What Japanese Girls Find Attractive

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  • @takashiifromjapan
    @takashiifromjapan  2 роки тому +295

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    • @alex_shaner
      @alex_shaner 2 роки тому +7

      Congratulations on getting a sponsor!

    • @ufailedhaha
      @ufailedhaha 2 роки тому +3

      Man when are u coming to the USA xD I totally gotta run into u when I come visit Japan

    • @irohsslipper6155
      @irohsslipper6155 2 роки тому +5

      Takashi - One thing I'd like to see from you as interviewer is to give the people speaking *a little* more space to answer before coming in with your own ideas. You're a bit quick to jump in at times and you can tell the person you are interviewing is a bit shocked because you kind of cut them off.
      You might get really interesting content if you gently encourage their ideas instead of cutting in with your own too soon. Good luck sir! Love the content overall! Bit of constructive critisim!

    • @laturista1000
      @laturista1000 2 роки тому

      Japanese girls prefer to stay single and just have fun all day with their girlfriends. Just look at all the Japan girls on Instagram. It's the same shit
      Fashion, clothes, 🤳 selfies, more selfies. Japanese girls just like American women. men are invisible. They don't want you

    • @PaulDubsy09
      @PaulDubsy09 2 роки тому +1

      Great videos Takashi, good work. I will check out this sponsor to help my language learning!

  • @sunopan
    @sunopan 2 роки тому +7114

    Not gonna lie, Takashii is getting so good at interviewing lol. Casual vibes and heartwarming reactions.

    • @cinaralin
      @cinaralin 2 роки тому +88

      He has always been good at interviewing but damn, this video his technique seems like perfect.

    • @unmer3306
      @unmer3306 2 роки тому +19

      Why would you lie about that?

    • @armandovillamizar9052
      @armandovillamizar9052 2 роки тому +2

      Lit

    • @LXW-Arts
      @LXW-Arts 2 роки тому +9

      He got his PHD in talking with Japanese women. You have treat them like delicate cats.

    • @acetofresh1
      @acetofresh1 2 роки тому +2

      It’s called the halo effect

  • @brianengland8948
    @brianengland8948 2 роки тому +7945

    Takashi : "What do Japanese girls find attractive in men ?"
    99.9% of women worldwide: "Tall guys"

    • @waheed5355
      @waheed5355 2 роки тому +220

      @Walela 0.1*

    • @soldierfortress2518
      @soldierfortress2518 2 роки тому +28

      @Walela Same. 😎👊

    • @MemerCat0
      @MemerCat0 2 роки тому +817

      atleast their definition of tall isnt as absurd as some people in other parts of the wotld.

    • @MysteryS4869
      @MysteryS4869 2 роки тому +83

      @Nocturnalism I feel ya man😭

    • @Neko_Lover104
      @Neko_Lover104 2 роки тому +132

      @Nocturnalism im 6'3 brother... We share the same pain

  • @Monsterrcat
    @Monsterrcat Рік тому +3

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:00 🤔 Japanese girls find height attractive in men. Around 175-180 cm is preferred, as excessively tall or short may be challenging.
    02:40 😍 Japanese girls tend to like taller guys with certain hairstyles, like a pompadour.
    03:06 📲 Some Japanese girls take action by initiating conversations, either in person or through social media, to express interest in someone.
    03:38 😓 Language barrier, especially with English, can be a hindrance when considering dating foreign guys.
    06:08 🌍 Japanese girls are open to dating foreign guys, and many believe foreign men to be kind and considerate. However, the prospect of dealing with language and future plans can be a concern.

    • @user-pd9ju5dk5s
      @user-pd9ju5dk5s Рік тому +1

      75 - 80cm is extremely short

    • @Monsterrcat
      @Monsterrcat Рік тому

      @@user-pd9ju5dk5s lmao it was autocorrect thx for telling

  • @gilesbuxton738
    @gilesbuxton738 2 роки тому +6524

    it’s crazy hearing someone say they prefer tall guys but think 6’0 is too tall. In america there are people who won’t even talk to people below 6’0

    • @ChallengeIdeas
      @ChallengeIdeas 2 роки тому +610

      Which is awkward when you're paying for your burger and the cashier asks if you need ketchup.

    • @missjoblue7992
      @missjoblue7992 2 роки тому +197

      That's because women in America are taller so they want men taller than 6'0

    • @zoan23456
      @zoan23456 2 роки тому +774

      Japanese people aren't even that short, average height for a japanese man is 5'7 and a girl is 5'3, the west is 5'9 man and 5'5 girl. Just 2 inches difference. I think its just that western women are more shallow than asian countries.

    • @bendover7841
      @bendover7841 2 роки тому +819

      @@missjoblue7992 Even 4'9" midgets in America want a 6'4" guy.

    • @jamesedwards1284
      @jamesedwards1284 2 роки тому +76

      @@zoan23456 that’s america, north and west europeans are much taller. Us men in my country have an average height of 6’1”.

  • @mamopy535
    @mamopy535 2 роки тому +2925

    Japanese girls :"i dont like guys that are over 6ft, they' re too tall"
    American girls :"if you're not over 6ft, dont talk to me"

    • @zukodude487987
      @zukodude487987 2 роки тому +107

      Both still want taller than themselves which is shallow.

    • @mamopy535
      @mamopy535 2 роки тому

      @@zukodude487987 its true, it's basically just female nature, they want someone who is better than themselves including height. but americans are more ridiculous, like a 5ft girl would only accept a guy with over 6ft tall.

    • @PangziMan
      @PangziMan 2 роки тому +248

      @@zukodude487987 not really, I know plenty of dudes who wouldn't date a taller woman

    • @zukodude487987
      @zukodude487987 2 роки тому +86

      @@PangziMan I wasnt making an argument about dudes dating taller woman. I am talking about how woman reject men out of relationships for factor they cannot control.
      Mens dating preferences for height hold little to no weight since they dont pick relationships, woman do.

    • @PangziMan
      @PangziMan 2 роки тому +150

      @@zukodude487987 that’s just not true. Countless men reject women for factors they can’t control. Vice versa is also true. Picking a relationship requires mutual interest

  • @kikiloko8908
    @kikiloko8908 2 роки тому +24

    I really like watching Takashii doing interviews
    Since I am planning to visit Japan I actually find it very helpful when I am watching his videos

  • @takashiifromjapan
    @takashiifromjapan  2 роки тому +125

    Thank you so much for watching!!
    I’m gonna go to LA and NY next week
    What kind of videos should I make there?
    Who should I meet there?
    Please let me know your option🙏

    • @klaus6802
      @klaus6802 2 роки тому +3

      i REMEMBER U WERE 80k SUBS Nice job man! already at 397k your awesome!

    • @user-br3ou2cs9o
      @user-br3ou2cs9o 2 роки тому +7

      The kind of video where you stay safe in either of those cities.
      You are respectful and friendly.
      There are people in LA and NY who may "appear" nice outwardly, even approachable, but inwardly are dangerous schemers in their thoughts then outward actions.
      Please be careful.

    • @corazonnarcisosaekoo5843
      @corazonnarcisosaekoo5843 2 роки тому +4

      Safe travels Takashi. What I think alike with others is, you need to be cautious, going around in the US. Its not as safe as Japan and there a wide variety of people. You never know if they will really cooperate all the way.

    • @specialk9999
      @specialk9999 2 роки тому

      In LA, go to Little Tokyo. You might find some people there who are willing to do interviews. As far as interviews go, you’re more likely to get people in LA to do them than in NYC. In NYC, don’t take the wrong train and end up in the projects. LA and NYC both have Japanese hip hop producers making a name for themselves there.

    • @markraymond3577
      @markraymond3577 2 роки тому +6

      Interview Americans & ask them whats their take on Japanese culture

  • @sophiaisabelle027
    @sophiaisabelle027 2 роки тому +2033

    It’s cool to hear Japanese women’s perspectives this time around. They all have varying preferences, and I find that fascinating. I hope this channel continues to grow and ultimately achieve success along the way.

    • @MJubeily
      @MJubeily 2 роки тому +99

      Varying preferences? They all wanted tall men xd

    • @Chocolatepain
      @Chocolatepain 2 роки тому +32

      Why wouldn't varying people have varying preferences?

    • @nickmorris6839
      @nickmorris6839 2 роки тому +90

      @@MJubeily I mean they had different definitions of tall. What I found amazing was the girl who said she liked tall guys but then said anything over 6' is too tall. In the US, you really aren't tall unless you're 6' or taller.

    • @doodoopoo
      @doodoopoo 2 роки тому +44

      guy just found out people are different

    • @sushilover3206
      @sushilover3206 2 роки тому +27

      @@nickmorris6839 being 5'11-6' in Japan is the same as being 6'1-6'2 in the West.. the average height in Asia is a lot shorter, that's why the definition of tall is different

  • @takashiifromjapan
    @takashiifromjapan  10 місяців тому +3

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  • @kieranflaherty3316
    @kieranflaherty3316 2 роки тому +222

    All girls, in any culture, anywhere and everywhere : *TALL*

    • @arielgonzalez9993
      @arielgonzalez9993 2 роки тому +47

      Now imagine if you asked them about their weight?🤣

    • @blank4142
      @blank4142 2 роки тому +28

      I think a woman views a man's height the same way we (men) view a woman's breasts for biological purposes. As a man, seeing large breasts sends men a signal that those breasts will be great for reproducing and nurturing a child. I think a woman sees a man's height as a sense of security and protection, as if we were out in the wild and it was survival of the fittest.

    • @zukodude487987
      @zukodude487987 2 роки тому +1

      Woman are the shallow ones with unrealistic standards. Men ask only for youth, beauty, femininity and not in the streets.

    • @zukodude487987
      @zukodude487987 2 роки тому +36

      @@blank4142 You can change your bodypart sizes as a woman, but a man cannot change his height.

    • @Alan_J_Silva
      @Alan_J_Silva 2 роки тому +18

      *TALL AND WHITE

  • @wanpii1463
    @wanpii1463 2 роки тому +39

    I love how you just enjoy it, it's very visible when you interview people that you're very interested in what others say, engaging with them and having fun, ナイス

  • @mikedelgrande5296
    @mikedelgrande5296 Рік тому +250

    As a US citizen I really like Japanese sensibilities. They’re so polite and respectful. Even though I was born and raised in the US it’s hard for me to be in public because of how rude and inconsiderate most ppl are.

    • @joarby
      @joarby Рік тому +14

      If you are referring to America then I will agree with you. The Japanese women in Japan has no idea what Americans are about. You must first look at cultures and families. Don’t just think the white men in America are good when it comes to treating their women great.

    • @gooddaysahead1
      @gooddaysahead1 Рік тому +4

      Yes, they are very polite. If you are an English speaking foreigner, most men will not talk to you. Women may talk to you because they are kinder and they like to practice english. They are hard to get to know. As an acquaintance, you will be fine. If you want a more personal relationship, that will be much more difficult.

    • @Grg5132
      @Grg5132 Рік тому

      You must live in a shithole city if you're saying Americans are rude or inconsiderate, US Cities have been overran with pretty much the worst Americans and mostly foreigners, legal and especially illegal. Can't really call it actual America.
      Japanese people are polite, not nice, politeness in Japan is very cold, and dating is even worse. This whole chaste asian girl thing isn't true for Japan, their women cheat more than American women most of the time.

    • @KrikZ32
      @KrikZ32 Рік тому +3

      @@joarby this is why you cannot rely too much on generalizations. There are good and bad people of all kinds in all sorts of places.

    • @erenyeaga9331
      @erenyeaga9331 Рік тому +1

      US ❌
      america ✅

  • @q_bzy
    @q_bzy 2 роки тому +692

    Love this content. Turns out we're all human and have no matter the country you'll find that people usually want similar things!

    • @xe.7805
      @xe.7805 2 роки тому +8

      Yep true

    • @MrBlackBono
      @MrBlackBono 2 роки тому +7

      i totally agree with you

    • @bonifiedeagle6128
      @bonifiedeagle6128 2 роки тому

      That's not really true for the west, girls here have completely unreasonable and unrealistic standards, must be 6ft tall etc must be high value in income etc

    • @Kittybabuu
      @Kittybabuu 2 роки тому

      True but girls in the USA go for the wrong guys the ones that aren’t gentlemen not all of them. But from what I’ve seen

    • @Hexumonium
      @Hexumonium 2 роки тому +2

      Maybe. But just based on this one example? That might be a gross overgeneralization, but I agree with your sentiments of uniting the world in this manner.

  • @blue-fj9ky
    @blue-fj9ky 2 роки тому +8

    i appreciate the polite and respectful tone of everyone!

  • @Quadraxis
    @Quadraxis Рік тому +7

    Lad, you found the perfect type of videos to post for us interested in seeing the true colors of Japanese, or at the very least, Tokyo culture so that we can get a little bit of info on knowing how it works.

  • @abusewrId
    @abusewrId 2 роки тому +38

    Yo! I really like your mini-documentary kind of interviews where you focus on one person the whole time. They can be a lot more insightful and deep than quick interviews with different people. Keep up the good work bro.

  • @ultrasuperbro5643
    @ultrasuperbro5643 2 роки тому +956

    I am 182cm and very intimidating in appearance. I was approached by a Japanese tour group, and they all wanted pictures with me. The experience made me curious about Japan. Thank you for your videos, I hope to visit one day, and I am learning Japanese to make the most of my experience there.

    • @laptopstudy3279
      @laptopstudy3279 2 роки тому +87

      YOu are a freak to them lol...but lol i wish i was that tall. Life on easy mode.

    • @thecalling1452
      @thecalling1452 2 роки тому +204

      182cm is like average in europe XD

    • @Galactusz007
      @Galactusz007 2 роки тому +75

      5’ 10” in height alone is not remotely intimidating. Are you overweight? Very muscular? Stocky? Bearded? Full of tattoos? Maybe that’s why they were intimidated and some wanted to take pictures with you. I’ve been to Japan. I’m 6’ 2” but none of the above attributes, just a regular clean shaven thin-built dude. No one bothered me like that.

    • @zoan23456
      @zoan23456 2 роки тому +42

      Been to japan and im 182 cm tall aswell and its a very common to see japanese men in that height.

    • @ultrasuperbro5643
      @ultrasuperbro5643 2 роки тому +67

      @@Galactusz007 I might not have converted it right, I'm 6'0". I'm stocky towards muscular. Shaved head, goatee, and deep voice. Basic biker look. People react fearfully when I initiate a conversation, until the context becomes clear.

  • @kbaltazard8830
    @kbaltazard8830 2 роки тому +8

    Very cool to find out what some Japanese people think about foreigners, I'm french and I just subscribed. Thank you TAKASHii.
    Me and my wife and kids dream about coming to Japan maybe next year, we can't wait.

  • @iwuanadie1058
    @iwuanadie1058 2 роки тому +839

    gotta love how all of them go like "this and this height, wear sleeves like that, be accustomed to life in japan" and the last girl's standards are just: be nice, to care, to literally stay together, don't care about height. lmao, it's just so wholesome compared to the rest. gives off "the soul..." vibes

    • @JawsFan27
      @JawsFan27 2 роки тому +54

      Welcome to modern dating lol fixation on superficial details to be that "picture perfect" couple.

    • @brandonhopkins8222
      @brandonhopkins8222 2 роки тому +83

      None of them said anything about money either like all girls in the west tend to talk about almost first

    • @WonderingGuy1
      @WonderingGuy1 2 роки тому +7

      @@brandonhopkins8222fr

    • @adamlouis3725
      @adamlouis3725 2 роки тому

      most people are vapid and shallow, no matter the country

    • @iwuanadie1058
      @iwuanadie1058 2 роки тому

      @@adamlouis3725 idk, i'd say a big part, hopefully not most

  • @301SO
    @301SO 2 роки тому +562

    The thing about being nice is you need to actually be nice, not just nice to them specifically. My partner told me one of the reasons she fell in love with me was seeing in our first dates how I would interact with other people for example people in the hospitality industry and how I would treat them with respect and kindness. Basically, be nice to your core and if she still doesn't like you then, it is not your issue.

    • @Hexumonium
      @Hexumonium 2 роки тому +10

      Possibly. But it's also possible that some people might appreciate the preferential treatment. Not trying to be cynical here, just trying to be realistic. As much as I wish that weren't the case and that your example was the only truth. :/

    • @endone3661
      @endone3661 Рік тому +1

      kindness ? I do it too 😮 I'm innocent

    • @BAN8
      @BAN8 Рік тому +8

      I think it is rather you being an open and confident person, talking freely to to other people, what makes you attractive. That you are nice is probably a plus but the main action is that you have no problem knowing your way with other people and probably in life in general.

    • @shaansingh6048
      @shaansingh6048 Рік тому +10

      There are girls who have a thing for a guy who is serious and cold with everyone else but has a soft spot for her

    • @TheUnseenPath
      @TheUnseenPath Рік тому +1

      Be nice but not a doormat.

  • @Streamy_Imp
    @Streamy_Imp 2 роки тому +98

    That one girl who was like "I don't really care if there short or not" she is defs a keeper and has good sense of morals.

    • @user-yc3fw6vq5n
      @user-yc3fw6vq5n 10 місяців тому +6

      What does hieght have to do with morality?

    • @anoxia999
      @anoxia999 8 місяців тому +1

      It’s because, as she added quickly later in the conversation, Japanese are petite people so the standards set by a different median, differ. How can they care in the same way when their median height/measurements are fairly petite.

    • @komododragosh
      @komododragosh 7 місяців тому

      @@anoxia999 Guess you never seen short american women wanting only 6 foot tall men?

    • @repentandfollowjesuschrist6170
      @repentandfollowjesuschrist6170 7 місяців тому +2

      Says a shorter man

    • @dolledupmarii8817
      @dolledupmarii8817 6 місяців тому

      @@repentandfollowjesuschrist6170I WAS GOING TO TYPE THIS LMAOO

  • @joyl7842
    @joyl7842 2 роки тому +158

    Very interesting.
    I've never been to Japan but have watched a lot of videos and read a lot of articles about Japan. It is a country which fascinates me and I would love to learn the language better than just recognizing words when watching anime 😀

  • @JoeyLuckyBoyNato
    @JoeyLuckyBoyNato 2 роки тому +7

    Idk wtf happened , but I can’t stop watching your videos 😭😭🔥🔥🔥

    • @boycottnok1466
      @boycottnok1466 2 роки тому

      You like low level videos like this? 🤢🤮

  • @joseph8208
    @joseph8208 Рік тому +2

    It's really interesting to hear views from the different people you interview in your videos. 👍

  • @philliplipscomb9461
    @philliplipscomb9461 2 роки тому +315

    I once visited for work in Hashimoto...I was fortunate enough to be there during many festivals in the streets and in some parks....other prefectures had similar festivals and fireworks...i think a good video would be about popular festivals , where they are what time of year they are and the reason for the celebration ...
    Keep up the great work....
    your videos are entertaining and informative

    • @notch7751
      @notch7751 2 роки тому +8

      Nice suggestion. That topic sounds really interesting! :)

    • @Chroniclilskip27
      @Chroniclilskip27 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah, I would really like this one

    • @Chelsso0
      @Chelsso0 2 роки тому +1

      Me too

    • @WTFBOOMDOOM
      @WTFBOOMDOOM 2 роки тому

      My friend with thyroid issues: "Hashimoto? I felt that :("

  • @ankitatripathy3938
    @ankitatripathy3938 2 роки тому +62

    You are truly awesome. I love the way you make videos and remain polite like a typical Japanese. Lots of love and support from India 💓💓

  • @ro55reel5
    @ro55reel5 Рік тому +1

    Girl on the right at the end has a great sense of humour, would definitely enjoy language exchange with her

  • @glmorten
    @glmorten 2 роки тому +6

    Dude, your English gets so much better with every video, keep it up!

    • @Turnpost2552
      @Turnpost2552 2 роки тому +1

      How was it that was interesting.

  • @scottianson5133
    @scottianson5133 2 роки тому +34

    I've been to Japan twice, and my language skills are improving albeit slowly. Thank you for your videos, and I look forward to visiting Japan again soon... just waiting to see if Babymetal will announce any tours soon.

  • @buckyfn6212
    @buckyfn6212 5 місяців тому

    Your back up questions are amazing

  • @MrFashion4321
    @MrFashion4321 2 роки тому +11

    This topic and interviews could have gone on forever... Please do it again. Loved it. Great job!!!!

  • @NemoTheBeastGamer
    @NemoTheBeastGamer 2 роки тому +11

    Another interesting video! I was waiting for one of the girls to say “you are my ideal man” 😂

  • @prezlamen7906
    @prezlamen7906 2 роки тому +3

    Takashi, you're awesome.
    I really enjoy your videos.
    Keep up the good work.

  • @Dissey
    @Dissey 2 роки тому +25

    I love these videos, thanks for letting us foreigners get an insight of your culture and peoples opinions in japan. It's very interesting, also you are really good at interviewing and making them feel comfortable. Great work takashii and tha nk you! 😀

  • @XJ076A
    @XJ076A 2 роки тому +39

    Thanks for the entertaining video. It'd be interesting to see what kind of occupations Japanese women would find appealing and thoughts on things like remote work. Expectations with regards to married life might be interesting to hear about as well (for example: paternity leave and such).

  • @starlife7750
    @starlife7750 Рік тому +1

    Very nice and i teresting documentary video! Arigato! Very relevant topics you discussed here, I hope I can see more similar videos here because I wish to have a future family with a nice Japanese woman! Seriously!

  • @commentarytalk1446
    @commentarytalk1446 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you for interviewing and thank you to the polite interviewees. It is very enjoyable to hear their thoughts and personal opinions spoken in fluent Japanese.
    The italki site sounds useful.

  • @Аргонавт
    @Аргонавт 2 роки тому +12

    Short brothers, assemble! We are not forgotten!

  • @NoName-dw1uv
    @NoName-dw1uv Рік тому +1

    Thank you, Takashii, for the video, I really appreciate your channel for getting me, Russian guy, into Japanese culture🙌

  • @bryanfeliciano4102
    @bryanfeliciano4102 2 роки тому +107

    3:20 good to see that no matter the culture they want us to be mind readers lmao.

    • @R1chAsshole
      @R1chAsshole 2 роки тому +4

      Nah man women just want to feel heard, but they have a subtle way of making noise. I've learned to just figure them out as a person. I know that's easier said than done but humans are as predictable as they are complex. If you know what she likes you're halfway there, if you know what she likes and doesn't like you figured her out pretty much.

    • @bryanfeliciano4102
      @bryanfeliciano4102 2 роки тому +42

      @@R1chAsshole my brother in Christ they can can just speak to the person directly.... they don't have to make everything elaborate and convoluted.

    • @JokersPlayground
      @JokersPlayground 2 роки тому +2

      @@bryanfeliciano4102 what he said i dont kno what whos free means, that could mean anything. women expect me to know the thoughts in there heads and i barely know what im going to do 3 minutes from now.

    • @spikey288
      @spikey288 2 роки тому

      @@JokersPlayground It's akin to "someone talk". She's inviting people to dm her.

    • @spikey288
      @spikey288 2 роки тому

      @@bryanfeliciano4102 How is it elaborate or convoluted for you to dm someone?

  • @yomarcelojeje
    @yomarcelojeje Рік тому +1

    6:24 - "he has to be nice" - the first fucking time someone answered based on personality and not physical traits.

    • @qoph1988
      @qoph1988 Місяць тому

      The very first one in the video was "he has to be a gentleman, hold doors for me, walk on the outside of me" etc

  • @AKRex
    @AKRex 2 роки тому +4

    First of all - thank you Takashi-san for your work, truly nice videos and good vibes! As for the ladies and what they say - remember that with girls (people in general, but I find it more often to be applicable with girls, my own observation) that while it is useful to pay attention to what they say, it is always more important to observe what they do. Personally, I really liked the girl on the left at 6:20. Very good looking and nice vibes overall, appeared very pleasant. The first one that got interviewed seemed really nice as well, but with a mask its hard to tell and/or read her face. Anyway, never disappointed in your videos as usual!

  • @t6kyo736
    @t6kyo736 2 роки тому +13

    I can’t even begin to thank you for what your doing. This is literally so helpful, I plan on going to Japan for the first time by the end of next year. And I always find myself on your page. Absolute goat 🐐. Thank you, I’m also going to check out italki because i definitely need to learn Japanese.

  • @kinglangdon399
    @kinglangdon399 2 роки тому +1

    I always love watching your interviews can’t wait to visit Japan later this year

    • @aopet7615
      @aopet7615 10 місяців тому +1

      did you go?

  • @romeyrome3274
    @romeyrome3274 2 роки тому +46

    I love how respectful Japanese culture is.

    • @StellatedVisuals
      @StellatedVisuals Рік тому

      Respecto is something I love too. I only spent a month in Japan and couldn't stop bowing for 2 months. Such an awesome gesture. I spent 2 months in India and still wobble my head on occasion.

    • @grey_f98
      @grey_f98 Рік тому

      these weeb-ass comments are in every fucking Japan video, it's just etiquette, it depends from person to person if they actually respect you or not

    • @SiGa-i1r
      @SiGa-i1r Рік тому +6

      Forced, often fake respect

    • @samtonnude941
      @samtonnude941 Рік тому +7

      Stop stereotyping a country, it's corny.

    • @pagodebregaeforro2803
      @pagodebregaeforro2803 Рік тому

      ​@@StellatedVisualsI like Japan a lot, but I find this bowing thing ridiculous, unnatural, fake reasoned and too submissive..

  • @Spoon89803
    @Spoon89803 2 роки тому +7

    Such casual vibes, I'd say that was quite interesting to watch, would like to see/hear more perspectives and more questions asked. The Lady that said she liked veins, that was quite interesting, never heard that before 🤣. Thanks for the video Takashi-san.

  • @hyunhokim5912
    @hyunhokim5912 6 місяців тому

    Oh this one is quite useful. Thank you so much!

  • @nuavecmoi
    @nuavecmoi 2 роки тому +23

    What about: what is the hardest aspect of being a woman in Japan?

  • @italianlifestyle7911
    @italianlifestyle7911 2 роки тому +54

    Lovely country with lovely people and flavorsome food! Hopefully I'm gonna visit Japan one day💛

  • @mirzxsenpai2997
    @mirzxsenpai2997 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the video. It help alot

  • @lewis6004
    @lewis6004 2 роки тому +15

    I've been following you for almost a year because I'm interested in Japan but your interviews are so short you gotta make em longer/ask more!

    • @theoracle2
      @theoracle2 2 роки тому +4

      You've gotta give him props for being considerate of their time though. In Japan, most people are always worried about taking up the time of others.

  • @jthesley
    @jthesley 2 роки тому +4

    So much respect for the women that referenced the inner quailities, so many are fixated on appearance and may miss their perfect partner because of it.

    • @clarencegilkie7369
      @clarencegilkie7369 2 роки тому

      Asian women don't like black men

    • @michaelg6641
      @michaelg6641 2 роки тому

      Actually in Japan l believe women do not enjoy respect from men, quite the opposite, same as many other male dominated traditional cultures. That's probably 1 main thing that would be attractive and rare to them from what I've studied at least.

    • @clarencegilkie7369
      @clarencegilkie7369 2 роки тому

      @@michaelg6641 Asian women don't like black men

  • @shreeyashkudalkar2456
    @shreeyashkudalkar2456 Рік тому +1

    Ok taking notes cuz I'm moving to Kyoto soon

  • @cpanui
    @cpanui 2 роки тому +8

    Takashii-san I recently found your videos, I enjoy them a lot. I like your interview style and your interview topics are very interesting. I live in Hawai'i and interact with many Japanese visitors and some who have moved to US recently. I have had many Japanese clients but I notice some young people's attitudes are changing a bit regarding foreigners. More videos please!!

  • @GeorgieReads
    @GeorgieReads 2 роки тому +52

    Hey brother, happy you're getting sponsors. Keep doing what you're doing, you're expanding your socio-cultural knowledge and transcending that nation state closed mentality your citizens are plagued with.

  • @Ernestotaku
    @Ernestotaku Рік тому

    Very useful. Thank you for this.

  • @mnaresh3382
    @mnaresh3382 Рік тому +5

    notable points
    1.learn japanese
    2.remember point number 1

  • @yngknj
    @yngknj 2 роки тому +5

    So good! I like any video you go about interviewing people. Since I'm getting back to learn Japanese, that helps a lot my ears to recognise words and sentences I had forgotten! Keep up, Takashi!

  • @finnhaverkamp
    @finnhaverkamp Рік тому +1

    I swear Takashii does these interviews just to meet women. But, you know, props to that.

  • @VictoriaGates
    @VictoriaGates 2 роки тому +182

    That is so great. All the answers made sense to me as an American woman. Really it's the same here. As tall as me or taller but not so tall it's awkward, a gentleman, facial hair if it suits them, healthy, you can speak the same language so you understand each other, you want to live in the same place and treats you well.

    • @tachyglossus
      @tachyglossus 2 роки тому +55

      As a short guy this is depressing-

    • @TheKrysis
      @TheKrysis 2 роки тому +48

      @@tachyglossus I really don't understand the tall thing. I'm 6ft and I've had a girl in the past say I was too short when she was 5ft7. Some woman are too fixated on appearance and how it makes them look next to you. I honestly wouldn't bother and pay no mind to that way of thinking. If it's their choice then its your choice to maybe have a broader perception in life. Don't let others get to you :>

    • @rdeez5974
      @rdeez5974 2 роки тому +7

      @ Ameisenigel don’t worry about it, there’s a lot of short girls out there. Typically they just want their man to be as tall as them or taller, in reality they care much more about personality. Just be confident and it’ll show despite whatever your height is.

    • @stupedcraig
      @stupedcraig 2 роки тому +12

      ​@@tachyglossus You'll find someone that loves you! Don't worry about something you can't control.

    • @Qwuiet
      @Qwuiet 2 роки тому

      @@tachyglossus as a short Asian guy, what’s not depressing in the dating world? Every Asian women just feel indifferent to us and they go over to Europe and America to fuck the white guys. In Asia, they all date tall Asian men as well. No matter where, short guys are fucked.

  • @MW-eg4gu
    @MW-eg4gu 2 роки тому +266

    Back in 1972 when I zeroed in on an Asian wife (I'm a 72 year old American Caucasian male), at an American university, I reasoned it mattered not what guy they find attractive. I only cared if she was attracted to me. I talked my future Chinese wife into getting a MRS. Degree, which was the only degree she got. Last September we celebrated our 49th wedding anniversary! Best wife in the world!

    • @sadkyoya6283
      @sadkyoya6283 2 роки тому +16

      It's so heartwarming hearing my old mans telling their stories and how happy they are, wish you two to be together 50 years more ❤️

    • @hakijin
      @hakijin 2 роки тому +40

      Zeroed in? Wtf were you gonna take her out

    • @zaneverovati
      @zaneverovati 2 роки тому +14

      @@hakijin well, asking someone out for a date - isn't that technically "taking someone out" in a different sense of those words lol? 😂

    • @rafaelescobar7931
      @rafaelescobar7931 2 роки тому

      You sir are an inspiration. Maybe someday I can count myself as lucky as you. Take care!

    • @Sei1989
      @Sei1989 2 роки тому +4

      I agree with this. If she ain't attracted to you, a marriage based off courting them your whole life for them to not loose interest in you is a garbage way to live.
      Mutual attraction is key

  • @ariyasokhangoo1357
    @ariyasokhangoo1357 Рік тому

    yo thanks for introducing italki

  • @PropofAnd
    @PropofAnd Рік тому +9

    I always wanted to go and visit Japan, never had a chance. And I'm 193 cm tall, so I just found out that no girl there would want to be with me. So, thank you, Mr. Takashi, for making my non-visiting so much easier to cope with now. :) Greetings from Serbia.

    • @Josip333
      @Josip333 Рік тому +1

      Hey bro am from croatia am 180 cm hahahah

    • @madmansimon_YTB
      @madmansimon_YTB Рік тому +1

      ​@@Josip333same but from Czech republic :D

    • @Qwerty64643
      @Qwerty64643 Рік тому +2

      Better than falling into shorter range😅

    • @Arealexx
      @Arealexx Рік тому +3

      Stop that, dont put yourself down there is always going to be someone out there that will love everything about you, and don't forget, your only looking for one. Let's achieve our dreams of going to Japan!

    • @theKingg1498
      @theKingg1498 Рік тому +1

      Being so tall is also a problem but I guess u will be more welcomed in usa 😅😅

  • @slayne2762
    @slayne2762 2 роки тому +4

    Keep up the great work. I enjoy watching your content and really want to visit Japan one day!

  • @e_e846
    @e_e846 Рік тому +1

    Listening to this if feel like watching anime. Kinda cool!

  • @KiraHellhammer
    @KiraHellhammer Рік тому +11

    Takashii you are doing a great job 😊 I respect that. Keep going. I really enjoy the honest insights into some of the daily Japanese culture and lives 😊

  • @joiejoestar1831
    @joiejoestar1831 2 роки тому +31

    I love your videos! I was wondering if you could do a video on what its like to be lgbt in Japan (for natives or foreigners). I think it would be an interesting topic, but I am still interested in whatever you upload so you don't have to consider my suggestion

  • @hostile-rx3198
    @hostile-rx3198 2 роки тому +11

    Something about the Japanese culture I can’t get over. Like when they say thank you 🙏🏻 it just makes me wish I lived somewhere where everyone respected one another.

  • @lancebailey7359
    @lancebailey7359 Рік тому +6

    I’m really looking forward to coming to Japan, I hope I get to learn as much as I can about the culture as I will only be there for a couple months due to work. It is crazy to think I’m 6’3” and people think that’s to tall and I feel like it’s an average height where I live.

  • @SMHTFTI
    @SMHTFTI Рік тому +1

    Another good video. 😃

  • @EHemmati
    @EHemmati 2 роки тому +26

    It was interesting! I visited Japan years ago and found out that most Japanese people (the ones I met) are Introverted but some very open and friendly. The politeness of Japanese is exemplary. They are usually trustworthy. I hope I can visit japan again, this time with a local Japanese companion, if I can find one :). Thank you!

  • @Requiem4aDr3Am
    @Requiem4aDr3Am Рік тому +7

    Good interviews. You really got them to be open and honest with you. Was surprised their height limits were so low. I'm 6'5" and when I lived in Hawaii all my tongan and samoan friends gave me the nickname Runt because I was the smallest guy in our group of friends.

  • @WebnewsCelebrities
    @WebnewsCelebrities 2 місяці тому

    Takashii-san ! I just watched a more recent video that is about the same topic, it feels like japanese peopl's opinion has shifted a little !
    + You have so grown, you already have 2m2 subs, so happy for you Takashii-san !
    + Your questions are so relevant, you're the best out there !

  • @moonbasemonk
    @moonbasemonk 2 роки тому +7

    Takashii, come to America and ask people what they think about Japanese! Also my favorite video is the Nishi Nari one. NYC is becoming more like Nishi Nari too 😆

  • @TheButTickler
    @TheButTickler 2 роки тому +7

    Interesting video! As a 6’0 tall American who is learning Japanese and would like to visit Japan, I liked hearing the answers these women gave 🙂

    • @_uchiha
      @_uchiha Рік тому +3

      bruh dont you have a wife

    • @Boytigastt
      @Boytigastt Рік тому +1

      @@_uchiha right

  • @miyor1277
    @miyor1277 2 роки тому

    Great video as always!

  • @keyphoenix9012
    @keyphoenix9012 Рік тому +4

    As a 5'2" man that is discouraging to say the least because basically I'm on par with the girls in terms of height. I've always suffered of height complex and that doesn't help. Guess I'll have to try working on my physique and see if that somewhat makes up for that lack of mine. Being born in a family of really short people sucks, I'm italian and the average height here is at least 5'7". The japanese girls don't have too high standards in that regard but it still feels like too much for me anyway. Luckily I've never really felt the need of a girlfriend until now, but my height complex certainly kept me away from even trying the few times I was interested in someone

    • @ted.angell7609
      @ted.angell7609 Рік тому

      There’s what they say, then there’s how they react when they like you.

    • @rachm06
      @rachm06 28 днів тому +1

      Ti sono vicino! Alto più o meno come te (e complessato fino a 30 anni, ora ne ho quasi 40). Ho sempre preferito ragazze più basse di me, e indovina un po', ne ho avute 12 finora e solo 2 erano più basse di me, e un paio di 10-15cm più alte. Per fortuna non tutte le ragazze sono superficiali come nel video, e di solito questa cosa va di pari passo con l'intelligenza e la cultura, quindi non ti perdi granchè. Ti consiglio di frequentare persone di una certa levatura culturale, diventare tu stesso una persona interessante, piena di interessi, e magari anche attenta al proprio fisico e salute. Quando inzierai a fregartene e credere in te stesso le ragazze arriveranno a valanga che tua sia basso, alto, bello o brutto.

    • @keyphoenix9012
      @keyphoenix9012 27 днів тому

      @@rachm06 Wow è rarissimo trovare un altro italiano nella sezione commenti, specialmente alto all'incirca quanto me che possa comprendere il disagio dell'essere uomini bassi. Le tue parole mi hanno confortato tantissimo e hai davvero ragione, alla fine se una donna ti scarta solo per via dell'altezza non ti perdi proprio nulla. Forse un lato positivo della nostra altezza non troppo elevata sta nel fatto che possiamo "filtrare" le donne superficiali. Ho in programma di lavorare di più sul fisico nei mesi a venire. Sono stanco di essere insicuro di me stesso per qualcosa che non ho scelto io e che non posso controllare, meglio lavorare su ciò che invece è in mio controllo. Grazie davvero per le belle parole e il supporto

  • @alexiszhoujones
    @alexiszhoujones Рік тому +3

    My favorite part of these videos are at the end when he asks "How was that?" And immediately replies "that was interesting" like some faced paced Dora the Explorer episode 😂 5 stars

  • @curisu3968
    @curisu3968 Рік тому +1

    nice video bro

  • @skvrs1461
    @skvrs1461 2 роки тому +4

    Great video! Would be interesting to see what do Japanese people think about tattoos?

    • @DBOTT77
      @DBOTT77 2 роки тому

      They're against it,well most of them

    • @raistlin906
      @raistlin906 2 роки тому

      @@DBOTT77 There are lots of MMA fighters and musicians with tattoos in Japan. I don't think it's that uncommon.

    • @DBOTT77
      @DBOTT77 2 роки тому

      @@raistlin906 yea but old gen people

  • @sijey9365
    @sijey9365 2 роки тому +11

    First girl was %100 your crush dude :))

    • @boycottnok1466
      @boycottnok1466 2 роки тому

      You are stupid to have crush on such illiterate women

  • @leathergrasshopper
    @leathergrasshopper 10 місяців тому

    Hey Mr. Takashii FJ, that's good stuff, man. You are very good at asking the next question, the follow-up question, in a super conversational manner. It's almost like you're doing a study. People respond like they are helping you understand something very important, but it's as if they are explaining a novel or a scene in a movie, sometimes it is something somewhat intimate, yet they discuss it more freely than one might expect. It's pretty cool. I think a lot of your success comes from your attention, and your respect for them as people. Thanks.

  • @James-kv3ll
    @James-kv3ll 2 роки тому +5

    Most women want a tall guy but by that they really just mean “a guy who’s taller than me”.
    Considering that most men want a girl who’s shorter than them I think it works out and if you’re not 6ft tall or higher you shouldn’t worry about it, even in America.

    • @rachm06
      @rachm06 28 днів тому

      i'm short and prefer shorter girl if i have to choose. I had 12 girls in my life, 10 of them taller than me. The funny thing is that usually the shorter a woman is, the taller the man she wants.

  • @nightc4006
    @nightc4006 2 роки тому +5

    Fun fact: japanese girls never tell but all their preferences depend on your looking.

  • @MarwanMnawer-jn2xh
    @MarwanMnawer-jn2xh 2 місяці тому

    Amaizing video

  • @llllllllIIIIIIIIIII
    @llllllllIIIIIIIIIII 2 роки тому +6

    I really love the fact there is still women in this univers who understand and enjoy gentleman opening a door for her.

  • @jman140692
    @jman140692 2 роки тому +53

    I have lived in Japan for almost a decade now. The most popular type of foreign guy is really a guy from any country who is white or a korean guy and if you are tall that is a bonus. It really is that simple. You can be short, tall, chubby, look like johnny bravo, channing tatum, or a nerd like dexter, mandark, or backpack kid and still pull women here. For everybody else it's possible. I have done it after struggling even though I am in good shape and speak the language(black, 6"1 and competes in mma) I know other non-white or korean men who have succeeded however the difficulty level is different. Asia is really a playground for white guys that's why they come here so much and barely even speak the language because it's recruit level difficulty for them. So if you are white don't be worried just come over and enjoy. I am serious

    • @unkopower7899
      @unkopower7899 2 роки тому +14

      THIS is the most accurate comment here. Listen to this guy.

    • @toasterowens8916
      @toasterowens8916 2 роки тому

      Deadass, all the people that think the white worship that goes on in Asian cultures is fake is just delusional.

    • @Aaltorina7061
      @Aaltorina7061 2 роки тому +3

      Half White and Half Asian girls are pretty too

    • @toasterowens8916
      @toasterowens8916 2 роки тому

      @@Aaltorina7061 eh

    • @Alan_J_Silva
      @Alan_J_Silva 2 роки тому +22

      I've been looking the comments for minutes and FINALLY found someone speaking the truth! Props to you bro, you are completely right, as a mixed 6"3 Brazilian i feel exactly the same as you.
      No matter how tall I am, how good at japanese, how kind and gentle, if I'm not white, I'm nothing for Asian women

  • @angrygopnik2317
    @angrygopnik2317 2 роки тому +6

    Answers are slightly biased as Japanese mainly see 'foreign men' as white, tall, blonde, blue eyed men. No one thinks about Indians, Filipinos, Nigerians, Latinos etc when talking about foreign men

    • @afallenhuman
      @afallenhuman 2 роки тому

      Correct. I cannot help but be a little upset about that

    • @boycottnok1466
      @boycottnok1466 2 роки тому

      No one is interested in outsiders. Stay away from Japan. Banning immigration is important. Crimes are increasing

    • @caamitsingh7210
      @caamitsingh7210 Рік тому

      We don't fit their bill

    • @pallych
      @pallych 4 місяці тому

      😂

  • @andrewclastic2835
    @andrewclastic2835 Рік тому +2

    Me listening to this about to start my Italki lesson, then the add break occurs. O.O

  • @alrasouli3916
    @alrasouli3916 Рік тому +3

    i love how japanese girls are so respectful and ladylike. the way the act and speak is so heartwarming and relaxing. western women should learn from them.

  • @toshitanaka1550
    @toshitanaka1550 Рік тому +51

    Being able to listen in Japanese and read in English subtitles is always a good way for me to challenge my learning of Japanese and also see if the English translation registers properly. I think in any country it is important we learn a certain degree of the language depending on the region we are in. Even if we aren’t perfect its always a beautiful transition we go through in life to achieve that perfection.

    • @TheLiamis
      @TheLiamis Рік тому

      I used rosette stone and ja sensei app, then did 3 short college courses to learn a good base. After that you really just need to live in Japan for a year or 2 where you will learn the more casual aspects.

  • @trillest_
    @trillest_ 2 роки тому +2

    You should experiment on some sort of speed dating for people who would like to communicate with foreigners & vice versa! might be too much but a cool future video idea👌🏾

  • @brettsimons5681
    @brettsimons5681 2 роки тому +10

    They so intelligent compared to other girls around the world 😂

    • @boycottnok1466
      @boycottnok1466 2 роки тому +1

      Nothing intelligent. Avoid women from J to have a good life

    • @cooliipie
      @cooliipie 2 роки тому +2

      Still have the same primitive fetish for a tall though

  • @MrCuteBai
    @MrCuteBai 2 роки тому +5

    Remember if you’re not taller than the girl, none of her preferences will matter

  • @thesaviorofsouls5210
    @thesaviorofsouls5210 2 роки тому +1

    "He has to be nice" is just such a pure answer, i know it was coming due to the comment section. But it still made me smile when it happend.

  • @jmcg85
    @jmcg85 2 роки тому +175

    Everywhere in the world:
    women: "It's all about height, we want tall guys"
    men: "It's all about weight, we want slim girls"

    • @jmcg85
      @jmcg85 2 роки тому +93

      (yet height can't be changed while weight can be)

    • @Sogmabolz
      @Sogmabolz 2 роки тому +65

      Male taste in women is more varied than female taste in men, most men have a favourite but will settle for any woman that isn't an asshole. It also may depend on location e.g I've noticed that a lot of black people prefer women that are not slim/slender while Caucasians are attracted to such women

    • @goddessrick8734
      @goddessrick8734 2 роки тому +18

      @@Sogmabolz It's more like there are a lot of women men would have intercourse with but won't date due to appearance while women tend to be more selective with intercourse and care less about appearance when it comes to dating.

    • @Sogmabolz
      @Sogmabolz 2 роки тому +10

      @@goddessrick8734 yeah that's true, but nowadays dating almost always involves intercourse

    • @masonbain7098
      @masonbain7098 2 роки тому +24

      lmao dude weight matters alot because it speaks of a person health.

  • @sentokoo9156
    @sentokoo9156 2 роки тому +6

    Man, it sounds like even Japanese women wouldn't want me since I'm only 5'6" tall hahaha :(

    • @kiersor
      @kiersor 2 роки тому +1

      You can find a 4'11 japanese girl, and she'll not care about your height.

    • @boycottnok1466
      @boycottnok1466 2 роки тому

      No one is interested in outsiders. Stay away from Japan. Banning immigration is important. Crimes are increasing

    • @boycottnok1466
      @boycottnok1466 2 роки тому

      @@kiersor No one is interested in outsiders. Stay away from Japan. Banning immigration is important. Crimes are increasing

    • @rachm06
      @rachm06 28 днів тому

      @@kiersor usually shorter girls want way taller guys due to some bug in their psycology

  • @stephenroberts4155
    @stephenroberts4155 Рік тому +1

    If you are not aware, the sound tone that you use in your transition between video scenes is normally used to cover rude language on North American media.

  • @Livesie
    @Livesie 2 роки тому +6

    “5’7 is the deal height”
    Me: 5’6 😔