The discomfort in setting boundaries | Friendships as an adult | People pleaser

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  • Опубліковано 5 лис 2024

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  • @andrea0338
    @andrea0338 5 місяців тому +1

    Congrats to you for telling your friend how you felt about yours relationship and for prioritizing yourself. As people pleaser, we often struggle to put our needs first and to set boundaries for ourselves. I think it is a huge sign of growth to start doing it.

  • @alienwinters8473
    @alienwinters8473 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for reminding me how important it is to be "selfish" sometimes. I am also that person who always tries to support everyone and give my 100 percent even to those who don't really give me the same.
    I hope your health situation resolves for the better ❤️

    • @victoriaros.e
      @victoriaros.e  4 місяці тому

      Thank you so much for taking the time to watch this video 😊
      Already by reducing my stress I have started feeling much better 🤎

  • @disembodiedstudios
    @disembodiedstudios 4 місяці тому +1

    I had a mental breakdown at work on wednesday. Ive been off work since and have cried a bunch and am just feeling so sensitive. I have to go back to work tomorrow and im not close to being ready.
    On a related note. Its weird how friends work huh?!
    I was always the weird kid, i was just an introvert creative though😊 but the friends i made are still friends 30+ years later but i moved far away long ago and the distance has split them off and without the physical connection i find that i simply dont talk to them anymore but the moment im back in the country a decade or more later its like i never left.
    In your video u just mentioned your last video😊 its nice seeing you happy!! You seem so nice. Awesome to hear your channel is doing well, other sensitive people are feeling your vibes!! Like... 100% give it a few months and this channel is going to explode! This is exactly what us sad, empathic, tired people need! its so calming and warm. And there are millions of us out there. I totally believe that you can mentally put a signal out there and others will pick up on it and gravitate towards that.
    I mean... maybe it didnt quite work out for my 8 year old channel 😅 but this is different. Im just some crazy guitar man lolol.
    Aaanyway. ... keep on being you!!
    Oh!!... i just read a random quote online that really hit me and i kinda think it could be a great mantra or something lol it goes...
    "Sometimes bad things happen before good things"
    😮 i know right!? Lol.

    • @victoriaros.e
      @victoriaros.e  4 місяці тому

      Thank you so much for this lovely comment 😊
      It definitely feels so nice being seen and realizing I am not the only one feeling and thinking the way I do! And the feeling after reading all those comments makes me feel that this is actually reaching the right people!
      Even if this channel doesn't blow up I am happy if all it did was make one person fe a little bit better 🤎
      Thank you so much for your support 😊

  • @disembodiedstudios
    @disembodiedstudios 4 місяці тому +1

    People should happily put up their barriers!! If anyone has an issue with it, that aint your people! Know what im saying?🙃

  • @alienwinters8473
    @alienwinters8473 5 місяців тому

    I just started watching, but this is already sooo relatable.
    I have a small request/suggestion though for the future videos. If it's possible, could you please make them a bit louder? I have my phone on full volume, and if I have it at my arm's length I can't really hear much.

    • @victoriaros.e
      @victoriaros.e  5 місяців тому

      Oww ofcourse!!! Thank you for pointing that out, I really appreciate it!
      I will definitely have it in mind for my future videos🥰

    • @alienwinters8473
      @alienwinters8473 5 місяців тому

      :) My room is also quite noisy so that might contribute too. But yeah, better to have that volume "reserve" for different kinds of environments/devices.