Launching Into the Wrong

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  • Опубліковано 19 тра 2024
  • Sometimes the best way to get to where you want to be is to learn to do things wrong. Get access to my guide to Paris at parisinmypocket.com/ and help me make better videos at / jayswanson 🥳
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    My name is Jay Swanson - I'm an American writer living in Paris on an artist visa. Paris (yes the one in France) has been my home for years now and I have every intention of staying here for as long as they'll have me. I write science-fiction and fantasy, vlogged daily for 3+ years, and love pizza a little too much. Now I make videos about visiting Paris, traveling in Europe, and try to share what I've learned along the way. I hope you enjoyed what you found.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 53

  • @dianegenx
    @dianegenx 13 днів тому +8

    You are the most open and genuine, emotionally- and spiritually-mature man I have ever come across.
    You are a blessing to us, Jay. Thank you for sharing your true self with us.

  • @hubjohnner
    @hubjohnner 13 днів тому +5

    Jay! The drone shot of you parking the car, talking about driving/renting and then the shot FLYS AWAY!
    Phenomenal!!

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 13 днів тому +7

    3:50 The videography game is strong here

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 13 днів тому +3

    I love how this video felt like ‘Made of Honour’ meets ‘Four Weddings and a Funeral’.

  • @SanBrunoBeacon
    @SanBrunoBeacon 13 днів тому +3

    I have been married for 37 years and always enjoy attending or occasionally watching weddings on UA-cam. The bride and groom in this video appear to be happy, wonderful people whom I hope have a great life together. I know that Jay will eventually find the right person to share his life with...

  • @auntiemjo
    @auntiemjo 13 днів тому +4

    What a spectacular location for a wedding!! Your photos were beautiful, and we can tell that you really were enjoying yourself. (calm, calm, calm).

  • @SonnyGreenwichJr
    @SonnyGreenwichJr 14 днів тому +5

    Archaic spelling of Unknown? 🤣 🤣 🤣

  • @scottibass
    @scottibass 13 днів тому +2

    when I visit my mom in London from the US, the first thing I do when I take her car is that I hit my right hand on the door while looking for the manual shifter.

  • @amyspeers8012
    @amyspeers8012 12 днів тому

    The Scots do know how to throw a wedding! The couple looks lovely and so happy.

  • @dccoulthard
    @dccoulthard 13 днів тому +2

    What's weird is that I first saw her on a video that she did about Boise, Idaho when I was going to move there back in 2019. Then I saw her with a Mercy Ships cup at a local coffee shop and wondered "does she know Jay?" And here we are.

    • @agyos
      @agyos 13 днів тому

      When the Universe orchestrates these coincidences, it is always so much fun!,

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 13 днів тому +2

    The Scots DO know how to throw a party. Happy to see you enjoy yourself there!

  • @thistlenstar
    @thistlenstar 13 днів тому +2

    One channel is a guide to Paris, and the other is a more general guide, a broader appreciation of life. Both are doing quite well. ,,,and very nicely presented, by the way.

  • @emilyboller7588
    @emilyboller7588 13 днів тому

    So thrilled to see a few clips from Carys' wedding!! Thanks for including them.

  • @agyos
    @agyos 13 днів тому +1

    Jay, some of your videos just warm the cockles of my heart. So lovely!! Congratulations and many years of Joy to the newlyweds!

  • @ADAtrips
    @ADAtrips 13 днів тому +1

    I like weddings. A note… Always rent a nice bigger car. When you/we buy one , we are limited by $$, So splurge. (Same applies to concerts). Buy the best Seat possible. 🌴Aloha

  • @user-pm9zu3vr6e
    @user-pm9zu3vr6e 13 днів тому +1

    Aye Laddie - great words and insight amongst what looked like a spectacular wedding in one of the most BEAUTIFUL countries on earth … ahh the Scots truly know how to PARTY!

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 13 днів тому +1

    0:50 This is why I want to advocate for affordable public transport. I hate having to deal with cars and driving.

  • @andyshacks7812
    @andyshacks7812 13 днів тому +1

    Thirty quid extra for an upgrade to a Merc? Too damned right- be rude not to! I agree, driving on the other side of the road is a bit mind blowing at first but I get used to it. I quite like driving on the right. That wedding and venue looked amazing!

  • @yaowsers77
    @yaowsers77 11 днів тому

    you speak very well of your pals and i hope they appreciate it!

  • @johncrwarner
    @johncrwarner 12 днів тому

    Can I agree with you that, as someone who learnt to drive in Britain
    but live now in Germany,
    the hardest places to drive are car-parks
    and exactly because you have no references to help you.
    On the road and on the Autobahn is relatively straight-forward
    but car parks are a nightmare as I have to use instinct
    and even though I have lived in Germany for 17 years
    my instincts are distinctly still at a base level British
    so I yield to the left when I encounter a car but they yield to the right
    which isn't a good recipe.
    My favourite freak out moment - for a Finnish passenger was
    when I came to a roundabout in Finland and indicated left
    which is standard UK driving rules telling the people behind that you will take the third exit.
    My friend got very worried that I was going to go the wrong way round the roundabout LOL.
    My tip for making it easier is
    in Britain get a vehicle with the steering wheel on the correct side for that country
    as driving with the "wrong-hand" drive is much harder.

  • @flatironnewyork
    @flatironnewyork 13 днів тому

    so much fun. i went to a wedding in the scottish highlands a few years ago - an absolutely mystical setting!

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 13 днів тому +1

    7:33 Always so dapper in suits. My mind starts getting overwhelmed at the thought of wearing formal wear.

    • @JaySwanson
      @JaySwanson  13 днів тому +1

      It takes getting used to if you weren't raised in it

    • @PokhrajRoy.
      @PokhrajRoy. 13 днів тому

      @@JaySwanson I went to school in formal clothes for many years. Maybe it’s that

  • @monikar9846
    @monikar9846 12 днів тому

    Awesome video. The videography was fantastic, and Scotland is so beautiful. That wedding looked amazing. I found the topic spot on. We do need to put ourselves on those situations sometimes to force ourselves to grow. Thanks for the reminder!

  • @DavidS5118
    @DavidS5118 13 днів тому

    You are so right - just get out of the parking lot and you will be fine.

  • @aairsick
    @aairsick 10 днів тому

    The Dune reference --- yes!

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 13 днів тому +1

    We love Scotland, home of the Butter Chicken.

  • @Vesalius4us
    @Vesalius4us 13 днів тому +1

    Congratulations to the lovely couple!

  • @danielledavies2996
    @danielledavies2996 12 днів тому

    Such a cool outro shot!

  • @leahjardin3095
    @leahjardin3095 13 днів тому +1

    May thy blade chip and shatter. Lol.

  • @derekcrolla3775
    @derekcrolla3775 11 днів тому

    Dude! You are in my hometown!

  • @gna8621
    @gna8621 13 днів тому

    I love everything about this video! You are a master, Jay.

  • @anastasiafua
    @anastasiafua 12 днів тому

    absolutely loved this episode jay 🙏🏽😌

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 13 днів тому +1

    Toddler Tunnel Vision? PIAGET COULD NEVER

  • @shaimaahafez6286
    @shaimaahafez6286 12 днів тому

    Looking great Jay.

  • @maud375
    @maud375 13 днів тому +1

    Jay, what is that beautiful town at 3:48 ?

  • @ceelo3941
    @ceelo3941 13 днів тому +1

    💛

  • @tomatwalden
    @tomatwalden 13 днів тому +1

    You mean, "the right side of the road" ... it's the rest of the world that has got it wrong! BTW, manual is better than automatic too! :)

  • @cr8114
    @cr8114 13 днів тому +1

    jay is now a multimillionare

    • @JaySwanson
      @JaySwanson  13 днів тому +2

      Someday maybe 😆 Here's hoping!

  • @nolanani
    @nolanani 13 днів тому

    Really lovely vlog. I watched it three times. The kiss when he pulled her in extra tight. Sigh. And your commentary, especially your “toast” to your good friend and her partner were wonderfully poignant and heartfelt. Love!!

  • @Hepzibahlee8440
    @Hepzibahlee8440 День тому

    Jay, everything you are saying is from the Bible, the WORD of GOD🎉😊

  • @vanessagrant6244
    @vanessagrant6244 13 днів тому

    Not the wrong, its the other 😂

  • @hbeerman372
    @hbeerman372 12 днів тому

    ♥️💐🍀♥️💐🍀♥️💐🍀

  • @rc9272
    @rc9272 13 днів тому

    I would say really know the person you're getting married to, because people's nasty side comes out once they're married and they know that they can take you for at least 50% of everything, use law enforcement and the court system against you etc...don't be dumb, get a prenup or post nup.

    • @JaySwanson
      @JaySwanson  12 днів тому

      Everyone has differing opinions on this and each couple needs to decide what's right for them :)