Navigating Teenagehood with Confidence - Conversation with Naliaka of Gingko Africa

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  • Опубліковано 21 гру 2024

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  • @bimkurugenzi
    @bimkurugenzi  Рік тому +33

    We have a giveaway. To win this book, please answer the question below.
    What is the most difficult conversation you’ve had with your teenager so far and why do you feel this book would be a good resource for you?

    • @moserokister6825
      @moserokister6825 Рік тому +4

      The difficult conversations with my teenager involve topics like sex.drugs . mental health and any conversation that cover the topic that might be embarrassing, upsetting or controversial for either you or your child.The book blossom will help me to be more courageous while having a conversation with my daughter.

    • @estherjosee2132
      @estherjosee2132 Рік тому +6

      The topic that i find hardest with my teenage sister is sex talk. Sometimes i feel like she might mess up and incase i introduce her to fp she might misuse the opportunity and end up taking advantage and make things worse. It's honestly not easy considering the environment we live in she is so exposed

    • @esthermungai9332
      @esthermungai9332 Рік тому +2

      The most difficult conversations are managing their emotions vouching for my nieces.Navigating this has been very tricky and I am sure this will be very helpful thanks a lot for these great conversations. 💪💪

    • @mercykamau7376
      @mercykamau7376 Рік тому

      Bi mkuru ...am a teenager myself..... and I have been struggling with self development myself which is affecting my mental health soooo much...sooomuch
      I believe the book will help me upgrade myself ... upgrade my thinking money wise and also on how I can handle mee
      Thank you

    • @AliceDiscoveriesKenya
      @AliceDiscoveriesKenya Рік тому +1

      Bi-mkuru, The Most difficult conversation I had was about drugs, sex and moreso the LGBTQ issues coz he's in class 8 and joining form one next year, I had to bring the conversation on the table for him to be aware about those issues and how to handle himself not to be lured into that direction.......the fear I have as a parent on that issue is crazy I fear taking him to boarding secondary school but it is what it is .... May God help us as we navigate through such conversations and may God protect our children.

  • @msmilani3202
    @msmilani3202 Рік тому +37

    Mumbus is getting prettier with every day ❤ love her

  • @christinewanja999
    @christinewanja999 Рік тому +9

    The hardest conversation i have always been afraid to talk with my teenage sister who is now in class 8 is about sex education and mental health...we have never been so close to each other since our parents divorced when she was in class 2...she had to go stay with my grandma till to date...the book will bring a lot of knowledge and insights to her on how she should handle herself despite the many difficult situations we have been growing up it will also change her mental health..thank u Bi mkuru ...i cant wait to transform my sisters life with this precious gift from miss Mumbus

  • @isitgodly3059
    @isitgodly3059 Рік тому +29

    Bi mkurugenzi is one of the best mother we have

    • @samuelodira7866
      @samuelodira7866 Рік тому +2

      No doubt. She is like the mother people never had...

  • @ShannonNaliaka
    @ShannonNaliaka Рік тому +4

    Thank you so much for creating an opportunity for us @ Gingko to Highlight this wonderful toolkit (Blossom Through Teenage Hood) so we can all as a community ensure that our teens are well informed to make the best of lives decisions.

  • @teresiaakinyi3282
    @teresiaakinyi3282 Рік тому

    And I intend to in soon urchase this book even though my son is 3yrs, knowledge never expires right

  • @raelojiewo4648
    @raelojiewo4648 Рік тому +1

    I love your reserve Judy on matters dress

  • @BrenMaina
    @BrenMaina Рік тому +4

    Hey Mummy Mumbus and Mumbus, this was such a beautiful conversation. I have a teenage brother ;13yrs and I honestly don't know how to even start these conversations as they were basically a taboo growing up. I want to create a comfortable space between him and I so that he can blossom through his teenage hood. I am not sure how to do it, but I believe the book will be a great start. Its important to empower the young boys as well. Thankyou 💗

  • @Habibtay
    @Habibtay Рік тому +2

    This is such a great initiative👏🏾I'm a sucker and lover of intentional parenting and I looove what you do with Mumbus. Parenting is a divine gift that shouldn't be taken for granted as most people do. I believe that if you don't have the capacity to raise your child emotionally, spiritually, morally and intellectually then please don't sire a child just because your bank account says so or because others are doing it or because you want to test your fertility. I'm not a parent YET but I'm a big cousin to some teenagers that crossed my mind as I was watching this and I'd like to mentor so that they can make informed decisions with the right information. So I'm definitely getting a few books for them to read and pass on to their siblings. Thankyou for always having these conversations. I'm learning alot. I wish you Blessings and more Grace to you and your family.

  • @damariskaluki
    @damariskaluki Рік тому +4

    I love this!!!❤️❤️kudos miss mumbus and Bi mkuru👏👏👏👏

  • @sheillachepkemoi1363
    @sheillachepkemoi1363 Рік тому +10

    This is so helpful,thank you so much,,I think the most difficult conversation I've tried having with my teenage sister was on sexual activity,I didn't know what to tell her when I found out that she had already started having sex at the age of 14 ,I told my parents about it they ended up punish her and it affected her performance at school 😢,,I don't know how to start that conversation again but atlist I think i a solution,I think blossom through teenage hood will help ,thank you

  • @jaynenjenga3718
    @jaynenjenga3718 Рік тому +2

    Amaazing! I love this Bi Mkuru.

  • @ruthwangui450
    @ruthwangui450 Рік тому

    My favorite mommy daughter relationship. U are glowing pearls❤.Being a youth ,I look forward to such a relationship in future.

  • @dorcasmaove
    @dorcasmaove Рік тому +2

    Thank you Judy and Mumbus,
    Such an empowerment for older siblings who find it difficult to open such conversations with younger siblings because nobody did the same for us.The book as well as the notebook look amazing.Naliaka Shannon and Ginko Africa is changing our perspectives

  • @abbymunjuri1828
    @abbymunjuri1828 Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much for the information and for impacting positively to the society at large. I would like to read the mental health chapter. I feel I have a gap as at some point I suffered depression. However, I take care of my teenage sister who's now in highschool. I would appreciate you gifting me this book as I will help my little sister blossom to the maximum. With the book, we will be able to open up on the sexuallity topic with her, which we have never talked about, and she will benefit so as to make. informed decisions. Please consider gifting me the book. I always get worried when I lack ways in which to start the conversations with her about sex and matters mental health.

  • @esthermungai9332
    @esthermungai9332 Рік тому +7

    Thanks a lot Bi Mkuru for opening up on these conversations baraka tele?

  • @annunziatakinya
    @annunziatakinya Рік тому +1

    This is great! I love how you are bringing this conversations on the table and sharing resources to facilitate and help with such conversations 👏

  • @nyamburamunga277
    @nyamburamunga277 Рік тому +2

    I started these conversations but the route I took was wueeehhh very long. The looks of muuuuuummmm😮 really. But I did it and it's never stopped. Raising two teenage girls 😊❤️

  • @janeirungu3825
    @janeirungu3825 Рік тому +1

    Thnx Nyawira 4 this conversation actually dealing with teens need alot if wisdom

  • @jossym8992
    @jossym8992 Рік тому

    Aww,every person needs a mumbu in their lives,I love her,she is such vibe,. This is a very rich conversation!!

  • @wilsonkimanzi19
    @wilsonkimanzi19 11 місяців тому +1

    Mumbus I love you ❤

  • @blessingwanjiku3369
    @blessingwanjiku3369 Рік тому

    I really love how outspoken Mumbus is,I couldn't speak up like that when I was her age🥺

  • @ruthstella6915
    @ruthstella6915 Рік тому +1

    The empowerment is awesome shout-out to gingko❤

  • @marytv01
    @marytv01 Рік тому +4

    Hello. I am a high school teacher. on a day to day basis I handle teenagers. I am in charge of guidance and counselling and these are some of the topics we handle in in-depth. I would wish to be given the book and diary to help me as I navigate in handling the teens and empowering them. please consider me. thank you

  • @AliceDiscoveriesKenya
    @AliceDiscoveriesKenya Рік тому +6

    This is the best information ever, Bi-mkuru your parenting skills are top notch I learn a lot from you ...is there a note book with a teen dad behind if there is I would like you to gift my teenage son with it.

  • @terrywanjala1106
    @terrywanjala1106 Рік тому +3

    This is quite informative Judy

  • @eunicedan
    @eunicedan Рік тому

    Your daughter is soooooo beautiful ❤

  • @rosekamau2135
    @rosekamau2135 Рік тому

    I think I love to have this book because when I was small I was traumatised, I had no conversation with my parents very well and i also have my two boys that I would not let them to pass the same part that I passed through, and I would love to give them my best as their mum am 27 years and I think even me I can read it 🙏🙏🙏

  • @essiemiscik
    @essiemiscik Рік тому +3

    Such an amazing convo❤

  • @nancygitonga1913
    @nancygitonga1913 Рік тому +2

    A very helpful discussion.
    Thanks Judy&Mumbu's for sharing such nice tips on parenting with your wonderful guest.

  • @kawiraemma501
    @kawiraemma501 Рік тому

    I really need that book for my kids

  • @charityjepchirchr4783
    @charityjepchirchr4783 Рік тому +2

    This is amazing,,shoutout to Gingko Africa and to my amazing friend Ivy Aki Karushi (FYI she's the author)...Keep up the good work,I have to get this book for my girls in form 4..go girl!❤️❤️

  • @maureenwairimu7598
    @maureenwairimu7598 Рік тому

    I am a child of the late 90s and also did not get the opportunity to learn all those heavy stuff from my parents given that I am from a single parent. I would love to get the book to help all my younger cousins, nieces and nephew so that they never to make decisions the way I personally make for example out of past traumas and situations

  • @Malia3456dshj
    @Malia3456dshj Рік тому +5

    I need one

    • @bimkurugenzi
      @bimkurugenzi  Рік тому +1

      Hello to purchase the book, visit the link below.
      gingkoafrica.com/products/blossom-through-your-teenagehood?fbclid=PAAaZmlUE2giuNbIJMEyTZJr2snyTdsr9oUkucvW0neUpCe3Ct5-UehC542So

  • @charlesnjeru4205
    @charlesnjeru4205 Рік тому

    Very informative

  • @Stacy_tuke
    @Stacy_tuke Рік тому +1

    I love love this❤🙌

  • @lawrence51936
    @lawrence51936 Рік тому

    So I am a form 2 student,18 years of age. I would like to get the book to improve my life knowledge and to understand stand myself and other. Na nikisema nikununua itakuwa ni uongomba because mimi ama my parents can't afford it but I would really like to read the book please so kama bado iko available please 😢. I know nimecommet late but Leo ndio kumefunga na to be honest mimi sijawai jua kuhusu this channel like for real najua tu ya Able Mutua na ya Headline Hitters. Hii mimi nimeona leo so please....And Mumbus to have a nice holiday too👋👋

  • @lydiahwachira6481
    @lydiahwachira6481 Рік тому +4

    Not Mumbus being like "wee wee si unanijua na hizi vitu"😭

  • @lelagithinji8961
    @lelagithinji8961 Рік тому +2

    I love your conversations with Mumbus. How can we get the book blossom? My daughter wants to read it. Please guide. Thanks

    • @bimkurugenzi
      @bimkurugenzi  Рік тому +1

      You can buy a copy at www.Gingko.com

  • @lilianwilliam8967
    @lilianwilliam8967 Рік тому +4

    Where can I get that book please

    • @peterkiarie4772
      @peterkiarie4772 Рік тому

      its all explained in the video

    • @bimkurugenzi
      @bimkurugenzi  Рік тому +1

      gingkoafrica.com/?fbclid=PAAaZ1eV5bGyrzQYZngHmKgmPA_gkFtwiW39_rBHmxCmroGhtFaQbckIDRN-c

  • @musungu_official
    @musungu_official Рік тому +1

    smile ya baba macho za mama

  • @nancygitonga4860
    @nancygitonga4860 Рік тому

    Where can i buythe book, please .

  • @roselynewanjikuofficial5491

    Love this!

  • @josphinewambui7004
    @josphinewambui7004 Рік тому +1

    Waoooh! I just love this Sex education is the most difficult topic to discuss with my teenage girl I just wish there is a way I can get someone that can help me discuss with her😢😢😢😢

  • @victoriarono9208
    @victoriarono9208 Рік тому

    @judynyawira how much are the notebooks?

  • @chepngetichnelius9822
    @chepngetichnelius9822 Рік тому

    How can I get the book?

  • @qoishasa8589
    @qoishasa8589 Рік тому +1

    Toughest conversation was periods for my girl,she started at 9 sex and hiv for both my son and daughter wooooow it was hard very hard but we made it through

  • @charlesnjeru4205
    @charlesnjeru4205 Рік тому

    Good job

  • @marytv01
    @marytv01 Рік тому +1

    The most difficult conversation I have ever handled is on premarital sex.

  • @NowelYego
    @NowelYego Рік тому +1

    I hope I am not late to get the giveaway, I am not a mother to a teenager but I am an aunt to a teenager, Actually, she is Mumbus's agemate. We are like each other persons, she is free with me and I try a lot to answer those hard queries. The hardest topic we had was about sexual urges because I realized my little bestie has a crush, Her mum on the other hand was like please help. Anyhow I tried my best to explain the sexual urges I don't know if I did a good job 😂😂 but after that I was kaputt. Her birthday is coming up soon on April 28th and now I know what to get her juu I have been beating my mind off on the best gift for her. Please please choose me so that I can bless my little bestie with this book. Kwanza hapo kwa finances weuh we need help.

  • @Zeal11-e2y
    @Zeal11-e2y Рік тому +1

    Is the book available online please?

  • @janemunyoli232
    @janemunyoli232 Рік тому

    Mumbuz n mum am in need of that book.i have a preteen daughter who's is very inquisitive and some times I lack words to answer the very difficult questions she asks....we have a tradition of Q/A with her n the dad every Friday.

  • @mwikali7526
    @mwikali7526 Рік тому +1

    Sex. Sex the act... My boy just isn't comfortable with the topic... Maybe because he is still preteen but I try to bring it up. Mapema ndio best.

  • @gracegreyceee2820
    @gracegreyceee2820 Рік тому +4

    My difficult topic with my daughter has been sex wooiii where do I even start? Mama mumbus my daughter is in form 1 and I believe this book will be of help to me and her. We love you wakurus❤❤

    • @irenewambui1504
      @irenewambui1504 Рік тому +2

      You can do this mama
      ..you are the best to take her through in this sex topic...do not let her learn about sex from someone else....create a conducive environment..am happy there no topic I can not discus withy teenage ad youthful daughter.

    • @gracegreyceee2820
      @gracegreyceee2820 Рік тому

      @@irenewambui1504 wow wow......wish I could get this book coz i feel like maswali zitaanza hapo then we can start from there.

  • @essiemiscik
    @essiemiscik Рік тому +1

    First❤❤

  • @queenmwangui411
    @queenmwangui411 Рік тому +1

    Wear jewelries women u are so plain

    • @maurinewanyama8218
      @maurinewanyama8218 Рік тому

      wait did you just say that?

    • @irenem6775
      @irenem6775 Рік тому

      @ queen Wangui, it’s sad that all you have to say is something negative. It tells a lot about the person you are. Please do self check before posting negative stuff especially for a teenager.

    • @janaleokesho8374
      @janaleokesho8374 Рік тому

      The beauty is inside.infact thy are beautiful even without those metals.lovely African women

    • @rozienas6277
      @rozienas6277 Рік тому +1

      get healed gal.

  • @lawrence51936
    @lawrence51936 Рік тому

    So I am a form 2 student,18 years of age. I would like to get the book to improve my life knowledge and to understand stand myself and other. Na nikisema nikununua itakuwa ni uongomba because mimi ama my parents can't afford it but I would really like to read the book please so kama bado iko available please 😢. I know nimecommet late but Leo ndio kumefunga na to be honest mimi sijawai jua kuhusu this channel like for real najua tu ya Able Mutua na ya Headline Hitters. Hii mimi nimeona leo so please....And Mumbus to have a nice holiday too👋👋

  • @AliceDiscoveriesKenya
    @AliceDiscoveriesKenya Рік тому

    This is the best information ever, Bi-mkuru your parenting skills are top notch I learn a lot from you ...is there a note book with a teen dad behind if there is I would like you to gift my teenage son with it.

    • @scolasticakoinange8779
      @scolasticakoinange8779 Рік тому +1

      Mama mumbus always looking young ad beautiful ur daughter is also very beautiful nawapenda ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Sana thanks alot for this conversation with naliaka