I'd spend the night seated on a chair, holding my kids as my hubby lay on our bed with his mistress

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  • Judy Wairimu got pregnant while she was in form 3. Immediately after giving birth, she moved in with her man. The joy of her marriage was short-lived. She faced all manner of abuse from physical to psychological. 20 years ago, Judy remembers vividly how her ex-husband would bring other women into their one roomed house. Whenever the woman came, Judy would spend the night sitting on their only wooden chair, holding her 2 children while the husband lay on bed with his mistress. According to Judy, they would even be intimate as she watched! 20 years ago, Judy left the marriage and vowed never to remarry!

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  • @missmalaikalee4646
    @missmalaikalee4646 2 роки тому +24

    That's not mama's boy. He was a mean spirited ndurika. He did not just care

  • @lucywambui1672
    @lucywambui1672 2 роки тому +12

    Such a humble and beautiful woman. May God continue blessing you.

  • @marykimani1818
    @marykimani1818 2 роки тому +47

    Kudos to mother in law! She is one in a million

    • @ruthretoe7232
      @ruthretoe7232 2 роки тому +1

      If she is a good mother in law hope she also remembers her grandchildren

    • @janetmaina9903
      @janetmaina9903 2 роки тому +2

      @@ruthretoe7232 how is a mother in law goodness gauged by remembering grand children

    • @mamamaina6498
      @mamamaina6498 Рік тому

      Bona hakuona grand Dota hajaenda shule au vile Dota in-law amekonda huyo mother in-law sio mpoa

  • @marthamuthoni8322
    @marthamuthoni8322 2 роки тому +2

    I admire your patience and resilience, not many are like that. I congratulate you for leaving the right time, your patience of not getting yourself confused by another man; You are beautiful lady even now, God can give you a good man, you are not old. You deserve good company at your age.

  • @mimsbaibemimskim9556
    @mimsbaibemimskim9556 2 роки тому +2

    Ooh yu have passed alot aki ndoa zingine ni chungu i also passed alot but tym ya God ikifika unatoka kwa toxin marriage n God is our strength tukazane team single.

  • @bernadettenyagah3807
    @bernadettenyagah3807 2 роки тому

    You're beautiful and humble Judy, may God continue blessing you.

  • @marthakiiru8016
    @marthakiiru8016 2 роки тому +5

    She is soo beautiful...seems kakiwa kadem kalikuwa karembo sana na hiyo nugu imtese hivo.
    Amesema alikuwa nyarari naeza taka nimuone

  • @graciekimani1428
    @graciekimani1428 2 роки тому +2

    Who is like God akii ona sasa kuku zenye zilikwa zinahesabiwa wasikule she got them and they can eat anytime... Wueh she's a strong woman indeed Ngai vitu zingine pangu siwezi ngoja kesho ati unawaosha mikono🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️ omaitu Wambui ndigehota maaa

  • @hottensiahthamu5750
    @hottensiahthamu5750 2 роки тому

    You're such a wonderful lady very humble.

  • @lynjulius3323
    @lynjulius3323 2 роки тому +13

    Some women aki are devil ..how can someone come to another woman house and do stupid things when the children are there . You are strong

  • @JUSTWANGUI
    @JUSTWANGUI 2 роки тому +7

    Why do we vumilia for so long ladies aki this is so wrong sana , that we take in so much for the sake of marriage that is definitely not working, tujipende aki am so pissed listening to this story .

  • @gracekariuki6688
    @gracekariuki6688 2 роки тому +1

    You are a strong lady and am glad you took that step of moving from an abusive marriage. May God continue opening doors for you. Am thankful that God saved you. You ex was not mature enough to handle a home.

  • @mamakeangel3885
    @mamakeangel3885 2 роки тому +4

    Me my late dad told us ati ukishindwa na kwako just come back to your father's home always welcome and never wait for someone to take advantage of you leave him in peace and walk out

  • @draah3
    @draah3 2 роки тому +3

    Woow Judy... Besides all you went through you are so blessed....

  • @kimmie_kez290
    @kimmie_kez290 2 роки тому +1

    She must be a very strong woman. I like how she's speaking bravely

  • @1on1withjune81
    @1on1withjune81 2 роки тому +5

    Ngai baba bless all the women who put up with abusive men. May the women who contribute to their tears never have peace!

  • @irenesteve9765
    @irenesteve9765 2 роки тому +4

    Waaah ...ths lady is one in a million,can't wait mtu kunichapa na kuniletea mtu kwa nyumba 😨😨🙆🙆aje Sasa?🙅Tena ahurange ndimuhutu?izo nyama ningekuwa nazikula anichape kama niko full , though God is good she can smile again.

  • @naominjihia1521
    @naominjihia1521 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful and humble, I love her already

  • @jessenjuenjoka4440
    @jessenjuenjoka4440 2 роки тому +5

    Kairitu,,Tamaka wee uri mutumia ngatha,,GOD BLESS YOU.

  • @authenticeve
    @authenticeve 2 роки тому +3

    Also young girls should invest in themselves first before they consider marriage and kids..

  • @inkcity_nairobi5239
    @inkcity_nairobi5239 2 роки тому +2

    Judy you are strong woman.may God bless you Abundantly

  • @nyaxjosh
    @nyaxjosh 2 роки тому +1

    Uyu ne Definition Ya uria kwiraguo mutumia ngatha 🙌🙌🙌

  • @maryannmwauravlogs9970
    @maryannmwauravlogs9970 2 роки тому

    Woiyeh weee hii kukaa kwa ndoa ufurahishe wengine aki mm nilishidwa she's very beautiful woman and seems hardworking ♥️ all the best mama to you and your children...alafu there good are good men out there single and searching si mcheze ki nyinyi mama akae maisha ya furaha zaidi❤️😁

  • @mamacarlos7727
    @mamacarlos7727 2 роки тому +3

    Respect single mothers we are strong and we need support not stress,,hug judy🤗😘

  • @authenticeve
    @authenticeve 2 роки тому +5

    Empower young ladies with education and consequently jobs and such dependencies on a man will be a thing of the past

  • @karreyimani9341
    @karreyimani9341 2 роки тому +1

    She's so beautiful and graceful 😍

  • @mamamaina6498
    @mamamaina6498 Рік тому +3

    Wachani kusema kudos to mother in-law kwani hakua anaona mjukuu hajaenda shule au vile Dota in-law vile amekonda

  • @marykariuki7381
    @marykariuki7381 2 роки тому +10

    Seems like the man’s parents forced him to get married after he made her pregnant. This man hated her so much when he’d beat her, he would not beg her to stay, he wanted her to go. On other hand, she stayed because she did not want the same of being a divorcee and a single mom or to bring shame to her family. Sad 😞.

  • @hildamugo1661
    @hildamugo1661 2 роки тому +1

    Inspiring story, God above all

  • @marynjoroge5894
    @marynjoroge5894 2 роки тому +6

    Gaiii that's a wicked man Yaani I just hate him...
    Haki thank God nowdays Girls are empowered!!!!
    I can't Imagine my Mum being beaten and disrespected like that...
    Mum Judy you are Strong!!!

  • @serahnjambi8645
    @serahnjambi8645 2 роки тому

    Really encouraging

  • @marymaria947
    @marymaria947 8 місяців тому

    Strong mum kudos💪💪💪woow mungu azidi kukubariki sanaaa,thanks kagoni for this very encouraging,iyo kuvumilia yote aki🙆mimi kofi moja natoka uko mbii sana😂😂😂😂

  • @bettymatthews9104
    @bettymatthews9104 2 роки тому

    Wow this is an amazing story

  • @anneynjeri207
    @anneynjeri207 2 роки тому +1

    Woman of a kind.... She is very strong may God continue blessing her

  • @poormillionairekii5542
    @poormillionairekii5542 2 роки тому

    Shes soo strong
    Much love mama ❤️❤️

  • @annastasiahnjugunahlucy9653

    Waaaoh Judy so encouraging God bless u

  • @estherndungu3283
    @estherndungu3283 2 роки тому +2

    Eagerly waiting

  • @esthernjuguna2006
    @esthernjuguna2006 2 роки тому +1

    Judy pole ulivumilia sana, Mungu ataendelea kukuinua

  • @Betty12316
    @Betty12316 2 роки тому

    Wah ndiwagitugi na maundu mangi ndingikiriria ma
    Reke menwo

  • @mimskimmimsgul768
    @mimskimmimsgul768 2 роки тому

    Great job kwahiuha kiura ruga sio kuvumilia unakufa bure ju ya pressure forward ever team single 14yrs n loading kafa thayu.

  • @mercymambo5924
    @mercymambo5924 2 роки тому +1

    Wow! Amazing woman.

  • @beuller8503
    @beuller8503 2 роки тому

    Waaaah u are a strong woman Mimi hiyo grace sina walai

  • @virginiawamucii2228
    @virginiawamucii2228 2 роки тому +21

    I blame her for allowing that man to treat her like that yet she had her home and mum still alive...you teach people how to treat you.

    • @felihinga3112
      @felihinga3112 Рік тому

      If you have never been in someone's shoe never judge or blame anyone for anything

  • @marykamau4790
    @marykamau4790 2 роки тому +3

    Waaaaaa Judy is a strong woman...her marriage was a movie by the name "escape from sobibor".......

  • @MuigaSNjoki02
    @MuigaSNjoki02 2 роки тому +2

    Lakini some ladies pia wamerogwa yani utaenda kwa another woman's house utowe nguo na upate usingizi?🤧🤢ngai turirikane .walai Judy your strong mimi singeweza .

  • @marynjwri7409
    @marynjwri7409 2 роки тому

    Such a humble lady aki

  • @shikohjimmy2586
    @shikohjimmy2586 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful story by a beautiful n strong woman ❤️

    • @ruthndemi9236
      @ruthndemi9236 2 роки тому

      Ooh my God. Judy you are strong. God bless you

  • @annmbugua30
    @annmbugua30 2 роки тому +1

    She is so beautiful

  • @annahkamau6232
    @annahkamau6232 2 роки тому

    Waoo , nimependa Judy Sana,

  • @rebeccaetter1104
    @rebeccaetter1104 2 роки тому +2

    Watching from Switzerland 🇨🇭

  • @karimimiriti3827
    @karimimiriti3827 2 роки тому +4

    Haki Mimi mambo ingine wacha tuu nitembee na yesu
    You’re a great woman if you go through all that and still wait for him to change into a better man

  • @mariahwanjiku1809
    @mariahwanjiku1809 2 роки тому +1

    Such a good woman aki😭😭😭

  • @gladyskinuthia6585
    @gladyskinuthia6585 2 роки тому

    My God I pray that you do this lady well...so well that her and her children will never see such pain again. I have no other words....this is beyond words.....heeee

  • @perisgitahi2782
    @perisgitahi2782 2 роки тому +1

    Judy you are strong forgiveness is the key to healing

  • @peninahnjatha181
    @peninahnjatha181 2 роки тому

    She is strong woman may God bless her.

  • @Mamake559
    @Mamake559 2 роки тому

    May you go miles away judie blessings upon you forever,❣️

  • @patricianjeri8414
    @patricianjeri8414 2 роки тому

    what a humble woman.

  • @AliceDiscoveriesKenya
    @AliceDiscoveriesKenya 2 роки тому +2

    This is one strong woman

  • @susanwanyoike6184
    @susanwanyoike6184 2 роки тому +1

    Wah....some men aki are so evil....Judy you are such a strong woman

  • @kaibungarose4207
    @kaibungarose4207 9 місяців тому

    My mum always told me ukikataa kusoma utabeba mtoto na kamithi,empower the girl child through education

  • @margaretmungai1924
    @margaretmungai1924 2 роки тому +1

    A very strong woman

  • @nellygatama9173
    @nellygatama9173 2 роки тому +42

    Hello ladies what l have learned is... You teach people how to treat you.

  • @Miss-kariuki__251
    @Miss-kariuki__251 2 роки тому

    Mutumia ngatho ucio hau strength of a woman

  • @millicentwambui6278
    @millicentwambui6278 2 роки тому

    Pole sana judy

  • @florawaithera4687
    @florawaithera4687 2 роки тому +2

    Congrats to Metha ya Kagoni ,i have learnt something from that lady

  • @jediandrewofficialpage8809
    @jediandrewofficialpage8809 2 роки тому +8

    Kagoni I wish can get the courage to narrate my story

  • @waitheranganga2236
    @waitheranganga2236 2 роки тому +4

    I love the woman you're Judy! A beautiful and wonderfully made woman.A brave,smart, courageous and strong woman! You're such such a great inspiration to many, personally I'm touched by all that you went through in your toxic marriage. May our heavenly Father bless you abundantly mom! Without forgetting this great woman! Your mother in law ofco. She's one in a million I say🥰❤️

  • @phyllismuthoni5258
    @phyllismuthoni5258 2 роки тому +7

    Monica nataka hiyo hood you look beautiful ❤️

  • @njerifaith7538
    @njerifaith7538 2 роки тому +2

    She is a strong women n big up to mother in low

  • @susanmuthoni5482
    @susanmuthoni5482 2 роки тому +3

    What a happy ending❤️ forgiveness ni muhimu.God listens to our prayers.

  • @joycepatient4290
    @joycepatient4290 2 роки тому +2

    She is very strong lady, may she go far in Jesus Name 🙏

  • @josphinewambui7004
    @josphinewambui7004 2 роки тому +2

    Woooooiye our God is so faithful..

    • @jamesndegwa3673
      @jamesndegwa3673 Рік тому

      That wasn't a man he was a monster and also a mum's boy.

  • @exwairimu
    @exwairimu 2 роки тому +9

    The more I watch these shows the less respect I have for men n marriages... to me marriages ISSA a scam

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 2 роки тому +1

      It's an institution of slavery .kujichukia na kuinamilia binadamu badala ya mungu.mimi husema WA kuinamiliwa na mungu pekee..

    • @marykariuki7381
      @marykariuki7381 2 роки тому +2

      It’s not marriage, it’s the foundation. This marriage had a weak foundation from the start. It’s not all men, it’s when you miss and ignore the red flags 🚩.

    • @exwairimu
      @exwairimu 2 роки тому

      @@shikuliz4134 true

  • @wairyjackson7528
    @wairyjackson7528 2 роки тому

    Ooh God kweli amepitia mengi wee I think we are different mimi mtu hawezi lala kwangu uwee

  • @shifta81
    @shifta81 2 роки тому +5

    This one has broken my heart, she made the right decision to walk away from that toxic marriage

  • @janemwangi6932
    @janemwangi6932 2 роки тому

    Waa she is beautiful. Wanaume hutaka nini surely?

  • @daisymuthoni675
    @daisymuthoni675 2 роки тому +4

    Ooh my God some people are heartless n inhuman....may he never see peace!

  • @johnnjau7987
    @johnnjau7987 2 роки тому

    Beautiful Outfit with your trade name Monica. Keep up the good work and God bless you always for highlighting such unbelievable stories.

  • @cessykaylynn3454
    @cessykaylynn3454 2 роки тому +11

    90%of us women go through this but we never talk. We die ni pains inside

    • @wanjikumwangiproudoma7557
      @wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 2 роки тому +7

      We allow them, i was slapped once, i slapped Him back and took a kitchen knife ,He never hit me ever again because i left with my two kids, 10 years down the line as i write this He is on 4th wife, and iam a very proud, successful single mother still. Atumia tigai kumereria matezo, we are strong mentaly.

    • @janemwangi6932
      @janemwangi6932 2 роки тому +1

      @@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 kudos ata sijui nguvu hutoka wapi ya ku respond. Kupiga No No... I dnt advocate the same otherwise they respond differently bt i ndi wa ku hiukirwo especially kama sija kosea. ata jua hajui. Am a human being too and a grown. Asi nipige apigane na wanaume wenzake out there. Vita is for uncircumcised people.

    • @bettywilliams6071
      @bettywilliams6071 2 роки тому +1

      @@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 that's it never entertain nonsense. Mtu anakuonyesha madharau alafu anakupiga. Mimi husema wacha mtu anipige ya baridi lakini asiwahi niwekelea kidole.

    • @wanjikumwangiproudoma7557
      @wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 2 роки тому

      @@janemwangi6932 true hata mwanaume awe circumcised 10x no women deserves kungogwa.

    • @janemwangi6932
      @janemwangi6932 2 роки тому +1

      @@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 I mean vita is for uncivilised people people. 🤣🤣

  • @amosnjagi1989
    @amosnjagi1989 2 роки тому +2

    Vitu zingine watu hupitia 😢😢😢😢oh my goodness. Sijawahi nasioni kama nitajaribu kufanya kitu kaa hizo

  • @milkahwatene3798
    @milkahwatene3798 2 роки тому +1

    She's a strong woman

  • @jamesgathaiya6450
    @jamesgathaiya6450 2 роки тому +3

    Ukai muigwe ndeto ataraga ngina tunyama mwathani naniguo mutumia uyu emuthaka maa arume amwe ni saitani maa

  • @georgekamau3541
    @georgekamau3541 2 роки тому

    Ni vizuri kucheka sometimes 🤣🤣🤣 Mimi nkibuy kitu watoto wakose kukula nashdwa Kula🥺

  • @veronicahmso4913
    @veronicahmso4913 2 роки тому

    How can I get u have a story

  • @salomekihuga2256
    @salomekihuga2256 2 роки тому +2

    Kai guthiaga atia....mwathani!! Yaani a woman and her children Kwa kiti alafu nilale Kwa kitanda..... ndingihota!!!

  • @natashablessings4354
    @natashablessings4354 2 роки тому +1

    Geng geng nko ndaaaani kama kawa

  • @janewanjiku6721
    @janewanjiku6721 2 роки тому

    Thats a nice Hoodie kagoni naeza pata wapi

  • @janewanjiku6721
    @janewanjiku6721 2 роки тому +1

    I miss you kila wakati kagoni

  • @tabithawando1211
    @tabithawando1211 2 роки тому +1

    This was very sad

  • @annmaina1347
    @annmaina1347 2 роки тому +1

    Waah,so sad, I didn't know that she was going through hell,bearing in mind that she was married in a very wealthy family..actually we used to admire her!Kumbe..that was a very good decision..Judy may God bless you and your kids...

  • @katewangari9500
    @katewangari9500 2 роки тому +2

    Monicah nataka hood😘😘

  • @wangaregatuhi5507
    @wangaregatuhi5507 2 роки тому +1

    May the good Lord Bless your Brother Judy and please ask your daughter after graduation to say Thanks to Auncle Love you Judy , please don't go back to that Monister of the so called Husband I'm sure he is regretting😡😡🙏🙏🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @janenkanata9686
    @janenkanata9686 9 місяців тому

    Thank God for creating me the way i am. I would not want that softness

  • @njondeedwin1808
    @njondeedwin1808 2 роки тому +3

    I think being very young and with no income of her own completely made her kuvumilia such grave stuffs. You are a strong lady of valour.

    • @floragitonga3768
      @floragitonga3768 2 роки тому +1

      Surely some women are devil how now can you do that to your fellow woman wherever you're may you never hv peace gisaitan👹👹

  • @serahnjoroge1069
    @serahnjoroge1069 2 роки тому +3

    Judy, ulitulia too long. Mimi sigeweza tulia kwa mwanaume juu eti kwetu kusikuwe na haya. Haki, no way!!
    But, at last you managed kuturoka.
    Have and enjoy your lige. God bless!

    • @serahnjoroge1069
      @serahnjoroge1069 2 роки тому

      *Life*

    • @warigiapurity8252
      @warigiapurity8252 Рік тому

      Pole sana. I wish women could go with the first sign of a red flag especially beating. Beating may cause life long injuries.
      Run for your dear life don't wait to brutalized.

  • @Cate861
    @Cate861 2 роки тому +3

    Ati urugire mundu na ndurie hau Ngai ndeithia tondu ndingihota

  • @estherkomu3994
    @estherkomu3994 2 роки тому +1

    Ngai nii ndingika maundu ta masio oooh wee kiura ruga

  • @maryannenjambi1879
    @maryannenjambi1879 2 роки тому +3

    Such a nice humble woman. I just love her. Ungetupea number so we can promote her business.

  • @maggieking6394
    @maggieking6394 2 роки тому

    This is crazy...never allow anyone humiliate you that way...aai this is too much....hata kama...

  • @cyrusmwangi5406
    @cyrusmwangi5406 2 роки тому

    Wah I'm watching I feel like searching these pple who do Interview