TTC UPDATE | TTC BABY #2 | REALITIES OF TTC

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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
  • As you guys know, my hubby and I are TTC baby #2 but I really wasn't expecting all of this. So I figured I'd share my feelings about the whole process in case anyone else out there can relate. TTC can be hard and stressful and it's not always an easy or fun process. Anyway, thanks so much for watching guys! Love you all! xoxox, Kayla
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  • @Kbach275
    @Kbach275 5 років тому +14

    Iv been trying for baby #2 for about 4 months and it’s hard so many women try for years and don’t have any. I feel bad because everyone wants to know the joy of having a baby. But so many people have told me I should just enjoy the baby I have. I do enjoy her but I want her to have someone little to play with. But some women have their first one and than have infertility with their second baby. Good luck and baby dust.

    • @KaylaBuell
      @KaylaBuell  5 років тому +2

      kim Ambassador thanks so much mama! And same to you! Yea I’m totally grateful for Riley but I absolutely would love for her to have a sibling. 100% know what you mean. ❤️

  • @chelseyspeicher3877
    @chelseyspeicher3877 4 роки тому +2

    This is my first time watching anything on your channel and I feel like you're describing my life and my feelings to a T!!! Literally taking the thoughts right out of my head. I got pregnant with our first child quickly and easily (at 25yo) without tracking my ovulation or really knowing anything within the TTC world. Now with baby #2, I'm 29 and there is so much more added stress, not on purpose, but because there is soooo much more information I have been overloading myself with! I know that I need to take a step back and relax more and maybe it will happen soon. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability, it's so comforting knowing that we're not alone in this journey. ❤️

  • @marriageonfire5376
    @marriageonfire5376 5 років тому +2

    Kayla- I’m going through the SAME EXACT situation. I’m going on month 8 of TTC. And just like you, I have been praying for this baby for over a year before I even started to TTC. Sending prayers your way and if you will keep my family in yours. No matter what...God is good and we are blessed beyond measure. #PrayingWithIntention

  • @ToryStender
    @ToryStender 5 років тому +5

    I love how open and honest you are about this!!! 💕💕 Sending you alll the love

  • @cheyennestewart9285
    @cheyennestewart9285 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for being so open about this, Kayla. I know this is a year after you posted, but it really resonated with me. I had my baby a few days after you had Jackson and we've been trying for our second with no success for a few months now. It's so hard to go through, especially with having two miscarriages before getting pregnant with my daughter and the fact that it took over a year to have a healthy, viable pregnancy. Some of the things you mentioned really reached me and helped me to reevaluate where I am and what I could be doing differently with my faith and trust in God. Thank you so, so much.

  • @jamiekeel2017
    @jamiekeel2017 5 років тому +3

    Omg I just found your video and I SWEAR you are telling my story lol I have a 14 month old son and my husband and I had that SAME talk, “we will give it to God and if it happens Great” and then I totally started tracking my ovulation and coming on to him on fertile days. At that point we definitely had to talk about what we wanted to do all over again. We ended up deciding there were a couple things that had to happen before we could start trying. Now those things are done and we are officially going to try in May! We both had to get on the same page for sure!

  • @archanachandran66
    @archanachandran66 3 роки тому

    I very wholeheartedly thank you for posting videos related with ttc I have been watching all your ttc videos....you never know how far this helps people who are in the process of ttc...god bless u...❤️❤️❤️❤️appreciations and applause 🎉🎉👏👏👏....❤️❤️❤️

  • @ange3193
    @ange3193 2 роки тому

    I feel her so much when she says “know i know what it is and i want it so much”

  • @onebadazzbabegaming442
    @onebadazzbabegaming442 4 роки тому

    My husband and I are trying to conceive baby #2 it is definitely stressful. Just last week I got my period while in a bathroom before I started my workout and I was an absolute mess at the gym crying knowing it didn’t work. May everyone have an easy TTC experience and I hope a baby comes soon for all of you who are trying 🌷💕

  • @24Maoli
    @24Maoli 3 роки тому

    I've been following you since last year and right now my husband and I are going to start trying for our first baby so I'm soooo grateful you've done these videos, they're helping me a lot :)

  • @ej1176
    @ej1176 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for being so open and honest 👍❤👍 so appreciated. I have and do feel the exact way you described. We are not alone.

  • @rhondawarden1685
    @rhondawarden1685 3 роки тому

    I'm 5 months after my miscarriage and we are now trying again im so thankful for your videos

  • @deirdreoconnor8670
    @deirdreoconnor8670 4 роки тому

    I got pregnant with my first on my first cycle. Just got a negative test after 3 cycles for baby #2. Everything you said is what I'm feeling!

  • @PAHGirly
    @PAHGirly 4 роки тому +2

    It’s so awesome that as your were filming this you were already or days away from being pregnant. Lol God moment

    • @JM-fs7wn
      @JM-fs7wn 4 роки тому +1

      I was thinking this too!

  • @aubreysmith71112
    @aubreysmith71112 5 років тому +1

    My husband and I having been trying for 6 months for our first child. And it is really hard! All my friends who have had kids got pregnant within a few months, so I feel disheartened. I understand! In my experience ttc has made our sex lives kind of dreaded there is just too much pressure during that window that we both have a hard time relaxing and enjoying it! We still love eachother and we arent disliking eachother or anything but we do kind of dread that part even though we both really want our first child. And the TWW is horrible for me cuz I am such a control freak, I have had to work really hard on going with the flow. Good luck!!

  • @karlamariacabral4600
    @karlamariacabral4600 5 років тому

    Thank you, thank you, thank you for this! I feel this on so many levels. I’ve had that gap with my husband regarding timing for the longest (I too want 4 and want to start now jejejeje)and whenever I’ve spoken with anyone it’s like “dude, es la mujer que lo decide, no el hombre, just get pregnant.” So it’s nice to hear another couple talking it through and working on it together. I don’t want “surprise being my intentional approach lol. Also, since my process will require medical intervention and I don’t know ONE woman in my family that had any problem whatsoever (literally, grandma popped 9, every aunt had 4-5, one aunt even had 12! Like a breeding frenzy) I have been feeling really down and inadequate. I know it’s tough to share, but really appreciate your TTC story. Sending good vibes your way, I know it’ll all work out!

  • @PandaKisses031812
    @PandaKisses031812 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this video. My husband and I are thinking about trying to conceive next year but I hadn’t thought about what that would look like in terms of it being a “go with the flow” thing or if we were going to “be more aggressive” with it but it makes complete sense. Thank you for that tip💕

  • @hollyheaton5305
    @hollyheaton5305 3 роки тому

    I don't think you are crazy as this is word for word my experience. I'm going to try now not to look at my tracker. My first baby, my tracker was wrong anyway, and we conceived her on or around the day my period was due, Mother Nature sometimes takes the decision out of your hands no matter how hard you try. Thank you for this video 😊

  • @Kpachm
    @Kpachm 3 роки тому

    I know this is an older video but I am soooo feeling this right now. My husband and I have already been using natural family planning to avoid pregnancy since our son was born 14 months ago. Last month we decided to stop being as careful to see if anything happens but my type A personality has taken over! Lol I cannot unlearn what I know about fertility from monitoring it for a year to avoid pregnancy and it's really difficult to be casually ttc lol. I think it's just usually more difficult for women in general because we are the ones who actually become pregnant so it makes us want a little more control even when we wish we could be more relaxed.

  • @joanna3367
    @joanna3367 5 років тому

    Sending you good vibes & prayers! 🙏🏼💕 I’m also wanting another baby, but am still breastfeeding so praying for a miracle!! 🤞

  • @chikaugonna2366
    @chikaugonna2366 5 років тому

    Awwww we understand dear! Sending you lots of good vibes! I’m praying for BFP during this your TWW! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @mychelleesparza6928
    @mychelleesparza6928 5 років тому

    I understand how stressed you are I hope it goes well for you! I know how hard it is I am currently pregnant with baby #2 and all the negative tests I got when I was trying so hard for me and I know it must be the same way for you. I hope that you don’t stress yourself out too much ❤️

    • @KaylaBuell
      @KaylaBuell  5 років тому

      Mychelle Esparza thank you so much mama! And congrats!! So happy for you! Enjoy every second ❤️ it’s definitely more stressful than the first time around but I’m staying positive! Thanks for watching 😘

  • @polodana13
    @polodana13 5 років тому

    Thank you for your honesty 🙏 I wish you all the best in your journey..

  • @annabellainkindi
    @annabellainkindi 5 років тому +1

    You are amazing Kayla: thank you for being transparent :D

  • @brandiminch403
    @brandiminch403 5 років тому

    10 years! That's how long we struggled. Please, please, please do NOT stress yourself out every single month! It will make things so much worse. Make this fun! Good luck!

  • @adelejonker581
    @adelejonker581 Рік тому

    All the things is soooo true

  • @fig_and_peaches_fitness
    @fig_and_peaches_fitness 5 років тому

    This was really open and honest and I really appreciate it, very helpful 😘

  • @ShawnBrown-sf8xi
    @ShawnBrown-sf8xi 5 років тому

    We’re in the same boat. Our girls are both born in December 2017 and im also trying for baby number two ( this is our first cycle using Ovulation test but we’ve been TTC for 11 months).

  • @NoemiFlowerlove
    @NoemiFlowerlove 5 років тому

    Same thing with me.
    Our first baby came with no problem ❤️
    Then I got pregnant again but unfortunately we had a miscarriage.
    Now we are ttc again❤️

  • @iulia-anamariarupa1256
    @iulia-anamariarupa1256 5 років тому

    You are definitely not alone. It is really like you are telling my story right now :p and i mean... 1:1 match, except that my daughter is 2.5 yo, also got pregnant really fast, didn't even try for a baby back then, and now since 3 months we are ttc and it is exactly how you described :P

  • @PP-eg5xi
    @PP-eg5xi 5 років тому

    This is so on point with what I’m going through ❤️ Thank you 😊

  • @amberlin8668
    @amberlin8668 5 років тому

    I hear u. I am having baby fever and my daughter is 14 months too, but I don’t feel like hubby is in the same boat and I don’t want to pressure him but I want one more lol. I am like yay I’m ovulating and he’s like stay away from me 😂. The first year was hard so I understand. Trying to add some humor but really it is stressful since I’ll be 36 in May. Hoping you guys can conceive soon!

  • @adrianahinojosa5586
    @adrianahinojosa5586 5 років тому

    Thoughts and prayers to you mama 💓 and you are so right, trusting in God's timing is the best thing we can do 🙏💕

    • @ryanm7249
      @ryanm7249 5 років тому

      You said it! Trusting
      in God is the best thing to do. If you recall, Zacharia and Elizabeth wanted a
      child for a long time, and when Elizabeth was old the Angel Gabriel came to
      Zacharia and said your prayer has been heard. She then conceived and John the Baptist
      was born.

  • @jordanchilafoux1800
    @jordanchilafoux1800 5 років тому

    Sending you lots of prayers!! Baby dust to you!

  • @katerutledge8908
    @katerutledge8908 5 років тому

    I feel you, mama. My son is 15 months old. I am also trying to conceive baby #2. It’s not going too well for me either. My cycle is STILL very irregular and it about kills me every month that AF shows up. Is it just me or do you notice so many more women getting pregnant around you while TTC?

  • @safiyas.2546
    @safiyas.2546 3 роки тому

    Kayla you know we are all so different and nothing is right or wrong, so please don’t think you were crazy or whatever. I was 30 when I got pregnant (it wasn’t planned) but we didn’t think we would but that was ok. Did we want a baby? Yes someday, did we want it then? Not really. Was it ok? We had to change some plans but it was fine. The second time which is now I didn’t want to ttc until my first was 3, she’s 18 months now and again this is totally unplanned. I know it sounds crazy because we weren’t planning at all but we didn’t think we would...and I am actually not ready. This would really be so upsetting for people who are TTC... I know that it may sound ungrateful but that’s the space I’m in and I know it’s ok. We all have different approaches to this. But what you said is all about God’s timing, sometimes it’s just not in our hands whatever the outcome may be ❤️❤️ my lil one would be 26 months when baby #2 comes 🤗 and we haven’t even told anyone yet as it’s just so early lol

  • @elianagallego1544
    @elianagallego1544 5 років тому

    You are not crazy! I have a baby boy and he’s 6 months. I’m so in love with motherhood and my child that I’m looking forward for the next baby. I would be the same way if I was ttc. Keep trying and have faith in God. Leave it in his hands ❤️

    • @KaylaBuell
      @KaylaBuell  5 років тому

      Eliana Cortes thanks mama! Really appreciate that! And absolutely, I am. I have a lot of faith and I know it’ll all work out according to his plan ❤️

  • @julisaochoa3209
    @julisaochoa3209 4 роки тому

    You remind me a lot of Kathleen lights 🥰

  • @alexandracatomio7217
    @alexandracatomio7217 Рік тому

    Oh Kayla, I‘m so sad that after wonderful years of friendship I had to unsubscribe to your channel. Unfortunately, we are not in sync anymore. You changed a lot, turned to religion and that is just not my cup of tea. I know, people change. But I felt so strongly connected and I miss you the way you were😭 I‘m really sad about the loss😭

    • @KaylaBuell
      @KaylaBuell  Рік тому

      Awww I’m sorry you feel that way 😘😘 wish you all the best girlfriend!

    • @alexandracatomio7217
      @alexandracatomio7217 Рік тому

      @@KaylaBuell all the best to you and your family and especially for baby buell #3♥️ best wishes from Austria, Europe