I removed myself from tiktok, block my friends who spam family or vacation photos on facebook, avoid browsing linkedin, started working out and I've been happier since.
It is sad that such a vivacious and outgoing personality has to leave us.Coco brought a lot of happiness and laughter to many people.We will miss you and your songs.
0:00: Coco Lee, a Hong Kong-born singer-songwriter, died by suicide after battling depression for years. 0:47: Singapore reported 476 suicides in 2022, the highest in 20 years. 2:01: Multiple risk factors contribute to suicide, including mental illness, social isolation, and life events like marital breakdown and financial stress. 2:19: Healthcare professionals face challenges in preventing suicide due to the complexity of the illness and the difficulty in identifying and treating it. 2:55: The waiting time to see a psychiatrist can be disheartening and hinder recovery. 3:33: Suicide prevention requires the efforts of the entire system, including friends and family. 3:47: Impulsive decisions to take one's life can happen within minutes, emphasizing the importance of reaching out to loved ones. 4:22: The speaker had a complex relationship with depression and faced a lack of understanding from teachers and counselors. 5:37: Miss K faced difficulties in adjusting to society and had sexual anxiety, but managed to overcome them with determination and support. 6:35: Miss K received help from her counselor and found talking about her experiences and learning about depression helpful. 7:21: Society can do better by promoting mental wellness, peer support, and always being there for loved ones even if they decline help. 8:03: Miss K encourages society to continue supporting and connecting with individuals who may be going through depression. 8:33: People with depression often try to deal with it themselves and decline help. 9:00: Being there for someone with depression means providing guidance, checking in on them, and offering encouragement. 9:24: People with depression just need someone to brighten up their minds and make them feel less alone. 10:02: If you or someone you know is in need of help, contact the SOS hotline or email them. Recap by Tammy AI
Getting to the roots of Singapore's Structure e. g. The lead/guide to understand & to question. Freedom to know, free speech & expression and the Truths.
The highly salaried ministers 🤑 be discarded for cause of depression to Singaporeans. A country that was out of proportion in all aspects. From Mercury.
“You are allowed to feel messed up and inside out. It doesn’t mean you’re defective - it just means you’re human.” - David Mitchell. There's a mindfulness book called "30 Days to Reduce Depression" by Harper Daniels which is effective.
🙏 Thank You CNA for giving some much needed mental health advices from a professional to educate the public about the real sufferings of depression & how we can reduced its impact & on how to live with depression since we all suffered from depression at some point in our lives' chaotic journey ... 🙏🕯🌼🌿
When we have unprecedented numbers of people with early onset chronic disease due to atrocious diets & a sedentary lifestyle it is no surprise that mental health is compromised. Healthy body healthy mind. Additionally we have way too many people allowing others speech to control & manipulate them into relinquishing their joy & happiness in life, colloquially referred to as choosing to 'taking offense', a sad reflection of a lose of wisdom in society borne of NOT nurturing values such as love, compassion, service & kindness...
Anything in this life can cause depression: *Homelessness *Ageing process *Financial woes *Relationship struggles/strain *ill health *Abuses *Hormonal changes/imbalances Caring for family members with disabilities/special needs *Deprived of love and care *Etc
Early onset chronic disease is on the rise and will present enormous challenges to a persons ability to contribute meaningfully so as to feel good about themselves. Inflation increasingly threatens more people with the threat of denial of access to the necessities of life. The solution would be to leverage technology especially AI directed robotic technologies to bring down inflation by increasing productivity creating greater supply vs demand. That would be a start, but there would also need to be other strategies included in a comprehensive solution/blueprint, but science is key.
If you know anyone around you is going through a hard time in life or have depression. Please try to be around them as much as you can. They usually melt down when alone, if someone is able to be there for them can really help alot. Even if when you do not know how to say comforting words.
Hi. I just want to let you know something. Although I have already graduated from secondary school in 2022, Whenever I think back about my secondary school life in 2019, 2020, 2021, 2022, it made me feel more and more depressed and cringe and I will cry a lot thinking about it. The Year 2020 that I spent in secondary school just changed me a lot in a terrible way because of a friendship problem that I have with someone in school where this friend psychologically changes the way I think of how I communicate with people in a very wrong way and a very terrible way as well and because of that, it becomes a regular habit of mine and it both negatively affected and badly affected my relationships with people like my teachers and my friends in 2021, 2022 and 2023 which therefore made me feel very depressed, cringe and cry a lot. My secondary school is a place that I will never ever go back to and revisit for the rest of my whole entire life. I am planning to tell this to my friend, Garren who is a Singapore Polytechnic Alumni about this comment that I have just written the next time when I meet him in real life and in person which is next week and I really hope that he can understand it.
@@kaizk5101 thanks for sharing your fears with me. I am grateful that you are willing to open up and decide to talk to Gerren. I pray for the best outcome. If you need to talk to me just let me know. My primary school best friend actually commit suicide at 12 after psle results is release. She got the best score but her plan was go special school so she can finish primary school a year early as her single mum is a cleaner with health issues. She appear fine to everyone but when i got home, her mum call to ask if she us with us. Everyone went out to look for her. She actually jump down from the top level of the block near by her house. I really regret i didn't accompany her 24/7 or at least send her home that day.
@@godsamazinggrace5331 Depression is excessive thinking + one's weak in logic & I.Q + no control. When the aggregated thoughts is non-happy, it will cause the body to feel unhappy or depressed - Understand. Can you control your hand, leg & mouth? Can you control your mind? Tell you mind to stop thinking? Tell you mind to think what you want your mind to think?
The waiting time to see a specialist especially for mental health issues is really a big problem. I had really bad insomnia that lasted for almost 7 months before I finally took the courage to see a doctor at a polyclinic. The closest consultation they could arrange for me was 3 months later and I was already breaking down from the lack of sleep for so many months. It really made me despair that help was so far away.
hi hi, please don't give up... maybe you can try some counselling for time being also. There are resources on UA-cam which you may tap on for now also... I hope you feel better soon...
I suggest you see the polyclinic and ask for a referral to the sleep clinic asap. A sleep study can determine if you have sleep apnea, which also could have similar symptoms you mentioned. If sleep apnea is confirmed, there are ways to manage it. All the best to your health.
My prayers for all those who took their lives especially the young adults below 30. I will never be able to understand why. I will not be judgemental。 Neither do I take the position that God will banish them for taking their lives. To me, my Loving God will embrace all those who suffered and went back to God decades early.
🙏 OMG! We will missed you Coco ... Deepest condolences to the families & friends of Coco Lee ... May Coco Lee be blessed to a better world & realm ... 🙏🕯🌼🌿🌎🕊
I also suspect I having depression but in silence. Hope that Gov will implement clinics or places we can approach for help. As you can't walk in gp clinic and say that u depressed.
Oh hi, yes u can actually go see a doctor at the GP clinics and seek treatment. Most GPs are very kind and empathetic. Depression can be treated. Pls seek treatment early, you don't hv to suffer in silence. You can also seek treatment at the Polyclinics. They can refer you to a psychologist at govt hospitals. Wish you well. God loves you ❤❤❤😊
I have a friend who has major depression, however I feel negatively impacted by her condition too. She constantly makes plans with me and cancels last minute without giving reason or she tells me she is going to hang out with someone else. Then she blames her condition for not following up on plans with me. She takes me as an emotional dump for her negative emotions (e.g., sends me pictures of her self-harm; talks to me rudely) and causes me to be emotionally overwhelmed myself. She can block me on social media but I can't block her because if I do so, she breaks down like crazy. Going through emotional episodes with this friend opened up my past mental wounds. Now, she completely ghosts me and while I used to hear her problems, she is not there to hear my problems when she is the one who caused me to remember my bad memories. Any advice on how to deal with such a friend? While I empathise and sympathise with her condition, I don't feel deserved to be treated this way as it also affects my mental health.
There is also no one-size-fits-all answer to depression. First thing is never TELL the person "not to ... ". And also to not speak when all we need do is attend to the individual's emotional need. Attending to means just give positive regard with a calming body language, appropriate eye contact, don't smile, . It gives the wrong impression that you the listener already figured out everything and you have the 'right answer' to the person's condition. Empathic listening is helpful. No quick responses. Sometimes, it takes humility to say "I hear a great deal of pain .... and I'm wondering what you need from me right now that will be helpful for you to hear" . Never hurry the person while he/she is sharing, especially when they seem to be allowing the painful feelings to emerge. You need to allow that painful feeling to come up/out of the person's system. This may take more than a few seconds of just mindful observing. You will know this episode of tearing is over when they wipe their tears and start to say something else or change to another topic. Pls don't hold your breath because you are afraid you don't know what to do. Breathe normally. Perhaps at the end you may say, "I'm sure you have suffered much. And I'm sure you can't solve all your problems all at once. But you can be assured you will see a little light at the end of today. You might want to speak again to me or to any other person you choose or I can give you names/contacts of places you can get emotional help from. You are not alone."
476 suicides in Singapore in 2022! Very sad for the families and loved ones. We all need to know how to detect depression & mental distress, and how to guide these sufferers to seek help.
The world should "wake up" on what is more important in life! Value own life! There is only ONE! Worldly success is NOTHING compared to SPIRITUAL success! No one is right or wrong! Doctors are NOT the only ones to assist these people! Families, colleagues, friends, companies , governments , religious institutions, ownself etc are ALL accountable! May each & everyone find success in peace of mind, heart & soul.
Those who sleep around Do you know you are entangling yourself with different types of people And that can lead to severe depression!! Stay faithful to one
On the contrary, nurture values such as love, compassion & kindness so as to not allow others words to control & manipulate you into relinquishing your joy & happiness in life. Imagine the mental anguish of your poor friend, an anguish they have to live with 24/7. Put simply a return to wisdom in society.
Depression, casused by many factors, is the matter of brain, mind and energy. Black aura was observed by a psychic on a person suffered from depression. A healer revealed in her book that in the head of depressed person the energy caved in. Another healer revealed the malfunction of certain chakras. All these have to be dealed with, beside the medical treatments for the chemical inbalance, to obtain a best outcome.
There is post - mortem being conducted so it is still early to say Coco Lee died from suicide from depression. Some afterwards reports said she choked to death. Yes, Depression is a serious illness, so one needs to consult a specialist if they are often moody.
Competency and leadership are precisely the attributes that are lacking in the 4G politicians. Is he confused, lost or suffering from some form of mental dysfunctions? Real leaders don’t stay in denial but are able to accept harsh criticisms, admit their mistakes and show resolve in making good by their response, not more rhetoric.
From observation The homeless should be the ones with severe depression!! No confines of a safe place to stay Not allowed to lie down to sleep, police will chase them!! Passerbys shun them, Judge them Msf shelters are only temporary with very messy environment and dark atmosphere!! Most of them gotten unhealthy eventually!! How did they overcome?? They bite the bullet!!
That is why Buddha want his followers to give up material things, asking for alms to remove their egos and practice the spiritual path before Enlightenment can be attained. Not by just listening and believing without any action. Lay people can also attain Enlightenment but more problematic.
When you always want something but you think you cannot have it from one person or many persons you are with and also you think you have no control & no say over anything in a relationship or at home for a long time , the mind will create a false message, depression is coming.
For Coco's unfortunate incident to help in S'pore, the fundamental truths of her depression must be told. Otherwise, what's the use of talking of help?
“It is only through inner peace that we can find true outer freedom.” -Enlightened master Sri Chinmoy. The material world is just a shell, nothing more than an empty shell. Inside this shell is the substance. Most of the time, this shell is empty from within. Without peace, life is empty. But we kept thinking we need to satisfy our desires to be happy. We are wrong. Time and time again, we are reminded. But we dunno where to find the answer. Nobody taught us in schools. LKY was also depressed when his spouse passed away. He found solence in meditation. at one point, he even said that students could learn meditation in schols. We often overlook the importance of spiritual health. We think if the material is fulfilled, everything is good to go. Time and time we are remained that we are wrong. Yet we keep ignoring the fact. We are taking spiritual well being for granted. But when will we ever learn? “If you can’t find peace in your heart, You can’t find it anywhere in the world”. -Enlightened master Sri Chinmoy who led meditation the UN for 37 years. From 1970 - 2007.
Coco Lee had many things money could buy. I still wonder why she chose the easy way out. Low-income people who have depression definitely have to struggle more. Save more lives by making treatment for mental illness affordable, like treating BP and cholesterol. The less well-off sufferers may come out to seek treatment rather than seeking to end their lives.
She wanted to make a comeback, but it seems that her leg surgery wasn't successful. She just recovered from breast cancer, too. And then her marriage was on rocks.
The Health Minister is the highest paid in the world for a rather small population.I don't get why he is unable to come up with a solution to bring down the numbers. To be honest, really expecting some exceptional genius strategies to address this critical issue.PAP policy where many cant retire with respect plays a big part for older folks which will become a bigger problem in the future.
*_"exceptional genius strategies"_* Increasingly due to economic pressures resulting in increasing numbers feeling threatened with denial of access to the necessities of life we will see compromised mental health together with scapegoating & the arousing of divisive tribal tendencies, not good for harmonious diverse societies. The solution would be to leverage technology especially AI directed robotic technologies to bring down inflation by increasing productivity creating greater supply vs demand. That would be a start, but there would also need to be other strategies included in a comprehensive solution/blueprint, but science is key.
Health Minister, in late 2021, foolishly ordered people not be permitted to go to work if they fail to comply to vaccine requirement even though increasingly it was becoming obvious the vaccines does not stop infection. He literally destroyed their livelihoods putting strain on their mental health. Coercing people to inject experimental concoctions into their own bodies even they if don't want to. This Health Minister is clueless on how to improve people's health. Had never been a health professional. Shuttled from ministry to ministry....basically on the job training all the while yet paid million dollar salary. An absolute disaster.
I smoke for a small simple luxury for more than 30 years. Had ever stop smoking for 5 years then starts again but now completely stop for 9 months already since I got covid last year.
I just went to the extend to explain how chronic pain can cause depression to someone regarding the possibility of Coco death. She actually assume just because coco is a celebrity thus she can afford to hire the best doctors to treat her so her death is not suicide but her ex husband trying to kill her. Well not judging that particular women but it is a fact that there are people exist who assume just because someone is beautiful or rich or is celebrities thus they won't have sucide thoughts or mental health. Talking about the refer for imh in sg, usually is a week or 2 weeks if patient willing to go imh. If they refuse to go imh but wish to go nuh, sgh, etc then it takes about 3 months.
sure depression lah. blame the PAP..money, money, money...pay, pay HDB loan, maid etc. better revert to Kumpong days..earn less spent less, happy, happy no Sickness..no need nursing home.
Depression is not a "disease "! Did the broadcaster know what " disease " mean? Depression could be a causation of childhood trauma,sexual assault,family ,personal issues,social issues and self esteem problems leading to over perfectionism.
What is the root cause of it, why hide it, A country with a high cost of living, struggling to become rich, an education system that is burdensome....when the head of a household experiences debt pressure, it has an impact on its members
Fame, wealth, power Will not keep you from having depression!! Human beings are sinful aka Having a sinful nature!! Even babies and children have depression!! *WHICH NEWBORN COMES INTO THIS WORLD LAUGHING??*
Coco Lee had depression for years. She was rich, famous and would have access to the best experts in the world to help her. Her family knew of her struggles. It makes me wonder...if such a wealthy person cannot be saved, what about those who are suffering on their own, trapped within their own world of suffering? It reminds me of Leslie Chung who jumped to his death from the Mandarin Oriental in HK on April 1, 2003. Young, famous, rich and yet trapped in his world of depression. Was he suffering in silence? Did he reach out for help? Was he given help?
This tells us depression can happen to anyone. Status, wealth, even with mental health knowledge, it still can. Support system can be in place, best care provided, but, nobody can truly monitor or supervise someone forever 24/7. Families and caregivers must have tried their best but the individual chooses his or her own path. Unless u keep that person in a cell with round the clock monitoring, for someone who is bent on dying, how can anyone stop them? Rip coco Lee. May all suffering from depression find light soon.
A person, even he is wealthy, usually does not know how to find other experts who can help, beside seeing the doctors. He will not even recognise an expert standing in front of him! Seeking helps requires knowledge. Hence the advices and recommendations from the experts are also needed in seeking treatments!
Being famous might work against healing depression. They hv to face the world wrt to their state of mental health. We the unknown can live like a normal human. No paparazzi will be interested
There is too much bad news which exposed in media, moreover we are taught to achieve something in this life, we are taught to see the lack on ourselves, comparison etc... Meanwhile we forget the goodness on ourselves🤗🤗
True, too much demands on our time n too much distractions. So we must always remind ourselves to seek a healthy balance. Everything is going to be fine. ❤😊
Miss K ... oh no. You just need to find a CARING LOVING person & happiness will overwhelm you. Use your money on Happiness / not pills & hospital. Miss K, becareful - society is not ROSY society is THORNY
you Cannot take your own life!! When your time is up GOD WILL REMOVE HIS BREATH OF LIFE FROM YOUR NOSTRILS!!! Any premature death by your own doing aka suicide is sin and regarded as crime by police!!
She cannot go to heaven lor. St Peter don't allow her go through the Pearly gate even if she somehow manage to find her way there Need to be reborn and start all over again until Perfection is achieved then escape from the cycles of Birth and Death.
Help? What kind of help? Nobody believes counseling alone can prevent suicide. It's just one of the steps to make. The psychiatrist was not asked about the costs of counseling, consultation and medication. This makes the whole interview quite meaningless.
The modern we are the more problems we have , especially with more foreigners here to compete n took away our decent jobs, whereas foreigners coming here to make BIG bucks n back home build big landed whereas local are paying for life just for a small room, n with higher costs not higher standard all translate into unnecessary stress to locals thats why our local breed seniors have to sell tissue paper at train station instead of retiring happily into their old age but have to support themselves begging .what a shame withbonly few millions smallnisland population the government can't look after their local breed which brought n build Singapore, worst still keep our whole-life hard-earned stressed n sweat c p f money in the name of "safe-keeping" afraid man get cheated away by foreign lady.even America hundred million population can take care of their jobless .what a big shame small island still our ministers salary are higher than American President yet so many less fortunate.
Life is hard n unfair, but we can stay rooted to our values, be worthy, and do our best. Hang on, find some simple joys here n there. Everything is going to be fine.❤😊
An ideal piece of life would be to live and die well. More than 90% of the time, those who seemed to have to lived well, died badly at the very last moments including the so called religious ones. Not to mention the worse ones that took their own before their relative physical expiry. So, what is living or dying well? Perhaps it’s time to open your minds to people who we thought had manic depression eg, tsem tulku rinpoche, eckhart tolle, osho, sadhguru, Suzanne Chan, nargis Alegria and thankfully the list will go on from here. Take your pick, or down all of them. Good luck
@@godsamazinggrace5331 Hello good morning to you. Id like to leave it to be the strangest comment. The question you have asked me though, is the most valuable question in the entire youtube history. Just have to do some minor directional adjustments to it, which is directing the question to yourself.
To those who is ignorant it's magic. To those who is learn-ed it's knowledge. Does she plays with a spirit to get famous? Many Hong Kong artists use to seek spiritual blessing in Thailand. Don't be mistaken it to be a Buddhist practice. Highest Buddhism practice is like a Doctrine similar to Confucius teaching.
Everyone has their own lives and own paths to live. No use comparing. Maybe they can't eat properly, and cannot sleep at night, no time for hobbies and family, keep worrying about serious problems. 😊❤
John 14 v 27 JESUS SAYS *PEACE I LEAVE With you*; *MY PEACE I GIVE TO you!* *I DO NOT GIVE TO YOU AS THE WORLD GIVES !!* DO NOT LET YOUR HEARTS BE TROUBLED AND DO NOT BE AFRAID!!! If you are troubled or depressed Come to JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH NOW!!! Give your life and heart to JESUS TODAY!!! GOD BLESS you
*EVERYTHING UNDER THE SUN IS MEANINGLESS* !!! Every living soul needs the One TRUE LIVING GOD JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH BECAUSE HE CREATED you!!! BE RECONCILED TO GOD!!! JESUS LOVES YOU!!!
This reminds me of a movie I've watched years ago. A mob boss is diagnosed with anxietyt attack, he insists it is a heart attack and attributes it to opulent lifestyle. He calls the doctor a quack. It an ego problem.
God has the solution to all human problem - it is stated in the bible 2000 years ago. Please send your children to church at young age n u would avert all tragedy. God bless all of you. Amen
@@Utube1024 Don't get me wrong, I'm a believer myself. I just wanted to offer a fuller perspective. God does have a better plan for anyone who believes and is faithful. Have you ever faced tragedy?
@@Jordan18561 What computer and software god operates to keep track each and every one of the more than 6 billions people around the world of different races and faith. All that is born must some day perish. That's the Truth and been that way all along. So you are saying those non believer god has no plan for them. In a way its a blessing in disguise....LOL.
@@Utube1024 "All that is born must some day perish. That's the Truth and been that way all along." You have no way of knowing that death has always ruled over us. That is your faith. My faith is in life.
Depression when you have money and fame... Tell it to the millions of souls in Palestine, Iraq, Afghanistan, Africa where to have 1 meal a day is a luxury
why we have so many incompetent 4G politicians in parliament today? Defend for all they may want but at least have the decency to be factual and explain why so many mediocre politicians, not fit even for our SMEs, could be elected into parliament and make a joke of our public system. Where is meritocracy? Where is equality? How many Singaporeans can still recite our National Pledge with pride these days without lamentation of the current state of our public affairs?
Stress in the city? That would be politically incorrect to say. Ah , which city? Ahah , i nebber say which city mah. English is art like roti prata flipping is an art.
I removed myself from tiktok, block my friends who spam family or vacation photos on facebook, avoid browsing linkedin, started working out and I've been happier since.
So happy for you. You are so wise. Stay well ❤❤❤😊
It is sad that such a vivacious and outgoing personality has to leave us.Coco brought a lot of happiness and laughter to many people.We will miss you and your songs.
Thank you CNA for shining a light on depression patients in Singapore 🫶
0:00: Coco Lee, a Hong Kong-born singer-songwriter, died by suicide after battling depression for years.
0:47: Singapore reported 476 suicides in 2022, the highest in 20 years.
2:01: Multiple risk factors contribute to suicide, including mental illness, social isolation, and life events like marital breakdown and financial stress.
2:19: Healthcare professionals face challenges in preventing suicide due to the complexity of the illness and the difficulty in identifying and treating it.
2:55: The waiting time to see a psychiatrist can be disheartening and hinder recovery.
3:33: Suicide prevention requires the efforts of the entire system, including friends and family.
3:47: Impulsive decisions to take one's life can happen within minutes, emphasizing the importance of reaching out to loved ones.
4:22: The speaker had a complex relationship with depression and faced a lack of understanding from teachers and counselors.
5:37: Miss K faced difficulties in adjusting to society and had sexual anxiety, but managed to overcome them with determination and support.
6:35: Miss K received help from her counselor and found talking about her experiences and learning about depression helpful.
7:21: Society can do better by promoting mental wellness, peer support, and always being there for loved ones even if they decline help.
8:03: Miss K encourages society to continue supporting and connecting with individuals who may be going through depression.
8:33: People with depression often try to deal with it themselves and decline help.
9:00: Being there for someone with depression means providing guidance, checking in on them, and offering encouragement.
9:24: People with depression just need someone to brighten up their minds and make them feel less alone.
10:02: If you or someone you know is in need of help, contact the SOS hotline or email them.
Recap by Tammy AI
Getting to the roots of Singapore's Structure e. g. The lead/guide to understand & to question. Freedom to know, free speech & expression and the Truths.
The highly salaried ministers 🤑 be discarded for cause of depression to Singaporeans. A country that was out of proportion in all aspects.
From Mercury.
Social anxiety.. not sexual
“You are allowed to feel messed up and inside out. It doesn’t mean you’re defective - it just means you’re human.” - David Mitchell. There's a mindfulness book called "30 Days to Reduce Depression" by Harper Daniels which is effective.
🙏 Thank You CNA for giving some much needed mental health advices from a professional to educate the public about the real sufferings of depression & how we can reduced its impact & on how to live with depression since we all suffered from depression at some point in our lives' chaotic journey ... 🙏🕯🌼🌿
When we have unprecedented numbers of people with early onset chronic disease due to atrocious diets & a sedentary lifestyle it is no surprise that mental health is compromised. Healthy body healthy mind. Additionally we have way too many people allowing others speech to control & manipulate them into relinquishing their joy & happiness in life, colloquially referred to as choosing to 'taking offense', a sad reflection of a lose of wisdom in society borne of NOT nurturing values such as love, compassion, service & kindness...
Anything in this life can cause depression:
*Homelessness
*Ageing process
*Financial woes
*Relationship struggles/strain
*ill health
*Abuses
*Hormonal changes/imbalances
Caring for family members with disabilities/special needs
*Deprived of love and care
*Etc
Early onset chronic disease is on the rise and will present enormous challenges to a persons ability to contribute meaningfully so as to feel good about themselves. Inflation increasingly threatens more people with the threat of denial of access to the necessities of life. The solution would be to leverage technology especially AI directed robotic technologies to bring down inflation by increasing productivity creating greater supply vs demand. That would be a start, but there would also need to be other strategies included in a comprehensive solution/blueprint, but science is key.
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If you know anyone around you is going through a hard time in life or have depression. Please try to be around them as much as you can. They usually melt down when alone, if someone is able to be there for them can really help alot. Even if when you do not know how to say comforting words.
Hi. I just want to let you know something. Although I have already graduated from secondary school in 2022, Whenever I think back about my secondary school life in 2019, 2020, 2021, 2022, it made me feel more and more depressed and cringe and I will cry a lot thinking about it. The Year 2020 that I spent in secondary school just changed me a lot in a terrible way because of a friendship problem that I have with someone in school where this friend psychologically changes the way I think of how I communicate with people in a very wrong way and a very terrible way as well and because of that, it becomes a regular habit of mine and it both negatively affected and badly affected my relationships with people like my teachers and my friends in 2021, 2022 and 2023 which therefore made me feel very depressed, cringe and cry a lot. My secondary school is a place that I will never ever go back to and revisit for the rest of my whole entire life. I am planning to tell this to my friend, Garren who is a Singapore Polytechnic Alumni about this comment that I have just written the next time when I meet him in real life and in person which is next week and I really hope that he can understand it.
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say your head lah, celestialstar.
depression led to illusion to hallucinations... grave confusion.
A caring heart extended will do.
@@kaizk5101 thanks for sharing your fears with me. I am grateful that you are willing to open up and decide to talk to Gerren. I pray for the best outcome. If you need to talk to me just let me know.
My primary school best friend actually commit suicide at 12 after psle results is release. She got the best score but her plan was go special school so she can finish primary school a year early as her single mum is a cleaner with health issues.
She appear fine to everyone but when i got home, her mum call to ask if she us with us. Everyone went out to look for her. She actually jump down from the top level of the block near by her house. I really regret i didn't accompany her 24/7 or at least send her home that day.
@@ConradSNIPER
Depression is a dark tunnel
@@godsamazinggrace5331
Depression is excessive thinking + one's weak in logic & I.Q + no control. When the aggregated thoughts is non-happy, it will cause the body to feel unhappy or depressed - Understand.
Can you control your hand, leg & mouth?
Can you control your mind?
Tell you mind to stop thinking?
Tell you mind to think what you want your mind to think?
Well working and living in Singapore drive us to the edge!
Take care and find a way to relax, go out for walks, chill out with ppl u trust and feel comfortable with. Things can get better ❤😊
The waiting time to see a specialist especially for mental health issues is really a big problem. I had really bad insomnia that lasted for almost 7 months before I finally took the courage to see a doctor at a polyclinic. The closest consultation they could arrange for me was 3 months later and I was already breaking down from the lack of sleep for so many months. It really made me despair that help was so far away.
hi hi, please don't give up... maybe you can try some counselling for time being also. There are resources on UA-cam which you may tap on for now also... I hope you feel better soon...
I suggest you see the polyclinic and ask for a referral to the sleep clinic asap. A sleep study can determine if you have sleep apnea, which also could have similar symptoms you mentioned. If sleep apnea is confirmed, there are ways to manage it. All the best to your health.
On a side note, this newscaster has very good pronounciation and great voice. Keep it up CNA
My prayers for all those who took their lives especially the young adults below 30. I will never be able to understand why. I will not be judgemental。 Neither do I take the position that God will banish them for taking their lives. To me, my Loving God will embrace all those who suffered and went back to God decades early.
Start by giving a smile and laughter towards people.Need more love and kindness
Thanks. U r so right ❤😊
Even with family or friends some may do the unthinkable, maybe they dont know what they are doing or is too overwhelmed in life, be kind to each other
🙏 OMG! We will missed you Coco ... Deepest condolences to the families & friends of Coco Lee ... May Coco Lee be blessed to a better world & realm ... 🙏🕯🌼🌿🌎🕊
Not sure she will require to answer to the HADES LAW - afterall she murder herself.
I also suspect I having depression but in silence. Hope that Gov will implement clinics or places we can approach for help. As you can't walk in gp clinic and say that u depressed.
Oh hi, yes u can actually go see a doctor at the GP clinics and seek treatment. Most GPs are very kind and empathetic. Depression can be treated. Pls seek treatment early, you don't hv to suffer in silence. You can also seek treatment at the Polyclinics. They can refer you to a psychologist at govt hospitals. Wish you well. God loves you ❤❤❤😊
I have a friend who has major depression, however I feel negatively impacted by her condition too. She constantly makes plans with me and cancels last minute without giving reason or she tells me she is going to hang out with someone else. Then she blames her condition for not following up on plans with me. She takes me as an emotional dump for her negative emotions (e.g., sends me pictures of her self-harm; talks to me rudely) and causes me to be emotionally overwhelmed myself. She can block me on social media but I can't block her because if I do so, she breaks down like crazy. Going through emotional episodes with this friend opened up my past mental wounds. Now, she completely ghosts me and while I used to hear her problems, she is not there to hear my problems when she is the one who caused me to remember my bad memories. Any advice on how to deal with such a friend? While I empathise and sympathise with her condition, I don't feel deserved to be treated this way as it also affects my mental health.
There is also no one-size-fits-all answer to depression. First thing is never TELL the person "not to ... ". And also to not speak when all we need do is attend to the individual's emotional need. Attending to means just give positive regard with a calming body language, appropriate eye contact, don't smile, . It gives the wrong impression that you the listener already figured out everything and you have the 'right answer' to the person's condition. Empathic listening is helpful. No quick responses. Sometimes, it takes humility to say "I hear a great deal of pain .... and I'm wondering what you need from me right now that will be helpful for you to hear" . Never hurry the person while he/she is sharing, especially when they seem to be allowing the painful feelings to emerge. You need to allow that painful feeling to come up/out of the person's system. This may take more than a few seconds of just mindful observing. You will know this episode of tearing is over when they wipe their tears and start to say something else or change to another topic. Pls don't hold your breath because you are afraid you don't know what to do. Breathe normally. Perhaps at the end you may say, "I'm sure you have suffered much. And I'm sure you can't solve all your problems all at once. But you can be assured you will see a little light at the end of today. You might want to speak again to me or to any other person you choose or I can give you names/contacts of places you can get emotional help from. You are not alone."
Thank you for your kind advice. Appreciate ❤😊
I met this elderly woman aged 92 but looks in her 70s
Mobile, healthy, yet she said she wants to die!!
Signs of elderly depression
Tats a prob...when u hav too long a life....sad...
financial problem. no work, no money
476 suicides in Singapore in 2022! Very sad for the families and loved ones. We all need to know how to detect depression & mental distress, and how to guide these sufferers to seek help.
The world should "wake up" on what is more important in life!
Value own life!
There is only ONE!
Worldly success is NOTHING compared to SPIRITUAL success!
No one is right or wrong!
Doctors are NOT the only ones to assist these people!
Families, colleagues, friends, companies , governments , religious institutions, ownself etc are ALL accountable!
May each & everyone find success in peace of mind, heart & soul.
Thank u. U are so wise😊. Wishing u peace, love, happiness n good health too.
Those who sleep around
Do you know you are entangling yourself with different types of people
And that can lead to severe depression!!
Stay faithful to one
Are you implying she sleeps around? If she sleeps with me sure can cure her depression but I poor man no money cannot qualify lah.
She was married..lol 😂
Errm even those who stayed faithful end up in depression
Stay away from toxic relationships/friendships!!
On the contrary, nurture values such as love, compassion & kindness so as to not allow others words to control & manipulate you into relinquishing your joy & happiness in life. Imagine the mental anguish of your poor friend, an anguish they have to live with 24/7. Put simply a return to wisdom in society.
Agree😊
@@veganathi agree😊
Depression, casused by many factors, is the matter of brain, mind and energy. Black aura was observed by a psychic on a person suffered from depression. A healer revealed in her book that in the head of depressed person the energy caved in. Another healer revealed the malfunction of certain chakras. All these have to be dealed with, beside the medical treatments for the chemical inbalance, to obtain a best outcome.
There is post - mortem being conducted so it is still early to say Coco Lee died from suicide from depression. Some afterwards reports said she choked to death. Yes, Depression is a serious illness, so one needs to consult a specialist if they are often moody.
cannot eveb get thru to sos. what’s the point of calling
HIGH Stress
HIGH Cost of Living
MORE IMPORTED Foreigners taking Local Jobs
Depression WILL RISE in SG WITHOUT A DOUBT
Great Job by 4G
👍👏👏👏
yalor cause by foreigners from china lor
@@jansg405
Ya
Full of drama!!
61% still support it
Look no further we have one siao keleng chabor in the parliament asking people to apologize for criticizing themselves. This is a sign of depression.
It's OK lah, let her be, can sit back and enjoy more dramatic moments
Competency and leadership are precisely the attributes that are lacking in the 4G politicians. Is he confused, lost or suffering from some form of mental dysfunctions? Real leaders don’t stay in denial but are able to accept harsh criticisms, admit their mistakes and show resolve in making good by their response, not more rhetoric.
From observation
The homeless should be the ones with severe depression!!
No confines of a safe place to stay
Not allowed to lie down to sleep, police will chase them!!
Passerbys shun them,
Judge them
Msf shelters are only temporary with very messy environment and dark atmosphere!!
Most of them gotten unhealthy eventually!!
How did they overcome??
They bite the bullet!!
That is why Buddha want his followers to give up material things, asking for alms to remove their egos and practice the spiritual path before Enlightenment can be attained. Not by just listening and believing without any action. Lay people can also attain Enlightenment but more problematic.
It's a fact that access to mental healthcare is prohibitively expensive.
The death of Coco Lee begs the question. Is psychiatric treatment beneficial?
too much money also doesnt bring happiness..
@@fidelcatsro6948but better to be rich and depressed than poor and depressed lehhh
@@NookTommybetter also to be poor and happy than rich and depressed
When you always want something but you think you cannot have it from one person or many persons you are with and also you think you have no control & no say over anything in a relationship or at home for a long time , the mind will create
a false message, depression is coming.
True. We r social beings, it's helpful to talk to someone who we can trust n feel comfortable with. Everything will be OK. ❤😊
State of denial/betrayal/self respect ? Goodness me, am " blessed" with concerned people though i feel like one at times
In Singapore one's got to be par+ in order to survive comfortably enough for a hopeful shot at thriving or flourishing.
For Coco's unfortunate incident to help in S'pore, the fundamental truths of her depression must be told. Otherwise, what's the use of talking of help?
I thought everyone is living happily in Singapore
“It is only through inner peace that we can find true outer freedom.” -Enlightened master Sri Chinmoy.
The material world is just a shell, nothing more than an empty shell. Inside this shell is the substance. Most of the time, this shell is empty from within.
Without peace, life is empty. But we kept thinking we need to satisfy our desires to be happy. We are wrong. Time and time again, we are reminded. But we dunno where to find the answer. Nobody taught us in schools.
LKY was also depressed when his spouse passed away. He found solence in meditation. at one point, he even said that students could learn meditation in schols.
We often overlook the importance of spiritual health. We think if the material is fulfilled, everything is good to go. Time and time we are remained that we are wrong.
Yet we keep ignoring the fact. We are taking spiritual well being for granted. But when will we ever learn?
“If you can’t find peace in your heart,
You can’t find it anywhere in the world”.
-Enlightened master Sri Chinmoy who led meditation the UN for 37 years. From 1970 - 2007.
Faster implement 4 days work lah! IMPROVE OUR WORK LIFE BALANCE! damn pappies
😂😂😂 thanks for your humor 😊
Ms K was not audible..
John 10 v 10
The Thief Comes Only To
Steal
Kill
And Destroy!!
*I (JESUS CHRIST) HAVE COME THAT THEY MAY HAVE LIFE AND HAVE IT TO THE FULL*
No short of story...LOL
Coco Lee had many things money could buy. I still wonder why she chose the easy way out.
Low-income people who have depression definitely have to struggle more. Save more lives by making treatment for mental illness affordable, like treating BP and cholesterol.
The less well-off sufferers may come out to seek treatment rather than seeking to end their lives.
People need happiness, not money
She wanted to make a comeback, but it seems that her leg surgery wasn't successful. She just recovered from breast cancer, too. And then her marriage was on rocks.
The Health Minister is the highest paid in the world for a rather small population.I don't get why he is unable to come up with a solution to bring down the numbers.
To be honest, really expecting some exceptional genius strategies to address this critical issue.PAP policy where many cant retire with respect plays a big part for older folks which will become a bigger problem in the future.
*_"exceptional genius strategies"_* Increasingly due to economic pressures resulting in increasing numbers feeling threatened with denial of access to the necessities of life we will see compromised mental health together with scapegoating & the arousing of divisive tribal tendencies, not good for harmonious diverse societies. The solution would be to leverage technology especially AI directed robotic technologies to bring down inflation by increasing productivity creating greater supply vs demand. That would be a start, but there would also need to be other strategies included in a comprehensive solution/blueprint, but science is key.
@@veganath Yes Well put.
Health Min has ZERO MEDICAL TRAINING but Econs/Biz Major
USELESS
Health Minister, in late 2021, foolishly ordered people not be permitted to go to work if they fail to comply to vaccine requirement even though increasingly it was becoming obvious the vaccines does not stop infection. He literally destroyed their livelihoods putting strain on their mental health. Coercing people to inject experimental concoctions into their own bodies even they if don't want to. This Health Minister is clueless on how to improve people's health. Had never been a health professional. Shuttled from ministry to ministry....basically on the job training all the while yet paid million dollar salary. An absolute disaster.
Question for smokers
you smoke because you are depressed??
I smoke for a small simple luxury for more than 30 years. Had ever stop smoking for 5 years then starts again but now completely stop for 9 months already since I got covid last year.
I just went to the extend to explain how chronic pain can cause depression to someone regarding the possibility of Coco death. She actually assume just because coco is a celebrity thus she can afford to hire the best doctors to treat her so her death is not suicide but her ex husband trying to kill her.
Well not judging that particular women but it is a fact that there are people exist who assume just because someone is beautiful or rich or is celebrities thus they won't have sucide thoughts or mental health.
Talking about the refer for imh in sg, usually is a week or 2 weeks if patient willing to go imh. If they refuse to go imh but wish to go nuh, sgh, etc then it takes about 3 months.
sure depression lah. blame the PAP..money, money, money...pay, pay HDB loan, maid etc. better revert to Kumpong days..earn less spent less, happy, happy no Sickness..no need nursing home.
The death of Coco Lee begs the question. Is psychiatric treatment beneficial?
Good question
Those kind of expensive help is just temporary!!
They gave sedation calming the mind medically, eventually die of it
Depression is not a "disease "! Did the broadcaster know what " disease " mean? Depression could be a causation of childhood trauma,sexual assault,family ,personal issues,social issues and self esteem problems leading to over perfectionism.
Demons will flee when you
Call upon the
NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH!!! ✝️❤️
(Mark 1 v 23-28)
JUST BELIEVE
AND HAVE FAITH!!!
GOD BLESS you
What is the root cause of it, why hide it, A country with a high cost of living, struggling to become rich, an education system that is burdensome....when the head of a household experiences debt pressure, it has an impact on its members
Fame, wealth, power
Will not keep you from having depression!!
Human beings are sinful aka
Having a sinful nature!!
Even babies and children have depression!!
*WHICH NEWBORN COMES INTO THIS WORLD LAUGHING??*
Prince Siddhartha smiling and walk seven steps when he was born. With each step bloom a lotus flower
Heard of the phrase “better to cry in a Ferrari than on a bicycle”?
Thats the argument
Coco Lee had depression for years. She was rich, famous and would have access to the best experts in the world to help her. Her family knew of her struggles. It makes me wonder...if such a wealthy person cannot be saved, what about those who are suffering on their own, trapped within their own world of suffering?
It reminds me of Leslie Chung who jumped to his death from the Mandarin Oriental in HK on April 1, 2003. Young, famous, rich and yet trapped in his world of depression. Was he suffering in silence? Did he reach out for help? Was he given help?
This tells us depression can happen to anyone. Status, wealth, even with mental health knowledge, it still can.
Support system can be in place, best care provided, but, nobody can truly monitor or supervise someone forever 24/7.
Families and caregivers must have tried their best but the individual chooses his or her own path.
Unless u keep that person in a cell with round the clock monitoring, for someone who is bent on dying, how can anyone stop them?
Rip coco Lee. May all suffering from depression find light soon.
@@penaltysocceryet they argued its better to be rich and depressed than poor and depressed
A person, even he is wealthy, usually does not know how to find other experts who can help, beside seeing the doctors. He will not even recognise an expert standing in front of him! Seeking helps requires knowledge. Hence the advices and recommendations from the experts are also needed in seeking treatments!
Being famous might work against healing depression. They hv to face the world wrt to their state of mental health. We the unknown can live like a normal human. No paparazzi will be interested
Check if Kumantong or other spirits are involved in the pursuit of fame. Many Hong Kong artists went to Thailand to seek this spirit blessing.
There is too much bad news which exposed in media, moreover we are taught to achieve something in this life, we are taught to see the lack on ourselves, comparison etc... Meanwhile we forget the goodness on ourselves🤗🤗
True, too much demands on our time n too much distractions. So we must always remind ourselves to seek a healthy balance. Everything is going to be fine. ❤😊
Get some sunshine
And
Clean laughter ie clean jokes
Laughter is good medicine
Miss K ... oh no.
You just need to find a CARING LOVING person & happiness will overwhelm you.
Use your money on Happiness /
not pills & hospital.
Miss K, becareful -
society is not ROSY
society is THORNY
High on F..😕
you Cannot take your own life!!
When your time is up
GOD WILL REMOVE HIS BREATH OF LIFE FROM YOUR NOSTRILS!!!
Any premature death by your own doing aka suicide is sin and regarded as crime by police!!
She cannot go to heaven lor. St Peter don't allow her go through the Pearly gate even if she somehow manage to find her way there
Need to be reborn and start all over again until Perfection is achieved then escape from the cycles of Birth and Death.
Help? What kind of help?
Nobody believes counseling alone can prevent suicide. It's just one of the steps to make. The psychiatrist was not asked about the costs of counseling, consultation and medication.
This makes the whole interview quite meaningless.
The modern we are the more problems we have , especially with more foreigners here to compete n took away our decent jobs, whereas foreigners coming here to make BIG bucks n back home build big landed whereas local are paying for life just for a small room, n with higher costs not higher standard all translate into unnecessary stress to locals thats why our local breed seniors have to sell tissue paper at train station instead of retiring happily into their old age but have to support themselves begging .what a shame withbonly few millions smallnisland population the government can't look after their local breed which brought n build Singapore, worst still keep our whole-life hard-earned stressed n sweat c p f money in the name of "safe-keeping" afraid man get cheated away by foreign lady.even America hundred million population can take care of their jobless .what a big shame small island still our ministers salary are higher than American President yet so many less fortunate.
Life is hard n unfair, but we can stay rooted to our values, be worthy, and do our best. Hang on, find some simple joys here n there. Everything is going to be fine.❤😊
IMH is doing a bad job when it comes to mental treatment.
Oh.... this is so CONFUSING
😂😂😂😂😂
More people are going to be
REAL DEPRESSED
Vaccinations can make depression worse..
An ideal piece of life would be to live and die well. More than 90% of the time, those who seemed to have to lived well, died badly at the very last moments including the so called religious ones. Not to mention the worse ones that took their own before their relative physical expiry. So, what is living or dying well? Perhaps it’s time to open your minds to people who we thought had manic depression eg, tsem tulku rinpoche, eckhart tolle, osho, sadhguru, Suzanne Chan, nargis Alegria and thankfully the list will go on from here. Take your pick, or down all of them. Good luck
lol
Strangest comment!!
No one can choose or know how they will die physically/naturally!!
So
How are you going to die well??
@@godsamazinggrace5331 Hello good morning to you. Id like to leave it to be the strangest comment. The question you have asked me though, is the most valuable question in the entire youtube history. Just have to do some minor directional adjustments to it, which is directing the question to yourself.
This newscaster looks depressed
Expectation vs Reality and one's view of life.
Unrealistic expectations and demands in life vs Harsh reality
To those who is ignorant it's magic. To those who is learn-ed it's knowledge. Does she plays with a spirit to get famous? Many Hong Kong artists use to seek spiritual blessing in Thailand. Don't be mistaken it to be a Buddhist practice. Highest Buddhism practice is like a Doctrine similar to Confucius teaching.
John 14 v 6
JESUS DECLARES
I AM
*THE WAY*
THE TRUTH AND
THE LIFE
NO ONE COMES TO
THE FATHER
EXCEPT THROUGH ME!!!
Are you finding your way??
She is a Christian leh why still have depression if what you said is true.
You all can blame anyone but never blame the Straits😅
Kiasu never lost their lives to demon before, only lost money
Seek Inner Peace from The 1True God.
What's the name of the 1 true god?
I have the solution
I wonder if Coco Lee might be a victim of a narcissist...
There should have a lesson on her song before I fall in love...
Not enough money is the major depression
I agree
@@HoneymagmangospoofCoco Lee didn’t have enough money?
Agree money matters now
The presenter herself looks and speaks like in depression
The Beauty of it All is NONE of 4G Suffer from DEPRESSION.
ALL Laughing All the Way to the Bank; Some Laughing in B&W Bungalows
😂😂😂😂😂
Good!
You are (finally) seeing beauty.
They do
But Suppress them!!
Rich country rich government but citizens aren’t rich 😂
Everyone has their own lives and own paths to live. No use comparing. Maybe they can't eat properly, and cannot sleep at night, no time for hobbies and family, keep worrying about serious problems. 😊❤
John 14 v 27
JESUS SAYS
*PEACE I LEAVE With you*;
*MY PEACE I GIVE TO you!*
*I DO NOT GIVE TO YOU AS THE WORLD GIVES !!*
DO NOT LET YOUR HEARTS BE TROUBLED
AND DO NOT BE AFRAID!!!
If you are troubled or depressed
Come to JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH NOW!!!
Give your life and heart to JESUS TODAY!!!
GOD BLESS you
Medical plus spiritual treatment. Double the effects of healing.
*EVERYTHING UNDER THE SUN IS MEANINGLESS* !!!
Every living soul needs the One TRUE LIVING GOD
JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH
BECAUSE HE CREATED you!!!
BE RECONCILED TO GOD!!!
JESUS LOVES YOU!!!
Tell that to Elon Musk. The Rich talk the rich way, the poor consoling themselves, bo bian.
@@Utube1024
ELON MUSK belongs to the DEVIL!!
DEVIL'S ADVOCATE FOR ALL THE EVIL
Many people still thrive without religion.
🎥📷📹🎦😲
This reminds me of a movie I've watched years ago.
A mob boss is diagnosed with anxietyt attack, he insists it is a heart attack and attributes it to opulent lifestyle. He calls the doctor a quack.
It an ego problem.
God has the solution to all human problem - it is stated in the bible 2000 years ago. Please send your children to church at young age n u would avert all tragedy. God bless all of you. Amen
Church-goers are subject to tragedy too lah
@@Jordan18561 When church goer suffer tragedy they lie to themselves god has better plan for them 🤣
@@Utube1024 Don't get me wrong, I'm a believer myself. I just wanted to offer a fuller perspective. God does have a better plan for anyone who believes and is faithful. Have you ever faced tragedy?
@@Jordan18561 What computer and software god operates to keep track each and every one of the more than 6 billions people around the world of different races and faith.
All that is born must some day perish. That's the Truth and been that way all along.
So you are saying those non believer god has no plan for them. In a way its a blessing in disguise....LOL.
@@Utube1024
"All that is born must some day perish. That's the Truth and been that way all along."
You have no way of knowing that death has always ruled over us. That is your faith.
My faith is in life.
Oh where's asian all the 🐢🐋🐬sealions 😥
Depression when you have money and fame... Tell it to the millions of souls in Palestine, Iraq, Afghanistan, Africa where to have 1 meal a day is a luxury
Why compare like that, we all will have ups and downs no matter where u are born. Just be kind and don't judge.
why we have so many incompetent 4G politicians in parliament today? Defend for all they may want but at least have the decency to be factual and explain why so many mediocre politicians, not fit even for our SMEs, could be elected into parliament and make a joke of our public system. Where is meritocracy? Where is equality? How many Singaporeans can still recite our National Pledge with pride these days without lamentation of the current state of our public affairs?
The Beauty of it All is NONE of 4G Suffer from DEPRESSION.
ALL Laughing All the Way to the Bank; Some Laughing in B&W Bungalows
Stress in the city? That would be politically incorrect to say. Ah , which city? Ahah , i nebber say which city mah. English is art like roti prata flipping is an art.
The Beauty of it All is NONE of 4G Suffer from DEPRESSION.
ALL Laughing All the Way to the Bank; Some Laughing in B&W Bungalows