MURDERED: The Murder Of Crystal Taylor | Black Girl Gone: A True Crime Podcast

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  • On September 25, 2001, 27 year old Crystal Taylor was gunned down outside her apartment building in Hawthorne, CA. At the time she was 5 months pregnant. For years her family vowed to find her killer. Nearly 2 decades later they finally got the justice they deserved.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 292

  • @louisianadaboo1228
    @louisianadaboo1228 Рік тому +187

    These dudes rather go to prison than be a daddy.. iNSANE

    • @r.9874
      @r.9874 6 місяців тому +2

      Where is the stats on this? The fact is that women picked men who make the worst fathers. Both the women in this story got pregnant by a guy who pretty much said he didn't want to be a father. Lots of men out here want to be fathers ... but women ignore them and FORCE their box on the guys who said they didn't. Keyword: FORCE!

    • @kii837
      @kii837 6 місяців тому

      @@r.9874IF SHE TOLD HIM THAT SHE DID NOT NEED HIM OR ANY OF HIS HELP, he could’ve went on with his life without caring for the child like many men do every damn day. What’s the point of killing her? Idk who you are behind this profile but you’re sick..victim blaming. Clowns rather spend your life in prison

    • @lilygirllisa
      @lilygirllisa 5 місяців тому

      ​@r.9874 The woman did not pick these men knowing that they were murdering psychopaths

    • @Missprada_
      @Missprada_ 5 місяців тому +13

      ​@@r.9874and where's the stats on your statement?🤔 How does a woman"force" the box on a man? That sounds stupid. It takes two and you're blaming women when men are just as responsible. If you don't want a baby then have protected sex PERIOD. It doesn't matter if it's male or female

    • @StopCensorship
      @StopCensorship 5 місяців тому

      @@Missprada_Because women can abort when they don’t want a baby but when she wants to keep it, and he doesn’t want it, she forced him to have the baby, that’s like raping a man. Men should be able to walk away if women can abort! If you don’t understand that then you don’t care about men, and you’re not really human!
      Peace and blessings’

  • @shaylabrown6038
    @shaylabrown6038 Рік тому +330

    If you're scared to tell the man youre sleeping with you're pregnant you should not be giving him your body

    • @MrShaystreet
      @MrShaystreet Рік тому +23

      💯

    • @mrsonpoint
      @mrsonpoint 11 місяців тому +20

      PREAAAACH!

    • @YolandaEvette
      @YolandaEvette 7 місяців тому +5

      Period

    • @MsNellfraser
      @MsNellfraser 4 місяці тому

      You said all this to say mf what?!? Because it doesn’t justify him killing her!!! Husbands kill their wives all the time everyday! What was your reason for saying this!? It’s irrelevant! She could’ve raised her child alone and still been alive! Period

    • @nancydavis4618
      @nancydavis4618 4 місяці тому +7

      She was sleeping with more than one man. Geeeez,,,,she should have used BIRTH CONTROL…..

  • @crystalking2727
    @crystalking2727 Рік тому +112

    When two people lay down and have unprotected sex you’re excepting the consequences of those actions. If you don’t want to be a father than take the necessary precautions to prevent. It’s weird as hell to murder someone because you failed to use precautions to prevent pregnancy and STDS.

    • @geegeestarks
      @geegeestarks 9 місяців тому +6

      👍

    • @meahdahlgren5875
      @meahdahlgren5875 9 місяців тому +5

      Right

    • @Missprada_
      @Missprada_ 5 місяців тому

      EXACTLY

    • @crisssyyy_
      @crisssyyy_ 3 місяці тому

      Who says they didn't use protection? You do know that people still get pregnant when they use condoms, plan B, and other forms of birth control right? But yes, I do understand your point that those precautionary measures should be taken with the thought of a possible outcome of pregnancy and STD's regardless of taking them.

    • @maraholmes7999
      @maraholmes7999 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@crisssyyy_this had happened to him AT LEAST 3X and she was a mother already. It's safe to say they were in the HABIT of not using protection. Our community has the highest STD rates and abortions. It's obvious basic precautions aren't being used because of some faulty belief systems about sex, relationships and responsibility.

  • @beyxkelly
    @beyxkelly 9 місяців тому +46

    It’s so scary && terrifying.. when you find out you’re pregnant && the man tells you early on that he doesn’t want the baby that’s A RED FLAG 😭😭 it never ends well!!!! RIP Crystal 😩💔

    • @r.9874
      @r.9874 6 місяців тому

      That's not really a RED FLAG. The red flag that you ignored is that she had sex and got pregnant only a few days of knowing a guy. The boyfriend said he wanted her to have an abortion so he told her he wasn't ready to be a father again. She didn't listen. She was more the red flag, not him.

  • @serenejustice234
    @serenejustice234 Рік тому +98

    Crystal is my cousin. She is so missed.

    • @d.y.h.w.
      @d.y.h.w. Рік тому +4

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @monikasmuzings3949
      @monikasmuzings3949 5 місяців тому +4

      ❤❤❤

    • @nancydavis4618
      @nancydavis4618 5 місяців тому +1

      She already had one out of wedlock child. Geeeeez why was her family not upset she got pregnant Again

    • @lakishawestbrook4262
      @lakishawestbrook4262 5 місяців тому +5

      My condolences to you and your family🙏🏿💐🕊️

    • @dana-loricharles887
      @dana-loricharles887 5 місяців тому +2

      Condolences to your family. Praying her son has had a beautiful life.

  • @RamonaFlowerz
    @RamonaFlowerz 11 місяців тому +60

    He could plot out all of that but couldn't wear a condom? 🤦‍♀️

    • @r.9874
      @r.9874 6 місяців тому

      She didn't ask him to wear a condom, did she? She had a baby at 17, all the sisters had babies young, so basically these girls was ** allowing ** guys to hit raw and they ** allowed ** it.

    • @r.9874
      @r.9874 6 місяців тому +5

      The women could have stop having sex with him ........ just saying.

    • @Missprada_
      @Missprada_ 5 місяців тому

      ​@r.9874 and he could just stop impregnating women he doesn't see a future with. Just saying

    • @Geneva89
      @Geneva89 4 місяці тому +3

      @@r.9874 I agree. I’ve always said as women we have a greater responsibility since we are the ones that have to carry the child for 9 months not the man. I’m 39 and have never been pregnant bc I don’t want children, so I make sure I (emphasis on I ) protect myself.

    • @Queendeewitdalocs
      @Queendeewitdalocs 4 місяці тому

      Exactly

  • @raineyj560
    @raineyj560 Рік тому +48

    Such a sad story. Its hard to listen to these stories but as a community, we must try in our way to honor these sistas 💔💚❤️

  • @Iamwhoiam993
    @Iamwhoiam993 Рік тому +56

    This happened literally 2️⃣ weeks after September 11th when the whole world was already in shambles! 🤔🤨

  • @hopealexander7849
    @hopealexander7849 Рік тому +72

    Listening to Derek Smyer's sister interview on Dateline, you can tell that his family most likely took up for him and minimized any wrong doing his whole life. He was arrogant af and thought he could outsmart everyone.

    • @kalahevans8635
      @kalahevans8635 Рік тому +4

      Good Bye Derek Smyer.

    • @kiie1642
      @kiie1642 Рік тому +5

      I seen it a while ago and.... Yup.

    • @Dee-cu8yr
      @Dee-cu8yr Рік тому

      Sadly BW are brainwashed to worship BM no matter what they do
      I’m starting to think it’s a mental
      Illness

    • @nikkiw3734
      @nikkiw3734 9 місяців тому +5

      She looks crazy to me... They both look crazy😵‍💫

    • @sneakerlove5313
      @sneakerlove5313 8 місяців тому

      Very true

  • @TinkabellSims
    @TinkabellSims Рік тому +32

    Why don't guys take responsibility for their actions. May she and son rest in peace.

  • @CraveBuyLove
    @CraveBuyLove 6 місяців тому +11

    I just watched this on Dateline and had to research more. I was also 5 months pregnant in September of 2001 and lived in Southern California at the time but I was 5 years older than Chrystal . I remember the prior month Aaliyah had died and then 9/11 happened. My husband and I were having so much trouble at the time. We already had 2 kids. That was such a hard year and a hard pregnancy for me so I can only imagine how stressed out Crystal was. I feel so bad for her, her son, her sisters, her unborn baby. So tragic. Sending then all love & peace 🙏🏻

  • @chassssss
    @chassssss Рік тому +56

    I hate these situations & most definitely praying for all these families but I must say this, your voice is by far 1 of the best to do it!!! It brings a calmness like never before despite the stories. I don't want to take the spotlight away from the missing ppl or ppl losing their lives, I had to give you your props though.

  • @v.nikkijohnson
    @v.nikkijohnson Рік тому +44

    I have to be honest: I was born in and grew up in Chicago. I was pregnant with my first child during the time that Ms. Crystal and her baby were murdered. I don't understand how, being in a large city at the time, and this podcast coming out two months ago, how I am JUST NOW hearing their story over 22 years later (I was brought here by hearing their episode of Dateline from another room) 😔💞💐💞🕊️💞🙏🏾.

    • @kalahevans8635
      @kalahevans8635 Рік тому +2

      💔💔💔

    • @dyamondcrawford2162
      @dyamondcrawford2162 Рік тому +1

      Why didn’t you have your first child in the late 90s??

    • @v.nikkijohnson
      @v.nikkijohnson Рік тому

      @@dyamondcrawford2162 I didn't even think that I would have children. In 1999, I would have been 15. I "gave it up" the following year and in 2001 around Mother's Day ironically, I made my first child.

    • @akimat418
      @akimat418 Рік тому +2

      This is the first time that I heard of this case. And even though I watch Dateline, I still didn’t see it there.

    • @Nethall4299
      @Nethall4299 3 місяці тому +1

      I'm from Chicago too😮😊

  • @nawfsideslim
    @nawfsideslim Рік тому +44

    I love Fatal Attraction but some of these podcasts and other true crime shows show just how much info they gloss over or completely leave out

  • @lisasangria1086
    @lisasangria1086 3 місяці тому +6

    So glad Derrick's daughter testified against him!!

  • @jordancoleman94
    @jordancoleman94 6 місяців тому +21

    Crystal is my cousin. I remember being 8 or 9 heading to her funeral. It was such a vivid experience being there.

  • @cotabuses2771
    @cotabuses2771 Рік тому +22

    I remember hearing when you're in an. abusive relationship and pregnant that was the time you were more at risk glad they got justice and may they both rest in peace.

  • @sallykohorst8803
    @sallykohorst8803 3 місяці тому +3

    Nice to have found your podcast on you tube. Such a sad case.

  • @GIGATT73
    @GIGATT73 Рік тому +23

    May Crystal Taylor and her unborn baby rest in peace and my condolence to their families

  • @shaylabrown6038
    @shaylabrown6038 Рік тому +92

    I know her death is not her fault. I just cant stop thinking about utilizing discernment and not choosing a man based on looks etc. We as women need to guard our wombs. Vet men before sleeping with them.

    • @kennyj9943
      @kennyj9943 Рік тому +9

      I wholeheartedly agree

    • @AriaJade-ys2tq
      @AriaJade-ys2tq 10 місяців тому +9

      The devil is a crafty creature.

    • @gospeldva
      @gospeldva 9 місяців тому +5

      The men in church are doing this yet we need to vet???

    • @houston10
      @houston10 9 місяців тому

      Stop with this discernment crap. Nowhere did it say he looked good or why she choose him. U people love to blame the victim as if they’re suppose to have crystal balls to tell the future. Women married to pastors get murdered and beaten. Ru going to tell them to use discernment. People pretend and people change. As a matter of fact, Just shut up.

    • @Hyenasandtwincats
      @Hyenasandtwincats 7 місяців тому

      @@gospeldvaExactly, it doesn't matter. BW are in danger, period. Black femicide happens every day now.

  • @rellie_90
    @rellie_90 4 місяці тому +5

    I’m confused about some of these comments, because if she stated she’d be okay with caring for her child herself, what was his issue?! He could’ve disappeared like slime in a drain. 🙄

  • @coolstormracismsux3221
    @coolstormracismsux3221 11 місяців тому +18

    I'm so glad we're living in the days of social media because I've never heard of any of these stories. All of them should have been on our news stations. Just like Micheal Jackson said, " All i wanna say is they don't really care about us."

    • @first_to_lett_a_rhymme_flow_
      @first_to_lett_a_rhymme_flow_ 11 місяців тому +3

      If we don't care 🤷 about us y would we expect *"THEY 2 CARE ABOUT US⁉️⁉️"*

  • @spikesgirl7879
    @spikesgirl7879 10 місяців тому +13

    That statistic is wild 😞 and disturbingly sad 💔

  • @KnitTherapy
    @KnitTherapy Рік тому +30

    THE FAMILY NEVER REALLY KNOWS WHO THEIR FAMILY MEMBER IS IN RELATIONSHIPS TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE! Derek sister is and always would be delusional.

  • @KSmith-lu8ei
    @KSmith-lu8ei Рік тому +18

    I really wish when they make it clear they don’t want the baby and they want to keep it to just cease all contact with the man😢. RIP

    • @bluesclues4371
      @bluesclues4371 Рік тому +7

      They can make it clear by getting an F’n vasectomy or not laying with women they don’t want kids with.

  • @ataa69120
    @ataa69120 9 місяців тому +10

    I wish young women would stop entertaining these men and value their bodies
    He was quick to sleep with her and discard of her once he found out she was pregnant
    Ladies be careful, don’t insist on having a man’s baby, who doesn’t want u

    • @r.9874
      @r.9874 6 місяців тому

      "He was quick to sleep with her" ... She was quick to give sex to someone she didn't know.

  • @Queendeewitdalocs
    @Queendeewitdalocs 4 місяці тому +5

    Everyone needs to take accountability for their actions they both should have been prepared to use protection to avoid having an unwanted pregnancy

  • @genniejefferson6588
    @genniejefferson6588 2 місяці тому +2

    I just absolutely your videos. You do a great job telling the stories.

  • @justanticipate2893
    @justanticipate2893 2 місяці тому +2

    She had such a beautiful smile. RIP 🙏🏾🕊

  • @smoocherbean4648
    @smoocherbean4648 Рік тому +51

    Glad her family has justice. May Crystal and her son rest in heavenly peace. 🙏🏽

  • @MunaAbbas.
    @MunaAbbas. 9 місяців тому +6

    May they both rest in eternal peace, may their loved ones receive comfort,closure and may their hearts be healed.

  • @shortsweetness876
    @shortsweetness876 7 місяців тому +5

    7:34 lol so wait why didn't HE use protection if he didn't want it to happen again 😂😂

  • @sharontaylor2274
    @sharontaylor2274 11 місяців тому +6

    My Deepest Condolences Go Out To Crystal Family and Friends✝🙏🏽💜🕊

  • @kiarawilkins6019
    @kiarawilkins6019 Рік тому +11

    Her Coworkers were too involved and invested into her relationship if I know everytime I repeat something negative that her Ex says it upsets her while she's already pregnant she doesn't need to be constantly made upset 😤 once she couldn't have an abortion anymore because of her being to far along wtf did he want her to do fall dwn the stairs??

  • @valritz3100
    @valritz3100 Рік тому +10

    Thank you so much. Excellent commentary.

  • @lamar7902
    @lamar7902 7 місяців тому +6

    The first baby mama? He asked her to get abortion first time and she got pregnant from him a second time???? Come on!

  • @nancydavis4618
    @nancydavis4618 5 місяців тому +4

    Ladies use BIRTH CONTROL,,,,YOU ARE NOT MARRIED SO BE CAREFUL,,,,,,GEEEEEZ

  • @marjorielemons2577
    @marjorielemons2577 Рік тому +30

    And she was "pregnant" too just like most of the young ladies on here🤔🤨👁🕵‍♂🕵‍♀ Some of these men are "TOXIC"!! #ProtectYourSelf #ProtectYourHeart

  • @Navaura
    @Navaura Рік тому +10

    Why would anyone want to have a child with a man like Derrick? Once maybe a mistake but two times is ridiculous

    • @r.9874
      @r.9874 6 місяців тому

      Exactly, twice! We really have to start questioning her decisions and actions.

  • @Lanaee1207
    @Lanaee1207 Рік тому +25

    This is heartbreaking to hear, something is really sinister in these men. Rest in peace to Crystal and her unborn child. I just don’t understand how Derrick Baby Mama decided to get pregnant by him again after being assaulted her first pregnancy, and thinking how he may have set her up. Baffling to say the least.

    • @kalahevans8635
      @kalahevans8635 Рік тому +3

      I was thinking the same thing, like WTF🤦........

    • @meahdahlgren5875
      @meahdahlgren5875 9 місяців тому

      ​@@kalahevans8635 right

    • @debgibson5770
      @debgibson5770 5 місяців тому +1

      I am baffled as well but I want to high five his daughter for telling her truth! Her testimony was powerful!!! My hat is off to that young lady!!!

  • @kiie1642
    @kiie1642 Рік тому +7

    One thing I've said all my life as a woman is, there needs to be a change regarding pregnancy, birth, custody and support. If certain changes were made so many women would escape the clutches of men like this.

    • @drone1028
      @drone1028 Рік тому +2

      What changes are needed? Can you elaborate?

    • @kiie1642
      @kiie1642 Рік тому +2

      @@drone1028 absolutely the following should happen if not married:
      . 1. Within the same amount of time that you have to abort a woman should have to lay her claim to who dad is.
      2. Once proclamation is made it can go over of ways: a) she wants it and dad doesn't, he signs all rights and it's all on her. b) he wants it and she doesn't. She should have to have it... Dad assumes all cost doctors, care, etc and at birth she signs away rights and it's all on dad. c) they both want it and all care and custody is split. d) neither wants it they split the fees to abort.
      2) Custody for dads/mom's should ALWAYS be at least 50/50 unless otherwise agreed.

  • @toniblaque
    @toniblaque Місяць тому +1

    I lost my niece a few several years ago she was trying to leave her bf. He committed a murder suicide, she was eight months pregnant. Her mom buried her with her baby in her arms. 💔

  • @gailpayne4356
    @gailpayne4356 7 місяців тому +4

    Great job! Need more footage and or photos to view so it won't be like listening to the radio.

  • @sasharose7258
    @sasharose7258 22 дні тому +1

    My grandmother always told me if a man says he does not want children believe him it can cost you. I feel so sad for her and th unborn baby. Evil man

  • @nicolechatman8634
    @nicolechatman8634 Рік тому +8

    Continue to in RIP Crystal you didn’t deserve what happened to you….😢😢😢

  • @VeneshaCovington-Jones
    @VeneshaCovington-Jones Рік тому +9

    Why aren’t there ever any pictures and we just have to look at the victims one picture on the screen? Just wondering

  • @nicolechatman8634
    @nicolechatman8634 Рік тому +7

    Wowwwwwww to think that getting married is considered a fairytale.. 😢😢😢😢What a mentality 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @shaylabrown6038
    @shaylabrown6038 Рік тому +16

    Just kids having kids and not mature at all. This is so sad.

    • @dyamondcrawford2162
      @dyamondcrawford2162 Рік тому +8

      Exactly 💯 that’s what I’m saying! Kids having kids! Not mature at all! Not even grown nor married! Don’t even have their own place nor a job nor a car but have the audacity to be out here spreading their legs and laying up having babies at a young age!! Kids nowadays have no respect for themselves or other people or their bodies 🙄

    • @StevenRobinson-x3f
      @StevenRobinson-x3f 4 місяці тому +3

      I don't think 27 is a kid so sad

  • @ingridj7070
    @ingridj7070 Рік тому +19

    You can't make a person want a baby. She should have told him to go on about his business. You can't make a man want a child just because you want the child. She should have gotten a no contact order...no phone calls, emails, text, etc...change her #, move. No way am i sticking around. Im going to do whatever it takes to protect my child and I.

    • @kalahevans8635
      @kalahevans8635 Рік тому +9

      I believe she would have got killed regardless, it probably would have tracked her down, like the crazy man he is a f**king clown.

    • @Navaura
      @Navaura Рік тому +8

      I think she should have just told him she didn't want or need him and leave him alone. She shouldn't have been trying to get him to step up just cut off all content.

    • @kalahevans8635
      @kalahevans8635 Рік тому +2

      @@Navaura Yes ma'am💯

    • @meahdahlgren5875
      @meahdahlgren5875 9 місяців тому

      ​@@kalahevans8635 right

  • @Mrs.CryssieJ
    @Mrs.CryssieJ Рік тому +5

    RIP Crystal Taylor ,and her unborn Child .

  • @drickatanyae8680
    @drickatanyae8680 Рік тому +7

    When I saw the word Black new sub yes ma’am ❤

  • @beloved505
    @beloved505 Рік тому +7

    Oh Crystal 🙏🏾

  • @krekre2328
    @krekre2328 Рік тому +6

    So, you think your kids dad tried to get you killed with the first baby and then turn around and get pregnant by him again? 🤔🌚🌝 I mean you don’t have to be a genius to know that’s a huge red flag alone. I feel for the murdered woman and her baby, but she should’ve left him alone and moved in if she was going to keep her baby in peace.

  • @missathena3240
    @missathena3240 Місяць тому +2

    Add to a reason why I dont want kids. Because the potential father will unalive me.

  • @ThePinkMic
    @ThePinkMic Місяць тому +2

    I wonder how that co-worker felt….reporting all Krystal’s moves….

  • @kabugobrian9446
    @kabugobrian9446 Рік тому +24

    May her soul rest in eternal peace. Girls ought to watch out to whom they date.

    • @BubblesByYoli
      @BubblesByYoli Рік тому +4

      How was she supposed to know this college kid was crazy? How do you really vet who you date? But all eyes on you Bri all eyes on you

    • @kalahevans8635
      @kalahevans8635 Рік тому +3

      ​@@BubblesByYoliYou're right, that's why it pays to be still, in my own opinion, just saying.

    • @kiie1642
      @kiie1642 Рік тому +1

      You're correct!!

    • @kiie1642
      @kiie1642 Рік тому +4

      ​@@BubblesByYolithere are certainly ways. 1) stop going with and hoping in bed with men you don't know. Who's family you don't know. Who's friends and associates You haven't been around. These things help you vet a person. 2) SAFE SEX and family planing.... Knowing where someone stands on children etc before actually facing the decision.

    • @warrenblue3479
      @warrenblue3479 Рік тому +1

      You should only date for marriage not as a past time

  • @reignbowjonson4766
    @reignbowjonson4766 11 місяців тому +5

    He should've just done what most deadbeats do and that's disappear IJS. She had already said she didn't want anything from him.

  • @spitfirestake54
    @spitfirestake54 Рік тому +13

    Lordt! She moved too damn fast to begin with and had no idea who he was 🙄🙄
    She shouldn’t have lost her life. Please let this serve as a cautionary tale ladies. Gotdamn don’t be so fast with giving up the goods and especially in an unsafe manner 🙄🙄
    If she didn’t want anything from him and planned to raise the baby as a single parent, then why even tell him?

  • @TheMsHopelin
    @TheMsHopelin Рік тому +7

    I guess a vasectomy never entered his narcissistic little mind. The thought of having protected sex was clearly out of the question for him. I mean, if women keep getting pregnant for you (not on Crystal's case) with babies you don't want... you're probably the drama.

  • @RE-vs4lu
    @RE-vs4lu Рік тому +6

    They need to make a male birth control pill. These men are insane. If you don't want a child wrap it up but they can't even do that.

  • @hunna5849
    @hunna5849 Рік тому +19

    RIP crystal Taylor 😢😢 he killed her because she didn't have an abortion

    • @spitfirestake54
      @spitfirestake54 Рік тому +11

      Well, he was half responsible for the baby so I guess that’s why he felt he could tell her what to do. What about the fact that HE didn’t want her or their baby or the financial and emotional responsibility?!
      Women, girls need to be more responsible if they feel they’re the only ones who should be able to make decisions about their body🙄🙄

    • @Navaura
      @Navaura Рік тому +9

      ​@spitfirestake54 I think men also need to be more responsible themselves by using condoms as protection or get a vasectomy .

    • @dyamondcrawford2162
      @dyamondcrawford2162 Рік тому +10

      Because they shouldn’t be out here spreading their legs to everyone and they too need to be more responsible 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @bluesclues4371
      @bluesclues4371 Рік тому +5

      @@spitfirestake54she said she didn’t want or need his help! F0h it wasn’t his choice to make. If he didn’t want kids it’s something called vasectomy.

    • @Ilovebeauty513
      @Ilovebeauty513 Рік тому +3

      Just bringing unwanted to children in the world … cost her , her own life 🤨

  • @Nethall4299
    @Nethall4299 3 місяці тому +3

    What kind of friends would give out information of her whereabouts 😮when they know this guy was threatening her 😮I hope they have no peace for the part they play in her getting killed 😮that's why I don't have a lot of friends 😮they are wicked friends 😮

  • @deejai1173
    @deejai1173 7 місяців тому +3

    So against having children, but won’t use prophylactics. 👀🙄

  • @Dee-cu8yr
    @Dee-cu8yr Рік тому +8

    As a BW FACING THE TRUTH about BM hurts
    But for our lives and
    The lives of our children WE MUST
    WE 💀 more than any other women
    We STILL have babies for men who SHOW time and time again they don’t want them!!!
    We keep trying to love this pathology out of them and it’s making it worse!!
    These men don’t understand that a woman doesn’t get pregnant if sperm never leaves
    Their body but that 🥜 is important to them!
    We need to raise standards on what it takes to access us and our wombs because it seems no matter how hard we try to raise male children
    It’s not working
    So we need to change
    And limit access and up standards
    Die alone if you
    Must
    Better than dying at the hands of a man who looks like you
    Which is highly likely
    Since they unalive us every 5 hours

    • @IK_4
      @IK_4 7 місяців тому

      @BeatDaBlockBassYou know what statistics are, right? It happens disappointingly to black women.

  • @jaslenelove7008
    @jaslenelove7008 Рік тому +10

    Why are you calling him Derek Soyer? It's Derek Smyer.

  • @mackdaddyrodriguez9632
    @mackdaddyrodriguez9632 5 днів тому

    Almost 100k!! ❤

  • @miarobinson847
    @miarobinson847 Рік тому +5

    This is so sad he was a scum bag

  • @IK_4
    @IK_4 7 місяців тому +5

    Why are you sleeping with a man you’re afraid of telling you’re pregnant?

  • @first_to_lett_a_rhymme_flow_
    @first_to_lett_a_rhymme_flow_ 11 місяців тому +7

    SO CRYSTAL 🔮 BARELY KNEW DEREK, ONLY KNEW HIM FOE A FEW MONTHS, BUT CHOSE TO GET PREGNANT 🤰 🤔 BY HIM. U PLAY SILLY GAMES 🎮

  • @tiffanysantiago516
    @tiffanysantiago516 3 дні тому

    Meeting someone and getting pregnant after “knowing” them for a month is wild and reckless smh. Can’t possibly think this will end up well. To think that if they would’ve used precaution to avoid the pregnancy this would’ve ended up so different

  • @robinwagner3293
    @robinwagner3293 8 днів тому

    I wonder if Amara is still doing these shows. She does such a great job.

  • @prettybaby80
    @prettybaby80 10 місяців тому +3

    My life was threatened repeatedly. Had to get several temp restraining orders since he’d never show up for the hearings. He finally showed up after more than two one year and finally got a permanent rto just for one year smh . Order was to stop threatening me , but still have access to our baby. All over keeping my baby and filling child support after 7 years.

    • @akcj1
      @akcj1 10 місяців тому +3

      Did he tell you he didn’t want a baby before you got pregnant or while you were pregnant?

    • @shavoneshavone1887
      @shavoneshavone1887 3 місяці тому

      Probably did, she kept it anyway and then put him on child support. I don’t get it. That’s why men be acting a fool when chicks get pregnant and keep the child. The system set up to fuck them. He says he don’t want it, you have it anyway. Get him in court, get the test and now you getting child support.

  • @mariabrown5335
    @mariabrown5335 3 місяці тому +2

    Clearly he didn’t show his true colors until it was too late. I find it crazy and sad to blame a murder victim for wtf a grown ass man did even after she said she didn’t need money or help from him 💯 That’s what people wanna focus on and his ass locked up for a mf reason.

  • @Schell-Top
    @Schell-Top 21 день тому +2

    All these “perfect” people with such insensitive comments. How does any of it relate to her flat-out, cold-blooded murder?

  • @kkennedy5151
    @kkennedy5151 Рік тому +12

    No one deserves to be killed. One thing I can say you could never image how nasty SOME women can get after they get pregnant and finally have control over a man. But no-one ever talks about that because pregnant women are precious but women please hold your sister daughter friend accountable and stop believing they are perfect and all men in these situations are the devil.

    • @bluesclues4371
      @bluesclues4371 Рік тому

      Any man that would k1ll a pregnant woman is the devil, stop making excuses. Having a baby doesn’t control or keep a man. Now he’ll rot in jail as he should

    • @shankaroont4959
      @shankaroont4959 7 місяців тому +1

      You are definitely right.

  • @Bubbakush007
    @Bubbakush007 Рік тому +2

    I heard about this story on a episode of fatal attraction this dude derrick is a str8 coward where he belongs in prison for the rest of his miserable pathetic life this story is so sad😭😭😭😭

  • @betsysexylittle
    @betsysexylittle Рік тому +18

    Derek is a pos. Get people pregnant 3 times. Unbelievable

    • @kalahevans8635
      @kalahevans8635 Рік тому +11

      Exactly, why was he having sex unprotected, if he didn't want anymore children.

    • @LaShala_waytoopretty_
      @LaShala_waytoopretty_ Рік тому +4

      @@kalahevans8635because he hated himself, he was broke & extremely miserable.

    • @kalahevans8635
      @kalahevans8635 Рік тому +2

      @@LaShala_waytoopretty_ Damn🤦‍♀️.......

    • @shaylabrown6038
      @shaylabrown6038 Рік тому +4

      But why did she allow him between her legs!? Desperation, low self esteem will drive you to do such things

    • @shaylabrown6038
      @shaylabrown6038 Рік тому +7

      Those women were willing participants.

  • @brishellrodriguez
    @brishellrodriguez 7 місяців тому +2

    what i don’t get is why if he didn’t want any kids why didn’t he get a vasectomy I mean wouldn’t that be the solution after the first kid you didn’t want

  • @shortsweetness876
    @shortsweetness876 7 місяців тому +1

    RIP to her and the unborn child
    But why can't people stop condoning teen pregnancy...it's not cute..yes she had a good support system, but what exactly are the moms teaching their daughter's. Mm

  • @Gisellej80
    @Gisellej80 Рік тому +3

    Rip crystaltaylor😢

  • @crisssyyy_
    @crisssyyy_ 3 місяці тому +1

    Sending an email to tell a man you're pregnant... that's new. A man does not need to tell me TWICE that he does not want me to have his baby ✌🏾. Lastly, it doesn't take rocket science to know that Derrick hired Skylar to shoot Crystal, simple.

  • @cheekscheeks5840
    @cheekscheeks5840 День тому +1

    Why would you have another baby for a psychopath

  • @islandgirlruby2750
    @islandgirlruby2750 Місяць тому +1

    Such a beautiful girl

  • @audreybutler5491
    @audreybutler5491 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm so sorry this happened to you but his day will come we keep forgetting there's a God my condolences to the family so very sorry

  • @SJ-jd8uh
    @SJ-jd8uh 10 місяців тому +3

    Immoral lifestyle immoral consequences. Period

  • @NaigePippens
    @NaigePippens 2 місяці тому +1

    ...I'll bet that guy ;Sykler Moore' recanted his statement because he realized that the detectives were not going to keep their promise to move him to another prison (or maybe he might have simply been dumb enough to think that he was entitled to get some time cut off his sentence for helping the police to solve a homicide).

  • @felicity817
    @felicity817 Рік тому +5

    Wow Drick is a Monster..
    Rip Beautiful 😢

    • @r.9874
      @r.9874 6 місяців тому

      True ... but why was he able to make so many babies with these women? He basically showed these women he was a monster, but they allowed him in their bodies. Sorry dear but women keeps monster living and eating good.

    • @r.9874
      @r.9874 6 місяців тому +2

      Why was these ladies still attracted to a "monster"?

  • @LindaBattle-x8w
    @LindaBattle-x8w Місяць тому +1

    Don't blame the victim Zoe people should not be having premarital sex

  • @kishareed6615
    @kishareed6615 29 днів тому +1

    Derrick did everything except stop. contributing to creating babies that he didn't want. I can't wrap my brain around picking prison over Parenthood smh

  • @myrathompson7398
    @myrathompson7398 Місяць тому +1

    I wouldn't have put myself in that situation. I would even had sex with someone i knew for one month. Apparently he was not a good person if he wasn't even taking care of the kids he had. Smh
    I hope all the young girls learned fron from this story.

  • @nishadurant6266
    @nishadurant6266 Рік тому +3

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @cheekscheeks5840
    @cheekscheeks5840 День тому +1

    So let me get this right, you let someone talk u into killing a pregnant women. That could have been your mom , sister or other family members. You are heartless, wicked and useless for doing that to that innocent mother 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

  • @aheshamyers9894
    @aheshamyers9894 Рік тому

    😢

  • @kizziekente1841
    @kizziekente1841 7 місяців тому

    😢😢

  • @taviebivins6192
    @taviebivins6192 7 днів тому

    Dwags

  • @r.9874
    @r.9874 6 місяців тому

    Wow, 2001 and I'm just learning about this story in 2024? She would have been 50 years old this year, 50! Why is that important to blk women? Because that is the level of maturity you need to think with, this is a blk man giving you this advice. She was 27, almost 30, making She should have had an abortion, here is why:
    1) She got pregnant by a guy so only known for one month, then they broke up. That means they had sex within a few days.
    2) You were scared of a man you gave your body to. Sadly, blk women give it to those that deserve it the least, this story was proof.
    3) You needed a coworker to send an email to your ex telling him you were pregnant, that is the first sign she wasn't ready to be a mother again.
    Sorry to say this but he actually gave her the best advice and she didn't listen. If you barely know the guy, had sex with him after a few days, got pregnant by a guy you didn't know and was scared of his reaction, he told you he had two kids and didn't want this to happen again and asked you to have an abortion, she should have respectfully got it. She even made a mistake and got pregnant so quickly, that would have made her a single mother of two kids with no father in their lives. He actually gave her good advice. This message is typed respectfully.🖤

  • @tommyakbar2978
    @tommyakbar2978 Рік тому +12

    The reason why pregnant women are dying by homicide is women are screwing the same men these men usually have wife's the mistress be trying to break up the home see most men not evil are sleeping around like that women are going after same men tell me I'm lying

    • @drickatanyae8680
      @drickatanyae8680 Рік тому +15

      You’re definitely lying to. How is a woman trying to break up a happy home when the man was cheating smh

    • @kalahevans8635
      @kalahevans8635 Рік тому +9

      ​@@drickatanyae8680Exactly she probably didn't even know he had whole another relationship & family🤷🏾.......

    • @dyamondcrawford2162
      @dyamondcrawford2162 Рік тому +2

      @@drickatanyae8680 I don’t think they are lying 🤷🏽‍♀️ I mean they are trying to break up a happy home and family because they knew exactly what they were getting themselves into when they are a mistress sleeping with a married man. Especially a man with kids. Just saying

  • @dyamondcrawford2162
    @dyamondcrawford2162 Рік тому +2

    Kids having kids! Kids nowadays have no respect for themselves, other people, or their bodies! Kids laying up having babies knowing damn well they can’t take care of themselves! Then they get mad and all defensive when their partner asks them to abort the unborn baby smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @AC-ss5oy
    @AC-ss5oy 5 місяців тому +1

    she brought that on herself. idk why soo many black women do this. "i dont need anything from you". the child does.

  • @PettyBundy
    @PettyBundy 7 днів тому

    Damn seems like crystal got around 2pac voice 😂😂😂😂😂😂