You all are adults you make your own decisions. Your friend is right you can’t blame your friend for your wife decisions to drive. Even though you don’t mean to blame your friend the way you approach the situation it’s like blaming. I wouldn’t want to be friends with people who blame others for their own decisions.
Nawv nawv OG txoj kev phooj haus cawv os Good Lessons you for you both learned. Don't blame your phooj ywg you both love to drinks too. Good Lessons for you both learned nawb.
Aub yauv zaum no ces neb ces pawv phooj ywg laus. Aub yaus zaum no ces neb tau kev mob siab kev khib muaj kev chim siab Mob siab laus me nyuam yaus aw.
Haus tiag tuag tiag sim seb mas. Time to get rid of friends like that. They don't care if you die. Time to enjoy time with your kids and grand kids. Move on so you can live longer.
It’s not wrong to have a lot of friends but y’all gotta set boundaries and have limitations too. My uncle have the same thought as you and your wife. He put friends before families. People who think like you guys are actually close minded.
Zoo kawg koi kawm taus cov muaj 2 ces phooj ywg noj xwb os koj ntses tsi txaus muaj tsi txaus los yog thaum koj haus tsi taus cawv ces koj tsi yog lawv tus phooj ywg lawm xwb lawv siv koj xwb me nus lawv tsi need koj los koj yeej tsi need lawv thiab os
Neb Cas saib tsi taus tus phooj ywg txom nyem na ha tsam no neb raug cov nplua nuj muab dov kauj vab lawm sav txog thaum kaug neb rov los thawj tus txom nyem sav txij no mus yuav tau saib taus cov plooj ywg txom nyem nawb
Phooj ywg hlub es yuam kom haus caws haus kom tuag kus. Tsis yog phooj ywg hlub phooj ywg dev phooj ywg tua. Phooj Liam. Hmoob ces tsuas txawj ua yam lwj liam xwb
Y'all need to make better friends. Those are not your friends. They're only when it benefits you. Alcoholic people will never take on the responsibility. You cannot blame them for your DUI and DWI. YOU MADE THE CHOICE AND DECISIONS TO DRIVE KNOWING YOUR DRUNK AND YOU SHOULDN'T BE DRIVING. You're busy running around and spending money without limits and getting drunk. Fakes will always be fake. True friends do not put you in bad situations.
Who cares about what they think. It's your life at risk not theirs, people should know and not force anyone to drink if they don't want to. Alcohol causes a lot of health issues and when you're in pain they won't care. Take care of yourself first.
All you need is a few very good friends. No need to have millions of aquainticense aka fake friends. The rule is quality over quantity. I also love being a loner. No need to be on a group if circle
Glad you learned. DUI, legal issues and financial issues are not your friends obligations. You want fame, work for the US government; not Hmong patha and alcohol.
People who are drinkers need to STOP FORCING people who choose NOT to drink. Drinking does not build relationships. The responsible party is liable for providing alcohol. Unluckily, they’re adults.
Pab phooj ywg phov siav tuag xwb os nej na thaum tsis muaj teeb meem ces luag paub luag pom yus yog phooj ywg thaum yus ntsib teeb meem ces luag yeej tsis paub tsis pom txog yus li nawb
Personally i hate people who try to force you to drink when you dont want to. People have thier own health issues. You dont need people like these as friends they aren't your real friends.
Honestly I thought that you older generation people will know more and better than us younger generation but u guess not. Keep your circle small bc when you have a big circle, things will happen and at the end you end up like this. U think they’re your friend but to them, you are not, like u said, you’re just a number to them. At least you saw their true colors now and lesson learned.
With friends like that, who needs enemies?! Drinking irresponsibly is a danerous game. U never know when ur going to kill someone. Please dont drink & drive.
Terrible friends. Alcoholism people are the worst and if you ever have liver cancer you won’t get a new one. Your big circle of friends is your worst enemy.
Peb muaj ntau2 hom phooj. Hom phooj quav dej quav cawv mas peb hu ua laib xwb. Hom phooj ywg ua phaib ua biab los peb hu ua laib. Hom phooj ywg Qaib sib ncaws. Dev sib tog. Los peb hu ua laib. Hom phooj ywg.tiag. Hom phooj tuag. Mas yog kev kawm ntaub kawm ntawv sib hlub sib pab rau txoj kev mob nkeeg tuaj sib share tswv yim saib yuav qhuab qhia tej me tub me nyuam mus rau txoj kev vam meej xwb. Sis qhia kev lag luam. Sib qhia kev ua liaj teb xwb tsis txhob khav theeb tsis txhob Qia dub. Tsis txhob khuj noj khuj haus.Dag tus ub tus no xwb ces txhua leej txhua tus qhuag txog tias yus yog tus neeg zoo tus neeg ncaj ncees xwb ces yus yeej automatic yog tus neeg muaj lub circle loj lawm os tus phooj ywg
You don't need alcoholic forceful people as friends. They don't love you, they're trying to kill you because they're dying themselves. And don't you just hate it when they bring in "love" into it or "respect" into it? You don't need to respect those type of people. You don't need that kind of love from alcoholics.
Mloog li nej tej me kev phoooj ko ntxim li nyuaj siab thiab mob hlwb ua luaj Sav. For me, I only need my husband and my family xwb os friends isn't a problem for me. Txhob xav ntau2 os
Poor Leng, you only called him when your drinking friends turned their backs on you. You are the fake friend so stop talking bad about your drinking buddies. You are no better.
You should be so thankful that they no longer call you. I don’t understand people that want to be part of these kind of group. I would love to hear from people
Cas mloog koj tham mas cas ntxim ruam tsaj xwb nas es kev tsav tsheb yuav tau maj mam saib qab saib hau thiab yuav maj mam khiav xwb es neb yuav maj cuag xwb
My circle is so small it's a dot. It's just me and my husband. We take care of each other. I will always be the bitchy wife who tells relatives to stop forcing my husband to drink. His illnessx or death won't affect their quality of life like it would me and my children.
Not true...You can have many friends! Just don't make friends with alcoholic people! I've seen normal people party & karoke with NO alcohol! True friends do not pressure you to drink!!!
😂😂😂😂 he says the hlob is rich because he has a business. Then why he make a big deal out of a blue label. Honestly, I haven't seen a $500 blue label. Especially ones that is readily available 😅😅😅 so story is half true. Half exaggerated. Half exaggerated is being extra nice to the owner of this story. 😅😅😅😅
Don’t be a FOLLOWER! Be your own kind of thinking! Just bcuz your parents, family, or friends say lots of friends R the way to go! Not really true. U have to be selective of your friends. Pick the friends that click with you. Don’t make friends with everybody & anyone… NO NO NO!!. In life, there’s ONLY one best friend. The rest R all regular friends. U could still have lots of “selective” friends but the secret to keeping all your friends is NOT to hang out too much. Once in an occasion is fine but every weekend is too excessive! Kids n family come first!! N lastly, the drinking friends, to me, R too immature. Can’t stand these 30-50+ years old acting like teenagers…. Clinching my teeth! Nothing good ever comes out of drinking too much!
Those alcoholic people don’t know the word NO mean NO, no wonder people die cuz stupid friends.
I have no circle and I am proud of it! Love myself.
Someone who loves you will never peer pressure you to drink.
May this be a lesson learned.
You all are adults you make your own decisions. Your friend is right you can’t blame your friend for your wife decisions to drive. Even though you don’t mean to blame your friend the way you approach the situation it’s like blaming. I wouldn’t want to be friends with people who blame others for their own decisions.
Nawv nawv OG txoj kev phooj haus cawv os Good Lessons you for you both learned. Don't blame your phooj ywg you both love to drinks too. Good Lessons for you both learned nawb.
You guys are so funny, like children
This is what happens when you are a follower
Txawj mloog ces yuav kawm tau os.
People who force you to drink are not friends!
Adult cliques do exist within the Hmong community…they are worse than kids!
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Let this be a lessen learned. Keep your circle small. Those with big circle are nothing but show-offs and could less about you.
Ntuj awsssss....cov niag txiv quav cawv xwb qub hluas nkauj tsis khuv xim li os....txiv quav cawv mas dhuav siab tshaj plaws
Yog lawm
Lomzem heev
Koj ua phooj ywg rau tu neeg nplua nuj ces koj yuam kev lawm....yog koj muaj tshaj nws, nws thiaj li hwm koj...tu neeg nplua nuj nws yeej saib tu txom nyem qis qis nawb.
Y would u drink n drive? It's your fault
This is a horrible way to live. Life is too short. Spend it with each other, your children, and grandchildren. We are in our mid 50's with no drama.
Aub yauv zaum no ces neb ces pawv phooj ywg laus. Aub yaus zaum no ces neb tau kev mob siab kev khib muaj kev chim siab Mob siab laus me nyuam yaus aw.
Typical of the older generation to give in to peer pressure with the social crowd, money, and alcohol.
Thar I don't like to much friend us nothing when u broken
Haus tiag tuag tiag sim seb mas. Time to get rid of friends like that. They don't care if you die. Time to enjoy time with your kids and grand kids. Move on so you can live longer.
It’s not wrong to have a lot of friends but y’all gotta set boundaries and have limitations too. My uncle have the same thought as you and your wife. He put friends before families. People who think like you guys are actually close minded.
Learn to walk away when peer pressure. Idc who you are, you can't respect no drinking, you out. You are not a friend if forcing people is your goal.
Zoo kawg koi kawm taus cov muaj 2 ces phooj ywg noj xwb os koj ntses tsi txaus muaj tsi txaus los yog thaum koj haus tsi taus cawv ces koj tsi yog lawv tus phooj ywg lawm xwb lawv siv koj xwb me nus lawv tsi need koj los koj yeej tsi need lawv thiab os
Mloog ua ke os🎉
Neb Cas saib tsi taus tus phooj ywg txom nyem na ha tsam no neb raug cov nplua nuj muab dov kauj vab lawm sav txog thaum kaug neb rov los thawj tus txom nyem sav txij no mus yuav tau saib taus cov plooj ywg txom nyem nawb
Phooj ywg hlub es yuam kom haus caws haus kom tuag kus. Tsis yog phooj ywg hlub phooj ywg dev phooj ywg tua. Phooj Liam. Hmoob ces tsuas txawj ua yam lwj liam xwb
Txhob tu siab os tsis yog koj xwb os
Y'all need to make better friends. Those are not your friends. They're only when it benefits you. Alcoholic people will never take on the responsibility.
You cannot blame them for your DUI and DWI. YOU MADE THE CHOICE AND DECISIONS TO DRIVE KNOWING YOUR DRUNK AND YOU SHOULDN'T BE DRIVING. You're busy running around and spending money without limits and getting drunk.
Fakes will always be fake. True friends do not put you in bad situations.
True friends would not let you leave the gathering after drinking, PERIOD! NOT FRIENDS, THESE ARE PPL WAITING TO CORRUPT YOU.
Yes better learned late than never
Who cares about what they think. It's your life at risk not theirs, people should know and not force anyone to drink if they don't want to. Alcohol causes a lot of health issues and when you're in pain they won't care. Take care of yourself first.
All you need is a few very good friends. No need to have millions of aquainticense aka fake friends. The rule is quality over quantity. I also love being a loner. No need to be on a group if circle
Glad you learned. DUI, legal issues and financial issues are not your friends obligations. You want fame, work for the US government; not Hmong patha and alcohol.
People who are drinkers need to STOP FORCING people who choose NOT to drink. Drinking does not build relationships. The responsible party is liable for providing alcohol. Unluckily, they’re adults.
Yog yuav muab cawv los ua phooj ywg, kuv xum tawm ntawm txoj kev phooj ywg ntawd.
Pab phooj ywg phov siav tuag xwb os nej na thaum tsis muaj teeb meem ces luag paub luag pom yus yog phooj ywg thaum yus ntsib teeb meem ces luag yeej tsis paub tsis pom txog yus li nawb
Personally i hate people who try to force you to drink when you dont want to. People have thier own health issues. You dont need people like these as friends they aren't your real friends.
Honestly I thought that you older generation people will know more and better than us younger generation but u guess not. Keep your circle small bc when you have a big circle, things will happen and at the end you end up like this. U think they’re your friend but to them, you are not, like u said, you’re just a number to them.
At least you saw their true colors now and lesson learned.
With friends like that, who needs enemies?! Drinking irresponsibly is a danerous game. U never know when ur going to kill someone. Please dont drink & drive.
Hahaha... very few people understands the difference between real friends and deal friends. Deal friends are a waste of resources and time.
Terrible friends. Alcoholism people are the worst and if you ever have liver cancer you won’t get a new one. Your big circle of friends is your worst enemy.
Peb muaj ntau2 hom phooj. Hom phooj quav dej quav cawv mas peb hu ua laib xwb. Hom phooj ywg ua phaib ua biab los peb hu ua laib. Hom phooj ywg Qaib sib ncaws. Dev sib tog. Los peb hu ua laib. Hom phooj ywg.tiag. Hom phooj tuag. Mas yog kev kawm ntaub kawm ntawv sib hlub sib pab rau txoj kev mob nkeeg tuaj sib share tswv yim saib yuav qhuab qhia tej me tub me nyuam mus rau txoj kev vam meej xwb. Sis qhia kev lag luam. Sib qhia kev ua liaj teb xwb tsis txhob khav theeb tsis txhob Qia dub. Tsis txhob khuj noj khuj haus.Dag tus ub tus no xwb ces txhua leej txhua tus qhuag txog tias yus yog tus neeg zoo tus neeg ncaj ncees xwb ces yus yeej automatic yog tus neeg muaj lub circle loj lawm os tus phooj ywg
4 quarters are better than 100 pennies
In psychology, they say you don’t need to have many friends. One or two is good enough.
Kev phooj ywg ces nco ntsoov tias qaib cog muaj qaib cog luag, qaib sis muaj qaib sis luag, thiab nas kos yuav tsum ntsuas nas kos cev.
You don't need alcoholic forceful people as friends. They don't love you, they're trying to kill you because they're dying themselves. And don't you just hate it when they bring in "love" into it or "respect" into it? You don't need to respect those type of people. You don't need that kind of love from alcoholics.
Mloog li nej tej me kev phoooj ko ntxim li nyuaj siab thiab mob hlwb ua luaj Sav. For me, I only need my husband and my family xwb os friends isn't a problem for me. Txhob xav ntau2 os
Looks like you seek approval from other people. Be yourself. If don’t want you, don’t join them. No thanks to the alcoholics
Tej thaum muaj phooj ywg kuj zoo, tab sis qee lub sij hawm phooj ywg yog yeeb ncuab.
Drunk and drive. I don’t appreciate those who drink and drive.
Is it true been there yog lawm hnub no koj kawm tiav li kuv thiab ntag
Neb twb raug mob lawv twb tsis tuaj saib neb, cov phooj ywg zoo li ntawv tseg kiag txhob ua phooj nrog, ib pliag lawv tseem muab yus ua kom yus mus paj tawg lag thiab
Neb ob niam txiv ko tsis sawm zoo.
Poor Leng, you only called him when your drinking friends turned their backs on you. You are the fake friend so stop talking bad about your drinking buddies. You are no better.
Peb hmoob ces yog thaum yus noj tsi tau ua tsi tau pab tsi tau lawm ces yus tej kev pab py 100 zau ces lawv muab lwv tag lawm xwb
You should be so thankful that they no longer call you. I don’t understand people that want to be part of these kind of group. I would love to hear from people
Cas mloog koj tham mas cas ntxim ruam tsaj xwb nas es kev tsav tsheb yuav tau maj mam saib qab saib hau thiab yuav maj mam khiav xwb es neb yuav maj cuag xwb
My circle is so small it's a dot. It's just me and my husband. We take care of each other. I will always be the bitchy wife who tells relatives to stop forcing my husband to drink. His illnessx or death won't affect their quality of life like it would me and my children.
Ua li cas nqi cawv ua luaj li xav haus ces mus yuav los yus ob niag zaum haus xwb😂
Cas twb yog neeg laus lawm cas tseem coj li ib pab niag bunch of kids eat and party li cog niag kids.
Cas yuav ntshaw phooj yug ua luag li os hmoob ruam es!
You don’t deserve Leng.
Not true...You can have many friends! Just don't make friends with alcoholic people! I've seen normal people party & karoke with NO alcohol! True friends do not pressure you to drink!!!
😂😂😂😂 he says the hlob is rich because he has a business. Then why he make a big deal out of a blue label. Honestly, I haven't seen a $500 blue label. Especially ones that is readily available 😅😅😅 so story is half true. Half exaggerated. Half exaggerated is being extra nice to the owner of this story. 😅😅😅😅
People need to quit with this drinking sh it. We worry about our kids falling prey to peer pressures and yet adults are no better.
Guess now u' ve learned ur lesson. No more drinking n driving. U n ur wife almost die. Good thing you 2 were lucky 😮.
Leng is a smart guy, not a follower. 😅
Don’t be a FOLLOWER! Be your own kind of thinking! Just bcuz your parents, family, or friends say lots of friends R the way to go! Not really true. U have to be selective of your friends. Pick the friends that click with you. Don’t make friends with everybody & anyone… NO NO NO!!. In life, there’s ONLY one best friend. The rest R all regular friends. U could still have lots of “selective” friends but the secret to keeping all your friends is NOT to hang out too much. Once in an occasion is fine but every weekend is too excessive! Kids n family come first!! N lastly, the drinking friends, to me, R too immature. Can’t stand these 30-50+ years old acting like teenagers…. Clinching my teeth! Nothing good ever comes out of drinking too much!
Lol tim yus xwb hahaha
not true
Hmmm, it’s your own fault for driving drunk. Take responsibility for your own actions. Don’t blame others for your stupidity!