To the First Woman in this if you happen to be watching I am so very sorry this happened to you. I’m sorry that you didn’t have the protection that you deserved as a Child. Your mother may not have been there for you but We are All here for you now. I Pray your Life is filled with so many Blessings
@@MsJudythe minute the crowd booed her mom, she INSTANTLY without thought said “don’t do that” defending her mother. This tells me that the mom is sincere. No tears doesn’t equate to crocodile tears. Her daughter defended her against the audience, and she passed her test. Period
That second story is actually heartbreaking. She doesn’t understand that she was groomed by him. I’m glad Steve hit a nerve when he spoke to her at the end, because she IS a victim, even if she doesn’t realize it. I hope she gets some therapy and understands what happened to her and she is able to press charges against him.
Yup. I was groomed, molested & r*ped up until I was 19. I always felt disgusted and blamed myself. When in reality it was not my fault. I was being groomed.. I guess we feel some type of shame bc it continued to happen even after we became adults but we are STILL victims. I relate to her story a lot. Especially with her family blaming HER instead of the pedo. 😡
The first mom in the orange dress came up with every excuse why she didn't believe her daughter. She didn't even try to hug her after her results were read. Mom should be so grateful that her daughter has forgiven her!
My mom loves, my dad... CRAZY about gin, they re together since high school, 18yrs...but one day she S as I'd, if dad did anything to me or my brother, she d kill em. IMIDIATELY
First Orange dress Mom obviously has not healed her childhood wounds. She was trauma bonded to her now dead narcissistic husband. Show some mercy. If you haven’t been there, you won’t understand. I hope they both can heal. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
The second story!!! Are they REALLY celebrating that a 13 year old child was raped!???? Like wtf is wrong with them! This is the reason my community doesn’t come forward because it turns into we wanted we let it happen we didn’t tell 😔 the fear we SA victims have people can never imagine!! She was groomed she was made this way to think this is okay she knows it’s not and HER CRY AT THE END SHOWS THAT SHE TRULY NEEDS THE HELP!! Praying for her strength and I pray she doesn’t have a relationship with any of them!! They are vile people to sit there and celebrate her being raped smh
To all the Moms out there.....please believe your daughters....no man is worth having your child mentally and physically traumatized...women are strong...if it means your're alone then so be it....the scars never go away....
@christy032866 im so, so sorry sweetie. 😞 I believe you and pray you have found peace and healing. I know it is a deep pain our parents should be our protectors, but we have to protect and love ourselves. ❤️
@christy032866 As a mother with a daughter myself, I can't wrap my head around what your mother did. I am so very sorry for all that you've been put through. I can only imagine the depths of your pain. We don't know each other and most likely never will. But you have a mama in me, sweetie. I'm sending you the biggest mama bear hugs possible. Oceans of love ❤️
The first mother didn’t have a tear in her eye. She felt more sorry for herself. Her being molested as a child should have made her a lot more diligent in making sure that her daughter didn’t have to go through what she did. She’s a failure as a mother!
To the mom in the first story, if you were molested you SHOULD HAVE KNOWN WHAT TO LOOK FOR. You CANNOT afford to be WILLFULLY BLIND in this world. Your beautiful daughter ended up paying for that blindness in the worst possible way, and that is NOT okay. I'm sorry, truly, that that happened to you, but your daughter's well-being and safety were your priority. To both of you now, mom and daughter....heal. Find intensive therapy, separate and, possibly later, together. You both have a right to be happy, and the monster that plagued you both is gone from this earth. Don't give him any more of yourselves. I hope you can heal and live your best lives ❤
@robinenoch7362 Please don't blame the victims. The mother had been a victim as a child and as an adult. She may have seen sketchy things, but she was unable to help herself, let alone her daughter. I feel bad for both of them. However, they love each other and have a loving future.
@donnawheeler6283 , I'm so sorry if I sounded like I was blaming her. It wasn't my intention. I think my reaction came from someone I know went through something similar, and she battles it, ferociously, years later. And I know you're right. Someone who's not dealt with their own trauma is just as broken. Please accept my sincerest apology, I did not mean to sound so harsh.
My mom having been sexually abused as a child made her blind to abuse against her own daughters. She chose a 40 year old man to babysit me at the age of four when he started raping and sodomizing me until I was five. She said there were no red flags. I told her there were she just did not see them. Even after contacting law enforcement which is good that she did and we had a whole court hearing and I had to testify and the whole crap shoot we moved and she didn't see the red flags that my kindergarten teacher was molesting me. The time in my childhood that made me realize I could never go to my mom for anything was when I was assaulted by our 16 year old neighbor at the age of 10 and when I finally broke free and ran home and told my mom all she had to say was why did you let him do it ? When I had my own two children I was very hyper vigilant in keeping them safe. My mom is extremely mentally ill now so maybe she was when she was raising us decades ago. I became very mentally ill halfway through my kid's childhood and it never stopped me from being hyper Vigilant with my children's safety. I've always considered her criminally negligent. I have very limited contact with her because she always digs into me always puts me down always makes me feel like like I'm less than always competes with me as if where sisters or something. She's a very very toxic person. I spent $25,000 divorcing my abusive ex I'm not allowing any more abuse into my life ever again even if you're my mother
The third story with the two guys that were inside together.. I'm so glad they have each other. They are the most genuine people I've ever seen on the show. The woman was wrong in my eyes because it was 3 different men at 3 different times and that's not fair on the impression she's gave him the whole time. IF it was once ok maybe just a mistake and she thought he was messing her around when he didn't come to her like he said he would... but 3 different times with 3 different men?? He seems like a really genuine guy who appreciates what a woman does for him rather than take advantage... He definitely deserves better!!!!
I hate when people say i made a mistake. That's a choice you made not a mistake. You are a horrible person. I feel for your daughter. The mental torture must be horrendous. I hope she is getting the proper help. My prayers are with you.
The fact that Sonny didn’t take the test is because she lied and she knows she’s dead wrong then has the nerve to not apologize for putting this man through Hell when he did nothing wrong to deserve it she’s the most disgusting human being on the planet and I hope he stays as far away from her as possible 🤮😡😮😳
Putting salt in your coffee is a mistake. taking your child to visit the abuser is a choice, having your child write letters to get him off is a choice, and they're choices that were freely made, nobody held a gun to her head
Nah you had your daughter fill out letters to the court for him to get out early after she told you that’s choosing him over her plainly she’s a horrible mother
To that second woman, that family really let her down. They were sorry excuses to be called family. They all traumatized her. He hurt her and destroyed her emotional balance for the rest of her life. They first allowed it and then blamed her. Now, they left her alone to fix it. It's not right. It is sad. At this point, I hope God intervenes in all this and sends her some help to change the course.
She should be booed! Going to see him in prison and then after getting out! 😡 that’s not a mistake! The mother is trying to make it about her and not the daughter’s horrible abuse and pain! God bless this daughter! 🙏 if he was alive today would her mom still be seeing him?
The next to last group was insane. The woman, saying what trauma her mom put her through, beatings & making her dance for money, ect, then leaving her daughter with her.? Wow! So then Grandma beats & burns the granddaughter & mom does what? Like, that grandma was horrible but then again, the granddaughter would've never gone through that if her mother wouldn't have left her alone with the grandma. Sad all the way around.
Some Moms Are Horrible Parents But Awesome Grandparents. She Might’ve Thought Her Mom Was Going To Love Her Grandkids. She Just Unfortunately The Grandma Is Genuinely Horrible
The mother’s behavior is absolutely shocking and appalling. She abused her daughter, and it’s clear there’s no love or care in her actions. What kind of mother puts a knife to her daughter’s neck? What kind of mother burns her own grandchild? Her actions are heartless and ruthless, almost like a gangster.
The second case, astounds me that this family is so messed up that grown adults are blaming someone who was a child at the time, for supposedly sleeping with the grandfather!! ?? It’s outrageous!! If it did happen- then the grandfather is a child abuser! Under no circumstances should this girl be treated like this!! The family should be ashamed!! It’s such juvenile, teenage behaviour on their part! 😡
Vindication and validation for both, thank you, Steve Wilkos. I will pray for Selema - it broke my heart, hearing how she felt as a little girl living with a predator stepfather. She was eloquent and strong. It's also the first time I've heard my own story out of someone else's mouth (except my predator got no conviction, went on to molest his own daughter/my half sister, he killed my Mother, then stole my million and a half inheritance from her to me - from me) - he stole everything precious from my life - but he couldn't steal my God. Her courage, humility, and humanity are inspiring. I wish she were my sister. ***PS - God bless her, her Mother is right - who are WE to judge her? Have you stood in those shoes? - no one knows the hell she lived through. America needs a wake-up call on the value of women (even if it did vote in a President that's a convicted rapist - 👀exactly what I mean) - we are half the world - we can give birth - you wouldn't BE here but for women. I'm so sick of 0-99-year-old-bully-'boys' - where have our men gone? Thank you for paying for her name change!
The look on Kim’s face I knew instantly right away that she was guilty that just shows what an evil person she really is and could care less for what she’s done 😡
The woman in the first story is so beautiful and brave. I could never go on national television to tell my story. And forgiving her mother shows how beautiful her soul really is
So true I consider myself to be a strong grown man and I shed tears every time I see this happen your heart tells you those tears are real and they are still feeling they need to apologize for being victimized It just55 goes to show she loves her mom a lot more than her mom loved her.
This mother is trying to make excuses and this wasn’t a mistake!😡This woman betrayed her child, no mother should ever choose a man over their child !😡 No excuses! As a victim of CA herself, she should be even more aware of the damage that this does!! If anything she should have been hyper- sensitive and aware to this!😡
Excuse me, do you not know she’s been groomed? Do we not understand this? Even as an adult she’s groomed? She doesn’t understand and can’t understand that it’s wrong now? She may not even understand that she’s protecting him as an adult too. How dare they see her as the bad guy at 13!!!
Her mother came out like she was the victim. If he was abusing her did she think he wouldn't abuse her child? Come on now. How couldn't you know your child was being raped. You believed her husband over her child. She wanted sympathy from people. You and your husband are the bad guy. He done it and you allowed it. She even made her daughter write letters to get him out of prison earlier, who does that. That isn't a mistake at all. She chose a man over her baby and that is what it comes down to. The mom isn't the victim her child is the victim period.
I feel with the first woman had the man not died she would’ve still stuck beside him despite what he did to her child. I feel him passing forced her to have to move on.
Oh hell no! The first mother coming out and saying “we weren’t there”… okay but YOU WERE and did NOTHING. I can’t stand when someone who knows they’re guilty of something says “I can’t remember.” Scum of the earth. Avoiding accountability. Then she stands up there screaming and hee hawing about how she was also hurt as a kid like that doesn’t make it worse. You know what it feels like and you let your daughter go through it. You stood there and told her to lie on those papers to get him out! All that noise with no tears. That is NOT a mother.
This is sad, eveery mom needs to protect her child watch for signs of abuse in any form . Keep men out of your home when your raising children wait till thier 18 years of age then do what you want .
@@janan1105 every father also should protect their child. Mothers should protect and nurture their child and fathers should protect their children with their lives physically to the point of being there to if it comes down to it killing any attempted rapist in self defense of his child or children. Where it never gets to rape. I’d sacrifice my life without a second thought for both my children. The first mother is absolutely disgusting, every excuse on then book, and she knew what was going on and let it go on and still went to the rapist and still made her daughter write letters to her daughter. She might not have known when it happened but she damn well knew when it went to court didn’t she. And she still made her daughter write letters and has every excuse in the book completely disgusting woman with a I’m sorry that don’t matter now when she is grown. The least the mother could do is accept the responsibility but like a typical woman she refuses to take responsibility for her own actions. I haven’t watch the other yet
First thing is to WAIT until you know the guy BEFORE ever even letting them know you have a child. I dated my current husband for a year before he ever found out about my daughter. Then it took yet another year before he got to meet her. I had to KNOW what kind of person he was. It took a long time. Eventually, my DAUGHTER chose to have him adopt her. Because he turned out to be a good man, a good father figure. (Her biological father walked out of her life at the age of 3.) BUT the choice was left up to HER. We reached out to her grandmother, the bio dad chose not to contest it, and she became my husband's daughter. BUT, this all took TIME. He had to earn MY trust, then HER trust. Women need to STOP trying to force your men on your children BEFORE even YOU know what kind of person he is! IT TAKES TIME! A LOT OF TIME!
She's no longer a victim, she's a survivor and survivors are strong, we are broken but we are whole... We are not defective. We can stand tall, we are beautiful, we have Grace, we survived and we can break the cycle.
I feel sorry for the first girl I can tell she had a very rough childhood 😢💚and her mother could care less not a tear shed from her face and only cares more about herself 😮🙄🤦♂️😡🤬she’s not sorry cause if she was she would’ve protected her child when she had the chance and not choose men over their own children 😤😤😤
First Lady get help. Your child was victimized and you want to bring it back to you AND MAKE IT ABOUT YOU. Sorry it happened to you, but the show was about HER a d what was done to her. When tou take FULL ACCOUNTABILITY there is no BUTS or EXCUSES! Second girl need help baaaaad! She's 8n denial poor baby. Sympathized with her abuser.
The first "mom" should buy a lottery ticket with the amount of (undeserved) dumb luck she has. She's so lucky that her daughter forgave her. She didn't 'make a mistake', she made bad choices, repeatedly, carried by her daughter's back - not her own. That "mom" didn't even hug her daughter, the DAUGHTER came up to her. And no tears. At all. I'm sorry for her being abused as well as a child and obviously later on as an adult, but that's not an excuse for being so self centered and disinterested in her daughter's pain (which she partially caused, not directly, but by neglect). She's not a good mother and I wouldn't call her a good person, either. If you're that awful to your own flesh and blood, your own child that clearly loves you to bits, someone that SHOULD matter the absolute most to you, how two-faced are you with strangers? Sorry for ranting, but people like that boil my blood.
The first clip she is full of excuses and pure disgusting just like that demon that did this to her daughter. And her mother isn’t showing not one tear making all that damn noise.
Steve my man my God am I hearing this right I'm so glad I have my mother she all I have and I treasure each and every day that I'm with her much luv and respect for what u do Mr wilkos 🫡
You should be sorry for what you put your daughter through. My parents never knew till the day we went to my abusers funeral. I was around maybe 8 I kept it due to threats. I feel she remembers what happened she doesn’t want to admit it.
Wow, Sharmaines mother is EVIL. I don't think I've ever seen anybody so cold. Shame on her. I'm happy Sharmaine learned what NOT to do as a mother and seems to be a good one to her daughter, Salina. They need to definitely stay far far far away from that witch.
My mother let her husband have his way with me from 3 Years till I was 9 years old then at 8 years she stop me from going to school at 11 she sell me to a 59 year man an it never stop not till she build a house an leave it for her husband son an I get nothing but pain😢😢
She was afraid of guy and that doesn't justify how she let her kid get hurt ... but the reason she probably did what he wanted was so he wouldn't kill them both ...
She was groomed for 13 years for more than 13 years The first 13 years of her life onto the second 13 years of her life she was groomed by this old man she's still the victim whether she's having sex with him now or not period dot
Oh my God the episode with the 13-year-old in the grandfather is pissing me off she was quite literally a little girl she was 13 years old Don't call her a w**** or grandpa effer she was raped plain and simple she was under the age of consent could not consent to have sex with a man that much older than her let alone any other man she is a victim stop pushing this on her victims don't usually like to talk about what happened to them so her denying it makes perfect sense
To the First Woman in this if you happen to be watching I am so very sorry this happened to you. I’m sorry that you didn’t have the protection that you deserved as a Child. Your mother may not have been there for you but We are All here for you now. I Pray your Life is filled with so many Blessings
@@JamesDoniniq I did not see one tear in the moms eyed
It happend to me to is why I believedhim over her, nut job.
Nut Job? What kind of POS So Called Mother don't believe your kid about something like this
I'm also So very Sorry Sweetheart. Your a Beautiful Woman May God Bless you❤and Your Children.
@@MsJudythe minute the crowd booed her mom, she INSTANTLY without thought said “don’t do that” defending her mother. This tells me that the mom is sincere. No tears doesn’t equate to crocodile tears. Her daughter defended her against the audience, and she passed her test. Period
That second story is actually heartbreaking. She doesn’t understand that she was groomed by him. I’m glad Steve hit a nerve when he spoke to her at the end, because she IS a victim, even if she doesn’t realize it. I hope she gets some therapy and understands what happened to her and she is able to press charges against him.
It’s like she’s trying to convince herself that it didn’t happen and erase it out of her mind
I feel bad for her. I hope that old creep rots.
I agree😢
The innocence of a child. 😭💦💦💦
Yup. I was groomed, molested & r*ped up until I was 19. I always felt disgusted and blamed myself. When in reality it was not my fault. I was being groomed.. I guess we feel some type of shame bc it continued to happen even after we became adults but we are STILL victims. I relate to her story a lot. Especially with her family blaming HER instead of the pedo. 😡
The first mom in the orange dress came up with every excuse why she didn't believe her daughter. She didn't even try to hug her after her results were read. Mom should be so grateful that her daughter has forgiven her!
My mom loves, my dad... CRAZY about gin, they re together since high school, 18yrs...but one day she S as I'd, if dad did anything to me or my brother, she d kill em. IMIDIATELY
I would never to be honest
Holy cow, she didn't even have any type of reaction when the daughters test results were read. She looked annoyed more than anything... Smdh
Plus...all that crying and wailing, but not one tear from the mother.
First Orange dress Mom obviously has not healed her childhood wounds. She was trauma bonded to her now dead narcissistic husband. Show some mercy. If you haven’t been there, you won’t understand. I hope they both can heal. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
38:47 love how the friend is sat there like he's watching the show on tv 😆
The second story!!! Are they REALLY celebrating that a 13 year old child was raped!???? Like wtf is wrong with them! This is the reason my community doesn’t come forward because it turns into we wanted we let it happen we didn’t tell 😔 the fear we SA victims have people can never imagine!! She was groomed she was made this way to think this is okay she knows it’s not and HER CRY AT THE END SHOWS THAT SHE TRULY NEEDS THE HELP!! Praying for her strength and I pray she doesn’t have a relationship with any of them!! They are vile people to sit there and celebrate her being raped smh
Me too, stay strong. 💔🙏
To all the Moms out there.....please believe your daughters....no man is worth having your child mentally and physically traumatized...women are strong...if it means your're alone then so be it....the scars never go away....
My mom died not believing me. Even after my surgeon told her that he's never fixed a rectum as badly damaged as mine😢😢😢😢
@@christy032866I'm so sorry that happened to you, you're very strong despite the struggles
@christy032866 im so, so sorry sweetie. 😞 I believe you and pray you have found peace and healing. I know it is a deep pain our parents should be our protectors, but we have to protect and love ourselves. ❤️
@christy032866 As a mother with a daughter myself, I can't wrap my head around what your mother did. I am so very sorry for all that you've been put through. I can only imagine the depths of your pain. We don't know each other and most likely never will. But you have a mama in me, sweetie. I'm sending you the biggest mama bear hugs possible. Oceans of love ❤️
The first mother didn’t have a tear in her eye. She felt more sorry for herself. Her being molested as a child should have made her a lot more diligent in making sure that her daughter didn’t have to go through what she did. She’s a failure as a mother!
Agreed
My heart breaks for that First Woman. Her “mother” needs to be locked up for real
Her "mom" was making her feel guilty... that made it worse. She was only talking about herself instead of being there for her daughter
Her mother was lazy because she's trying to avoid paying any bills just enjoy life and watch him pay for everything
21:55 when Kayla walked out barefoot & her mama sat up in the chair, mama FARTED loud af & said “sorry baby” lmfao she wild!
Second girl fell in love with her abuser. I hope she comes to reality
To the mom in the first story, if you were molested you SHOULD HAVE KNOWN WHAT TO LOOK FOR. You CANNOT afford to be WILLFULLY BLIND in this world. Your beautiful daughter ended up paying for that blindness in the worst possible way, and that is NOT okay. I'm sorry, truly, that that happened to you, but your daughter's well-being and safety were your priority. To both of you now, mom and daughter....heal. Find intensive therapy, separate and, possibly later, together. You both have a right to be happy, and the monster that plagued you both is gone from this earth. Don't give him any more of yourselves. I hope you can heal and live your best lives ❤
@robinenoch7362 Please don't blame the victims. The mother had been a victim as a child and as an adult. She may have seen sketchy things, but she was unable to help herself, let alone her daughter.
I feel bad for both of them. However, they love each other and have a loving future.
@donnawheeler6283 , I'm so sorry if I sounded like I was blaming her. It wasn't my intention. I think my reaction came from someone I know went through something similar, and she battles it, ferociously, years later. And I know you're right. Someone who's not dealt with their own trauma is just as broken. Please accept my sincerest apology, I did not mean to sound so harsh.
My mom having been sexually abused as a child made her blind to abuse against her own daughters. She chose a 40 year old man to babysit me at the age of four when he started raping and sodomizing me until I was five. She said there were no red flags. I told her there were she just did not see them. Even after contacting law enforcement which is good that she did and we had a whole court hearing and I had to testify and the whole crap shoot we moved and she didn't see the red flags that my kindergarten teacher was molesting me. The time in my childhood that made me realize I could never go to my mom for anything was when I was assaulted by our 16 year old neighbor at the age of 10 and when I finally broke free and ran home and told my mom all she had to say was why did you let him do it ? When I had my own two children I was very hyper vigilant in keeping them safe. My mom is extremely mentally ill now so maybe she was when she was raising us decades ago. I became very mentally ill halfway through my kid's childhood and it never stopped me from being hyper Vigilant with my children's safety. I've always considered her criminally negligent. I have very limited contact with her because she always digs into me always puts me down always makes me feel like like I'm less than always competes with me as if where sisters or something. She's a very very toxic person. I spent $25,000 divorcing my abusive ex I'm not allowing any more abuse into my life ever again even if you're my mother
The last story pissed me. This girl is dead set on making this man's life a living hell
No tears from the mother.
The third story with the two guys that were inside together.. I'm so glad they have each other. They are the most genuine people I've ever seen on the show. The woman was wrong in my eyes because it was 3 different men at 3 different times and that's not fair on the impression she's gave him the whole time. IF it was once ok maybe just a mistake and she thought he was messing her around when he didn't come to her like he said he would... but 3 different times with 3 different men?? He seems like a really genuine guy who appreciates what a woman does for him rather than take advantage... He definitely deserves better!!!!
That last man needs to get a lawyer. She will never make this easy for him.
Yep I agree 💯
I hate when people say i made a mistake. That's a choice you made not a mistake. You are a horrible person. I feel for your daughter. The mental torture must be horrendous. I hope she is getting the proper help. My prayers are with you.
I’m not gonna lie the prison one made me scream lmao. When he ran back out thereeee like you gone hit her? And she sweating she was scared fr
The fact that Sonny didn’t take the test is because she lied and she knows she’s dead wrong then has the nerve to not apologize for putting this man through Hell when he did nothing wrong to deserve it she’s the most disgusting human being on the planet and I hope he stays as far away from her as possible 🤮😡😮😳
43:20 when dudes homie said "don't hit her" 😂😂 I died laughing!
He was hilarious, top tier instigator
The mother in orange had no tears
Jasmine looked nervous AF 😂 the way she was sweating so much I can tell instantly that it wasn’t hard too tell that she was guilty as sin 🤣🤔
Putting salt in your coffee is a mistake. taking your child to visit the abuser is a choice, having your child write letters to get him off is a choice, and they're choices that were freely made, nobody held a gun to her head
That last one made me feel like I missed out on something big, not having a dad that wanted me...good Man, good Father - she's a blessed baby girl.
Make sure you don't continue the cycle by having kids out of wedlock
Nah you had your daughter fill out letters to the court for him to get out early after she told you that’s choosing him over her plainly she’s a horrible mother
To that second woman, that family really let her down. They were sorry excuses to be called family. They all traumatized her. He hurt her and destroyed her emotional balance for the rest of her life. They first allowed it and then blamed her. Now, they left her alone to fix it. It's not right. It is sad. At this point, I hope God intervenes in all this and sends her some help to change the course.
She should be booed! Going to see him in prison and then after getting out! 😡 that’s not a mistake! The mother is trying to make it about her and not the daughter’s horrible abuse and pain! God bless this daughter! 🙏 if he was alive today would her mom still be seeing him?
Exactly thank you! Glad I wasn’t only one who clocked that
Some of these parents are proof that demons exist.
That first woman is still in a lot of denial about her mother. She cannot act like her mother was not just as guilty.
You're the man Steve
The next to last group was insane. The woman, saying what trauma her mom put her through, beatings & making her dance for money, ect, then leaving her daughter with her.? Wow! So then Grandma beats & burns the granddaughter & mom does what? Like, that grandma was horrible but then again, the granddaughter would've never gone through that if her mother wouldn't have left her alone with the grandma. Sad all the way around.
Some Moms Are Horrible Parents But Awesome Grandparents. She Might’ve Thought Her Mom Was Going To Love Her Grandkids. She Just Unfortunately The Grandma Is Genuinely Horrible
10:28 tbh that’s not a mistake. Idc what she said, making your child who was SA by your husband write notes to get him out of jail… girl bye
The mother’s behavior is absolutely shocking and appalling. She abused her daughter, and it’s clear there’s no love or care in her actions. What kind of mother puts a knife to her daughter’s neck? What kind of mother burns her own grandchild? Her actions are heartless and ruthless, almost like a gangster.
LMAO!!! The mom who came on stage and said "where you at!?" 😂😂😂
There wasn't any tears off mum.
The second case, astounds me that this family is so messed up that grown adults are blaming someone who was a child at the time, for supposedly sleeping with the grandfather!! ?? It’s outrageous!! If it did happen- then the grandfather is a child abuser! Under no circumstances should this girl be treated like this!! The family should be ashamed!! It’s such juvenile, teenage behaviour on their part! 😡
I feel so bad for the first woman..shes so desperate for her mother's love😢
His friend so messyyyyy😂😭
Mom trying to be a victim smh should have been by your daughter's side
Last girl is just nuts. Stabbing? She should be in jail!
Vindication and validation for both, thank you, Steve Wilkos. I will pray for Selema - it broke my heart, hearing how she felt as a little girl living with a predator stepfather. She was eloquent and strong. It's also the first time I've heard my own story out of someone else's mouth (except my predator got no conviction, went on to molest his own daughter/my half sister, he killed my Mother, then stole my million and a half inheritance from her to me - from me) - he stole everything precious from my life - but he couldn't steal my God. Her courage, humility, and humanity are inspiring. I wish she were my sister. ***PS - God bless her, her Mother is right - who are WE to judge her? Have you stood in those shoes? - no one knows the hell she lived through. America needs a wake-up call on the value of women (even if it did vote in a President that's a convicted rapist - 👀exactly what I mean) - we are half the world - we can give birth - you wouldn't BE here but for women. I'm so sick of 0-99-year-old-bully-'boys' - where have our men gone? Thank you for paying for her name change!
This first story... Ugh the mum in me wants to give her the biggest hug.
The look on Kim’s face I knew instantly right away that she was guilty that just shows what an evil person she really is and could care less for what she’s done 😡
The woman in the first story is so beautiful and brave. I could never go on national television to tell my story. And forgiving her mother shows how beautiful her soul really is
19:04 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 The flying wigs edit: give the red one to Steve and see how he looks like in it 😆😆😆
It makes me sad when they apologize for crying when they’re telling what happened. (The ones telling the truth obviously)
So true I consider myself to be a strong grown man and I shed tears every time I see this happen your heart tells you those tears are real and they are still feeling they need to apologize for being victimized It just55 goes to show she loves her mom a lot more than her mom loved her.
You know it ain't a party until the wigs come off 😂
This mother is trying to make excuses and this wasn’t a mistake!😡This woman betrayed her child, no mother should ever choose a man over their child !😡 No excuses! As a victim of CA herself, she should be even more aware of the damage that this does!! If anything she should have been hyper- sensitive and aware to this!😡
Excuse me, do you not know she’s been groomed? Do we not understand this? Even as an adult she’s groomed? She doesn’t understand and can’t understand that it’s wrong now? She may not even understand that she’s protecting him as an adult too. How dare they see her as the bad guy at 13!!!
The friend from the cheating case is a menace
He is enjoying this way too much...
8:00 The mother enters the stage like an actress, putting on a show. Like it's all about her instead if her daughter.
Nah 10:00 shes guilt tripping, overwhelming with emotion, and making herself also a victim to evade any fault even after admitting guilt.
Her mother came out like she was the victim. If he was abusing her did she think he wouldn't abuse her child? Come on now. How couldn't you know your child was being raped. You believed her husband over her child. She wanted sympathy from people. You and your husband are the bad guy. He done it and you allowed it. She even made her daughter write letters to get him out of prison earlier, who does that. That isn't a mistake at all. She chose a man over her baby and that is what it comes down to. The mom isn't the victim her child is the victim period.
I love Steve so much
This happened to me in so many ways and it's hell every day but God knows the truth and so did my mom I forgave her she's passed away now 😢
I feel with the first woman had the man not died she would’ve still stuck beside him despite what he did to her child. I feel him passing forced her to have to move on.
Oh hell no! The first mother coming out and saying “we weren’t there”… okay but YOU WERE and did NOTHING. I can’t stand when someone who knows they’re guilty of something says “I can’t remember.” Scum of the earth. Avoiding accountability. Then she stands up there screaming and hee hawing about how she was also hurt as a kid like that doesn’t make it worse. You know what it feels like and you let your daughter go through it. You stood there and told her to lie on those papers to get him out! All that noise with no tears. That is NOT a mother.
Kimberly is the real life version of Monique's character in Precious. 💔
The mom in the first story really makes me mad she just acted like we should feel sorry for her too and am her crying didnt see any tears.
Dude coming from jail should’ve known tbh. 13yrs + 5 months be forreal
He lucky she even provided for him the entire time
Orange dress mom didn’t have one single tear fall from her face 😑
Cohosting is wild
That first mom, if YOU could not believe your own daughter WHY THE HELL YOU EXPECT US TO EXPECT YOUR PITIFUL EXCUSE.
This is sad, eveery mom needs to protect her child watch for signs of abuse in any form . Keep men out of your home when your raising children wait till thier 18 years of age then do what you want .
@@janan1105 every father also should protect their child. Mothers should protect and nurture their child and fathers should protect their children with their lives physically to the point of being there to if it comes down to it killing any attempted rapist in self defense of his child or children. Where it never gets to rape. I’d sacrifice my life without a second thought for both my children. The first mother is absolutely disgusting, every excuse on then book, and she knew what was going on and let it go on and still went to the rapist and still made her daughter write letters to her daughter. She might not have known when it happened but she damn well knew when it went to court didn’t she. And she still made her daughter write letters and has every excuse in the book completely disgusting woman with a I’m sorry that don’t matter now when she is grown. The least the mother could do is accept the responsibility but like a typical woman she refuses to take responsibility for her own actions. I haven’t watch the other yet
First thing is to WAIT until you know the guy BEFORE ever even letting them know you have a child. I dated my current husband for a year before he ever found out about my daughter. Then it took yet another year before he got to meet her. I had to KNOW what kind of person he was. It took a long time. Eventually, my DAUGHTER chose to have him adopt her. Because he turned out to be a good man, a good father figure. (Her biological father walked out of her life at the age of 3.) BUT the choice was left up to HER. We reached out to her grandmother, the bio dad chose not to contest it, and she became my husband's daughter. BUT, this all took TIME. He had to earn MY trust, then HER trust.
Women need to STOP trying to force your men on your children BEFORE even YOU know what kind of person he is! IT TAKES TIME! A LOT OF TIME!
@ms.munchkin8264, this is THE BEST advice I have ever seen....couldn't have said it better myself 😉♥️
Also, this compilation is seriously off da chain. Wild lives!
That man was cellmates with Boomour or whatever that Hank hills guys name is 😂😂
4:51 never ever ever trust a new relationship over a child
She's no longer a victim, she's a survivor and survivors are strong, we are broken but we are whole... We are not defective. We can stand tall, we are beautiful, we have Grace, we survived and we can break the cycle.
@@v.loveslaughter1968 amen!!!!!!
She's complicit now.
I feel sorry for the first girl I can tell she had a very rough childhood 😢💚and her mother could care less not a tear shed from her face and only cares more about herself 😮🙄🤦♂️😡🤬she’s not sorry cause if she was she would’ve protected her child when she had the chance and not choose men over their own children 😤😤😤
First Lady get help. Your child was victimized and you want to bring it back to you AND MAKE IT ABOUT YOU. Sorry it happened to you, but the show was about HER a d what was done to her. When tou take FULL ACCOUNTABILITY there is no BUTS or EXCUSES! Second girl need help baaaaad! She's 8n denial poor baby. Sympathized with her abuser.
The mom takes no accountability
The first "mom" should buy a lottery ticket with the amount of (undeserved) dumb luck she has. She's so lucky that her daughter forgave her. She didn't 'make a mistake', she made bad choices, repeatedly, carried by her daughter's back - not her own. That "mom" didn't even hug her daughter, the DAUGHTER came up to her. And no tears. At all. I'm sorry for her being abused as well as a child and obviously later on as an adult, but that's not an excuse for being so self centered and disinterested in her daughter's pain (which she partially caused, not directly, but by neglect). She's not a good mother and I wouldn't call her a good person, either. If you're that awful to your own flesh and blood, your own child that clearly loves you to bits, someone that SHOULD matter the absolute most to you, how two-faced are you with strangers?
Sorry for ranting, but people like that boil my blood.
The first clip she is full of excuses and pure disgusting just like that demon that did this to her daughter. And her mother isn’t showing not one tear making all that damn noise.
Steve my man my God am I hearing this right I'm so glad I have my mother she all I have and I treasure each and every day that I'm with her much luv and respect for what u do Mr wilkos 🫡
😢mother's protect your daughter's that is so sad 😢
AMEN 🙏🙏
You should be sorry for what you put your daughter through. My parents never knew till the day we went to my abusers funeral. I was around maybe 8 I kept it due to threats. I feel she remembers what happened she doesn’t want to admit it.
When first woman told her story i couldnt stop crying i felt her pain.
Wow, Sharmaines mother is EVIL. I don't think I've ever seen anybody so cold. Shame on her. I'm happy Sharmaine learned what NOT to do as a mother and seems to be a good one to her daughter, Salina. They need to definitely stay far far far away from that witch.
The first mom needs to go to prison she let it happen either way you slice it
LOL I couldn't even tell what they were saying
Home boy so funny 😂
My mother let her husband have his way with me from 3 Years till I was 9 years old then at 8 years she stop me from going to school at 11 she sell me to a 59 year man an it never stop not till she build a house an leave it for her husband son an I get nothing but pain😢😢
I'm really sorry that happened ....
Omg im so sorry 😢
I’m so sorry that this happened to you. May GOD be with you and may GOD heal your heart and pain in JESUS name 🙏🏻💞🙏🏻🙌🏽.
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@beulah, may God bless and protect you, and heal you. you DIDN'T deserve what happened to you! use that to make you stronger and help others heal. ❤
Getting good vibes from the guy in the hat 😁
Nope, my child comes first
Where are moms tears?
Orange dress mom she has a victim mentality
I'm sorry but your Mother is as guilty as he was😊
Security folded her ass omg lmao
Last story the baby girl need some therapy she is angryyyyyyy I feel her pain tho 💯💯
Steeeeve!!!
😂😂😂
The 4 th story is crazy 😒
She was afraid of guy and that doesn't justify how she let her kid get hurt ... but the reason she probably did what he wanted was so he wouldn't kill them both ...
She was groomed for 13 years for more than 13 years The first 13 years of her life onto the second 13 years of her life she was groomed by this old man she's still the victim whether she's having sex with him now or not period dot
If he’s that worried stay out of jail if I was her I would run if he’s going to be in and out of jail
Why do all these women do the same thing come out and talk about themselves and what they went through, it's not about you
🎉hi Steve
“I’m only human”
Oh my God the episode with the 13-year-old in the grandfather is pissing me off she was quite literally a little girl she was 13 years old Don't call her a w**** or grandpa effer she was raped plain and simple she was under the age of consent could not consent to have sex with a man that much older than her let alone any other man she is a victim stop pushing this on her victims don't usually like to talk about what happened to them so her denying it makes perfect sense
STEVE YOU DO ALOT OF GOOD BUT I CANT WATCH THE PEOPLE ON YOUR SHOW.
That’s lil durk long lost brother ❤️🤣