Third Choice: Verb Vs. Noun

“Why would I want to participate with her (Amanda) in labelling her and limiting her with the labels - you’re generous, you’re not generous, you’re kind, you’re not kind, you’re courageous, you’re cowardly, you’re organised, you’re disorganised. None of these things help anybody. None of them are even accurate for more than one or two seconds before everything changes. Life itself is nothing but changes. Change is another word for life."
This chapter points at the flexibility available to us in how we choose to identify, how we choose to show up and who we choose to be.
We are not a fixed "thing"; we are ever-changing states of being.