Blame the chief for not giving this woman security to remove her stuff or calling some men in village to help out. When I left my marriage i called my sister and two brother and it was easier to leave
I wonder how could this woman had a guts to go and pick children belongings without any security. How could the chief release them alone without police men.
Never ever tell a controlling narcissist that you leaving them,,just make your plans and leave without their knowledge,, I have never heard a husband helping his wife to leave him that was a huge red flag given the fact that they marriage was so toxic she could at least asked for security from the chief,the moment he attempted to burn her clothes with petrol that could have been the final straw. A narcissistic individual will never change,, wishing her and her children all the best
Ngai ...wambui ndiûwî ng'oma aumagakûû..tondû mûthûri ucio ahana ûrîa warî wakwa ....lakini mm ckuumizwa nilitoka mtoto mmja wapili nikakaaacha ..wambui now is 5yr kama c jawahi muona.pole sana kwa huyu mama
Never ever let your husband know that you are living,if the marriage comes to an end, don't ever let him know you are living. Wait until he goes out and organize yourself to pack and live.
Yoi did all this to yourself.. nikii riu wendaga hau na madharau macio mothee mundirume utarakuhe kinya irio.. karii kii maa riu rora uria wonjirwo.. atumia maa.. wamuonagia ni urora niikii??
I know this woman and she is a very very hardworking woman.hakuna job hajawahi fanya ili alishe watoto wake hata kupika samosa kwa barabara 😢yani amejaribu yote bila kuangalia ulemavu wake may God remember you carol and bless you mighty 🙏. thanks Wambui for great job may God bless you too.mimi Niko gulf baada ya kupitia mazito from there ngemwa.
She needs counseling .....then organize how we can help to set a small business for her....than washing clothes. Let's also contact other philanthropist
My friend kuna mtu alinitishia life one day ile kutoka nilitokanga ameishi kunitamani pamoja na watu wao....nasugua hammam in peace ladies learn from this woman...do your thing in silence usipende mashindano na mwanaume...God afungulie this lady njia in Jesus's mighty name amen
This family needs deliverance, when a man hits you the first time , just leave he will not change. Hope she gets a therapist. I pray for deliverance. When you plan to leave an abuser , you leave with a plan , never show them your leaving .
Wambui congratulations 👏 for your good work kumomagiriria wega biu makiheyana ng'ano ciao..pole sana ni maria wagereire Ngai eh hamwe nawe na ciana ciaku niiguthoma na ithie kunene biu ritwa ini ria Jesus Christ
OMG this is sad and heartbreaking I couldn't help from shedding tears but for you Carol I see light at the end of the tunnel , God kept you away from death for a purpose and with God everything is possible hold Carols hand and God will bless you.Wambui thank you for hosting Carol and for the final words you're a blessing to that family may God bless you mightly we ❤ you 🙏🙏🛐🛐🔥🔥✝️✝️💟💟
😢😢😢Wooiii what a sad story, mpaka nimelia bt at the same tym najiuliza maswali million bt no one can answer me, may the LORD see you through mama na pole sana kwa yale umepitia, wueeh arume ni nyamu 😢
Too bad, the chief should have done it better than sending them both together with a neighbor. She could have sent them home with an officer. That’s where she failed. I came here in peace. This a really sad story.
In a Way a blame the Chief,Why?She knew the Problem in this family from day 1,and this Lady would go back to her every time and then,That day she could have escorted her atoe vitu zake because this Lady is saying her late hus Alikua anaogopa Chief,Nway,,Pole Sana Mama Karanja,Muthenya umwe no ugatheka na ukene.
I blame the chief how can she/he send you to go pick your items with such an animal bila ata some bodyguards /police wa chief ??? How ?? .....a very petty chief.💔🥺Better prevention than cure , the chief angempee huyu mama askari wake wampeleke. Sorry for the loss of your husband. Though he was wicked, I wish he could have remained alive for the kids to be seeing their father....heartbreaking Love triangles.💔💔🥺🥺🥺
@@janewamaitha3407 whether she knew all not , all chiefs have their askaris , wao ndio hutumwa on errands , nobody knows when danger is about to come , but they are sent to protect. Whether kulikua na danger or not , she was not supposed to be sent there alone. That's the point.....maovu yakija hayasemi , better prevention than cure.
Ngai,hii mambo ya nitumie receipt ya pesa umenitumia ,inalenga maneno mambaya ,huyu Ni kama Yule wangu but ,nikaruka Kwa waiguru for my peace ,analipia watoi school but can't buy food up to date. Ngai 😭😭😭
Very true kuna shule nilikuwa nafunza hapo ikinu akapewa kazi ya kuosha classes imagine alikuwa anaosha hizo vidole zikiwa zinatumia na kutoka damu to make the matter worse 😢 alikuwa atumia duster hiyo uchafu yote finally ikamlemea kabisaaa 😢haki Mungu awabariki wote watakaomshikilia.
Ungigatia guthii ndukanere muthuri na ungikona red flag wiingate tene na ugatuirahia muthuri waku kana he kindu arahuthira tiga njohi tondu Indo ni nyingi iria inyuagwo
One day I told my x I was going to live him nilichapwa nikainua mikono juu ... from there nikaamua ata asiwai fikilia naeza enda I waited when things were very okay and left for good 😊 because I know if I dare go back nitaona cha mtemakuni
This is so sad indeed 😢 😞 may God intervene in this mother's situation. Me i went to gulf because I saw that my marriage will end up with chaos so ladies it's high time when you see a red flag ran before its too late
Wee ogopa wanaume🤔ata mimi nilipatana na mwanaume kama huyo nilikuwa napaga kuama anakuja😮lkn huyo wangu alikuwa ananunua chakula.mara ya mwisho kuachana nayeye alinimwagiya acid nikiwa na mimba 🤰ya mwezi tatu😢mungu nayeye ninani?hiyo acid ahikunifanya kitu lkn nguo yenye nilikuwa nimefaa hikahisha🤔 nashukuru 🙏mungu niko mzima na mtoto wangu.
Ndukanere Muthuri ni uguthii, just be good to him , let him go back to work, just take your kid and move out. That's what I did.
True,,, that the best thing aki
I agree 💯
True, that's what I did
@@wambuinganga9453 kama angejua ati ni na enda akii, he threaded me ,he going to make me Dissibled, this not your blood, he has no mercy.
True
Let's learn ladies from these experiences;Do whatever you are planning in silence!
Weeeee
Never tell a man that you want to leave him. Atakuua
Blame the chief for not giving this woman security to remove her stuff or calling some men in village to help out. When I left my marriage i called my sister and two brother and it was easier to leave
I wonder how could this woman had a guts to go and pick children belongings without any security. How could the chief release them alone without police men.
I blame the chief😢
Mwathani ruru rugano nirwandituhira ngoroini yakwa biu...soon nitamtembelea...very painful,,pole sana mami,,Iguru ria maundu mothe reke Ngai egocithie
Women, let's love ourselves,kugongwa once is enough for you to go n never look back,chukua passport rukwa kwa waiguru na usahau kama umewahi olewa
True ,don't stay in the Marriage of respectless Man he will never change.
You wil own a supermarket...❤you are blessed
Wakaranja i know her very well she passed alot no one thought she will servive but there is a living God
Ngai woiyee can remember back 2015 my marriage waz lyk this but nliamua kumuondokea am happy with my three kids ndingirira kumweherera
Waoo me to All Glory be to God 🙏
Me too
Arîa marî ihikoinî na arîa marabanga ûhiki rî, wîrutei na mwarî ûyû. Mwathani aromuonekanîra. Amen 🙏🏾
Gīkūyū gīaku nī kīega mūno.
Amina
I thank God nilifanya murife b4 ifike hapa 😢😢tondu arume amwe ni nyamu nikwaria ciragia😢😢😢
Never ever tell a controlling narcissist that you leaving them,,just make your plans and leave without their knowledge,, I have never heard a husband helping his wife to leave him that was a huge red flag given the fact that they marriage was so toxic she could at least asked for security from the chief,the moment he attempted to burn her clothes with petrol that could have been the final straw. A narcissistic individual will never change,, wishing her and her children all the best
The stories I hear make me fear marriage...
Woiii njiguaga wuira toyu...ngetigira arume muno...😢😢..Ngai akuhe thayu na hinya wakaranja
May GOD who helps his children, help this mum because he is GOD of Blessings.
Ngai ...wambui ndiûwî ng'oma aumagakûû..tondû mûthûri ucio ahana ûrîa warî wakwa ....lakini mm ckuumizwa nilitoka mtoto mmja wapili nikakaaacha ..wambui now is 5yr kama c jawahi muona.pole sana kwa huyu mama
Uuuii pole mama but mundu daugaga niguthii
Ngai this is exactly same scenario na Hsc Dianah Kamande 🙏
Never ever let your husband know that you are living,if the marriage comes to an end, don't ever let him know you are living. Wait until he goes out and organize yourself to pack and live.
Yoi did all this to yourself.. nikii riu wendaga hau na madharau macio mothee mundirume utarakuhe kinya irio.. karii kii maa riu rora uria wonjirwo.. atumia maa.. wamuonagia ni urora niikii??
@@catherinegitau9053 Nî ûî ûrîa atumia metigîrîte gûtuîka "single mothers"? Rûthûro rûrîa rûkoragûo na society Kenya kûrî atumia marerutîra wîra marere na mathomithie twana twao nî rûngegagia. Gûtirî mûndû ûkoragûo na thîna na maithe marîa morîire responsibilities cia ûreri. Acio nî athuuri atîîku.😏
I know this woman and she is a very very hardworking woman.hakuna job hajawahi fanya ili alishe watoto wake hata kupika samosa kwa barabara 😢yani amejaribu yote bila kuangalia ulemavu wake may God remember you carol and bless you mighty 🙏. thanks Wambui for great job may God bless you too.mimi Niko gulf baada ya kupitia mazito from there ngemwa.
She needs counseling .....then organize how we can help to set a small business for her....than washing clothes. Let's also contact other philanthropist
Woiiieeee dear wambuuu what can we do to support her this is painful where does she stay i can offer her a job here at githurai in my boutique
Hi
Ukipata mtu wa job
My friend kuna mtu alinitishia life one day ile kutoka nilitokanga ameishi kunitamani pamoja na watu wao....nasugua hammam in peace ladies learn from this woman...do your thing in silence usipende mashindano na mwanaume...God afungulie this lady njia in Jesus's mighty name amen
heri hivo kilikufa hicho kimwanaume😏😏😏😏
Hii story niya ukweli nilikua nambiwa hii story ni sister ya shosh anaishi hapo karia kanithaine wa gathoreki
I think boosting her with a machine for the course she did is better than been employed,, my mind
Ooh my God aki watu hupitia mengi in the name of marriage may God remember you Carol 😢😢
I can't hold my tears woiye pole mama may God open the way where seen to be no way
Ukitaka kutoroka usimwambie infact if you have already made up your mind enda ata ile wakati hamjakosana that's what I didi
Mathuri ma kiambu me kanyama
Ni timothe nii hikite kiambu natutigianagira mbia cia mahuthiro
Si semi kitu but it's true
Please, please private 1:07:35 security companies employ this lady for a sustainable please!
WUEEH aki oyo ni mwana wa mutumia maah😭😭May God protect all the ladies in the marriages!
When you’re leaving an abuser plan ahead and do not tell anyone ,leave when he’s not around let him find you gone and go non contact
This is heartbreaking 💔💔💔 God please put a smile on this woman and restore her Peace 🙏🏾
This family needs deliverance, when a man hits you the first time , just leave he will not change. Hope she gets a therapist. I pray for deliverance. When you plan to leave an abuser , you leave with a plan , never show them your leaving .
When I was beaten by aperson in the name of husband and it's the first,I left immediately not leaving my kids behind.
Haki mama pole,Mungu akukumbuke
God is in heaven watching over you take a heart my sister you're loved good bless you
chakula ya 2mbo aky unanyima mkeo, thankyu ngai, wakwa ni mundu different nd he lyk wen his kids r satisfied
Wambui congratulations 👏 for your good work kumomagiriria wega biu makiheyana ng'ano ciao..pole sana ni maria wagereire Ngai eh hamwe nawe na ciana ciaku niiguthoma na ithie kunene biu ritwa ini ria Jesus Christ
Its so heartbreaking 😢😢 she also needs much counseling
Pole sana my sister for all what you've gone through...
May God open your door...
@Wambui wa Mwangi... kindly let us know the progress ya this woman.. happy to help
Ooh my God this is my story time kabisa ila sikumia mmi nieda salama nko na 3yrs now
OMG this is sad and heartbreaking I couldn't help from shedding tears but for you Carol I see light at the end of the tunnel , God kept you away from death for a purpose and with God everything is possible hold Carols hand and God will bless you.Wambui thank you for hosting Carol and for the final words you're a blessing to that family may God bless you mightly we ❤ you 🙏🙏🛐🛐🔥🔥✝️✝️💟💟
Oo
Wambui connect that lady with Duana Kamande.They share a story and she will be of much help to her.
Uyo mama n amjuwa she very hard work sana God bless you. Wambui nakupeda sana
Wanaume!!!!! Unyama kaa hii ilitoka wapi? God have mercy.
Florence i support you. May God bless this lady.
😢😢😢Wooiii what a sad story, mpaka nimelia bt at the same tym najiuliza maswali million bt no one can answer me, may the LORD see you through mama na pole sana kwa yale umepitia, wueeh arume ni nyamu 😢
Too bad, the chief should have done it better than sending them both together with a neighbor. She could have sent them home with an officer. That’s where she failed. I came here in peace. This a really sad story.
My thoughts too
Waa hizi story za the so called husbands nizakuogopesha
Am not married but this stories zimefanya I learn like the 1st slap becomes the second third boxing so far sooo slap ya kwanza murife run
She is hard working mama.may God make way
In a Way a blame the Chief,Why?She knew the Problem in this family from day 1,and this Lady would go back to her every time and then,That day she could have escorted her atoe vitu zake because this Lady is saying her late hus Alikua anaogopa Chief,Nway,,Pole Sana Mama Karanja,Muthenya umwe no ugatheka na ukene.
Sasa alikuwa amepotea 10times akirudi may be alidhani ni same issue
I hope you can revisit n come live we do something for her. Nafikilia a mini shop like a shop anaeza fanya.alafu ahame iyo family no îmûnûhe ma
9í
Self-love, and self-empowerment is the Key!
If there's something that bugs me is the men who are stingy with food🙄they even go to the kitchen to see how much you misused flour etc😏
🤮
Useless men
My quiz is Kwa those stingy men do they stay hungry the fact is hua wanakula
Wambui,help her to buy Long gloves like for vertinery.
God send helpers to help this lady
Why do some people think they own their partners life.God remember this woman
Tell the righteous it shall be well
I blame the chief how can she/he send you to go pick your items with such an animal bila ata some bodyguards /police wa chief ??? How ?? .....a very petty chief.💔🥺Better prevention than cure , the chief angempee huyu mama askari wake wampeleke. Sorry for the loss of your husband. Though he was wicked, I wish he could have remained alive for the kids to be seeing their father....heartbreaking Love triangles.💔💔🥺🥺🥺
Point kabisa he was wicked but better angekuwa alive to educate the family.He was Ana animal aki
Ata angeishi angekuwa jail so hao watoto hangelea bado.
But hakujua👉mayb she regretted later... having dealt with their case she had no idea of the man's intensions
@@janewamaitha3407 whether she knew all not , all chiefs have their askaris , wao ndio hutumwa on errands , nobody knows when danger is about to come , but they are sent to protect. Whether kulikua na danger or not , she was not supposed to be sent there alone. That's the point.....maovu yakija hayasemi , better prevention than cure.
@@jemimahmaina7644 yes at least ata kaa ni kumuona Kwa jela tu. Ingekua sawa.
Oh my God,i thought i had problems,may God's favour be upon this lady and her family,i cried watching this.
Ngai,hii mambo ya nitumie receipt ya pesa umenitumia ,inalenga maneno mambaya ,huyu Ni kama Yule wangu but ,nikaruka Kwa waiguru for my peace ,analipia watoi school but can't buy food up to date. Ngai 😭😭😭
It's so painful...Ooh God in heaven take the wheel.of her family
Very true kuna shule nilikuwa nafunza hapo ikinu akapewa kazi ya kuosha classes imagine alikuwa anaosha hizo vidole zikiwa zinatumia na kutoka damu to make the matter worse 😢 alikuwa atumia duster hiyo uchafu yote finally ikamlemea kabisaaa 😢haki Mungu awabariki wote watakaomshikilia.
Ungigatia guthii ndukanere muthuri na ungikona red flag wiingate tene na ugatuirahia muthuri waku kana he kindu arahuthira tiga njohi tondu Indo ni nyingi iria inyuagwo
The woman torented him so much. ..1 flags na bado anazaa😢
So many red flags from the word go pole sana sis.
One day I told my x I was going to live him nilichapwa nikainua mikono juu ... from there nikaamua ata asiwai fikilia naeza enda I waited when things were very okay and left for good 😊 because I know if I dare go back nitaona cha mtemakuni
Hakuna comment ya mwanaume hata Moja mungu awaone
Wanaume ni wale wale wa "she must have done something to provoke him" Ghasia kabisa
This is so sad indeed 😢 😞 may God intervene in this mother's situation. Me i went to gulf because I saw that my marriage will end up with chaos so ladies it's high time when you see a red flag ran before its too late
This is painful never tell a man your leaving leave without his knowledge
This is very serious, may God heal her physically, mentally, emotionally ,socially andeven spiritually
may God meet with her desires najipata nikilia aky mwanadamu mnyama kweli
God meet those peoples action in Jesus name,God pay them
Pole gal
Dear God, please help this woman
Wambui I think Nduka niyo Njega
😢😢may God remember her en wipe away her tears
Wah. Wah. Njiguaga violence ngathirimukwo ningekuwa kwa kaburi saa hii
Ladiea, ladies ,ladies,nimewaita mara ngapi
Empower your self before becoming someone's wife
There's life after marriage,always remember that!
Watching from Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦🇸🇦
Wooooi Ngai iguira mutumia uyu tha
Ndukanauge ugithii .niukuragwo !!!!!
Wambui barikiwa pole carol God is still in his Throne.
Woiye
Am sorry mammy ,but tujaribu kutoka tukinotice the first redflag to avoid such problems
This is very touching may God give way in her life.
Chief angempatia polisi mmoja waandamane
Pole sana mom mungu ako na wewe na watoto wako wambui tuma number ya uyu mama tumisaindie plz
Waah...pole
Khaie gwitu karia🤦, I support that idea of getting her a machine atleast she can boost herself with it
Woiye maa to in-law wenye hufukuza watoto wao kumbuka tu kuna mungu mbinguni 😢
Kabete wapi
Woooiii ndukamake ma Ngai niegunguteithia
Ikifika nikupelekana kwa chief juu ya shida za ndoa, ondokea mapema.
Wow wambui u are wise woman wisdom 👏
Wee ogopa wanaume🤔ata mimi nilipatana na mwanaume kama huyo nilikuwa napaga kuama anakuja😮lkn huyo wangu alikuwa ananunua chakula.mara ya mwisho kuachana nayeye alinimwagiya acid nikiwa na mimba 🤰ya mwezi tatu😢mungu nayeye ninani?hiyo acid ahikunifanya kitu lkn nguo yenye nilikuwa nimefaa hikahisha🤔 nashukuru 🙏mungu niko mzima na mtoto wangu.
Mbona side ya inlaws wanakuanga hivo??? Kwani huyu c mtoto wa mtu, anyway pole mum
Me....That's why remain single forever.....
Ooh God you saved this woman from death do her good.
When i see this i give up getting married.
Kana aigirwo wira wake ?wambui