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- Опубліковано 21 лип 2024
- boy advice with ur favorite single girl (who has never had a boyfriend)
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I’m literally the single friend who just observes my friend's relationships and has a list of what I will not tolerate if I ever get into a relationship lol
Lmaoo same, I'm learning through their experiences
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coaches don’t play 🤷🏾♂️
Top tier comment
I used to like that quote until I realized they have at some point😭
@@lani826 not if they're naturals😏
period 😭🙌🏾
But they used to play... that's why they are a coach😂😂😂
I was single till I was 23, then I found the most incredible man ever wasn't expecting it, my advice is live for yourself AND be happy by yourself ❤
Patient is a key
This is so comforting
Also, can we destigmatize being the “single friend”? A lot of times we give our friends SOLID relationship advice because we see things for what it is instead the friend seeing things how they want it to be. We see the red flags and we try to warn you
LITERALLY
@DrLove TAKE A SIT
I've come to accept that life has seasons and it's not my 'romance season' yet...it's my 'travelling the world and falling into a fulfilling type of love with my friends' season and whether it lasts three years or even twenty I'm perfectly content in that :)
Thank you for this Kianna. As a 21 year old who’s never been in a relationship, it’s really reassuring to have this type of advice. Sometimes I feel like I am behind in this regard in comparison to my friends. Although I have amazing friendships, I sometimes just wonder when it will come. Thank you once again, I hope you have a nice day 💛
Relatable
it actually will & it'll be when u least expect it. i know that sounds like bs but its true. stay true to yourself and be vulnerable in your friendships. love is here and on the way
@@debdeb6750 I agree with you!! Thank you for the reassurance I’m too focused on love, I will keep trying to love & improve me
Real
Girl same.
the way I started screaming when she answered my question- thank you so much Kianna, you honestly give great advice😭god bless the older sister I never had fr
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Being single and seeing other people’s relationship, I noticed that there’s literally not one relationship that I was like wow, that looks healthy, I want that. I choose myself every time cause unless my partner can offer me the peace I give myself, I don’t want it. I’ve talked to so many older people around 50+yrs old where they say they wish they didn’t waste their twenties on trying to settle down and be in a relationship and that twenties is to be selfish with your time and energy and genuinely learn yourself. And me being 26 now, I’m so happy on taking their advice.🥰
me personally, i’ve only seen relationships that look “ healthy” online.
@@queenieb7378oop. This is tea.
I agree. I was single after a very bad relationship only for 3 months before I met the love of my life (who actually worked at the same job as me;didn’t even know) at a pool function for coworkers and we both fell deeply in love. Before my bad relationship I was the “single friend” giving relationship advice but I too always just saw what I would and would not tolerate and my bad relationship experience helped to (also caused major trust struggles) remind me to see the red flags and know to leave IMMEDIATELY
Damn, I've never been this early. The video hasn't started but I'm sure it will be very relatable, I'm going to be 22 soon and never had a boyfriend or slept with anyone.
I’ve always been in a place where I’ve had no male friendships always being surrounded by girls and that led up to me never getting any form of attention from males. I always thought there was something wrong with me but I've grown out of the notion and I love it. It truly feels great to have my girlfriends I give all my love to them.
just turned 20 no boyfriend and a virgin, currently not looking for one…
slay
i was too shy to date in school so that definitely contributes to me being single all my life, i was big on privacy so i wanted to be able to date w/o people knowing who im dating & at school that’s hard bc y’all all go to school together & everybody be in yo business, I’ll be 23 in December & there’s hope that I’ll be in a relationship b4 my bday but also i wouldn’t fret if it doesn’t end up happening either… & im still big on privacy today, i definitely want a secret relationship lol, i want it to be like we’re the only ones in the world when i get a man
21 & never had a boyfriend either! I’m just content with living life and being in the moment, whether it’s by myself or with my friends and that’s enough for me ❤ I’m not looking for anything, but men that I am attracted to do appear in my life, so the question is whether I want to give away my heart like that.
"if I'm gone tomorrow, i will know that i have loved and i have been loved and I've never had a boyfriend" the way you just ended my fear of dying without experiencing a great love omg i never looked at it like that thank you
what bothers me about these vids about ppl talking about never having a partner is that yall reveal that you had situationships or relationships in school.. like that still counts as much as we like to say it doesn't coz girl I've honest to god had ZERO relationships. now it makes me feel even more insecure coz a lot of yall do have some kind of experience with a romantic interest at some point in your life. even if its just a sexual one or innocent or so short it was basically nonexistent.. its still something 🥲
i can relate too, cos i’ve never had a boyfriend let alone any boy attention…in my whole entire life. it’s not the worst thing in the world, but it would be nice to have someone
That makes sense!
Girl I’m 23 nd single all my life we ain’t missing shit I watch my friends nd family get played all day nd night never saw my life w someone by my side simply bc I never saw it as worthy growing up live ur life nd do what u want it dnt make u less 😊
i’m 16 and i’ve never been in one either, it feels so off when you watch everyone around you get into tons when i’ve never even been close to having one, feels like i’m gonna be single forever but i’ve learned to accept it.
this video was such a sleepover, late night deep chat vibe with the lighting, gorg robes, and ofc the teddy lol 🤍
Honestly Kianna has made me feel so seen. Thank you so much for creating this space.
Hearing you talk abt not having a crush for so long has been very comforting. I went through the same experience of a horrible relationship at around age 13 and ever since haven’t been able to develop feelings for someone. I sometimes get worrried I’ll never like anyone again but knowing other ppl are like this too makes me happier LOL. Also I adore you so 🫶😭
Nuhhhhh Kianna you actually chowed when you said, “Girl you think I’m not going to condone this!!!! Pain is temporary!!!” My jaw dropped and I started scream laughing…keep in mind it’s 1am where I am lollllll. But yes. To the girl who submitted that one, don’t give yourself the opportunity to regret not having a beautiful love no matter how short it may be. ❤
that’s perfectly fine honey i’m 28 and never had one as well!! or anything it’s all about timing your are beautiful!!
as a 24 year old coach who's never played either, i love hearing the women's coach perspective. it gives me more insight on everything
I'm 24 and i still single, sometimes i feel lonely 😢 but the right time comes
KIANNA LOVEEEE!! i did not know how badly i needed this video until i watched it🥲 the comfort and reassurance it gave is everything. i resonated soo much as i am 20 years old and have never had a boyfriend either. but as you said that’s okay!! just gives us more time to get to truly learn ourselves. thank you again for the video and much love
ive had a pretty "traumatic" love life. ive never been in a relationship or had anyone really like me romantically before and i have only started making real friendships in the last 3 years. the last person i liked was an old friend of mine, the first boy i liked ever, and my "friends" told him my feelings without me knowing, only for him to say that he was friends with me because he felt bad. those friends who told him ended up cyberbullying me badly months later too, which the former crush also joined in on. since those events, ive sort of been traumatized and it has made my social anxiety worse. ive also felt sort of isolated in life, since a big majority of people around have a lot of love in their life at the moment, love from their partners, friends, and family. it feels like love is all around me and everyone but myself deserves to have it. i sometimes get sad think that i will never have that in my life, and that this is what my life is meant to be, but i try telling myself that my time will come, and that i just need to be patient and wait a little longer. ive also been trying to love myself, since most of the time i am the only person i got. im sure and hopeful ill find the right people one day
You’ll find better people in your life, who actually love you and respect you. Don’t tolerate the bare minimum and anything below that. Enjoy yourself and wait for your new friends to come.
Sorry, you deserve the best ❤
I'm so sorry you went through that 🤍
It'll get better. You might not have the love you're looking for but please know that you are love yourself. And that's enough. You are enough for yourself 🫶🏾
yess i love that u made this and the advice you gave. it's so normal to be 20 something and still haven’t been in a relationship i remeber being 17 with these same questions. the advice was just so real
I’m 23 and trying to navigate being single. My last relationship ended and I thought I was going to marry them but obviously I’m not and am realizing I need to be single and savor that.
You're not missing anything believe me.
Oh my goodness! That pink wig looks absolutely gorgeous on you it matched with your pretty face flawless looks
your voice is soo soothing ugh i love you so much
i’m actually so amazed at how wise you are kianna and I also love how you took the time out to list so many resources for us to use! i wanted to ask a question actually, but i was scared of being too personal and hearing the truth about a situation i was in. but a couple of the answers you gave really helped and was very reassuring!! so thank you so so much. i loved this video and genuinely hope you continue this boy advice series
I’m 34 and I’ve been single for almost a decade. I feel like something is wrong with me. Oh I also look young so attract a lot of men who are looking to manipulate a younger woman or hook up with..
who ended your last relationship? u or ya ex
@@donshifty me
I’m 21 almost 22 and I’ve never been in one either. Well, adult and teen relationship. I’ve been single my whole life, it’s frustrating but u get used to it. 😌
The wig is wiggingggg💁🏾♀️🤩🤩
I was the same way and it was the best decision I ever made! Focus on yourself, love yourself, build yourself up and then while you vibrate high in your energy you'll attract a lot of attention but also will have developed the discernment to decide who is deserving of yours. That goes for friends and family too!
Kianna you have no idea how much I appreciate you
i was feeling so down about this bc I’m 21 ❤
yeah i will absolutely be discussing this w my therapist THANK U miss kianna
Your videos actually let me rest. You're so lovely to listen to!!! And such sound advice too ;)))
And also I feel like I'm the same way, I don't want a partner rn per se because all my platonic rships got me so bad rn and I'm good for now, so it's really comforting to know someone else is at the same place, because so much of my self worth has been attached (by others) to having a bf and I'm actually sick of it. So thank you babe
Loved the video! ❤
I agree with not wanting to have a relationship right now.
People are afraid to be by themselves. And you should not have to feel the need to “look” for “that” person.
It should happen naturally. On its own. When it is the right time.
Relationships really depend on your relationship with yourself.❤❤
(Also wanted to say!!
I love your videos!!
I have been watching you since 2017!!😊😊)
"im 23 & ive never had a boyfriend"
Dude, SAME!
Kianna please post another vlog, I’m obsessed!!
this pink wig looks so good on you mama
I’m 22 turning 23 this year and I’ve never been in a relationship either. However I’ve been told I give great advice on things, especially relationships 😂😂
I had such a low afternoon after having a great morning, this video made me feel better and forget for a bit what had me so stressed out. Gracias de corazón Kianna, i love you and your videos
I think my biggest lesson on boys is all though hard-it’s important on doing the work to remove any need of validation and value from men and keep your standards high always!! 🫶🏽it’s so hard but ladies and gents pls know that they don’t have anything you NEED or incapable of having yourself and if you always put yourself and needs first everything else will fall into place. Ever since I made the decision to decentralize boys from my core priorities in life I’ve been the happiest I’ve ever been. Love ur self FIRST!
This pink wig is giving 😍😍
I feel this so much
I'm always giving out advice but I'm chronically single😭😭😭
i was the 17 year old girl question! thanks for your answer it’s really validating. just need to remember that i’m young and have time i guess
this was absolutely iconic. this should be your advice giving persona. she needs a name.
ur such an angel, i love you
Back with another banger 🔥
Wow... I needed this. 23 and same.
The coolest girl I know, love you ki
Your voice is soo soothing.
I love these types of videos 🥺💗
ik this is not what u wanna hear but honestly not missin out on much, havin a partner brings on another whole host of problems and its extremely draining, its taxing and rly not all that that romcoms make it out to be
Bruh. I’ve literally never had this “oh I wish I could be loved and held, I wish I had someone to share this with” and it’s not like I’ve had men constantly in my life. I’m 20 and have never had a boyfriend…except that one time in Year 10 (and it doesn’t count, he’s a childhood friend to me😂). So it’s not like I’ve had men, I just have never felt the NEED to have men. Sometimes I wonder if that’s normal, but only for a split second then I’m like fuck it. I’ve been basically introverted all my life, so I wish I had friends, like close girlfriends, so I understand the longing, but it’s just never been romantic
This video healed me
this video is so helpful and amazing
I love you, Kianna!💕
i relate to you, i don’t crave that person here if he’s not 😂
If u had a bf at 14 ik its most likely not gonna be a serious relationship but that still counts as a boyfriend. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 18, it last a month and that was my only bf I'm 20 now. I don't say that I've never had a bf
I disagree, I was just too young
@Becca A I agree
only thing that matters is if SHE counts it or not, not some random person.
@@onlyamberrr9635 I totally agree and I think if she believes it doesn't count to her than it definitely doesn't count to her but regardless it counts to me we're all entitled to our own opinions and we can do so respectfully.
The reason I say this is because when I imagine my 18 yr old self watching this video before my ex when I was kissless handholdess virgin, hearing someone talk about how they've never had a bf even tho they've had one at 14 is almost deaming in a way? If that makes sense. Like this video would have just made me feel worse. Like yea ik you haven't had that experience properly but you've had something even if it was a silly relationship. Ik people like me when I was in my teens will watch this video and I just don't want them to feel worse bc the title was slightly misleading.
@@beccaa2919 if you really put that much importance in someone else’s view of THEIR OWN relationship that you don’t know at all and it affects you to the point where it makes you rethink your relationships, i think you need to get off social media and into therapy 😂 I don’t consider my relationships when i was young an actual relationship cause they just weren’t. but if someone else considers theirs real, who the hell am I to dictate that? just worry about yourself. nobody else is responsible for your feelings and triggers but you.
3:59 you get it. whenever imagine fulfillment in my life i can only see very strong platonic relationships around me. i think bc i grew up watching shows that is centered around female relationships
I’m 17 still single focusing on my self worth and self love
Aww I missed you Ki and this video is sooo good! top tier advice Is ya ask me 💓
Omg i needed this video so much ❤
The fact that Kianna knows about Shera is iconic.
love this girl!
I want break out of my shell but fear is paralyzing me
Also this is one the best yt channels ever :))))))
i loved this video
Don’t worry bout the future, it’s the present.. 😂
Not you giving her the green light 😂
love this video!
I love this❤❤❤
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I love you too, Kianna. 🫶🏾
Thank you for this video Kiana
It's very clickbaity and insincere of you to say that you've never had a boyfriend when you actually have. Your experience isn't the same as a girl who actually never had a boyfriend her entire life. Even though it was a bad relationship, at least you have some experience and it has shaped who you are today despite you not being an adult.
Many ppl say they haven’t been in relationships when it was a high school relationship, at least where I’m from. I always say I’ve never been in a relationship to everyone I know. I think it’s up to the individual in the relationship to decide.
love you kianna 🌹
love uuuu
I LOVE YOUR PERONALITY
Continue to protect yourself. Trust me.
I love you your the best!! ❤
I’m twenty three and never dated anyone lol we’re still so young we have time! Lots of it lol
The shera clip took me out 😂😂😂
Kianna I love you🥺❤️❤️
thank you. kianna, i love you very much.
23 and same here as well
babe im 24 going 25 and ive never had a boyfriend either
NOTIFICATION SQUAD!!!!
Thank you for this
samezies! 💕
Such a beautiful share. Ty!!!🥹✨
i love youuuu
this video fills my heart 🫶 deciding to allow myself to love and feel loved is the most beautiful thing I ever did and Id love for everyone to ❤️
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She was at 900k but it dropped down 😫
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But anyways, it's just a number, we still here and will always be here to support you 😌❤️
It's my fith year of subscribing to her channel 💞
@@Bangtangot_7 facts
Loveeee the little blurb on what deep friendships are and are not. I’m currently shedding friendships who seem unwilling to be vulnerable with me in hopes of acquiring so new meaningful ones. It’s scary 🥹
you're not missing out on anything... i had my first at 26 and he was terrible, dating is all games. i'd rather be single. my first bf was mean to me.
She brought out Ms Sprinkle sprinkle lol😂.
you feel and look like a mtv downtown character
do you have books or sources to recommend that helped you develop your vlog style? im starting w basics but i love your mini movie type vlogs and would love to learn how to the BTS stuff. love from firenze