My husband gave me permission to be with other men, has not touched me for 23 years | Tuko Talks

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  • @Tuko
    @Tuko  3 роки тому +115

    What message do you have for Penninah, you can reach her on 0722656083
    To share your story on Tuko Talks, send a well detailed brief of your story to lyn.ngugi@tuko.co.ke
    Thank you for watching:)

    • @denniswafulakktv5969
      @denniswafulakktv5969 3 роки тому +8

      Hii email yako niki such inakata

    • @penny4310
      @penny4310 3 роки тому +4

      Ikiwa nilituma mkanilenga, ! Niliona kama mnabagua.. ila nashukuru .

    • @b.9811
      @b.9811 3 роки тому +11

      Haujalengwa
      Just be Patient imagine milions of People send you sms or email in a day.
      They run in a screen like water u cant read all of them at atime.
      Someone send 3months ago u send today and just expect to get an answer just be patient.👍❤❤

    • @sophiaamimo7702
      @sophiaamimo7702 3 роки тому +5

      May GOD give her more strength.... It's not easy and also bless her for sharing with us.... Many women are going thru this very true

    • @janechege6996
      @janechege6996 3 роки тому +2

      @@penny4310 9z o9m o9ik

  • @dianajoel5732
    @dianajoel5732 3 роки тому +432

    Likes za Lynn if u love the way she interviews her guests

  • @nyongesalucy1027
    @nyongesalucy1027 3 роки тому +514

    All single mothers have a story behind their singleness so pls never judge

  • @macynzilani1142
    @macynzilani1142 3 роки тому +156

    Who can feel the pain of this mammy! May God hear her prayer we are together

  • @wambuigatiba9878
    @wambuigatiba9878 3 роки тому +322

    I think women should start knowing their worth,if they don't feel appreciated any longer,mostly in marriage,learn to choose yourself without caring how society will perceive you,peace of mind is everything...learn to walk away and believe that you are enough and can make it on your own with God's help

    • @EstellNEssy
      @EstellNEssy 3 роки тому +26

      I totally agree with you. Growing up, I was very observant. I saw how women were treated by their husbands and swore to myself that if I ever find myself being treated like I'm less than, I'm walking away! I'd rather be single and have a peaceful life.

    • @rachealwaithiramwaura8299
      @rachealwaithiramwaura8299 3 роки тому +6

      You are preaching to me

    • @janehughes6927
      @janehughes6927 3 роки тому +14

      @@EstellNEssy Great you said this since I was the same, I observed and hated how men were treated like small gods. I vowed never to be treated the same would rather stay single if that meant for life. I met a man who appreciated me, the person I am and no regrets.

    • @EstellNEssy
      @EstellNEssy 3 роки тому +9

      @@janehughes6927 same here, I noticed men were treated like mini gods... I knew at a young age that I wasn't interested in marriage if I were to spend the rest of my life miserable. To me marriage/ relationship is like an empty box, you take out what you put in it.
      Sadly, women give themselves too much only to be under appreciated and treated worse than animals...

    • @janehughes6927
      @janehughes6927 3 роки тому +6

      @@EstellNEssy marriages are not that bad if only the two involved are in for the right reasons and respect each other. It worked for me and never accepted to be treated like a slave or get abused in any form or shape.

  • @conrado.
    @conrado. 3 роки тому +403

    Watching frm Namibia desert. Over here Tuko is almost becoming a National TV. You inspire our Nation

  • @nellyokello7688
    @nellyokello7688 3 роки тому +49

    Story of my life and such men are the most polite in the eyes of the public..when you judge single mums make sure you know the story behind otherwise keep your mouth shut 🤫

    • @Tata-bd9nx
      @Tata-bd9nx 3 роки тому

      True...so polite and life of the party to outsiders...Did it happen to you after giving birth too or?

  • @joycemalicha7891
    @joycemalicha7891 3 роки тому +30

    I'm in tears😭😭 her self-respect is on another level. God bless you mum🙏

  • @evalunarbrown1235
    @evalunarbrown1235 3 роки тому +83

    Behind ever single mother their is a story that should not be taken for granted

  • @truelife1145
    @truelife1145 3 роки тому +80

    This should be a book, poor woman she has gone 😢😔through alot

  • @josephineogonda2859
    @josephineogonda2859 Рік тому +1

    Total respect mami. That one son will wipe away your tears

  • @nivandalulaxy9376
    @nivandalulaxy9376 3 роки тому +72

    Better broken friendship,relationship,than a broken marriage or being married but is like you've caged yourself ,wasted years in the name of love or children etc

  • @Smokeylucas
    @Smokeylucas 3 роки тому +268

    Peninah please change your prayers and ask God to send you a companion. It's not too late for you to experience happiness.

    • @nancywanjiru5468
      @nancywanjiru5468 3 роки тому +5

      Amen

    • @janeismukwa3982
      @janeismukwa3982 3 роки тому +3

      True

    • @hannaholuwabunmi177
      @hannaholuwabunmi177 3 роки тому +51

      I don’t think that one needs a companion to be happy in life. Sometimes it’s better to be alone and have peace of mind then having someone who puts you through hell. I have been a single parent since when my kids were small and I am now a grandma. So happy to around my family . I haven’t had sex over 25 years and I don’t miss it all. So much temptation in Europe but I kept busy with work and kids and honestly l very much prefer my life without a husband. Some of us weren’t meant to have companionship. This is my opinion

    • @maryannethuranira227
      @maryannethuranira227 3 роки тому +8

      Very true. Let her reverse her prayers esp apo nampeda this man to I pray for another love

    • @melowmel1442
      @melowmel1442 3 роки тому +3

      @@hannaholuwabunmi177 God bless you ma

  • @katlehom6008
    @katlehom6008 3 роки тому +60

    When my marriage fell apart my mom told me she never kicked me out. Make your happiness your 1st priority its not worth it and I ddnt want my son to grow up thinking his fathers behavior was normal or ok. Its okay to walk away and I'm thankful my mom doesn't condone nonsense like most African moms

  • @teckie__songsofworship6680
    @teckie__songsofworship6680 3 роки тому +137

    I'm reading comments and as we watch let's learn Not to judge others before we get to know about their stories..Thanks Tuko family for your great work,,,Keep it up Lynn😇🔥🎊

    • @certifiedneptunes9982
      @certifiedneptunes9982 3 роки тому +1

      True💯don't be judgemental

    • @a.muchemi4360
      @a.muchemi4360 3 роки тому +2

      You can't tell others on how to react on issues, why do most Kenyan like to dictate??? Everyone isn't you and all the opinions are varied even those who want to judge ....

    • @reflections4me
      @reflections4me 3 роки тому +1

      No we have to judge. So we can learn how to grow and move on. Let’s judge do tomorrow we don’t make the same mistakes because we already know how it feels when we do it to others. People make so many excuses for their mistakes. Let’s judge. We Africans think marriage is a badge of honor and it is not. Women are dying to keep an evil man and his demons family happy. Let’s judge because our mothers line to make themselves as victims, that is the reason why us daughters we make the same mistakes as them .

  • @terryanyango9804
    @terryanyango9804 3 роки тому +113

    Why give fellow human such POWER OVER YOU. Patieni God such power....he can never treat you bad

  • @ediewerbung3051
    @ediewerbung3051 3 роки тому +56

    You can still feel the pain in her voice😭😭😭😭may God give her strength to forgive, give her son a loving heart, and the father grace of repentance.

  • @annettemwenesi6443
    @annettemwenesi6443 3 роки тому +64

    This story reminds me my past , I remember living in the forest na mtoto wa 3 weeks only to save my mum's marriage, but I thank God he was there for me because he's GOD by himself anything can be compared by him .Hallelujah!

  • @AnonyMous-gb7qh
    @AnonyMous-gb7qh 3 роки тому +17

    Women/Girls anyone!!!! There is no victory or good reward for suffering. Leave at the 1st chance and never look back!

  • @elizamwande6396
    @elizamwande6396 3 роки тому +34

    The problem is there and I believe most women are really suffering out there. May God come and intervene to our marriages.

  • @amani7371
    @amani7371 3 роки тому +76

    I have been there. I never stopped praying. My prayers were answered big time. Currently living happily with my children in Europe. May the same God see you through 🙏🙏

  • @hcitor
    @hcitor 3 роки тому +131

    Writing this from Africa. From the bottom of my heart I wish everyone reading this to prosper in 2021...May you all find peace ✌May we all win, there's enough for everyone, abundance is everywhere. Me or you winning no one is going to lose!!!!!!!

  • @vanekemu7314
    @vanekemu7314 3 роки тому +142

    Don't judge someone ,single mother's we are strong

    • @nurafedrick378
      @nurafedrick378 3 роки тому +1

      Yes thanks dea

    • @NancyNancy-kq6ws
      @NancyNancy-kq6ws 3 роки тому +5

      Yes we are am proud mother of two cute boys and I thank God for rescuing my life for that prison sentence of the so called marriage

    • @catherinemiriithi5187
      @catherinemiriithi5187 3 роки тому +1

      Nyumba ni mama, women should be the pillar of their home,

    • @joizkeym6563
      @joizkeym6563 3 роки тому +2

      Yes we are and we thank Lord

    • @alicegege7
      @alicegege7 3 роки тому +1

      Yes we are

  • @catherinejimmy1022
    @catherinejimmy1022 3 роки тому +53

    I have barrier of"you can say anything to me but you can not hit me"people who love you they don't treat you badly, love doesn't hurt it support to feel good

    • @violakabigabwa9240
      @violakabigabwa9240 3 роки тому +1

      Totally agree, women we like to persist but current educated women chei they will bring 3 children different dads

    • @rosierosita.7235
      @rosierosita.7235 3 роки тому +2

      Me I refused someone to say anything to me too, alaaa wachana na mimi kapsaa

  • @millybilly8210
    @millybilly8210 3 роки тому +25

    Tuko talks is the best thing that happened to Kenya Lynn and and the Tuko crew may you be blessed cause everyday I learn something new.

  • @j.munenekingdom28
    @j.munenekingdom28 3 роки тому +15

    Mum someone who beats you whether little or senseless does not love you at all .If a man starts to abuse you please move on before its too late. Pole sana .

  • @beatricegathitu1619
    @beatricegathitu1619 3 роки тому +110

    I passed this after giving birth to my second born,he even changed bed akaenda kulala ya wageni,but I was OK,I suffered 1 year but later we separated,its really painful indeed,I understand you 23 years

    • @elizabethkoki7526
      @elizabethkoki7526 3 роки тому +4

      Sorry mom, hope you are doing well now..

    • @brandyharriet753
      @brandyharriet753 3 роки тому +1

      Woie its psinful. Heri ujitoe tu

    • @erenestawanjiru1935
      @erenestawanjiru1935 3 роки тому

      Pole Saana Mum

    • @angelawambui1468
      @angelawambui1468 3 роки тому +4

      WAITED FOR A WHOLE YEAR .REALLY? SERIOUSLY? TOO LONG. LADIES YOU ARE WORTH MORE THSN THAT. ABUSE AND LOVE DONT GO TOGETHER AT ALL.END OF STORY.

    • @narcissisticabuseawareness3607
      @narcissisticabuseawareness3607 3 роки тому +19

      @@angelawambui1468 please understand that this woman had just given birth.

  • @fionawitaba8494
    @fionawitaba8494 3 роки тому +16

    It's crazily amazing how this woman is still strong and talking. Almost a miracle. The kind of emotional and mental torture she must have gone through woiye. Take heart mama ❤️❤️. You are strong and beautiful and God is definitely on your side.

  • @judyngeno227
    @judyngeno227 3 роки тому +12

    Somebody tell our women it is okay to walk away from toxic relationships. Suffering in the name of society eye should and needs to be withdrawn. We deserve happiness all the same.

  • @lydiahchepkemoi9464
    @lydiahchepkemoi9464 3 роки тому +56

    Lyn may be u can bring a therapist to tell us how to solve such cases in the event they happen in marriages... such a good lesson learnt from this story

  • @KarimiRosemary
    @KarimiRosemary 3 роки тому +11

    Sometimes hii story ya marriage I don't even understand. When you are single, you think the married are happy then you listen to such a story! Oya this is hard, but those who thought that one cannot do without sex, story ndio hiyo, 23 years and counting, it's all in your mind!

  • @annwainaina5853
    @annwainaina5853 3 роки тому +73

    God of Restoration intervene, No burden He cannot carry away from live. Break every yoke lord With your Mighty power in your Name Jesus.

  • @extrovert5829
    @extrovert5829 3 роки тому +12

    Hey!!! Reke ngwire it's not bed of roses . If you aren't valued and appreciated let's learn to step big big we only have one life to live unhappy. Shout out to all single mothers

  • @eustinamandigo1282
    @eustinamandigo1282 3 роки тому +76

    Hello Kenya
    Watching all
    The way from
    Botswana

  • @marya_kenya1960
    @marya_kenya1960 3 роки тому +82

    Without further ado let me let her introduce herself...Mami,habari yako....
    We have all mastered your intro😊
    We love you Lynn

  • @hopiesavage6793
    @hopiesavage6793 3 роки тому +91

    This story reminds me of my dad he used to behave the same coming and leaving we were so bitter with him as growing up kids until he fell very sick and we discovered he was HIV positive, and did not want to infect my mum,

    • @apparently2972
      @apparently2972 3 роки тому +18

      Atleast he protected your mum

    • @Janetlulonde
      @Janetlulonde 3 роки тому +7

      He could have told her

    • @lucynjuguna9653
      @lucynjuguna9653 3 роки тому +5

      @@Janetlulonde the shame would not have allowed it

    • @Janetlulonde
      @Janetlulonde 3 роки тому +4

      @@lucynjuguna9653 okay though I feel keeping secrets destroys relationships.

    • @cyprinekemuntomose3157
      @cyprinekemuntomose3157 3 роки тому +3

      @@apparently2972 haki woyee

  • @erenestawanjiru1935
    @erenestawanjiru1935 3 роки тому +200

    God We Need You In Our Homes.....We Can't Continue Living Like This Anymore.

    • @susanapollo284
      @susanapollo284 3 роки тому +6

      Do men really say when they become impotent? If they feel the shame of saying they can't do the job. They feel it's shameful. Others it's because they have HIV and they don't want to infect you

    • @elizamwande6396
      @elizamwande6396 3 роки тому +3

      Trur

    • @erenestawanjiru1935
      @erenestawanjiru1935 3 роки тому +1

      @@susanapollo284
      Well Spoken.....

    • @catherinenzioka9131
      @catherinenzioka9131 3 роки тому +2

      True. Life is very spiritual.

    • @Starsparkle69YT
      @Starsparkle69YT 3 роки тому +1

      True

  • @Boardgames_254
    @Boardgames_254 3 роки тому +81

    As women we should learn how to pray and break the chains and bondages the enemy put us through ...May God protect Marriages.

    • @nicolegilo
      @nicolegilo 3 роки тому

      @Essy Saya Vlogs 🤣🤣

    • @Boardgames_254
      @Boardgames_254 3 роки тому +2

      @Essy Saya Vlogs Nisupport Tuko

    • @jwaithera9309
      @jwaithera9309 3 роки тому +7

      One word for this situation is witchcraft

    • @nomsantsoane3984
      @nomsantsoane3984 3 роки тому +11

      God doesn't answer prayers of choice. He can't make your man love you if he doesn't

    • @Janetlulonde
      @Janetlulonde 3 роки тому

      Amen and amen

  • @marselinadena7618
    @marselinadena7618 3 роки тому +12

    I'm real proud for my mom, I have nothing to regret in my life, she gave me good life although she was single mama, RIP mama, kweli usimjaji mtu usiemjua au hata kama wamjua maana hujui ni nini anapitia, kama Huna cha kushauri ni bora ufunge mdomo,

  • @edwinkiarie3857
    @edwinkiarie3857 3 роки тому +109

    I hope Lynn is having a counselor for herself, listening to these stories every time needs a lot of mental support.

    • @jackmahero96
      @jackmahero96 3 роки тому +5

      yea.. couldn't agree more!

    • @rutendop3226
      @rutendop3226 3 роки тому +7

      Lynn,you are strong to be listening to such sad stories constantly.I sincerely hope you have a coping mechanism in place because listening to negative stuff all the time can affect a person mentally.Bit thank you for airing these stories,we learn a lot.

    • @faithkirui2814
      @faithkirui2814 3 роки тому +2

      Soo painful...but God is faithful

    • @marykinuthia6067
      @marykinuthia6067 3 роки тому +1

      Hopefully she does.

    • @evelyntabitha718
      @evelyntabitha718 3 роки тому +2

      I hope so. it is so important for her to be seeing a counselor once a month.

  • @Kasweetie_254
    @Kasweetie_254 3 роки тому +58

    Never judge someone because she's a single mom or father , 😥😥there's a story behind them choosing that life or finding them in that state

  • @kevohwapipelinetransami4351
    @kevohwapipelinetransami4351 3 роки тому +68

    Thanks to Tuko News everyday they are bringing new stories which will help our society💪💪💪Keep them coming..

  • @FaridaKaru
    @FaridaKaru 3 роки тому +98

    9 minutes in 😢 I hate gender-based violence 😭😭 This African notion of women sacrificing their own happiness for men is a thing of the past

    • @Kakwasi
      @Kakwasi 3 роки тому +1

      Makes me so mad

    • @tida3727
      @tida3727 3 роки тому +1

      I second you..😢😢😢😢😢

    • @princessshamim6539
      @princessshamim6539 3 роки тому +1

      😭😭 it's sickening

    • @josephinemichael1514
      @josephinemichael1514 3 роки тому

      Correct✍💯

    • @juliemwangi115
      @juliemwangi115 3 роки тому

      Women were never born to suffer and throw away their life and future in the name of 'kuvumilia'

  • @CherieDeDieu
    @CherieDeDieu 3 роки тому +26

    "We are the commanders of our brains.".....I love that. Thank you Mum. God bless you.

  • @deborahmoige4476
    @deborahmoige4476 3 роки тому +18

    Stories that are never revealed i always find them here, tuko big up. Mama ur strong

  • @faithkerubo6760
    @faithkerubo6760 3 роки тому +35

    'Never judge anyone if you don't know his/her story' peninah God will send you a companion it's not too late for your happiness.

    • @evelynbrenda7373
      @evelynbrenda7373 3 роки тому +1

      If you do not know my story, please do not Judge me.

    • @catherinemumbua8251
      @catherinemumbua8251 3 роки тому +1

      Faith kerubo question is does she want a companion or she is still hanging onto that "husband" of hers

    • @blasiomuhinda
      @blasiomuhinda 3 роки тому

      @@catherinemumbua8251 Women are smitten by bad boys.

  • @johngachiani3739
    @johngachiani3739 3 роки тому +1

    Pole Sana kwa masaibu ya kimaisha Cha msingi wewe Ni mcha mungu . Machozi unayo Lia leo kesho mungu atabadilisha utalia machozi ya furaha na faraja Bora mtegeme mungu usijichangaye kimahaba . Tunawapata tukiwa marekani.

  • @nyamburamatanda
    @nyamburamatanda 3 роки тому +61

    Let's normalise walking away from pain. Whatever costs you happiness and dignity is not worth it. Its IS NOT AN ACHIEVEMENT TO BE MARRIED. Let's stop calling people strong for staying in abusive relationships. It has nothing to do with God because He only has plans to prosper us. Walk out of abusive situations please. There is life on the other side. No one was put on this earth to be mistreated and abused by anyone. Walk out! Such a life is not worth living!!!

    • @aliceodeki8132
      @aliceodeki8132 3 роки тому +2

      That was my prayer to get a place to call home with my daughter and God provided glory to God.

    • @charlesmungo6782
      @charlesmungo6782 3 роки тому

      I agree, unfortunately it was too late for my sister. I was unable to help her though I tried.

    • @Jabepoma
      @Jabepoma 3 роки тому

      Truth

    • @malihaa5158
      @malihaa5158 3 роки тому

      Exactly 👌

    • @moryngerald6053
      @moryngerald6053 3 роки тому

      I couldn't agree better

  • @angelawambui1468
    @angelawambui1468 3 роки тому +119

    WE AS WOMEN NEED TO GO BACK TO THE DRAWING BOARD AND ASK,'WHAT IS LOVE? HOW DO I KNOW AM LOVED? OR IS IT FANTASY BEING MISTAKEN FOR SO CALLED LOVE.

    • @NK-so8ep
      @NK-so8ep 3 роки тому +15

      As kids we are sold Cinderella type of love, as teenagers or adults we are sold Telenova type of love of pain, betrayal but in the end it's all roses. But in reality it's never any of them. We need to teach our young girls the truth

    • @mwaviswaemily3317
      @mwaviswaemily3317 3 роки тому +2

      @@NK-so8ep on point

    • @officialsuzienyaks8890
      @officialsuzienyaks8890 3 роки тому

      Very true

    • @cyprinekemuntomose3157
      @cyprinekemuntomose3157 3 роки тому +1

      @@NK-so8ep well said

    • @watchcynthiag391
      @watchcynthiag391 3 роки тому

      Angela Wambui well said

  • @shadrackogweo6457
    @shadrackogweo6457 3 роки тому +4

    Wanaume mungu akikupa mke please mlinde like a queen 👑.... God help me and my wife to continue staying together with love and peace 🕊️🕊️💞💞💞💕😊😊😊

  • @nyongesalucy1027
    @nyongesalucy1027 3 роки тому +5

    My sister you nailed it never enter in a relationship where there in no vacancy , I know what you are talking about , I was there, am now 7 years single never had a man since. ; no sex for 7 years and its because of prayer.

  • @AnonyMous-gb7qh
    @AnonyMous-gb7qh 3 роки тому +12

    No one should tolerate this type of violence. Hakuna kuvumilia!!!! LEAVE!!!

  • @allanmwangi8732
    @allanmwangi8732 3 роки тому +55

    The lady has gone through a lot. Lack of intimacy in marriages is emotionally draining and has led to people doing a lot of bad things. Lynne please try and get a man to share their story along the same line because many are suffering in silence. Thanks for the good work

    • @BlackPanther-lt7wr
      @BlackPanther-lt7wr 3 роки тому +3

      Men dont want to speak up, that's the problem

    • @evenichol6020
      @evenichol6020 3 роки тому +1

      I second that, let one man volunteer and explain to us

  • @missymissy4817
    @missymissy4817 3 роки тому +15

    Everytime i listen to tuko talks, i love myself more and appreciate God for making / allowing me to be a single mum 🤗. I understand now that HE is always protecting me from something. Hugs mum God has you in mind

  • @frashiahwangari2177
    @frashiahwangari2177 3 роки тому +12

    Never judge a single/divorced mother. Most went thro hell to get to that. Love to all single mothers.

  • @CarriedbyGod254
    @CarriedbyGod254 3 роки тому +6

    Hi, Lynn. This is so amazing... Please highlight more stories of single mothers and how they end up being single... Plus everything they go through. Kenyans need to change their perspective on single motherhood. Thanks.

  • @shikohmuriithi5216
    @shikohmuriithi5216 3 роки тому +45

    This was too much emotional torture,🥺🥺.Women Let us learn to love ourselves,sio lazma mwanaume akupende..

    • @MK37TV
      @MK37TV 3 роки тому

      Unaweza jipenda mwenye lakini we are social beings, we need affection and love from others unless you are numb..

    • @ndapewacmunashimwe6045
      @ndapewacmunashimwe6045 3 роки тому

      @@MK37TV I one of the orchard women it's very painful and no more love.

  • @Dennis_Okelo
    @Dennis_Okelo 3 роки тому +20

    Today I am praying for all single people outta there

    • @billwill2210
      @billwill2210 3 роки тому

      Pray for your self first before you volunteer,kizuri chajiuza kibaya chajitembeza.

  • @damariskaroki5455
    @damariskaroki5455 3 роки тому +17

    I'm just imagining if there were no platforms like this, there would be no outlet for some...

  • @MissOgake
    @MissOgake 3 роки тому +280

    I would never condone this nonsense in the name of love. Women should understand that they are worthy and beautiful, what kind of life is this now?🤔🤔🤔

    • @marywambui8612
      @marywambui8612 3 роки тому +9

      True unamuodokea na nakaa maisha yangu Aiiiih!

    • @magdalenamumbi3950
      @magdalenamumbi3950 3 роки тому +5

      Unachapwa unachapwa na uko tu hapo lol

    • @ThanksThanks-ys8yl
      @ThanksThanks-ys8yl 3 роки тому +8

      Very true especially when the man best you up until you have miscarriage and you go back there something is wrong there. Woman we need to love and appreciate ourselves

    • @Atotibabe
      @Atotibabe 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly

    • @MissOgake
      @MissOgake 3 роки тому +2

      Very shameful ,sad and draining for anyone to accommodate pain in the name of love.

  • @ken4722
    @ken4722 3 роки тому +11

    She should focus on her happiness. It's okay to move on and find better. She seems too focused on the principle of morality, she forgets life is short

  • @soffymicah7380
    @soffymicah7380 3 роки тому +32

    This channel has taught me alot Lynn God bless you....some men are really heartless animals

  • @noelamadadi5731
    @noelamadadi5731 3 роки тому +16

    The society should stop judging single moms, God intervene, thanks Tuko, we learning,bila kusahau mama you are beautiful.

    • @angelawambui1468
      @angelawambui1468 3 роки тому +1

      They should NEVER BE JUDGED. Many times a man's irresponsibility is what led a woman there. Cowardly so called men.

    • @nomsantsoane3984
      @nomsantsoane3984 3 роки тому

      Onething I realized is that behind every single mother, there's a story .

  • @felistusfrancis2353
    @felistusfrancis2353 3 роки тому +8

    Surely hiyo miaka yote bila twa twa twa.wah.sigwesi.Pole sana mama Penninah.

  • @winniendinda8435
    @winniendinda8435 3 роки тому +51

    Usiwahi kaa na mwanaume before akupeleka kwao..I choose to wait upon God.

    • @beatricemulama9046
      @beatricemulama9046 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly

    • @estherkingola8325
      @estherkingola8325 3 роки тому +40

      Aki kupelekwa home means nothing..just pray God to give you the right person

    • @elizamwande6396
      @elizamwande6396 3 роки тому +7

      My dear sis usiseme ukamaliza omba mwanamume kutoka kwa mungu, watu huplekwa wakafanya harusi babu kubwa na mambo yakaharibika kwa hivyo nikuomba Sana tena sana.

    • @peterkagwai5667
      @peterkagwai5667 3 роки тому +2

      Thanks for that advice

    • @annnduku7709
      @annnduku7709 3 роки тому +4

      Tulipelekwa na tukaachwa na tukapitia mambo mangumu

  • @puritykariuki3373
    @puritykariuki3373 3 роки тому +14

    Many women have gone through such situations but the thing is how you handle yourself.

  • @Nothwest
    @Nothwest 3 роки тому +51

    So sad when a Man calls you another woman's Name, to those who take other people's Husbands your Life will never be Blessed, these women sleep with Prayers asking God to Punish you

    • @rosenzuki2277
      @rosenzuki2277 3 роки тому

      Very true

    • @shantalmnjala6903
      @shantalmnjala6903 3 роки тому +1

      Sure. Na malipo ni hapa hapa duniani.

    • @shiromohammed893
      @shiromohammed893 3 роки тому

      Smart woman

    • @caroshiro3294
      @caroshiro3294 3 роки тому +2

      Remember most men do not mention that they have families so some of the women could be innocent

    • @sheesheykoh3574
      @sheesheykoh3574 3 роки тому

      So true experiencing this and I tell you what God fights one battles if you ask him. It's good to choose your battles as well as doing what's best for you and your sanity.

  • @flonya1334
    @flonya1334 3 роки тому +11

    Peninah, you are a blessed lady. May God give you peace...but hio family lineage inataka deliverance so it doesn't happen to your descendants

  • @johnkamau5901
    @johnkamau5901 3 роки тому +12

    Everything comes with a reason just flow like the river and don't regret or turn back

  • @faridahfaddy6994
    @faridahfaddy6994 3 роки тому +75

    No offense but it seems like most of these men are really troubled . It’s like the only example these men had while growing up is their own fathers beating their mothers. So they grow up thinking that that’s how a man is supposed to treat a woman. It’s sad . 😕😕.These days I feel sorry for all these young girls rushing into marriage or rushing to move in with a man. Marriage is hard. Most of these men have no idea how to treat or love a woman the right way, they are not gentle at all.

    • @fatimatual-hassan5121
      @fatimatual-hassan5121 3 роки тому +1

      I agree with you. Not all of them though . Some people are just born wicked that's all

    • @mamafi70
      @mamafi70 3 роки тому +1

      Ni kueli kabisa.

    • @bettykerubonwekesa5441
      @bettykerubonwekesa5441 3 роки тому +1

      So true

    • @ibelieveingodamen7859
      @ibelieveingodamen7859 3 роки тому

      Very true

    • @faridahfaddy6994
      @faridahfaddy6994 3 роки тому +1

      @@fatimatual-hassan5121 That’s why I said most men. I never said all men. My husband is one of the good ones too. So I know there are some good men.

  • @millyadhiambo238
    @millyadhiambo238 3 роки тому +7

    My sister l can relate to this 100%l went through it @27yrs, b strong 💪 hold your son with 💘 leaving everything at the cross of Jesus.ALIFUNGWA NA HAO WANADADA Watalia.

    • @Tata-bd9nx
      @Tata-bd9nx 3 роки тому

      What happened? Was it after child birth that you experienced this or?

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 3 роки тому +62

    Every day i learn something new from this Channel 😀❤️

    • @Pena-k1h
      @Pena-k1h 3 роки тому +3

      Salamia diaspora

    • @beatricemulama9046
      @beatricemulama9046 3 роки тому +2

      Wanjiru ur so much supportive,isaw u almost everywhere thanz u gal

    • @winniemutuku8346
      @winniemutuku8346 3 роки тому +2

      I never miss your comment girl! Love fr Canada 💕💕💕

    • @karenwambui8371
      @karenwambui8371 3 роки тому +2

      Lol you're allover 😂😂

    • @rosemwai8791
      @rosemwai8791 3 роки тому

      Oòh here you are.
      Was looking for you.
      Show ya Lynn haijakamilika bila kukuona.
      😍😍🤩🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🙌🙌🙌

  • @rosestasang3396
    @rosestasang3396 3 роки тому +16

    I always say never judge anyone if you don't know his or her story..Many people wanavumilia sana kwa ndoa cos they can't speak it out.We smile out here but deep down we are hurt....

  • @hannahwambuikambowe4237
    @hannahwambuikambowe4237 3 роки тому +7

    This is yet another one of your awesome 👌releases... its an eye opener to many. Pennina you are a courageous and strong woman. I admire your ability that you have never ashamed your son by bringing a man in your home👍

  • @sharonnasambu6753
    @sharonnasambu6753 3 роки тому +6

    I will always choose ME. 😭😭 Sorry when he hit you once just be sure he will hit you again and again WOMAN run for you life 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

  • @lucywanjala8085
    @lucywanjala8085 3 роки тому +9

    May the lord bless you mammy ay the lord protect you and your son and always provide for you ,you are a child of God and he will never leave you nor forsake you ,your hubby needs deliverance as well it's not his fault

  • @icekewley6725
    @icekewley6725 3 роки тому +5

    Tuko talks your program has a huge following in TRINIDAD and TOBAGO i love this show

  • @susannduta2053
    @susannduta2053 3 роки тому +84

    I wish women could learn to say no to married men. Imagine the pain this woman has gone through 😥😥😥.

    • @shakweilifestyle9912
      @shakweilifestyle9912 3 роки тому +35

      I wish men would stop cheating on their wives, thats the narrative!

    • @wambsmie
      @wambsmie 3 роки тому +7

      @@shakweilifestyle9912 I wish women would learn to say NO.

    • @carolynegichangi8012
      @carolynegichangi8012 3 роки тому +10

      Why blame the woman only?.. it's usually a 50-50 participation from both the married man and the other woman

    • @wambsmie
      @wambsmie 3 роки тому +8

      @@carolynegichangi8012 No one is blaming the women.. A woman is a gate keeper if she locks it no one can enter.. Women have the power.. We are just encouraging them to know their power's and worth.

    • @carolynegichangi8012
      @carolynegichangi8012 3 роки тому +1

      @@wambsmie I get you now

  • @timothymsobor3050
    @timothymsobor3050 3 роки тому +34

    "We are the commanders of our brains." Penninar.

    • @laurarutto1637
      @laurarutto1637 3 роки тому

      sure

    • @hellenwanjugu7249
      @hellenwanjugu7249 3 роки тому

      Very very true

    • @aicumoja2family542
      @aicumoja2family542 3 роки тому +1

      Very painful & touching story of penninah.
      I appreciate Peninah for strong faoth & fighting spirit- plz don't give up God has no dustbin of prayers. He makes a way where seems to be no way, even springs of water in the desert.
      Your hubby needs counselling to accept himself & open up to be helped; and more importantly led to accept Jesus as Lord & Savoir.
      Then prayer for deliverance from whatever bondage he may be in- God is able to deliver Him once he believes in Him.

  • @Nbdhhjjirtynnmmklgfdsssssrrth
    @Nbdhhjjirtynnmmklgfdsssssrrth 3 роки тому +3

    This world is very harsh. Lyn you have opened our eyes very much through Tuko. But in most of these cases have a lot of parental upbringing failure.
    But as for you Peninah, don't give up on GOD. HE sees everything on earth.

  • @jovitahnafula7833
    @jovitahnafula7833 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks Peninah for being this strong and may God grant peace of your heart

  • @lucymumbi3797
    @lucymumbi3797 3 роки тому +14

    A prayerful Woman is a Strong Woman. Many blessings to you Peninah.

  • @shikuliz4134
    @shikuliz4134 3 роки тому +1

    I understand your pain mum .. abstaining is the only option for people like us who don't love kurukaruka..many will not understand you buy truly understand you ..my situation now for 6 yrs now .. but I will give it a chance when I will find the right person.

  • @emmychannel5563
    @emmychannel5563 3 роки тому +5

    Lovely presentation as usual. I want to encourage the lady to continue to hold on to God . Her labor to her son and others will be rewarded one day.

  • @TeeTee-bx8bk
    @TeeTee-bx8bk 3 роки тому +5

    Hujachapa... hujachapa🤗 true ... likes za Lynn wapi.🇰🇪 Best interviewer East Africa ❤

  • @doreenkanje9839
    @doreenkanje9839 3 роки тому +6

    Everyday I learne something new in ths charnel , first hapa hakukua na love so ukiona mwanaume anakutrt vibaya from relationship better move on usingoje kuuliwa😥😥😥😥

  • @mumbigitiha9571
    @mumbigitiha9571 3 роки тому +5

    Self esteem should start being offered in primary sch.

  • @madestynjeri6569
    @madestynjeri6569 3 роки тому +56

    I just like how lynn asks,,,,,,""na ebu niulizeeee""😂😂😂😂

    • @chepkorireddah323
      @chepkorireddah323 3 роки тому +1

      Kwanza Mimi I love you Lynn, she is great in this role of interviewing people

    • @nassysakia9511
      @nassysakia9511 3 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @madlinemasiga3008
      @madlinemasiga3008 3 роки тому

      We as women we passed true hard time my husband also did to m almost 4 yrs without touching m it's Soo painful. I understand how she was feeling

  • @muthonimwajesu4664
    @muthonimwajesu4664 3 роки тому +2

    😂😂😂mi nilikua naitwa Eunice Mara Ruth mwishowe nkaambiwa nkalale na mbwa so I left after suffering a bad depression today am happy very strong single mother of three babies so dear lady be of good courage my dear keep going dear tuko wengi

  • @GoytaDembiya
    @GoytaDembiya 3 роки тому +5

    This woman has been through hell. Thank you for speaking out your story. To the bad men out there, please have fear of God & leave your woman if you aren’t happy with them. Stop hurting them. Yeah, it’s possible to live without sex bc we are the commanders of our brains.

  • @elinahmwambuki400
    @elinahmwambuki400 3 роки тому +4

    l love this lady coz she really respect herself continue keeping yourself coz your body is the temple of God

  • @grace_gracious
    @grace_gracious 3 роки тому +3

    May God see thro you Peninah , she's a wonderful mum , with good spirit who fears God ..the LORD will deliver your husband from those evil
    N help him to b open . Peninah has a call in her life to serve God. Her patience is of another level n God will bless her son with many children ..the devil is a defeated liar in Jesus mighty name ! .

  • @ndapewacmunashimwe6045
    @ndapewacmunashimwe6045 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you I will do soo

  • @melsaotieno1234
    @melsaotieno1234 3 роки тому +10

    We are the commanders of our brains 🥰 I love that 🥰🥰

  • @jacklinekirera2980
    @jacklinekirera2980 3 роки тому +1

    iyo kitu pia mmi ilinifanyikia hadi nikamua kwenda saudia arebia ju siwezi ka kwanyumba na mwanaume pila kuonana na yye kimwili aki mma God bless you

  • @victorinelingo4922
    @victorinelingo4922 3 роки тому +8

    Watching from Canada . Woow just to let you know y’all don’t go to marriage cause of the society cause society doesn’t care

  • @esthernzisa6284
    @esthernzisa6284 3 роки тому +2

    Tuned from USA. This program is doing alot to many poeple and l am so thankful to it too. One thing l know this tambia of some of Wakamba it's almost the same. Some of our men don't respect their women. I thank GOD because nowadays the government has made laws to help women and children otherwise our time it was you and your husband no turning back. Pole sana my sister and don't get used to these problems.

  • @annettemwenesi6443
    @annettemwenesi6443 3 роки тому +39

    Am sending prayer, hugs ,love and light to anyone going through tough moments,may our good lord heard ur cry and wipe your tears , it will be fine soon I mean soon in ijn

  • @CoolkenyanInisrael
    @CoolkenyanInisrael 3 роки тому +13

    Self love n worth is important....sad story

  • @nankihoaeane4396
    @nankihoaeane4396 3 роки тому +16

    When a devil attacks a family, its always one of the partners who opened the door to devil. Adultery will always come with he devil. If this man did not go out anothrr would have not got his manhood

    • @miltononyango
      @miltononyango 3 роки тому

      the door is the man hood ....taken ...so sad