My Life As A Police Officer | Be Unafraid to Fail
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- On this episode of GSL UNCUT, Melissa and Jeremy discuss how Jeremy's 13 year career in law enforcement impacted their family, their marriage, and their general level of day to day stress.
Also discussed is the concept of taking chances and calculated risks when it comes to making major life altering decisions for yourself and/or your family. The episode winds down with words of encouragement being offered up to anyone struggling to make firm decisions on the direction of their life.
Jeremy, you were so wise to leave LE when you did. I’m retired Sgt from a large NorCal PD after 30 years. The politics of the job seriously affected me, as well as the PTSD, nightmares, personality changes. Your topic is dead on. It’s hard for the public to understand. So proud of you both. Moving to Idaho soon. Keep up the great channel. Family is everything. Live a great life Bud.
Thank you for your service. I appreciate our LE.
Thank you and Jeremy for your service. Believe it or not there are a lot of us that love and respect our Officers.
Thank you both for your service.
Jeremy, I'm so glad you're out of PE. Just hearing how people talk to police officers is disgraceful. God bless you and your family.
Thank you for your service. We are in crazy,scary times. Thankfully your voice’s are so enlightening and inspiring to us. May God continue to bless you on your path..you make my day brighter!!!❤
My husband passed away 7 years ago when we were living in our 'Forever' Home. The house and land was a lot of work for me to take care of by myself (snow, etc.) but I didn't want to leave. About 13 months after he passed I took an 8 hour road trip and during the drive home I realized that it was time to move. When I got home I sat on my porch for an entire day and just listened to the wind and came to the conclusion that I could do this. Later that month I walked into a house in a new city and knew 10 feet in the door that this was My Home! It has been 6 years and I do not regret it for one minute even though I gave up friends and comfort and memories. This is where I was meant to be. The best part is that I can still feel my husband and know that he would be so happy here to. Always listen to your heart.
Same thing here !!! ❤
It takes a lot of fortitude and faith to be the spouse of a police officer. Melissa, you remind me so much of my bride; we had a 20+ year police career that had stress and worry for both of us. We beat the odds of many police marriages that end in divorce, going on 42 years now. I know I couldn't do what she did all those years. We're both happily retired now in southern Nevada, so the career was worth it, scars and all. But I feel for those officers currently on the job...
Thanks for your service and the general public has no idea of the stress involved with the job.
Many of the general public understand your frustration and are frustrated as well. Thank you for your service.
"It never ever stops" Making sure you know where the exits are in the theater and "playing" what would you do in almost every single situation. Making sure he has the seat that faces the restaurant door. Missing family events and holidays and seeing most of the heart-wrenching things in life that we in the community are protected from by our officers. There is a higher calling for our peace officers and after 40 years as an officer for my husband; 11 as Chief - we continue to be a blue family. Our entire marriage has been with the badge. God bless you and your ohana. May the roads ahead be gentle on your life’s journey 💙
I'm in my seventies; my father was a career police officer. I worried about him then; I'd be frantic now. God bless our police officers. I pray for them every day. What kind of life would we have without their service? I can't even imagine the chaos and violence....
I'm a 63 year old grandmother and I wish I would have taken a chance to do what I really wanted to do with my life. You guys are such an inspiration. I love your videos and podcasts. I would love to sit and talk with you. Keep doing what you're doing, I love it. It keeps me going
Thank you so much for your service Jeremy. I appreciate our military and first responders so much. I’ve even thanked an officer for pulling me over for speeding. You/they are doing their jobs and trying to make citizens safe. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Jeremy, I've been a subscriber to both of your channels for a while. I have to admit I've been curious about your previous profession and always hoped you would share more with us. However, I always felt you were apprehensive. Thank you for graciously sharing that part of your life with us.
I am in LE 24 years. I agree with you 100%. Working in Baton Rouge, LA. Lost many fellow officers. Worked the protest in a very dangerous city. I am female and when I go to work, I am very aware that I may not go home at the end of the day. I stay because I am near retirement and have to stick it out.
God bless you and keep you ! Thank you for your service !!
God bless you into retirement. May our Lord Jesus be with you through out your serving years.
Thank you, and may God keep you safe.
Thank you for your service! Stay safe and God Bless you🙏🙏
God bless you & keep you safe ❤
I hear you brother. I served a combined 42 years in military and civilian law enforcement and today is the 40th anniversary of my deployment to the Island of Grenada so my PTSD kicks every year around this time. The stress levels caused me to have 4 heart attacks and 1 stroke. To this day I still look for ambush and choke points, searching for IED just driving down the road here in the US. Mostly irrational thoughts but a survival instinct you develop.
God bless you, Bill. Please consider looking into Somatic Healing. The PTSD is stored in your physical body and can be released. Hugs!
Thank you for your service.
Wow... impressive amount of time and effort by you. Prayers and God's blessing to you.
Thank you so much for your service ❤️ 🙏 I'm so sorry that burden is heavy.
I’m so glad you discussed the issues with law enforcement today. Jeremy, you are the type of man I always thought was an ideal police officer. I grew up respecting officers and the law. Unfortunately, my perspective changed greatly when I realized the men and women who I thought were sworn to orotect became an extension of the corrupt government. I realize there are good people in LE, I would not expect them to stay in today’s environment.
Thank you for your service! God bless you! 🙏🙏
I served 24 years in the Navy. I feel your stress of the job and PTSD. I served on the ground in Afghanistan and Iraq. I’m retired now and feel the same way. I don’t miss it and transitioned to civilian life easily. I appreciate your stories and thank you and your family for your service. You have a great family and I’m so happy that you guys are in a good place now. I really enjoy your videos. Stay safe and keep enjoying your life and family.
My husband has a lot of mental blocks, anger, and extreme trauma from 12 years and two tours in Iraq and then in Afghanistan. Thanks for your service
I hope that you know you are loved. Even if the government struggles to treat y'all right. There are plenty of us who appreciate you ❤
First, thank you Jeremy for taking on the role of LE Officer. Your service to your community mattered and made a difference. Obviously your choice to leave LE was in the best interest of your family and it has worked out very well for you and your family. Thank you to Melissa and the rest of your family for your sacrifice during Jeremy's service. So often, the family's and especially the spouses are forgotten when it comes to how the job really impacts the officer and their family. As a recently retired LE officer, I fully understand where you are coming from. Today's LE community is targeted and villainized for doing a job no one wants to do. The effects of this villainization are long lasting and devastating. I will never be able to un see the horrible things other humans can do to other humans. I loved being a cop and serving my community but the scars are forever and not many people understand that aspect of the career. I have sought counseling and continue to work through the nightmares that the job gave me. Time away from the career helps but there are aspects I will always miss. Thank you for talking about this subject and sharing your experiences and thoughts.
It is a war zone, just trickier.
My husband works for a local government. Though he’s not in law enforcement, he does have to obey policy, that in itself is a challenge. He has to deal with a reentry program that helps recently released convicted felons to get employment with the city. Most times it’s ok, but there’s been a couple eye opening experiences.
Good discussion today. I’m glad Jo and Chip were busy😊
Take care
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I need to have this exact discussion with my wife.. I’m so glad I knew it was my time to retire and punched out but never thought about the impact I had on my family in the years before.
Thanks brother
I'm half way through. I've been listening while cleaning and have just been crying so hard. I remember the videos when Jeremy was still working as an officer and then the day he turned in his badge. He was skinnier and pale and nervous. We've watched the changes as they've happened and have rejoiced in them. The Jeremy today is healthy, beautifully colored, more peaceful and smiles a whole heck of a lot more.😍 My son in law is a small town officer. He's been doing it for 4 years and it's been so stressful for him and our daughter and grandsons. Everything you've described, I have witnessed, my daughter has experienced (he doesn't like her to go get groceries by herself nor does he like them being delivered). He knows so much about people in town but their hands are tied about what can be done. He chose to work nights which was very hard on the family and now they won't let him switch to days. I am proud of him and pray for him nightly but this has been enlightening and now I feel more prepared to pray better.🙏 I know you don't know me or my family. I rarely comment. I can't afford to join the special group, but I love you both so much. It's so funny how a person you've never met in person can become so precious. ❤ We love you, we pray for you and we rejoice with you in all you do. This world.... well... you know. 😮💨
My X was a state trooper for 25 years. When I first started watching your channel I could see Jeremy's "cop" aura. I see you now and it's like you have shed a skin, you are completely different. You were so smart to leave that job. Unfortunately the "job" broke my relationship/marriage of about 31 years. It changes people, it take a huge toll on relationships not just with partners but with children. Blessings to you all ❤❤❤
When Melissa said she saw 'the Hand' at the darkest hour of your journey in the move to Idaho was tear-jerking for me. I totally get it. That's what faith is, moving into the unknown while still knowing HE is guiding you! SO awesome! Moving in faith is way more than just 'taking a chance' it's being spiritually guided to move forward into very, very unknown territory and yet knowing that somehow, everything is going to be okay because HE is guiding you. We must be willing to move to uncomfortable places in order to see God's plan for us.
Thank you for your service! I have been married to a law enforcement officer for 40 years who served 32 years. He was in very intense areas of law enforcement! He made it out ok and retired 10 years ago, now I have two sons who are in law enforcement , and the this is a much different time!!! My husband had and has many of the PTSD symptoms you experienced! To see the stress and ridiculous way police are treated now is way worse!! I pray all the time! I listen to their problems and fears about the job! My husband is a great source for them also! And you are totally correct that the public have no idea what it’s all about! Thanks again!! And the thanks for talking about it!
As a former Paramedic and ER nurse, the stress and changes that happen to me is so close to what you are describing. I submit any one of the emergency services - Fire, EMS, ER, and Police all struggle with not only the realities of a really ugly side of the world, but now the political crap that has become normal. As a Paramedic we used to joke that we were the evil red-headed step child. No one wanted to pay us, or wanted us around, until suddenly we were needed. Then it was why aren't you doing something faster? People use to complain that we 'just sat around and got paid" for doing nothing. While working as a Paramedic, I just got use to the physical assaults that happen because of the environment which was totally uncontrollable. But in the Hospital, it was different. Nurse's and other medical staff have had to "accept" physical assault from patients 'because the patient's health issue'. Administration has made it clear for years there would be negative repercussions if someone filed charges, even when there has been staff killed, raped or so beaten up they were not recognizable. Or if a mistake was made they would just throw that person under the bus, no support for the staff at all. After 14 years as a Paramedic and 5 years as an ER nurse, I realized one night while dealing with a combative pt, that I did not like the person I had become. I was angry all the time, no longer caring towards the patients or even my co-workers or family, exhausted, I would cry in my car before walking into the ER before every shift. Nightmares were a normal part of my sleep which did not allow me to sleep well. It was no longer about helping people. It had become walking on egg shells that I would do or say something that would cause me my job or trigger a patient. It was the fear that the next time a GSW gang member came in, the shooter would follow them in to finish that person. It was the entitlement of people who would try to stop me while running to get emergency medications to save a life wanting me to get them a warm blanket and literally blocking me. Thankfully, I walked away from that. I almost walked completely away from nursing but now I have been doing Hospice for over 9 years. I no longer despite the person I am. I have found that compassion and caring again and I feel whole. The saddest part for me is suicides for nurses has increased so much in the past few years. It is no secret that those of us in these areas of service are different from the general population because of what we do, see and manage, but the lost of that inane desire to help, protect and care also destroys us in a way that is just not understood outside our respective professions. Our areas of service is the one place that "walk a mile in their shoes" to understand someone just does not apply.
This is why I take anything I see in the news on tv with a grain of salt. I know they do not show and/or give all the facts.
Brother here from north of the 49th parallel, still actively serving. 19 of my 26 years as a front line responder.. postings from city to rural to the remote Arctic.
I wholeheartedly concur with every thought, concept and description mentioned in your video. Thank you for publicizing the realties of LE for those of us that cannot.
It was once a thing for members to serve 35 years… the norm now is 20 to 25. Many members now are leaving prior to pension and just taking the pay out. Society should care as this is a troubling trend, exacerbated by the fact that very few people are choosing LE as a career for all the reasons mentioned in your video. Good on you for leaving and going in a good way with you and your family. Many hours of therapy and working on self has kept my marriage of 25 years intact in a healthy, positive way… I look forward to retiring within next 1-2 years. Thanks for your service.
Jeremy, we are seeing you tense up and all the thoughts bring up so much frustration that I want to say "take a deep breath", you're safe, you're admired for doing your old job, but you're also admired for getting out while you could. You have a great family and that's your forever job.
Thank you for this episode. As the daughter of a police officer, the cousin of a Federal Way officer, and friend to women whose husbands are in law enforcement, I understand and agree with what you are saying 100%. Thank you for telling your side, the side that needs to be heard. God bless you and your family.
I have been an emergency service personnel for 25 years now. As of 2022, I snapped, and I mean snapped. Something inside me just could not deal with it anymore. The struggle now is with PTSD. I completely understand all that you spoke of. Thank you for coming forward with this topic as I believe more people need to bring their experiences out in the open.
I left LE after just 7 years for basically the same thing. The political environment in every department is horrendous and far more stressful from what happens on the street. It was always a fear walking out the door leaving my family for 12-16 hours and not knowing if I’d see them again, but it was additionally stressful knowing your department admin wasn’t going to back you up.
My marriage is so much better now. I’ve been out longer than I was in and the peace in my home is amazing.
You're really hitting home with this podcast.
After 29 years in law enforcement in Los Angeles, law suits, numerous injuries, two divorces, the job is just dangerous, but now too political.
Your comment about driving out of the station wondering if someone was hiding behind the tree was your gut talking to you.
LASO just had a deputy pull out of the station, stop at a red light signal when a car pulled along side of him and executed him by shooting him in the head, then drove off.
And, LA District Attorney is not seeking murder charges because he may be mentally ill.
It seems there is hardly anyone in upper positions that back the officer.
Most people are innocent until proven guilty. Officers are guilty until proven innocent. Thank God I always kept my recorder going on traffic stops (CYA).
I'm retired now, but I feel for the guys out there now.
No pro-active policing anymore, just answer your calls and do eight and skate. And, watch each other's back.
Okay, I'm done. Sorry, you gave me flashbacks. Corrupt politicians with no balls.
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I lived in Lakewood when that happened. It was so scary. Police cars flying by with lights and sirens it seemed liked forever. Then hearing on the news the guy was still at large. I was on the street for the procession. Everyone came together. It was one of the saddest moments of my life. Thank you for you service Jeremy. So happy you have made the changes for a happier life. 😊
I remember seeing your retirement/last call on your radio, leaving Washington to head out to your debt free life in Idaho. I started following your channel and ❤ its content. Go figure, God living, debt free, happy and intact family. I'm also glad you passed up the TV show opportunity too. Bless you all. We need more role models like the Good, Simple Living Family.
When you talked about the man sitting on the stump, I thought of this quote from Hunter S Thompson “Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!”. I appreciated your honest thoughts and feelings about your life when Jeremy was a cop. The profession has change drastically and it's hard to take pride in the job when hard work is not appreciated by others. Thank you for sharing.
Jeremy, my nephew is a Sheriff in N. CA...just recently medically retired with full benefits...he expressed the absolutely same frustrations as you described...and he is so thankful that he is out of that environment...
I'm so sorry that you and your family had to go through what you went through...it's not right that your employer and State will throw you under the bus in a heart beat...
Thank God you were directed to the life you are living now...
Peace be with you and your family
As a former Police Commissioner for a now defunct Regional Police Department, the issue of internal corruption was the departments' demise. Very powerful conversation.
Jeremy ....I am 30 years older and we rebuilt this 1890's house we live in...and I broke my back, literally, but am proud of what we have done.
I learned a lot and hope my back gets better but will always be proud of our taking on the challenge.
Your podcast is tremendously refreshing. Honest conversation based on reality and facts. Thank you!! ❤
Thank you for all your hard work Jeremy.We appreciate you. Jeremiah 29:11. The plan God has for you is to prosper you and not harm you. Be blessed and enjoy your family.❤❤
Thank you Jeremy for your service. God Bless ALL the 1st responders and their families! Thanks Melissa for your perspective from the family POV.🙏
Jeremy thank you for your years of service as an officer. I'm glad your are still on this planet. I don't blame officers for walking away in this day and age. Bless you and your family.
I think this was your best Pod Cast to date, so emotional and humbling, thank you for giving us an insider look at your Police career and what it meant for your family, l wonder how you can face that kind of situation every day and keep your sanity, sending love and hugs from the UK 🇬🇧💕💕
Thank you for speaking about receiving an answer to your prayer and following it. When I was experiencing a especially challenging time in my life - I prayed for an answer and I received an answer that was totally unexpected -- not even on my radar of possible options. And I shared it with others, who mocked me and suggested that it was a crazy idea. Then I did suggested that if this was truly the plan for me then I would receive the check (I was expecting to get) by a certain day. (which seemed to be an unrealistic timeline) Then the following day, I saw in the newspaper that the check that I was expecting to receive would be delayed 6 to 8 weeks due to serious problems with the organization it was coming from. Then my friends said, well, you won't be getting that check, so that's that! Then on the very day that I stated that I would receive the check -- it was in my mailbox. I received the money I needed to implement the answer. So I said there's no way that I can't do it --I had to follow through now. I did -- and everything worked out better than I could even imagine.
I just love your heartfelt honesty, reflective insight, family dynamics and forks in the career road. Helps me love GSL UNCUT even more! Good episode!
This was a wonderful heartfelt podcast! Jeremy, you are a great man!! I love your attitude on life. My husband just retired from a 40 year career in law enforcement. He loved every minute of it. We beat the odds and have a wonderful marriage of 44 years!! My husband says to everyone that God is what got him through each and every day on the street. God is our anchor in this life. With Him all things are possible! I can see through your videos and now your podcast that you guys believe this too. Thank you for what you both do. You guys are truly an inspiration and your channel is so refreshing in this crazy world. Keep doing what you’re doing and may God bless every single minute of it!!!
❤💙 it breaks my heart how our country and leaders are so disloyal to our officers. Our SIL is LE and we pray for him all the time. It has become a thankless job. I agree with everything you said. My heart goes out to all LE. Thankful for your service.
I went through severe abuse in my workplace. I am C PTSD. Thank you for the awareness to help us to understand Policing better. Thank you for your service and to your wife for helping to raise awareness also.
Wow. This one hit REALLY close to home. My husband had nightmares off and on for the first 26 years of our marriage. The week he retired (after a total of 38 years in law enforcement) they stopped. Now he has a retirement job that he absolutely loves and he's so much happier. The environment here in MN (especially the Twin Cities area) is terribly tense for law enforcement officers-we worry for our family members who are still serving in different cities around here. It's a sad reflection of the times. But I rejoice with your family that you are now also in a happier place. Thank you for years that you served, Jeremy.
We have three in law enforcement. It is a very scary time for all of them. We worry and pray for them daily. Its ridiculous that the criminals can be commiting the crime and then get off and it be turned on the police officer! Completely insane!
My heart goes out to you and your family. My prayers are added to yours for their safety and well-being.
I’m glad you shared this! You are totally correct in divorce occurrences in law enforcement families; it happened to brother-in-law and nephew. I also worked a brief period as a dispatcher. I remember once a multi-county car chase, pinching holes in my chair, thinking wow that was fun and immediately thinking I do not want to do that again.
I was raised to have a great deal of respect for police officers and the military. Our children as well and now their children. I feel like there was a time when that was normal but something very evil has been infiltrating the systems that serve and protect and they are being used and abused in so many ways. Jeremy and Melissa, your dedication to your life goals has not only brought you to a much healthier place for your family but your generous spirits in general are blessing SO MANY others. Your work to support children battling cancer is remarkable and it inspires others to get involved in whatever ways they can. Being obedient to the call ‘to go’, and all the subsequent growth of your channel and then paying it forward, I think is a huge part of the big picture plan on your lives.
You are a blessing and an inspiration! We appreciate you.
Hello Jeremy & Melissa 🤗 this was a very heartfelt podcast 😊 My brother in law was a police officer for about 10 yrs & went through same challenges & left the force & was happier & safe.😉 I have so much respect for anyone serving our country 🇺🇲
“Giving it your all” when talking can make you very emotional! So glad you was able to get out of that line of work…Melissa you are a wise gal doing what you could for your family! Love hearing you 2 talk!
Melissa, I love your story of the hand reaching out of the mist, comparing it to Peter when he started to sink in the water and Jesus reaching His hand out to save him. You and Jeremy were definitely led by the hand of the Lord to move to Idaho when you did. Your family is truly blessed. Incidentally, I remember when Joanna Gains said in an interview that she had a dream or heard God tell her that she was going to have her on show on TV, something like that.
My dad was an auxiliary police officer & his best friend was Capt. of the force. I grew up since 5 years old with police, family & friends & grew up with best friends being officers kids, just natural, but it was in the 50's -80's, a much better time. It's such a shame the way things are today & it make me sick the way the police are treated today, so glad you got out before something happened. Love the podcast.
God bless you both for serving the public. You are both wonderful people. Thank you for sharing your lives with us.
This one made me cry out loud for over 20 minutes. I'm so sorry for your stress Jeremy. Nursing is certainly stressful, & I LOVE my job, but it's a different stress. I cry for them,not for me. Nurse Judi in Scottsdale AZ and Eucharistic Minister. Prayers daily 🙏🏻 for your family and you!❤❤❤
You are preaching to the choir. Not only was husband and partner involved in a shooting with the one year of waiting to see if they would sue, but now I have a niece in a PD who had an online posting while they were berating her while she was in SWAT detail. The pendulum has swung towards liberalism and it is definitely against LE. Thank you for your service and thank God you are safe!
I'm so glad that Jeremy's police days are the topic. People do not understand what the officers go through in a day. The stress involved.The fear . I fully understand hateing being lied to. The fact that your judgment and trust of people change.Also realizing that people can't be trusted . On the other hand, unfortunately, there are bad cops everywhere, which make it difficult for the common people to see beyond the bad ones. I feel for what Melissa went through also. Your move was such a huge chance and change. You have done great .I'm glad for you and your family. Congratulations on such a huge life change
Jeremy, thank you for your time spent in law enforcement! We support our police officers who put their life on the line to protect our communities. George Strait’s song, The Weight of the Badge says it so beautifully. You have explained what police officers face in todays political climate. It is no wonder that police officers are leaving the force and police academies are not full. The repercussions of soft on crime policies are increased criminal activity, making our communities unsafe. We need leaders who will not tolerate criminal activity.
God bless you for your work and so glad you were able to change your lifestyle for you and your family
I served for 36 years 7 months and eighteen days. I commend you for your service and your dedication. I’m glad you recognized you gave enough of yourself and that you didn’t need to do anymore. I’m over joyed that you are having the fantastic opportunity to enjoy your time doing what you love now with your family. Well deserved.
It is so awesome listening to your story. My husband and I listened to God and purchased 80 actes in North Idaho in 2019. God gave my husband a dream and told He would "sever the roots" of everything we knew in California, and He did. We have never looked back and are so grateful that we listened to Him.
That is awesome!
I want to thank you for your service as a Police officer. I have so much respect for you and all our officers around our country. Especially, in these times. I am in the medical profession and somewhat understand that people don’t understand what goes on in certain professions. I have also had people spit in my face, throw me around like a rag doll, hit,kick,and punch me. Along with calling me every curse word in the book all while trying to help them. But, my experiences are nothing compared to yours. Again I have ultimate respect for you and also your family. I haven’t ever feared for my life or my husband’s life. God bless you for your incredible service. 🇺🇸🇺🇸
I am a nurse who did not want to retire until I was 70, but had to because of politics of medicine in 2020 - 2021. Now we have a shortage Nationally of Physicians/ nurses etc in the medical field > we already were short in 2019. All of this due to politics. I just pray 🙏 daily for all of this to settle so America can be safe again & heal 🙏 💙 So we can help other nations as they want & need it.❤ 🙏.
Love all you do here guys & watched you both from your beginning here > Jeremy being & cop & retiring early inspired many to think> many like us. 💙 quality of life 👌 is the ❤️ of the matter. 🎉 celebrating my life More!! 🎉
My husband is a volunteer fire fighter in our area. He watched this and was in agreement. He sees it happening and even at his level he see the contradictions and fear. Glad you are out prayers to those still in there.
Thank you for your service, Jeremy! I’m so glad you’re sleeping better now.
I can identify a very little bit with how you felt Melissa. When I was supporting the Navy’s participation in Desert Storm, we had staff members deployed with the Navy. I clearly remember the day we were talking to one of our reps and, in the middle of a sentence, he said, “Gotta go. SCUDs inbound.” And he hung up. We didn’t hear from him again until the next day. Thank you for your service too, Melissa.
So glad you got out, but also sad that we don't have police coverage that is needed. I know how horrible it is. My friend that is an officer was told that if he gets in a bad situation, that he needs to get out because the department doesn't have their back. That was in the Bay Area I Cali. I sent this to my FB page because I think more people need to know. I also think that the media built it up bigger than it needed to be. There are a lot of people that still support our law enforcement. Love your 2 channels.
I have so much respect you you guys and for ALL LEO’s families.
Jeremy, I am so happy for you and your family for your being there for your family. They need you, Sadly, many police officers didn't make it out safely. It has made prayer for more officers, which is very needed.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 and their families. Thank you for your service.
Another fantastic podcast! Props to you both but especially Jeremy. I've always respected LE but this renewed that within me. It also infuriates me more to see what has been happening with policing across the country.
Jeremy, I get what your talking about although on a different level. I'm retired fire, my children are all grown now and they have told me about being at home when I was out on duty and hearing about a big fire and KNOWING that their mom was in the middle of it. (I was first in) I also understand about seeing the worst of humanity, or being their on the worst day of someone's life it takes a toll.
Yet I remember being their and helping to bring a few brand new babies into the world and that was such a high. I do have to admit I would do it all again the good the bad and the ugly I'm third gen.
Thanks to both of you for such honesty on this subject
PS; The Deputy's that rolled with us so often..........They were AMAZING and they ALWAYS had our backs so we could do our jobs. They we real hero's and will ALWAYS have my respect.
Thanks again and God bless you and yours
Thank you for your service & for sharing. I was never a police officer but military (veteran) & experienced it for a very long time. Plus life incidents added to it.
A constant mind set of being hyper vigilant can wear a person down and cause stress in a marriage. As a retired EOD military vet, I can relate.
You two are awesome with a loving family. I served 27 years as a leo. However, only 7 years in the high crime areas. Got an advanced degree in computer science, Lt promotion, and information technology for 20 years. My whole world changed at that point for the positive in serving. Your single most important event was the Lord leading you two in being able to be with your family full time. That part got me emotional. Too bad that I did not get that gift. 50 to 80+ hour weeks were the norm. National and International travel, presentations to friendly governments, teaching, politics, jealousy were all in the mix but the worst was fewer hours with the family. Keep up with what you are doing, stay healthy and happy, and remember to hug your loved ones daily. God Bless.
Jeremy, I have been watching your GSL for awhile now, and GSL Uncut since you started that. I am so glad to see you got out of LE, and made the move you did. It's so impressive to see what you all have built (mostly all by yourselves), and the amazing family dynamics you have. You probably don't remember me, but I was in a bike patrol class with you up in BG. You are/were a stud!! :) I resigned from Washougal PD almost 2 years ago (4 years at CCSO in the Jail, and then 17.5 years on patrol between CCSO and WPD) and took an Admin Asst. job there to get off the road because I was so burnt out and the legislation, and politicial climate, had changed things so much. I enjoy being around my co-workers, but am super grateful to not being on Patrol anymore and my stress levels have dropped substantially. I know I'll miss the comraderie, but am super thankful to be out of LE all-together in December and making a fresh start down in AZ enjoying retirement and detaching from my "old life". Take care, buddy, and enjoy that beautiful life you've setup for yourselves in ID.
I moved to Portland one week before Mt St Helen’s blew. I have been horrified at how it has negatively changed since then. My daughter and I will be ever grateful for the assistance LE in saving us from a domestic abuse situation. I want to thank you for your service in LE. Thank you also for your you tube channels. Please know there are still many of us that support and appreciate those in LE.
Thank you both so much!! My son in law was CHP and could only take it 9 years, his wife was a nurse in Vancouver WA, she saw what 2020 did in her hospital so they moved to Sandpoint in April 2021…….one year later we followed and I’m so grateful to feel happy peaceful and safe!!
Thank you for your service as a police officer (protector). I also want to thank you for giving me as a civilian a insight of your life as a police officer. I didn't realize how heavy of a mental load (24/7-365 days) of really not feeling safe yourself because you care about others that you took the job of a police officer. THANK YOU!!!!!
It's definitely NOT fair and I'm very happy for you and your family that you was financially able to get out of that profession.
Words could not express how impressed I am with both of you. It started with the vision you had and toiling to make it a reality. I had that kind of energy 29 years ago. However, being given a snapshot of your recent history increased my respect for you tenfold. When you said how you would like to be remembered i immediately had something flash in my minds eye. i was watching a video of Gary Mule Deer a few days ago and he said that someone asked him what he would like somebody to say at his funeral. He said, "Look he's still breathing"
Jeremy, I first want to say thank you for your service. I think the situation with law enforcement now, is changing so much for the worse. I'm glad that you were able to retire from the force, and be able to now live a wonderful life with your family. You did the right thing, and I wish you and your family many, many years of happiness. God Bless you all.
My youngest son is active duty US Navy, awarded and progressing by the world’s standards. And that’s mostly all I can say publicly about him. But we are born again Christians and see where we in this world are headed. Even some of the simple things from Revelations that I couldn’t understand how it could be possible when I was a young woman (I’m 61 now), such as information, news and speeches from world leaders going out to Everyone in the entire world INSTANTLY are now mundane. It truly seems like we’re living now in the beginning labor pains spoken about in scripture. I pray for all our frontline heroes, whether military like my son, LE, fire, ambulance, or hospital workers. May God cover and protect them all.
Another excellent podcast. I feel like I’ve been a part of your journey as Jeremy wrapped up his career and headed to Idaho. It was one of the first videos I watched. And then the one where you, Melissa, were reminiscing about leaving your home where so many memories were made with your family. I remember being so relieved for y’all when all the craziness started in Portland and thankful you had left just in time. Now I see that you were “listening” and being “lead” on this new journey. God definitely had His hand of protection on you guys!
I appreciate you being vulnerable enough to share those moments and decisions with us who have been cheering you on for several years.
GSL Uncut has quickly become a “must watch” program weekly.
Jeramy thank you for your service. This was the best GSL UNCUT yet. Very honest with your wife and you. God bless you and your family
I look forward to listening to this on spotify.
I can relate to watching my mirror driving home and I still find myself doing it from time to time, even now. Thank you SO MUCH for sharing your story, because fear is not acceptable in my world. Head on a swivel and situational awareness are important, but living life is a huge focus now.
I’m so grateful for you and this channel.
S&S
Thank you for your service Jeremy & Melissa... protecting and serving the citizens of this country. Melissa: How did you handled the stress of Jeremy laying his life on line every day for 13 years? And did the job changes his personality ? This Podcast should been a question call in type.
Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!" (Isa. 5:20.
You’re talking about when you took the leap of faith leaving law enforcement and moving to Idaho. I just turned 70 and have been watching your channel from that episode where you rendered the rabbit. You have given me faith to plan my next chapter. I’ve fought for my health for the past 20 yrs since getting Lymes and with aging. But in next 1.5 years I’ll be moving from Florida to Virginia and starting a homestead and building some cabins for an Airbnb business. I’ll be building the cabins myself (for most part) and putting the whole journey on UA-cam. Starting next month I’m going to start my first UA-cam channel with junk journals- to gain experience. A leap of faith works best with planing and saving money. I learned that from watching your channel. I remember you saying things like not using paper towels. Not spending money on things you don’t NEED. I’m also keeping in mind “will I be taking this to Virginia! Will it fit in the new lifestyle, will it be worth the space to take with me? Thank you for your story. Melissa - you’re a beast - I don’t think I’ll be picking up a piece of 3/4” plywood by myself like you did when building the stalls in the barn.
As far as the topic goes Jeremy, you’re amazing what you’ve been through in your life. I’m glad that you’re out of that job and that you were now following your dreams with your family. Remember, the most important thing is every step you take takes you to your next journey take the step! Everything happens for a reason!
Thank You Jeremy for ur civil service. I'm glad u had the opportunity to make a difference. I'm also grateful you survived it. You're still making a difference being inspirational to us all..Thanks for all you've done, and all you'll do.
Thanks for your service - Jeremy AND Melissa. Please show us your patch wall. It’s been a long long time since we’ve seen it. My grandfather was Indiana State police then Chief of Police in a small town. I was always so in awe of him. And we respected him so much. He was a gentle giant.
Excellent podcast. I worked for the Alaska State Troopers as a clerk, then judicial service clerk / dispatcher. LEOs have been some of the best people I have ever met. Thank you for your service. I agree the job takes a high toll. You were wise to find a way to leave and follow a new path.
I found it interesting when you both began to speak of listening to what you're being told (or led to). I had a great (for me) example in my life this week of doing that. Thursday night while on my way to pick up a friend for a painting class, my minivan was hit head on by someone turning into it (& then they hit a second auto and sheared off its driver's side mirror). An off duty sheriff from another county saw the accident and came to van within 2 minutes of the wreck. He was out of his vehicle and at mine before the airbags deflated. He immediately asked if I was injured. His calm demeanor calmed me. My immediate worry (as a former dispatcher) was the possibility of being hit again while in an inoperable auto in a high traffic intersection. He and two others pushed my car out of traffic into the parking lot beside the scene. I didn't even get his name as I dealt with the aftermath. Airbags save lives, but they hurt. I was able to talk to 911 two minutes after my car was hit. Our city PD had a car there within 5 minutes. I was able to get help from bystanders, friends, and my spouse so quickly. 30-45 minutes later, 2 cars had been towed away and the third had driven off. Auto insurance called while at the scene.
Moving through the next day, I was able to think back and be thankful for all the quick assistance, genuine concern, and generosity given to me. I worried about my car being unrepairable (yeah they're going to total it out).
I was despondent about having a car payment again because of my recent retirement and limited budget (and dislike most car shopping issues).
And frankly, I liked my paid off minivan and had new tires and new wheels, custom seat covers and floor mats, and all the conveniences I hadn't had in other vehicles.
My husband reminded me to calm down and rest. But I was led to check for used cars online and research possible replacement choices. I checked out what Dave Ramsey said. I agreed with my husband, but felt we needed to make a 3 hour round trip to go look at a van that day or the next day.
I listened. It was a great solution. We bought it. It's 1 year newer than the totalled van. It's not "perfect" but everything fits! I don't have to empty my emergency fund or figure out the configurations etc of a new car bc this is as close to my other van as possible.
I am so glad that you and your family are in a safer place place, with some space, nature and room to not have to face and be up against such stressful conditions for you 24/7! And your wife and family do not have to deal with the situations and potential circumstances which are ever present in your heart and minds. Blessings to you all.
I can relate to so much of what you said. I was a sworn peace officer and state correctional officer for the state of California and Ohio. I worked at 2 different mens’ prisons. I was at a constant state of hyper vigilance. I could never just relax even when at home. I had a constant movie playing in my head of work. It never shut off. The nightmares, stress, anxiety that I developed that I never experienced before the job. I can remember driving down the street seeing some guy walking and my first thought was…”inmate” just because of how he was walking or how he presented himself. I wasn’t choosing to think that way, it was just there in my head. The things you see and hear. You can never unsee or unhear them. I don’t want to remember those things that I saw and/or heard inside those prison walls, but they are forever imprinted in my memory. People often think a correctional officer just sits and watches inmates all day. They have NO idea what it is really like. I ran a cell block with one other officer to 280 inmates. Every night when I went home, I knew it was because those inmates allowed me to go home that night. I had several death threats. I had the major come down and tell me of one of the death threats that they were taking very seriously and he asked me if I wanted to be removed from the cell block. I told him,” NO, that is exactly what the inmates want. I am staying right here.” Anyway, I could go on and on. Law enforcement is not an easy job. I tell people that criticize law enforcement to put on the badge and do the job, then you have the right to say something. Thank you for your service. Glad your family is here in BF and hope to meet you all one day. ❤
Hi Jeremy and Mellissa. Thanks for sharing your story. I retired from LE after 32 years. Everything you both are saying was spot on. Melissa, thanks for showing the spouse side of this. Not many police officers know what their spouses go through. My wife prayed for me every night and I think that’s why I survived all the crazy stuff that happened. Jeremy, you made the right choice to leave, but as you know the job never leaves you. You are a protector and always will be. God bless you both and praying for your continued blessings and success.
My last 10 years of work was as a civilian working in jails. I worked with custodial deputies and outside agencies bringing in prisoners for processing. I saw the everyday disruptive behavior that some arrestees presented and that was after you as a deputy had to subdue them out in the field most of the time alone. Even as a civilian I fell victim to prisoner rights, even though the whole story wasn't told. The average citizen has no clue what it takes to be a deputy \officer in today's world. I will continue to pray for you and your family. Blessings to all current and retired LE.
Wow, thank you for today!!! You are both amazing. I worked for 35 years for local government. Worked a lot with law enforcement. I also worked with senior citizen who were physically, mentally or financially abused. It was a lot. I think this was your best podcast ever and I have watched them all! May God bless all of you.🥰
Best vlog ever! Thank you for your dedicated service as a LEO and thank you for sharing with us! Helps this Mom of a LEO understand and better able to pray for him and his family! God bless you both and your family!🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Many of us can relate to what that career does to us and those around us. Those around us are often discounted and that should never be the case. Your first videos of how you were getting out and your plans for the future are what pulled me in originally. Now? All of you feel like family and friends to me. Love to all, and God bless.
I've never heard of anyone doing shower church, but it makes perfect sense. I'm not praying in the shower, but I do take long showers for calming, relaxing, and time to think. I'm a writer and get good story ideas, or work out details of stories I'm writing while in the shower. I tend more toward going out in the backyard at night and shouting at the universe to communicate with the higher power. Everyone communicates with their vision of a higher power in our own unique way.
21 years and I got out. Ditto @peasinator1, Your topic is dead on. PTSD, nightmares, personality changes, no admin support. Melissa, my husband was a FF EMT-IV (35 years) He went to a housefire, divorce situation, husband committed arson and left full gas cans all over the house then set the fire, and my husband and his crew almost got blown up by his actions. Thankful my husband did not tell me who this guy was BC I don't miss. He went to prison instead of me. But talk about red zone anger, HOLY COW, Mama Bear came alive!
I just wanted to let you both know that what you do is inspiring people. You both certainly inspired me.
I have always wanted to have a smallholding (maybe the English version of a homestead? 😳🤷♀️ Sorry, I’m not entirely sure). After 21yrs working as an EMT in the ambulance service, that career was ended by an injury so I started my own business and found my field. I was looking for some inspiration to help me decide whether to make the leap and found GSL. Your story gave me the confidence to try, so back in July I sold my home and possessions and bought an empty 30acre field. I currently live in a mobile home and I can’t wait to get started building my farm.
Thank you for sharing what you have done, it’s hard to follow your dreams when the people around you are (out of love and concern) advising you to stay on a more conventional path. I just needed someone to show me that these risks can pay off and you guys did that.
I don’t mind failing, if it’s not meant to be then it’s not meant to be, I do mind not trying though so thank you for sharing your stories.xx
I worked as a Corrections Officer for 16 years and what jeremy was saying about the way you look at life being in law enforcement is 100% true. I feel so much better and sleep better as well now that I am done with that part of my life.
Jeremy I'm so happy for you and your family . I'm happy that you and your family were able to do the things that you really wanted to do with law enforcement, after a lot of years. Now you and your family are safe and happy! I will never forget being hounded by gangs while doing traffic stops. I truly believe that if I had not left law enforcement when I did I would be buried in the ground now.
Jeremy, thank you for reminding me why i left law enforcement. It was an eye opener!
Keep On Truckin guys we love you!
Can't wait to see Saturday's video too!