I REGRET THE DAY I SIGNED UP ON THAT DATING SITE DUE TO THE THINGS HE MADE ME DO.

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  • I REGRET THE DAY I SIGNED UP ON THAT DATING SITE DUE TO THE THINGS HE MADE DO.In this video will be sharing with you an online dating love story of a zambian lady by the name of Judith who found an albanian guy on online dating site and thought he was the perfect man for her but what this man made her do,she says i curse the day i signed up on that dating site.This is the second part of this love story,will make learn a lot and get to shine your eyes.Its so amaizing,feels so good when you find a guy online and is showing interest in you,though please ladies lets be very careful coz some of the guys online arent seraching for love but to ruine your life.So please watch this love story till the end.
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  • @williamswetnam4070
    @williamswetnam4070 2 місяці тому +24

    William here... yes, I think it entirely possible many times that the person in the profile photo is not the person behind the scam. Be especially careful if the guy always has an excuse not to appear in a video call. 🎥

  • @SharonandFamily
    @SharonandFamily 2 місяці тому +17

    Albania is already a red flag country on its own though, from the stories I have heard aki. Ama is something else, so stressful person wah 😢😢. Looking forward to the next part. Let's not let this people take advantage of us ladies

    • @benedictaokogie845
      @benedictaokogie845 2 місяці тому +2

      U are right, Sharon. These East European countries, there is need 2 be extremely careful. As we say here, "no be every ogbodo oyinbo be am!.

    • @benedictaokogie845
      @benedictaokogie845 2 місяці тому +2

      So ladies, pls let's shine our eyes. Not all that glitters is gold!!

  • @user-hc8sv8mt1n
    @user-hc8sv8mt1n 2 місяці тому +9

    Sad how women get so defeated so that they are blinded by the red flags.praying for the best for Judith.

  • @jacklinemurangira6327
    @jacklinemurangira6327 2 місяці тому +20

    Me am ready to stay single until that day I will meet my Mr right guys.( Online men can give you heart attack if you r not strong enough 😂😂)

    • @paulahsirkkah486
      @paulahsirkkah486 2 місяці тому +4

      For me, I always block every man who focus more on sexual questions than getting to know me. With no explanation

    • @zahrababygarl1568
      @zahrababygarl1568 2 місяці тому

      Of course it’s not easy 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @araz829
      @araz829 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂

  • @locgirllifestyle
    @locgirllifestyle 2 місяці тому +7

    The man was a walking red flag, she was just being blindly optimistic, so sad 😢
    I have a high standard when it comes to anything, especially in relationships.
    Immediately he didn't tick a box, I'm not interested.
    I can't start compromising on a relationship that has not started.
    Her story is really quite sad.
    Nice work Auntie Bella 👏🏼 as usual.

  • @mourinedome
    @mourinedome 2 місяці тому +3

    Since I watched the story you did about the Ugandan lady who dropped out school coz of that old french man I shined my eyes no man on social media or on ground can bring me down I shined my eyes

  • @niellaansah75
    @niellaansah75 2 місяці тому +6

    Oh Gracious God have mercy on women and especially single Mum's, please please please Almighty God please do send the right people in to our lives we humbly ask thee Father.
    As for our Sister Judith am so
    sorry for all painful and unthinkable things she went through in the name of finding true love, I pray the Almighty God grant you grace to be restored again and also forgive you of that you Never intended to do but has happened, May God wipe away all your bad memories and replace it with good ones, I know one day most of us here will surely share our story when we meet our real true love.
    Thanks to Our Ever sweet Sister Bella, God bless you, more ♥️♥️♥️ to everyone.

  • @Asia-ew9wx
    @Asia-ew9wx 2 місяці тому +7

    Caroline's story was a total tragedy which I will never forget 💔💔💔hope Judith didn't go through the same thing.happy to see u back Bella❤❤❤

  • @charlottequeen2079
    @charlottequeen2079 2 місяці тому +2

    My heart is breaking into parts, i can't hold on but cry loud, oh my goodness what a temptation, sometimes problems come and feel like you were cursed but God is always at work, my sister take heart God is in control 😢😢

  • @mariahmhina
    @mariahmhina 2 місяці тому +4

    First time Commenting here 🤗

  • @carolinemugure2192
    @carolinemugure2192 2 місяці тому +14

    Most of those old folks are Soo nasty, wamezeeka mpaka akili 😠

  • @anniafredrick8925
    @anniafredrick8925 2 місяці тому +2

    Being desparate is not good at all, everything was a red flag from the beginning,I feel sorry for her.

  • @JosephineInterchannel839
    @JosephineInterchannel839 2 місяці тому +1

    Hmm! This lady passed through a lot but i won't judge her because anyone can also makes same mistakes. African Bella was felt so emotional towards the ending. Beautiful update.

  • @patiencetumuherwe8501
    @patiencetumuherwe8501 2 місяці тому

    This man was hell to Judth for sure, how can he treat someone's daughter like that ,may God remember Judthi

  • @Challet-Kay
    @Challet-Kay 2 місяці тому +1

    Yooh😢😢 his threats and his anger. was a red flag already, what could happen when you are closer to him. God please heal her broken heart and bless her with a caring and loving man..❤

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 2 місяці тому +2

    Looking forward for the last part Bella very interesting

  • @user-ng8yd1gz1v
    @user-ng8yd1gz1v 2 місяці тому +2

    Can't wait

  • @wangarikibunja1475
    @wangarikibunja1475 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh my gal, now I know why you very busy. This video is like a book with a combination of lots of lessons to be learnt about online dating. Thanks so much gal for being there for us

  • @Samiraa2022
    @Samiraa2022 2 місяці тому +1

    Hello welcome back sis bela you are my teacher god bless you ❤❤❤

  • @selmaelago6621
    @selmaelago6621 2 місяці тому +3

    I`m so angry right now, this Alma old man makes me angry, but let me spare my comment for the sake of Judith and our beautiful Bella

  • @RuthOdunga-nn9it
    @RuthOdunga-nn9it 2 місяці тому +2

    We're here very quite our beloved teacher, from Kenya 🇰🇪 ❤

  • @user-wm1pc8zt6g
    @user-wm1pc8zt6g 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks Bella. Waiting for part 3

  • @StellaboadiBoadi-lv7uk
    @StellaboadiBoadi-lv7uk 2 місяці тому +3

    Hello Bella...you are looking awesome. Greetings from Ghana

  • @Favour3558
    @Favour3558 2 місяці тому +3

    Lesson : Make ur money guys .
    Since I started being busy I forgot that I am single 😂.
    But sorry for the lady , she was naive though .
    May God help us all ❤

  • @enjohgrace3331
    @enjohgrace3331 2 місяці тому +1

    Lord have mercy on us, by sending the right person our way .This is crazy 🤦🤦am so scared to go on dating site.

  • @triciajo6391
    @triciajo6391 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Bella for this video.just know am learning dear❤❤❤

  • @user-qy4vg3xw7n
    @user-qy4vg3xw7n 2 місяці тому +1

    It's very true Bella.. it's so frustrating.. sometimes you chat men no one responds and who responds are scammers and most of them don't pay...

  • @olivianangobi1746
    @olivianangobi1746 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks so much dear sister Bella for the great work you always do in us.

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 2 місяці тому +3

    Looking good Bella ❤️✌️🇰🇪

  • @VickyGist7477
    @VickyGist7477 2 місяці тому

    I am so sorry for what she went through, thanks for sharing dear African bella 🥰🥰👍

  • @floridanyakarungi3426
    @floridanyakarungi3426 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks, darling, for sharing this Judith's story, but dear fellow ladies, let's always love ourselves first and stop being desperate,

  • @AdrianahOlives
    @AdrianahOlives 2 місяці тому +1

    Much love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Bella 💗💗💗

  • @chipobenjaminnyahuye4165
    @chipobenjaminnyahuye4165 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks Bella for sharing Judith sad story. Learned a lot too. Thank you

  • @simplyJunah
    @simplyJunah 2 місяці тому +2

    First in the comments ❤😊

  • @marthakunda-nn9jc
    @marthakunda-nn9jc 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much Bella we are leaning something from this video
    God bless you and your family ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @millicentjuma4455
    @millicentjuma4455 2 місяці тому +1

    I feel so sorry for Judith but my hope is there will be light at the end of the tunnel 💡….. thank you sissy for sharing with us♥️♥️♥️

  • @carolinemugure2192
    @carolinemugure2192 2 місяці тому +1

    Waiting for part 3

  • @CHEKSLEA
    @CHEKSLEA 2 місяці тому +1

    Hmmm after Caroline’s story, I didn’t imagine we will have another scary story, please ladies these ladies went through all these things And shared their story so you all don’t make same mistakes, as Bella always say shine your eyes😊, patiently waiting for part3

  • @faridahmaghanga2070
    @faridahmaghanga2070 2 місяці тому +1

    Following for part 3

  • @maximr6576
    @maximr6576 2 місяці тому +1

    Good lesson

  • @marykambelu3106
    @marykambelu3106 2 місяці тому +2

    The moment he tells me to be his slave, Is the same time he gets a block and delete button...please ladies let’s be careful and also watch out for men from these strange countries...let’s not be desperate.

  • @zalwangobelindah4762
    @zalwangobelindah4762 2 місяці тому +1

    Absolutely there's no wellness there darling Bella, it's really sad to hear 💔💔💔

  • @thandonana225
    @thandonana225 2 місяці тому +1

    Sending some love to our Zambian 🇿🇲 sister....it is well 😢

  • @evaeve8388
    @evaeve8388 2 місяці тому +1

    👋 from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @boaduwaadorcastv8968
    @boaduwaadorcastv8968 2 місяці тому +1

    That guy is very rude n never love Judth hmmm God have mercy on us through this searching for a relationship and a husband Amen 🙏🏾

  • @ifydbigboldandpretty7118
    @ifydbigboldandpretty7118 2 місяці тому

    Well we all have to be very very careful and prayerful as we are searching for our soul mates.

  • @beryltammybee9136
    @beryltammybee9136 2 місяці тому +1

    Hello, thanks for always giving us different stories to help us choose right,I think most ladies are always ignoring red flags not that they don't know it's a red flag, but most of them are desperate for love, to everyone take care and don't ignore any red flag

  • @clettandlovu
    @clettandlovu 2 місяці тому +3

    ❤ you Bella from zimbabwe

  • @dayana5513story
    @dayana5513story 2 місяці тому +1

    This story 😢Will still not say anything waiting party3 be blessed Bella ❤

  • @Nanah18
    @Nanah18 2 місяці тому +2

    Bella, can you please take what you are doing more far by creating a genuine dating website/app, whereby people before joining are interviewed maybe through video by the operator, so at least we would be meeting real serious people, men can be paying, or both, or whatever suitable

  • @user-ff5xb2fe9x
    @user-ff5xb2fe9x 2 місяці тому +1

    I feel so harsh when hear such stories why are people so cruel.

  • @nakawooyagrace792
    @nakawooyagrace792 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks Judith for sharing your story with us its really a sad story can't wait for the part three
    Thank you Bella for always shinning our eyes darling 😊❤❤❤❤

  • @gillianwilliam5688
    @gillianwilliam5688 2 місяці тому +2

    The moment we notice the red flags just don't ignore 😢

  • @aromorachsarah5428
    @aromorachsarah5428 2 місяці тому

    Iam really sorry for what happened to Judith,she was deeply wounded.Judith surrender everything to Jesus and you will be healed completely. He was wounded for us to be healed.

  • @sylviaajiambo1042
    @sylviaajiambo1042 2 місяці тому +1

    Very sad indeed. The red flags were visible. She could have cancelled everything and block the guy.

  • @marblechingema2076
    @marblechingema2076 2 місяці тому +1

    I am sad bella very sad about what my sister went through let's be patient sister even if you didn't find someone to love you 😢 don't listen to people what they say about your situation let's put everything in God's hands, for him to take control of everything in ourselves..😢😢😢.

  • @jacklinenjambi4450
    @jacklinenjambi4450 2 місяці тому +2

    Hi Bella ope you are doing fine? Greetings from Kenya.

  • @ConnieGift
    @ConnieGift 2 місяці тому +1

    What a story of desperacy indeed... So sorry for my sis Judith and Yes Queen Bella I am indeed learning alot from all this though am no longer on dating sites and still focusing on myself but when my time comes, I'll be very careful about the redflags and everything negative in a kind of man I come across... Otherwise I love you so much and have a blessed weekend ahead of you and your family in Jesus name Amen

  • @user-qy4vg3xw7n
    @user-qy4vg3xw7n 2 місяці тому +1

    I second Bella.. we don't exchange sex for anything never!!!!!...

  • @memorybanda9277
    @memorybanda9277 2 місяці тому +1

    No no no no that was too much already, if it was me i couldn't even take it, i will not judge Judith because at that time she knew nothing, this story from the start it's all 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 till where you stopped my dear Bella, am feeling sorry for Judith that she has to pass through all that, i watched that video which you did about countries with unserious men and Albania is one of them and it's a no go area for me, but because Judith had no experience i can't blame her, waiting for part 3,thanks my dear Bella for sharing this heartbreaking story, love you always ❤❤

  • @Nanah18
    @Nanah18 2 місяці тому +1

    The reason that man wanted her to reply his questions in order was a technique he used inorder to know if she can be controlled or not

  • @carolinechebon4513
    @carolinechebon4513 2 місяці тому +1

    So sorry for our sisy Judith 😢😢

  • @PhiliswaDwadwa
    @PhiliswaDwadwa 2 місяці тому +3

    ❤from South Africa 🌍 ❤

  • @Jeradine
    @Jeradine 2 місяці тому +1

    Hello Bella you're looking good ❤

  • @user-ff5xb2fe9x
    @user-ff5xb2fe9x 2 місяці тому +2

    Judith did not have experience on online app but under normal circumstances you can never do such a thing. 2024 someone saying I want a slave it's shame

    • @williamswetnam4070
      @williamswetnam4070 2 місяці тому

      Indeed... what monster says he "wants a slave"? Horrible. 😢

    • @virginiabernado2616
      @virginiabernado2616 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂 i had a similar jerk text me this morning.same slavery bullshit.what a shame

  • @Singtoh_Gabriel
    @Singtoh_Gabriel 2 місяці тому +1

    It’s true, they are just like any other race. Just colour difference. Ladies needs to be careful

  • @SHARONMULAA
    @SHARONMULAA 2 місяці тому +2

    Albania country no go zone 🥺

  • @graciakinyanjui6937
    @graciakinyanjui6937 2 місяці тому +1

    i met a man online we are getting to know each other, but damn he asks lots of questions ... but am okay answering them i guess he just want to get to know me.

  • @alicenafula7789
    @alicenafula7789 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh my God 😮🙆😢

  • @halimahassan3031
    @halimahassan3031 2 місяці тому +1

    Hello Bella, how are you, much love ❤

  • @malliahkoolzvitex3145
    @malliahkoolzvitex3145 2 місяці тому +2

    That man was so controlling 😮 and btw if he had met a social media mafia like me, I would update his pic on my WhatsApp profile but guess what, I would block all my contacts and he would be viewing it alone 🤣🤣🤣

  • @user-vk8jo5mq3s
    @user-vk8jo5mq3s 2 місяці тому +1

    Hi Bella

  • @user-rr8tn6ln5w
    @user-rr8tn6ln5w 2 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤ love you dear sis, its true, these scammers use pics which are not there really pictures, bella one day i will send you the pic the scammer used, but he got me when my eye's are open,cause he reached to the extent of buying me gifts.

  • @hopehope8201
    @hopehope8201 2 місяці тому +1

    With all those red flags, i wouldn't eveb apply for the visa

  • @maggiemakapa2820
    @maggiemakapa2820 2 місяці тому +1

    Bella my love❤

  • @lionidakirochi9863
    @lionidakirochi9863 2 місяці тому +1

    Hello sis

  • @TVK_ENTERTAINMENT
    @TVK_ENTERTAINMENT 2 місяці тому +1

    Honestly ignoring red flags when you are online dating is extremely dangerous and wastes your time. Let's open our eyes please

  • @violetjimu6424
    @violetjimu6424 2 місяці тому +1

    Hello Bella are you good❤

  • @GraceBrand-nn7qk
    @GraceBrand-nn7qk 2 місяці тому +1

    Hello Bella

  • @davidkoon767
    @davidkoon767 2 місяці тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @Riri-un4nz
    @Riri-un4nz 2 місяці тому +2

    Thats why i stay away from men from certain countries on online dating.

  • @ruthotanga2960
    @ruthotanga2960 2 місяці тому +1

    Bellah have been dating side for 5yrs haven't got any one

  • @BestinaMusonda
    @BestinaMusonda 2 місяці тому +2

    How are you Bella

  • @MunaIbrahim-hq2de
    @MunaIbrahim-hq2de 2 місяці тому +1

    Weh please inspire us lam here to learn red flags

  • @user-qy4vg3xw7n
    @user-qy4vg3xw7n 2 місяці тому +1

    Through Bellas stories I have learnt alot especially on chatting with a guy then hes using names like submissive...this a redflag already..kindly ask him whats does he mean coz you will be shocked..before its too late..

  • @MunaIbrahim-hq2de
    @MunaIbrahim-hq2de 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for your back dear i was checking u Instagram for part 2

  • @davidkoon767
    @davidkoon767 2 місяці тому +1

    😢😢😢

  • @mwangikezia9364
    @mwangikezia9364 2 місяці тому +6

    😢😢 me I deleted mine until I have energy to download again

  • @memeamoah4974
    @memeamoah4974 2 місяці тому +1

    Why ladies, why? Would you go through that in the name of love ? May God have mercy on us all 😢😢

  • @VeraEkwa
    @VeraEkwa 2 місяці тому +1

    I feel sad and angry at the same time watching this omg 😢. What a nasty old man

  • @ricca204
    @ricca204 2 місяці тому +1

    I heard 'servant' and it reminded me of the Tanzanian lady who was made into a servant in Spain by the mother in law, any updates on her?

    • @naymab6114
      @naymab6114 2 місяці тому

      She was set free, bella gave us update but i forgot if she was taken as asylum or return to Tanzania but she got out of that family

    • @ricca204
      @ricca204 2 місяці тому

      ​@@naymab6114 Thank goodness I must hv been offline during update

  • @paulahsirkkah486
    @paulahsirkkah486 2 місяці тому +1

    A slave? I could’ve blocked him immediately.

  • @patriciamutindi3768
    @patriciamutindi3768 2 місяці тому +2

    Greetings from Kenya

  • @harriet7303
    @harriet7303 2 місяці тому +1

    Is Kalisa Like This " KALISA" ?

  • @mwabakamukwamba1133
    @mwabakamukwamba1133 2 місяці тому +1

    Not to judge her but that guy showed her so so so many red flags. This is a lesson, we all might want to meet good men out there but let's not be very desperate to the point of accepting toxic/abusive behavior all in the name of having a white guy. He showed her all those signs when she had not gone there yet, what made her think he would treat her better there? Please ladies let's learn to see red flags and take them as they are and leave immediately.

  • @user-nv5cb3oe5n
    @user-nv5cb3oe5n 2 місяці тому +1

    But now omuntu a going wa😔😔😔😔

  • @shadiashadi1475
    @shadiashadi1475 2 місяці тому

    I think kalisa was black guy because Kalisa is a Ugandan name

  • @jacklinenjambi4450
    @jacklinenjambi4450 2 місяці тому

    Where is that place?????

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  2 місяці тому

      Which one?

    • @williamswetnam4070
      @williamswetnam4070 2 місяці тому

      Albania? It is one of the poorest and most corrupt countries in Europe. Not all countries in Europe are rich, some (Albania, Moldova, Belarus for example) are very poor and have high levels of crime and corruption.
      Best to stay away!! ⛔️⚠️🚷

    • @VeraEkwa
      @VeraEkwa 2 місяці тому

      Albania is a country in South Eastern Europe

  • @ednamugezi3560
    @ednamugezi3560 2 місяці тому +1

    That was a mzungu from hell

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 2 місяці тому +1

    That alma man was a narsstist