The stupid reason he gave. "I proposed so I would stop thinking of your sister". Just break up instead of cheating. Would have caused far less trouble.
In this situation it’s a lose-lose for OP. Even if they didn’t cheat and instead Jake broke up with her first, in the end it would still be her sister taking her fiancé away from her
@@FlipflopB Better than them cheating and the family supporting them then. Yeah she loses either way, but she can be made that he left her for her sister instead of cheating after asking her to marry him.
Parents aren't sorry, they realise their golden child daughter is a broke nut job and can't rely on her for the last legs in life so, they're trying to weasel their way back into OP'S life and looks like it's working from the last update.
If he wanted to be with Emily so bad, and if they weren’t meant for each other, why not break up with OP and just date Emily? Why are people so stupid and shitty?
@roselockheart4346 my friends and I are all part of the lgbt community, and we've all noticed that straight relationships seem to be absolutely rife with communication issues. So many heterosexual couples act like they'll pass away if they just sit down and try to talk things out.
The gaslighting from the sister, ex-fiancee and the mother is unbelievable... I hope this lady stays strong and does not give in to this manipulative ars*holes. the family does not care about her, they dont give a flying F about her, they just want to use her and discard her. This lady is better off without them. I would honestly file a restraining order for both the ex, the sister and the parents. The parents tears mean nothing considering the fact that they did not stand beside her when she was so deeply betrayed by her ex and her sister...
I'm just surprised that op didn't say to her mother 'oh i thought you were calling to tell me Jake had cheated on Emily, but this is so much better than that' and laughed
Or other way around, Emily cheated on Jake, than after laughing hang up because they're not worth the effort of staying on the phone call, the OPs always make that mistake, hang up immediately and you stay out of all the sh!t that comes after.
Sad excuse for parents . The sister was definitely the golden child and they will let her back in. Op should block them because I agree the only reason they made nice is because she has money.
Golden is in trouble now. Arrested,no money,no house. OPs parents have already given what they have. So now,they're playing the long game. Grovel to OP. Get her to open the lines. Bide time to get close to her. Then later on when they really need her help,she will.
Ops family is really delusional and toxic. They basically want Op to forgive and forget. How can they sit there with smiles on their faces and basically say that cheating is ok but getting justifiably angry is being selfish and not being understanding?! And the father one to talk, what if his wife cheated on him with another man, would he be told to “forgive and forget”, that’s an obvious no cuz we all know that’s not going to happen, he’s going to get mad and ask for a divorce as every sane person would do if they caught their spouse cheating.
This was super sad. Honestly, if they were really remorseful, they had better not ask her for money later. I would definitely have left those lines of communication closed because of the possibility they want repayment for the money they lost on those two. Dude, if you loved her sister that much, you should have dumped her three months into the relationship or at the earliest convenience when you found out you liked her sister more. Why cheat on her? Especially on the day you proposed?! What a tool! OP, you're much better off without these idiots in your life. And hopefully, leaving open a channel of communication open with your parents doesn't backfire for you.
Why do the neighbours in these stories never call the police? If I see someone making that much commotion outside my neighbour's house, Im calling the police, let the neighbour deal with them afterwards, because either way they'd know how to handle the situation after, I'm not calling them about it if I know they're at work, or if I know that those people are the ones in the wrong even if I don't know the whole situation, because it's a lot easier to call the police to handle the situation than to make someone come out of work to handle a situation that may have ended up in the police being needed anyways.
Jake didn't have wasted 5 years of OP'S time. He didn't have to propose to OP. Emily didn't have to steal Jake from OP. Wasting someone's time is just as bad as cheating.
OP should have told the parents to leave and never return or they would end up like emily and jake and shut the door in their face. i would never have unblocked them because they only want money in their old age to replace what they spent on emily and jake
It's called the rotten rope, the metaphot of a climber that grabs one of 2 ropes certain that the one on his hands is the firm, strong one only to find out during the climb that rope is worn out in the middle and he will fall. Emily and Jake were the rotten rope, the parents didn't mind to let OP go thinking they had a stable future ahead with their Golden child.
Breaking up and telling the OP the reason before getting engaged would have made the problem less of what it was...they could have avoided being arrested and maybe gotten a bit of help had they not all betrayed her.
I will never understand guys or girls that leave their partner whom they have been with for literals for just someone who looks better Like who cares if they look better you have spent a long time with the person you're currently with The amount of trust and bond ya'll hold cannot be achieved by looks it takes time to reach that point
The mother is delusional if she thinks op is going to help Emily and Jake in anyway after what they did. I would’ve told them to never call me again. There are some things in life you can’t get over and the fact the entire family backed their cheating is appalling.
This was so heartbreaking. Honestly, if they were truly sorry, they should not ask her for money again. I would have kept those lines of contact closed since they could expect reimbursement for the money they lost on those two. Dude, if you truly loved her sister, you should have dumped her three months into the relationship, or as soon as you realized you preferred her sister. Why would you cheat on her? Especially on the day when you proposed?! What a tool! OP, you are far better off without these fools in your life. And, ideally, leaving a line of communication open with your parents will not backfire on you.
Why did Emily and Jake go to OP's house and harass her for money when, per her mom's story, she didn't ask before because of the incident 5 years prior? Something seems kinda fishy here...
I wouldve also unblock my parents like op did here, but this is where reddit clarity comes in and that may highly spare me from future pain ughhh Its frustrating op let her parents peer in a bit into her life, but god knows her piss poor parents would take this opportunity to take a mile 😬🙄 i understand being blinded or not taking hindsights into consideration, but if that day comes where parents decided to foully strike, i hope she sticks to her guns, remember the betrayal all over again, and dipped the fuck out again. Itll be delicious revenge if op does not deign them any words, ignore like they did to your feelings. Just please dont turn dumb for the 3rd time with your old folks
How could a family celebrate a daughter taking the girl's fiance away from her? They should be mad at Emily for stealing her sister's fiance! , not being mad at the girl! Emily found her soulmate -Jake? What a joke! Emily stole her sister's love!
Wow… it’s clearly obvious that Emily is the golden child… op think about it like this… if Jake cheated on you with golden child… then one of em will do it to the other. Op just sit back and watch the show
I wouldn't have let the sister hug me. I would have told her. You are dead to me. Along with anyone who sides with you. Get out and never contact me again.
Family unity, INDEED. OP's fiance is cheating on her with her own sister and he decides to leave her and marry her sister. Then, 5 years later, Jake and Emily are struggling in life and OP is happy and successful and they have the NERVE to ask her for $75,000 to spare them from financial ruin. And I didn't hear ANY sort of sincere apology for what they did to her. The family calls OP selfish, when its the SISTER and FIANCE who are the selfish ones, lying and betraying her like that. I wouldn't help them either. They who dance must pay the fiddler. Sounds like they got a good dose of Karma. And then, Emily has the gall to be INSULTED when her big sister lays out some very clear boundaries, blocking her family and refusing to bail them out financially and they are trying to break into OP's home (probably to steal money). I STILL am not hearing any apology from the sister or the Mom.
Why do none of these people change their numbers? I’m just eye rolling at every story with people still having the same phone number and they wonder why they can still be contacted smh
I will never understand what people are thinking when they do things like this. Sister betrays OP, guilt trips her to accept it, asks her for money, assaults her when she refuses and thinks it's all ok!!?? That must be a serious level of arrogance, entitlement and delusion there. Then what the heck with the family?! They are all so messed up in the head they can't see how wrong supporting all of this is?! Good for OP for getting out on her own, finding peace and making a life for herself without these toxic whackjobs!!
WTF. The parents and her sister and ex are AH'S to even think she would help them. Tough sh*t. How do they think she would help them after being betrayed. It doesn't mean she would ever forgive them. I'm glad that they were arrested.
"Seeking revenge at this point in time would be petty." Woman revenge and not giving a flying F are 2 different things. She just doesn't care about that piece of gardening equipment you call a daughter.
.With a family like this who needs enemies . And why does Op even care if her family thinks she is the Villain in this situation. This was her mothers plan from the beginning , make Op feel bad .
I they told me to congratulate my sister and cheating ex boyfriend i would say "well, if my father cheated on you with another woman he claims to be his true love, would you be happy and congratulate them?"
Im glad my family would of been on the cheated spouses side and called them both out on this. Edit: My grandma wanted me to add that if the b tried to call for money, she'd tell her that sounds like a problem, then hang up.
Oh, the old i realize what we've done after seeing that the monster they raised will not only embarrass them but also drain their finances and likely turn violent on them and now the one they betrayed is the only one that can depend on for anything, especially now that they're getting older. Ah, yes. I'm sure they're truly remorseful. 😂 Break out the tiny violins.
Dating is useless now that shame is not a deterrent to women. Unless you are useless, ironically then dating is a necessity to cope with the burdens of life. Only useless people need others. Strong people appreciate people, not use them. Two strong people make a great couple, till the divorce, then they make two lawyers rich.
@@TakinOut betrayal of blood is thicker than betrayal of water. Or has been for 4,600 years recorded, nowadays it's different. Once more birth certificates became fraudulent than accurate we lost society. 51% of men on certificates have no blood relations. That's not on the men hunnybuns.
Even though im trying to become a Christian and should never dpeak about anyone i just cant hold it back. The fact the OPs ex tried to give the excuse "i proposed so i could stop thinking of your sister" just means that he KNEW what he was doing, and before yall say ofc he knew what he was doing let me just break down my analysis of why im saying this. OPs ex probably did want to forget about her sister but stil wanted a way to be in her sisters life, buut instead of literally just removing himself from that family to forget about the both of them and just telling OP the whole shabang he had with her sister and breakup with OP and move on with some other girl he decided to marry her because he knew that any family gathering they had he'd have a chance to see OPs sister. Ops ex never wanted to stop thinking about OPs sister he just wanted a way to still get to see her sister without looking suspicious🤦♀️
I must of been having a fucking stroke cause i had to read the title like 4 times cause i thought it said "Sister cheated with my dad on engagement day and my family supported her" What a roller coaster that was.
The stupid reason he gave. "I proposed so I would stop thinking of your sister". Just break up instead of cheating. Would have caused far less trouble.
In this situation it’s a lose-lose for OP. Even if they didn’t cheat and instead Jake broke up with her first, in the end it would still be her sister taking her fiancé away from her
@@FlipflopB Better than them cheating and the family supporting them then.
Yeah she loses either way, but she can be made that he left her for her sister instead of cheating after asking her to marry him.
@@Olimar92 I don't justify the cheating but them cheating showed their true colours hence giving the OP a heads up imo.
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Parents aren't sorry, they realise their golden child daughter is a broke nut job and can't rely on her for the last legs in life so, they're trying to weasel their way back into OP'S life and looks like it's working from the last update.
🎯 Exactly! I hope OP wises up to this as well and blocks them again. Her parents don’t love her, they just want to use her. I feel so sad for OP.
If he wanted to be with Emily so bad, and if they weren’t meant for each other, why not break up with OP and just date Emily? Why are people so stupid and shitty?
The million dollar question when it comes to cheaters.
Because the story is fAaAake *magical hands*
As my friends and I say, "Straight people are allergic to using their words." 😂
@@feywildgamingyt uhh what’s that supposed to mean? (I’m not arguing I’m just confused)
@roselockheart4346 my friends and I are all part of the lgbt community, and we've all noticed that straight relationships seem to be absolutely rife with communication issues. So many heterosexual couples act like they'll pass away if they just sit down and try to talk things out.
The family calls her selfish, when in reality her sister acted selfishly. Favoritism.
should have replied "i used to have a heart. you and your daughter, my ex sister, burned it."
@@thecursed01I am writing that one down 😂
With family like that who needs enemies?
" Sign a contract to give us money or else ehhhhhh" the entitlement....
Batman
The gaslighting from the sister, ex-fiancee and the mother is unbelievable... I hope this lady stays strong and does not give in to this manipulative ars*holes. the family does not care about her, they dont give a flying F about her, they just want to use her and discard her. This lady is better off without them. I would honestly file a restraining order for both the ex, the sister and the parents. The parents tears mean nothing considering the fact that they did not stand beside her when she was so deeply betrayed by her ex and her sister...
I'm just surprised that op didn't say to her mother 'oh i thought you were calling to tell me Jake had cheated on Emily, but this is so much better than that' and laughed
Or other way around, Emily cheated on Jake, than after laughing hang up because they're not worth the effort of staying on the phone call, the OPs always make that mistake, hang up immediately and you stay out of all the sh!t that comes after.
@@artemis_justiceaizawa5978
I crave Reddit drama so I'm happy majority of OP's don't 😌
Sad excuse for parents . The sister was definitely the golden child and they will let her back in. Op should block them because I agree the only reason they made nice is because she has money.
Golden is in trouble now. Arrested,no money,no house. OPs parents have already given what they have. So now,they're playing the long game. Grovel to OP. Get her to open the lines. Bide time to get close to her. Then later on when they really need her help,she will.
Ops family is really delusional and toxic. They basically want Op to forgive and forget. How can they sit there with smiles on their faces and basically say that cheating is ok but getting justifiably angry is being selfish and not being understanding?! And the father one to talk, what if his wife cheated on him with another man, would he be told to “forgive and forget”, that’s an obvious no cuz we all know that’s not going to happen, he’s going to get mad and ask for a divorce as every sane person would do if they caught their spouse cheating.
This was super sad. Honestly, if they were really remorseful, they had better not ask her for money later. I would definitely have left those lines of communication closed because of the possibility they want repayment for the money they lost on those two. Dude, if you loved her sister that much, you should have dumped her three months into the relationship or at the earliest convenience when you found out you liked her sister more. Why cheat on her? Especially on the day you proposed?! What a tool! OP, you're much better off without these idiots in your life. And hopefully, leaving open a channel of communication open with your parents doesn't backfire for you.
I hate when people try to use the shame tactics.😑
The parents are trying to get money. Block them. Grow a spine.
Tbh, the moment op's mom started talking about debt, I would've hung up
I would have been gone forever. No conversation, no concessions, they made theitnchoicr with smiles on their faces and could live with them forever.
The sister's comment of it being unfair made me roll my eyes SO hard, I nearly lost my contact lenses.
In the immortal words of One Republic its too late to apologize.
🤣🤣🤣 it always makes me lol when family don't support the other member that had been wronged and then go on to say they were being selfish!
Why do the neighbours in these stories never call the police? If I see someone making that much commotion outside my neighbour's house, Im calling the police, let the neighbour deal with them afterwards, because either way they'd know how to handle the situation after, I'm not calling them about it if I know they're at work, or if I know that those people are the ones in the wrong even if I don't know the whole situation, because it's a lot easier to call the police to handle the situation than to make someone come out of work to handle a situation that may have ended up in the police being needed anyways.
Parents aren't sorry. They realised one child has money in the future. Most likely will do their best to leech off that
Jake didn't have wasted 5 years of OP'S time. He didn't have to propose to OP. Emily didn't have to steal Jake from OP. Wasting someone's time is just as bad as cheating.
OP should have told the parents to leave and never return or they would end up like emily and jake and shut the door in their face. i would never have unblocked them because they only want money in their old age to replace what they spent on emily and jake
My thoughts exactly
It's called the rotten rope, the metaphot of a climber that grabs one of 2 ropes certain that the one on his hands is the firm, strong one only to find out during the climb that rope is worn out in the middle and he will fall.
Emily and Jake were the rotten rope, the parents didn't mind to let OP go thinking they had a stable future ahead with their Golden child.
A parent should never support one child over the other child . Cheating is wrong and it just happens is non sense (a cowards doge )
They made their bed. There’s absolutely no good reason for ANYONE to bail them out. Their poor choices led to their downfall.
I was really hoping that during the conversation with her mother, she would have said "after I was done laughing"
*masculine voice* "i am a 28 year old woman"
The testosterone imbalance goes hard here. 😂
Can’t stand those kinds of people. If a random, neutral stranger wouldn’t lend you that money, why would somone you hurt and wronged do it?
Breaking up and telling the OP the reason before getting engaged would have made the problem less of what it was...they could have avoided being arrested and maybe gotten a bit of help had they not all betrayed her.
Two times assault from Emily and Jake.
I would have said, "Well, tuff Sh**, bye!"
I will never understand guys or girls that leave their partner whom they have been with for literals for just someone who looks better
Like who cares if they look better you have spent a long time with the person you're currently with
The amount of trust and bond ya'll hold cannot be achieved by looks it takes time to reach that point
The mother is delusional if she thinks op is going to help Emily and Jake in anyway after what they did. I would’ve told them to never call me again. There are some things in life you can’t get over and the fact the entire family backed their cheating is appalling.
This was so heartbreaking. Honestly, if they were truly sorry, they should not ask her for money again. I would have kept those lines of contact closed since they could expect reimbursement for the money they lost on those two. Dude, if you truly loved her sister, you should have dumped her three months into the relationship, or as soon as you realized you preferred her sister. Why would you cheat on her? Especially on the day when you proposed?! What a tool! OP, you are far better off without these fools in your life. And, ideally, leaving a line of communication open with your parents will not backfire on you.
'Stop making it about yourself' Miss ma'am????
I can’t believe her mother had the audacity to ask her! Wow!
Don't throw good money after bad. I would laugh my head off in their face.
Why did Emily and Jake go to OP's house and harass her for money when, per her mom's story, she didn't ask before because of the incident 5 years prior? Something seems kinda fishy here...
I wouldve also unblock my parents like op did here, but this is where reddit clarity comes in and that may highly spare me from future pain ughhh
Its frustrating op let her parents peer in a bit into her life, but god knows her piss poor parents would take this opportunity to take a mile 😬🙄 i understand being blinded or not taking hindsights into consideration, but if that day comes where parents decided to foully strike, i hope she sticks to her guns, remember the betrayal all over again, and dipped the fuck out again. Itll be delicious revenge if op does not deign them any words, ignore like they did to your feelings. Just please dont turn dumb for the 3rd time with your old folks
The parents are delusional for sure
As my mom would say if you love two people pick the second one because if you love the first one there would not be a second one
How could a family celebrate a daughter taking the girl's fiance away from her? They should be mad at Emily for stealing her sister's fiance! , not being mad at the girl! Emily found her soulmate -Jake? What a joke! Emily stole her sister's love!
Wow… it’s clearly obvious that Emily is the golden child… op think about it like this… if Jake cheated on you with golden child… then one of em will do it to the other. Op just sit back and watch the show
I wouldn't have let the sister hug me. I would have told her. You are dead to me. Along with anyone who sides with you. Get out and never contact me again.
my god, these better be scripts and not real stories, like HOW in the hell can this happen ahahahahh
Family unity, INDEED. OP's fiance is cheating on her with her own sister and he decides to leave her and marry her sister. Then, 5 years later, Jake and Emily are struggling in life and OP is happy and successful and they have the NERVE to ask her for $75,000 to spare them from financial ruin. And I didn't hear ANY sort of sincere apology for what they did to her. The family calls OP selfish, when its the SISTER and FIANCE who are the selfish ones, lying and betraying her like that. I wouldn't help them either. They who dance must pay the fiddler. Sounds like they got a good dose of Karma. And then, Emily has the gall to be INSULTED when her big sister lays out some very clear boundaries, blocking her family and refusing to bail them out financially and they are trying to break into OP's home (probably to steal money). I STILL am not hearing any apology from the sister or the Mom.
Restraining order and a ghun helps to have
Why do none of these people change their numbers? I’m just eye rolling at every story with people still having the same phone number and they wonder why they can still be contacted smh
Mom calls OP selfish but not Emily? And good money after bad? OP is in the right here.
People who do this get special suffering when karma decides to strike.
Some people just shameless
Most businesses that don’t succeed don’t need more money but better leadership
This family is crazy... If I were, I'd have NOTHING to do with them for the rest of my life
this has to be an AI written video, it spent like 4 minutes just repeating the same thing over and over again
NTA: Emily & Jake had made there bed and now have to lay in it. Op get an RO against your family
I will never understand what people are thinking when they do things like this. Sister betrays OP, guilt trips her to accept it, asks her for money, assaults her when she refuses and thinks it's all ok!!?? That must be a serious level of arrogance, entitlement and delusion there. Then what the heck with the family?! They are all so messed up in the head they can't see how wrong supporting all of this is?! Good for OP for getting out on her own, finding peace and making a life for herself without these toxic whackjobs!!
Time to change the phone number.
good story but here`s a pinch of salt for us all😂😅
The neighbors should have just called the police
WTF. The parents and her sister and ex are AH'S to even think she would help them. Tough sh*t. How do they think she would help them after being betrayed. It doesn't mean she would ever forgive them. I'm glad that they were arrested.
The whole lesson of this story is that when you play shitty games, you win shitty prizes.
Ugh.. how tacky! The girl's fiance used the girl to get close to the sister???
"Seeking revenge at this point in time would be petty."
Woman revenge and not giving a flying F are 2 different things. She just doesn't care about that piece of gardening equipment you call a daughter.
Therapist: it's a free real estate.
heck I wouldn't have even unblocked them or even answered the door
I wouldn't have slammed the door right in her face saying it's not my problem
So...they accused her of creating drama as they stood in her front yard causing drama.
.With a family like this who needs enemies .
And why does Op even care if her family thinks she is the Villain in this situation. This was her mothers plan from the beginning , make Op feel bad .
If it was me I would never speak to my sister again! How could she go with my fiance? She knew I am going to marry him!
Parents ain’t sorry, they just want someone with money to support them in future…
It makes her think twice before bringing a new love to the family so Emily could screw the new guy??
I would have been wondering what the catch was.
They would never pay you back even if they could
Mom: The two people who cheated and destroyed you emotionally need you to loan them $75000
You: Bahahahaha *click*….. aaaaannnnd *blocked*
I they told me to congratulate my sister and cheating ex boyfriend i would say "well, if my father cheated on you with another woman he claims to be his true love, would you be happy and congratulate them?"
Forgiveness doesnt mean continuing a relationship
More like parents were not willing to live without the cash cow in their life ! So they ditched the broken ones and consoled the cash cow
These stories are so fake it’s laughable lmao
Well I don't understand is y o p didn't just decide to leave?! I would have left town and they would have never saw me again
He wanted your sister from the start.
Maybe lend them $75 dollars. But $75,000?
This is so ridiculous it almost sounds so fake
Im glad my family would of been on the cheated spouses side and called them both out on this.
Edit: My grandma wanted me to add that if the b tried to call for money, she'd tell her that sounds like a problem, then hang up.
Excuse me but he KNOCKED THE PHONE OUT OF HER HAND?!?!?! Aw hell nah!
Oh, the old i realize what we've done after seeing that the monster they raised will not only embarrass them but also drain their finances and likely turn violent on them and now the one they betrayed is the only one that can depend on for anything, especially now that they're getting older. Ah, yes. I'm sure they're truly remorseful. 😂 Break out the tiny violins.
i wouldent give emily and jake a cent they can become homeless for all i care if they were my fam ;p
Dating is useless now that shame is not a deterrent to women. Unless you are useless, ironically then dating is a necessity to cope with the burdens of life. Only useless people need others. Strong people appreciate people, not use them. Two strong people make a great couple, till the divorce, then they make two lawyers rich.
Shame wasn’t a deterrent to this man either, unless men just always get a hall pass now?
@@TakinOut betrayal of blood is thicker than betrayal of water. Or has been for 4,600 years recorded, nowadays it's different. Once more birth certificates became fraudulent than accurate we lost society. 51% of men on certificates have no blood relations. That's not on the men hunnybuns.
Even though im trying to become a Christian and should never dpeak about anyone i just cant hold it back.
The fact the OPs ex tried to give the excuse "i proposed so i could stop thinking of your sister" just means that he KNEW what he was doing, and before yall say ofc he knew what he was doing let me just break down my analysis of why im saying this. OPs ex probably did want to forget about her sister but stil wanted a way to be in her sisters life, buut instead of literally just removing himself from that family to forget about the both of them and just telling OP the whole shabang he had with her sister and breakup with OP and move on with some other girl he decided to marry her because he knew that any family gathering they had he'd have a chance to see OPs sister. Ops ex never wanted to stop thinking about OPs sister he just wanted a way to still get to see her sister without looking suspicious🤦♀️
the story is ia 😂😂
I must of been having a fucking stroke cause i had to read the title like 4 times cause i thought it said
"Sister cheated with my dad on engagement day and my family supported her"
What a roller coaster that was.
I SWAER THIS IS A REALLY SIMILAR STORY TO ANOTHER?
There should be a gore revenge movie for this i think 😡
This is the king fake of all the fake stories in fake-land. Absolutely everybody's behavior is so far outside the realm of remotely normal behavior.
🤨 Really?… I call B.S.
Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope! Get a job.
Nah this has to be fake, i refuse people can be this un self unaware.
god this is so, so bad...
This story is bullshit 😂😂
Is it just me or does this channels story ending always seem rushed and incomplete
I would have loved to say no to those terrible people
Fake story
We came here because we want nothing from you.
Fake as hell