Oppa vs. Abang! How Malaysian vs Korean do dating? |Cutural Differences|Male version

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  • @Blimeywow
    @Blimeywow  5 років тому +172

    Thanks for coming Blimey Channel!
    If you want to know more about #605Sudio, visit here! We've been mentoring Taewon and he's so chilled out and fun ;) ua-cam.com/channels/IGUZyXa9gSiY0xKgcALGhg.html
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    Today, we talked about dating cultures XD
    It doesn't represent the entire Korean or Malaysian.
    Please understand if it's different from your opinions!
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    Thanks for @605studio and @matthew_gunben for starring in this video!
    Click for female version #dating differences ua-cam.com/video/Sg7YmonlYRk/v-deo.html

  • @adadisini2898
    @adadisini2898 5 років тому +543

    Matthew, we Malaysian are very proud of you. You show a good example of Malaysian guy.

    • @emmaprims3243
      @emmaprims3243 5 років тому +12

      Agree... Nervous jgk sblm tgk 😊

    • @Kaiyiewong
      @Kaiyiewong 5 років тому +5

      dia org Sarawak

    • @Kaiyiewong
      @Kaiyiewong 5 років тому

      Mat anak gunben

    • @ohaiyoogozaimas
      @ohaiyoogozaimas 5 років тому +8

      Proud to say I am his big brotha. Salam dari warga Sarawak

    • @kuropingguo
      @kuropingguo 4 роки тому +2

      Yie Gani orang Sarawak pun Malaysian jg

  • @nabilayusri9741
    @nabilayusri9741 5 років тому +680

    I like this abang! Very respectful and think wisely before answer. Exactly like how muslim in malaysian should be. I was afraid that you pick someone who is open with everything like skinship, hugging, even kissing (not like they dont do it but as a malaysian we act very shy and dont do it at public). Abang is a good example that shows most of the muslim in malaysia act if they are in a relationship or some.

    • @TheZexodius
      @TheZexodius 5 років тому +20

      Nblaysr he aint muslim though

    • @sushieethingg7128
      @sushieethingg7128 5 років тому +30

      The name is mattew so i don't think he is muslim. Just say that malaysian can also date without having to touch and kiss someone

    • @milahadi4155
      @milahadi4155 5 років тому +54

      Most sarawakian knows islam religion better😊 they always respects each others religion. #exunimasian

    • @mnmmp767
      @mnmmp767 5 років тому +27

      Because Malaysia is a majority muslim country, even others are being influence with modest culture of not overly acting intimate in public. But that doesn't mean there is none, but its not that many. Do it if you comfortable people gazing at you badly.

    • @elizabeth_takamine
      @elizabeth_takamine 5 років тому +31

      @@TheZexodius Doesn't matter. You don't have to be a Muslim to know that. Any Malaysian lives in Malaysia knows the dating culture.

  • @nurinnalkatli3009
    @nurinnalkatli3009 5 років тому +283

    Matthew, i assume not muslim but love his way. Very respectful. I dislike being touched without consent eventhough in 'some' or ttm relationship.

    • @emikoooooooooo
      @emikoooooooooo 5 років тому +15

      Being touched while you are in 'some/ttm' stage is honestly a turn off for me

    • @nurinnalkatli3009
      @nurinnalkatli3009 5 років тому +6

      @@emikoooooooooo major red flag.

    • @nurainnabilah2000
      @nurainnabilah2000 5 років тому +3

      @@emikoooooooooo a big no no

  • @n_farahin3563
    @n_farahin3563 5 років тому +167

    u choose the right abang to represent Malaysia

  • @hnmazr3434
    @hnmazr3434 5 років тому +61

    Oh yes I think Matthew's comment is a good representation of Malaysians. I think majority of us are like that. I'm not saying all, but most of us date with the intention to marry :)

  • @nurulasyikin7777
    @nurulasyikin7777 5 років тому +71

    i like every single answer of that 'abang' ..really representing our Malaysian Muslim culture

    • @AlexSDU
      @AlexSDU 5 років тому +4

      But he's Bidayuh. I say he represent Malaysian culture in general.

    • @nurulasyikin7777
      @nurulasyikin7777 5 років тому +7

      @@AlexSDU oh really..so he's not muslim ke? if no,i think i respect him even more la....because that's actually what Islam taught us in treating women n how muslim should behave pun tp skrg ni ada je even muslim lagi over suka pegang2 here and there..

    • @AlexSDU
      @AlexSDU 5 років тому

      @@nurulasyikin7777 Betul. He is from Sarawak. His name is Matthew, so you can already guess what is his religion.
      Here in Sarawak, whether they are Muslim or not, they don't show they affections openly. Well not in the public at least.
      Holding hand still OK though in the public. Just same like in Semenanjung, I guess.

    • @nurulasyikin7777
      @nurulasyikin7777 5 років тому +1

      @@AlexSDU ohhh my bad...i didnt alert with his name..

    • @AlexSDU
      @AlexSDU 5 років тому

      @@nurulasyikin7777 No problem

  • @kenitkidsdaebak4267
    @kenitkidsdaebak4267 5 років тому +36

    Mattew is truly malaysian...hahahha... 100% for him... all he said is totally true based on malaysia style of dating. 80% of malaysian, whatever race or religion will start serius in relationship when we reach above 20s, even experience in few breakup, we will still keep on think about marrige.. and average age marriage in malaysia is 24~30. When u are above 30 we will call it late marriage... but its ok... there is very rare to married within 40s~50s of age, but i know its normal in korea.. especially celebrity.

  • @khairulazhar8118
    @khairulazhar8118 5 років тому +298

    Better you interview youtuber Kimchibudu, they are Malaysian Korean married couple.

    • @Blimeywow
      @Blimeywow  5 років тому +78

      good idea! we should try!

    • @dberambot
      @dberambot 5 років тому +14

      @@Blimeywow yeah. They are very sweet. And they are fluently speak Hangul

    • @real_nn3779
      @real_nn3779 5 років тому +22

      Blimey also Kimfad couple.. also married with korean guy also

    • @azi99_army60
      @azi99_army60 5 років тому +7

      Kimfad couple, parents of Adam park (sorry, i forgot his parents name)

    • @itsskylar_2812
      @itsskylar_2812 5 років тому +8

      Also Meera Hiew married with korean guy, and they has two kids already❤

  • @Li-js4oz
    @Li-js4oz 5 років тому +92

    Me as a woman also want someone like abang. Think for the future, date with partner to get married. Not just play with woman/man's heart!

    • @ahmadnasri9635
      @ahmadnasri9635 5 років тому +3

      Choose wisely sis, the moment guy start doing something like touching more then it should be, you should be careful. There are indeed men that just want to do those things and leave you. And of course, beware of those that get bored easily

    • @erineoh274
      @erineoh274 4 роки тому

      Yess! Ahaha

  • @605studio4
    @605studio4 5 років тому +124

    Hello I am 605🙋🏻‍♂️ Thank you so much Blimey for helping me to participate in this fun video based on my precious love experience 😊
    Have fun!

  • @imchayoung1076
    @imchayoung1076 5 років тому +59

    I kind of fell a little bit for this Abang. He looked respectful, wise, gentle and kind or was it just me😂
    Btw the intro was cute 😂

    • @Azaddiac
      @Azaddiac 5 років тому +1

      U can find plenty of "abang" at Malaysia bcos our culture when u already adult and have a gf most of them will marry not just to playing around

  • @yehey88
    @yehey88 5 років тому +356

    Where's oppa!!! Where's abang!!!!!🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️

  • @puterialya8549
    @puterialya8549 5 років тому +25

    Malaysian for perfect boyfriend.
    Love the detail the Malaysian boy gave.
    Yup, having the girl you love till the end of time. To be your life partner, mother to your children and household manager.
    I believe Malaysian are more committed and faithful 😍

  • @placetostay7799
    @placetostay7799 5 років тому +102

    He speak Korean so fluentlyyyyy 😭😭😭😭

  • @aimiaqilah1145
    @aimiaqilah1145 5 років тому +83

    This Abang speaks Korean very well 🤙🏻🤛🏻 and of course oppa looks handsome hehehe

    • @605studio4
      @605studio4 5 років тому +1

      Aimi Aqilah Kamaruzzali 🥳

    • @nvrland5326
      @nvrland5326 5 років тому

      You should watch him on program Hello Counselor about his bromance with his bigbro🤣🤣 and its so funny🤣

    • @rahyemin5251
      @rahyemin5251 5 років тому

      @@nvrland5326 which ep ?

    • @nvrland5326
      @nvrland5326 5 років тому

      Noor Rahimin im not sure what ep but you can just type Hello Counselor and the title is Brother Loves you and the thumbnail is his brother whispering him 🤣

    • @rahyemin5251
      @rahyemin5251 5 років тому

      @@nvrland5326 thank you, i had just found it ;)

  • @carloussus2904
    @carloussus2904 5 років тому +272

    Omg Matthew what are u doing here?? Wow blimey never would have thought that my friend would be in your channel😂😂

    • @yehey88
      @yehey88 5 років тому +19

      Wow!!! Hahaha

    • @carloussus2904
      @carloussus2904 5 років тому +9

      @@yehey88 he's actually a friend back in secondary school😂😂

    • @myst3057
      @myst3057 5 років тому +8

      @@carloussus2904 is he malay or other races? He look like malay but his name confuse me😅

    • @carloussus2904
      @carloussus2904 5 років тому +41

      @@myst3057 he's not malay haha... He's actually bidayuh and to be specific he's from Sarawak in Malaysia

    • @sharamli1
      @sharamli1 5 років тому +9

      Same tribe with pandelela rinong. No 1 msia athlete in sport diving.

  • @xiaomell
    @xiaomell 5 років тому +87

    Can i say one thing. Matthew u are sooo adorable!!!!!

  • @moonberuang
    @moonberuang 5 років тому +16

    this has such a soft vibe to it, my heart fluttering 💞💞

  • @BergBerkBek
    @BergBerkBek 5 років тому +40

    That Matthew guy, I like him. His beside me right now lol

  • @nurathirah6014
    @nurathirah6014 5 років тому +12

    the way this abang say 'teman tapi mesra' with korean's slang is so adorable 💕😅

  • @wishaismail5409
    @wishaismail5409 5 років тому +26

    when we start to call each other sayang- it's something more!

  • @hance6681
    @hance6681 5 років тому +6

    wauu!jinja!blimey! huhu..can't wait for this saturday!

  • @popcasperz
    @popcasperz 5 років тому +57

    That korean guy looks like seunghoon from winner.. But seunghoon a bit skinnier..

    • @605studio4
      @605studio4 5 років тому

      popcasperz 🙋🏻‍♂️

  • @nurulhudabintisarfuddin4354
    @nurulhudabintisarfuddin4354 5 років тому +21

    Matthew kinda cute. Shy shy cat one (malu malu kucing) 😂

  • @hereticfigos
    @hereticfigos 5 років тому +9

    please girls.. don't simply smile at us... your smile... always melting our heart ❤️

  • @atirahzakaria9762
    @atirahzakaria9762 5 років тому +14

    IM EARLY!! WAHHH JINJJA DAEBAKK!! Actually in our religion, we cant date .. but we can actually get to know each other without any touching or kissing .. peace

    • @radzuanamong3030
      @radzuanamong3030 5 років тому +3

      This is very so respect. U know how Malaysian can't do the public because they want to save woman who man want to rape for woman's feeling hurt of the heart. U know adult man is not kind,but love the sex who rape the woman. Didn't save who helps woman if she's fall sick the pregent ? Do think about it. Be careful. Love is not game,the stupid. If truly is need to feeling love his from since when u already know his time become old friend time many the year is so amazing,mean" Truly Is Love". Not love the game for couple.It's disrespect. Do u believe the "truly is love" can become true dream the forever if truly from feeling had real the heart.

    • @AlexSDU
      @AlexSDU 5 років тому +1

      @@radzuanamong3030 What?!
      Apa yg ko merepek ni?

    • @sernwuub4014
      @sernwuub4014 5 років тому

      Radzuan Among I got seizure from reading that, tolong belajar elok2 kat sekolah ya adik and only then you can make a proper paragraph or just stick to your native language

  • @mellajeanpeter6068
    @mellajeanpeter6068 5 років тому +8

    I'm jealous of that malaysian guy... His korean so fluently.. Daebakkkk

  • @namrisya
    @namrisya 5 років тому +7

    Yeayy new upload ❤️❤️

  • @fathnurain3477
    @fathnurain3477 5 років тому

    Thank you so much Blimey😄. Can't wait for the next video... saya sayang Blimey😄👏💖

  • @lilyprincess28
    @lilyprincess28 5 років тому +4

    Congratulations, you chose the correct representative for men in Malaysia!

  • @MissTaemin96
    @MissTaemin96 5 років тому +20

    when your friend younger brother is interviewed. 🤭🤭🤭

  • @changgun_film5003
    @changgun_film5003 5 років тому +9

    So interesting topic 😉

  • @idiotdiary6507
    @idiotdiary6507 5 років тому

    Yasssss! New Upload!! Thank You Blimey 😍

  • @lisianthus21
    @lisianthus21 5 років тому +4

    Who would've known the quiet matthew grew up so fast 👏👏 a proud senior alumni

  • @Abanghomeboisforever
    @Abanghomeboisforever 5 років тому

    Perghh this video so interesting terbaik blimey👍👍👍💕

  • @haeppymeal
    @haeppymeal 5 років тому +4

    this is funny because actually for those in their 18 -20, istg TTM or 썸 literally took about a few days because usually after orientation week they've already become couple sksksk

  • @nielpetrus6436
    @nielpetrus6436 5 років тому +2

    Matthew, my lil bro. Im proud of you

  • @sakuraiyuto2015
    @sakuraiyuto2015 5 років тому +5

    This kind of video with bgm is interesting ...hope for more kind od interesting ......no pressurre🤗🤗

  • @shafathiah3435
    @shafathiah3435 5 років тому +12

    That Matthew guy, he's a bit shy 🤭

  • @noorhapizah
    @noorhapizah 5 років тому +1

    yeay new video 😍😍😍

  • @jhamzahshaari5633
    @jhamzahshaari5633 5 років тому

    Tengok lama2 sikit baru perasan mathew.. Lama tak jumpa... 😅😅

  • @cik.ninette
    @cik.ninette 5 років тому +40

    Im early😊☺ *i know nobody cares😂❤

    • @Blimeywow
      @Blimeywow  5 років тому +4

      Good to see you early!! 💗

    • @Lisam-op1ep
      @Lisam-op1ep 5 років тому

      Hi early im risa

    • @cik.ninette
      @cik.ninette 5 років тому

      @@Lisam-op1ep hi risa im late

    • @Lisam-op1ep
      @Lisam-op1ep 5 років тому

      @@cik.ninette wait ur not early

    • @cik.ninette
      @cik.ninette 5 років тому

      @@Lisam-op1ep now im late😹

  • @icyjuliette6830
    @icyjuliette6830 5 років тому +3

    for the first time in forever~..I'm early..😂

  • @awangbakarademan5519
    @awangbakarademan5519 5 років тому +1

    Yes, about date.😂 Culture in Malaysia, if u(man) just date but not planning to marry, we(girl) call them "play boy"
    But many man(local) in Malaysia, serious about relationships with their love... But no for artist.
    Sorry my bad English😂😂😂

  • @exotwerps
    @exotwerps 5 років тому

    Abang is a good example of Malaysian... Blimey, you guys did pick the best respondent.

  • @sanawia0283
    @sanawia0283 5 років тому +3

    Look like abang very respect to woman...

  • @greenghost9554
    @greenghost9554 5 років тому

    wahh.. so fluently 👍👍👍

  • @TheLeader135
    @TheLeader135 5 років тому

    Interesting topic. Jinja?? Daebakkk!!

  • @sayeazealia
    @sayeazealia 5 років тому

    We need more contents like this one!!

  • @sebastiannoel2445
    @sebastiannoel2445 5 років тому

    Matthew I'm proud you 👍 Geng mrsm kuching ni.

  • @syedshira
    @syedshira 5 років тому +23

    Who ask blimey do this.. Someone tell me..😂😂😂

  • @mars448
    @mars448 5 років тому

    didn't expect to see matthew in blimey's video sjhshshs his korean is very fluent now 🤣

  • @addy468
    @addy468 5 років тому +3

    우와 매튜다~~ 🤩

  • @ainasyafiqah
    @ainasyafiqah 5 років тому

    Comey sungguh dua dua... Huhuhu

  • @jeonjeykey773
    @jeonjeykey773 5 років тому

    oh yeah , new upload 😍

  • @ssyajh
    @ssyajh 5 років тому

    Ehey, Mathewww my man! ❤. 오랜만!

  • @raihanrosli4637
    @raihanrosli4637 5 років тому

    Abang represents Malaysia well 🥰🥰🥰 Good job Abang !!!

  • @jammietiong6814
    @jammietiong6814 5 років тому +1

    wah!!!Im Malaysian from Sarawak as well😄 but currently in Germany😆

    • @AlexSDU
      @AlexSDU 5 років тому

      Asal sine?

    • @jammietiong6814
      @jammietiong6814 5 років тому +1

      Kuching

    • @AlexSDU
      @AlexSDU 5 років тому +1

      @@jammietiong6814 Sama la kita. LOL

  • @soundthatblindingguy5469
    @soundthatblindingguy5469 5 років тому +9

    a proper guys perspective for a malaysian 😳

  • @solandis_14
    @solandis_14 5 років тому +6

    I want to smile to my crush everytime I meet him but I always feel too shy to give a smile to him... 😩

    • @hereticfigos
      @hereticfigos 5 років тому +1

      smile & show some interest into him.... if he reply with smile / positive ways... his heart belong to you.. keep shining with your smile 😄

    • @hiwearebabybear33
      @hiwearebabybear33 5 років тому +1

      Me too . I cant even do an eye contact with him . When im closer with my crush im so nervous

    • @solandis_14
      @solandis_14 5 років тому +1

      @@hiwearebabybear33 ikr I feel the same 😂

    • @solandis_14
      @solandis_14 5 років тому +1

      @@hereticfigos this made my day 😆🌸

    • @AlexSDU
      @AlexSDU 5 років тому +1

      @@solandis_14 I totally understand that feeling.

  • @ainyusoff7694
    @ainyusoff7694 5 років тому

    Some people don't date not because he/she was a loner but it was because he was waiting for the right person and he do take things serious in relationships . Mostly in Malaysia are just like that. We became friend ,so that,no one will get hurt or whatever they called it.

  • @zahaniharun
    @zahaniharun 5 років тому +1

    Pandainya abang cakap korea😊

  • @mohdfaizal275
    @mohdfaizal275 2 роки тому

    Very true about dating to marry thing. In muslim perspective, men who pursue women without the intention of marrying her is considered wrong/sin. If you dont want to marry her, let her be with someone who want.

  • @orendwaemyeon6330
    @orendwaemyeon6330 5 років тому +1

    Uwu abang matthewww bergetar jantung saya buat sesaat hshshhshs

  • @prueatiny4423
    @prueatiny4423 5 років тому

    That's really interesting topic 😁

  • @nurhanissuhaimi8759
    @nurhanissuhaimi8759 5 років тому

    Matthew youre doing great in Korea!! kedak native speaker do hahah i loike!

  • @priscilla3160
    @priscilla3160 5 років тому +11

    I would like to be his future girlfriend HAHAHAHA 😂

  • @sakuraiyuto2015
    @sakuraiyuto2015 5 років тому

    Good job blimey

  • @mai870609
    @mai870609 5 років тому

    Oh abang, oh oppa, comel la dua2 😍😍😍😅😂

  • @xfarr904
    @xfarr904 5 років тому +4

    The korean guy looks like choi woo shik when he smile. Is it just me?

  • @grinazashtwo1338
    @grinazashtwo1338 5 років тому

    matthew bah 👍👍👍

  • @ninalilylulu
    @ninalilylulu 5 років тому

    This vid is so cute!

  • @khay7546
    @khay7546 5 років тому

    Thank you for choosing that Abang to interview

  • @wrathfullys
    @wrathfullys 5 років тому +11

    OI SOMEONE TELL HIS GIRLFRIEND THAT HE IS NOT “MARRIAGE-LEVEL” SERIOUS WITH HER

  • @yusfa5600
    @yusfa5600 5 років тому

    This abang speak Korean very fluently!!! I want to speak Korean fluently too😩😩

  • @azimazmn
    @azimazmn 5 років тому

    BLIMEY.. Please feature Kimchibudu in your video.. . A malaysian who married a korean girl.. Please make this happen.. Oghe kelate tu boh! 🤣

  • @qaisara7636
    @qaisara7636 5 років тому

    1st viewww like and comment yeayyyy✨😍😍

  • @cikzue9701
    @cikzue9701 5 років тому +1

    Abang really represent malaysian dating culture 👍👍👍

  • @rachealneera
    @rachealneera 5 років тому

    good matthew

  • @sitinorlita856
    @sitinorlita856 5 років тому

    I like.........❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Your vedio really interest me... I like Blimey

  • @syafidarwisy4880
    @syafidarwisy4880 5 років тому

    i thinks it depends on the person

  • @soshinae
    @soshinae 5 років тому +1

    Matthew can be Chindian or other Bumiputera. But, he represent Malaysian's culture as a whole, not only how Muslim should be. I think viewer need to broaden up their perspective too.

  • @ann4816
    @ann4816 5 років тому

    Next kimchibudu couple. Love Blimey💜💜💜💜

  • @iskandarshah9164
    @iskandarshah9164 4 роки тому

    I love abang answer. For what you date I you don't want to Married. Waste time & money. Thanks mettew.

  • @chananananananana4656
    @chananananananana4656 5 років тому +1

    Matthew is my senior back then loll 🤣🤣

  • @ttasmirah9002
    @ttasmirah9002 5 років тому

    Proud to be a Borneoan..

  • @mohammadaminsharudin3777
    @mohammadaminsharudin3777 5 років тому +1

    terbaik abang matthew. 너 부적한적이 없어 !!!!

  • @fix24311
    @fix24311 5 років тому +2

    from this video, we know Koreans are bolder. they can be a couple in just 2 weeks. hehe..

  • @allyrar.4354
    @allyrar.4354 5 років тому

    ABANGGG !! 👏👏

  • @치우친태형
    @치우친태형 5 років тому

    Punya tunggu untuk update,but this is the update\(◎o◎)/

  • @johnmarkmike
    @johnmarkmike 5 років тому +3

    말레이시아 아방분이 한국말 되게 잘하시네요~~~~

  • @ms102066
    @ms102066 5 років тому

    Abang represents Malaysia well. Good job Abang!

  • @aqilahmuzahar6677
    @aqilahmuzahar6677 5 років тому

    Wow abang ..you can speak korean languange.i'm so proud of you.can you teach?

  • @mohdfazlanyusoff8507
    @mohdfazlanyusoff8507 5 років тому

    말레이시아 24 - 25살 보다는 27 - 28살 정도 많이 하는것 같은데요..24살 말하자면 졸업하자마자 결혼하는거 좀 말이 안돼는거 같지만 물론 하는 사람이 있어요..그렇게 많지가 않아요...졸업하고 한 1 -2년 동안 결혼 비용(??)을 모을고 준비(돈이죠)다 한 후에는 하는것 같아요... #마이생각

  • @anissyafiqah6617
    @anissyafiqah6617 5 років тому

    I more like abang because he looks innocent and his cute face omo🥺

  • @MrSupermanMelayu
    @MrSupermanMelayu 5 років тому

    Hey Blimey.. I hope u react to the new song by UNIC - Nae Sarang (mahligai bahagia).. Actually it's an old song by them but they just release new version in Malay and Korean 😊

  • @nvrland5326
    @nvrland5326 5 років тому

    Wait.. the oppa look like familiar .. is he ever appear on Hello Counselor about his brother too much love him??? He so familiar .. but back then he use like a big spec and his hair still long than this but i know him so much🤣
    Edit: yes i already know him🤣 Jang Taewon hyung🤣🤣🤣 its concern about his brother too much obsessed with him🤣🤣🤣 its so funny if i remember that program🤣

  • @jihafiqagee
    @jihafiqagee 5 років тому

    Abang. U so cute and innocent..😆😍

  • @marsyasyazwina6019
    @marsyasyazwina6019 5 років тому

    yeyayyyy❤️❤️❤️