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  • Preparing for My Traditional Lobola Day | A Personal Journey**
    Hello, everyone!
    I am beyond excited to share this intimate journey of preparing for my traditional lobola day with all of you. This was a private, intimate gathering and I am pleased to share it with you. This experience has been filled with joy, anticipation, and a lot of planning. From selecting the perfect wedding items to ensuring the groceries were just right for the festivities, every step has been a labor of love.
    Join me as I take you through the entire process. Watch as I browse through vibrant traditional attire, meaningful decorations, and essential items that will make our celebration truly unforgettable. You'll also see how I navigated through the bustling markets and stores to gather everything we needed for the big day.
    But it's not just about the preparations. It's about the emotions and excitement that come with it. I'm thrilled to share these personal moments with you and bring you along on this beautiful journey. Thank you for being a part of this special time in my life. Your support and love mean the world to me.
    Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay updated on all the wedding festivities!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 78

  • @Prey_ZA
    @Prey_ZA 28 днів тому +2

    Oh Mrs. O🥰🥰🥰 I'm so happy to be watching this vlog. Can't wait for part 2. Congratulations again mama. May God abundantly bless this union.

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  28 днів тому

      Thank you so much my Pre❤🎉

  • @cebiii7772
    @cebiii7772 17 днів тому +1

    I'm new to the channel. I was bored and decided let me watch some South African blogs and I came across you video and I never looked back ahhh I watched almost all your videos in 1 sitting ❤keep it up. I'm literally in love

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  16 днів тому +1

      Thanks so much Cebi, you made my day. Too many more vlogs together sis ❤

  • @maureenolifant892
    @maureenolifant892 Місяць тому +2

    🥹😇❤️❤️ Got so much to say.
    Your skin? Glowing!! It’s so beautiful that they immediately prayed over the union. Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      e fought hard for this skin...happy and glowing ❤❤ pray rover everything sis

  • @mapulemogashoa1197
    @mapulemogashoa1197 Місяць тому +1

    Ahhhhh this was so beautiful. You even shed a tear my doll. I love you so much and congratulations once again

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      Love you my best ❤❤ thank you so much

  • @MaliviweC
    @MaliviweC Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤❤ Teared all over again. Oh this is beautiful, thank you for sharing this personal journey with us xx

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      Thank you my beautiful chom. Love you so much ❤❤

  • @adultingwithlanda
    @adultingwithlanda 24 дні тому +1

    Loved it Mrs O!❤❤

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  23 дні тому +1

      Glad you liked it Landa, I appreciate you for watching ❤❤

  • @TshimologoMothulwe
    @TshimologoMothulwe Місяць тому +1

    I love this so much!! Congratulations Mrs O-H 🎉🎉🎉. Love it for you my chom.
    God bless your union!🫶🏽

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      Love you tons my beautiful asobi sister❤❤

  • @gqibelomahlangu
    @gqibelomahlangu 25 днів тому +1

    Congratulations hun🎉🎉❤❤this is so so beautiful.

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  23 дні тому +1

      Hey Gqibelo, happy new year sis. I am glad you enjoyed it ❤❤

  • @preciousmasha
    @preciousmasha 28 днів тому +1

    I just discovered you NOW! What a beautiful vlog, you’ve just gained a subbie in me ❤

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  28 днів тому

      Thanks for subbing Ptecious! So excited to have you here my dol ❤

  • @brookebrown6022
    @brookebrown6022 Місяць тому

    This was soo beautiful to watch, Solane❤May God bless your union, Queen🌻

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much Brooka !!🌻🌻

  • @RelebohileBridgette
    @RelebohileBridgette 28 днів тому +1

    You just gained yourself a subbie😊 I came across your video and I fell in love with you❤

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  28 днів тому +1

      Thanks for subbing! Looking forward to many more videos together Relebohile❤

  • @luzettethabethe1633
    @luzettethabethe1633 Місяць тому

    Soooo beautiful Mrs O.. i want to like this a million times.. Blessed indeed my doll.❤❤❤❤

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      Thank you! you were with me all the way forever grateful for you sis ♥️😊

  • @nokuthularadebe2019
    @nokuthularadebe2019 Місяць тому +2

    Not me crying bathong such a beautiful vlog🥹🤍🤍❤️ congratulations again my babe

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you Thuls...I appreciate you ♥️

  • @mpumelelomahlangu-un9lc
    @mpumelelomahlangu-un9lc Місяць тому +1

    Welcome back Mama
    We have been waiting❤

    • @MenzelSatisfied
      @MenzelSatisfied Місяць тому +2

      yoh it's been a long time

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      back like I never left sis. the break was great ❤❤

  • @michellemphomane9913
    @michellemphomane9913 Місяць тому +1

    Wow tht was beautiful my sister God bless you more

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much sister🤗

  • @Patie_Mfundisi
    @Patie_Mfundisi Місяць тому +1

    Congratulations dear this is beautiful ❤❤🙌🏼

  • @Masechabakobedi
    @Masechabakobedi Місяць тому +1

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉congratulations once again

  • @Masechabakobedi
    @Masechabakobedi Місяць тому +1

    That moment you have to go and say you know the visitors it’s so scary 🥹🥹and so final 😊

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      right? feels so different...what a moment ❤❤

  • @Ghulane-Flora
    @Ghulane-Flora Місяць тому +1

    Loved the vlog. You looked very beautiful

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      Thanks for watching Flora, I appreciate you watching 🌻

  • @Masechabakobedi
    @Masechabakobedi Місяць тому +1

    Ooh he loves marriage so much and the bible says he holds it dear and very close to his heart ❤️

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      We are blessed and grateful ❤❤

  • @kebam_
    @kebam_ 24 дні тому +1

    New subbie, just cause I love LOVE ❤️

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  23 дні тому

      Thank you so much my babe, I appreciate you being here ❤️ #lovergirlsworldwide

  • @awelaninematandani9352
    @awelaninematandani9352 27 днів тому +1

    New subscriber here. Marriage is not my ultimate goal but when it comes my way will accept it. Indeed marriage is a gift and blessing from above

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  27 днів тому +1

      Welcome aboard Awelani...I love your name. Indeed sis, God loves marriage and we must be called for it.

    • @awelaninematandani9352
      @awelaninematandani9352 27 днів тому

      @MelaninofSA thanks

  • @PreciousK03
    @PreciousK03 16 днів тому +1

    Playing catch up💖

  • @portiamazwane5952
    @portiamazwane5952 Місяць тому +1

    Congratulations gorgeous 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much beautiful😀

  • @diii_mpho
    @diii_mpho День тому +1

    Is Ntsako married? 😂🥺
    Beautiful vlog Mrs O

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  День тому

      Hahah absolutely not yet! She’s only 18

  • @puseletsomatsheng1450
    @puseletsomatsheng1450 21 день тому

    Congratulations Mrs O❤🥂

  • @gqibelomahlangu
    @gqibelomahlangu 25 днів тому +1

    Your Skin❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  23 дні тому +1

      Iv come a long way with this skin hey, thank you sis ❤❤

  • @Karabo.masitha
    @Karabo.masitha 26 днів тому

    New Subbie😍😍this was such a beautiful vlog and I'm definitely staying in this family

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  25 днів тому +1

      Thanks for subbing Karabo dol. Im happy to have you here, we gonna have fun

  • @joshuaaremo6400
    @joshuaaremo6400 Місяць тому +1

    Congratulations iyawo❤❤❤❤

  • @nambithak
    @nambithak Місяць тому +1

    Congratulations mama.♥️

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      My fav...thanks so much dol ♥️

  • @filwe_a
    @filwe_a Місяць тому +2

    Please plug on where you got your things embroidered, You looked absolutely beautiful, please outline process on closing the street as well

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      Will do!! I think I sent you a dm on Tiktok? for others who may read this...I got the embroidery from Embroidery Junxion in Honeydew ♥️

  • @ThobileMpofu
    @ThobileMpofu Місяць тому +1

    Wow this is beautiful to watch congratulations my doll 🔥❤️🙏🏽🫂

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      Thank you Thobs ❤❤. I Appreciate you

  • @NyeletiMaluleka-p9y
    @NyeletiMaluleka-p9y Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @millicentphumzile5160
    @millicentphumzile5160 18 днів тому +1

    I'm a new subbie

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  18 днів тому

      hey gorgeous, im happy you here sis

  • @refemecoemokhooa3793
    @refemecoemokhooa3793 13 днів тому

    Was the lobola paid in full at this point or ....? Cause 😭😭😭 advice please

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  13 днів тому

      It’s different for every family you can discuss with your partner how you want it to be. To answer you, yes!🫶🏼

  • @MichelleMasango-hd8wh
    @MichelleMasango-hd8wh Місяць тому

    New subbie beautiful ❤❤❤

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому

      Thanks for subbing Michelle! to many more vlogs together ♥️

  • @majahahadebe
    @majahahadebe 29 днів тому +1

    Di you credit Brenda? Before I sue you?

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  28 днів тому

      It’s a cover my love I’ll definitely credit the artist ❤

  • @NtsakoThabethe
    @NtsakoThabethe Місяць тому +6

    I did a good job shooting this video ❤🎉

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA  Місяць тому +1

      You did so well my Ntsako girl ♥️