This is more informative for people wanting to understand us, because all of these points are second nature, we don't even have to think about them, they occur naturally (except boundaries, that usually comes online with the mature INFJ) What really resonated with my social skills, how I role in with most people is The Charmer - "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene. Another INFJ posted about this and then I read about it, and I agree...out of all the other archetypes in the book...INFJs are The Charmers.
This is more informative for people wanting to understand us, because all of these points are second nature, we don't even have to think about them, they occur naturally (except boundaries, that usually comes online with the mature INFJ)
What really resonated with my social skills, how I role in with most people is The Charmer - "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene. Another INFJ posted about this and then I read about it, and I agree...out of all the other archetypes in the book...INFJs are The Charmers.