I'm having a bit of a dark day.

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  • Опубліковано 23 січ 2025

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  • @jamaalwilliams2241
    @jamaalwilliams2241 День тому +2

    Thank you for sharing the message it had me in deep thought

  • @Alan_Watkin
    @Alan_Watkin День тому +1

    Sorry to here you've had a crappy day, i think feeling like that when you think of loss is pretty normal and i know from my own experience it can take a long time before it fully sinks in that they're not there anymore.
    i would for ages after my mum past, think to call her to ask or tell her something, i remember wondering if that would ever go away, which at some point it did, i don't when though really it just sort of did.
    its hard but with a little time it gets easier, and the longer time goes on the more you come to terms with it...
    But you shouldn't let that bring you down yet.. Though probs easier for me to say i know

    • @PositivelyRadiantAlexis
      @PositivelyRadiantAlexis  17 годин тому +1

      yeah it's just knowing the time is coming but also after he passes i only have my mom left. and when she passes i'll be all alone. and that scares me most of all.
      my mom was never there for me only my dad kinda was and knowing that i will lose him soon it's just a fear i don't know how to describe. almost like how parents of addicts say that they are waiting for a call from the morgue and they wish they could stop worrying. it almost feels like that. an incoming pain i won't be able to stop. i am a very emotional person and it's gonna be bad for me i already know that.

    • @Alan_Watkin
      @Alan_Watkin 15 годин тому

      @@PositivelyRadiantAlexis i understand i really do, i coped with that by almost sort of blanking it out. It dont really help when it happens though, maybe even left me even less prepared. but discounting the distance you not totally on your own. an you do at least have someone to talk to... always here..

  • @engleharddinglefester4285
    @engleharddinglefester4285 День тому +1

    Bad days have to happen. Try again tomorrow and if that doesn't work, give it time (This I Must Endure).
    I don't want to take a chance on a cat. We had a cat Pookah. I miss him all the time. He was a clown and a lot of fun. Long hair tuxedo cat. Now the vet bills are so high in America I just don't want to take the risk. Not having an indoor pet sucks but we have a lot of outdoor birds, squirrels, and chipmunks.
    We had 2 greyhounds from the local race track. Sweet, affectionate animals. Miss them every day. Some of the most fun I've ever had.

    • @PositivelyRadiantAlexis
      @PositivelyRadiantAlexis  17 годин тому +1

      that is very true, I'm wondering like what would an insurance be for a cat there. that might solve your problem.
      vet bills aren't cheap here either especially without an insurance.
      the love pet's give kind off makes me forget about the money they often cost. ❤️

    • @engleharddinglefester4285
      @engleharddinglefester4285 13 годин тому

      @@PositivelyRadiantAlexis Pookah used to poop under my bed. :) He mostly used to do his business outdoors though. I thought he was funny as hell. Health insurance is an idea.
      Back when we had the greyhounds they were $65/ea to get them spayed. Now it's over $1000. I can hardly believe it, $65.