In hindsight, this was your most important video. After translating everything you were saying in my mind, it all makes sense now. Women are cowards. That’s what you are saying. They are cowards on such a deep level that they are running from their very themselves. And they give, whatever they think will keep the man in her life so that she can use his presence to Run from that insecurity. Proving to herself that she is not what she fears she is. Her core insecurity is that she is not good enough. And a “Good Guy” is just a man that will take on her feeling of not being good enough for her. He makes it that HE isn’t good enough so that she doesn’t feel that way. He isn’t validating her enough. He isn’t loving her enough. He isn’t listening enough. He isn’t giving enough. He isn’t patient enough. But unlike her, he doesn’t just think he is worthless. He is being logical and trying to solve the issue present for someone who he thinks he loves (aka attached to). The problem is: 1. She is not the woman he imagines in his head. The woman he pictures is the woman she wants him to believe 2. The more he invests himself in trying to bring out the woman he remembers, the more he is addicting himself to the cycle of pushing through the real her to get to the fantasy He thinks she is the fantasy and that the real her is in the way. But in reality, she is the real her. The toxic miserable critical blaming woman & the fantasy is something she gave. But to keep him from thinking that, she denies that the real her is this toxic being and instead always blames the guy. She is blaming to keep her real self hidden in plane sight, both from him AND herself. The whole reason she is with him is to have a distraction from how shitty she feels about herself. And now that she can feel shitty about the guy, she can function and be confident and all these other things she couldn’t do before. Guys mistake being caring for being loving. But that is her just giving the best fantasy she can for bait. When she finally builds her confidence, lifestyle, self esteem, or whatever at your expense, she will then discard you & call you weak and push you away as if it is your fault. This all so that she can keep the delusion in her mind that nothing is ever actually her fault. That’s how much of a coward she is. She doesn’t even have the dignity to accept that she got a lot of value out of you but is being selfish. She also needs to feel like she “selflessly” gave herself to you too to hold her Ego intact. The think Nelima calls “The Thought” is just Ego. She needs a massive Ego constantly reaffirmed to hide from herself how deeply worthless she feels about herself ALL THE TIME, about everything she is and does. Obviously, running will never work, especially not long term. As the relationship goes for longer, the slips will show and she will need, more and more, to take everything out on the guy. To play games and push and pull and poke at the guy to find any fault he will take on to make her feel less bad about herself. This is what gives her a sense of “clarity” - relief/distance from the insecurity that maybe she is bad, wrong, imperfect, evil. She will do this Until she genuinely deludes herself into believing she is better than him and better off without him (“he is weak and low value”). But not only is this not true (she has been depending on him and harvesting his energy the entire time), but she will still have herself & still be doing the same shit no matter where she goes or who she is with because she never dealt with her inner core issue. It’s like the urge for Hypergamy & survival is really just one long chain of consuming men. “High value men” really just are “Men who will prove to my Ego and my Insecurities that I am not worthless”. But the risk she takes in getting those men is that if they reject her, it would destroy her illusions so bad that she is terrified of them. So she wants “low value guys” who she feel she can easily control (even though she wish she could have “high value guys”. But it is all just narcissism really. Narcissism based in insecurity. The only way for her to really deal with her emotions is by accepting the insecurity. Not fighting it. Not running from it. Just accepting it for what it is and not trying to justify why she deserves or is worth less for them. HOWEVER, you cannot teach her, train her, love her, fix her or anything to make her get this. Because it is a process within her that is deeper than any logic you can try to explain. She won’t get it (and will probably see it as her controlling you or some other delusion). She has to figure it out on her own. Idk how you learned this Nelima but i am grateful that you did. I would like next to know how to determine a woman who has figured it out. What are signs that she has resolved this issue?
@@nigelharvey640 I'm glad you're understanding and are aware of the habits that exist in female nature when we always think we're right only to give power to thought to control herself and the man leading to slavery.
If I truly understand what you are saying it’s that women ain’t shit and they know it deep down that’s why they go in relationships with low value guys so they can get more confidence but in reality they want a certain type of guys ( high value men ) those type of guys don’t need them and will eventually treat them like shit cuz they know they true nature of female. So women get in relationships with low value men then get what they needed from those type of guys and just quit the relationship it’s crazy. The lesson have learn from this video its to put yourself first and not to fall in love with women and be the best version of yourself for yourself
Genius, that is the reason why we as men says women are complicated and I think they are, never analyse her psychologically never get attached emotionally or be obsessed with her, be in your masculine traits or else you will be torture psychologically
Wonderful video neilma keep up the good work, this is what men need men thought that they understood women but what's in this video is really part of understanding women
Its all about me, the only thing you can control is yourself. If red flags comes cut the person out of your life. Plain and simple. This is not only for relationship. Even other situations in life. Your experiences are all because of you. You can control your thoughts by analizing, control reaction.
Basically what youre saying is Women ideal man is a man who doesnt care about her behavior, any kind of guidance and trying to upgrade her will turn her off At the same time the man needs to be completly emotionally detached
And she rejects all wisdom and guidance by redirecting it to you Basically women cant operate outside of their ego (which is what you are calling “psychological analysation”)
That's me and my ex. I contacted her about 2 months ago and we would have gotten back together, but I was still in this pattern. Now I get it. Hope she will too
Well emotion is false perception. Everytime i got this ive been with manipulative woman, she push and pull me. Guess what, i dump them. The true emotion is peace or what they called unconditional love. Any emotion like romantic love, anger, hate, resentment are all base from ignorance of the situation which create attachment and suffering
Can you please use a pen which is silent not a marker next time... The sound from the marker on the paper gives a discomforting feeling to us that have misophonia. Thanks
13:05 Any guy who analyzes her & not willing to accept reality as it is = guy she can control When you say “not willing to accept reality”, do you mean the reality of the psychological torture? What reality are you talking about?
In hindsight, this was your most important video. After translating everything you were saying in my mind, it all makes sense now.
Women are cowards. That’s what you are saying.
They are cowards on such a deep level that they are running from their very themselves. And they give, whatever they think will keep the man in her life so that she can use his presence to Run from that insecurity.
Proving to herself that she is not what she fears she is.
Her core insecurity is that she is not good enough. And a “Good Guy” is just a man that will take on her feeling of not being good enough for her. He makes it that HE isn’t good enough so that she doesn’t feel that way.
He isn’t validating her enough. He isn’t loving her enough. He isn’t listening enough. He isn’t giving enough. He isn’t patient enough.
But unlike her, he doesn’t just think he is worthless. He is being logical and trying to solve the issue present for someone who he thinks he loves (aka attached to).
The problem is:
1. She is not the woman he imagines in his head. The woman he pictures is the woman she wants him to believe
2. The more he invests himself in trying to bring out the woman he remembers, the more he is addicting himself to the cycle of pushing through the real her to get to the fantasy
He thinks she is the fantasy and that the real her is in the way. But in reality, she is the real her. The toxic miserable critical blaming woman & the fantasy is something she gave.
But to keep him from thinking that, she denies that the real her is this toxic being and instead always blames the guy.
She is blaming to keep her real self hidden in plane sight, both from him AND herself.
The whole reason she is with him is to have a distraction from how shitty she feels about herself. And now that she can feel shitty about the guy, she can function and be confident and all these other things she couldn’t do before.
Guys mistake being caring for being loving. But that is her just giving the best fantasy she can for bait.
When she finally builds her confidence, lifestyle, self esteem, or whatever at your expense, she will then discard you & call you weak and push you away as if it is your fault. This all so that she can keep the delusion in her mind that nothing is ever actually her fault.
That’s how much of a coward she is. She doesn’t even have the dignity to accept that she got a lot of value out of you but is being selfish. She also needs to feel like she “selflessly” gave herself to you too to hold her Ego intact.
The think Nelima calls “The Thought” is just Ego. She needs a massive Ego constantly reaffirmed to hide from herself how deeply worthless she feels about herself ALL THE TIME, about everything she is and does.
Obviously, running will never work, especially not long term. As the relationship goes for longer, the slips will show and she will need, more and more, to take everything out on the guy. To play games and push and pull and poke at the guy to find any fault he will take on to make her feel less bad about herself. This is what gives her a sense of “clarity” - relief/distance from the insecurity that maybe she is bad, wrong, imperfect, evil.
She will do this Until she genuinely deludes herself into believing she is better than him and better off without him (“he is weak and low value”). But not only is this not true (she has been depending on him and harvesting his energy the entire time), but she will still have herself & still be doing the same shit no matter where she goes or who she is with because she never dealt with her inner core issue.
It’s like the urge for Hypergamy & survival is really just one long chain of consuming men. “High value men” really just are “Men who will prove to my Ego and my Insecurities that I am not worthless”. But the risk she takes in getting those men is that if they reject her, it would destroy her illusions so bad that she is terrified of them. So she wants “low value guys” who she feel she can easily control (even though she wish she could have “high value guys”. But it is all just narcissism really. Narcissism based in insecurity.
The only way for her to really deal with her emotions is by accepting the insecurity. Not fighting it. Not running from it. Just accepting it for what it is and not trying to justify why she deserves or is worth less for them.
HOWEVER, you cannot teach her, train her, love her, fix her or anything to make her get this. Because it is a process within her that is deeper than any logic you can try to explain. She won’t get it (and will probably see it as her controlling you or some other delusion). She has to figure it out on her own.
Idk how you learned this Nelima but i am grateful that you did. I would like next to know how to determine a woman who has figured it out. What are signs that she has resolved this issue?
I haven’t finished reading but this is hands down the best analysis I’ve seen on yt
@@nigelharvey640 I'm glad you're understanding and are aware of the habits that exist in female nature when we always think we're right only to give power to thought to control herself and the man leading to slavery.
You are a damaged little boy. Get over it and stop winning like a b1tch
If I truly understand what you are saying it’s that women ain’t shit and they know it deep down that’s why they go in relationships with low value guys so they can get more confidence but in reality they want a certain type of guys ( high value men ) those type of guys don’t need them and will eventually treat them like shit cuz they know they true nature of female. So women get in relationships with low value men then get what they needed from those type of guys and just quit the relationship it’s crazy. The lesson have learn from this video its to put yourself first and not to fall in love with women and be the best version of yourself for yourself
This summs it up perfectly. Have benn in a toxic relationship and it's exactly what happened.
Appropriate your knowledge from a woman’s perspective 🙌🏾🇬🇧
Welcome on board Zamal .
Poor Isaac's really havin some woman trouble 😅
@@dannydore8038 I know 😄.
@@dannydore8038 don’t worry about Isac..reverse psychology is at work here
I remember telling my girlfriend that I wanted to know the real her. I have never experienced such psychological pain))
@@TrueFeeder It's worthy moving on .
🤣🤣🤣🤣
👌🏿you broke it down nicely
Have some fun .
thnx for lowering background noise as per suggestion. now I can hear it better
@@godsbruh You welcome.
Genius, that is the reason why we as men says women are complicated and I think they are, never analyse her psychologically never get attached emotionally or be obsessed with her, be in your masculine traits or else you will be torture psychologically
I hope all men hear this Samuel.
I didn’t just hear. I feel
You are also a funny person. Those jokes in between are lit.
@@TheSouthAfricanPost It's glad to hear it from you.
Amazing info...
Wonderful video neilma keep up the good work, this is what men need men thought that they understood women but what's in this video is really part of understanding women
@@herublackgold6672 I'm glad to always deliver.
Its all about me, the only thing you can control is yourself. If red flags comes cut the person out of your life. Plain and simple. This is not only for relationship. Even other situations in life. Your experiences are all because of you. You can control your thoughts by analizing, control reaction.
It is true; there is no such thing as love between man and woman👌🏿
@@RandolphOyiejoiOburu clarity.
Basically what youre saying is
Women ideal man is a man who doesnt care about her behavior, any kind of guidance and trying to upgrade her will turn her off
At the same time the man needs to be completly emotionally detached
And she rejects all wisdom and guidance by redirecting it to you
Basically women cant operate outside of their ego (which is what you are calling “psychological analysation”)
That’s how I’m reading it as well
@@SaxT-h1h Any Psychological analysis = you being a slave to her for you'll never win her game. If she can't see your logic just leave .
Awesome!
@@josephwilliamroca 👍
That's me and my ex.
I contacted her about 2 months ago and we would have gotten back together, but I was still in this pattern.
Now I get it.
Hope she will too
@@nickskywalker2568 I wish you all the best . You got this .
Good presentation 👏
Glad you liked it
It's called chilvary women and it's not dead
Well emotion is false perception. Everytime i got this ive been with manipulative woman, she push and pull me. Guess what, i dump them. The true emotion is peace or what they called unconditional love. Any emotion like romantic love, anger, hate, resentment are all base from ignorance of the situation which create attachment and suffering
@@filipinoblackpill6194 which leads to long-term toxicity.
I think i heard this before from other channel.
@@filipinoblackpill6194 have fun.
this Isaac.
Basically stop valuing this 304s more than they’re worth
@@johnonivefu4299 Say no more.
💣
This was verryy psychologically logical ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
First
@@nickskywalker2568 have fun.
Can you please use a pen which is silent not a marker next time... The sound from the marker on the paper gives a discomforting feeling to us that have misophonia. Thanks
Next time turn off the sound, there are subtitles
@@robfinito4671 I totally understand yet most people have eye problems so. Turn off the sound of it helps .
13:05 Any guy who analyzes her & not willing to accept reality as it is = guy she can control
When you say “not willing to accept reality”, do you mean the reality of the psychological torture? What reality are you talking about?
@@nigelharvey640 The reality that he's being controlled through a specific pattern of his and leave = slavery.
@@thegreennelima Sounds like men`s love and care is being used against them.
You should use real life examples because everything is vague hard to understand
@@SaxT-h1h take your time .