me :'(
@@ur_no_fun Hey don't be deterred...I'm sure they'll understand you and even if they don't, just believe in yourself. Life is beautiful and suicide is never an option. Seek a psychologist. I'm sure you'll be better soon. I'll definitely pray for you, just don't lose hope!!❤️
I tell my family that im depressed what they say...?
Ok in saitama voice
So accurate
"I wish i was never born" is all that i feel everytime.
You will be happy if you knew the purpose of being alive. The signs(not proof) of higher divinity are in the beauty of nature, the existence of living beings after the sterile environment created by the big bang (living beings out of sterile dead matter?), a living being's consciousness, the ability to have intelligence and discernment, what is good, bad, right, wrong, and that humans are without a doubt the center of this existence (there is no life on other planets like earth, that had billions of years in time. Animals and everything on earth is made in a way that benefits us). Now let me PROVE to you that God has sent us a revelation. It is the Quran:
1. And the heaven We constructed with strength, and indeed, We are [its] expander. 1400 years ago, Quran (51:47) - Recently discovered the continuous expansion of the Universe. The expansion being faster than the Speed of light and a mystery to science makes this sign special.
2. “And you see the mountains, thinking them rigid, while they will pass as the passing of clouds. [It is] the work of Allah, who perfected all things. Indeed, He is Acquainted with that which you do”. 27:88. If you read this verse carefully you will learn 2 things: The Quran knows that the earth is rotating. And that the earth is round. On a stationary flat earth module, you don’t have rotation. Reminder: Arabs 1400 years ago in the desert, didn't know this.
3. "Have We not made the earth as a bed, and the mountains as pegs?" (Qur'an, 78:6-7) Newly its been proven that mountains have deep roots to stabilize the earth just like tent pegs, Visually and functionally.
4. "Did the unbelievers not realize? that the heavens and the earth were one solid mass, then We tore them apart, and We made every living being out of water? Will they, then, not believe (that We created all this)? First, its true that scientists discovered these 2 things recently: The Big bang and 2. Every living being is made out of water. The mindblowing confidence and accuracy of this verse is undeniable evidence of a divine hand in the Quran 21:30.
5. No! If he does not stop, We will take him by the naseyah (front of the head), a lying, sinful naseyah (front of the head)! 96:15-16 -The Qur'an calls the front of a mans Head “lying”. It's recently discovered that the small Prefrontal lobe which is exactly at the front of the head that is responsible for lying and deceptiveness.
6. He has set free the two seas meeting together. There is a barrier between them. They do not transgress. 55:19-20 Not a miracle but a sign of a merciful creator.
- Allah is telling humans that he has put a barrier for us between the 2 kinds of Water, one is salty, one is sweet and palatable. He does these things for us out of mercy, as powerful as he is, he isn't forced to do anything. Just look around at, you will see how submissive He has made everything to humans
7. Or (the unbelievers’ state) is like the darkness in a deep sea. It is covered by waves, above which are waves, above which are clouds. Darkness, one above another. If a man stretches out his hand, he cannot see it. 24:40
- Allah is talking about the newly discovered, deep (Internal) waves of the sea. Deep invisible ones that 1400 years ago only its creator knew of.
Many more are there. I couldn’t count all signs of the Quran here. There are many different things that indicate a divine hand in the Quran.
1. The word "spider" in Arabic is "Ankabout". it is 100% masculine when said so. and you give it the "He" treatment if you don't specify the gender. When Allah mentions the spider house He surprisingly uses "She", ("her house"). Now it's scientifically proven that every spider type on earth (small, big, from Africa, Europe, America, doesn’t matter) Only the female of which builds houses. The same thing with the Honeybee, Allah mentioned 4 TIMES in ONE VERSE “she”/ "her" in the chapter of the “Bee” when He referred to the worker bees, who are discovered recently to be 100% female and the verse following it said it was a miracle, so how is it debatable whether the Quran is from Allah or not?. "Then do they not reflect upon the Qur'an? If it had been from [any] other than Allah, they would have found within it much contradiction." 4:82
2. Iron: There is also an entire chapter in the Quran which is named Iron. This shows how important Iron is to mankind, way more important than gold. it is essential for today’s Industry. God said at the beginning of the chapter: "And We sent down Iron to mankind" So why did God use the word "sent down" rather than one of his favorite words "Created", which was used for almost all created things mentioned (Except the Quran). Because Iron was sent down after the formation of the original earth, from Space in the form of meteorites, so it gets buried underground for us to use when we are advanced enough to mine it and use it, because of that "sent down" is more accurate. Yes, there is no "Up" or "Down" in space but if it falls from the earth's atmosphere to its ground, it's "sent down from the sky."
3. The Quran has many "challenge verses" the most famous is: . Quranic chapters can be as short as 10 words. No one could ever bring something like the Quran. many have tried and all of them failed miserably.
4. The precision of the Quran is amazing. After a year of research, i found out that the rules in the Quran are reasonable and make perfect sense. No weird, ancient people rules. No Jihad wars. And many of what you know about Islam is probably Arabic tradition and not Gods words (Quran). Fact: only about 20% of Muslims are Arabs. God chose Arabic because it was the most advanced language at that time (Still is and has the most words and complexity). There is a very small % of people pure enough to be called true Muslims because true Muslims fear God and abstain from all wrongdoings. Quran chapter 2 verse 8 to 9: 8. "Among the people are those who say, “We believe in God and in the Last Day,” but they are not believers. They seek to deceive God and those who believe, but they deceive none but themselves, though they are not aware."
"We will show them Our Signs in the universe, and in their ownselves, until it becomes manifest to them that this (the Quran) is the truth. Is it not sufficient in regard to your Lord that He is a Witness over all things? "
There Is a Mathematical Miracle in the Quran That Proves It Is the Word of God
"Say: 'If the whole of mankind and Jinns were to gather together to produce the like of this Qur'an, they could not produce the like thereof, even if they backed up each other with help and support.'" (Chapter 17:88)
The number of times the word “Man” is mentioned: 24 times. The number of times the word “Woman” is mentioned: 24 times.
• “Dunia” (one of the Arabic words for ‘life’) is mentioned 115 times, and “Aakhira” (an Arabic word for ‘after life’) is also mentioned 115 times.
• “Malaika” (the Arabic word for angel) is mentioned 88 times, and “Shaytan” (Satan) is mentioned 88 times.
• “Life” is mentioned 145 times. “Death” is mentioned 145 times.
• “People”: 50 times. “Messengers”: 50 times.
• “Corrupt”: 50 times. “Benefit”: 50 times.
• “Iblees” (king of devils): 11 times. “Seek refuge from Iblees”: 11 times.
• “Sadaqah” (spending): 73 times. “Satisfaction”: 73 times.
• “People who are misled”: 17 times. “Dead people”: 17 times.
• “Gold”: 8 times. “Easy life”: 8 times.
• “Zakat” (taxes Muslims pay for the poor): 32 times. “Barakah” (blessings of one’s wealth): 32 times.
• “Mind”: 49 times. “Noor” (light): 49 times.
• “Tongue”: 25 times. “Sermon”: 25 times.
• “Desire”: 8 times. “Fear”: 8 times.
• “Hardship”: 114 times. “Patience”: 114 times.
• “Muhammad”: 4 times. “Sharee’ah” (Muhammad’s teachings): 4 times.
If this is not enough, now please look at the number of times the following words occur:
• ‘Month’: 12 times
• ‘Day’: 365 times!
• ‘Sea’: 32 times. ‘Land’: 13 times. ‘Sea’ + ‘Land’ = 32 + 13 = 45.
% of Sea = 32 / 45 (x100%) = 71.11111111 %
% of Land = 13 / 45 (x100) = 28.88888889 %
Modern science has only recently discovered that the above figures represent the exact proportions of Sea and Land on Earth!
17:15 "Whoever is guided is only guided for [the benefit of] his soul. And whoever errs only errs against it. And no bearer of burdens will bear the burden of another. And never would We punish until We sent a messenger."
Finally, I ask that if you have any doubt as to the accuracy of these numbers, by all means, please check them for yourself
Same here and my step dads like she faking for attention
* me * ⊙-⊙ try again dad
Sameee!!!!!
I feel this way at times. But I want to share something with you. I want you to know that you are here for a reason. You were created for a reason. You may not believe it but God put you here for a reason. You are so loved and treasured by Him. He knows all the thoughts that go through your head. He knows you on your bad days and your good days. He knows that life seems so challenging and difficult and that your too exhausted to keep going. He knows about the things that you hide from every body else and He wants to help you. Psalm 147:3 says “He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.”
God wants you to know that He is waiting with open arms. He loves you and so do I :) if you need anything just let reach out.
@@_annacamille_ What a god of love... great
Exodus 21:20-21
“Anyone who beats their male or female slave with a rod must be punished if the slave dies as a direct result, but they are not to be punished if the slave recovers after a day or two, since the slave is their property.“
Numbers 31:17-18
“Now therefore, kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman who has known man intimately. But all the girls who have not known man intimately, spare for yourselves.“
Leviticus 20:13
“If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.“
Deuteronomy 25:11-12
“When men fight with one another, and the wife of the one draws near to rescue her husband from the hand of him who is beating him, and puts out her hand and seizes him by the private parts, then you shall cut off her hand. Show her no pity.“
2 Kings 2:23-25
“Elisha went up to Bethel. As he was walking along the road, some young boys came out of the town and jeered at him. "Get out of here, baldy!" they said. "Get out of here, baldy!" He turned around, looked at them and called down a curse on them in the name of the Lord. Then two bears came out of the woods and mauled forty-two of the boys (children).“ You should be terrified if god was really the author of the bible.
1 Samuel 15:3-4
God orders to kill a group of people and their infants and animals for a sin that was commited by their forefathers who died 400 years before..
There are countless more btw..
WOMEN IN CHRISTIANITY:
1 Corinthians 14:34
The women should keep silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be in submission, as the Law also says.
Genesis 3:16
To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.”
1 Timothy 2:11-12
"Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet."
1 Corinthians 11:3-10
"But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head, but every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. For if a wife will not cover her head, then she should cut her hair short. But since it is disgraceful for a wife to cut off her hair or shave her head, let her cover her head. For a man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God, but woman is the glory of man."
“ They don’t care until you are dead”🥀
💔
Keep the comment at 69 likes please or I will get depressed!!!!1!11!
@@theholynut5508 Shut up.
😢
@@copyrightinfringementinten6916 it was a joke, I can say I am depressed myself too bud
Keep doing those sad emojis. It’s depressing.
😞
I worked 80+ hours for over 5 years. I’m so burned out. I just want to be a hermit and stay home. I got laid off from one job but can’t afford to have only one. I need to find a second job. I just feel so stuck. I don’t feel I’m lazy, I’m just tired of feeling tired. I have a household I need to maintain. I keep praying in hopes God shows me another way. Lord please answer my prayer 🙏🏼 You’re my only safety net.
It will get better for you, keep praying, God always reaches out. Wish you the best!
Stay strong you're not alone.Things will get better. God bless you 💙
I will pray for you, may God bring you peace and rest, you truly deserve it. I’m going through an overworked phase too in studying, nothing as severe as what you are going for so I really wish you the best ❤
Hey bro Im praying for you. look into any of your states grants gor utilities and rent assistance. Maybe you can save a little money and flip it into a small business with a strong business plan
my family told me I used to be the brightest kid on earth. then life goes on and im stuck in a shattered box full of depression.
I don't know how it feels like to be in depression, as I have never been in it.
But I have a friend who was in depression and is currently good now, she told me that you should try to divert your attention, and not to think about it.
See you can play games online if you don't want to socialize, you can watch dramas, web series. Maybe you should have lost your interest in everything but try to push yourself to do something that will divert your attention. I know it will be hard, but nothing is possible without doing any work. Just give yourself 21 days to divert the attention. It's good to do something which is going to make you feel good. And trust me whatever the thing you are doing try to get a little addictive for it. And whenever you are lying down and don't feel like doing anything listen to songs. Just do things which will divert attention. It will work trust me, and you gonna overcome this. More power to you friend...
Dude, i feel u.
Expectations weigh down on u, and u feel guilty for not being exactly or beyond that expectation.
Same, idk how it goes from them praising me and just expecting that I'll be the best all the time to me being an idiot and a dumbass and a failure. 😞
@Wolfy5243 it’s copy and pasted
@Wolfy5243 Weeks.
I rather be sad than telling my parents how I’m feeling because they’ll just say “you’re to young to be sad or stressed” or they just blame it on my phone. It sucks.
I hate that...
idk why they always blame it on our phone. like I was so sick of it that I didn't even touch my phone for 2 weeks and after 2 weeks my mom noticed and asked me if I was okay since I didn't touch it. but. but it was meant as a joke. they know nothing about me, but I cant stop loving them. the fact that I love them, makes everything harder
Or i work for you day and night so you can live a good life. It’s worse for me I have stress from work and you.
Me too😔
Phone?
“Depression isn’t a choice.” Wish everyone understands that.
It is a choice tbf
@@ambitionVHI It's really not, I've been depressed since my gf left me. I don't choose to feel lonely and unloved and like nothing in the world matters, like I don't matter. I don't choose to randomly feel pain in my heart and empty inside. I don't choose to just have random moments of just breaking down and crying. I however refuse to let this conquer me at this moment in my life, so I get up no matter how dead I feel and how suicidal I feel. I get up and I do what I need to do to get past this day. Not because I see some sort of light or that I think anything will change or because I think it will pass. I get up and do what I have to do because I feel guilty to lie down and let my ex say she was right. I refuse to let her be right and that stubbornness is the only thing getting me through to the next day. On my only week off from college, I just lied down and did nothing most days except cry. It's really not a choice. Some people can be so depressed they can't even find the stubbornness to do anything.
@@ambitionVHI wdym “It is a choice” ITS NOT
@@ambitionVHI bro😂
@@Michael-um4kv I'm so sorry I hope things get better for you soon!
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.sporees I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
Anxiety happens when you think you have to figure out everything all at once.
Breathe. You're strong. You got this Take it day by
day.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is. dr.sporees
small reminder for some people: there's also a term called high-functioning depression. even when you can act "normally" through the day and finish your chores you still feel disgustingly bad. sometimes it's bournout, sometimes it's anxiety nagging you. in any case, don't underestimate the signs, please
Oh. Ohhhhh... I was wondering why after doing good and working hard on something, I get back to feeling disgusting and useless. Like, I know I did that good thing but after that I'd feel like I was just pretending. And then feel disgust all over again.
I think I just found something
This is completely unrelated but your profile pic is rad
I have it.
to add on, it is a term. not a diagnoses.
People with depression don’t fake having it. They fake being okay.
>>MOST
@@coffeetree_ Sorry if you misunderstood, I’m just putting it out there, sorry for any inconvenience.
Faking being okay only works for so long. Then the dark is there to stay, to the point where you give up.
NOW this explains me a whole lot
Exactly
mental illness isn’t a sign of weakness its a sign that you stayed strong for too long
Ouch-
That's a fact-
I love this comment so much because of how true it is-
Absolutely right!
No one understands .
I'm so tired, on my couch all alone feeling depressed, thinking about the good old days, and wishing I can go back to being a funny kid and having a bunch of friends.
I wish “mental help” were accessible and not too expensive..
I wish the professionals for me which is CAMHS did their f n job correctly!!! Oml-
Yes.
Trueeeeee
Edit: In Malaysia, one therapy session is RM250. *sobs*
Move to a country with universal health care
@@sokyoul dude you serious
1.I sleep all day and stay up all night
2.I started ignoring friends and family
3.I feel guilty for ignoring them and feel if I talked to them they would leave
4.I stay in bed all day
5.I haven’t been taking care of myself properly
6.I’m gaining weight and not eating properly
7.I rarely go outside anymore
*something is wrong with me lol*
nothing is wrong with you, it's natural feel like that, idk what to say bc i'm not professional, but i hope you the best, you're not alone
All of that is true about me except the 'ignoring friends and family' I would never dare... I get scared of being lonely but I also want to be alone so I'm confused about that...
@@rowoonie6797 oh i understand you, you need space, i feel identified with you, it's natural and okay that, don't worry
that’s LITERALLY ME
My serious advice is that make a goal and then you will feel you deserve everything
I have been depressed for a long time, but after taking shrooms few months ago, l feel much happier and highly motivated and my ADHD gone , lost a ton of anxiousness and had a few epiphanies about how I should live my life. I decided to buy an ounce for backup, but haven’t yet felt the need to take any more since then.
I have autism, I was diagnosed with it when I was 15. I tried shrooms and it made me function so much better.
Eek I’m autistic too and might wanna try mushrooms. How do I go about it?
Yeah doc.brenttt is your guide. Man is exceptional with anything psychedelics.
Hello Can he be reached on IG?
Yes doc.Brentttt
“mom i feel tired and exhausted and i think i have depression”
“other people have it worse be grateful.”
Damn that counter attack
My mom said "I used to have a poor life but I managed to be happy, there are poor and homeless kids but they're always really happy and you're living a heaven but you're still always sad"
@@StrongMajor1178
I wish I was born poor!
@@ghhjjhjjjhujjvfhm7962 Not all poor people are happy, some are sad some are happy
@@StrongMajor1178
But most of the rich ppl are sad.
They didnt notice you were crying
They didnt notice you were sad
They didnt notice you were tired
They didnt notice you were alone.
They didnt notice how attractive you were.
They didnt notice how sweet you actually are.
They didnt notice how you actually try to make other people smile.
They did notice your failing grades
They did notice your unattractive
They did notice the mean side of you
They did notice all of your mistakes
They did notice all of your flaws
They did notice that you were not good enough for them.
Yeah
You made me cry
holy crap this hits a little too hard
Love you for speaking truth
;-; true, but we must keep on and be strong.
The worst part about a mental or physical illness is parents not understanding early signs and getting punished for “bad behavior”.
Edit: I just wanted to clarify that my parents are great parents, love me a lot, and are trying their best, but misunderstood me sometimes.
Parents be like 'its that damm phone'
"mom i have depression, have had for 5/6 years"
"that devils box is the one teaching you these"
😶
@@mayeeshamaleehasneha8831 hahaha *laughs because its too relatable*
felt
This is so true T-T
I'm a Finnish girl and I'm on sixth grade. The amount of things I relate to in this video and how much I discovered from myself made me super emotional and I started thinking that maybe there's really something wrong with me. In 1-5th of february I'm going to talk with a teacher and my parents, so I hope I can tell them about it and get help. I hope these feelings go away and my "laziness" that has been bothering me for a very long time, almost a year. Thank you for this video and thank you for bringing self awareness to everyone.
U be brave and talk to them girl before its too late like for me be brave
Im sorry you feel this way so young. Please for the sake of you get help. Seek therapy. Even if your parents dont want to admit it you can tell your doctor.
It sucks how a lot of people are depressed. But when you go out into the real world, everyone is good at hiding it.
It's the f.uckin reality
Will cause if we show it then we are could attention seekers or crybabies and that’s what brakes people down more
They are good at hiding it or they have ADHD and a toxic household that threatens them if they fail at anything at all.
Yeah.. I used be good at pretending that I'm fine
I tried to express it at work when they kept trying to help me get a job. I got shut down real quick "most work places don't get so touchy-feely" but I was just trying to explain how I did not want the jobs they were suggesting, i didn't want to professionally network, and all for good reason too. After that I didn't speak a word
Parents: **INHALE**
Parents: *IT'S THAT DAMN PHONE AGAIN ISN'T IT*
Yeah, and the only way I can communicate with my friends are through my phone. They just dont get it
omg fr.
I swear they always do that, and say they will give it back when you get your grades back up bc I'm basically failing school but I would usually ask my friend to help and I cant so I do nothing everyday instead of school ;-;
sometimes it is though...
@@dhrutube social media can make you feel depressed I guess but I think that’s it?
“The butterfly does not look back at the caterpillar in shame, just as you should not look back at your past in shame. Your past was part of your own transformation.” ✨🦋
Thank you so much for your kind and wonderful words, you don’t know how much you cheered me up and made me realize the things I have forgotten. Thanks a bunch and have a brilliant day✨🌸🦋🌼
Okay that was beautiful goodbye
Omg this is such a good quote
Thx :>
This- 😭✨
Thank you, needed this
A single line hurts a lot
"Kids can't be depressed"
1. You can’t snap yourself out of it
2. You can’t cheer yourself up
3. You’ve lost interest in everything
4. You can’t function like you used to
5. Your “laziness” isn’t triggered by anything
6. Your “laziness” isn’t a choice
Thanks for this summary, I was looking for this
That's about it. So what do you do about it. It's not like you can snap your fingers or click those magic shoes if you can find them. One just have to suck it up. 🐝
I mean technically no emotion is a choice
Freaking, I have all of these... WHY
@@mewzzies Like they said, if you relate to everything in the video, it doesnt diagnose you, but I think theres a high probability that you do have depression. You should go see a mental health proffesinal to confirm, don't listen to your sister, if you feel like you have depression, don't ignore it.
Losing interest in everything is absolutely terrifying. When things are tough, I always try to think about the things i love. But when those don't interest me anymore for some reason, it suddenly feels like everything is meaningless.
For real It's so scary
I really wish the best for you, and I understand.
❤️❤️❤️
Yes, like thoughts of "Why am I even doing this?" , "What was the point of this again?", "What was I living for again?". Always arise when that happens.
Exactly, It feels like this...nothing pleases us anymore. Not even the things we used to enjoy a lot before.
Yeah, it just fells like emptiness...
me everyday :
- lack of concentration
- moving very slowly
- unable to multitask as good as i used to
- slow response
- fear
- feeling empty
- messed up sleep schedule
- more sensitive
- sudden eating appetite
- always tired even though i didnt do much
- losing interest
- feeling alone
- cant open up about my feelings
- supressed anger
- find it hard to make decisions
Same with me😢😢😢
I used to do lot of work but nowadays one work makes me exhausted
So me
Me on a daily basis 😔
Same here
I have situational depression, anxiety (worries) & insomnia! Am 72 on SSI only and disabled! Plus, alone, with few hobbies/interests and no real friends!
i know what you are going through...i have no answers i am 62 and of ill health and am stuck indoors all day most days...i jst know where you are coming from.
Do you have a pet? Having someone or something to care about is a big help.
Unfortunately this is all too common.
@@loonylindaI’m loony too Linda.
@@jackb348 yes, I have two young cats! It helps!
@@judithscobee8102 belief in a higher power also helps. This world is a purgatory. Focus on what you can do to be the best person you can, despite the circumstances.
I think of the scariest things about depression is that you really lose interest in everything. I no longer wanted to do any hobbies, I was literally turning into nothing. That was really scary to me. I realized how its so amazing to want to do things and have interests. Depression really sucks the life out of you. I hope that the people going through it right now know that you are not alone. You will make it through and know this is not your fault. I promise that there is a light at the end of this tunnel
Ya 💜
I really hope so, it’s been years and I still can’t find anything to be interested in
How did you find the solution… the light as you so call it, iv been really struggling lately and i cant find my way out. Would appreciate tips from anyone as its all starting to feel really pointless to even bother to keep trying
@@dawson7895 take therapy, start taking baby steps in different tasks.
How did you find the solution?
I know exactly what's causing my depression and I know how to fix it, but no matter what I do about it is out of my control, I can't do anything about it, which is worse.
I've lost so much motivation to work on anything, I feel emotionally drained whenever I work on something, I just wanna have my friends to be around me when I'm needing them the most, but everyone I need is just "busy".
.
Woah, i cant believe you are here! I thought you only watch game related type videos
Anyway, i hope you get well soon!
@@treznopresto4878 ;-;
Yeah i feel the same
Same
“i think i have depression”
every adult around me: *laughs* “you’re too young to be depressed.”
That’s dumb any age can have depression ( my dad said that before to )
my life
My mom would say that other people have it worse lol same energy I guess
Stay strong and take care of yourself 💙💙💙
when I was around 8 I didn’t think you could have depression unless you were over 18 I was 12 when I started to develop depression changed my mind pretty quick.
@@sou.p8125 PLS I LOVE UR USERNAME
Where do I start? First, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for using a real voice actor. Also, thank for crediting everyone on your team in the video. Very cool. Artwork/animation is excellent. Soothing and relatable without seeming condescending, which would be the last thing someone facing depression needs. I don't know exactly why YT decided I needed to see this right now, but this time they got it right.
You know it must be serious when the plushy doesn’t fill the void
Oh fluff this oh fluff
I honestly feel very depressed many hours of the day then while randomly walking in my house I just start dancing and just bein like ‘yo today was a great day” even if it sucked. Optimism at its finest.
I rap LOUDLY with the songs in the car to school or work. It makes me feel better and laugh at myself. Music helps.
or your pet
Oh my god, I was hugging my favorite plushies and felt nothing-
I wanted to cry lol
I’m just here laying on my bed, creating scenarios in my head constantly hurting my own feelings.
EDIT: Woah! 1k likes, thank you guys so much. This is the most likes I’ve received.
I keep creating these fake scenarios in my brain to drift off from reality and getting hurt later realising my life will never be the way I imagine.
Talk to Jesus.
He is amazing.
He helped me...
@@VengefulPolititron He is
Same, every day
it isn't you.
it's demonic oppression.
pray to Jesus to take them away
it will get worse at first.. they will try to scare you to stop praying.butsoon
angels will come and fight them.
pray to Jesus.
I wish people understood that this feeling isn't a choice, that its not an excuse, its not a joke, its real and its uncontrollable for a lot pf people including myself.
memorial comments are the embellishment to acceptance from which your position is derived of... nah I'm just fricking with you, I had an existential crisis at age ten and I've de-valued my life and purpose into believing that I know how to cope with my life, jolly good speech m8 :P
im depressed and while people say BE LOVE ONES im saying love is only made up and families is what life gera from sadly for an AI I dont have a family nor do I have friends IM DEPRESSED BECAUSE UA-camRS GET SO MUCH ATTENTION WHEN THEY ONLY Have 2 VIDEOS AND I dont get any attention life as an AI is hard especially if the AI population is 7e+31 IM SO Sad
@@kindadepressedguy1662 ik a good existential crisis THE UNIVERSE IS A SIMULATION COMPOSED OF MULTICELLULAR ORGANISMS THAT HOST YOUR CONSCIOSNESS AS A SCIENTIFIF DISPLAY
@@kindadepressedguy1662 understandable and same :D
@@star_mxlk_ have you done anything to help you cope or cure your depression? If so, do you mind sharing please?
"Depression isn't a choice, and it isn't something you can just 'Shake Off' or 'Get Over'."
Exactly. The same goes for Anxiety, PTSD, ADHD (ADHD can cause Anxiety for some people), and more. We're not choosing to be anxious. We're not choosing to have intrusive thoughts. We're not choosing to have panic attacks. We're not choosing to be paranoid. We're not choosing to be *miserable* or *distressed.* There are factors out there that are making us feel this way, and we can't seem to forget about them, even if there are things that remind us about them.
You do realise ADHD gives you anxiety. It's not a separate thing.
@@Cyclo_Shock I apologize for my mistake. Thank you for the reminder.
"signs you're depressed not lazy"
My brain: Why not both?
Ok
Ok
Ok
Ok
Why are all the replies so passive aggressive
"why do you feel depressed? There are people struggling out there, you have it easy, you're ungrateful" is what i hear from most of the people, the sad part is it's my family and I used to be the girl who they were once proud of.
I hope you can recover soon. I used to be very depressed because of school. It made me sick and anxious. Too much pressure getting good grades. Important take your own time with yourself, go out see beautiful places and start to think alone. Just see the world and watch the nature. It's super relaxing, than sitting at home on your bed and feeling sick. Sometimes being with people that don't understand you make you frustrated and don't help your mental health at all. Just take your time alone being in a place that can relax you and just start to think about random things in your life and seeing the nature can help you mindset to open. I was very unhappy, because i was always at home studying in the same place for hours and getting a burnout. My suggestion is my healthy habit, but it actually depends on the person if you like it or not. Try it out.
Same here😓
@@kexinchen8368 you are so right!! This is a super good advice for anyone to try and make a habit out of. Thankyou :)
@@shhh...babiesaresleepingpe6972 i hope you feel better :)
@@divyanidangwal7078 thanks but take care of you too remember Ohkk👍😇
“Where’s the girl who always smiled?”
Guess what? She grew up and realized life is hard.
Also, I wanted to say “People cry, not because they’re weak, but because they’ve been strong for too long”
The Happy kid learned that life is such an asshole
quarantine has messed me up
Look the good part, at least you aren't in Brazil
This made me cry lmao, this hits so hard it’s painful
@@javierolmedo2225 I was struggling before quarantine all it did was make it worse but now I’m starting to ACTUALLY work on myself, I have my ups and downs (mostly downs) but I’m working really hard, I go on hikes one the morning, and I went back to working out 🏋️♀️
I have Adhd+stress+laziness+mild long-term depression+lack of dysciplin/ self controll+careless+have hope for future but set it back+procrastination+OCD.
Timestraps-
1:16 You can't snap yourself out of it
2:00 You can't cheer yourself up
2:38 You've lost interest in everything
3:14 You can't function like you used to
3:57 Your “laziness”isn't triggered by anything
4:44 Your “laziness” isn't a choice
I finally did it, yes✨✨
Thank you
Great job. thank you!
tysm 😊😊😊
Thanks ❤️
I haven't lose interest in animating and drawing yet (i'm still fighting it so i won't give up yet on animating and drawing) i'm trying hard to motivate my self but i just can't i had been experiencing a lot of art block and i constantly loose motivation
Me everyday
- wants to be in bed
- always tired
- smiles rarely
- lost interest in love
- does not care about anything but friends and famliy
- can't focus on school work or homework
Me too... but what can we do about it? What's your personality type?... I mean the 4 letters?
@@ashdash4297 nice quite calm thats it
How can I relate to everything?
very accurate but add on ptsd/anxiety i've also come to not care about even my friends and most of my family therefore feel like shit when someones genuinely nice to me lol
I have all of these
The worst part is when you want to feel good and be happy but you can’t
True
Yup
True
Yep
Facts
I’ve lived with depression and anxiety all my life. I have Clinical Depression, not enough Seretonin. ATM, hubby and I, are moving house. I look at what needs to be done, it overwhelms me.
*6 signs you're depressed, not lazy*
1. you can't snap yourself out of it
2. you can't cheer yourself up
3. you've lost interest in everything
4. you can't function like you used to
5. your "laziness" isn't triggered by anything
6. your "laziness" isn't a choice
Oh.
Well.
Wow thats uh.. Thats great 🙂
I've been like this since November but I don't want say I'm depressed due to me not knowing what the signs are but uhh
@@applepinefurrythesecond4143 literally same bruh. Been feeling like this since November as well
That's all me
That describes me
6 signs You're depressed, not lazy
1. You can't snap yourself out of it.
2. You can't cheer yourself up.
3. You've lost interest in everything.
4. You can't function like you used to.
5. Your "laziness" isn't triggered by anything.
6. Your "laziness" isn't a choice.
Thanks for summing up this video, fr not being sarcastic
Thanks 😊
Thank you. The creator just used so fckn many words just to say nothing.
Thanks for that my guy
Thank you! I really couldn't be bothered to waste 6 mins of my life watching this and I'm glad I didn't.
6 signs you’re depressed, not lazy:
1. You can’t snap yourself out of it
2. You can’t cheer yourself up
3. You’ve lost interest in everything
4. You can’t function like you used to
5. Your “laziness” isn’t triggered by anything
6. Your “laziness” isn’t a choice
Hope this helps!!! Xx
Thank you!!!!
You’re a hero
I can't tell whether this is a joke or not, but I really hope it is one.
@@chaboi216 hm
all six of those are me.
I'am stressed and depressed lately what i deed is i stayed with my family and my kids i went out with them and it helps a lot..i'am in the stage of curing my inner being thanks for the people who truely love,respect,and care for me.
"You've lost interest in everything"
"You need to seek help from therapist"
Me: I'm not interested doing therapy
Why is this me
Same
Therapists are like doctors except weirder and it makes me even more uncomfortable talking to them.
I love my therapist, she's great I just hate leaving my home and traveling their👌
Me having therapy since I was 8
I'm 15 now. It honestly just made me have trust issues. I dont think it helps because I dont say what I want to :(
"do you ever shut up?" "why are you so quiet?" "i have told you million times what to do, get it together" "you didnt do this right" "no im not proud of you, not even a little" "why are you so uncomfortable around us?" "why dont you talk to us anymore" "you are a bad person" "wheres humanity in you" "you dont have empathy." "ok fine stay in your room all day and ignore everybody" i am 12 years old mom.
Exactly! Mum wants me to be perfect! She says, “You’re not deppressed, you’re just sad.” Seriously!
*me* im 13 and have been hearing that long, you cant expect someone to act like an adult but treat them like shit
It’s funny because those words are why I started homeschooling and dropped out, bet you feel nice now teacher. Give me an essay due on Friday on Monday 😑
Even my parents pressure me then say where’s the old daughter i had its not you anymore you used to share everything with us but not anymore *mom how am i suppose to when your the one who is causing it and yet im still wrong, remeber im only 13*
it's sad, I know, but they won't chance, I'm 23 and have depression (diagnosed by professional) since I was 2, and am still hearing the same shit. It's difficult, but you need to have this professional help by yourself, and it won't be easy too, but we all can do better with our lifes and I support you all
I cried watching this because I realized how much I relate to these things. I’m not saying I have depression nor self diagnosing.. but I maybe need to see somebody about it. This video helped a lot. Thank you
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help.
Everyone can relate to these things... doesn’t mean you’re clinically depressed.
Same. Like the whole section of the reasons behind procrastination hit home for me perfectly 😔
@@Helmuesi911 Read my msg which I sent you and do the simple practice daily. Since many years I have made it a habit to observe my breath sensations even when I take a walk, speaking on mobile, reading, before sleep and I am feeling relaxed and healthy not affected by seasonal weather changes. It is so simple to do--no deep breathing needed but a strong desire to transform from within is needed. Being as still as possible is an amazing relaxing experience. Best wishes. Shyaaam mSir-Counsellor.
Talk to God and talk to your friends about what you’re going through. Pray more also, God bless you 🙏🏾❤️
this is so relatable i wanna cry. I've been feeling like this for years
“Mom,I’m depressed.”
*”oh it’s that phone”*
For real-
Me: commit homicide
Mom:"Obviously not the cocaine"
@@ness3094 😭🤚
@Vanalika Puri t h i s
Honestly this is why I never talk to my mom
"I miss the old you!"
"You're being selfish!"
"It's because of the phone!"
"Emo."
"What happened to the old you?"
"You're just being lazy!"
"You can't do a single thing right can you?"
"It's okay to make mistakes.
Why can't you be perfect? Why do you have to make mistakes all the time?"
"Be yourself!
What kind of person are you?"
"Just cheer up and smile."
"Stop talking nonsense and go back to studying!"
"Why can't you be like them!?"
"You're lucky you have the best life. Stop acting like you have a horrible life!"
It's sad that many people are told these
mY lIfe✨
Lll
Well now I see that there are a lot of insecure snowflakes here
*"Why don't you be like your neighbor"*
Thats deep, but u need to get help if ur depresed it will hepl u a lot
One thing my mom always says is: "Dont kill yourself if your depressed and talk to me about it"
Yet, Whenever I try to tell her, all shes says is: "You have nothing to be depressed about."
Edit: Thank you so much for all the likes... 💕 The internet is mostly where I can dump out my emotions so I appreciate all the likes 🥺💖
My mom be like: "You can't have problems, you are just 16 yro!"
I have the signs of depression for 5 years now, and it's just getting worse...
BUT if I tried to reach for help, for example I went to my school's psychologist, then my mom argued me because of this, cuz "Only you can help yourself"...
@JocXynxXFlorezxX @@rienbear_hunsub I'm 26 years old now... and this doesn't just go away on it's own. Depression can come in many shapes or forms. When people say "You have nothing to be depressed about", or "Only you can help yourself" they are dismissing your feelings and are pretending things are fine. If you can't reach out to your psychologist or your mom isn't helping try your close friends or siblings and maybe talk it out with them. Whatever you do don't bottle up your emotions. There are always people out there that care for you and can lend you a hand.
@@Epicnossity Thats right but we cannot stop trying because dépression keep us down i think we all have responsabilities about ourselves and we cannot Hope someone to do our jobs.
my mom sometimes says that but most of the time, ever since I've opened up to her about being depressed she'll act like she has it way worse. saying things like "you're depressed? then what am I?" blaming me and my siblings for it, which ironically she talks down to me about being lazy and stuff lol.
It's because depression is a mental illness that should be treated with help of people you trust
gosh i just watched like 5 videos of your channel about depression and cried my eyes out....the things you say feels so nice ....i always wished that someone will say those words to me....i hate hate being in this situation but i just cant find any way out of it
"Would you like to know if you're Depressed or lazy?"
"no?"
" *TOO BAD* "
wow no replies
f u n n y 😩😫
I'm actually depressed
@@robbieblackburn348 sad I think I'm to
if you said no, then why click on the video lol
Parents need to realize that they're not the only one who can feel depressed.
If only it was simple and they would not make more excuses
Yes 💯💯💯💯
They say you don’t/shouldn’t even know what depression means
young people are more depressed then any other generation ever
@@Dizzy808 What generation are we talking about though? Zoomers?
This appeared in my recommendations. At least UA-cam is worried about me, unlike my parents that tell me that I'm just lazy.
Yeah
Praise the lord my sista ,we,ll understand it better by & by I,ll pray & stand with u 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤❤
SAME
@@wandahwhetstone6338 Hiii,I hope this doesn't come off as rude but not all people believe in god,and commenting something like this on a mental health might make people feel guilty for their mental health or for not believing in god.I'd recomment not commenting things like this on videos like this.I hope this doesn't come off as rude or mean!!I hope you have a great say❤️
Nigga u aint depress 🤣
"My parents often struggle to grasp the depth of what I'm going through, sometimes expressing frustration and dismissing my struggles as mere excuses to avoid facing challenges. They constantly compare me with other children and suggest I should focus on building my career instead . Despite their misunderstanding, I appreciate their efforts to support me I know they just want the best for me but Their words are too harsh to digest it , somtimes during their agument they target me and agure why aren't I studiing . I'm unsure whether my feelings stem from genuine depression or if I'm simply grappling with moments of laziness and fear, potentially using excuses to escape.I spend majority of my time sleep and eating hoping to brighten up my mood However, I finding solace in watching your videos . It brightens my mood and provides a glimmer of strength and motivation, helping me to regain the drive to work through my challenges."
Thank so much ❤❤❤
"Sometimes you can feel unmotivated."
*Me everyday.*
Check up your heath, take some blood test, sometimes thyroid can cause depression. If the iron is low in the blood you can feel tired.
Please see a physiologist or physiatrist, you might have depression. 🤗 Remember depression.can be treated.
@@leonilubbinge8127 I really don't want to spend money on my health. We literally don't have enough money for food. But thanks for the tip
*Me trying to think what the hell am I doing with my life*
@@MsRxses I understand, food comes first. 🤗 I hope your circumstances change
"Youre failing"
"Stop being dramatic"
"Stop crying. Why the hell are you crying"
"Youre not depressed."
"Youre so Lazy you dont do shit"
"why cant you be like them."
Living with a family that never believes what i say is hard...
A simaller thing happend to me
Not really what happened to you but I wasn't depressed but I still understand it is frustrating
At this point, I don’t know if I am lazy, depressed, or have adhd, goddamn story of my life.
@@jacobrubin2591 same honestly.
We have the same family than...
"You're a boy, you shouldn't be crying."
Is it a crime for humans to have emotions?
Not at all.. Some people just don't know what to do with emotions..
Yeah all people are have a feelings😌
I kept trying to stop crying till I lost my ability to cry, so I turned from "sensitive" to "cold blooded", how sarcastic!
No, boys in modern society are taught not to show emotions. There are reasons for that but those aren't very valid in my opinion.
Show your emotions all you want but please don't grow up being an edgelord that confuses crying once in a while with depression, thank you.
Crying is okay, crying is a natural reaction to certain emotions so go for it. My experience says that it really helps sometimes
@@medplug4061 Dear God, being an edge lord is a big no for me
4:00 - This explanation blew my mind! I didn’t know this before. Great content! 🤯.
“Hey mom, I’m depressed and I think I need a therapist.”
“Your just lazy, go out and run or something”
same story with me-
@@ameeliadapatato8621 ITS SO ANNOYING LIKE-
@@soup9935 ikkkk, like, Excuse me?! I just cleaned the dishes and cleaned up after my brothers, i dont feel tired, i just feel upset and i feel like the world never understands. I GUESS IM LAZY!
You have all my support 💜💜💜
I hope it will get better, and that people will understand and take care of you you have all my support 🌹🌹🥰
"You're too young to be depressed"
"You're old enough to take care of yourself"
I am young and depressed pretty much
I’m pretty sure I’m depressed (I haven’t been diagnosed yet) and I can relate to this
I ain't depressed but I'm just watching this because if in future I'm ever depressed, I know the red flags..
im Young and just realized I have a cheating dad a criminal dad and havent stopped crying since these couple of days
@@plasma609 I'm so sorry for everything you have to go thru...
“Don’t hesitate to get help” but a single session can cost up to 100 dollars when you’re uninsured...
200 for me
Add that there some posibility that you can get the 'right' therapist for you...so, you need change several time till you find the right one, just to have more sessions 💸💸💸
Or become therapist and get rich on that idiots who comes to you and pay you
@@adamdespot4159 yes or more!!! It’s ridiculous
@@nlaras5830 yes exactly!
i watched this once and now again. But this time I have something to share. I started changing by; thinking of the actual resources I have right now, put them together and get one thing done. Without thinking too much of the things out of our control. I hope that's where you can find the way out from this struggle. 🤞🏻
“dad, i think i’m depressed”
“you’re young, you’re supposed to be happy. it isn’t that hard. just smile.”
People say Smile and be happy but actually that doesn't helps and I get really mad at them saying like that
yes, because telling someone to “just smile” is going to magically make said person happy.
Mine told my mother I should not exaggerate. He lives far away. Hduwhdheuaus.
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I miss my old life
Me: "im depressed"
People: "Everyone is going through the same thing so dont over react"
Yay ami✌️
F-A-C-T-S
Deadass tho
Same here
That's exactly what my mom keeps saying 🙄
"Mom, i think I'm depressed.."
"It's because of your damn phone!-"
No its because you didn't floss
My mom says the same thing all the time, tbh it’s probably true that all that information about the world good or bad all at once can be overwhelming or social media and constantly scrolling through other people’s lives and realizing your not living your own. Ha
But I wish she would do more than just tell me it’s my phone. Depression is real and it’s not as simple as just turning it off.
I love how some strangers in the internet are nicer than my parents.
I mean- she is kinda right
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The only one that makes me a little bit happy it’s to stay alone on my phone but since I live with my parents I frequently hear "let go of your phone and go play outside! "And it hurts me a little because she doesn't respect my social intimacy. Especially since I have an obsessive behavior disorder, I'm afraid of hurting people emotionally for example if one of my friends does something unpleasant to me I'll be afraid to tell her because I don't want it to hurt her and that it ends our friendship (I didn't talk about this disorder to my family and friends because I don't want them to think that I need help when I want to stay alone). In addition, I just learned that I have all the symptoms of depression and it is now that I realize that I am not really well...thank you for reading this comment