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  • “She gave me this book because she thinks I need it.”
    Season 8 Episode 4: Misery Loves Company
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  • @Carlos-xz3vi
    @Carlos-xz3vi Місяць тому +72

    “Pass the beans will ya’!”…the way Debra delivered that line cracked me up.

    • @MrKirillD
      @MrKirillD Місяць тому +3

      What about:”It’s been three months!!!”?

  • @julsjewels3185
    @julsjewels3185 Місяць тому +50

    Amy and Debra are in two different stages of life. Amy is newlywed and Debra is in the war zone of raising a family. That is real life!!!!! And Marie and Frank are amazed they survived.

  • @jdk201100
    @jdk201100 Місяць тому +104

    Robert's face at the end XD
    But seriously, 3 months of marriage is nothing to showboat about. I get that they're overjoyed and happy but that doesn't make their marriage more superior than others...

    • @dieterdelange9488
      @dieterdelange9488 Місяць тому +11

      True, but poor Rob has had to put up with so much crap from his family I'll give him a pass. 😅

    • @StarrPower2232
      @StarrPower2232 Місяць тому +8

      That face says “Why would you do that?😨”

    • @charlespeakjr2168
      @charlespeakjr2168 Місяць тому +11

      Sometimes, Robert creates his own problems, as well as instigating BS with his brother.

    • @PowerDiva
      @PowerDiva Місяць тому +8

      That's what was brilliant about this show, though. All fictional characters and stories and yet - we ALL know people who are exactly like this.

    • @charlespeakjr2168
      @charlespeakjr2168 Місяць тому +4

      I forgot to mention, I agree with JDK's point in regards to Robert's and Amy's marriage not being superior to others. Three months doesn't mean squat compared to the other married Barone family members and the struggles that they have gone through over the years.

  • @mmmfahmy
    @mmmfahmy Місяць тому +34

    “Yes, this is unseemly “ made me laugh out loud while sitting alone 😂

  • @ZER0AO
    @ZER0AO Місяць тому +66

    Frank's right, one chicken is not enough for six adults

    • @Kwaj
      @Kwaj Місяць тому

      True. I can skeletonize half a rotisserie chicken in one sitting, then finish it off later that day.

    • @baronvonnembles
      @baronvonnembles Місяць тому

      Especially when one of them is Robert. Even a 9lb roaster would be pushing it.

    • @charlespeakjr2168
      @charlespeakjr2168 Місяць тому

      There's always White Castles.🤣

    • @georgiasmith64
      @georgiasmith64 Місяць тому

      Maybe a Cornish game hen for each person and they can pass the veggies potatoes etc like family style

  • @amosmaka6030
    @amosmaka6030 Місяць тому +40

    Marital Veterans: Marie and Frank
    Marital Exprience: Debra and Ray
    Marital Rookies: Amy and Robert

  • @NicoleCzarnecki
    @NicoleCzarnecki Місяць тому +80

    You know that it’s bad when even Frank says “it’s unseemly”!

  • @jonathanmyers2867
    @jonathanmyers2867 Місяць тому +71

    Marie: You want some real marriage advice? I'm gonna give you the secret. There's gonna be yelling! There's gonna be anger! Don't fight it, accept it! You love him, you hate him. He disgusts you, look how he eats. You keep your head down, and you plow through!
    Frank: Amen!
    Amy: But Marie, you said "hate". How can hate have any place in a marriage?
    Marie: You make room. There's gonna be hate. Hate is real. Marriage is real. We may fight... but we're okay with each other. And you know why? We've endured, we have been through it all. And now...
    Frank: We're waiting for death!
    Marie: Not that we're in a rush.
    Frank: Fair enough.
    Marie: That's a marriage.

    • @c.barrett5114
      @c.barrett5114 Місяць тому +7

      I mean she has a point 😂

    • @JustinMacri007
      @JustinMacri007 Місяць тому

      @@c.barrett5114and ending up in mental hospitals

    • @sandiego2380
      @sandiego2380 4 дні тому +1

      The only issue I have is that why s the man the ‘one that disgust you that makes you hate’ why is the man always the one depicted as the screw up immature? In real life there are plenty of good husbands and fathers out there, why does tv always depict the screw up father? It’s sexist and I hate it. Marie is far from perfect and a saint so she shouldn’t be so critical of frank.

  • @stellarwind1946
    @stellarwind1946 Місяць тому +11

    “90 days, the usual sentence for vagrancy”
    Lol such a cop thing to say

  • @jonathancruz5932
    @jonathancruz5932 Місяць тому +22

    I wanted to see Marie’s speech about marriage

  • @divyadeepawasthy8976
    @divyadeepawasthy8976 Місяць тому +6

    Best part:- " yes, this is so Unseemly "
    😅 😅 😅 😅 😅

  • @boombro4705
    @boombro4705 19 днів тому +3

    Man Robert’s face haha

  • @fatalbert135
    @fatalbert135 12 днів тому +2

    Robert's face was my face hearing that. I turned around to my phone mid breakfast 😂😂😂

  • @NikkiGRocks4Ever
    @NikkiGRocks4Ever Місяць тому +15

    Debra is mad because Amy is giving her martial advice. Ray responded, “Unless it’s more sex. How dare her?”
    Typical guy answer. 😂😂

  • @brittanyc.4540
    @brittanyc.4540 Місяць тому +14

    That look on his face 😳 says at 4:52 “Why did you do that?!”

    • @12Blueace
      @12Blueace Місяць тому +3

      It just shows he wanted to feel superior to Ray again. He clearly couldn’t care less about their marriage as long as his was better.

    • @brittanyc.4540
      @brittanyc.4540 Місяць тому +1

      @@12Blueace That sounds like narcissistic thinking. Narcissism runs in the family especially Marie and Ray (well, mostly Marie 😒).

    • @Greendalewitch
      @Greendalewitch Місяць тому +2

      @@brittanyc.4540 We need to be all like Frank. With a beer in one hand and the other down our pants while watching tv, being as careless as you can be in this world.

    • @brittanyc.4540
      @brittanyc.4540 Місяць тому +1

      @@Greendalewitch Thanks for the advice and yes, I’m more like Frank.

  • @cStatE95
    @cStatE95 Місяць тому +32

    Roberts face 😂 he always want to be in a competition and it always back fires on him

    • @Tokuman100
      @Tokuman100 Місяць тому +3

      I know, right? He thinks his marriage is better than Ray's solely because he doesn't bicker with his wife over every little thing.

  • @asimally9468
    @asimally9468 Місяць тому +6

    PASS THE BEANS , WILL U. HAHAHA

  • @Aruna.N
    @Aruna.N Місяць тому +7

    20yrs ago, never understood wat Marie meant but now agree with everything she said!

  • @rahulm2827
    @rahulm2827 Місяць тому +12

    it was a very inappropiate gift. 😂

  • @garganrose
    @garganrose Місяць тому +6

    When you’ve only been married for three months, you’re not in any position to give marital advice to anybody. You’re still newlyweds at that point. That’s like giving parental advice while you’re cutting your first child umbilical cord.

  • @CoCotheTurtle
    @CoCotheTurtle Місяць тому +4

    The lady in the front row laughed at _every_ joke!

  • @MoMotivation0304
    @MoMotivation0304 29 днів тому +2

    Amy & Frank were my favorite characters on this show 😂

  • @naterksmr
    @naterksmr Місяць тому +4

    This is like the guy who's been at the gym 3 days who keeps telling everyone to correct their form when no one asked.

  • @sturgeon2888
    @sturgeon2888 Місяць тому +2

    “This is unseemly!”
    Man Frank carried the show dingy single handed

    • @randilevson9547
      @randilevson9547 9 днів тому

      The way Frank delivered that line made me smile. He can be so coarse, yet that was such a genteel comment. Loved it!!

  • @baronvonnembles
    @baronvonnembles Місяць тому +3

    I think caused Frank's "It's unseemly" almost caused Marie and Ray to break.

  • @DMoc06
    @DMoc06 Місяць тому +7

    This episode, Season 8, Episode 4 (“Misery Loves Company”) is one of my favorite episodes of Everybody Loves Raymond. What’s missing here is Marie’s speech!
    Marie: Now you listen to me. Maybe you could all use some advice from someone who’s in a position to give it.
    Debra (murmurs): See what you did Amy?
    Marie: You think we have nothing to offer? We’ve been married 46 years. We’ve seen the lows, we’ve seen the highs.
    Frank: What day was the high? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Marie: You two (looking at Robert and Amy), you’re newlyweds. You’re in love, God bless you, you know nothing. (Turns to Ray and Debra) And you two, you’re always fighting. And the reason you get so upset is because you think that there’s something wrong with that. Look at us. This is experience. This is wisdom.
    Frank: This is juicy. (Munching on his chicken leg) 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Marie: You want some real marriage advice? I’m going to give you the secret now. There’s going to be yelling. There’s going to be anger. Don’t fight it, accept it. You love him, you hate him. He disgusts you, look how he eats. You keep your head down and you plow through.
    Frank: Amen!
    Amy: But Marie, you said hate. How can hate have any place in a marriage?
    Marie: You make room. There’s going to be hate because hate is real. Marriage is real. We may fight, but we’re okay with each other. Do you know why? We’ve endured. We have been through it all. And now?
    Frank: We’re waiting for death. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Marie: Not that we’re in a rush.
    Frank: Fair enough.
    Marie: That’s a marriage.

  • @renaissance18
    @renaissance18 Місяць тому +11

    Robert face at 4:52 LOL

  • @koryglover3237
    @koryglover3237 Місяць тому +7

    Unless you're Kim Kardashian, three months of marriage is nothing to boast about

  • @joeypleasants4014
    @joeypleasants4014 Місяць тому +3

    It is also interesting how Debra and Amy are really good friends in this show and they are opposite from each other. Amy’s more like what people would probably perceive as uppity and Debra is more of the no nonsense type of person. Has anyone else caught this about them? Also even though Debra finds Marie overbearing Debra is actually like Marie more than she thinks. Marie is constantly nagging at Frank. Hahaha but it does make for comedy. Lol😂

  • @seangriffin2053
    @seangriffin2053 Місяць тому +8

    Robert did become pretty obnoxious at times after he got married. And Amy looks at Marie and Debra's marriages and assumes she knows better? It's ridiculous. 😂

    • @shade1121-ce8dc
      @shade1121-ce8dc Місяць тому +1

      And she doesn’t see fault either. 🤣

  • @Beth-qx2lx
    @Beth-qx2lx Місяць тому +2

    I love that so much show so so much

  • @joeypleasants4014
    @joeypleasants4014 Місяць тому +1

    It seems like here and I know it is a show but Amy seems like that person that is so eager to see if something will work for someone. Especially when she tells Debra she has to accept the park talking about the book. Her pressed lips and raised eyebrows. Lol

  • @joeypleasants4014
    @joeypleasants4014 23 дні тому +1

    Debra saying she should poison Ray’s food even though it is a line that was pretty extreme. That whole thing where both of them kind of argued you could tell in Ray’s face he was not happy and fed up with her attitude.

  • @destineetyson7756
    @destineetyson7756 Місяць тому +3

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  • @archangel905
    @archangel905 Місяць тому +97

    I don't think there's ever an episode where debra doesn't get angry

    • @rickyayy
      @rickyayy Місяць тому +7

      Menopause is a real mood killer

    • @Y_hass
      @Y_hass Місяць тому +11

      Maybe an episode in season 1 lol.

    • @dieterdelange9488
      @dieterdelange9488 Місяць тому +46

      With such a husband and in-laws, it's no wonder she went insane. 😅

    • @taemint_xingmi
      @taemint_xingmi Місяць тому +15

      It’s valid

    • @charlespeakjr2168
      @charlespeakjr2168 Місяць тому +27

      And yet, Debra believed that it was a great idea to buy the house across from Ray's parents, and having them nearby was the selling point.

  • @danielcarmeli7624
    @danielcarmeli7624 Місяць тому +2

    😂fantastic

  • @willyhwang1059
    @willyhwang1059 Місяць тому +7

    never noticed how beautiful Debra's nose is.

    • @SBCBears
      @SBCBears Місяць тому +1

      From the side, it's perfect.

    • @lluu79
      @lluu79 Місяць тому +1

      She’s a beautiful lady

    • @anthrax4233
      @anthrax4233 5 днів тому

      Really, truth is Debra is as hot as fuck all over especially when they allowed her to be more feminine with her hair and make up.
      She looked like a boy in the earlier episodes.

  • @divyadeepawasthy8976
    @divyadeepawasthy8976 Місяць тому +1

    Very true 👍🏼,
    It's like I'm telling my dad how to take care, run a family and 💰save for the future.
    ××××× NEVER ×××××

  • @joeypleasants4014
    @joeypleasants4014 23 дні тому +1

    I will point out something that is ironic and funny. In a few episodes earlier Debra said maybe she wanted what Robert and Amy had.

  • @menonjaya3784
    @menonjaya3784 Місяць тому +2

    Amy looks soooo delectable

  • @joshuahernandez3911
    @joshuahernandez3911 27 днів тому +2

    Anyone think it’s very strange for Robert and Amy using a marriage book 3 months into their marriage?

  • @jameshubacher2585
    @jameshubacher2585 Місяць тому +1

    I once gave my last ex the same look as that one Robert gave Amy at the end. Different reason though

  • @beckybrynjolfsson
    @beckybrynjolfsson Місяць тому +1

    Ooooohhhhhh nnnnooooo she didn't!!!

  • @talkindurinthemovie
    @talkindurinthemovie Місяць тому +1

    Nothing wrong with a book suggestion everyone relax

  • @Xylarxcode
    @Xylarxcode Місяць тому +1

    Ah, a sure sign of a new bride. She hasn't picked up on her husband's intentions and facial expressions yet to be on the same page at all times. Ray and Debra were right. They're idiots. Much left to learn, yet they have the gall to try and tell others with more experience how to get a happier marriage.

  • @phyliciabozzi9414
    @phyliciabozzi9414 Місяць тому +1

    Is that a real book?

  • @rinaroldan8921
    @rinaroldan8921 Місяць тому +5

    I don't think Amy meant bad when she gave the book to Debra. She thinks married couple can learn something from the book so she wants to share them. Not sure why Debra is so offended😢

    • @hutch1197
      @hutch1197 Місяць тому +3

      I think it was her tone. She was talking to Debra with such pity. I'm sure she didn't intend it, but it came off rather condescending.

    • @Catlover1974
      @Catlover1974 Місяць тому

      I know, Amy’s facial expressions are so cringe, it’s funny!

  • @tombailey837
    @tombailey837 Місяць тому +3

    This episode was genuinely dumb. Robert made no sense. Did the writters forget hes been married before to Joanne, and that it became a disaster? Youd think hed understand right away that marriage isnt all good stuff.

  • @joeypleasants4014
    @joeypleasants4014 9 днів тому

    I feel like Debra and Ray just weren’t in the best place at in their marriage. Yes I know it ain’t all just posies flowers, pillows, and rainbows. Maybe we are just a generation that is less able to handle hardship

  • @boydcook9554
    @boydcook9554 18 днів тому +1

    I don’t care what anyone says. Amy was hot af

  • @c.barrett5114
    @c.barrett5114 Місяць тому +5

    Debra and Raymond were horrible here

  • @johnhunt5181
    @johnhunt5181 Місяць тому +3

    I used to think Debra/Patricia Heaton was gorgeous... I still do when I watch the re-runs on channel 4... Obviously she's a lot older now but when she was in this she was beautiful

    • @jojoh9664
      @jojoh9664 Місяць тому +2

      She's hardly going to look the same is she? It's called getting old. It's gonna happen to you too

  • @bluekitty.81
    @bluekitty.81 Місяць тому +1

    Funny how Amy thinks shes all wise regarding marriage when she was desperate to get married with the first guy she saw when she first appeared in the show. Honestly, I feel Amy in the long run would be like a mom to Robert. Always telling him how he shoyld behave around people and specially ray since he seems to be the focus of robert. Like we all know robert is the one jealous of ray and what he has but now says ray is the jealous one.

  • @brittanyc.4540
    @brittanyc.4540 Місяць тому +3

    1:36 “These two idiots.”
    No, Ray, you and Debra (well, mostly you 😒) are the idiots.

    • @Xylarxcode
      @Xylarxcode Місяць тому +1

      Well, he and Debra can be idiots and still be right about others being idiots too. And they were. Robert and Amy were being particularly idiotic this episode. The gall it would take for someone with only 3 months experience to tell someone with years and years of experience how to do it better. Robert in particular should know better, because he'd been married before that and has personally seen what a decline into divorce is like, so he knows the start of marriage is always roses and sunshine before an inevitable decline. Ideally, the couple levels out before the decline gets too bad (like Frank and Marie did), but of everyone present at the table, Robert should know best what happens when the decline doesn't level out.
      Ray and Debra were right. They're idiots.

  • @Jb-Raja
    @Jb-Raja 4 дні тому

    I can honestly say " I'm not interested in that subject." R.I.P. Frank, you were my spirit guide of the t.v. land.

  • @femaledude2735
    @femaledude2735 Місяць тому +1

    There's one annoying lady laughing