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  • it took me a lot of courage to post this video, its not easy to be vulnerable to the internet, when i find myself struggling to express my innermost dilemmas to the people around me. this video is not a tutorial or a solution, this video is just a reminder that we all go through bad days, some good days and we need to accept each day as it comes. I have ended the video in a positive note, so the next vlogs are pretty positive y'all 😂😂 so cheeky with amazing energy is coming backkk!!!
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  • @CheekyVlogs
    @CheekyVlogs  Місяць тому +97

    it took me a lot of courage to post this video, its not easy to be vulnerable to the internet, when i find myself struggling to express my innermost dilemmas to the people around me. this video is not a tutorial or a solution, this video is just a reminder that we all go through bad days, some good days and we need to accept each day as it comes. I have ended the video in a positive note, so the next vlogs are pretty positive y'all 😂😂 so cheeky with amazing energy is coming backkk!!!

    • @abiramisivanandan9706
      @abiramisivanandan9706 Місяць тому

      Thanks for being yourself ❤
      Big 🫂🫂

    • @valoriefalorie4223
      @valoriefalorie4223 Місяць тому

      Don’t worry girl! Entrepreneurship and balancing personal life is hard. People make it sound too glamours but it takes a toll and I feel only few can handle it but we don’t even know what they are going through. Also don’t be too harsh on yourself. We judge our selves too much but I can’t help it either 😊
      I started my own company a few months ago and I don’t feel that enthu anymore because it feels like I need 10 hands. I feel like I don’t need to do all this when the rest of the world is enjoying 😊. I don’t know how to push myself and I feel scared to take the next leap but I can’t see myself going back to work and take shit 😊. It’s not like I am lazy but feel demotivated and I don’t know how to move forward. I have a great family support but still don’t feel like pushing myself. I used to workaholic when I was working but now I feel like I have too much time but sometimes I feel like i have no time. I don’t know how to channelize this energy.
      I don’t know may be it helps to go back to work. Talking to people is better than doing alone. Easy for me to say but I think I liked working and then detaching from it. Now I feel it’s part of my life which I am unable to detach because I like my mee time 😊.
      Also we are humans and don’t forget that. We are not machines and can make mistakes 😊. I sometimes feel bad how people mostly men and some women continue to work like computers. It’s not easy! I have no answer but just a rant 😊

  • @priyavenkatesh4533
    @priyavenkatesh4533 Місяць тому +7

    Watching Cheeky’s down video when I am down, I feel so connected, 🫂💛

  • @miri_1011
    @miri_1011 Місяць тому +12

    I had no option to rewatch your vlogs over again, surprisingly new video notification pops up🥰😌🌸✨ #cheekydna #cheekyvlogs since 2019!!!

  • @varnica.krish25
    @varnica.krish25 Місяць тому +39

    I'm a CA student, doing self study ,stays in home almost everyday , had a mental breakdown yesterday at 12 PM. I can relate to you akka, being a person who has no socializing I'm happy to have a person who's going through the similar thing get over it with simpler steps
    Thanks for showing this side , this is a much needed video to me personally. Love your content ❤.
    Need Trousers recommendation video soon.

    • @CheekyVlogs
      @CheekyVlogs  Місяць тому +4

      🫂🫂🫂

    • @alegr3093
      @alegr3093 Місяць тому +2

      This is so me! 21y old CA student stuck in inter

    • @Sandhya_k.v
      @Sandhya_k.v Місяць тому +1

      Me too as a CA STUDENT 🥲 I’m stuck I don’t even know what to do if not this but also I don’t want to do this and yeah I don’t know

    • @Harinik-ys7pw
      @Harinik-ys7pw Місяць тому

      @@varnica.krish25 I am a cma inter student failed in inter ! I am preparing for dec term

    • @alegr3093
      @alegr3093 Місяць тому

      @@Sandhya_k.v hey are you doing inter or final? What about cma us?

  • @jayhema3753
    @jayhema3753 Місяць тому +8

    Tight hug to you girl. I can understand and can put myself in your shoes. I hope you get the peace you deserve. Lots of love and hugs🫂

  • @n_n4967
    @n_n4967 Місяць тому +3

    Thank you for posting this video. Its not easy to be vulnerable. When i am going through that phase one thing that helped me was to be grateful that i have my parents and have few people around me and they inspire me. I hope you don't put to much pressure with yourself. One step at a time cheeky. And this vlog felt like a comfort hug. Dont worry ur dad will be fine soon. Lots of love to you ♥️

  • @shaaini254
    @shaaini254 Місяць тому +2

    Cheeky you literally described my past few months... I was also in that 'not too depressed to call it as depression' but yeah it was intense!! And I feel very relieved to see how gracefully you handled that

  • @VaisuAboutech
    @VaisuAboutech Місяць тому +1

    I’m your follower from your initial days . Everytime i feel like you’re a girl next door not sure why , i think its because most of your contents just related with my life
    This video proves it again with following takeaways
    1. Job drains your energy even it’s your passion
    2. Few days we dont know the purpose of life and our existence
    3. Dressing up, having few ppl to manage us, meditation and workout are main important things now a days

    I wish one day i’ll meet you in person .
    I want to be your friend not sure that seems impractical but I’ll always have a connect with you🙌
    Keep going cheeky!! Most of them are in the same phase of life only atleast i can see someone opening up here. Now a days we cant even open up ourselves in front of other in this competitive world.✌️
    Thanks nd loads of love to you❤
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    • @CheekyVlogs
      @CheekyVlogs  Місяць тому

      Loads of love ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sharmishasu
    @sharmishasu Місяць тому +2

    I kind of have a decent job and supportive parents but I have been sunk with this feeling for a couple of months now and I can’t thank you enough for resonating my inner voice out loud, we got this girl !

  • @alisondcruz6878
    @alisondcruz6878 Місяць тому

    Oh my god I’m just watching this after 2 weeks and I’m half way through the video! It takes a lot to put this out! I hope ur getting the help u need and it’s great that the comment section is so wonderful and supportive!!! Idk just wanted to say that there are people out there waiting and looking forward to ur videos even if it’s a 30 minute rant!!! We love u!! U matter! And what u do matters!! ❤❤❤

  • @snehap25
    @snehap25 Місяць тому +5

    Bro i felt the sadness in the 1st clip and poga poga unga smile paaka i felt relieved!!! Phone character style la cute ahh iruntheenga cheeky! 😂More love to you! ❤️‍🩹✨

  • @snehap25
    @snehap25 Місяць тому +5

    I have an friend who i rant to most of the time and the relief it gives me is so real at the end of the day. We do not judge you for being real. Its just an phase of life everybody goes through! I’m happy that you have us to tell us how you feel really! ❤

  • @mahad7178
    @mahad7178 Місяць тому +5

    I dealt with most of things you mentioned here like parents getting sick , seeing my dad in pain, dealing with a chronic illness and feeling blah with a 9 to 5 job. Life ipdiye irukathu Subha.although it may not look like it now , It will get better. Keep sailing.Take one day at a time as you said.sending you virtual hugs. This too shall pass ❤

  • @krubhadn778
    @krubhadn778 Місяць тому +2

    The shirt color looks refreshingly good on you and it compliments you well.
    It is nice listening to you.Your current environment may be overstimulating.
    Try to do simpler versions of your usual routines. Like eat 3 meals daily not necessarily prepared by you.Avoid sugary stuff.listening to relaxing playlists.lighting aroma candles.prayer.things that don't involve too many steps..get better soon.

  • @prabha6002
    @prabha6002 Місяць тому

    I myself feel so overwhelmed too. I try to form a routine I'll follow it few days then again I'll lay on bed doing nothing. As you said being lazy and being depressive is different and realised that only when you quoted. I'm preparing for exams and haven't cleared still now. This is my third year. I feel the same as you. Ethuku ithu pananum. Panni ena use. Chummave irunthukalam and everything. Nd this leads to frustration and I'll get triggered by even the smallest things. What I do is rant it out to a friend and it'll somehow becomes a little smaller then I try to focus on what I should do to be productive. Even if I couldn't complete the scheduled tasks I don't pressure myself. Atleast I tried to do it la athuve pothum. Nalaiku inum knjm padikalam.
    I don't know why I said all these but I wanted to let you know that you are not alone in this. You have us. And don't have a second thought in posting videos like this because if you speak it out it'll give you peace and clarity. And I wish this will pass soon ❤

  • @lakshmisrinivasaraghavan228
    @lakshmisrinivasaraghavan228 Місяць тому

    yes Moms are great! I used to just sit next to her and continue doing whatever I was doing whenever am a lil low and I don't know her presence just makes everything calm! More power to you, sending you loads of loveeeee!!

  • @pavselvam1311
    @pavselvam1311 Місяць тому +1

    Hiii Cheeky, it is okay to feel that way. It takes a lot of courage to open up here. As u always say, this is a safe space. Watching your videos were some coping mechanism for me. Im watching this at a right time because it gives a reality check for me as well. I will pray for you and your family. Remember, this too shall pass.

  • @priyadarshini5297
    @priyadarshini5297 Місяць тому

    Hey subha! Have been following you for a really long time now. I think we are in a similar situation, my grandfather raised me and him being in the ICU for the past 2 weeks has been extremely overwhelming, with my aged parents i have to be there at the hospital 24/7 without proper food or sleep, there is not even a bed to just take a power nap. On the other hand, i dint get enough leaves from my office so had to manage that as well. Working for 13-14hrs, taking care of thatha, not being able to express my self emotionally, taking tuition all put together i always have this numb feeling. And ofcourse parents started complaining that gym ku pola kaasu waste aagudhu, oru market ku kooda poga mudiyadha and everything. So i dont know why but just felt like sharing it here. Atleast after watching this video it feels like I'm not alone. Hope you feel the same. Idhuvum kadandhu pogum. Lots of love and hugs to you.

  • @lekhathiru9181
    @lekhathiru9181 Місяць тому

    Thanks for this raw content ...showing us non social media life ...which gives realness feel and peace....
    We love you no matter wat ....showing only happy side will also affect viewers to think like she is so happy why my life is not good so its better to show both ....and the way u r trying to come out of it will also helps the ones who are still struggling ...and ofcourse problem is problem...there is no small or big ...its all about learning ❤ show us ur learning ❤

  • @Priya-wb8cl
    @Priya-wb8cl 9 днів тому

    It gets better. More power to you 🫂

  • @karthikha4521
    @karthikha4521 Місяць тому

    I totallyyy relate myself here, Big Hugs to everyone going through the same. These inner battles about ourselves are huge even people around couldn’t get it.I hope we are gonna accept ourselves for who we are and all our brain fog’s gonna phew someday and Thanks cheeky for bringing this up❤️

  • @Harinik-ys7pw
    @Harinik-ys7pw Місяць тому +13

    cheeky akka seekaramave dad ke health sari aagidum !!!

  • @maydhiniravi6847
    @maydhiniravi6847 Місяць тому

    Everything is going to be fyn cheeky you’ll be back with the bang 💥. Sending you lots of positivity and courage 😊

  • @sarithabalaji5625
    @sarithabalaji5625 Місяць тому

    Truth of the adulthood explained in a transparent way..When someone talks about how you feel really makes us think, We are not alone in this and this is such kind of video. Thanks aloud Subha.

  • @Asha-br9dp
    @Asha-br9dp Місяць тому

    Hey Cheeky ! You are one of the very few ppl in this platform, who I find so real and relatable ♥️ Don't worry. Everything will be okay ! Tough times don't last. Tough ppl do ✨

  • @varshasusanmathew5663
    @varshasusanmathew5663 Місяць тому +1

    Suba you're so brave! Sending lots of love and hugs!🫂🫂

  • @sindhujaperumal7910
    @sindhujaperumal7910 Місяць тому

    Whatsoever I am just fore seeing more better days for you to come. Nothing is permanent esply the hard phase. This too shall pass..u are just ABSOLUTELY AMAZING..keep going bro !! More power and love to you❤

  • @VanathiSuresh
    @VanathiSuresh Місяць тому +1

    Strength and hugs to you🫂❤️

  • @SassycallySubramaniyans
    @SassycallySubramaniyans Місяць тому +2

    When you said, sometimes it would have been great if I was working for someone else..cuz I don’t want to slap a smile on my face and say jokes for a living! That was really hitting hard…things will get better soon Suba ❤️

  • @DISHAKREDDY
    @DISHAKREDDY Місяць тому

    Cheeeky….. ur not alone! We love u for d way u r. Good or bad, tats okay. Just a tough phase. U’l be back my girl ❤ we love u always even at ur messy state. Our fun cracker, comeback stronger

  • @Sneka0705
    @Sneka0705 Місяць тому

    More hugs,love and strength too yuuu cheekyy ka!! Keep a smilee alwayss❤❤

  • @lakshmyvaithiswaran4274
    @lakshmyvaithiswaran4274 Місяць тому

    I'm pretty sure there are great days coming up ahead for you❤
    All prayers for uncle's good health from my side

  • @goodvibeswithdeepu5006
    @goodvibeswithdeepu5006 Місяць тому

    Love u always ….you can do it !!!!
    Looking forward our cheeky vlogs vibes

  • @saffrinfathima227
    @saffrinfathima227 Місяць тому

    I can see myself in this video.... Hope everything Will be alright 🫂❤️

  • @honeylove3270
    @honeylove3270 Місяць тому +1

    Hugs and lots of love. ❤ Lots and lots of strength.

  • @hemashree4558
    @hemashree4558 Місяць тому

    Big hugs cheeky I saw the entire video it was like a ranting out session with my sister

  • @monishat4646
    @monishat4646 Місяць тому

    Thanks for posting this video ka... sometimes it connect with my life also...hope your dad will get ready soon...lots of love and hugs ✨❣️

  • @anushkafernando7046
    @anushkafernando7046 Місяць тому +1

    Cheeky- dont expect yourself to hustle hard all the time... life has curve balls... take time to rest if you must.... May be work with a somatic therapist who can help figure out things from the core than you analysising things yourself.. when you said your emotional quotient is stronger... its because you have less capacity in your body to hold emotions. so somatic therapy .. research about it.. it will help you expand your self to expand discomforting emotionss easily. give it a try and rest if you must. :) much love

  • @saiharini7920
    @saiharini7920 Місяць тому +1

    Hello akka even before typing his comment brain is commenting too many voices"ithe en type panure ","is this going to make ur time productive " blah blah... everything what u said was just sooo realll, ageing parents, preparing for a competitive exam, no job pressure (not by others but mostly by me)and u are not alone.. actually over a time ithe palagiduthu apro thana seriya poiduthu ellaruku ipdi than irukamnu irukum 😂but it's just a phase i guess..
    I dont usually comment on videos but the urge to comment this was so huge 😂❤🫂btw thnks for this video

    • @CheekyVlogs
      @CheekyVlogs  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much ❤️🫂 we are in this together 🌸

  • @hindujavani
    @hindujavani Місяць тому

    We can totally understand you , pls don't worry we all will definitely pray for your dad he will be okay sooon believe me

  • @Sssst02
    @Sssst02 Місяць тому

    Last December,My father got affected by the brain stroke.. we stayed a whole month in hospital.. it was a Rollacoaster for sure.. post that I got into stress and got abscess & more health issues .. now everything is getting better slowly.. it's a slow healing process.. hope all things gonna change soon .. my father and me fought those hard phase and now we are better.. same goes to u .. don't worry cheeky

  • @moshinamaideen
    @moshinamaideen Місяць тому

    Apparently will be fine. You be fine apo dhan ellame sari agum ❤❤

  • @Prii79
    @Prii79 Місяць тому

    Much love to you subha akka!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️you deserve all good things cheeky 🥰

  • @dharshinianand9409
    @dharshinianand9409 Місяць тому

    I have gone through this phase it takes lot of time to heal don't be hard on yourself lots of love to u❤

  • @lekhaganpat99
    @lekhaganpat99 Місяць тому

    Soon your life will be back on track where your biggest trouble would be just what to cook for lunch or dinner✨ Wishing health and happiness to you and your family🫂❤️

  • @veslinr5755
    @veslinr5755 Місяць тому

    You're doing great cheeky.. you're so real that's why I liked you more than other youtubers.. more power to you.. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @aparnap4474
    @aparnap4474 Місяць тому

    Getting the ups and down❤️✨

  • @priyaz
    @priyaz Місяць тому

    Hi cheeky sending you all hugs hope dad heals very soon 🩵 I think you have put yourself on so much perfection and list of things to do thats why you feel de motivated quickly unless you get that perfect shot ! Im so glad you made this video of imperfections now :)
    do try to go on small dates nearby with vignesh to make u feel lil better make small changes at home change the fragrance color theme ! You will feel much much better :)❤

  • @abhinayaanbarasan4226
    @abhinayaanbarasan4226 Місяць тому

    More love to you cheeky ❤ you will live through

  • @srinidhisaravanan3597
    @srinidhisaravanan3597 Місяць тому

    Lots of strength to you. Soon everything will change ❤❤

  • @merlinnetto
    @merlinnetto Місяць тому

    It's okay not to be okay darling. Take your time and everything will fall in place.

  • @shruthilaya9066
    @shruthilaya9066 Місяць тому

    Pls put a vedio on how to style t- shirts❤️❤️hope you a happy life and stay strong... everything has a end. Hoping what ever you are going comes to an end soon💜💜love you😊

  • @maroonpotatotalks422
    @maroonpotatotalks422 Місяць тому

    You are doing good sister. You are enough. We are proud of you! ❤

  • @safia5803
    @safia5803 Місяць тому

    Sending you lots of loves and hugs we are proud ❤of you

  • @reshmamanilazer4217
    @reshmamanilazer4217 Місяць тому

    Dont worry cheeky everything will be alright soon❤

  • @nithyasribarathwaaj6604
    @nithyasribarathwaaj6604 Місяць тому

    Yes ka we need vlogs on trousers

  • @pavithra_arumugam
    @pavithra_arumugam Місяць тому

    More strength and only love cheeky akkaa❤❤❤❤❤

  • @divyag440
    @divyag440 Місяць тому +1

    Feeling same . I wish i will also get some solution and move forward . Tight hugs to u 🫂🫂 ... We will get over this . This too shall pass . Lets hope 🤞

  • @pavi3730
    @pavi3730 Місяць тому

    It's really sad about your situation but let's say "இதுவும் கடந்து போகும்" 💪🏻👍🏻

  • @Jolleen
    @Jolleen Місяць тому

    Awww Cheeky ❤❤ Big Hug 🫂
    Lots of love and prayers for you 😘
    Thank you for expressing....it gives us a reassurance that we are all going through ups and downs ❤ and we have to cope up and overcome 😊
    Thanks for this❤❤❤
    Take care 💖

  • @Kuttimakutti08
    @Kuttimakutti08 Місяць тому

    I hope ur dad will get well soon dr,❤

  • @pooranigopinath136
    @pooranigopinath136 Місяць тому

    Good days will come again cheeky ❤ be strong 🫂

  • @balajisrinivasan6997
    @balajisrinivasan6997 Місяць тому

    More power to you, Cheeky

  • @pb5452
    @pb5452 Місяць тому +3

    Nice..this is real ..this is what much needed.❤

    • @CheekyVlogs
      @CheekyVlogs  Місяць тому +1

      🫂🫂

    • @pb5452
      @pb5452 Місяць тому

      @@CheekyVlogs I have been seeing you for 7 years. I can understand you. Time heals everything.

  • @sree6073
    @sree6073 Місяць тому +2

    Tell us more about Invisalign plss

    • @CheekyVlogs
      @CheekyVlogs  Місяць тому +1

      Sure! Will put up a vlog soon 🌸

  • @sivan3917
    @sivan3917 Місяць тому

    Akka just talk athuveh pothu❤😅 be strong love u..

  • @lakshmyvaithiswaran4274
    @lakshmyvaithiswaran4274 Місяць тому

    Much love to you cheeky akka❤

  • @safia5803
    @safia5803 Місяць тому

    We need new episodes on the podcast ❤

  • @vasumathinagesh3632
    @vasumathinagesh3632 Місяць тому

    Put affordable and durable slippers vlog.

  • @i_am_nerd_alert
    @i_am_nerd_alert Місяць тому

    Sending you lots of love ❤😢

  • @soumyakg5015
    @soumyakg5015 Місяць тому

    Cheekyy man ❤❤

  • @SJ-pg2nk
    @SJ-pg2nk Місяць тому

    Could you please tell where you bought the huge mirror? Looks nice

  • @alexpandian6924
    @alexpandian6924 Місяць тому

    1:10 seekeeram sari agidum ok yenga subu yepavum sirichite irukanum 😢

  • @aathikafathima667
    @aathikafathima667 Місяць тому

    Hope ❤❤

  • @soumyakg5015
    @soumyakg5015 Місяць тому

    Thank you for talking about haemorrhoids it really sucks I'm just 20 and this things kind of really spoils my day . Is there any way to deal with it apart from taking laxative

    • @CheekyVlogs
      @CheekyVlogs  Місяць тому

      I will put a video on it 🌸🫂

  • @kowsalya.g1034
    @kowsalya.g1034 Місяць тому

    Unga husband Kum ungalukum fight vandha how do u deal with ? How the the feeling was ?

  • @prithirajagopal3359
    @prithirajagopal3359 Місяць тому

  • @niraimathi4371
    @niraimathi4371 Місяць тому

    I need outfits video cheeky please post i am waiting

  • @shenbagabharathi896
    @shenbagabharathi896 Місяць тому +2

    Kandipa appa will comeback ka💪❤

  • @vijayalakshmibalaji4946
    @vijayalakshmibalaji4946 Місяць тому

    only love for u girl

  • @Darsana-rc8wk
    @Darsana-rc8wk Місяць тому

    Hey cheeky !! Have u considered therapy ??
    Can someone please suggest some therapist in chennai ??!

  • @ramyathiyagu2265
    @ramyathiyagu2265 Місяць тому

    Hi akka

  • @dharshu0572
    @dharshu0572 Місяць тому

    ❤❤

  • @swethadevakumar4217
    @swethadevakumar4217 Місяць тому

    🫂

  • @Harinik-ys7pw
    @Harinik-ys7pw Місяць тому

    1 st like

  • @hdjdjdjj4572
    @hdjdjdjj4572 Місяць тому

    Gurl 🤌cheerup you shouldn't be this overwhelming 🥹and make us feel low your the cheerleader for us may be write it out play with colours it may help you out

  • @hdjdjdjj4572
    @hdjdjdjj4572 Місяць тому

    Feeling vulnerable is fine you r in our safe hands cheeky 🩷 we'll be always stand by you i feel like ur attributing the downs on you more then the ups

  • @sathyabhamau8897
    @sathyabhamau8897 Місяць тому

    ❤🫂❣