@solo traveler - yes, it made me cry. She was comforting her lover who was crying because she knew she just messed up! But if Dani had any information about the real reason why she was crying, she would not have been holding on. I think in that moment, when Dani figured it out, she knew Sophie was sorry because she was able to connect back to Sophie crying and holding Dani as well. This is why they were able to hold hands and just talk a bit at the end. Very sad scene.
This scene is everything… the conversation between them is so real! And Ari’s acting in this scene is absolutely amazing and brilliant… and when she said “i was holding you that night, wasn’t I”? Is heartbreaking 💔
At the end of day its just a show but having gone through a similar experience(minus the wedding bit) with my ex, I could relate to that painful feeling of betrayal and hurt by someone you believed was your ride or die💔
Yes, this scene was perfect. Both actors played their part well. I truly believe here Dani’s pain is so great but she seems to want to forgive Sophie, even now because she gave Sophie her other hand and she listened. Sophie seemed very sorry as well. I hope they work things out.
i knew at one point she was gonna realize that😭 i feel so bad for dani, any really who was cheated on by the one they wanted to spend the rest of their life with
@@evaperez4139 she probably won’t forgive but i’m selfish so i want them to be together🤦🏾♀️ but rlly i just what dani to be happy and if it’s rlly not with sophia then i’m fine with it
I really hope dani will never be made a cheater.... plzz makers don't ruin it...give us atleast one main character who's not a cheater... I love dani alot...
I really don't think Dani's character has it in her to be a cheater because in episode 2x06 I think..the Karaoke one she asks Sophie 'does everyone cheat' like she is genuinely shocked that everyone she knows has cheated or causing someone to cheat in some form or another, so No I don't think Dani has it in her to do that to someone else.
Sophie's body language when Dani asked her if she thought Finley's gesture was romantic says it all. She was only willing to go through with the wedding to atone for her sins.
This is a hard scene. I mean. Aghhhh I feel so much for Dani. Her whole world crumbled down and Sophie just wants her to go home with her... smh....thats unrealistic....
It wasn’t included in this clip but the way sophie broke down crying to her parents bc she realize that she may never be with dani again is heartbreaking. also the part where so dani went to hug bet bc she probably wants comfortable going to see her dad about this… i’m just glad she has someone.
Sophie did it to herself. I have no sympathy for her. The way Dani stood up to her Dad for their marriage and she cheated on her...smh. I was glad at the end of the episode when she went to Bette...the look on Dani's face was heartbreaking...I'm glad Bette was there to comfort her.
I understand being rejected and needing another person to validate you. I lived it, i have the t-shirt...but now that im older i can see that Sophie is completely blowing her chances with Dani. Dani says she could never trust Sophie again but that's just the emotions talking. I LOVE Sophie. Another thought: When Alice told Sophie she called Finley, Sophie could have called Finley herself and said "I'm marrying Dani, I'm happy" problem solved
Dani will come back,,,I also understand she's just angry now and for Sophie to cheat it wasn't right choice even though we saw that Dani never had time for her even when her grandmother was in hospital 💔. At least they need to sit down and talk about everything cause they never had good communication. Dani might go mingle with others for distraction 🤷 buh her memory with Sophie will keep on replaying,,,,for me Sophie complete Dani❤️ Bette Stan thing it's annoying now, they want everything to favour her and she was also a cheater,,several times even
Honestly I think Sophie telling Finley to stay was her confronting all the mistakes she made. She did not look at Finley lovingly she was just offering forgiveness. She told Finley to stay and she walked away to her room.
Sophie and Dani were always two worlds apart. I don't know how they maintained to have a relationship for years because they have no chemistry in my opinion.
I think Sophie has a lot of work to do, starting by respecting the limits of people and how they deal with things. She always pressed Dani to talk to her without offering real support and judging her for needing time alone. Sophie never told Dani how she felt, only complained about it with everyone else. I'm glad Dani is not getting back with Sophie, they are not on the same level of maturity.
My thoughts exactly. She talked to everyone except for dani about how she was feeling and wanted to put their communication problems all at dani's feet but she wasn't communicating her feelings either
@Gojo Satoru dani wasn't always at work. They spent time together every episode until the last couple when the campaign was about to close and dani was filling 2 positions bc the campaign manager quit. She had plenty of opportunities to say what she wanted to say instead all she said was "talk to me". Furthermore, if she can't wait a few weeks while her fiance is doing the most important work she's ever done in her life without cheating then she doesn't need to be getting married anyway
@Gojo Satoru this time she was spending Arguing with dani to talk to her she should have spent it telling dani how she feels, she also sucked in speaking her feelings out probably to dani, and that is exactly what she is doing with Finley again, like what does she want, she has no idea .
Took the words right out of my mouth. Sophie NEVER gave a chance for Dani to breathe let alone process her thoughts before Sophie would berate, scream at Dani saying "TALK TO ME", and judge for needing some space to think. She continues to bully Dani to try and talk to her when she never listens to her own advice - instead going to talk to everyone(about her own feelings) but Dani. Sophie was never once supportive, or showed any patience to Dani.
Exactly. Another thing people forget is Dani TRIED to be there for Sophie at the hospital but Sophie insisted she was fine. Dani listened to Sophie and that was portrayed like it meant she didn’t care because she didn’t push to stay when Sophie told her not to. The reality is, not all people can read between the lines in these types of situations and won’t see past what the person is telling them which is common when you lack empathy. People who lack empathy need people to be honest and direct with what they want or need from them. Now lacking empathy doesn’t mean you’re heartless and don’t care, it just means you struggle understanding people’s feelings and reading the room. It’s a common trait to have when you’re on the spectrum or have adhd too. I’m honestly so sick of media villainizing those who lack empathy, and portraying us as heartless shitty partners, it’s really gross. :/
i get that but when you’ve been with someone for, however long they’ve been together, you can’t just let a relationship like that go without at least talking first. and if then you still feel the same then it’s over
@@claudiaross8439 What is there to talk about? She was willing to take that lie into the marriage!!! So when was she ever going to tell her? Two or three years after them getting married? Yeah, we can talk, but it's over. Idc how long that relationship was. Btw, you want them to talk? They just did.
@@dannyrand1733 you and ik that wasn’t a real talk. they need one of those talks where a month has passed. and i’m just being realistic couple cheat on each other and get back together all the time so there’s nothing wrong with wanting to talk to your SO. Like for instance does dani know why sophie slept with finley?
@@dannyrand1733 Right! There is nothing to talk about. I don't think she ever would've told her. Why she cheated wouldn't matter either...it would just be an excuse. And then to think about how Dani stood up to her father and told him exactly how it was going to be...smh...nope...there is nothing to talk about...it's done. It is what it is...f*ck what it was.
Dani’s face when Sophie is telling her she will spend the rest of her live making it up to her. You can see she wants to be with her because she loves her but she can’t
I would Forgive yes. Get back together, no. The intimate trust has been broken. Dani definitely played a part in the breakdown of the relationship, but Sophie should have communicated that w her and allowed her to understand her role. They were not ready to get married, plain and simple. But now everything has blown up and there is no way to get back to that place 🤷🏾♀️
110% agree. Dani had a hand in all this, though she did not deserve all of what happened. Dani, should , at some point, own her part. Sophie, clearly has an issues with communicating with Dani-it’s almost like she shrinks a size.
she did take accountability tho. when they were in bed and she held her and apologized for not always being there and that she was still learning on how to be better. and even if she didn’t say that i would say that it looked like dani always treated sophie good
@ claudia ross. IMO, There is a difference between acknowledging bad behavior and owning the part she played in the situation. Those are two very different things. Dani spent the better half of last season unavailable to Sophie, particularly emotionally, but she opened up to Bette. Let’s not forget about her crushing on Bette. Meanwhile, continuously, telling Sophie she doesn’t have anything say every time Sophie tried to talk to her. And telling Finley, she’s giving it all she’s got. She also made decisions about her career without first discussing it with Sophie. So, from my vantage point, Dani was slipping.
@@pmarie1071 maybe but just bc dani was unavailable, i’m guessing this was the first time it was this bad, doesn’t mean you go out and cheat. yes was she responsible for them “breaking up” yes but she wasn’t responsible for them “breaking up bc sophie cheated” you don’t lead ppl to do that they decide to make that decision themselves bc it’s not like they can’t leave. and the fucked up part is that Dani probably blames herself anyway bc that’s what ppl normally do when someone cheats or breaks up with them. they find flaws in themselves and start to think “ well maybe if it did this or did that we would still be together ” and that’s just not ok with me. Sophie could’ve left if she was rlly unhappy🤷🏾♀️ but don’t try to say dani basically pushed her to cheat bc that’s not how that works.
@@pmarie1071 and ik i said them already but the worse thing you can do to someone you just cheated on is try to make it seem like it’s their fault you cheated. like that’s fucked up.
Dani really does deserve better. Thank god she has Gigi now ;) Someone who doesn't push and cause her to break down and pull away, or talk over her, who really understands her/her needs. Gives her the time and space to process/take a break and then come back to talk things through
In my opinion I don't think the crush is still there, I just think Dani thinks Bette truly understands what's happening to her and wants comfort from someone who was there for her.
When I watched all I thought about was how everyone was concerned with Finley and Sophie’s emotions no one gave thought to Dani’s emotions and she was the one that was cheated on .During the poker episode I wanted to remind Alice and saying how when Bette dod cheat on Tina everybody went to comfort her because she was the affronted one.If anyone can’t remember for a while they were all hanging out with Tina and leave in bette to the wayside because she’s the one that cheated.
Right ? I thought so too. Literally no one except maybe bette was there to support Dani. Everyone went to side with Sophie or Finley. The writers atleast could have included some scenes in which the other characters acknowledge Dani is hurt 🤕
@@saltcookies4862 true but Micah checked on Dani and caregiver some of her things to her dads house. He knew she was hurting and still wanted Sophie so he gave her an out, no one would blame you if you forgave her. It seems that Dani has never been hurt like that because she asked how she would go about forgiving? She has Bette and Micah and it looks like Gigi is coming to the rescue.
@@dawnwillis9681 yeah, but it was more like Micah was feeling bad about himself for not telling Dani, because she was his friend too. Actually Sophie's sister ( or cousin? ) only criticized Sophie for cheating other than Bette. Also in the original when Bette cheated, everyone sided with Tina, and the whole season we tet to see Bette struggling and reinventing herself, like being worthy of Tina again. But here , the next day people are urging Dani to forgive Sophie. It's kinda double standard
@@saltcookies4862 I agree but at the end Micah was also telling her to forgive Sophie and Finley I’m like come on you have got to be kidding and I would be Pissed if my best friend was gonna let me marry a woman that’s cheated on me
Ari's acting is so good. Dani is one of my faves. Now that Sophie and Dani are over, I'd like to see more of Dani and Bette together. Love their chemistry.💜💜
Stop living in la la land Dani and Sophie will never be over and get over your delusional thinking Dani and Bette will never happen totally inappropriate!!!!
@@Summer-s3v you misunderstood my comment when I said totally inappropriate I meant a relationship between Dani and Bette, that is it I don't have any thing against same sex relationship hell Dani and Sophie are my favorite couple on Generation, I should have been more clear about my comment!!!!
@@screentimejunkie874 I should have added more words than totally inappropriate, what I meant was totally inappropriate for Dani to have a relationship with Bette, I'm fans of my favorite gen q couple Dani and Sophie relationship that is what I meant people can love who they want man to man or my favorite woman to woman or who ever that is their right, have at it !!!!
its so real the way this irritated me lol Sophie is the one that fucks up and cheats and doesnt tell Dani and allows her to be humiliated at her own wedding in front of everyone, yet it seemed that everyone was giving Sophie so much grace about it while telling Dani that she should (or knows she wants to) forgive her. how are we even putting this on Dani at all?? It was giving such gaslighting energy and I hated how real that can be.. tbh I know we can all fuck up sometimes in life but cheating for many people is not an "up and down" part of a relationship. You disrespected not just your marriage (what would have been) but your foundation of trust; and you disrespected Dani. Dani tends to be really hard on herself and this being added to her plate is such a sick thing lol Dani has literally every right to NOT forgive her for that.
Dani even covered blanket on them when they were sleeping together on couch (& hugging each other). Humiliated at the wedding, and she was like the last person who knew about them. Her father might be like “I told you so”. Nah, she can’t be with you. Sorry girl, good luck with Finley :)
i’m not gonna say that bc couple cheat all the time and get back together and that’s just realistic. whether said person keeps cheating back to back or if said person cheated once and actually regretted it. i think sophie deserves a second chance bc i genuinely believe that she doesn’t love finely and she regrets having sex with her.
Yup I cried on this scene and even tho Sophia is getting what she deserved when she went back in the house and broke down in her moms and grand moms arms I was balling
Yup, hope showtime sees this comment and increase their screentime together that is Dani and GIGI together than other casts. they're no.1 couple. They both together atttacted everyone's attentions.
I can see the chemistry of Dani and Bette from the start, i like them too but only if Bette will be faithful. I don't want Dani to be hurt or cheated on again.
Thinking back on it, when Sophie said to Finely she was "sAvInG her" and then coming back to watch this scene Sophie was still trying to fool and lead Dani on by trying to win Dani back after the wedding fiasco. Telling her she loves her and shit when they both knew it wasn't true.
When I watched this episode the only thing I could think about was how everyone was concerned about Sophie and Finley it was like their hurt was worse than Dani’s hurt but at the end of the day she cheated on Dani not the other way around and Alice and Shane forget when Bette cheated on Tina no one cared why she did it they all went to support Tina.
They seem to always show support and are concerned for the person or ppl who cheated and never the person who got cheated on. I don't like that. And when Bette cheated on Tina, they didn't support Tina, they supported Bette. Even when Tina was pregnant and Helena had that party...everybody went to Bette's like she hadn't done wrong and Tina had cheated on her...smh.
@@UnapologeticSecrets Not true because when bad cheated on Tina for the first couple of episodes they were all around Tina the only thing they really support it Bette What is win Tina got which Helena and she was a threat to that job that’s when they came in support of Bette other than that it was all about Tina
Rosanny and Arienne were INCREDIBLE in this scene! Just incredible! Something tells me that the significance of Dani/Sophie's story is was cemented when they opened up the series. I doubt this couple is OVER lol but for the season - I think they are over. For the series...not so much. I agree with another poster who said they would like to see Dani & Sophie work out their problems, so would I!
This scene at first got me emotional cause it felt like maybe their is hope that they can get back together but idk now. It would be ncie to see L Word have a relationship that makes it
Sophie you cheat on Dani and nothing can justify that and what makes it more difficult is what Finley did,asked you question on the wedding day infront of all those people and you didn't even say a thing, you are not sure what to answer.. so maybe you have feelings for her. It needs time, you can't expect someone been hurt and humiliated to be so forgiving right away to the one who hurt them. Trust is hard to fix like instant when it's broken.
No one check on Dani personally if she's okay except Bette and it's not about having crush, she's hurting she needs someone to talk that could understand.
Not to discredit Rosanny because I think she’s amazing, but Ari is truly an incredible actress. Every scene with her feels so real. This scene was great by them both. This ship has sunk. It’s been blown up, set ablaze, and rests at the bottom of the ocean, and I couldn’t be happier.
Don't take her back she say she f***** up but she learned from that because she still attracted that Finley. Because you can see she needy and plus I don't trust her
Noooooooooo episode 4. Sophie was so bad lying to fin ugh. Her and fin need to get together and we need someone for Dani, Dani deserves better then this.
Friendly saying Dani Sophie Finley will have their forgiveness for each other then end up in good friendship. They're the new Bette Alice Shane for new generation.
Dani also cheated on Sophie i.e. her crush on Bette. The emotional non availability to Sophie when she needed her. Sophie must have sensed something wasn't quite right.... And Ms.Karma came a callin... Not saying what Sophie and Fin did was right, but Dani did cheat before Sophie hurled herself over a cliff with Fin for sure. And Bette is no angel waiting in the wings either. Thank goodness Shane checked her @ss on that too. She lost Tina and her friends chose Tina. Except Shane. Talk about throwing stones with people in glass houses. She had an affair! This is a very tough unenviable situation for Sophie and Dani. They both won. And both they lost too.
One word I can say for u is grow up othwise u will struggle with ur love life in Real world... It's c'mon to have crushes even if u r married or taken.. I don't think u actually know what is actuall meaning of crush n cheating on ur partner means
Mark my words...Gigi is gonna come between Bette and Dani and stir up some shit...some kind of drama is coming and the writers are leaving clues...Dani will be devastated again and in her already fragile condition suffering anther emotional crisis (finding out about Bette's fling with Gigi?) will end in a suicide attempt in the season finale...Bette will be then realize (maybe too late) how much she cares for Dani...Dani already loves Bette...Bette feels the attraction too but has held back...but it will all explode soon enough...
Dani already knows about Bette and Gigi, why would that put her in another emotional crisis? I don't think she is going to start anything with Gigi while she knows she is with Bette. She respects Bette. I hope she doesn't get into a position where she feels like committing suicide. I think Bette will be there for her all the way and she will confide in her and take comfort in her when she is down.
I want to know how Dani felt about holding her fiancé who was crying after having slept with their friend,? I’m wondering if Dani realized Sophie is regretful for sleeping with Finley and that’s why she was crying. Or was Dani feeling more like a fool for comforting her, now know she just cheated on her, more painful!
I think in this episode, TLWGQ lost an oportunity to discuss violence and abusive relationships between women. Dani physically assaulted Finley, and it was taken as some sort of a joke, like she deserved it. Finley didn't get ANY support, and actually was punished by losing her job. Would it be so "natural" if it was a man punching her? Why are such practices in lesbian relationships so taken for granted?
I have nuanced feelings on how Dani reacted to Finley, but the first time I watched the scene with her and Sophie I truly thought Dani was going to hit Sophie. Dani at the very least had hints of being physically threatening toward Sophie and it definitely would have been something worth providing social commentary on.
Poor Dani, I'm proud of her though for not letting her guard down so soon although I bet they end up together in the end. I'm hoping Sofie knows that Finley isn't relationship material, she's a fuck better at best nothing more nothing less but she is definitely not wifey status at all. The show hasn't been renewed for a 3rd season and most likely won't due to low viewings but I wish they'd introduce a new love interest for Dani, somebody that treats her well with no drama. Her and Gigi won't work lol...thats so left field to me
Bette has one love and one love only, Tina. No matter how many people she dates, her heart is always to Tina. She will cheat on anyone with Tina. That kinda love is strong
If it’s that strong then why did she cheat on her, and why are they divorced, personally I’m done with tibette I want them to move on and have stable relationship with other people. Tina has moved on and Bette should do the same.
Was Dani not all about Bette & her father's feelings, all while Sophie was put on the back burner, especially when her grandmother got sick.. So let's not act like ppl don't make mistakes or that Dani is blameless in this. She may not have physically f'd Bette but she was definitely wanting too, and that's cheating as well.
@@claudiajohnson163 you are right, the thing is even if they would be hot together I don’t really want dani and Gigi together at all because If dani and Bette was to get together it would be weird that they shared the same woman in a way.
Crushing on Dani more and more with every episode.
She is mine 🤣 i am inlove at this point help!!
Dani maybe a hard ass but shes got a heart of gold she deserved so much better than the hand she was delt
@@ashleywooden3625 ikr she deserve way better
@@appleberry3770 when things like that happen to people it just means someone better to come along.
@@foff2246 yes she deserve that special someone
“I was holding you that night, wasn’t I?” -i dont know why but this line is so freaking heartbreaking
@solo traveler - yes, it made me cry. She was comforting her lover who was crying because she knew she just messed up! But if Dani had any information about the real reason why she was crying, she would not have been holding on. I think in that moment, when Dani figured it out, she knew Sophie was sorry because she was able to connect back to Sophie crying and holding Dani as well. This is why they were able to hold hands and just talk a bit at the end. Very sad scene.
This scene is everything… the conversation between them is so real! And Ari’s acting in this scene is absolutely amazing and brilliant… and when she said “i was holding you that night, wasn’t I”? Is heartbreaking 💔
At the end of day its just a show but having gone through a similar experience(minus the wedding bit) with my ex, I could relate to that painful feeling of betrayal and hurt by someone you believed was your ride or die💔
Yes, this scene was perfect. Both actors played their part well. I truly believe here Dani’s pain is so great but she seems to want to forgive Sophie, even now because she gave Sophie her other hand and she listened. Sophie seemed very sorry as well. I hope they work things out.
i knew at one point she was gonna realize that😭 i feel so bad for dani, any really who was cheated on by the one they wanted to spend the rest of their life with
That night, Dani was comforting her.
Reality now, Sophie was in bed with Finley.
Mariam Abdulwahab yeah she feels like a fool now.
When the trust is gone no real relationship can truly exist
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As long as the person is willing to forgive then trust can rebuild, in time.
Even if Dani forgive Sophie which I doubt.
Dani will NEVER FORGET.
The most IMPORTANT day of their LIFE
SHATTER TO PIECES.
@@evaperez4139 she probably won’t forgive but i’m selfish so i want them to be together🤦🏾♀️ but rlly i just what dani to be happy and if it’s rlly not with sophia then i’m fine with it
I really hope dani will never be made a cheater.... plzz makers don't ruin it...give us atleast one main character who's not a cheater... I love dani alot...
I really don't think Dani's character has it in her to be a cheater because in episode 2x06 I think..the Karaoke one she asks Sophie 'does everyone cheat' like she is genuinely shocked that everyone she knows has cheated or causing someone to cheat in some form or another, so No I don't think Dani has it in her to do that to someone else.
Sophie's body language when Dani asked her if she thought Finley's gesture was romantic says it all. She was only willing to go through with the wedding to atone for her sins.
This is a hard scene. I mean. Aghhhh I feel so much for Dani. Her whole world crumbled down and Sophie just wants her to go home with her... smh....thats unrealistic....
It wasn’t included in this clip but the way sophie broke down crying to her parents bc she realize that she may never be with dani again is heartbreaking. also the part where so dani went to hug bet bc she probably wants comfortable going to see her dad about this… i’m just glad she has someone.
Sophie did it to herself. I have no sympathy for her. The way Dani stood up to her Dad for their marriage and she cheated on her...smh. I was glad at the end of the episode when she went to Bette...the look on Dani's face was heartbreaking...I'm glad Bette was there to comfort her.
Proud of Dani for being strong and setting a firm no on cheating
That goofy ass girlfriend should have been loyal at least
@@kukusenka people act like it's so hard to sometimes
Kayla Cattouse-Cowans Sophie's gonna have to go into the poly catagory.
HELP! I'm in love with Dani so bad
I understand being rejected and needing another person to validate you. I lived it, i have the t-shirt...but now that im older i can see that Sophie is completely blowing her chances with Dani. Dani says she could never trust Sophie again but that's just the emotions talking. I LOVE Sophie.
Another thought: When Alice told Sophie she called Finley, Sophie could have called Finley herself and said "I'm marrying Dani, I'm happy" problem solved
Come to think of it all she had to do was make a quick simple phone call, absolutely right there🤝🏾
Dani will come back,,,I also understand she's just angry now and for Sophie to cheat it wasn't right choice even though we saw that Dani never had time for her even when her grandmother was in hospital 💔. At least they need to sit down and talk about everything cause they never had good communication. Dani might go mingle with others for distraction 🤷 buh her memory with Sophie will keep on replaying,,,,for me Sophie complete Dani❤️
Bette Stan thing it's annoying now, they want everything to favour her and she was also a cheater,,several times even
@@antonyzuze5958 The question is, why she didn't call Finley to tell her that?
true but to sophie and plenty other ppl there solution to a problem is to just ignore it.
@@claudiaross8439 And that was her downfall of the situation
Then Sophie went straight home and asked Finley to stay. 😬 Lesbian Dramaaaahhhh !!!
I know right 😬 Yerr !!
I am living for it!!!!
Honestly I think Sophie telling Finley to stay was her confronting all the mistakes she made. She did not look at Finley lovingly she was just offering forgiveness. She told Finley to stay and she walked away to her room.
😂😂
I’m loving the drama!
Sophie and Dani were always two worlds apart. I don't know how they maintained to have a relationship for years because they have no chemistry in my opinion.
I think Sophie has a lot of work to do, starting by respecting the limits of people and how they deal with things. She always pressed Dani to talk to her without offering real support and judging her for needing time alone. Sophie never told Dani how she felt, only complained about it with everyone else.
I'm glad Dani is not getting back with Sophie, they are not on the same level of maturity.
My thoughts exactly. She talked to everyone except for dani about how she was feeling and wanted to put their communication problems all at dani's feet but she wasn't communicating her feelings either
@Gojo Satoru dani wasn't always at work. They spent time together every episode until the last couple when the campaign was about to close and dani was filling 2 positions bc the campaign manager quit. She had plenty of opportunities to say what she wanted to say instead all she said was "talk to me". Furthermore, if she can't wait a few weeks while her fiance is doing the most important work she's ever done in her life without cheating then she doesn't need to be getting married anyway
@Gojo Satoru this time she was spending Arguing with dani to talk to her she should have spent it telling dani how she feels, she also sucked in speaking her feelings out probably to dani, and that is exactly what she is doing with Finley again, like what does she want, she has no idea .
Took the words right out of my mouth.
Sophie NEVER gave a chance for Dani to breathe let alone process her thoughts before Sophie would berate, scream at Dani saying "TALK TO ME", and judge for needing some space to think. She continues to bully Dani to try and talk to her when she never listens to her own advice - instead going to talk to everyone(about her own feelings) but Dani. Sophie was never once supportive, or showed any patience to Dani.
Exactly. Another thing people forget is Dani TRIED to be there for Sophie at the hospital but Sophie insisted she was fine. Dani listened to Sophie and that was portrayed like it meant she didn’t care because she didn’t push to stay when Sophie told her not to. The reality is, not all people can read between the lines in these types of situations and won’t see past what the person is telling them which is common when you lack empathy. People who lack empathy need people to be honest and direct with what they want or need from them. Now lacking empathy doesn’t mean you’re heartless and don’t care, it just means you struggle understanding people’s feelings and reading the room. It’s a common trait to have when you’re on the spectrum or have adhd too. I’m honestly so sick of media villainizing those who lack empathy, and portraying us as heartless shitty partners, it’s really gross. :/
We can be friends, and I can forgive you, but we can never be in a relationship again. That's just me.....ijs.
i get that but when you’ve been with someone for, however long they’ve been together, you can’t just let a relationship like that go without at least talking first. and if then you still feel the same then it’s over
@@claudiaross8439 What is there to talk about? She was willing to take that lie into the marriage!!! So when was she ever going to tell her? Two or three years after them getting married? Yeah, we can talk, but it's over. Idc how long that relationship was. Btw, you want them to talk? They just did.
@@dannyrand1733 you and ik that wasn’t a real talk. they need one of those talks where a month has passed. and i’m just being realistic couple cheat on each other and get back together all the time so there’s nothing wrong with wanting to talk to your SO. Like for instance does dani know why sophie slept with finley?
It doesn't matter why. There's no good reason for her sleeping with finley the night before they were supposed to get married
@@dannyrand1733 Right! There is nothing to talk about. I don't think she ever would've told her. Why she cheated wouldn't matter either...it would just be an excuse. And then to think about how Dani stood up to her father and told him exactly how it was going to be...smh...nope...there is nothing to talk about...it's done. It is what it is...f*ck what it was.
Dani's going to have to run many more miles to get rid of that sick feeling.
Dani’s face when Sophie is telling her she will spend the rest of her live making it up to her. You can see she wants to be with her because she loves her but she can’t
Dani is very mature but really hurt inside. Exactly it is about trust issue after betrayal.
I would Forgive yes. Get back together, no. The intimate trust has been broken. Dani definitely played a part in the breakdown of the relationship, but Sophie should have communicated that w her and allowed her to understand her role. They were not ready to get married, plain and simple. But now everything has blown up and there is no way to get back to that place 🤷🏾♀️
110% agree. Dani had a hand in all this, though she did not deserve all of what happened. Dani, should , at some point, own her part. Sophie, clearly has an issues with communicating with Dani-it’s almost like she shrinks a size.
she did take accountability tho. when they were in bed and she held her and apologized for not always being there and that she was still learning on how to be better. and even if she didn’t say that i would say that it looked like dani always treated sophie good
@ claudia ross. IMO, There is a difference between acknowledging bad behavior and owning the part she played in the situation. Those are two very different things. Dani spent the better half of last season unavailable to Sophie, particularly emotionally, but she opened up to Bette. Let’s not forget about her crushing on Bette. Meanwhile, continuously, telling Sophie she doesn’t have anything say every time Sophie tried to talk to her. And telling Finley, she’s giving it all she’s got. She also made decisions about her career without first discussing it with Sophie. So, from my vantage point, Dani was slipping.
@@pmarie1071 maybe but just bc dani was unavailable, i’m guessing this was the first time it was this bad, doesn’t mean you go out and cheat. yes was she responsible for them “breaking up” yes but she wasn’t responsible for them “breaking up bc sophie cheated” you don’t lead ppl to do that they decide to make that decision themselves bc it’s not like they can’t leave. and the fucked up part is that Dani probably blames herself anyway bc that’s what ppl normally do when someone cheats or breaks up with them. they find flaws in themselves and start to think “ well maybe if it did this or did that we would still be together ” and that’s just not ok with me. Sophie could’ve left if she was rlly unhappy🤷🏾♀️ but don’t try to say dani basically pushed her to cheat bc that’s not how that works.
@@pmarie1071 and ik i said them already but the worse thing you can do to someone you just cheated on is try to make it seem like it’s their fault you cheated. like that’s fucked up.
I don’t wanna see Dani forgiving Sophie. she deserves better 😌
People can change shut up.
@@JiaoGoGo Well!! it's my opinion and if I don't wanna see Dani with Sophie that's it so...you better shut up.
Dani really does deserve better. Thank god she has Gigi now ;) Someone who doesn't push and cause her to break down and pull away, or talk over her, who really understands her/her needs. Gives her the time and space to process/take a break and then come back to talk things through
Aand after this she went straight to see Bette ...the crush is still happening❤ #danette
In my opinion I don't think the crush is still there, I just think Dani thinks Bette truly understands what's happening to her and wants comfort from someone who was there for her.
@@saheliahspence9960 exactly my thought
#danette shippers unite ❤️
@@saheliahspence9960 Nah Dani is trying to Brown Chicken Brown Cow Bette
@@saheliahspence9960 i can feel the chemistry tho! Cannot be unseen
It's good that Dani had the strength to tell Sophie "no". Sophie is too immature for Dani to be honest.
We love and understand what you are going through . Always supporting u
Dani gigi ❤️
Supremacy 😎
Love dani 💖
When I watched all I thought about was how everyone was concerned with Finley and Sophie’s emotions no one gave thought to Dani’s emotions and she was the one that was cheated on .During the poker episode I wanted to remind Alice and saying how when Bette dod cheat on Tina everybody went to comfort her because she was the affronted one.If anyone can’t remember for a while they were all hanging out with Tina and leave in bette to the wayside because she’s the one that cheated.
Right ? I thought so too. Literally no one except maybe bette was there to support Dani. Everyone went to side with Sophie or Finley. The writers atleast could have included some scenes in which the other characters acknowledge Dani is hurt 🤕
@@saltcookies4862 true but Micah checked on Dani and caregiver some of her things to her dads house. He knew she was hurting and still wanted Sophie so he gave her an out, no one would blame you if you forgave her. It seems that Dani has never been hurt like that because she asked how she would go about forgiving? She has Bette and Micah and it looks like Gigi is coming to the rescue.
@@saltcookies4862 oh and I’m trying to figure out why Sophie told Finley, “ you hurt me”. Dani was the primary person hurt.
@@dawnwillis9681 yeah, but it was more like Micah was feeling bad about himself for not telling Dani, because she was his friend too. Actually Sophie's sister ( or cousin? ) only criticized Sophie for cheating other than Bette. Also in the original when Bette cheated, everyone sided with Tina, and the whole season we tet to see Bette struggling and reinventing herself, like being worthy of Tina again. But here , the next day people are urging Dani to forgive Sophie. It's kinda double standard
@@saltcookies4862 I agree but at the end Micah was also telling her to forgive Sophie and Finley I’m like come on you have got to be kidding and I would be Pissed if my best friend was gonna let me marry a woman that’s cheated on me
Ari's acting is so good. Dani is one of my faves. Now that Sophie and Dani are over, I'd like to see more of Dani and Bette together. Love their chemistry.💜💜
Stop living in la la land Dani and Sophie will never be over and get over your delusional thinking Dani and Bette will never happen totally inappropriate!!!!
@@valerrawood333 why would it be inappropriate
@@valerrawood333 You sound like a homophobic when he says that a relationship between two people of the same gender is inappropriate 🤦🏻♀️🥴
@@Summer-s3v you misunderstood my comment when I said totally inappropriate I meant a relationship between Dani and Bette, that is it I don't have any thing against same sex relationship hell Dani and Sophie are my favorite couple on Generation, I should have been more clear about my comment!!!!
@@screentimejunkie874 I should have added more words than totally inappropriate, what I meant was totally inappropriate for Dani to have a relationship with Bette, I'm fans of my favorite gen q couple Dani and Sophie relationship that is what I meant people can love who they want man to man or my favorite woman to woman or who ever that is their right, have at it !!!!
its so real the way this irritated me lol Sophie is the one that fucks up and cheats and doesnt tell Dani and allows her to be humiliated at her own wedding in front of everyone, yet it seemed that everyone was giving Sophie so much grace about it while telling Dani that she should (or knows she wants to) forgive her. how are we even putting this on Dani at all?? It was giving such gaslighting energy and I hated how real that can be.. tbh I know we can all fuck up sometimes in life but cheating for many people is not an "up and down" part of a relationship. You disrespected not just your marriage (what would have been) but your foundation of trust; and you disrespected Dani. Dani tends to be really hard on herself and this being added to her plate is such a sick thing lol
Dani has literally every right to NOT forgive her for that.
Who wouldn't crush on Dani?
She's absolutely beautiful, SOPHIE UR LOST; I hope Bette /Dani happen soon...
Dani even covered blanket on them when they were sleeping together on couch (& hugging each other). Humiliated at the wedding, and she was like the last person who knew about them. Her father might be like “I told you so”. Nah, she can’t be with you. Sorry girl, good luck with Finley :)
The scene is a timely reminder to understand your partner’s love language. You might be a wordsmith, but to them it might just be word salad.
It’s okay Sophie. It’s okay Dani. It’s okay Finley. I love you all! 😘
Dani 💕💕
Dani has every right to be angry. People like Sophie don't deserve second chance....
👁️😂😂😂
i’m not gonna say that bc couple cheat all the time and get back together and that’s just realistic. whether said person keeps cheating back to back or if said person cheated once and actually regretted it. i think sophie deserves a second chance bc i genuinely believe that she doesn’t love finely and she regrets having sex with her.
@@claudiaross8439 big difference having a roof over your head to couch surfing.
@@foff2246 ??
@@claudiaross8439 lol u should stop living in movie/tv show world n start living in real life..
Yup I cried on this scene and even tho Sophia is getting what she deserved when she went back in the house and broke down in her moms and grand moms arms I was balling
How Dani wasn't there for her ,like at all even when finely was telling her to be .shit happens don't just fault her
@@dreadedweirdohippie9524 in the scene Dani was going to be there and they were like no it's o.k go to work.
@@foff2246 but come onnn you know ppl say that but really want them to stay I watched season 1 3 times over it was obvious..
@@dreadedweirdohippie9524 maybe Dani a little more left brain.
hope dani would find another love. she deserves better. her and sophie does not have onscreen chemistry.
Dani and Gigi up to the next ⚡
Gigi and Dani hooking up just needs to happen🤝🏾
“ Once a cheater always a cheater. “ - Alice Pie
Yup, hope showtime sees this comment and increase their screentime together that is Dani and GIGI together than other casts. they're no.1 couple. They both together atttacted everyone's attentions.
They are the bette and Tina of gen q. They will break up and get with other people, but in the end they will love each other more than anyone else.
i fcking love Dani's deep voice ...
Dani and Bette please !!! I am the main captain of the ship , whos in ?
Yes
ima in
That's what im longing to see.. 😍
I can see the chemistry of Dani and Bette from the start, i like them too but only if Bette will be faithful. I don't want Dani to be hurt or cheated on again.
[cries in lesbian] :'(
Thinking back on it, when Sophie said to Finely she was "sAvInG her" and then coming back to watch this scene Sophie was still trying to fool and lead Dani on by trying to win Dani back after the wedding fiasco. Telling her she loves her and shit when they both knew it wasn't true.
When I watched this episode the only thing I could think about was how everyone was concerned about Sophie and Finley it was like their hurt was worse than Dani’s hurt but at the end of the day she cheated on Dani not the other way around and Alice and Shane forget when Bette cheated on Tina no one cared why she did it they all went to support Tina.
I loved the scene at the poker table where they all bond over making mistakes
They seem to always show support and are concerned for the person or ppl who cheated and never the person who got cheated on. I don't like that. And when Bette cheated on Tina, they didn't support Tina, they supported Bette. Even when Tina was pregnant and Helena had that party...everybody went to Bette's like she hadn't done wrong and Tina had cheated on her...smh.
@@UnapologeticSecrets Not true because when bad cheated on Tina for the first couple of episodes they were all around Tina the only thing they really support it Bette What is win Tina got which Helena and she was a threat to that job that’s when they came in support of Bette other than that it was all about Tina
@@aprilreeves3642 You're right...they were.
Rosanny and Arienne were INCREDIBLE in this scene! Just incredible! Something tells me that the significance of Dani/Sophie's story is was cemented when they opened up the series. I doubt this couple is OVER lol but for the season - I think they are over. For the series...not so much. I agree with another poster who said they would like to see Dani & Sophie work out their problems, so would I!
This scene at first got me emotional cause it felt like maybe their is hope that they can get back together but idk now. It would be ncie to see L Word have a relationship that makes it
This season has me on the edge of my fucking seat.
Te amo Dani ninguna te merece reina ❤
Dani and Bette please 🙏😍😍😍
Sophie pissed me off in this scene lmfaoo 🤣
Sophie screwed up, but i like her. I can't admit how predictable Dani's plot with Bette is. I'm living for the drama.
I like Sophie as well but she slept with a friend. That’s my major beef. I like Bette with Gigi but I want Danette to ship
@@manifest7791 I agree with what you said about Sophie. but I'm curious and excited for the interaction between Gigi and Dani, Tibette forever sorry.
@@nuryamoreira5163 I am Tibette forever as well but Carrie is ruining it and Tina is as indecisive as ever. I think that ship has sailed.
@@manifest7791 Tina's marrying Carrie .
@@foff2246 Yes that’s why they were at Bette’s house the first episode to tell Angie they were going to get married in the summer.
I want Bette and Dani so bad 🥺
What about the age difference?
@@toyag638 in my opinion it doesn't really matter if you like the person
why when you can have dani and gigi.
Same girl, same.
@@thankyoujames7257 Why? When you can have Dani and Bette
Beautifully shot scene. It didnt feel like the L word.
dani is the kind of person i try to be
All I keep thinking is..Imagine if Dani went home with Sophie,as soon as they open the door…Finley🤦🏻♀️…Sophie doesn’t know what the hell she wants.
Sophie you cheat on Dani and nothing can justify that and what makes it more difficult is what Finley did,asked you question on the wedding day infront of all those people and you didn't even say a thing, you are not sure what to answer.. so maybe you have feelings for her. It needs time, you can't expect someone been hurt and humiliated to be so forgiving right away to the one who hurt them. Trust is hard to fix like instant when it's broken.
Both are fooling themselves, it was a horrible relationship, proof is Dani goes straight to Bette and Sophie asks Finley to stay...
No other option for dani except bette... it's embarrassing for her to see her dad after what happened
No one check on Dani personally if she's okay except Bette and it's not about having crush, she's hurting she needs someone to talk that could understand.
I think what hurts more is the fact she stood there and had it not been or Finley's outburst, Sophie still wouldnt have told her.
Please how can I watch the full movie l guess I love the short clip am seeing
This broke my heart 🥺
I love the both characters creator can you bring them back
I Love dani 🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️
Not to discredit Rosanny because I think she’s amazing, but Ari is truly an incredible actress. Every scene with her feels so real. This scene was great by them both.
This ship has sunk. It’s been blown up, set ablaze, and rests at the bottom of the ocean, and I couldn’t be happier.
I know it’s been said about Dani, but I’ve been crushing on Sophie more and more with every episode. 😍😍😍
The more the better of these two scenes please
incoming Bette & Dani ;)
Don't take her back she say she f***** up but she learned from that because she still attracted that Finley. Because you can see she needy and plus I don't trust her
I want Bette and Danny Please ❤️❤️❤️❤️ they have so much Chemistry ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
mari69 Diaz Dani getting Bette into bed will probably make her feel better and then GiGi will have to see what she's missing out on.
@@foff2246 🤔🤔🤔
Dani🤩😍...#gini forever😇
Noooooooooo episode 4. Sophie was so bad lying to fin ugh. Her and fin need to get together and we need someone for Dani, Dani deserves better then this.
Friendly saying Dani Sophie Finley will have their forgiveness for each other then end up in good friendship. They're the new Bette Alice Shane for new generation.
This is so heartbreaking 😔
You gonna make me cry
Dani my Love 😘😘😘😘
I cried
Dani is beautiful
I wouldn't trust Sophie ever again either.
What is the release date for the next episode?
Please let Dani & Bette be end game. That shit would be so lit
Dani deserves better😭
Dani also cheated on Sophie i.e. her crush on Bette. The emotional non availability to Sophie when she needed her. Sophie must have sensed something wasn't quite right.... And Ms.Karma came a callin... Not saying what Sophie and Fin did was right, but Dani did cheat
before Sophie hurled herself over a cliff with Fin for sure. And Bette is no angel waiting in the wings either. Thank goodness Shane checked her @ss on that too. She lost Tina and her friends chose Tina. Except Shane. Talk about throwing stones with people in glass houses. She had an affair!
This is a very tough unenviable situation for Sophie and Dani. They both won. And both they lost too.
One word I can say for u is grow up othwise u will struggle with ur love life in Real world...
It's c'mon to have crushes even if u r married or taken..
I don't think u actually know what is actuall meaning of crush n cheating on ur partner means
When does the next episode release?
I love lord generation
This relationship was never long term. Too many red flags. I'm ready to move on lol.
K Carter just means more hook ups due to less couplings.
Mark my words...Gigi is gonna come between Bette and Dani and stir up some shit...some kind of drama is coming and the writers are leaving clues...Dani will be devastated again and in her already fragile condition suffering anther emotional crisis (finding out about Bette's fling with Gigi?) will end in a suicide attempt in the season finale...Bette will be then realize (maybe too late) how much she cares for Dani...Dani already loves Bette...Bette feels the attraction too but has held back...but it will all explode soon enough...
Dani already knows about Bette and Gigi, why would that put her in another emotional crisis? I don't think she is going to start anything with Gigi while she knows she is with Bette. She respects Bette. I hope she doesn't get into a position where she feels like committing suicide. I think Bette will be there for her all the way and she will confide in her and take comfort in her when she is down.
I really hope they work it out. Dani needs Sophie
1:22 mdr 3ep plus tard elle chantait pour Finley
please don't let be this couple a tibette 2.0 cause the CHEMISTRY is no where to found
I want to know how Dani felt about holding her fiancé who was crying after having slept with their friend,? I’m wondering if Dani realized Sophie is regretful for sleeping with Finley and that’s why she was crying. Or was Dani feeling more like a fool for comforting her, now know she just cheated on her, more painful!
Thanks
I think in this episode, TLWGQ lost an oportunity to discuss violence and abusive relationships between women. Dani physically assaulted Finley, and it was taken as some sort of a joke, like she deserved it. Finley didn't get ANY support, and actually was punished by losing her job. Would it be so "natural" if it was a man punching her? Why are such practices in lesbian relationships so taken for granted?
I have nuanced feelings on how Dani reacted to Finley, but the first time I watched the scene with her and Sophie I truly thought Dani was going to hit Sophie. Dani at the very least had hints of being physically threatening toward Sophie and it definitely would have been something worth providing social commentary on.
@@shay-istheway when Dani says "you're fucking disgusting" to Sofi, that's how verbal abuse usually starts..
@@RaissaGroove I agree with you. I cringed when she said it.
not in this clip but that scene with dani running and having driver’s license play in the background while you play flashbacks made me shed a tear😭
Dani need someone better. 😒✋ HEY HEY HEY! GIVE HER A LOVESTORY WITH NEW CHARACTERS.
Poor Dani, I'm proud of her though for not letting her guard down so soon although I bet they end up together in the end. I'm hoping Sofie knows that Finley isn't relationship material, she's a fuck better at best nothing more nothing less but she is definitely not wifey status at all. The show hasn't been renewed for a 3rd season and most likely won't due to low viewings but I wish they'd introduce a new love interest for Dani, somebody that treats her well with no drama. Her and Gigi won't work lol...thats so left field to me
Wow. As if u gunna cheat on danni for finley tho. No offense but u seen daniii 😍
I agree 1000%
Love Shane and danie
Bette has one love and one love only, Tina. No matter how many people she dates, her heart is always to Tina. She will cheat on anyone with Tina. That kinda love is strong
If it’s that strong then why did she cheat on her, and why are they divorced, personally I’m done with tibette I want them to move on and have stable relationship with other people.
Tina has moved on and Bette should do the same.
Was Dani not all about Bette & her father's feelings, all while Sophie was put on the back burner, especially when her grandmother got sick.. So let's not act like ppl don't make mistakes or that Dani is blameless in this. She may not have physically f'd Bette but she was definitely wanting too, and that's cheating as well.
In my opinion Dani and Gigi together are hot but I don't see their relationship going far aside physical attraction that's all I see
You mean Bette and Gigi?
@@brizzyy4343 no I mean Dani and Gigi if you watch what's to come in the season 2 promo
@@claudiajohnson163 you are right, the thing is even if they would be hot together I don’t really want dani and Gigi together at all because If dani and Bette was to get together it would be weird that they shared the same woman in a way.
@@brizzyy4343 exactly but I don't see a romantic relationship between Bette and Dani tho i see it like a mother daughter relationship
@@brizzyy4343 all the poly people gonna be together.