WHY IS A TRUE INFJ SO INTIMIDATING

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  • @BrettGroh-e2z
    @BrettGroh-e2z 3 місяці тому +80

    I enjoy getting my ass kissed with these videos about how amazing I am but seriously, this was one of the better videos on infj’s. At least it really spoke to me.

    • @iamnoteric
      @iamnoteric 3 місяці тому +12

      hehe, i think we need some asskissing because being misunderstood so wrongly may make us lose faith in the best qualities of an infj.

    • @NiaJ144
      @NiaJ144 3 місяці тому +11

      lol me too 😂😂😂😂 it’s a confidence booster in this world full of demons who always try to dim our light.

    • @zealotninja
      @zealotninja 3 місяці тому +6

      Are we all just realizing how great we actually are after a lifetime of conditioning that we are too much?

    • @iamnoteric
      @iamnoteric 3 місяці тому +2

      @@zealotninja im realizing different doesnt mean better or worse

    • @damienwelch9067
      @damienwelch9067 3 місяці тому +1

      Wats infj

  • @jardennis4nd
    @jardennis4nd 2 місяці тому +12

    Thank you for this. This video gives me opposing emotions. On one hand I feel uncomfortably boastful for being this type and at the same time, have never felt so understood in my life. It's such a relief to know how my friends see me and come to know that I am not weird.

    • @TheChannel110
      @TheChannel110 23 години тому +1

      I think it’s okay to be weird, but that’s just my normal, normal is the one that feels weird to me 😅, I also think u don’t have to fully see something to appreciate and care about it but that doesn’t mean your not open to learning about it either, I kinda hope I provided comfort but that might not be the case

    • @jardennis4nd
      @jardennis4nd 14 годин тому

      @@TheChannel110 I think you just proved that we are both INFJ's. You said, "u don't have to fully see something to appreciate and care about it."
      That ability to perceive with intuition is what makes us different. Unfortunately, that gift is like a coin with three sides.

  • @BoudicasRevenge
    @BoudicasRevenge 3 місяці тому +35

    It's a blessing when around those who truly understand you and a curse when surrounded by those who don't.

  • @J_van_can
    @J_van_can 3 місяці тому +23

    It’s nice to be understood and not alone in the world..

  • @janetdouglas1272
    @janetdouglas1272 Місяць тому +22

    I have found that having 0 expectations of other people reciprocating with ANY kindeness, respect, depth or kindness is the best way to navigate in this nasty, self-obsessed, greedy world now. And when certain people do respond positively, it is a small secret treasure to nuture me for months, as I face daily nasty challenges with most people.

  • @LadyMimieux
    @LadyMimieux 2 місяці тому +7

    13:44 Paradoxes indeed. Logic driven BUT would cry when seeing nature and its intense beauty. It’s quite ironic and I would baffle me at times. Would never change it though.

  • @ranmad415
    @ranmad415 2 місяці тому +5

    I just recently discovered that I am a INFJ and have been learning more about this personality type and myself. I laughed (in a good way) so many times during this video, having recognized myself in the narrator's description. A long time ago during a conversation with my brother, he told me that I belonged in the Institute for Disjointed Thoughts. Which I thought was both accurate and funny. So, I traced the conversation backward for him, showing him the connections from the end to the beginning. He kindly shook his head and moved on. I loved the section in the video about the contradictions of being an INFJ. The ability to hold opposite points of view simultaneously makes life so much more interesting, deep, vast and true. As does being empathetic and brutally honest. Thanks for making this video. I really enjoyed it.
    BTW- The nailing jelly to the wall made me laugh out loud. enjoy the day...

  • @korystewart3799
    @korystewart3799 3 місяці тому +23

    We are a true minority and should be a protected class.

    • @vivianebuelens9512
      @vivianebuelens9512 3 місяці тому +2

      Yeah 👍‼️ 5:08

    • @jnl3564
      @jnl3564 3 місяці тому +5

      We should also be the emotional and moral leaders of the world. We should be protected so our gifts can be expressed.

  • @SomesaAn
    @SomesaAn 3 місяці тому +6

    Before I care about others I care & love myself who satisfied me first & loyal, honest first . No judgement, no blaming . Already informed 3 months prior.

  • @LyraMeldy
    @LyraMeldy 3 місяці тому +21

    Where are you all INFJs in real life? Do we really only live online😢?

    • @willowraine5514
      @willowraine5514 3 місяці тому +2

      I tested as INFJ and everything I learn makes it feel true. So, one here!

    • @Clevelandsteamer324
      @Clevelandsteamer324 3 місяці тому +10

      I’m here. Let’s start a dating app just for us INFJ …

    • @XiTrOnE_SBT
      @XiTrOnE_SBT 3 місяці тому +4

      The best thing is when you meet an infj in real life and suddenly you can talk about philosophical stuff for hours and the person reflects all the weird stuff you do like being alone for ages.
      I only found out the person is an infj because she told me after we already knew each other for like 3 months
      I still have a hard time spotting infjs
      But I guess if someone is a good listener and you feel understood really well be more curios what personally type that person is.
      And you won the lottery

    • @raajivsaini4229
      @raajivsaini4229 3 місяці тому

      INFJs don't believe in online offline persona....either they r present or they r not in your life....they r like lotus flowers...just away and fantastic in solitude ....

    • @sagebay2803
      @sagebay2803 Місяць тому +1

      I am usually at the yoga studio or at home knitting. lol

  • @LadyMimieux
    @LadyMimieux 2 місяці тому +4

    I’ve been trying online dating for the past two months. And as an INFJ - I won’t really dumb myself down and immediately ask for the truth and authenticity. Because I don’t really like superficial relationships.
    I only get two kinds of people. Those who easily get intimidated or ones who immediately want to commit. I’m like - why commit when you haven’t known me for 24hrs. For all you know I might be someone who would just take advantage of you? But really can someone please enlighten me? Why would anyone commit to someone they have just met? Lol

    • @thatdivinebeing
      @thatdivinebeing Місяць тому

      Hi, you asked _"Why would anyone commit to someone they have just met?"_ As an INFJ I will give you two answers. They are either overly co-dependent and will derail your life by invading your boundaries. Or, they are in some kind trouble, need a place to live/need money and are using dating sites to find a 'solution'. They don't want to commit. They hope to use you. Either way, their intentions are dubious. Avoid these kinds of people.

    • @TheChannel110
      @TheChannel110 22 години тому

      It’s can be a primal need, they may just want to give someone what they want to hear because they can’t stand being by themselves, it could be a cultural belief, they may not have the luxury of testing waters, it can also be what they have convinced themselves that’s how they need to be rather then how they want to be

  • @Needabreak365
    @Needabreak365 2 місяці тому +4

    lol. I keep light topics on hand for coworkers. Usually my dogs or kids. I don’t get into deep convos with them. I know they don’t want to know why I have my political beliefs based on the entire history of Europe and how it affected the founding of America, the gilded age, etc through to today.
    I mean… my dog did the cutest thing yesterday….

  • @kookaburraadvancedhypnothe3675
    @kookaburraadvancedhypnothe3675 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for providing the mirror to finally see who I am.

  • @jasonnichols5357
    @jasonnichols5357 8 днів тому

    I am an ENTP dating an INFJ. This video is pretty darn accurate.

  • @SAGE-i3l
    @SAGE-i3l 2 місяці тому +19

    INFJ here, want to be friends 😊

  • @Loralye276
    @Loralye276 Місяць тому +1

    Excellent description of us

  • @LeetheGiant
    @LeetheGiant 2 місяці тому +1

    One other INFJ here looking to make friends with other INFJ’s. Let’s connect

  • @tribalroselr
    @tribalroselr 3 місяці тому +2

    It's also why I'm not match-able on any dating site lol!!
    I'm not that disappointed.

  • @Mercedes_Bouter_LL.M
    @Mercedes_Bouter_LL.M 3 місяці тому +4

    People with those characteristics sound exciting. Apparent paradoxes are intriguing.

    • @kyleschneider3147
      @kyleschneider3147 3 місяці тому +2

      I'm one without a doubt. Basically to me it's like everyone has tunnel vision and I'm wide awake. The crazy part is they treat me like a child, out of jealousy. When I see them and think they're ALL like children. I'm viewed at like a service, sort of like a therapist, because I understand mental health things very well with my odd personality and ADHD. But I still do better in life than all of them, and they STILL would much rather talk about the coffee on their shirts. They wouldn't even take my advice if it made them rich tomorrow. You can tell how agitating this is.
      I took an IQ test although I know that doesn't matter, but I have an IQ of 121 and I use it well. I could do anything I want, but as I look around for things to do, all I see is that my choices presented to me will not align with my values. It feels a little bit like a curse. But I still live a pretty great life.

    • @Raven-ep6pq
      @Raven-ep6pq 3 місяці тому +1

      ⁠​⁠@@kyleschneider3147it’s a gift and a curse at the same time. With your ability of fast learning and fast to pick up on thinks try becoming a skill collector of all kinds since you never know when it comes in handy. Like you I’m a INFJ but also a first deacon Cancerian water sign that has a high intuition, are strong empaths and the ability to stand into others shoes that feel their emotions, and feel their physical pain and can read a persons soul looking deep in their eyes. INFJ and the zodiac Cancer are more alike and have the same ability. IQ test results here 142, emotional intelligence test 94/100. You can also enhance your intuition ability and empathy but does come with a problem since you’ll see more in people and feel that it can be overwhelming for some if they can’t handle it to see and read other people’s mind at a much deeper level.

    • @kyleschneider3147
      @kyleschneider3147 3 місяці тому +1

      @Raven-ep6pq Well when I raise my empathy people tend to take it for granted, this is rather annoying considering I can see the ignorance in them. I feel sad for them, but at the same time I feel a little bit of hatred that they can't fix their own problems. I could just be a little bit of a dick because to me, my mind tends to lock onto actual helpful solutions without weighing my own personal desires into the equation.
      Nothing superficial actually matters. And everyone is floating around in a pool of that, due to superficial desires. Thus their entire life has no meaning or depth, and they think they're smarter because of it, and everyone believes them because they opperate on the same level as them. Thus leaving me an outsider. I'm not trying to raise my empathy, I'm just trying to play damage control to my own actions while everyone else doesn't give af because it's a horrible world and nobody can actually admit that. Now if someone steps on my toes I'll psychologically pull them apart.
      I don't want to do that, but it has to be done. People are not good, they're just enough to be tolerable for 5 minutes, after that 5 minutes is over then they question if I even cared about the conversation at all (which I didn't) neither of us learned anything, and they tried everything they could to get my approval in a way that's toxic or annoying. I see no enjoyment in trying to teach physics to a monkey for the rest of my life just to get nowhere.
      Seems like people enjoy small talk, which I hate tbh, I really just can't find a reason to be empathetic towards anyone. In fact most people think empathy means sympathy. Therefore most people are not empathetic but sympathetic.

  • @korinhubbert7163
    @korinhubbert7163 3 місяці тому +12

    I am on a mission from God🙌🙏all glory be💪!

  • @zacharymeyer3163
    @zacharymeyer3163 2 місяці тому +1

    I recently found out this was my personality type and did not believe that was the case when I found it was the rarest one. I initially took everything as vague statements, but diving deeper into research, things got too scarily specific. I am feeling extremely validated but also extremely overwhelmed. Everything makes sense now, but at the same time, I feel as if my brain is short-circuited.

    • @TheChannel110
      @TheChannel110 23 години тому

      Pat pat, just relax and ponder, you’ll most likely have time to think about it so don’t worry about understanding something immediately that will just hurt you, answer come with time

  • @phoenixrisin2269
    @phoenixrisin2269 2 місяці тому +3

    There are some in the world that have no good in them sadly. This is disturbing to come across and you have to separate yourself. We live in an evil world today

    • @TheChannel110
      @TheChannel110 23 години тому

      People who are like that, they are their too teach others, do you want to be like them or do you want to be anything but them. Sometimes people need to see the darkness in order to know where to look for the light. I truly don’t think the world isn’t more evil just more distracted from themselves and if you can’t see yourself how are people supposed to know what they want to do and act, the world has always had evil but now because of media they profit off of showing the bad they don’t make money from showing the good and everyday life

  • @nicolagregory8723
    @nicolagregory8723 5 днів тому

    be brief & try not to think to much, watch, listen, learn how to not be like them, no restrictions else I can't breathe, stay private & don't do time wasters, peace & quiet is recovery bliss

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 3 місяці тому +1

    I think it’s also worth appreciating that INFJs have cognitive blind spots like all types do. Being aware of the deficits is a massive benefit of MBTI understanding.

  • @musyclover
    @musyclover 29 днів тому

    Yeah I took 30 years to understand that world peace starts one piece at a time 🥳☃️🎄

  • @musyclover
    @musyclover 29 днів тому +1

    To all my INFJs we are the 2% that can help the 97% not be enslaved by the 1%

  • @kartikadamon
    @kartikadamon 14 днів тому

    Very accurate in my case.

  • @meditationmusic-soothingre8609
    @meditationmusic-soothingre8609 3 місяці тому +2

    Report for identity theft through procedures of another person.

  • @tesselaynes5428
    @tesselaynes5428 3 місяці тому +2

    and for God sake dont interrupt people because you know theyre going to start spouting a bunch of bull and you dont want to hear it. Youll never live it down.

  • @MS-ns4ki
    @MS-ns4ki Місяць тому

    Observant is spooky - I call it

  • @michaelwilson-px3nn
    @michaelwilson-px3nn Місяць тому

    Man sure would be nice to meet one in life that can relate to any thing that i say , or think besides only on my phone like here. But nice to know people are out there like me or i like them. Not so lonely feeling. Hard when no one understands where you come from even when you try to explain. .its been about 3 years since i figured it out and man did it answer a whole bunch of questions of why i did or said things growing up . Why i always seen habbits, patterns in things. Why i always make timelines to figure out things. Feel or just see things in a person that shows what they are feeling or know somethings not quite right. It makes people uncomfortable after a few times of asking hey, is everything all right, you ok. Like immediately seeing them. Mind you people where there feelings all over their face without realizing it i see it and sence it when most people just dont pay attention because it doesnt benefit them in any way or they cant use it for minipulation. I can almost everytime when i meet someone say a few things and the person is all about our conversation but when i get a little detailed about it , some depth and meaning instead of just the typical top layer boring weather talk i watch them start to het a look on their face and start to pull back doing a 180° . The i took it to that level i guess it shouldnt go. To them that is . Totally normal for me and the ghosting comes out . Like i can pinpoint the exact time it happens tonthem when they start to feel like that.. i become mr. To logic tone it down, i think i know everything, especially when i learn something im excited about which is a lot of stuff but i want other people to know what i know too. But people always make stuff about them no matter how much you explain yourself or how i came to the conclusions of things they dont see or cant for that matter. Ahit i try to explain to family about what i learned of being an INFJ how it came about , what backs it up thinking shit they know indonthis or that or am this way that they could relate. But no not wven close. Tell them to take multiple tests not just myers Briggs and see for themselves and ots always man that crap is made for anybody to relate to it loke some palm reader or psychic. Like someone said in the comments its a gift and curse i guess till i can come to the undersatnding and except the things rhat gonallng with it. But boy its hard seeing the best in people and getting shit on over and over because if my boundries not set right . But thats what im working on now. And understanding hardly anyone is goingbto get where im coming from and beings me back to the beginning of this rant lol. Sure would be nice to know some people personally that understands and relate instead of feeling like i cant be me even though i understand why, still is hard. If some gets to the end here thanks, appreciate it. Hopefully you understand what i mean

    • @TheChannel110
      @TheChannel110 22 години тому

      The way I navigate knowing when to give insight is when I see someone do it first, I imagine playing tennis and mirroring what they do, if they give light conversation I just listen and react, and if they try to search for answers, I give them to the level they are asking for and not more because I want to encourage not overwhelm them , and if they r receptive i slowly give them more and more insight and if I ever see them pulling back so do I and I lighten the conversation back up that way they don’t feel uncomfortable, just try and meet people where they are at but make sure u focus on finding the ones who stimulate you, everyone else your being polite to so you can both live your life’s in peace otherwise you might trigger defence mechanisms that are put there so people may survive in their lives

  • @medromyes
    @medromyes 2 місяці тому

    I make everybody get nuts trying to understand my personality!!!! 😂😂

  • @jimmymorrison8314
    @jimmymorrison8314 2 місяці тому +1

    Someone needs to tell AI about comma's.

  • @SomesaAn
    @SomesaAn 2 місяці тому

    Thanks enough for my living

  • @GangOfVortex
    @GangOfVortex 3 місяці тому +1

    it's paranormal, rational and completely unknown by regular people and narcs...
    i love it ^^
    note: don't fall in love, you may love her forever but without even beeing by her side

  • @SomesaAn
    @SomesaAn 3 місяці тому

    We are sand not soiled smelling technically naturally

  • @CrystalShelton-ls4mx
    @CrystalShelton-ls4mx Місяць тому +1

    Zero seconds.

  • @WatHiram-d4j
    @WatHiram-d4j 3 місяці тому

    McKenzie Crest

  • @tribalroselr
    @tribalroselr 3 місяці тому

    An infj and a Capricorn ....

  • @vivianeprudentiabuelens9142
    @vivianeprudentiabuelens9142 3 місяці тому

    You are going to give us a bad reputation man ‼️ 7:29

  • @HowellsDelia-f3b
    @HowellsDelia-f3b 3 місяці тому

    Orval Lodge

  • @gypsipunk
    @gypsipunk 3 місяці тому

    Because I AM Saint Heather

    • @gypsipunk
      @gypsipunk 3 місяці тому +1

      Highest of the chosen

  • @JoellenFortin-k7g
    @JoellenFortin-k7g 3 місяці тому

    Conroy Square

  • @d-bosssavagestak3708
    @d-bosssavagestak3708 Місяць тому

    All musical mines reason mither mentioned to me also me ultimate mtf

  • @harrybrown4815
    @harrybrown4815 3 місяці тому

    Mis leading title
    Are you impling there are false infj"s or fake ones

  • @AndrewGrace-j3e
    @AndrewGrace-j3e 3 місяці тому

    Breitenberg Key

  • @TamaraFong-p1k
    @TamaraFong-p1k 3 місяці тому

    Rowe Place

  • @SaxtonBaldwin-t2b
    @SaxtonBaldwin-t2b 3 місяці тому

    Keagan Burg

  • @FrankSwihart-o2t
    @FrankSwihart-o2t 3 місяці тому

    Veda Haven

  • @hugmc
    @hugmc Місяць тому

    Someone said you stare at people. I said I know I was staring at someone there recently and wondered what size the moon was in comparison to the earth 🌍 😂😂😂 😂😂 if people can work me out I hope they share it with me I would really appreciate ❤

  • @JesseHankins-q6e
    @JesseHankins-q6e 3 місяці тому

    Werner Place

  • @MrRob8254
    @MrRob8254 2 місяці тому

    What happens when 2 INFJs meat?? I think i met one. We can talk for hes, and her hugs areamazing.

  • @DavidJoseph-t7k
    @DavidJoseph-t7k 3 місяці тому

    Arely Stravenue

  • @DummyHorror-e9f
    @DummyHorror-e9f 3 місяці тому

    Raynor Isle

  • @JustinKish-q3t
    @JustinKish-q3t 3 місяці тому

    Felicia Shoal

  • @Virvepaulina
    @Virvepaulina 3 місяці тому +1

    Tha are just as uncomfortable 😂👌

  • @INFJunpopularopinion
    @INFJunpopularopinion 5 днів тому

    Im not going to lie, the more I watch these videos about our dark traits, the more I actually see how Hitler was theorized to be an INFJ. I'm sick of people saying we're sensitive but they actually just get clutch the pearls because we are more open-minded and see what they don't. I dont want to say smarter because there are so many types of intelligence, but essentially because we're trying to get people to be less Orwellian , Animal Farm, and LESS lord of the flies, because current society put wigs and fancy tech behind it and sold is optimum health. ok then, drove yourselves to extinction, we're smart enough to isolate and repopulate. It'll probably be better for humanity at this point anyways ❤. I may be in burnout, lol but where was i not truthful?

  • @vivianebuelens9512
    @vivianebuelens9512 3 місяці тому

    🤩🖤❤️‼️ 4:25

  • @EvelineEmmanuel-n6r
    @EvelineEmmanuel-n6r 3 місяці тому

    Ebert Views

  • @damienwelch9067
    @damienwelch9067 3 місяці тому

    Wats infj ?

  • @HolmesAngela-l4l
    @HolmesAngela-l4l 3 місяці тому

    Nannie Stream

  • @d-bosssavagestak3708
    @d-bosssavagestak3708 Місяць тому

    Me securing fir me k8ds baby's an lady's ho like men like me no hinderence
    nephew who don't fail etc same

  • @paulh6949
    @paulh6949 2 місяці тому

    4:44 am xoxo godbless xo

  • @ShannonHarley-r6r
    @ShannonHarley-r6r 3 місяці тому

    Kozey Park

  • @JennyMitchem-e3u
    @JennyMitchem-e3u 3 місяці тому

    Ali Pass

  • @HansomEden-o1g
    @HansomEden-o1g 3 місяці тому

    Doyle Islands

  • @jonneil3086
    @jonneil3086 27 днів тому

    These videos are written by ai

  • @rkhudd
    @rkhudd Місяць тому

    I feel seen lol

  • @Sam9wilson9
    @Sam9wilson9 2 місяці тому

  • @MoisesNevis-v7q
    @MoisesNevis-v7q 3 місяці тому

    Hansen Viaduct

  • @naturalPaths
    @naturalPaths Місяць тому

    While I have a true moral compass, it is not my god: God is, and Jesus is my savior.

  • @paulh6949
    @paulh6949 2 місяці тому

    444

  • @SomesaAn
    @SomesaAn 3 місяці тому

    If they can’t hear what I see any action move . Then let me you walk.m & move, let me calm down 😂feel connection fast , 3 seconds deleted Clt OUT.🤐 must pay in this weekend.

    • @SomesaAn
      @SomesaAn 3 місяці тому

      Sigma no feeling intimidated ??? , them priority?????? 😂