Idk what I’d do without your videos. Everytime I’m at a weird phase in my life especially, I always go to your videos. It just makes me feel like a gentle reminder that I really need to hear without falling deeper into a darker place. This video was very fitting for what I’ve been feeling lately. I appreciate you doing these videos. You don’t know how much you help those who don’t have someone who can spread this kind of knowledge when they’re going through bs. Thank you.
I agree with this to a great extent. I think about this a lot. I think this is how people go down a “wrong path” or develop a hatred for themselves. I’ve personally experienced telling myself i want to do something, yet i wouldn’t do it. Whether it was through procrastination or just simply not remembering. Daily i would repeat the thought process and it clearly led to me having less confidence and not “feel like myself”. I believe not doing something that you believe you need to do will lead to the smallest issues, which then lead to the biggest. This is the first video I’ve seen and I love hearing your thoughts. Starting small helps a lot, so you don’t risk letting yourself down and developing a discipline to trust within your life.
“the second you ask for their validation, is the second for them to tell whether you are right or wrong” might be one of the best things I’ve heard in a while. I feel like so often we give the power of OUR lives to other people that don’t even have the best intentions in mind for us. we should focus on solely living what live we deem the most fulfilling and push it to its farthest extent, because either way people will talk. Either you can choose for people to talk down when you’re trying to conform or talk down when you’re doing what you love.
Gonna hit 1 mil by the end of the summer and you deserve it all my mane. I’ve elevated my everyday since I’ve started listening maybe 3 months ago and implementing your mentality on my life
This! “Learn to find freedom from your own expectations.” Loved that. I think you made a great point about the importance of building an almost “default positive tone” for every single day. I think all of us want to level up, but we often lose sight on the here & now… and just letting ourselves live in the moment. Keep making more videos!! Appreciate your perspective!
One of the worst feeling I've had to deal with as a young adult is not comparing myself to others but comparing myself to a younger more enthusiastic and energetic version of myself. I always feels sad knowing that I've let myself waste away when I can and have been capable of so much more in the past
I think audio in the outdoor video was great like it was raw and real, unedited I think it really compliments the things you are talking about and your overall vibe
The outdoor video was visually beautiful, I kinda wished I could hear you a bit more clearly like in your other videos. The background noise was enchanting... So much so I forgot what the convo was about. I was honestly just thinking about this video's topic and realizing it more in the context of the "Why not you" video. I remember when I ain't really relate to that video cus I felt stuck at the time but now I'm understanding it a whole lot. Thank you for posting!
You are a very special person my friend. To be able to express yourself in a way that helps others takes years of experience and reflection. Love this channel
Brother I love your content I wish I could know you in real life, I feel like I’m sorta surrounded by more narrow minded ppl maybe you could do a video on your thoughts abt finding people like yourself
I love this. I feel like this you vs you mentality has manifested itself into such a self-hatred into our newer generation. Like we are constantly in fight and in competition with ourselves. I strongly believe that self-compassion, self love and truly forgiving ourselves is the key to self-growth and healing. I love your perspective. Thank you for that!
Man. I rly want to start pondering on my own and creating my own conclusions and reflections, same way you do. How could I start? Also, how do you do it? Btw your videos are amazing and really encourage me to think by myself and understand reality as something beautiful, as something we can change with perspective. Keep doing them man. Much love here from Spain.❤
I wonder if it ever gets difficult or frustrating for you trying to communicate these realizations, in any sort of way, and have them come to fruition. It's probably not meant to be a negative experience, and it is natural that there will be some times where the point cannot be explained (or so they say) but this thought really intrigued me
The present joy one steals from themselves by using comparison to a future Image could be just a destructive as the joy removed through comparison to others. It could be a theory that balance between the future image and the joy of the present is where one can find motivation. But can someone who defines themselves as ambitious ever feel good enough?
first of all, amazing video, wanted to ask if you’re religious and if so how’d you incorporate that to all the things you’re saying (only if you feel comfortable enough to talk about it)
i need to get my hands on a physical copy of Becoming Supernatural, i started it online but id rather OWN it. Thank you for that recommendation as well.
I’m gonna start this message by saying I need help. I have just finished secondary school and now am in the longest summer break of my life probably. I’ve been trying to stay disciplined by going on runs and starting a going to a new gym but even though I’m better looking then I was as a kid but I was made fun of for a specific feature and I’m struggling to embrace it as who I am. I feel shit because a lot of times I had to make connections with people I didn’t because deep down I didn’t think I was good enough and with society’s expectations and high standards I was afraid of getting a girlfriend because I didn’t want to make her my therapist by telling her .I don’t speak to anyone other then my family but never stuff like this and that’s why I’m staying this here. I get stuck with “life’s to short to care about things that do not matter in the end” and feeling bad for myself and not loving myself. I don’t think I’ll ever look in the mirror and not see it but I want to learn to accept it I wanna learn to be more open with people and hopefully find someone that loves me .Any advice is appreciated.
Personally, the main reason why people have such insecurities is because your putting other people's expectations and perceptions on you onto you. You need to embrace the side of you that you actually love, not everything is about the physical its mostly about the spiritual and mental. You need to start doing things for you and not any societal standards that people have arbitrarily placed on you. This is not their life this is yours and you need to accept that YOU ARE ENOUGH. You need to start embracing who you are with the expectations that you set for yourself, forget anyone else; in the long run their opinions will not get you anywhere in life. Once you learn that the next step is to embrace the beauty of uncertainty for the future. You don't know what your gonna feel in 10 days, 20 days, even 365 days but what's certain is that you will grow even if you don't feel like you have. My advice to you is to write down your thoughts on a regular basis, don't skim over the details you have to write like it's a love letter to yourself for the future. The biggest question I asked when I was in a situation similar to yours is: "WHY DO I CARE SO MUCH ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF ME?" I struggled to find an answer and I knew then and there that I needed to drop expectations. Try asking yourself why you care so much and if you can't find an answer then it is time to take the steps needed to forgive and love yourself.
i struggle with something very similar, but ive also been on the other end. acceptance does not mean you have to “love” it or even really “like” it. you just have to learn to accept it - which is easier said than done, but it’s possible. i think researching some more videos about guilt and shame would maybe be beneficial. my biggest thing with that + being in a relationship, you just cannot expect them to “fix” it/you. it’s very hard, but you HAVE to make time for yourself and find what you enjoy outside of that, because you’ll always feel a void if not. i hope they do, but people don’t stay with you forever, but you do. so it’s really important to find hobbies, spend time alone, etc. i hope at least some of this can help you!
@@paigecrosby4699you seem like a kind person Paige idk if you can help me out but um. I really can’t get over this girl I used to like. She was beautiful and shy. I talked to her for a while but didn’t think she liked me so I just deleted her off my phone and then I find out she actually liked me and tried to reach out but because I blocked her I never saw it. Idk whether I still like her of feel guilt
you look smack like this guy who insisted on me taking the elevator alone when I was dropping food off at this apartment last night... good man.. its a relief to come across self aware.. ig more so other men aware.. men
what is your name I feel like telling you I love you! in a profound deeper way, just came from the forest and your words mirror the same experience I have when purposely entering nature
“When you’re constantly living a world that’s you vs you, you can never win”.
Very good. I’d never thought of it like that
we need to make this the new normal saying. not “me vs me”
This
I like free therapy.
LOOOL REAL
“You can’t heal a wound you haven’t acknowledged. ” this awareness is soo needed. Thank you Eyan
“Sometimes to fall down is an affirmation of standing” thank you so much I really needed to hear that 🥺
spitting like the rent is due 😔🔥🙏🐐
Idk what I’d do without your videos. Everytime I’m at a weird phase in my life especially, I always go to your videos. It just makes me feel like a gentle reminder that I really need to hear without falling deeper into a darker place. This video was very fitting for what I’ve been feeling lately. I appreciate you doing these videos. You don’t know how much you help those who don’t have someone who can spread this kind of knowledge when they’re going through bs. Thank you.
„Who you are changes“ - Being in a very negative mind space right now I needed to hear that. Thank you ❤
As a 17 year old who never had someone to guide him through life, im glad you’re here, im glad i found your channel ☺️
I agree with this to a great extent. I think about this a lot. I think this is how people go down a “wrong path” or develop a hatred for themselves. I’ve personally experienced telling myself i want to do something, yet i wouldn’t do it. Whether it was through procrastination or just simply not remembering. Daily i would repeat the thought process and it clearly led to me having less confidence and not “feel like myself”. I believe not doing something that you believe you need to do will lead to the smallest issues, which then lead to the biggest. This is the first video I’ve seen and I love hearing your thoughts. Starting small helps a lot, so you don’t risk letting yourself down and developing a discipline to trust within your life.
“the second you ask for their validation, is the second for them to tell whether you are right or wrong” might be one of the best things I’ve heard in a while. I feel like so often we give the power of OUR lives to other people that don’t even have the best intentions in mind for us. we should focus on solely living what live we deem the most fulfilling and push it to its farthest extent, because either way people will talk. Either you can choose for people to talk down when you’re trying to conform or talk down when you’re doing what you love.
Gonna hit 1 mil by the end of the summer and you deserve it all my mane. I’ve elevated my everyday since I’ve started listening maybe 3 months ago and implementing your mentality on my life
This! “Learn to find freedom from your own expectations.” Loved that. I think you made a great point about the importance of building an almost “default positive tone” for every single day. I think all of us want to level up, but we often lose sight on the here & now… and just letting ourselves live in the moment.
Keep making more videos!! Appreciate your perspective!
One of the worst feeling I've had to deal with as a young adult is not comparing myself to others but comparing myself to a younger more enthusiastic and energetic version of myself. I always feels sad knowing that I've let myself waste away when I can and have been capable of so much more in the past
same here
your videos bring me to sense of acknowledgment of who I am and the world around me thank you.
Keep pondering main, you’re solving issues that everybody got 💯
Always been. Always will be. Great point man
Thank hou
At the end of the day it’s you and God
Is that Doomsday album back there? Not only does this gentlemen spit some knowledge but he also listens to some fire music.
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Thanks to your help, I feel more peace in my heart ❤
your videos inspired me to video journal my thoughts, i dont upload them but i watch them because i tend to forget epiphanies that i have
man all you speak is truth. your videos have helped me choose sobriety over a life of death and destruction. thank you.
Gald to see you doing better !
@@SquidSEnsi thank you, I had briefly messed up but I'm back on the path to success now! anything is possible with willpower and self love.
I think audio in the outdoor video was great like it was raw and real, unedited I think it really compliments the things you are talking about and your overall vibe
Same here I like the unedited videos without any audio in the background!
@@nancyyyyfancyyyyi enjoy the music in the back for one
You are a great person with a great mindset, keep going❤️‼️💯
Thank you
Your vids always motivate me 💯 don't stop
Thank you
The outdoor video was visually beautiful, I kinda wished I could hear you a bit more clearly like in your other videos. The background noise was enchanting... So much so I forgot what the convo was about. I was honestly just thinking about this video's topic and realizing it more in the context of the "Why not you" video. I remember when I ain't really relate to that video cus I felt stuck at the time but now I'm understanding it a whole lot. Thank you for posting!
You are a very special person my friend. To be able to express yourself in a way that helps others takes years of experience and reflection. Love this channel
Feels like a therapy to me ❤
Man your channel is incredible. New sub since your “this is your sign to lock in” video. This is incredible content. So many of us need to hear this
Brother I love your content I wish I could know you in real life, I feel like I’m sorta surrounded by more narrow minded ppl maybe you could do a video on your thoughts abt finding people like yourself
I love this. I feel like this you vs you mentality has manifested itself into such a self-hatred into our newer generation. Like we are constantly in fight and in competition with ourselves. I strongly believe that self-compassion, self love and truly forgiving ourselves is the key to self-growth and healing. I love your perspective. Thank you for that!
Thank you
you don’t know how much these videos help people. thank you bro
Damn I just saw this channel recommended on insta and this was the first video I saw and this video resonates with me so much.
Having self-compassion is important, and I think everyone should learn that 💝.
Man. I rly want to start pondering on my own and creating my own conclusions and reflections, same way you do. How could I start? Also, how do you do it?
Btw your videos are amazing and really encourage me to think by myself and understand reality as something beautiful, as something we can change with perspective. Keep doing them man. Much love here from Spain.❤
Knowledge/wisdom leads to questioning of these things in life. Read books like the alchemist and you’ll be able to ponder too
@@6adrianna ayy ty so much. Could you please recommend me more books of that nature? I would love to dive deep into them.
great full that i found this in my recommended, the man is speaking the truth and only the truth.
I wonder if it ever gets difficult or frustrating for you trying to communicate these realizations, in any sort of way, and have them come to fruition. It's probably not meant to be a negative experience, and it is natural that there will be some times where the point cannot be explained (or so they say) but this thought really intrigued me
Negativity will come. I will try not to beat myself up for negative thoughts and start taking action
can you talk about the books behind you? They seem to be great. 10/10 video btw 🧡
Thank you brother!🫶🏻
The present joy one steals from themselves by using comparison to a future Image could be just a destructive as the joy removed through comparison to others. It could be a theory that balance between the future image and the joy of the present is where one can find motivation. But can someone who defines themselves as ambitious ever feel good enough?
i just started crying
first of all, amazing video, wanted to ask if you’re religious and if so how’d you incorporate that to all the things you’re saying (only if you feel comfortable enough to talk about it)
Ur way of talking helps a lot thankk uu for that
Always felt this way
Can you please recommend some books that u enjoy reading ? And thank you
A modern day philosopher. Subscribed with notifications 🙂
This video couldn’t have come at a more perfect time🙏🏻 showing love from Indiana
Love these vids man, also respect for the DOOMSDAY vinyl
i need to get my hands on a physical copy of Becoming Supernatural, i started it online but id rather OWN it. Thank you for that recommendation as well.
I’m gonna start this message by saying I need help. I have just finished secondary school and now am in the longest summer break of my life probably. I’ve been trying to stay disciplined by going on runs and starting a going to a new gym but even though I’m better looking then I was as a kid but I was made fun of for a specific feature and I’m struggling to embrace it as who I am. I feel shit because a lot of times I had to make connections with people I didn’t because deep down I didn’t think I was good enough and with society’s expectations and high standards I was afraid of getting a girlfriend because I didn’t want to make her my therapist by telling her .I don’t speak to anyone other then my family but never stuff like this and that’s why I’m staying this here. I get stuck with “life’s to short to care about things that do not matter in the end” and feeling bad for myself and not loving myself. I don’t think I’ll ever look in the mirror and not see it but I want to learn to accept it I wanna learn to be more open with people and hopefully find someone that loves me .Any advice is appreciated.
You have to learn to like you
Personally, the main reason why people have such insecurities is because your putting other people's expectations and perceptions on you onto you. You need to embrace the side of you that you actually love, not everything is about the physical its mostly about the spiritual and mental. You need to start doing things for you and not any societal standards that people have arbitrarily placed on you. This is not their life this is yours and you need to accept that YOU ARE ENOUGH. You need to start embracing who you are with the expectations that you set for yourself, forget anyone else; in the long run their opinions will not get you anywhere in life.
Once you learn that the next step is to embrace the beauty of uncertainty for the future. You don't know what your gonna feel in 10 days, 20 days, even 365 days but what's certain is that you will grow even if you don't feel like you have. My advice to you is to write down your thoughts on a regular basis, don't skim over the details you have to write like it's a love letter to yourself for the future.
The biggest question I asked when I was in a situation similar to yours is:
"WHY DO I CARE SO MUCH ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF ME?" I struggled to find an answer and I knew then and there that I needed to drop expectations. Try asking yourself why you care so much and if you can't find an answer then it is time to take the steps needed to forgive and love yourself.
i struggle with something very similar, but ive also been on the other end. acceptance does not mean you have to “love” it or even really “like” it. you just have to learn to accept it - which is easier said than done, but it’s possible. i think researching some more videos about guilt and shame would maybe be beneficial. my biggest thing with that + being in a relationship, you just cannot expect them to “fix” it/you. it’s very hard, but you HAVE to make time for yourself and find what you enjoy outside of that, because you’ll always feel a void if not. i hope they do, but people don’t stay with you forever, but you do. so it’s really important to find hobbies, spend time alone, etc. i hope at least some of this can help you!
@@paigecrosby4699you seem like a kind person Paige idk if you can help me out but um. I really can’t get over this girl I used to like. She was beautiful and shy. I talked to her for a while but didn’t think she liked me so I just deleted her off my phone and then I find out she actually liked me and tried to reach out but because I blocked her I never saw it. Idk whether I still like her of feel guilt
I can feel a part of me healed.
Just Thanks bro. Stay blessed
Forever grateful ❤
Thank you
I really luv your videos man, really help a lot, blessings from México brother
MF Doom Operation Doomsday vinyl in the back is tuff 💨
Wow brother keep doing what you doing, thank you for these words.
You always talk sense into my life, mate.❤️
i always said this glad to see someone else think the same
I needed this so bad. Thank you king
just found your page today and i'm glad i did
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book recommendations please ❤ ps first here❤❤❤😊
Another beautifully insightful video 🤍
Thank you
i needed this, thank you
You saved my life a few weeks ago
letting go of the expectation for yourself and exeptation for the world
ada gasih youtuber Indo yg kontenya begini juga? it feels like therapy I just need the Indo version so I can understand more deeply
Bro how can I be smart like this
Idk if you do request, but can you make a video about getting past some who you dedicated yourself to but they didn’t do the same?
he did , law of detachment vid
Yep this man is my therapist
Yo I’m in video production and not to complicate things but I can give some simple tips to help out with your outdoor vids. Let me know!
Forever for me💚Thank you
speaking nothing but the truth 🙏
The power emanating from this video..
Thank you. Needed this
you always spitting in these videos . keep it up man
you look smack like this guy who insisted on me taking the elevator alone when I was dropping food off at this apartment last night... good man.. its a relief to come across self aware.. ig more so other men aware.. men
Such a beautiful video,
Thank you 🫶🏾
Grateful for this video, sending you love bro
Just wanna say i love your videos keep being uniqely yourself
cant let gang know i fw this 🙏🗣️
The doomsday vinyl pulls this together
I just found your UA-cam from instagram. I really like your UA-cam videos.
Here from tiktok
Do you practice meditation? Just wondering
Please never quit you’ll always have arleast one viewer
13:15 so true
Thank you❤
Nah, thank YOU. Damn.
Thank you
love these videos
God bless you Brother
Nice video man, u look like a great person, keep goin
i love your content bro, keep it up
There is an African proverb that says.....when there's no enemy within the enemy outside can do no harm.
Thank you
what is your name I feel like telling you I love you! in a profound deeper way, just came from the forest and your words mirror the same experience I have when purposely entering nature
goat keep it up homie
The title itself. Amazing
needed this
Legend so inspiring!!!!
thank you