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Q&A Episode 6| Relationships (Long Distance) in Residency

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  • Опубліковано 13 бер 2021
  • Welcome back to my channel! In this episode of my weekly Q&A I answer a few questions related to relationships including long distance relationships and how to navigate relationships in residency.
    It is hard to keep up with the numerous questions receive so I hope this new format will allow me to answer more of the most common questions I get asked and have a reference playlist for people to find answers to common. If you enjoy this video style, please let me know in the comments as I would love to hear your feedback. If you have any questions you would like answered in future videos, ask your questions in the comments or over on my instagram page and I will do my best to answer them in future videos!
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    Some of you may know me by my Instagram handle Fifteenblades. My name is Dr. Rola Rabah. I am a fourth-year Oral & maxillofacial resident completing my 6-year residency to become a dual MD DDS degree Oral surgeon. Follow my channel for weekly videos covering a variety of topics including residency, fashion, and health.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 63

  • @DonzellLampkins
    @DonzellLampkins 3 роки тому +18

    You and Chris have such a healthy relationship! You addressed so many great topics like being with a partner that isn’t intimidated by your demanding career/accolades, being with someone that’s supportive of what’s important to you, and recognizing that it won’t always be equal. That is important to embrace because love is about giving without expecting anything in return. It also sounds like you and Chris are of different ethnic groups so it’s also important to be open minded about who you may end up with. So glad that you both are able to fully accept and embrace each other. And can’t wait for you to finally marry your love in Sept 2021!

    • @adamayman7245
      @adamayman7245 3 роки тому +1

      Not necessarily brother. This relationship will not be healthy until Chris becomes a Muslim. There will be pressure for him that until he quits drinking alcohol, quits doing haram stuff on social media with Dr Rabah, the Muslim community like me will pressure Dr Rabah to make him convert so he doesn’t force her to change her last name to his or make the children Christian like him

  • @toddray275
    @toddray275 3 роки тому +5

    I am Sooo Praying that my daughters are as patient and Wise as You as they search for partners. I am Praying you a Life filled with Love and Purpose.

  • @karthikadevi6161
    @karthikadevi6161 3 роки тому +17

    What is Chris’s ethnicity? I thought he was Syrian!

  • @shoppppping
    @shoppppping 3 роки тому +1

    You are always glowing! :) Another fabulous video! Love your content girl

  • @hashimshaaban8991
    @hashimshaaban8991 3 роки тому +2

    Yess!! I've recently subscribed and followed you on insta. Big fan! :)

  • @heelamomand899
    @heelamomand899 3 роки тому +2

    I look forward to you a lot dr.Rabah . Love you 😍

  • @adamdfc9809
    @adamdfc9809 3 роки тому +3

    Ramadan Mubarak to all of yall!!

  • @wardahjavid3559
    @wardahjavid3559 6 місяців тому

    Salam Alaikum, in law school right now, but I was a pre-med student. I just stayed around watching your videos. Thank you so much for being an inspiration! My question is do doctors (esp surgeons or specialists) date/marry people who are not doctors or not in the medical field? How do doctors feel about dating lawyers? What do doctors look in a wife (I'm asking as a girl lol) or husband (asking if any guys are curious), and what do doctors like to do in their free time or where do they hang out?

  • @susanlopez7632
    @susanlopez7632 3 роки тому +1

    Dr. Rola, please please please make a video on how to find dental mentors. I am transferring to a university soon & want to get some traction on my experience & resume. I want to be competitive for OMFS.

  • @rayahusami8468
    @rayahusami8468 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for sharing about your relationship and for the tips! I always appreciate learning from your experiences and wisdom! They are great examples of healthy and lovely life choices!

    • @Islam-life-h5k
      @Islam-life-h5k 3 роки тому +1

      If you are Muslim, partnership is haram in islam. Most of the educated arabs are atheists and go for it.

    • @rayahusami8468
      @rayahusami8468 3 роки тому +3

      @@Islam-life-h5k Your assumptions and judgement, especially in front of others, will weigh heavy on your scales. Just something to think about!

  • @Hukkmb
    @Hukkmb 3 роки тому +1

    Doc. When will open your own clinic? I would visit

  • @adamayman7245
    @adamayman7245 3 роки тому +2

    وَلَا تَنۡكِحُوا الۡمُشۡرِكٰتِ حَتّٰى يُؤۡمِنَّ​ؕ وَلَاَمَةٌ مُّؤۡمِنَةٌ خَيۡرٌ مِّنۡ مُّشۡرِكَةٍ وَّلَوۡ اَعۡجَبَتۡكُمۡ​ۚ وَلَا تُنۡكِحُوا الۡمُشۡرِكِيۡنَ حَتّٰى يُؤۡمِنُوۡا ​ؕ وَلَعَبۡدٌ مُّؤۡمِنٌ خَيۡرٌ مِّنۡ مُّشۡرِكٍ وَّلَوۡ اَعۡجَبَكُمۡؕ اُولٰٓـئِكَ يَدۡعُوۡنَ اِلَى النَّارِ  ۖۚ وَاللّٰهُ يَدۡعُوۡٓا اِلَى الۡجَـنَّةِ وَالۡمَغۡفِرَةِ بِاِذۡنِهٖ​ۚ وَيُبَيِّنُ اٰيٰتِهٖ لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمۡ يَتَذَكَّرُو ‏

  • @christydoan6259
    @christydoan6259 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you Dr. Rabah for this video 💓. Out of curiosity, I'm aware that there are residents that are married but are there any omfs residents that are able to have kids during their residency? I know it shouldn't matter as life never goes according to plan but I'm genuinely curious.

  • @AndreeaDiana
    @AndreeaDiana 3 роки тому

    Loved it! Your biggest asmr fan is here🥰

  • @callalys
    @callalys 3 роки тому

    I look for extra help on how to get rid of a post-covid syndrome with
    brain fog, headache and dizziness? Any tipps for recovery?

  • @adamayman7245
    @adamayman7245 3 роки тому +8

    (2:221) Marry not the women who associate others with Allah in His Divinity until they believe; for a believing slave-girl is better than a (free, respectable) woman who associates others with Allah in His Divinity, even though she might please you. Likewise, do not give your women in marriage to men who associate others with Allah in His Divinity until they believe; for a believing slave is better than a (free, respectable) man who associates others with Allah in His Divinity, even though he might please you. Such people call you towards the Fire,237 and Allah calls you, by His leave, towards Paradise and forgiveness; and He makes His injunctions clear to people so that they may take heed.
    You must leave that Kaafir Christopher who drinks alcohol Dr Rabah

    • @Islam-life-h5k
      @Islam-life-h5k 3 роки тому +3

      I think it is the responsibility of the parents living in states or Canada to tell the fundamentals to their children . Her old mother is wearing hijab and support her daughter in haram relationship.

    • @adamayman7245
      @adamayman7245 3 роки тому

      @@Islam-life-h5k please write this on her Instagram page, not here. I wrote it but we need to tell her in Instagram that this is Haram

    • @AA-xw7gm
      @AA-xw7gm 2 роки тому

      Its in the koran very clearly. sad for her whatever accomplishments she has she failed herself in the end

    • @adamayman7245
      @adamayman7245 2 роки тому

      @@AA-xw7gm Rola Rabah failed, pharmacy is temporary. The afterlife is forever. Whether she believes it or not. Preserving culture and listening to your parents are extremely important. You claim to be Muslim but behind the scenes are drinking alcohol and having sex with your boyfriend, staying together. Double standards hypocrite

  • @ClaudiaPolanco1
    @ClaudiaPolanco1 3 роки тому +1

    How’s the relationship with your sisters ?

  • @randomthoughtstoday
    @randomthoughtstoday 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful Doctor :)

  • @hasiriacosta230
    @hasiriacosta230 3 роки тому

    How were you able to travel in med or dental school? Any tips ?!

  • @reinejs9092
    @reinejs9092 3 роки тому +1

    How did you guys meet?

  • @gracefulcher609
    @gracefulcher609 3 роки тому

    How many years do you have to study to be a doctor and how hard is being a doctor

  • @adamayman7245
    @adamayman7245 3 роки тому +5

    Is your fiancé Muslim?

  • @dr.abdulkaderhabra
    @dr.abdulkaderhabra 3 роки тому +2

    بالتوفيق دكتورة 🇸🇾🌹
    God bless you 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @ClaudiaPolanco1
    @ClaudiaPolanco1 3 роки тому

    Hardships in medical residency/ being a women in medical field ??

  • @RIYASHARMA-fk9up
    @RIYASHARMA-fk9up 3 роки тому

    Hello mam I just want to know that oral and maxillofacial surgeons do night shift as well ??? Becoz m also in the same race

  • @agdayem
    @agdayem 2 роки тому +1

    Chris is assumably Christian.
    And your are Muslim (I saw a video you pray and fast).
    You know that it’s not possible for a Muslim woman to marry a Christian or non-Muslim right?!

  • @riyaisnotokay
    @riyaisnotokay 8 місяців тому

    Communication is impossible when we can’t talk for weeks

  • @cahlelammon2846
    @cahlelammon2846 3 роки тому +2

    More videos in Arabic! That was amazing!!

  • @Alialjanaby_iq
    @Alialjanaby_iq 3 роки тому

    Can you make a video. With Arabic language. I'm a thanking you for your representation.
    تحياتي لك من العراق .

  • @mahendrapatel3478
    @mahendrapatel3478 2 роки тому

    Nice

  • @wendykrikke8248
    @wendykrikke8248 3 роки тому

    Still happy with your vaccine

  • @rahafhussein7938
    @rahafhussein7938 3 роки тому +1

    How old are you

  • @ktexplore2781
    @ktexplore2781 3 роки тому

    What is your full name doctor?

  • @justsomebody2728
    @justsomebody2728 3 роки тому +1

    I know you are Arab women because your name is Arabic name💗💗💗💗
    New subscriber from Iraq love you✌💗

  • @GTA-zk7yu
    @GTA-zk7yu 3 роки тому +3

    Are you Muslim in faith?

    • @adamayman7245
      @adamayman7245 3 роки тому +4

      She does not sound Muslim. We will continue to advice her not to claim she is Muslim by marrying a Christian man named Christopher. It won’t work like that, it is in the Quran and Hadiths that literally instruct Muslim woman to marry Muslim men. The race doesn’t matter, religion does. If this man is drinking alcohol in front of her how can she practice Islam? Her future husband will make her change her last name which is also against the Sunnah of the Prophet. There’s so many things I could say

    • @agdayem
      @agdayem 2 роки тому

      Unfortunately we have arrived at the age where people call themselves Muslim because that’s their parents religion but know nothing about Islam nor practice it. Clearly this is the case when a “Muslim” married a non-Muslim.
      It was true when my wise uncle advised me “son, never leave your Muslim country even if you think you will have a better dunya or life in a kafir country. You will lose your children and if not children then gradnshikdren for sure.” This is the exact case for this doctor who her parents wronged by taking her to a pagan country.

    • @GTA-zk7yu
      @GTA-zk7yu 2 роки тому

      @@agdayem you are an extremist. And we should respect all the religions and faiths. And I don’t agree with you in anything that you mentioned.

    • @agdayem
      @agdayem 2 роки тому

      @@GTA-zk7yu With all respect, when it comes over what God has ordered us as MUSLIMS to do and then someone doesn’t, then that person and the whole world deserves to know that it’s not right. Call it what you will. I don’t care. Islam and the Quran are clear. Now go play GTA, GTA.

    • @GTA-zk7yu
      @GTA-zk7yu 2 роки тому

      @@agdayem you are pissed off. Drink water and be a good Muslim because anger is Haram in Islam.

  • @user-yv8ys4nv4z
    @user-yv8ys4nv4z 3 роки тому

    رحمة لوالديچ فعلي الترجمة بالعربي حتى نفتهم

  • @sfbnnncmv
    @sfbnnncmv 3 роки тому +1

    😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴

  • @wendykrikke5982
    @wendykrikke5982 3 роки тому

    No new video im only looking how she is doing because of the vaccination

    • @Fifteenblades
      @Fifteenblades  3 роки тому +1

      I’m doing fine, just been busy. New QA coming Thursday! Thanks for checking in

  • @devashissatapathy
    @devashissatapathy 3 роки тому

    You are so cute ❤️

  • @user-md5ip4mh8j
    @user-md5ip4mh8j 2 роки тому

    لا للف الأصبعين
    موسيقى العلم 2021 أعيُن الشجر
    وعليكم السلام

  • @Batman-vr6jp
    @Batman-vr6jp 3 роки тому

    Relationship sucks....

  • @900KING2
    @900KING2 3 роки тому

    The fellas wanna see your feet.

  • @adamayman7245
    @adamayman7245 3 роки тому +2

    وَلَا تَنۡكِحُوا الۡمُشۡرِكٰتِ حَتّٰى يُؤۡمِنَّ​ؕ وَلَاَمَةٌ مُّؤۡمِنَةٌ خَيۡرٌ مِّنۡ مُّشۡرِكَةٍ وَّلَوۡ اَعۡجَبَتۡكُمۡ​ۚ وَلَا تُنۡكِحُوا الۡمُشۡرِكِيۡنَ حَتّٰى يُؤۡمِنُوۡا ​ؕ وَلَعَبۡدٌ مُّؤۡمِنٌ خَيۡرٌ مِّنۡ مُّشۡرِكٍ وَّلَوۡ اَعۡجَبَكُمۡؕ اُولٰٓـئِكَ يَدۡعُوۡنَ اِلَى النَّارِ  ۖۚ وَاللّٰهُ يَدۡعُوۡٓا اِلَى الۡجَـنَّةِ وَالۡمَغۡفِرَةِ بِاِذۡنِهٖ​ۚ وَيُبَيِّنُ اٰيٰتِهٖ لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمۡ يَتَذَكَّرُوۡنَ ‏
    Do not claim to be Muslim by marrying Christopher Dr Rola Rabah, there is still time. He must stop drinking alcohol and become a Muslim, otherwise your marriage will not be accepted in the Muslim community
    Surah Baqarah says even a believing slave is better than a polytheist. You did so much Haram stuff with this man, he’s going to make you change your last name to his and make sure your kids aren’t Muslim. By him
    Drinking alcohol, your kids will not be Muslim as the Prophet said alcohol is clearly haram for a Muslim to drink and Hell has a special place for the disbelievers but also those who drink

    • @alab7931
      @alab7931 3 роки тому

      Wow maybe you can spend some more time reading the Quran and understanding it instead of being a judgmental jerk. You don’t even know these people 🙄

    • @ambreenmalik1904
      @ambreenmalik1904 2 роки тому

      I.always.much.carefull.about.these.types.of.sestive.matters.its.do
      Tubas.personal.matter.