"Ask the Boyz" Fan Q&A from Discord

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 103

  • @seewendy1
    @seewendy1 4 місяці тому +48

    I think what I’ve gathered from watching all of these videos is that Ryan is in love with Nick 😂😂💕 and I’m here for it

    • @nobody-n9s
      @nobody-n9s 4 місяці тому +1

      Kalyne too 👀 the way she looks at him 7:29 She’s secretly waiting for the divorce dude

  • @Just_Jake92
    @Just_Jake92 4 місяці тому +24

    Barts stitching analogy is actually really great.

  • @Richardarbizo
    @Richardarbizo 4 місяці тому +103

    Nick would hop on his Grindr profile immediately after the breakup

    • @808BAMFasian
      @808BAMFasian 4 місяці тому +2

      His profile name would be nick “the ear” dunn

    • @donnguyen2517
      @donnguyen2517 4 місяці тому +5

      It was nick nasty lol

    • @jk4115
      @jk4115 4 місяці тому

      wdym he's already on it everyday

    • @Sergio-xj1id
      @Sergio-xj1id 4 місяці тому

      J

  • @therino9695
    @therino9695 4 місяці тому +11

    Glad I listened to this. Been single for nearly two years. Had four relationships. Had a big life event that I’ve been dealing with for over a year. My friends say I’m happier than I was a year ago. And I’m glad. I’ve also just recently started showing up to the world through dance classes. Wish me luck yall

    • @jbotosan
      @jbotosan 4 місяці тому +2

      best of luck bud! 💪🏽 i also started dancing again, cheers to showing up

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 4 місяці тому +1

      Good luck 🍀

  • @GeekyC.
    @GeekyC. 4 місяці тому +36

    This channel gives me so much laughs and so much peace when we’re being bombarded by bad news left right and centre thanks to the media and social media. Everytime I watch your videos it’s a nice break from the madness in the world and I truly appreciate you all for that.
    Much love from the U.K. lads and thank you truly for always making me laugh and think and learn 😊

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 4 місяці тому +2

      Beautifully said. Thank you for being part of the JK community. 🙏

    • @eringutsch
      @eringutsch 4 місяці тому +2

      Beautiful words!

  • @100XPercentX
    @100XPercentX 4 місяці тому +30

    LMAOOO SUBIN ALWAYS DAPPIN THEM UP I LOVE IT he’s a good guy

  • @Calida
    @Calida 4 місяці тому +29

    "To offset the loneliness" dang that is so real

  • @CamberRockerCamber
    @CamberRockerCamber 4 місяці тому +9

    I'm 38 and I tell my wife all the time that if we get a divorce, I'm staying single for the rest of my life. It takes to much time and effort to really build a deep meaningful relationship with someone.

  • @taefithendo
    @taefithendo 4 місяці тому +14

    AskTheFeels vibe. I missed talks like this so much lol
    ATF helped so much when I was in hs

  • @iamgray8817
    @iamgray8817 4 місяці тому +10

    This episode HIT! 😮‍💨

  • @MyLife-og2kr
    @MyLife-og2kr 4 місяці тому +4

    I know exactly what Ryan is saying about just showing up to the world, but I dont even know where to start.

  • @infamoussparkx315
    @infamoussparkx315 4 місяці тому +3

    Everyone is afraid to leave the house cuz they dont feel right, but they dont feel right cuz they dont leave the house. Issa bar kek :3

  • @SpAzZzZz_
    @SpAzZzZz_ 4 місяці тому +21

    Maybe I should give the discord a chance

    • @tayo0404
      @tayo0404 4 місяці тому +4

      In all u honesty should join

    • @SpAzZzZz_
      @SpAzZzZz_ 4 місяці тому

      @@tayo0404 i have entered the chat. Hide you wives

    • @SpAzZzZz_
      @SpAzZzZz_ 4 місяці тому +10

      I just did, hide ya wives.

    • @eringutsch
      @eringutsch 4 місяці тому +2

      Yay! Welcome to the fun discord!

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 4 місяці тому +2

      Let's go, SpAzZz! Join the discord! I'll be waiting for you!

  • @freedamnsweetcree7235
    @freedamnsweetcree7235 4 місяці тому +3

    Nick you're soooo funny lmao 😂 that's me always too hahaha

  • @Omzbuilds
    @Omzbuilds 4 місяці тому +3

    Ryan spitting facts bro

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 4 місяці тому +14

    I love this conversation! I'm divorced. I dated a while, and now I've been alone for almost 10 years, by choice. I can't see myself in the dating scene the way it is now.

  • @negiihimanshu
    @negiihimanshu 4 місяці тому +2

    From 20:30 those words are gold ❤❤

  • @CaarrieBaby
    @CaarrieBaby 3 місяці тому

    Great episode! Something I learned that helped me a lot in therapy was identifying my limiting beliefs because they impact us in various aspects of our lives. Reprocessing those limiting beliefs has helped me tremendously.

  • @chrisreyes1
    @chrisreyes1 4 місяці тому +4

    Yeah it only took me 6 yrs to repair a years worth of damage.

  • @negiihimanshu
    @negiihimanshu 4 місяці тому +2

    Ryan said some guys are afraid to be single plus don't wanna live with tht girl... I m that guy

  • @jnightmare0
    @jnightmare0 4 місяці тому +1

    most relationships statistically still happen how they did back then Joe, it might seem like tinder and apps are taking over but it’s far from it

  • @MrCjlance
    @MrCjlance 4 місяці тому +6

    Signing up for patreon again fuck it

  • @Vincisomething
    @Vincisomething 4 місяці тому +14

    Even for me i prefer a more natural connection than an app. It can be online, but still natural

    • @r.c.7779
      @r.c.7779 4 місяці тому

      How can it be online if not an app? Explain please

    • @Vincisomething
      @Vincisomething 4 місяці тому

      @@r.c.7779 Forums, social media, discord, etc. I mean sites where you can connect with people or form groups for shared hobbies or like-minded people without the pressure of a dating app.
      I met a few of my friends through Tumblr years ago and another through Joe's facebook group lol. I wasn't using it to find friends, it just happened lol. But some social media site and discords have groups/forums/channels/etc that are specific to dating.

    • @Vincisomething
      @Vincisomething 4 місяці тому

      @@r.c.7779 discord, social media, forums, etc. Places to connect and meet people that doesn't have the pressures of dating. And some social media and discord groups act as dating sites anyways.

  • @kiarademoner
    @kiarademoner 4 місяці тому +12

    I had someone ask me that question and I didn’t know how to respond. Thinking of being single this day and age seems horrifying. I see too many people close to me who have horrible dates and people who they met. A lot of my girl acquaintances are single and wondering if they will ever get married because the dating scene is tough.

    • @eringutsch
      @eringutsch 4 місяці тому +2

      My sister is single after some rough break ups. It's insane for the dating world right now

    • @kiarademoner
      @kiarademoner 4 місяці тому +1

      @@eringutsch it’s really sad. Now a days all I hear is people not taking things seriously because they don’t want to end up getting hurt. So it’s a vicious circle.

    • @eringutsch
      @eringutsch 4 місяці тому +2

      @@kiarademoner and at the same time you can be criticized for taking it too seriously

  • @CuongChanster
    @CuongChanster 4 місяці тому +2

    Need more bom bom 😅

  • @PsiIIyCybin
    @PsiIIyCybin 4 місяці тому +1

    Throw back to ask the feels

  • @TEGyeah
    @TEGyeah 4 місяці тому +2

    Can you add a payment method that works in Egypt, I can't subscribe to Patreon.

    • @eringutsch
      @eringutsch 4 місяці тому +1

      Oh no! I hope you can join soon. Sorry I don't have a solution

  • @100XPercentX
    @100XPercentX 4 місяці тому +3

    Loved this, now , I wanna know how did you guys let go of an ex lover like someone you really loved keeps popping up in your mind all the memories good and bad, what do you do?

  • @jameslee14
    @jameslee14 4 місяці тому +1

    My friend always, and I mean always, asks me when I visit them, like "when are you getting married". And all I wanna do is just enjoy my hobbies. Their reasoning too is that they wanna do couple things with other couples. Like then make friends with other couples, leave me alone

  • @Vincisomething
    @Vincisomething 4 місяці тому +1

    12:49 the issue is when they don't communicate that. Intensions mean nothing if you hurt them and they're left thinking you just played and hurt them lol

  • @lovelyylife
    @lovelyylife 4 місяці тому +1

    Goood episode

  • @Vboy123456
    @Vboy123456 4 місяці тому +7

    I really enjoyed this conversation. My ex and I ended our 4 year relationship and I honestly just want to be on my own. Not sure how long it’ll be when I’m ready to look again. But I’m just focusing on myself right now.

    • @hueyyang10
      @hueyyang10 4 місяці тому +1

      Good luck my man. Remember to treat yoself.

  • @MrCjlance
    @MrCjlance 4 місяці тому +1

    bruh i just got out of a 8 year relationship with my highschool partner (like Nick), and i agree with taking a year from dating, trying to find myself again and find my other half again.

  • @708Alex
    @708Alex 4 місяці тому +2

    silly nick

  • @BangtanTrash44
    @BangtanTrash44 4 місяці тому

    Honestly JK are literally my therapist 😅

  • @BIDONG8
    @BIDONG8 4 місяці тому

    Wheres the discord link?

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 4 місяці тому +1

      Through their patreon, linked in the description box below the vid.

  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 4 місяці тому +3

    Another epic segment, Careful Boyz crew. Thank you. 🙏 And thank you to all in the JK community who submitted questions for this segment to come to pass.

  • @lesleyroman9577
    @lesleyroman9577 4 місяці тому +1

    Am I the only one that thinks Kaylne wants nick?

    • @Cratees
      @Cratees 4 місяці тому

      don't you know they're siblings? it's why Kalyne is half Chinese

  • @TheTinyOrc
    @TheTinyOrc 4 місяці тому +2

    I went and adopted a dog

  • @ProcrastinatinZombie
    @ProcrastinatinZombie 4 місяці тому

    So basically I'll be alone forever lol

  • @latershooot
    @latershooot 4 місяці тому +3

    I can’t be single again. It’s too much work to get to know someone again 😅

    • @jw7268
      @jw7268 4 місяці тому +2

      It'll be fun for a few months but finding a new ride or die at my age will be rough 😂

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 4 місяці тому +2

    Yessss we love the discord and help everyone who needs advice about anything. Join and have fun with us. We get really deep in there at times as well.

    • @jbotosan
      @jbotosan 4 місяці тому +3

      the depth is balanced w/ goofiness - just all good vibes

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 4 місяці тому +1

      @@jbotosan definitely we are pretty goofy

  • @nobody-n9s
    @nobody-n9s 4 місяці тому

    If Bart, Joe and Nick would divorce their wives they wouldn’t even have to go on any apps bc all the ladies would flood their dms😂 they can pick and choose so it wouldn’t be the same as for regular people trying to date

  • @laateenreactieachter
    @laateenreactieachter 4 місяці тому

    But what if i don't like the game?

  • @imnugget8085
    @imnugget8085 4 місяці тому +1

    Someone ask thus. But didn't ask. What the gayest thing you have done

  • @freedamnsweetcree7235
    @freedamnsweetcree7235 4 місяці тому

    Hahahahahaha

  • @michaeldavin2009
    @michaeldavin2009 4 місяці тому

    I'm 50 been in a relationship since I was 23 if it ended I just need a couple F-Buddies and I would be happy

  • @fellyf89
    @fellyf89 4 місяці тому

    You can tell they are not single. The dating pool out here is trash 😂 ain't no one looking for substance Khalyne

  • @freedamnsweetcree7235
    @freedamnsweetcree7235 4 місяці тому

    I've been single for 5 years after a really shitty abusive relationship. So I've been taking my sweet time. Trying to make sure I don't fuck myself up worse out of feelings of loneliness. I'm doing my best to heal before I go start trying to be anything for anyone. ❤ gotta make sure I can show up for myself first. 😊

  • @Erica-ch2lg
    @Erica-ch2lg 4 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @Vincisomething
    @Vincisomething 4 місяці тому +1

    Im on discord technically but my patreon account is being dumb 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @eringutsch
      @eringutsch 4 місяці тому +1

      I wondered where you went, lol

    • @Vincisomething
      @Vincisomething 4 місяці тому

      @@eringutsch hopefully back soon lol

  • @ooops2567
    @ooops2567 4 місяці тому +1

    Ryan’s the best thing that ever happened to JK

  • @lavanperera96
    @lavanperera96 4 місяці тому

    100th comment

  • @Vincisomething
    @Vincisomething 4 місяці тому

    I know for a fact that i want someone to share my life with and it has NOTHING to do with societal pressures. I know i want to find someone soon and no amount of "aGe iS jusT a nUmbEr" will convince me. I don't care how many people over 40 - 50 are happy finding love for the first time. Good for them, it's not for me. I've done enough work and thought of it for too long enough to know what i want and what life will depress me.
    Humans are social creatures and it's weird seeing people in committed reationships being like, "you dont NEED a partner" as they benefit from a partnership.... People still need some sort of company, its why isolation is a huge punishment in prison... What's the point of friends if you're "whole enough and don't need anyone" lol. Friends are nice to have, its part of the human experience.

    • @Vincisomething
      @Vincisomething 4 місяці тому

      Sure we technically don't need others to feel whole but there are also studies that say being single or alone for too long causes loneliness, lower self esteem, lower hope, etc so.... Human interaction is a little more important than people give credit. Some people act like you should be able to handle living the rest of your life lonely and alone or it means you're too desperate.
      Its also annoying when people think friends or family is a 1:1 replacement. Sorry but I don't love friends, family, and significant others the same ways and so do most people. I'm sure married people need friends who aren't just each other lol.
      Why is it the people who are happily coupled or dont care about relationships always the one telling others you don't need to be with anyone lmao. If they had a completely different life and by some ill-fated event never met their spouse or found anyone that makes them feel the way their spouse does, would they give the same advice...?

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 4 місяці тому

      I know from watching Joe's vlogs, that after he and Jess broke up, Joe went back to traveling to other countries. It was solo traveling, and spending time with friends he would meet up with along the way. And hanging out with friends, enjoying the single life; from trying out van life camping, going on road trips, going dirt biking on the trails, and going hammock camping by a lake with friends. He hinted that he may have dated a couple people throughout that time on his travels. Then eventually he met Hannah. Edit: And even with Hannah, they have both said that they didn't expect when they first got together that it would lead to marriage. Yet after spending so much time getting to know each other, they fell in love, and decided they wanted to get married and be together.
      May you find what you are looking for in a partner to spend your life with.

    • @Vincisomething
      @Vincisomething 4 місяці тому +1

      @@bethnichols2875 I hope so, it's just tiring when people act like those who feel lonely bc they've been single or alone for too long just haven't learned how to love themselves. Or they're desperate. You can spend years on building yourself up, therapy, working, etc until you can genuinely love yourself and still want someone to share it with, it's just human nature. We still have needs and certain things do have a time limit. Self love, contrary to popular belief imo, doesn't solve everything. It's healthy to have and I'm not saying it's useless but prolonged feelings of loneliness makes it hard to hold onto and prioritize.
      It's also a pet peeve when people act like working on other relationships or having really good friends should somehow fix it. I love my friends but not like that lol. They're even different types of love and relationships from each other. If a kid was lacking parental figures, friends help to have for support but it's not the parental relationships they want or need. Being told to focus on other relationships when lacking in one feels like trying to fill a cup by overfilling a different one and hoping it trickles over. It's just when people act like humans can live in isolation and relationships/connections are completely optional, like it's a treat

  • @robustsauce3349
    @robustsauce3349 4 місяці тому +1

    Can't yall come up with better questions? Sheesh

    • @eringutsch
      @eringutsch 4 місяці тому +2

      Ain't no one stopping you from asking questions

  • @bumtobachelor1908
    @bumtobachelor1908 4 місяці тому +1

    This is gayest episode

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 4 місяці тому +2

      In other words, you aren't mature enough to handle adult conversations. Got it. 😏

  • @deviantnia
    @deviantnia 4 місяці тому

    TRUMP2024

    • @jw7268
      @jw7268 4 місяці тому +1

      Putin2028!

  • @HieuBris
    @HieuBris 4 місяці тому +5

    Bro I’m broke rn, but once I’m up imma be joining that Patreon 🙏🫡

  • @Bjmwwkids
    @Bjmwwkids 4 місяці тому +1

    😂😂😂😂😂🤣😭

  • @flammo9
    @flammo9 4 місяці тому

    Just show up 🫡