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  • @nkosanazweni8073
    @nkosanazweni8073 11 місяців тому +13

    Well sister, in SA it's family time after 17h00, there's a saying in SA that goes " There's life after work"

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому +4

      Yesssss I love that. That's def something I'm trying to adopt more in my life. There's more to life than just work! Appreciate you fam!

  • @tshepomoletsane9764
    @tshepomoletsane9764 11 місяців тому +13

    Sounds like you are trying to have a US experience in South Africa. Enjoy South Africa and its beauty, relax and enjoy the convenience of family over (inconvenience of shopping during late hours) everyone has a family even workers and cashiers. Its a tradeoff of priorities - Work Life Family - Balance. The Convenience Store / Shop at the Filling Stations are for those quick snacks, everything outside of that if you think about it you need to prepare. As for online shopping, its gaining traction and trust factor but has to content with outdoor family experience. PS. Think Makro is partly/if not wholly Walmart owned.

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому +3

      Thank you for your comment, friend! It's def a learning curve for me to relax but I'm getting there! Lol

  • @nomfunekonosilela3895
    @nomfunekonosilela3895 11 місяців тому +5

    The reason is also spatial residential planning. Most workers live far from their places of work and use public transport which doesn't run 24hrs. So they have to leave work whilst public transport is still available.

  • @kgothatsotompane6388
    @kgothatsotompane6388 11 місяців тому +5

    We need more people like you who can help change how the systems works. Sometimes giving a bit of criticism can help people to do things differently. We as South Africans sometimes complain but it comes across as a personal attack instead of someone taking it as constructive criticism to help improve how things are done. We also get impatient and frustrated you just need to address the situation at times. So that you can be heard. Or just move to someone who can give better services. Never settle for less.

    • @Scar_7.62
      @Scar_7.62 11 місяців тому

      Complain and they label you Ken or Karen ! You learn to suffer in silence .

  • @Og8821
    @Og8821 11 місяців тому +6

    Take the fast lane on high ways. Speed limit is 120 km though

  • @clantis
    @clantis 11 місяців тому +4

    This was a fun and informative video to watch, and now that you've mentioned some of the changes, I didn't even realized them. You're absolutely right, sense of urgency especially in business is very important. I truly appreciated the honesty, Dee. Great video as always. Please greet Paul for me as well.

    • @thetad1242
      @thetad1242 11 місяців тому

      Dude I'm still shocked at your echo chambers of a channel and your fetish for criminality. I guess you give your audience what they want to hear. I doubt you genuinely believe all the things you say there. At any rate, wasn't it Voltaire who said "I disagree with you greatly but I'll defend to death your write to be heard". I have to remind myself that I have signed and aligned myself to that view.

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому

      Aye my brother! Thank you and will def tell him you say hey! 😊

  • @philad1439
    @philad1439 11 місяців тому +2

    Am always happy listening to ur vlogs and I am glad u like SA so far. It sounds like u really at home at last

  • @elialvah
    @elialvah 11 місяців тому

    Some of the things we definitely need to change. Like lack of urgency. Some of the things we’re not trying to change. Workers and cashiers have family too. You will adjust and plan your shopping accordingly. Give it time sis, your spirit is still adjusting. Soon you won’t even want to be shopping late night and wonder why you ever needed to.

  • @Neo_Mabuse
    @Neo_Mabuse 10 місяців тому

    There's always a room for improvement. That's what makes nations great. 12:41

  • @DebbiePoroza
    @DebbiePoroza 11 місяців тому +1

    😅 you will get used to the change sisi, welcome to South Africa 🎉

  • @ntokozo7216
    @ntokozo7216 11 місяців тому +4

    Look the filtering part you just mentioned happens on websites or apps that i think are not heavily invested on reason being would be makro for example primary focus or revenue is brick and motar trading and not necessarily online whereas takelot which is e commerce is online based and should have a more convenient way for its customers to shop so its not that we don't notice that it companies that do not invest that much on e commerce

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому +1

      That's a good point! See, I love comments like this. Thank you for sharing your perspective, definitely helps open my eyes!

    • @ntokozo7216
      @ntokozo7216 11 місяців тому

      @@DeeesLife pleasure is all mine Mrs I think as a side hustle you should try and enter the e commerce industry don't you think?

  • @SiphoMkize
    @SiphoMkize 11 місяців тому

    Favorite kids spot at Malls is Magic Company and Ice skating

  • @Bhebe40
    @Bhebe40 11 місяців тому +4

    What kind of security runs with the people 😅😅, you me laughing sis

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому +3

      They be the first ones out the door! Loll

  • @SiphoMkize
    @SiphoMkize 11 місяців тому

    Spur Steak Ranch kids love it🎉

  • @amarut6208
    @amarut6208 11 місяців тому +6

    There's too much GMO on American food compared to South African and Italy. You should eat more organic food instead, just my 2 cent on that. But otherwise I love your videos, in fact I watch a lot of AAs who visit/relocate to Mzansi and hear their reactions, opinions and cultural shocks 😁😁, It makes me love and appreciate my beautiful South Africa even more while learning about your respective states also.
    Thanks for sharing your experience Dee.

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому

      It's beautiful! And I haven't even really gone anywhere lol #embarrassed 😅😊

  • @Malisti04
    @Malisti04 10 місяців тому

    The room for negotiation is not often explored by everyone hey.... often the sales person does not have authority to grant it or we are afraid to ask.

  • @siyabonganxumalo4574
    @siyabonganxumalo4574 11 місяців тому

    Thanks sisi. We appreciate your honest opinion.

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому +1

      Always! I try to be as honest and kind as I can be. Thank you!

  • @shopekassie
    @shopekassie 11 місяців тому

    As a South African, I welcome your input.

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому

      I appreciate you and your beautiful country! 🙏🏾

  • @shaunmarole8082
    @shaunmarole8082 11 місяців тому

    Love your honesty ...😢😂😂

  • @mrr4031
    @mrr4031 11 місяців тому

    On driving, traffic police used to be strict about the fast and slow lanes. After realizing that it was promoting law breaking and road rage, due to some drivers feeling entitled, they stopped enforcing it.

    • @bonganibophela2819
      @bonganibophela2819 11 місяців тому

      That''s not the reason they are just lax on enforcing rules, how do "keep left pass right rule" create entitlement? I grew up in the 80s and driving was a bliss because everyone adhered to the rules you overtake and get back to the left lane the fast lane was always free now you find a person driving at 40kmphon the right lane.

  • @mariemieny5100
    @mariemieny5100 10 місяців тому

    Get Checkers Sixty/60 to deliver your groceries at work! ;-) then you can go straight home and relax! (I use to do that!) (unless you wortk at home - get them to deliver anyway!)! ;-)

  • @mbusomhlongo579
    @mbusomhlongo579 11 місяців тому +1

    Happy Living sister.

  • @thetad1242
    @thetad1242 11 місяців тому +2

    80m/h is about 130km/h. Driving at 160km/h or 170km/h at a 120km/h zone is an arrestable offence

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому

      Ooo chile, I aint trying to get arrested now lol

    • @thetad1242
      @thetad1242 11 місяців тому +1

      @@DeeesLife lol but you can get away with a fine at 159km/h so keep going(the aim is to not get court). 🫣

  • @ThomsoyaWires-mb3wk
    @ThomsoyaWires-mb3wk 11 місяців тому

    Good information

  • @naBhuda1
    @naBhuda1 10 місяців тому

    Perhaps u can offer filtering services.. sounds like u have a good business idea. Partner with young SAns and also offer internships for students to transfer skills

  • @ThomasShabangu-l3o
    @ThomasShabangu-l3o 10 місяців тому

    They close early, because of family time, very important here.

  • @hopes9451
    @hopes9451 11 місяців тому

    You are right, I always negotiate for a discount if I'm purchasing goods worth a bit more money compared to other customers, and I always get it, whether it's for furniture or cleaning materials at my favourite West Pack Lifestyle store in my area.

  • @crude-za
    @crude-za 11 місяців тому +3

    On the driving, you will collect a lot of speeding tickets coz the speed limit is 120 in SA. You can't drive over that 😂😂😂

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому +1

      Haha! I'm not trying to get any tickets that for sure! 😂

    • @crude-za
      @crude-za 11 місяців тому

      @@DeeesLife ☝🏾😂😂😂

  • @Yogirlmello
    @Yogirlmello 11 місяців тому

    On shops closing earlier, largely Africa doesn't have night life and our Malls are not in the big cities where you have overcrowding and too much crime at night. the culture here so far is that night time and Sundays are family time and to get some rest, perhaps the working from home might change that in the future where people have some time at night and shops have numbers then the reason to open at night, economically it makes sense to run 24/7 when it allows but these days we are told of Climate Change perhaps that the reason Africa reset and minimise pollution at night.

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому +1

      Yeah thays something folks in the states are not used to but can DEFINITELY benefit from. Community, family, spend time with loved ones is a beautiful thing that is needed more

  • @Cebo88
    @Cebo88 11 місяців тому

    Thst general sales tax thing irritated me when I was in the US. VAT makes life easier.

  • @somaphungarsa
    @somaphungarsa 11 місяців тому

    Welcome to the Motherland Africa obviously this is not the west that is why we don't operate according to their ways, we operate according to the humanity/Ubuntu standards which is fair to all human beings not certain people or races but all people deserves a time also to expirience life out there with their families as well, Danko, we ❤you and appreciate you a lot for choosing us to live with us as well it's a great achievement for the country to have you with us, Amen.

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому

      Absolutely! Thank you friend! I know I've got a long ways to go. I appreciate you!

  • @za9940
    @za9940 10 місяців тому

    There is no hurry in South Africa ,never ever, you will get used to it .

  • @kabelontobo303
    @kabelontobo303 11 місяців тому +4

    But that's why you guys are all on anti-depressants because you are always on go-go-go which is harmful for you in the long run. We love how we are and expect the people who come here to get with the program or very nicely go back to where things are the way they prefer. How do the Americans say "love it or leave it". We are who we are and that's what makes us, us. Every South African who has had an opportunity to visit abroad will tell you how cold the people are and that might be because you guys are always in crisis mode. We close early because we realize that people are not robots and need that time off to reconnect with their loved ones. Respectfully we love ourselves just the way we are.

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому +1

      Don't ever change! There is so much that people from the west can learn from beautiful people like yourselves

  • @ThamiNdlalane
    @ThamiNdlalane 10 місяців тому

    Speed kills, just relax. Your life will be lengthened too😊

  • @molefejappie3284
    @molefejappie3284 11 місяців тому

    You Nailed it girl!!! It shows that western world is not similar to our world. You rush you gonna have a burn out.
    Our times at work is regulated by work man compensation. A person in S.A. is not allowed to work more than 9hours a day, unless your work in a hospital and working extra hours means your employer must pay you overtime money.
    Workers in S.A. were exploited too much during apartheid so our democratic goverment is very cautious about that. Anyway enjoy your stay in South Africa and know that South Africans love you.

  • @Hlonela100
    @Hlonela100 11 місяців тому +1

    The walls arent only for security ..their real name is StopNonsense.. meaning you dont wanna see what youre neighbours are upto & visa versa, including you guys that are touring.. what if im skinny deeping? And you're busy with your binoculars? No

  • @SiphoMkize
    @SiphoMkize 11 місяців тому

    Labour laws for employment n SA is 45 hours per week,
    In weekend we need to chill , we can't work,, work, work, work,
    Laws were changed so that they can also accommodate a majority of black working class to spend time with their families

  • @SiphoMkize
    @SiphoMkize 11 місяців тому

    Normal speed 120

  • @bernardsouthy7269
    @bernardsouthy7269 11 місяців тому +2

    170km/h? Straight to jail....no negotiations there

  • @mohaumosai3758
    @mohaumosai3758 11 місяців тому

    Speed limit on our highways is 120 km/h which 75 miles for you. Be on the right side of the law 😉.

  • @edwindakile4784
    @edwindakile4784 11 місяців тому +3

    170km/h 😂😂😂... Yhooo sisi!!! You want to make SA government rich with all the fines you will be paying, also a lots of cooldrink you will be asked for by JMPD 😅😅😅.

  • @sondisamvemnyama3476
    @sondisamvemnyama3476 11 місяців тому

    Anything that frustrates you is a good opportunity for you to start a business that meets that need.

  • @itumelengmosailane1192
    @itumelengmosailane1192 11 місяців тому

    Meaning you haven't work 9 to 5

  • @MponyaneRebeccaJensen4mponyane
    @MponyaneRebeccaJensen4mponyane 8 місяців тому

    Who said the Western way is the "Right/correct way" of doing things, that other countries have to aspire to be like. Most people in the so called West are overworked, underpaid, depressed and sick from their jobs. Why should South Africa aspire to be like that. We have our own ways of doing things.

  • @charlesvanderberg9528
    @charlesvanderberg9528 11 місяців тому +10

    Things I disagree with you on western world mindset ....get your facts or reasoning for early "closing of shops " right...the cashiers (blacks) stay more than 10km from work AND GET LATE HOME FROM WORK TO THEIR LOVEONES IF WE MUST PLEASE YOUR WESTERN WORLD.ATTITUDE...secondly you in America should upgrade your security for schoolshootings and be more prepaired like here in South Africa ( NO SCHOOL SHOOTINGS IN SOUTH AFRICA FOR 1000 YEARS)...lastly do you see homeless people sleeping on our pavements like in your western World...get real Girl...this is Africa !

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому

      Ayeee thank you for your comment friend.

    • @DeeesLife
      @DeeesLife  11 місяців тому

      Ayeee thank you for your comment friend.

    • @thetad1242
      @thetad1242 11 місяців тому

      Ag nee maan Chris.

    • @hopes9451
      @hopes9451 11 місяців тому +4

      Oh no, Charles from Western Cape, cool down this is just a discussion she's not being negative about her observations, let's learn to hear from others so we can fix what we can as a country.

    • @fatimawindvoel2253
      @fatimawindvoel2253 11 місяців тому +1

      Didn't have to be soo rude when u were putting your point across Charles😮😮

  • @Og8821
    @Og8821 11 місяців тому

    Lol if you think Makro is bad you should try government websites