What Was So Wrong About Dressing Up As Bushra Bibi for Halloween? | AHI Opinion
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- What Was So Wrong About Dressing Up As Bushra Bibi for Halloween? | AHI Opinion
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Actually it was quite disrespectful, she cover herself as an act to follow Islam not for some weirdo dude to copy her plus she isn't a media person that one would say that she isn't private. And i am strictly against Halloween,it is not a part of our religion or culture. I don't know why ppl who are slowly showing no interest in Eids are overexcited for these strange things.
Agree!!!
100% agree! Are any other cultures/religions celebrating Eid like how crazily South Asians/Muslims are celebrating Halloween?? This doesn’t make any sense whatsoever.
exactly I live in england n I m shocked how media ppl n random as well celebrate Halloween. What's going on when I tell my son it's not allowed in Islam we are blessed muslims we dont celebrate satan likewise Christian dont celebrate eid why should us .or pak main tu rolaa hi alag hai .thank God my son is 6 yr n not on insta
Areeba did not do that
Tabish Khoji styled him and took a selfie with Yawar and seemingly oblivious they are showing disrespect to bushra bibi thats even more sadder 😢 Aamna you should address this as you work with him? You should have mentioned this, I know it is not your fault what others do but am sure you must be disappointed as you do a show with him😳
Thank you for speaking up!!
I myself as a hijabi have faced a lot of discrimination and also a lot of racism as a brown person and then seeing someone who is also muslim mocking it was really disrespectful and hurtful to me.
True
I'm also a brown person but never faced any racism from whites. I felt racism from non whites such as Chinese, Blacks, Vietnamese, mexicans, Indians, Arabs, Persians, Afghans, Egyptians etc.
@@sabrinakhan8217
Glad you didn't face any from the whites.
But I faced it a lot. Other brown people etc. were Alhamdolillah always nice to me
let it loose a bit, everything is not offensive, that harmless fella can't even do what he pleases cause some low esteem people can't handle it.
@@gatech5190 are you for real?! It is hella offensive
do you know what kind of uproar there would have been if it was a white person from the west who would have done it? Is disrespectful
Jus because it doesn't affect you it doesn't mean it's harmless.
Its not an offense just to Bushra Bibi but all the women who wear abaya or prefer to cover themselves, if a woman wearing jeans top is independent to choose whatever she wants for herself and she should not be judged, the same attitude should also be adopted towards women who like to cover themselves. There is nothing wrong to represent her look or mimic her look but infact Halloween is something where people dress themselves as scary or unusual and odd while abaya or niqaab is not scary or unusual.infact it is degnified and respectful. I don wear abaya, i dont cover my face instead, I wear dupatta and cover my head but i have equal respect for all the women who wish to wear abaya and niqab or prefer jeans-top.
Khoji styled him which is why he isnt present in this discussion. Using a womens or anyones religious ideologies and mocking them on haloween just shows how low they are! No respect for Islam or women. Khoji is also irresponsible for styling him!
Khoji bhai tu khud ajeeb si party kerte hain 🤣
Thank you Amna for saying this.. Don't you think as designer tabish is also responsible for this look? He also appreciated and shared this look. Is this the reason you are not discussing this in fashion fortnightly?
Thank you so much Aamna for speaking up. As someone who has lived in America my whole entire life it is very hurtful when we see people dress up like “ Muslims” and they mock our religion. I’m so pleased that you have taken your platform to speak up about this! ❤
how is it mocking?
With the magnitude of hate crimes against hijabis and the lack of respect these women get, it was beyond disgusting and shameful for Yawar to dress up like that. Bushra bibi wears a burqa for herself, and you don’t have to like her or Imran khan to respect her clothing choices. It’s a mockery of Islam as a whole (a huge and *major* sin), and highly insensitive to the rhetoric about hijab and niqab today. People in India and France (and many other places) are stripped of their right to wear what they want, and he still thought it was ok to dress up like that? Shame on you Yawar Iqbal and everyone involved in organizing the look (if my sources are correct that includes Tabesh Khoja and Nabila Salon)
Very well said
This is an offence indeed, people abroad do celebrate Halloween but they do not by any means mock anyone. People who are not Muslims are sadly way much more kind towards each other than us Pakistanis who are Muslims by name but not by practice sadly. May Allah guide all of us
We need to learn that It's offensive to mock a Muslim religious identity but then people do dress up nuns, pandits, Sikhs and priests in Halloween.
@@sabrinakhan8217 there is zero tolerance in our society. Zero tolerance and acceptance
This was so wrong.. and how these "celebs" were mocking Bushra on Khoji's Insta stories was actually disgusting, this woman has literally done nothing wrong and avoids limelight but is still targeted shamelessly ...
BTW aamna, your friend tabish khoja, is also seen taking selfies with him, you should have mentioned that too since you work so closely with him, infact he helped yawar with his looks
Hence she didn't wait for fashion fortnightly. ..
First of all Amna i liked this AHI opinion keep this bringing ⭐️
1. Loved your honest opinion of Yawar’s look he did absolutely ridiculous act by doing this& i think Areeba is as responsible for this she posted it on her story & wished happy hallowen which is ridiculous
i mean why would Yawar do this😏
2. Hallowen is completely not allowed in Islamic point of view Amna I humbly advice you to go through youth club videos to know the history and some other videos also
Thank you Amna, people call niqabi women ninja etc, but a halloween costume that too by a male is mockery of next level… lowest of the low!
A big round of applause for Aamna for speaking on this topic 👏👏👏
Thank you for shedding light on this issue. As a hijabi in the UK being mocked for wearing religious clothing is something we have to deal with but its very unfortunate when it comes from our own community. Well done for speaking up about it 🥰
Amna has such soothing voice , aesthetic sense and raised all points sensibly. I can listen her for hours.
She should conduct her solo shows as well.
literally would pay for her show if i need to.
A religious garment is not a Halloween costume. It's irresponsible
This was much needed Aamna! 👍🏼
Very logical explanation.
This was very good video from Amina , but what yawar did was not just a mistake ,he had done it intentionally to make fun of a religion,a lady and an Islamic country.. idk what was the motive behind this,he was well aware of everything
First of all thankyou Amina for such a good segment , I truly appreciate your intellect and the way you so neutrally talk about subjects , living in U.S for past 20 yrs I don't celebrate Halloween neither more than half of Muslim community living here ,I have seen more enthusiasm in Pakistan and other Muslim countries when it comes to Valentine day or Halloween than Muslims who r living in foreign countries for half of thr lives, but then to each thr own I believe if it's not hurting anyone personally putting a dent in your income than it shouldn't bother what other ppl doing , now coming to dressing up as Bushra bibi I think it was done in poor taste Hijaab isn't a costume which you can put for your and others entertainment, wearing it myself and that too in a Western country its a everyday struggle not just for me but many females who chose to wear it and face discrimination , just like here in past U.S celeb have paint thr face black to look like a African American character and its offensive ,thr r some lines which shouldn't be crossed period . Again I really appreciate you and all your work watching you make me feel I am watching a part of my home and I feel connected to Pakistan so Thankyou . Best wishes from Texas ..
Sadly our celebrities have forgotten their culture & religion both..
Appreciate your take on this and agree with you. I was really disappointed in Tabish too, since I am really fond of him from your show together. I thought he was one to respect individual choices and orientations like he’s respected for his. I heard Nabilas team was involved in creating that look? So Yawar alone cannot be blamed here. I thought it was targeted harassment, in really bad taste. Yes an apology would be appreciated by all those involved.
Agree
Aamna jee, I want to thank you for this succinct and nuanced commentary! In many instances, people fail to see the damage done in favour of freedom of expression.
I agreed with you totally and kudos to you that you raise your voice for every kind of women be it someone who cover and someone who don't.
Aamna I respect your opinion. But we can not , i repeat we can not celebrate these events.
And these so called liberals dont sacrifice animals on eid by saying K inko takleef hoti hy, but eat KFC and macdonald whole year.
Eid pe tu sbko brray mazay ki neend aati hy lakin halloween pe poori raat b jaag laity han.
Well said. I seriously believe we need to introduce inclusion lessons in school and bring it up in all our conversations. Not just to be politically correct, but to be truly human.
Few words for the makeup artist too please, utterly disappointed!
We have never ever seen our celebrities organising and attending Eid parties. They should celebrate and promote that too. At that time everyone becomes private and release photo shoots. Whereas, industry can arrange eid party even after a week or so, in case they are busy on eid. It would be an interesting event for them to have fun and for media as well to cover their looks.
I just can't believe how someone even thought of getting ready for Halloween as bushra bibi and even I was more shocked when I get to know that yawar got ready from nabilas. How can they do this? Is there no one who was God fearing? These kind of mindsets are alarming for us as society.
In USA people dress up Presidents we get masks here. You guys are taking it too seriously!! This is all in fun.
@@Saamla okay keep it to USA. We dont do this in pakistan😊
آپ نے بہت اچھے طریقے سے اس مسئلہ کو سمجھایا ہے ۔ مگر جاہلوں کے لیے سب کچھ مذاق ہوتا ہے ۔ افسوس ہے یاور پر ۔
You explained Halloween very well. Love that you pointed out that it has evolved into a completely different holiday.
He should release an apology statement. He did it in full senses without any fear. This shows his filthiest mindset.
Thank you for such a sensible & logical response Aamna. Looking forward to more such balanced expressions of opinion in this new segment. I am a hijab wearer living in the UK, & November is Islamophobia Awareness Month. It's bad enough dealing with Islamophobes discriminating against us & politicians vilifying us through government policies around the world, the last thing we need is our "own" people doing it too 🙄 as you said, mocking religion is NEVER a good look.
You spoke so well on this issue Amna. Very well-balanced conversation. And i am glad u chose this topic to discuss.
People in Pak try to follow trends blindly, without being aware of the historic backgrounds of these western celebrations and then forget that where to draw a line.
Making a mockery out of someone's religious beliefs is just so tasteful.
Q:What was so wrong about dressing up as Bushra Bibi on Halloween?
A: Halloween.
Very apologetic explanation of history and contemporary Halloween.
Trick and treat was also a Celtic codeword for collecting human sacrifices from households.
Even modern day pagans/ wiccans get offended with the modern day treatment of their religious festival and they fully reclaim the ancient value of festival.
And yes the costume mimicry of a someone's personal lifestyle is sheerly offensive and there's no excuse for creative liberty here.
Very well points raised.
Also the use of witch hunt as pun was really good. ( If this falls in the category of offensive let me know... That is not my intention. I end up being too liberal for the conservatives and too conservative for the liberals , unintended mysoginstic vibes for the feminist and Uber feminist for the mysoginsts .(yet not a feminist). Not a great place to be so we may have a disagreement.)
Thanks Amna baitie for highlighting this . MashaAllah very balanced view. JazakAllah. In my opinion if this person
thinks he didn’t do anything wrong, he should dress up like his mom next pagan holiday.
" * وَتُعِزُ مَن تَشَاء وَتُذِلُ مَن تَشَاء ( Watu Izzu Man Tasha Watu Zillu Man Tasha
Bushra bibi sahib ko ghanta ferqq nhi perta ulta Allah un key gunha kam krta he jab log unko troll krtey hein without any reason.
Ye log khud apni oqaat or asliyat dikha rehey hein.. ....sab ne aik din merna he ye sab fazoliyaat yehi reh jaani hein.......
Thank you, well said and very much appreciated. You explained the situation and reasons why it was wrong so calmly and respectfully. 👊
Halloween itself is such a disturbing thing.... Even the back story which i newly learned it from you.. why should anyone even celebrate it.... Iseey tho khatam hojana chaye. Its not even fun.
Very nice video. As it is people make life of people who live by religion difficult why would you go n take one more step to negate them further. Did Bushra bibi tell anyone to dress like her? Is she doing anything to disturb anyone? No!! So why would you offend her and other women who do nikaab? When Boris Johnson compared naqabi ladies to postbox there was huge uproar in UK.. Now your own community starts mocking your choice of clothing. Extremely distasteful n crass.
I'm afraid I would disagree. Bushra bibi has her own choice. She came in public fore being the wife of ex PM. She has a specific attire, not just any hijab. It may appear cultish to some. So if someone finds her attire dreadful and puts it on Halloween, nothing wrong with it.
Hijab or Abaya has not been mocked here , someone's signature look has been tried . There's that difference
i am so happy that yawar received backlash for his act. now nobody will think of doing it in future IN SHA ALLAH.
Amina I want to say something!
Thank you 🙏 for saying this because u have a platform. Whatever I write it’s not personal attack . It is something that has hurt me seeing yawar like this. Let me tell u I am in California, a physician and coming from a women power family where women are self made and worked hard( why I am telling this because people try to satisfy their ego by saying the person writing this is looser and keyboard warrior)
I wanted to slap 👋 the person because I felt my very own family women for being disrespected!
Why? because my role model, my nani was a hijab practicing Muslim and she covered her face when she was young and then wore a chaddar all her life! My khala wore a chaddar all her life. I try modest attire. My nani was of generation of migration and self made honorable Pakistani who sacrificed to make this country.
Not only he mocked a religious modesty he also further made a comment about a sexual position! The most symbolic Muslim women attire he wore to a party where there was alcohol 🍷 and they got drunk. women from a famous digital platform ( who try to be so feminist )was dancing with him with possibly a glass of wine 🍷
So there are rights for women who are liberal but there is no right or respect or dignity for a religious women?
What do they think they can get away with this behavior?
This was the attire of prophets wife ( who are our mother ) and his daughters.
I am so offended by this. Somehow this disrespect feels personal!
Where are all the feminist and mera jism meri merzi brigade now???
The biggest dillema is being Muslims, we mock other muslim who are practicing their deen in this difficult time.The gora ppl.are not mocking us, the muslim themselves are mocking each other on obligatory things that should be practiced.Very sad.
Amna i have always respected you for your fair comments and sensibility but i feel you are very confused in a sense you are a Muslim lady but you are so much drawn and tempted by the western culture.You seem so happy discussing their festivities, why? Why should we even be discussing their culture.Do you even know who usmani's were, how our last Khalifa was dethroned.Yeh but this will be very boring for you.We should not be celebrating Halloween at all.They celebrate shaytan in it.May Allah guide us.We have lost our identity.Who we are, where we come from and to whom shall we return.
Amna I love you for it. I have been watching your celebrity interviews and always admired your style, which has great sensitivity.
Talking about this particular issue in such a balanced manner has increased my respect for you. We really need such a discourse in our public space. Thank you.
This guy is exactly like Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau He painted his face black.
Thank you Amna! We need more shows like these. At speed with the society’s values are changing these days it’s confusing to judge certain situations. You are a good anthropology teacher and we need these kind of talk in our life to be a better human.
Thank God you condemned that out loud. But I would say the idea of someone being dressed as fazal ur rehman would also steer into wrong direction. It would also represent mockery of a religious outlook. One must avoid that. No one should dress up as nun or priest or pop on Halloween. Same goes for Islam. Religion must be kept aside while deciding looks and costumes.
I live in England. I increasing think most people (not all) are more respectful of the hijaab/niqaab here than they are in Pakistan. What a sad indictment. Kava chala hans ki chaal, appni bhi bhool gaya.
The Islamic hijab is not a costume and surely not a Halloween costume. Keep Islam out of your antics. If you dont follow islam dont use it or mock it in your whatever festivities you celebrate
We muslims shd not practice those occasion which history is related to different god as sun god was losing strength n devil god samantha gaining strength n that's y crops were dead n they had to do sacrificed for devils. After celebrating this wat preaching are we giving to children be like demons or evil, to be scared n trick them. So plz as Muslim we shd celebrate those occasion which have good msgs like eid sharing sacrificing . These are making our next generation confused n in Islam everything is v clear
I agree with you Amina 💓💓. They should be some limitations of giving respect to atleast to the Abaya/burqa
So well composed, well researched and a balance opinion!!! Well Done! One always learn from you how to put up anopinion, the before and after and keeping all big n small points on the table 👍🏽 ❤️ i agree
I think Indian and Pakistani bhut copy kurde western world di. Halloween tuhada nahi festival
It's not her religious identity it should be everyone's religious identity
Shame on everyone.
celebrating halloween is haram. nothing can justify it. our prophet mohammad saww stopped us to copy or follow what kufaar use to do . He who copies anyone is one of them said by our prophet mohammad saww.
reff; sunan abu dawud 4031.
as a muslim i dont want to be counted as kafir and like me all responsible muslims dont want that. hadees ko reject karke bh kisiko khushi milti hai tou please you guys celebrate this haram festival. MAY ALLAH GIVE ALL OF US HIDAYAT. ameen. wanted to write much more but ik it wont matter to anyone,
Very well rounded indeed, always look forward to your opinion. Jazakallah 😊a few years back a teacher from my high school in Canada wore a red kurta(Pakistani style) for Halloween and trust me I was not happy it was very offensive to me,couldn’t figure out what was she thinking 🤔
Actually tabish posted saying pinky nd me,tabish bhi plz samjhain,bushra bibi is a human ,where is the respect nd tolerance,ban tabish
😮,where did he post?
Insta ,
Very nicely explained Amna, such a well thought perspective. Thank you
Excellent overview with such well grounded discussion
Totally agree.. and the way you put together things explaining the history first.. Best job .. 👏 🙌 this was much needed to be talked about.. no one could do it better in a decent way..
God bless you amina ❤
This is your forte Amna, love hearing your opinions on topics like these.
Parde ka mazak bnane walon pe Allah ki lanat ho ye wo log hn jo Allah k hukam ka nauzubillah khullam khulla mazak bnate hn m doing parda u never knw amna what i have faced throughout my life bt Alhamdulillah m doing it just bcz of my Allah...❤❤❤much much respect fr u amna baji...
Tabish was in the same party where this guy was dressed as Bushra Bibi
And that’s why we love you!
You are absolutely right and on point ❤
People don’t have limits and boundaries. They don’t care about religious and cultural values and it’s a shame.
This year Halloween wasn’t as big as it used to be…people are stepping back especially Muslim communities here. Why on earth Pakistanis started celebrating it?
This is my question too
Thanks for taking this up Aamna. This is what we need. An educated, well informed and unbiased approach. I agree with you that he should not have done it, and he should apologise publicly specially due to the captions or comments posted. Thank you so much for speaking up as always.
AMNA I agree with you nobody have a right to do that you did a good job love you
Brilliantly put Amna, I don’t take to social forums at all and respond to social media discussions but you explained the taboo behind Halloween celebration (prevalent in Pakistan & most extreme mindsets) so well & everything that’s wrong with a Bushra Bibi costume that I had to applaud you….. one thing I’ve learned living in USA (LA) the world is becoming woke to so many wrongs that were previously right & at the same time becoming overly sensitive & offended to norms (that are not really offensive) that social & public expression is becoming a vexing exercise when it comes to defining what should be tolerable & what’s not…. but this is a serious discussion for another time :)
Right now I’m enjoying watching your wonderful posts on AHI❤
I loved the way you spoke on this matter- you raised your opinion in an incredibly articulate way! I wish you tons of luck on your channel!!
Your video was totally on point .Yawar Iqbal ‘s act was totally unacceptable , and you are right about islamophobia. I have seen it myself in Europe when I was visiting a few places with some Arabic hijab wearing frends of mine , the look of anger / hate on locals faces was so embarrassing . Strongly condemn his act and I hope and pray that he realizes his mistake and issues an apology.
Aamna, I have such admiration for how you conduct yourself in the public space. Such a well constructed, well reasoned and well presented monologue. I wish we had more people like you representing us. I was a fan before, and am a greater fan now. Well done. You make us very proud to be a Pakistani woman.
more love and more respect for you Amina. You are no doubt a brave person to call out a member from your industry for his disrespectful and irresponsible action. Have always been an ardent fan of yours because of your truthfulness, courage and eloquence. Stay blessed always. :)
This is 100% Pmln policy of attacks women of oppositions, this criminal entity leader Marryum Pmln had attacked jemimah , and budhra BIBI, her father had attacked BB of PPP! They should be hold accountable, they have created this culture of disrespecting women !
ڈیزائنر کو بھی توجہ حاصل کرنے کے لیے عمران خان کے نام کی ضرورت پڑ گئی یا یہ فیشن ڈیزائنر بھی نونی ہے یا نونیوں نے اسکو بھی خرید لیا ہے
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you Ma’am Aamna for speaking up! It’s Amr Bil Ma’ruf!
Stay Blessed!
By far one of your best show! Everything you said was on point
Excellent analysis and discussion and completely agree with you. Keep doing this good work.
Very well addressed Amna! 👏🏼
Brilliant talk on Halloween & general party subject. Aamna Ji you covered everything so well. Infact you nailed it. Thank you for sharing the story on why & how Halloween started & was celebrated years ago. Very interesting & beautifully well worded. You are an amazing lady Dear Aamna Ji, love the way you express & talk about any subject. May Allah bless you abundantly & always. Take care & Allah hafiz 👍😍❤️🤲
I love you for talking about this didnot know about that also good on you for giving Halloween history it has no place in a Muslim society as per my opinion
What a great job Amna. Using your voice when it matters. Bravo.
Excellent discussion very well articulated and looking forward to more shows.
Well done Aamna. You struck just the right chords. Nobody has the right to insult or mock some one on his/her religious aspect. Yawar tu wese hee mujhe zeher lagta hai. And btw, he will gain a few followers after this cheap stunt of his. Well done once again. Hugs n best wishes for u. Jeeti raho jaani
My dear you are amazing and to the point 💯. I love you for addressing it. I live in Canada 🇨🇦 and completely agree with you thank you for sharing it with the world. God bless you with your knowledge wisdom love you to death ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I salute your courage to talk about and raise this issue Amna❤️❤️
People are sick if they think this was OK😡😡😡☹️☹️☹️
Halloween birth is the most jahalat thing!! Parties karna , kaana khilana, gifts dena dilana ye sab sunnat hai aur in islam its highly liked!! But Halloween is simply more paganism which dud come after Adam A.S. and on and off Allah sent other prophets to guide people again and again who on and off keep going astray!! But you see after Muhammad (saw) no prophets are coming, it's us tge muslim ummah who MUST hold our faith seriously and spread to mankind thst they get heed!!
Just FYI in the west true Christians and Jews DO NOT celebrate Halloween they actually DONT agree with it!!
Thank you Amna for speaking up for this!! But kindly do not define humiliating, costumes, art, humor as " creativeness " !!
That's just demeaning the other aspects of life like cooking, architecture, nature, science, engineering etc as not creativeness which it is!! People cannot just be wild hurt others feelings, be shameless and get away with the word creativeness!!
Dude you're the same person who have interviewed Joyland team its an LGBTQ movie?? Y'll promoting
Would they creat a look representing hindu religion? Like kali maata or anyother god/goddess Or Christian, Like dressing as Priest? Or any other religion? The answer is NO. Wahan they belive in respecting other's belive & sentiments. But when it's about Islam, they always mock Islamic believes & teachings. May Allah curse them because they do these things intentionally.
Very Informative Amna. Love ur AHI Videos ... And Learn New Things as well, Like Celebration in Pockets !!!
Amna, I have to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for speaking up against this. This was SO NOT okay.
Before blindly following the west n their festivals kindly get some knowledge about it...Islam simply condemns all such celebrations!
Amina love your detailed information about hollween tradition . Now the second part about Bushra Bibi’s dress. I am totally agree with you.
Please! Never cross the limits of respect.
It’s just my belief.
Loved the way you explained everything about halloween and the responsibility we have when to draw a line in the name of creativity!what a sensible soul you are Amna❤
He was not just mocking and being disrespectful to Bushra Bibi he was disrespectful to each and every girl/women who wears hijab and Abaya in these difficult times of islamophobia around the world. Don’t understand what was he trying to prove except wanted to get noticed and fame. Shameless
Thank you for bringing this to the fore Aamna. As Muslims we are allowing our identity and our values to be eroded by mindlessly adopting behaviors and rituals from others. And we need a voice of reason to point this out. Thank you for doing that!
Aamna, I am curious on your viewpoint of Soniya's response on Hasan's show regarding domestic violence. Particularly on people should settle it privately, why didn't the person leave sooner or you shouldn't boycott. Rather assist them in seeking mental therapy. Can you force someone to seek help? Was there a disregard for women experiencing mental, physical, emotional violence? To change a person's behavior a drastic change must be made. If you don't raise awareness or call this behavior out & let them bear the consequences, will they ever learn a lesson. I was disappointed. The society already places a huge burden on women to stay in toxic relationships & I was expecting a woman to understand. Maybe I am being too critical. Your thoughts?
#onthespot
#aamna
This was totally wrong to dress up like "Bushra bibi", good to speak up Amna.
Very respectfully I'll disagree , don't you think Amna Halloween should be discourged to be celebrated in Pakistan, there's no use of it and we don't need to give it such a place in our system. There are so many other things, events we can celebrate.There r many ways to be happy , have fun and celebrate, I'm not an extremist, a moderate Muslim, still I don't feel good about it. Gory to hame copy nahe karty why do we copy them by celebrating these type of days. What we r teaching our children, infact there's nothing wrong in being happy and celberating, as have our own events and can creat more. At least in these times we should stop following west blindly, we need to creat a boundary somewhere. And our children should have such a strong faith and opinion that even when they go abroad they shouldn't become a part of these festivities. Its sad that here in pak we r promoting it without even knowing what we r doing and why?
Thank you Aminah for talking about this issue we really like your opinion, no one have droit to make fun of our religious looks. 👏👏👏👏well done. We live in UK , we feel really bad when our Pakistani muslim make fun of our religious things
Making fun of an individual? Or making fun of islamm?
All our actions will be judged by Allah based on our intentions.
So good luck yavar
Halloween is haram as it is ,above that dressing like a religious figure who's very private person, very very disrespectful,